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There was a time on this subreddit when we weren't even allowed to mention his name. The concensus here was that he was pretty much the opposite of everything that red pill stood for. Ironically, people outside of this subreddit were blaming his red pill views for his actions (if I remember this correctly.)
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 05:48 PM
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I have been a fan of yours since the early days of this subreddit. I want to hear your stories and learn from people like you, because of the fact that you had to work for it. You know what you had to do to become a great man, and can explain it now. The average Chad who was born to be great with women usually can't explain how to emulate himself. Actually, if you listen to most of the great pickup artists, almost all of them have the same story- they were skinny losers in high school, and they …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 05:58 PM
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You got me thinking. I have known a bunch of guys who have extremely high partner counts. And from knowing them well as a guy friend, these guys are horrible for a woman to get involved with. They come with all kinds of baggage, like their kids for example, and they have mindsets that don't involve long term fidelity to any one woman. And they are very selfish when it comes to any commitment they make- similar to the female hamstering, they can easily justify cheating any time they want. And the…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 05:48 PM
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Interesting. I'm still undecided about the goodness/badness of pornography. I have simply made a rule that I am only allowed to engage in alpha fantasies- and that sure beats masturbating to the thought of another man having sex with the girl. But between your post and the rest of this thread, I'm going to give abstinence a shot and see how it feels.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 10:39 PM
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Why are pornography and masturbation "basically a smaller form of castration and makes males much more obedient and more likely to follow society like sheep without any retribution?" I'm just trying to understand your post.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 06:49 PM
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OP says "cheating, with around 20% of women admitting to at least one lifetime instance." That stat has to be way off, right?
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 07:20 PM
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It can't hurt. It sure beats them thinking that you are desperate to find someone to talk to. Desperation is one of the least sexy traits a man can have.
/r/seduction14/04/15 06:16 PM
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I believe the reasons for a government to be anti-paternity tests are much simpler than OP's thoughts. There has been a surge in hookups, unplanned pregnancies, children born out of wedlock, and the number of single mothers. A lot of these mothers wind up needing assistance from local and federal government. In order to combat this, governments want somebody, anybody, to pay for these women's children. They couldn't care less about the individual man who is not actually the father. I really thin…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 09:29 PM
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OP's post is probably 1/8 as depressing as what you just said. But I would have to agree with you.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 07:44 AM
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My experiences led me to the conclusion that you just don't know someone until you do some kind of business with them. See, it's real easy to sit around hanging out with someone without ever having a problem with them. They haven't been tested. I thought to myself that since I was young, and planning on staying in the geographical area, I was finding out who my long-term friends were by lending money when asked to. I'm disappointed to report that practically none of them paid their debts. And ye…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 09:28 PM
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In so few words, you managed to be wrong on many different levels. It's kind of ridiculous. You missed the joke, when the joke couldn't be more obvious. You're taking me out of context. You're making a false dichotomy. You're nitpicking. Parlay that nitpicking into the fact that the very nature of your accusatory post begs for an argument- something no one else was doing until you showed up. There's probably more wrong, but I don't want to waste another second thinking about this.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 06:38 AM
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Damn. I tried to skip the "research and development" part of my post. I thought I had that one off the top of my head.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 05:57 AM
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"Individually we are weak like a twig, but together we form a mighty faggot!" -Ralph Wiggum
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 03:03 AM
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I'm one of the people who took forever to understand that just because I think and operate a certain way, other people don't. I used to lend money to everybody. It didn't make sense to me that people would not only not pay it back, but come up with crazy explanations about why I'm a dick about their debt. The reason this didn't make sense to me is that I am really honest and would never steal from my friends. The moral of my story is that other people do not think like you do. Some people just w…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 07:42 PM
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The thing is that was a lie detector test. So she DID feel that she was a bad person. She was caught lying when she said she didn't think she was a bad person.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 07:29 PM
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I actually referenced that same stable marriage rate study in my new book, How To Be Happy 2.0. After explaining what you just said, I continued... Through their polls, it was also concluded that women who have more non-marital sexual partners are more likely to be infected with sexually transmitted diseases, they are less likely to be happy, and they are more likely to be depressed. These statistics get worse depending on how high the number of sex partners is. A person's past is an indicator o…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 03:07 AM
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Holy shit. What happened to my favorite subreddit?? With all the stuff that could be stickied, they stickied a guy who acted blue pill, and then ultimately reacted in a blue pill manner when he supposedly woke up? What's he going to do for an encore? Smack her in the face next time he sees her?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 12:33 AM
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Yes, I understand that, even though that's probably an exaggeration to say that. The guy in the story clearly encouraged some of that behavior. My point was that the punishment of selling her belongings and putting her stuff on the lawn with no warning is asshole behavior and she didn't provoke it- and we're not even getting her side of the story. On a side note, I'm disappointed that so many people are encouraging this guy's behavior. Old school red pill would have shat on this guy for reacting…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 12:06 AM
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No, she did not "do it to herself." What exactly is her crime here? Your friend went from one inappropriate extreme to the other. First he was being a chump by letting her walk all over him, then he bugs out and treats her like complete shit. And her crime is exactly what here? At least tell me that he thinks she was cheating on him or something. But no. Nothing. In my opinion, the way to handle the situation is to break it off amicably. He messed up by being a wuss. Now he should move on withou…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 11:29 PM
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Do you feel that your kids made the marriage worth it though? If you had it to do all over again, and your ex-wife wouldn't have had the kids with you unless you married her, would you marry her?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 11:06 AM
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"The less people know, the more stubbornly they know it." -Osho
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 06:39 AM
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Yes. You can inject 120 ccs of feces into your knees!
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 08:08 AM
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Yeah, exactly. The goal is to not let your date escalate to that point in the first place. You want to establish your high value early and often. Then, if the nightmare scenario comes up where you are sitting at that table, you'll have some cards. Personally, I would realize the gravity of needing to get out of there. I would say something situational to try to get her away. And if she wouldn't come with me, it would be an embarrassment, but I would look at the bright side that I established tha…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 05:45 AM
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As early as possible after first meeting a woman (even if it has to be days or weeks) get her drunk, and get her talking about her past. Encourage her to speak, sit there and be a good listener, and act like you think that all this crazy shit she did is really exciting and cool. It's not always going to work, but it works for me. I have had women tell me all kinds of stupid shit that they really shouldn't. The best ever was "I take lithium. Every day!" Direct quote. I had just met her. EDIT: It …
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 10:31 PM
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I like your story. That sounds happy and successful. I came inches away from having a marriage and child with the wrong girl. It turns out, she wasn't getting pregnant because some kind of scar tissue or something was blocking it. My best guess is that she had too many abortions before I knew her. Seriously. I paid for the doctors to fix it (like $600, she wasn't scamming me to get an operation) and we broke up soon after. I look at her now, and imagine life being the father of her child, and I …
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 08:07 PM
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Me too. I have been reading this subreddit almost every day for over a year, and I have yet to figure out how an older guy is going to have children without feeling like an asshole for not marrying the mother. I guess I still have some nice guy in me. I know I'm not verbalizing this well, because I don't even know what the right question is. That's how bad this is. But here's my status. 37 years old. Worth more than a million. Only interested in westernized urban women that I think are 9+. And I…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 07:22 PM
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They even nicknamed her "Burger and Fries." What overweight woman wants to be nicknamed Burger and Fries? That's a nightmare.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 11:31 PM
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There are a suspicious number of people giving this game a 10/10. I don't know. Maybe I just need a blowjob, and then I'll shut the fuck up and enjoy the game.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 08:53 PM
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It sounds like we agree. Maybe I just didn't understand what you meant in your original post.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 04:53 AM
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That kind of story can push women away. She might even be acting like that because you have a history of acting like you did here. There are different correct ways to play this in my opinion, but personally, I walk around with such an ego that it discourages this kind of behavior from women naturally- and if she does it, I get unemotionally distant from her. I let her believe that she may actually get a lifetime ban if she's too disinterested in me, or too interested in other guys. And it can't …
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 08:40 PM
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So show me your genitals. Your genitals.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 08:17 PM
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That's not a fair answer to what I said at all. Actually, the catalyst (a girl dissing me) itself isn't important. What's important is that something happened in my life that woke me up and put me on a path to real self-improvement. I'm still in the early stages of this, but it's really looking like the best thing that ever happened to me. I'm already having a better life than I was, and it's all thanks to my wake up call. And I didn't call her a bitch in that context as you accuse me of. If you…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 08:20 AM
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I'm with you 100%. Less than a year ago I found a girl that I thought was amazing. I was around her enough where I felt she got a really good idea of me. And she wasn't interested in me. I understand that it's just one girl. But to me, there is a huge difference between getting shut down by a girl in a bar who is judging you on absolute basics, who might be mentally unavailable anyways, and getting shut down by an available girl who gets a really good idea of you. She was the judge in my trial, …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 06:56 AM
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That makes me feel really good that someone got something out of what I was writing. If what I wrote resonated with your situation, I would recommend checking out my comment history. Other stuff that I posted to this subreddit in the past discusses that topic. I got up today feeling like I had completely wasted my time last night answering that person's questions. He started off asking something really stupid that disses red pill, and by the end I had exposed that he didn't even know the first t…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 04:55 PM
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White knighting is basically when you go way out of your way to do something for somebody, and the only reason you're doing it is because you are sexually attracted to them. That's my personal definition of it anyways.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 06:40 AM
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Against my better judgment, I looked at the blue pill subreddit, and it's just a parody of the red pill subreddit. But when people refer to blue pill on this subreddit, generally they are referring to white knight behavior, pedestalizing women, being nice in a manipulative manner, not loving yourself enough, making horrible life decisions, and sometimes simply being low value in the sexual marketplace without at least trying to work towards self-improvement.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 06:13 AM
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I'll just speak for myself here, but I don't think I'm alone in what I'm about to say. Here's my deal. I love women. That's it. Period. It's not that complicated. And the women are free to do what they want to. If a woman decides to sleep around, I don't have a problem with that at all. No, really. I can be friends with her, and appreciate her for being an incredible person. I can hire her to do work for me. At my age 37, the women my age generally have kids and long sexual histories, and that's…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 05:37 AM
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The questions depend on you. My questions on this thread, and in this subreddit will vary from yours. I have asked plenty of questions myself. My point was that you are completely digging in the wrong spot. This discussion has zero to do with racism. It doesn't even have to do with confirmation bias. There are people here, and I hope I can include myself in this praise, who share profound wisdom on a regular basis. And you showed up and your question for us really has nothing to do with anything…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 04:59 AM
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Confirmation bias? Racism? I think you're definitely asking the wrong question.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 04:39 AM
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The same thing is happening in this subreddit. It's the influx of new users participating. I think old school 4chan would have handled this differently.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:08 PM
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It's a ho wide world. That I'm living in.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 08:52 PM
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Yeah, that's what I was thinking. He's in a situation that must really hurt- watching another man "eat your food, use your computer, and have sex with your girlfriend on your bed." So, after he busts them, he takes off, and leaves them alone with his food, computer, and bed??? I'm not saying he needed to get violent. I wouldn't have. But the other dude has to leave. And I would deal with the girl right there. It's about doing some damage control, immediately. EDIT: I forgot for a second that thi…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 08:49 PM
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This is absolutely true. You can't just kick somebody out of your house because you want them to leave. In the U.S. if they won't leave, the cops aren't going to remove them without a legal eviction order from a court. How about this extreme example where a woman comes home to her house in Detroit, finds someone squatting in there, and is now... living in the house with the squatter!
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 08:21 PM
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Just like the guy that this thread is about, the guy in your link wasn't having a good sex life. "She would never give a blow job, only would do certain positions and found almost every sex act degrading." These guys are just not recognizing dealbreakers. It comes from a mindset of pure desperation.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 09:30 AM
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Good point. That pretty much proves he wasn't thinking straight.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 09:09 AM
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Definitely. You won't feel nearly as worthless if you bring real value to the table. If you make yourself into the best alpha bucks man that you can be, I think you'll find that doors start opening.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 08:12 PM
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The red pill means different things to different people. And that's how it should be- we are very different people. But there are certain universal truths. At its core, my red pill journey has been about understanding and accepting reality, and lots of self-improvement to put me in a stronger position to conquer that reality.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 08:00 PM
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I completely understand your point, but most guys don't know how to have sex the way you do, or they would be doing it already. I would like to read more about how you meet women, and how you escalate things from strangers to sex. You don't happen to have anything like that already written that you can share, do you?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 06:44 AM
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The world is full of losers. And one thing that losers consistently like to do is complain about circumstances rather than take an active role in changing them. In this case, we have thousands of loser women complaining about skinny models in magazines. Women have it so much easier than men that they actually get away with this, at least to some degree. But just imagine if you tried to complain about all of the male underwear models being young and ripped. Most men realize that even if they feel…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 06:08 AM
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I was once a pretty serious beta in some ways, so you may have hit the nail on the head there. That could be part of my quick, heavy judgement against these guys. I'll try to relax.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 05:01 AM
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I found this to be motivational. It made me hungry to try to get more life success. Even after reading your post, I don't see the difference between the betas who are good to have around, and straight up losers. I'm going to further consider your words on the subject. In my 30s I really have been cutting people who I think are losers out of my life wholesale. Like, first offense, you're gone. And in one way, other people have been bringing me down less than ever. But at the same time, I just don…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 04:14 AM
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It's called How To Be Happy 2.0. I wrote and self published the original How To Be Happy about 10 years ago. It never went anywhere except for being in local bookstores and selling on Ebay. My new version of the book is drastically different, and I think it just might get some credit.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 11:45 PM
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As a guy who has completed a few video games on the extreme levels, I have to say that even though there is a sense of satisfaction in the accomplishment- I usually look back and think I shouldn't have bothered because it was such a pain in the ass. Completing Halo 4 on legendary last year comes to mind. I totally see your analogy comparing this to women.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 11:42 PM
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Yes. The woman who made that quote was from an article that was on this subreddit months ago. I felt that being in that guy's shoes is so deep that I put that quote in a book I'm writing. It's not really a red pill book, but it's about how I believe people can have good lives. Sometimes, it's what we don't do, and what we don't get involved in that enhances our lives.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 04:51 PM
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I know what you're saying. The wisdom I shared comes from personal experience. I was being pressured to marry a single mother. And we were trying to have a child. The thing is that she was literally the girl of my dreams, and I was having 5 hour sex sessions where anything goes. I couldn't have created a better sexual experience if I had a laboratory for it. One day she robbed my house horribly, and thank God I figured out it was her. But she was pissed when I broke up with her. My main point he…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 07:47 AM
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What do you mean by "don't ask them out on explicit dates?" What do you suggest is a better formula for escalating with a woman? I'm not saying you're wrong. I'm just curious what you mean.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 06:48 AM
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I think this is the most devastating summary against single moms that I have ever read. It's also next to impossible to maintain any kind of frame around these women. There's just no way to be cool here- it can be summed up pretty simply actually: If you spend time and money and are kind to the child, you will eventually start to be seen more and more as a beta chump. If you're not cool to the child, well, she'll dislike you because you're not cool to the child! Don't be this guy: "He is sensiti…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 06:01 AM
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I just want you to know that you are one of my favorite posters around here. I think I marked 3 people's names on this subreddit for having profound wisdom worth reading every time he types, and you're one of them. On the path to being a great man, one of the hardest things to stop doing is getting oneitis. It doesn't help that I have an obsessive/compulsive personality. But I consider it very important to be aware of what oneitis is, when you have felt it, and how having those oneitis feelings …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 01:30 AM
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I don't know. But in his defense, he did say "nurture future generations," not "producing children." :)
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 04:49 AM
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OK. Now give me the bad news. :) Thanks for the wisdom. I think I'm just going to actively work on keeping my SMV high, and stay extremely selective. If I don't find any good women for me, I accept that as better than some of the alternatives. I think the key for me is to never become even a little bit desperate, and not to settle for any medium or high risk woman.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 09:23 AM
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Many men wouldn't buy an used, damaged car. But they'll marry a woman who has been used. Why? I believe many guys settle down with a "former" slut and rationalize their decision in all kinds of ways. "The past is the past" is a common maxim. I was just thinking about this the other day. The guy won't buy the used, damaged car because he isn't desperate for it. The guy who goes out with a woman who is obviously wrong for him is desperate. The cure for this desperation is to raise his SMV and adop…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 09:04 AM
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I checked out your links, and it paints a grim picture. What's your best piece of advice based on all this information? What should men do? EDIT: I just noticed you had some pretty good tips in another post in this thread. But if you have anything more to add, I'm interested to hear it. Also, I see your advice is for people younger than me. I'm 37. Do you think I'm basically just screwed at this point?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 07:48 AM
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I operate by trying to extract information out of a woman very early in knowing her. It's not always going to work, but I have found that when I am brand new to a woman's life, if I just let her run her mouth, they frequently tell me about some serious red flags. Maybe it's just me, and I have some way of making women comfortable to tell me about their past. But my point is that once that honeymoon period is over, I find that all of these women clam up about their past. Get her drunk on alcohol …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 08:10 PM
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I think the difference between the judge, the college admissions office, the potential boss, and the guy who gives a slut a chance- is that the guy who gives a slut a chance is desperate. None of those other people are desperate. Desperation is a serious problem and most guys don't even realize that's what their problem is. They think they have low value. This ensures they won't have an abundance mentality. Which leads to desperation. It's all dominoes starting from a man's own low self-esteem, …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 05:52 AM
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Try looking at it this way: You were born into this moment right now. This is day one. The past doesn't matter. It's your job to take this character and make the most out of him. If this was a video game, and you have to be you, are you just going to put your inventory on the ground, and not pursue the next missions? Win this game, man. Start making some progress. Who cares what your mom did? If you're really that hurt, start figuring out how to heal it. I was so hurt by other people that I let …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 08:19 AM
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I'm basically with the rest of the subreddit when it comes to marriage. It's an extremely dangerous idea for U.S. men. But we need to understand something. There are 1,138 benefits, rights and protections provided on the basis of marital status in Federal law. This is why gay people want marriage legalized so badly. Some benefits of marriage are tax breaks, medical coverage through your partner's job, and estate benefits at death. If you're not married to your partner, some or all assets can win…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 05:28 AM
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I sold pot for almost 20 years, and made a lot of money at it. And I never understood guys like you. You guys had enough underworld people around you that you could easily build a clientele to regularly sell drugs to. And it would be much less risky and illegal than the stuff you were doing. So, could you please shed some light for me as to why guys like you won't just relax and make solid, easy money as drug dealers? My best theory so far is that they are so stupid and lazy that they are incapa…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 08:14 AM
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I strongly agree with the premises of what you're saying. I feel that if you want to go to a healthy next level, you have to accept this as reality, and try not to be bitter about it. Basically, come up with the best personal strategies you can, and try to enjoy life. It's part of why this subreddit focuses on self-improvement so much. The greater of a man you become, the more options open up to you. You don't have to sit there bitterly "alone with a couple of dogs." You just... don't marry thos…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 03:27 AM
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These are some really smart guys, and they're just trying to help you. A couple of my favorite posters responded to you here. We only know the basic skeleton of your situation, based on the information you provided. So, if there's more information that makes this such a clear case of true love, then I'm seriously happy for you. But you're getting solid answers here based on the information that you provided us with. And if you have any respect for my opinion, I'm with /u/IllimitableMan on this o…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 08:58 AM
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If you read his comment, I'm pretty sure he's referring to women that he hasn't touched yet. That's why I was asking him what he tells them.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 06:46 PM
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I'm not sure what the difference is between being "unbelievably forward" and "emotionally charged drivel." Can you elaborate? Any time I've tried to be "unbelievably forward" with a woman that I had never touched, I regretted what I said to her.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 09:07 AM
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I've lived in the New York City suburbs basically my whole life, and I stay here by choice. I own a home here and I love it. I'm 37 and never married. I don't even know what the author is implying that I'm missing out on. Actually, I think he's completely bugging by saying "in over forty years, I never met a man that actually dreamed of owning a home in the suburbs." That sounds like a pretty common dream to me.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 07:11 AM
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This article is claiming that "in the past 4 years, if you had 1 or 2 relationships, that makes you more desirable. But 5+ makes you really undesirable." That goes against some of the stuff I see posted around here about "the more girls you get, the better your preselection status becomes. It's a turn-on to have an extensive sexual history." Anybody have an opinion on this?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 11:02 PM
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Thank you. That was a really cool answer, and I'm going to save it.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 06:49 PM
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Would you say that appearing lovestruck by a woman is always a huge turnoff to that woman? Do you think it's possible to have a high enough SMV, and/or tight enough alpha game where you can show high-level affection towards a woman, and have her enjoy it? If it seems like a strange question, I understand the red pill, and I generally live it, but damn, I wish I could just let a woman know that I think she's great sometimes- instead of dread game, constant teasing, and aloof behaviors that I lear…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 07:26 AM
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I was disappointed that there wasn't a lessfap subreddit. Nofap was too extreme for me, and I was looking for a supportive community to discuss fapping less. No, really. Fap all you want is kind of too much, and no fap is too much. No one wants to talk about just cutting down on your fapping. And there's nothing wrong with a little bit of some sick video game that you love. I agree with you on this extremism thing you're talking about.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 01:27 AM
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I once had a major case against me that involved 4 felony charges. After seeing the legal system at work, and seeing the prosecutors working in the courthouse (on other people's cases too,) I realized it's simply the prosecutors job to build the strongest case possible that the defendant is guilty. And I think it's safe to assume that any prosecutor who doesn't feel like doing that on certain cases is going to find himself fired by the district attorney soon.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 09:26 PM
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I really want to understand how to "not give a flying fuck about women" and then parlay that into having a sex life. I've played the "not giving a fuck" role many times, and it has almost always led me into walking away from women, and not being chased as I'm walking away. What am I missing here? I'm saying, maybe I came off as sexy for not needing her. Maybe she straight up masturbated to me for the next 2 months. But I still walked away not giving a fuck about her, and I'm no better off for it…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 08:16 AM
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You probably have enough information to build a very strong case against liking her. This is kind of a personal thing, because some guys are turned off by different things. But the first thing I would look at is "could this girl really stay faithful to me?" And if the answer to that is no, you really should be more than halfway towards losing interest in her. Give it a little more time too. We're supposed to try not to ever get oneitis in the first place, for a lot of reasons. But if you catch i…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 06:58 AM
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Your mind is playing tricks on you if you are acknowledging that she was wrong for you, but you are stuck on her. I have a feeling that you are being possessive about her- like she should be YOURS and you don't want anyone else to have her. It's an unhealthy attitude to have because you can't control her. (The best you can do with women is be awesome, and keep them as attracted to you as you can.) There are thousands of girls out there who are more loyal than your ex, better looking, smarter, fu…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 06:22 AM
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Thank you. You just explained one of my missing links right there, that has been holding me back socially. I'm not sure I can start implementing your advice starting tomorrow, since I'm in pretty deep with some people around me actually fearing my intelligence. I've been going about my life enjoying that role- it's kind of like being the Joker (from Batman.) But wow, I just realized how much it prevents women from having fun with me. I thought I WAS being fun, but you're totally right.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 07:48 AM
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Shit. Another reason why I'm a threat to the establishment. I'm just sitting here masturbating, dawg.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 08:16 AM
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Yes, this is my problem too. And here's the thing- any woman with any kind of value winds up with options that tempt her to cheat. It's usually just a matter of time. Think about the higher quality women that you know- ones that you know well enough to know a little about their sexual history. Do you really believe that you can mate with one of these women, and they will never, ever have sex with another man as long as they live? Even plenty of average women get hit on enough where they have maj…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 06:23 PM
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Reg D Hunter - Womens Morality This guy sums it up comically.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 12:46 AM
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I have to say in response that this post by Rollo got me thinking about this age thing months ago. I really think he's right, and I believe you're talking about exceptions, rather than the rule. There will always be golddiggers (I think he actually mentions that too.) And I also question how sexy these 20-somethings are that you are referring to. I don't know one example of a hot 20-something who is going out with a guy 40 or older, so there's no way it's a common thing. Granted, your idea of se…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 10:39 PM
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On page 2, username "Deal With It" adds: I've slept with 48 men and today I turned 24. I never had a problem with the number of people I've slept with. They were fun experiences, and since I love sex, there wasn't never a problem. But sometimes I wonder if the fact that I've had so much sex makes me so selective when it comes to settling down. I demand for the guy I end up with to be sexually attractive, great in bed as well as have a fantastic personality. Everyone says that I shouldn't be so p…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 09:39 PM
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I'm almost the same age as you, 37. And since I'm single, I'd like to share my personal outlook on where I am at with women at this point. Maybe you feel a similar way. Just like how women hit a wall, so will we. Really, I'm probably only 3-8 years away from losing access to the kinds of women that like me now. It seems it generally starts going downhill fast for men after 45. I've been holding out for an amazing 20-something. I am looking to take one good shot at a long-term relationship, mainl…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 05:47 AM
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I hate the world if I think about all the things that suck about it. What I do instead is look at everything as part of a grand game. Everything is what it is, and it's up to me to come up with winning strategies, and then implement them. If you have your shit together as well as you seem to, then basically you should count your blessings. Because life is a lot harder to win at for other people. You don't sound like you're exactly playing on hard mode (like sick or handicapped.)
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 04:24 AM
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All I can say is that when somebody has built a little bit of friendship with me, and spent thousands of dollars buying from me, it was practically impossible for me to deny them credit- when they have such a good case to guilt trip me. Their case is: they've spent a ton of money buying from me, they promise they'll give it to me, and most importantly, they NEED their shit, and I'm I'd be an asshole to deny them. So I unhappily gave them their stuff, knowing that even if they screw me over I mad…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 08:17 PM
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I understand your question. It wasn't always like that. I had lots of friends in my 20s. The thing is that a lot of these people didn't stand the test of time. So many of my friends were losers, and I had to get away from them. The thing about rolling with losers is that they literally make losers out of the people around them. I am not that hungry for friends to put up with losers. Also, I got big time enough where plenty of people just plain didn't want to be associated with me. I made over a …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 07:18 PM
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Thank you for an amazing answer, seriously! I'm going to think about that stuff. My biggest problem probably is my social circle. I came up poor in a very rich neighborhood, and I made selling pot my full time job, and I wound up with a pretty shitty cast of friends. Most of those people are married, moved, or out of my life now, and I have nobody to hook me up with their hot friends, or even to hit clubs with. At age 37, I'm uncomfortable to just go by myself. But I have the red pill attitude d…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 03:11 AM
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Where would you recommend meeting women? I was actually about to try online dating soon until I read your comment.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 01:16 AM
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I want to try your advice, but when you say "run 400's" are you talking about feet, meters, or yards?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 10:10 AM
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I feel like that's great advice for the general population, really. And I keep wondering if I'm making a mistake by not following it. The thing is, I have a talent for writing, and I am an amateur comedian, and I try to use my Facebook posts as some kind of demonstration of higher value. It also helps that I'm my own boss. Anybody have an opinion on this?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 07:46 AM
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How about "get cold?" There was a thread recently where people were joking around about that being a red pill motto. And someone suggested making T-shirts. It even fits your username.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 07:00 AM
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Choosing a poker table is a perfect analogy here. Losers tend to just sit down at any table. They might even have a losing mentality like "I'm just here to have fun, and I don't care if I win." But a poker shark always considers table selection when he has the chance. He has done his homework, and his only goal is to win tonight.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 06:12 AM
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You're taking it out of context though. It's OK for a woman to sleep around. That's her choice. She can do whatever she wants. But when it comes to a man's own personal decisions, like who he wants to let into his life, it is perfectly reasonable for him to consider her disgusting, and not to want anything to do with her.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 06:53 AM
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You'd be surprised what doing fun stuff with the man of your dreams all day, with the money to do whatever we want, can do for a woman's depression.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/14 06:33 PM
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Well, I'm a quality man who thinks he has everything going for him, and I'm frustrated by the fact that every woman I am attracted to is at least somewhat slutty, and has the potential to become unfaithful at any time. It seems this is just how the high-quality women are in general. If one of those women would have made me comfortable that she was a virgin, and that she was "serious about being faithful and being an amazing girlfriend," (like I said in my post that you claim is terrible advice) …
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/14 07:01 AM
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Well, the number 1 thing that determines whether or not you are a slut to us men is almost always number of partners you have been with. And you just said you are a virgin. Most guys you meet haven't been studying red pill strategy all day, and aren't referring to charts about what red flags to look for. I'd say that if you wanted to give some lucky guy a committed relationship, then you already have the perfect foundation to build on- no one has ever had sex with you before. Everything else can…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/14 06:08 AM
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I found the post you made that you are referring to. I think you make solid points on the subject, and it's a philosophy that really might be helping me take myself to the next level right now. I made it pretty far in life without ever acknowledging this huge difference in mental attitude and life outlook between high value people and lower value people. I think it was always floating around the back of my mind, but it really needs to move to the front, into my conscious awareness. I'm not posit…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 08:23 PM
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That's pretty much how I feel. And my feelings are compounded by the fact that I realize every woman that I've been sexually attracted to in the last 5 years is at least somewhat slutty. I used to be kind of stupid, and almost married one of them, but now I realize that the chances that a marriage with one of these women would work long-term is almost zero.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 10:34 PM
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And it's even worse than that sometimes. Maybe you were working for years before you met her, while she was getting plowed by alpha cock! And THEN the story you just told can happen.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 07:34 PM
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Thank you. I was kind of laughing to myself that 26 comments were posted before yours, and only 1 of them referenced the article directly, and not one person responded to what I actually said in my post. I did a ton of red-pill reading in the past few months, and I never saw anyone say it like I did in my post. So, I thought it was worth sharing. I've read about the 80/20 culture a few times, and that is actually important to my post. One of the morals of my post is that... you can't just read a…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 04:39 AM
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I feel your pain. These women want to get married if you stay with them long enough. And what do we do then? And once we hit 40, 45, or 50 years old most of us can't get the same level of women that we could before, so it's just natural to feel pressure that "I'm getting older, so maybe I should just take the risk and marry this woman." Marriage is a very difficult topic for today's man who has money and options.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 10:36 PM
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R slash life protips.
/r/seduction05/02/13 07:52 PM
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Great post. This whole thread is really good. I just want to add- sometimes it's the girl you're dating. Some girls just aren't going to be faithful/cool no matter what you do. Don't let it throw you off. You actually might not be doing anything wrong sometimes. There's a lot of girls out there who will leave you questioning the shit out of yourself. Sometimes, it's not you! :)
/r/seduction04/12/12 09:42 AM
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This guy is just as bad.
/r/seduction29/09/12 08:04 AM
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Why don't you buy a woman a drink? I'm not implying that you should buy her a drink. I'm just interested in your reason.
/r/seduction06/07/12 04:02 PM
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I don't know what it is with me, but girls used that tactic on me a bunch of times in my life. And every single time it turned me off, and ended whatever was or wasn't building up between me and the girl! The most memorable time, I was at a bar with a girl that I had sexual interest in, and her female friend. I had to leave for like 45 minutes. When I came back she was making out with this guy that was at least twice her age, who was wearing mental-patient velcro sneakers. I had spoken to this g…
/r/seduction23/05/12 02:20 AM
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I'm in New York, man. But I might have taken you up on that. Thank you. I'll say from my personal experience since it's been 2 years now, that I am now attracted to so many different women again. If anything, I appreciate more different kinds of women than I ever have. And it's kind of crazy, but at least here in New York 2012, you just can't have a faithful relationship with some women. And my ex is one of them. (And yes, I'm sure of this. :)
/r/seduction14/03/12 11:26 PM
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I had a sexual relationship with someone who I considered to be literally the girl of my dreams. It ended with her cheating on me, and having someone rob my house while we were out. She probably thought there was no way she would get caught robbing my house, and I now think the cheating was more extensive than I originally thought. 2 years later she moved back to my area, and sent me a Facebook friend request. I accepted, because I accept anyone on there- I'm personally not afraid of having Face…
/r/seduction14/03/12 11:02 PM
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