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I don't want to sound as though I'm moving the goal posts so I will see if clarifying what I meant in relation to your point might suffice. In terms of personality I would say that you are likely correct. I read through the paper you linked and through some material I could find on both the big five and the related HEXACO model. They both read sort of like phrenology or astrology. Assigning meaning to concepts that don't really have meaning themselves. It doesn't surprise me, my experiences with…
/r/MensRights28/12/14 07:51 AM
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the reason they are so afraid of male spaces Remember, women and men are 99.99% similar. We are incredibly alike and what's more interesting is how much we seem to want to focus on that 0.01%. Why are feminists afraid of male spaces? They subscribe to an ideology that postulates a patriarchy right? Their internal biases then make it so that men are not complex individuals but caricatures of the patriarchy. These male spaces are not the meeting of complex individuals but rather a cartoonish camp …
/r/MensRights27/12/14 10:45 PM
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Yea, I was intrigued at first because of their heavy anti mra stance usually. It's something but its also mocking the movement at the same time. Putting boats on *there over mental health is pretty fucking obvious. I know 3 people in my life who have similarish mental health problems. Only I the man of the 3 do not have a specialized program to treat me. Both the women I know with mental health issues can find specific help for their gender / issue. Not only can I not find help for my issue but …
/r/MensRights22/10/14 06:47 PM
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If a woman was in the exact same position as /u/surger1 , she'd be far more likely to receive help from family and friends. I'm actually off to go and drive my g/f to her PTSD group therapy session. A program which is not available to me because of my gender (though because of the nature of domestic abuse and PTSD it really makes sense to separate them). If there is a male equivalent one I have not found a way to access it. My little sister who is having some mental health issues as well just go…
/r/MensRights07/10/14 03:45 PM
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Sowwy mr robot man
/r/MensRights07/10/14 04:41 AM
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I'm not trying to seem as though I'm not willing to reach out. I've posted twice in /r/suicidewatch and got responses somewhat like yours. My view on suicide is tough in many ways. You certainly wouldn't be expected to know but I'm not so sure this is a "temporary" problem. I appear to have developed PTSD as exposure to childhood trauma. The earliest event I know of was being found purple and taped up in my crib under a drunken care giver. From ages 0-13 the majority of my social interactions we…
/r/MensRights07/10/14 04:41 AM
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That's why it's such a delicious fantasy. In my lowest times I almost feel good fantasizing about doing it in the most painful way possible. Focusing on the gruesome details and the fantastic gore. It feels good because I have some idea of control in it. Nothing else seems to be in my control despite everything I do. But if it gets too bad, tomorrow maybe I can end it.
/r/MensRights07/10/14 04:37 AM
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The most depressing thing about all of this is how bullshit getting treatment is. I'm sane enough to take care of myself given enough resources. I can dress myself, feed myself, do complicated math for myself. I am a functioning human. Up until I have to interact with people and then I become non functioning. Given the ability to live in isolation I might stand a chance of doing ok. If I had some land or something I guess. There is nothing wrong with my physical being. My issues come down to the…
/r/MensRights06/10/14 11:25 PM
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Yes, yes some people did. In fact lots and lots of women pushed for prohibition under the idea that migrant and impoverished workers needed to be stopped from drinking away their paychecks and beating their wives. This of course completely ignores that those men were human beings. That social creatures do not subject themselves to mind numbing substances unless they are trying to deal with social issues. These men were treated terribly, had low life expectancy and little to no education. There i…
/r/MensRights23/09/14 07:36 PM
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Frankly I don't care what gender my politicians are, I'm more worried about their policies and viewpoints We agree at the base of it. I'm more concerned with an apparent attitude of praising the patriarchy. It would be like jews praising the banking system or something. Even if people believe the wrong thing about it. Chiming in with anything but truth just muddies the situation. Though I can now see it from a bit more tongue in cheek angle. Still don't like it much though
/r/MensRights26/07/14 06:38 PM
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What about a dictionary? The concept of patriarchy is vast but at its core the only thing that sets it apart from any other way of organizing ourselves is that patriarchy by definition allows only men in position of power. Patriarchy doesn't really exist because we have never organized by men for men exclusively. However why the hell are we upvoting this image? It's not about hooray men. It's saying "Hooray system of governing where the ideological principal is men rule". It's a very important d…
/r/MensRights26/07/14 06:25 PM
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Wait, we are celebrating patriarchy now? I come here because I am concerned for mens ability to get mental illness treatment. I don't support the idea that somehow a system of government comprised of ideally males should be touted as anything but a bad idea. We can celebrate and help men while agreeing that the concept of restricting a government to one gender is bad. Or is the popular opinion of the subreddit different than this? I don't want to be whiny but I don't think I can stick around as …
/r/MensRights26/07/14 06:04 PM
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There was nothing done as a young man to protect me from a destructive line of thought I had about women. I put too much of my own self esteem in the value of women. I self described as a "nice guy" and believed they finished last. What I was trying to do was get a girl to pity me and see how hard I was willing to work for them. I wanted them to take me on my typical male merits. I didn't think I was good but I thought I could do good for women. This way of thinking makes you a not so great part…
/r/MensRights24/07/14 07:06 PM
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I've got Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. I care deeply about this stuff. So much so I am working on a game called "Triggered" to convey in game mechanics what having my flavor of mental illness is like. This is the context from which I speak. Even the mere mention of “trigger warning” tells someone that a topic is being discussed, which means that they’ve already been triggered by the trigger warning, so the whole concept of trigger warnings is nonsensical by default Fucking wrong. No a trigger …
/r/MensRights04/07/14 06:33 PM
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15 men vs 15 women, that sample size is not large enough to rule out just arbitrarily grabbing 15 overly sensitive men and 15 frigid women. So I guess I'm saying I agree but the sample size is too small to say anything.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 04:16 PM
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Hey sorry for not replying quicker, I was just finishing a trailer for it actually. I made an indie gogo campaign at first but it was pretty slapped together and rushed. I got some people helping me a bit now and finally have the campaign redone and ready to showcase. https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/triggered, please have a look and give if you feel compelled. But please share either way, you can really help us by sharing it. Of course I hope you feel it's worth sharing.
/r/MensRights23/05/14 12:26 AM
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I made a post about 20 days ago about being mentally ill. That exploded and from that I have now started work on a game that leads people through what it's like to live with mental illness. The name of the game and one of the founding gameplay mechanics is "Triggered" I mention this because I think your confusion is founded. Triggers are very real, there are certain words and phrases that can send my anger levels sky high. I have to work hard not to have an outburst, all because a particular set…
/r/MensRights20/05/14 09:07 PM
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If you want to promote talent you need to create the right environment. Human ability is fickle, talent, concentration and inspiration are all very difficult to deal with at time. If you want to encourage that then you don't need to look inside the persons pants at all. We all do better in environments that are creatively stimulating. They offer a lot of opportunity for exploration with a healthy attitude towards mistakes. In a creative and open environment you will get both sexes showing their …
/r/MensRights19/04/14 09:09 PM
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You're never safe from confirmation bias. I know, I've seen it.
/r/MensRights08/04/14 01:06 AM
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Labels man labels. Remember how labels work. They give you an idea of what something is. So when someone calls themselves a "This" or "That", then you have to apply that label as cursorily as possible. So if someone calls themselves a feminist and then attacks men this does not make feminists men attackers nor does it mean she cannot both believe in gender equality and hate men in some fucked up logic loop. Like putting a label called "pickles" on a jar of mustard. The label is meaningless and i…
/r/MensRights04/04/14 02:05 AM
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PTSD can only come from poor coping with extreme trauma. I was raised in poverty and was diagnosed with PTSD from it about 6 months ago. I was rural poor though so I wasn't really in a neighborhood. The disorder is a corruption of the bodies natural stress response. Stimulus is not properly coped with and the defense mechanisms that are created are termed PTSD. I would say that rich neighbors hurt boys support structure. Males tend to have difficulty bonding and relating unless it's over somethi…
/r/MensRights08/03/14 05:03 PM
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Possible but the man is asking for help. How about you go back, think about your actions and proceed with one where you aren't a cock for no reason hmm? It can even be the same answer, just frame it in a helpful way instead of one that strokes your own stupid ego.
/r/MensRights10/02/14 07:56 AM
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$220 a month with a 2001 honda civic. Been driving since I was 17 with 1 not at fault accident where I was rear-ended at a dead stop. 220 was the best I could find. The average quote ranged from 350-400
/r/MensRights28/01/14 07:33 PM
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Going to highjack the top comment for a reminder. News papers sell news. They exist to make a profit by drawing attention to themselves. Articles like this are bait for reactions. They present information that may or may not be based on reality. But we can guarantee that the importance and impact is completely out of proportion. So by reacting angrily to the article you respond just how they want. Because if it upsets you then you will be more likely to share it. In the end it will boil down int…
/r/MensRights07/01/14 08:07 PM
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apex fallacy Hadn't heard of that fallacy, here is the first result :\ http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Apex%20Fallacy&defid=7038350 Just noticed that that link is to that specific definition too. Not just the page as the first definition has more votes
/r/MensRights20/11/13 10:41 PM
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Hey thanks man. Post traumatic stress disorder, borderline personality disorder and a bit bipolar. I'm here because I'm a man with a lot of problems who cares too fucking much about too many things. You know what has made my life amazing? How my existence is mocked because I am passionate about things. I'm sorry my autonomic nervous system is in gear most of the time. It makes me a bit obsessive. But I'm here because as a male child my feelings were never addressed. I delt with it myself and am …
/r/MensRights30/10/13 03:22 AM
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Don't be coy. You know what he is talking about. You said you would have signed the petition for different reasons. Scott there asked that you don't joke around about that. Obviously referring to your statement about signing the petition for different reasons. You said what joke? Meaning either you are thick or you don't believe your statement to be a joke. Now through all of this though you have kept the upper hand by not revealing what your reasoning for signing the petition would be. Which le…
/r/MensRights29/10/13 10:24 PM
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Someone posted this on my facebook and I figured I would echo it here. I responded with the following "#MensRightsMovies tweets. Poking fun at the privileged, white males who describe themselves as men's rights activists" We should all be open to the idea of satire. Some of these are indeed clever. However the above quoted line is incredibly insulting to any movement. If you have a group of people who are upset about something you at no point can dismiss the entire movement with such a generaliz…
/r/MensRights24/10/13 08:45 PM
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Could I possibly take a moment to address this? I understand how maddening some peoples actions are and how frustrating it can be to see a group of people being so vicious because of ignorance. However they are still people. Many of the feminists that are so vicious and into the idea of rape culture are that way because they are afraid. The media plays on fear, if you have a society that taboos sex and loves to play up fear then of course rape is an easy sell. Rape is being used right now to pus…
/r/MensRights22/08/13 05:08 PM
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Well I was pissed. Then I realized it's my fucking province doing it so I directly funded it. Fuck. Guess I have some e-mails to write.
/r/MensRights26/07/13 07:25 PM
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assume responsibility for all the choices you make Common advice but let me offer a rebuttal. Put responsibility on the state of your life on the things that caused your life to be where they are. In a failing marriage because you can't communicate? Don't say "I chose to not communicate this is my fault" Never ever even consider who is to "blame". Instead look at you and your partners entire lives. Find out where you learned your communication skills from and where your partner did. Then once yo…
/r/MensRights11/02/13 05:36 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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