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Well, Women can be pedos too.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/10/20 07:56 PM
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Mean (average) and median are not the same thing.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/20 04:47 AM
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Eh, while I agree in spirit, she does clean up after him, so... Then again, I’ve also watched in horror as she half-asleep wanders into the shared bathroom, doesn’t close the door, drops trou and starts peeing, while I have a direct line of sight from the living room/kitchen. Then wipes her crotch And doesn’t wash her hands. Now also keep in mind, this is a 300 lb woman in her late 40s (it’s been a few years since college.)
/r/PussyPassDenied09/07/19 03:00 AM
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I think it’s because if it’s just women using it, the seat is always down, so they are not as conditioned as men are to check every time. Whatever it is, It’s still b.s. that some women refuse to take personal responsibility for where they plant their ass. My roommate’s girlfriend also likes to slam the seat down if it’s up, which drives me up the wall.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/07/19 01:47 AM
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But every action you take or don’t, may lead to a future potential person (or not), whether it is directly by you or your influence on someone else. From my view, drawing the line at conception is arbitrary. To me, ending an unwanted pregnancy, before a “clump of cells” becomes a thinking, feeling person, is ethically better than creating a person that is not wanted or cannot be supported. As I’ve said before, if a person does not exist yet, you are not taking anything away from them, because th…
/r/PussyPassDenied17/12/18 02:47 AM
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But everything you do or don’t do impacts the future, and hence who is created and who isn’t. For every person that is here, there are a countless number of potential people that aren’t. You SHOULD see it different than murder because they are very different. In one case, an existing, thinking, feeling person, is taken away from existence. In the other case, a developing set of cells, that is not sufficiently developed to be aware, is stopped from eventually becoming a person. It is not the same…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/12/18 09:17 PM
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While yes, we are all “clumps of cells” or “clumps of atoms” it is the special arrangement of those components that brings about a mind. For example, You and a wooden table are both composed of essentially the same atoms, but obviously you and a table are very different things. If someone loses part of an arm, they are still the same person. If someone loses/damages a large portion of their brain, they may not be, and if they lose it entirely, they are completely gone. I have not forgotten the f…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/12/18 07:53 PM
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Everything everyone does (or doesn’t do) affects the future. The point of my previous comment was that it is absurd to assign rights (and hence limit the rights of current existing people) to non-existent future potential people. If you exist, you have rights. If you don’t exist you don’t have any rights.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/12/18 04:30 AM
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But WHY do you think that is just as meaningful? I don’t because when a person dies, a person that once had thoughts, feelings, and goals is subtracted from existence. A developing fetus does not have any of that, so nothing is lost.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/12/18 12:49 AM
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But you can change your mind after it’s conceived...by having an abortion. You’re also still trying to skirt the fact that a blastocyst or developing fetus during to time period when most abortion occur, physically does not have the capacity for “learning and loving.” Finally, it absolutely is not a sure fire thing because spontaneous natural abortion occur all the time. It actually happened to my mother before she had me.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/12/18 12:35 AM
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But it doesn’t: Meeting the person you procreated with, having sex with them, the sperm successfully fertilizing the egg, etc were also all necessary events to set that life in motion. Learning and loving (breathing is irrelevant) are functions of a functioning mind, which absolutely does not start at conception. It starts much later. Later than when the vast majority of abortions occur. So if that’s you criteria, why not draw the line there, when a functioning brain is actually present?
/r/PussyPassDenied16/12/18 12:18 AM
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Right, but we’re back to potential future people argument, which doesn’t make any sense. Every choice we make, impacts the future. The number of potential future people that could have existed, but didn’t is inconceivable. Logically, Why do you draw the line at fertilization of an egg? Why is that distinction important? Why not go back further? If the rights of potential future people are important, then fertilization of an egg is just one step in a long chain of events, that would leas to their…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/12/18 12:03 AM
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But a body without a mind IS just a clump of cells. Listen, I care about people. When I hear about some poor guy’s shitty situation, who I’ve never met on the other side of the world, I empathize with him as a fellow person and most of the people you are referring to probably feel the same way. Now, I’ve also personally been in the situation,where a close family member was brain dead, but their body was being kept alive in a hospital. The choice to “pull the plug” was obvious because while their…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/12/18 11:55 PM
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But my point was about making a distinction between merely being technically alive and being, what I think we really value, which is also being a person. I clean my kitchen. Lol Let me try this a different way. If I cut off my hand, both my hand and my remaining body are both composed of living human cells. If there was only time to save me or my hand, would you even pause for a second to decide which one to try and save? Of course not, because while they are both human life, my hand does not ha…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/12/18 11:34 PM
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The heart and other organs are not relevant to whether or not something has a mind. Nerves and muscle twitches are also irrelevant. While, rudimentary brain development is occurring, a sufficiently developed prefrontal cortex, sometime referred to as “the seat of consciousness” is not present at 15 weeks.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/12/18 11:20 PM
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Biologically, it is alive, but by that metric, so is every bacteria on a countertop in your kitchen. If simply being alive is all that is important, do you ever pause to consider the bacterial holocaust you are causing when you sterilize your kitchen? My point is, is it really being alive that we should value, or do people conflate that with having a mind and being a conscious person?
/r/PussyPassDenied15/12/18 11:10 PM
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No, not really. If there is no person, what’s the problem? You aren’t taking away anything. How far are you willing to take this potential future people argument? Every time I pass a fertile woman and we don’t procreate, I am denying a potential future person the right to existence, right?
/r/PussyPassDenied15/12/18 10:54 PM
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Because a person is a mind, which is an emergent property of a functioning brain. Developing fetuses don’t have that. You and a table are both just a bunch of atoms, but obviously there is a difference. Edit: if you disagree with what I’m saying, rather than just lazily downvoting me, please express your thoughts. I promise you that I will read and consider what you have to say.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/12/18 10:44 PM
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No, if the mother chooses to blatantly ignore the wishes of the father, who promptly notifies her of his disinterest to be a father, he should absolutely not be held accountable for her poor decision making process. Women are just as capable of making good decisions as men. Lot’s of people grow up in single parent house holds. Including close members of my own family. Look, Politically, I lean center left. I’m all for social programs to assist people, especially families that need it. But, just …
/r/MensRights18/06/18 11:34 AM
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Ok. But, as i have tried to very explicitly state, I’m talking about the decision making process of both parties BEFORE the child is born. Before there is a child. Why, do you keep ignoring this? Look, I’m not infallible, I’m open to discussion, and I’m even willing to change my mind. But, that can only happen if you actually make an effort to address my arguments.
/r/MensRights18/06/18 10:55 AM
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Ok. Great. I’m pro-choice, too. So that means we have up to 9 months, where, there is a developing fetus, but no child, right? So, assuming, no extenuating circumstances, that would prevent the mother from reasonably obtaining an abortion (of which costs I believe the potential father should be held 50% responsible for) assuming no extenuating circumstances, if he is informed and explicitly expresses his disinterest in being a father, and he is willing and capable of helping her obtain said abor…
/r/MensRights18/06/18 10:41 AM
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Yes, I’m very familiar with our current legal philosophy on the matter, I just find it unfair and completely dismissive to the interests of 50% of the parties involved. The key point being, “once that child exists.” And frankly, as a scientist, I don’t consider a blastocyst to be a child. Now, assuming no extreme extenuating circumstances, The point of a financial abortion is that the potential mother remains entirely in control of her own body (which I believe is absolutely essential), while st…
/r/MensRights18/06/18 10:12 AM
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Just make financial abortions a thing. No need to undermine being pro-choice.
/r/MensRights18/06/18 04:48 AM
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But You are part of other people's environment. Telling people to make different choices can have an impact on their decision making.
/r/MensRights23/09/17 10:02 PM
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No person is obligated to support your view. You are free to express whatever view you have, but nobody else is obligated to support it. This is a good thing! I can say and believe what I want and so can you. But I can't force it on others and they can't enforce it on me.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/17 09:44 AM
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Not sure where you live, but in the US, in most states, you can be fired for virtually anything. While you have the right to say whatever you want, you are not immune from consequences, and private companies are Not obligated to support you.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/17 09:28 AM
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Well, here is the thing about private companies, and this is a double edged sword, they can do whatever they want. One place can support your views, another can reject them.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/17 08:53 AM
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Most of my posts are/were apolitical so I can't really attest to that. If so, I out of principle, disagree with it. However, on the one hand, as a private company, they can do what they want, on the other, intellectually, I think everyone should be aloud to express their opinion, even if I don't necessarily agree with it. Labels are bullshit, but I consider myself a moderately left leaning capitalist. That said, right or left, anyone who can't handle dissenting opinions and debate is a fucking p…
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/17 08:07 AM
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Yep.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/09/17 05:19 AM
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They manipulate everyone's data (left, right, conservative, liberal). They intentionally try to figure out what you like, groups you identify with and purposely select what they show you based on that, rather than giving you an objective stream of content. It's very insidious and in the long-run harmful, because it just encourages everyone living in a happy bubble rather than having their ideas challenged.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/09/17 08:00 PM
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Where is my "down-vote button" Facebook? Why can't I down-vote anything?!? Oh well, at least you can shit on people in the comments. Lol
/r/PussyPassDenied06/09/17 06:58 PM
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People were ways screwed up. What's changed is the presence of the internet. Just think if Lenny, from Of Mice and Men, had a youtube channel.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/09/17 04:04 PM
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I think you need to study some more world history. I find it incredibly ironic that it's always the most ignorant morons that champion the intellectual superiority of their race.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/17 12:06 AM
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So... do you think you're still "entitled" if they say, "no?" Lol. I think I get what you are trying to say here but, "entitled" is a bit.... rapey. How about just saying, "don't sell yourself short?"
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 09:23 AM
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Eh
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 03:51 PM
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My society is doing fine.
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 03:42 PM
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Well, if your argument is that individuals that are associated with a particular group are incapable of independent thought, then logically, I only need to find one example, to disprove that statement. See, that's the problem with making absolute statements.
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 03:16 PM
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I meant I personally know people who are Jewish but don't identify with any it. I'm sure I could find statistics, but eh.
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 02:41 PM
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Nah, I have empirical evidence.
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 02:23 PM
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Eh, some probably do, others don't. Cultural groups aren't monoliths.
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 01:29 PM
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Jews the people or Jews the religion?
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 01:20 PM
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That should be illegal, too. While I'm against circumcision of boys, it's also not quite the same level of barbarity that female circumcision is. ...orthodox thing is a whole other lever of weird, but hey, I already told you I'm an Atheist.
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 01:12 PM
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Nah, I think the practice is barbaric. Good thing it's illegal to do that in my country.
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 12:10 PM
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It doesn't. Just a statement of fact. Well, maybe if I meet the right Somalian girl, they can. 😉
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 11:03 AM
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Well, my family is Norwegian, so... I got relatives chowing down on jars of pickled fish.
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 11:00 AM
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Eh, why not, You like sushi?
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 10:53 AM
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Eh, I'd eat them all equally.
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 10:43 AM
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There ya go! Whitefish power. Ku klux klams. Nation of eels-lam. All duken it out under the sea.
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 10:37 AM
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It was a joke. I just meant it would be hilarious to see a bunch of different sea critters bitchin' about human social issues. Maybe throw in a race war between crabs and lobsters. 😂
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 10:28 AM
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You know I wasn't going to watch the little mermaid sequels, but if you can promise me they cover diversity quotas for say: sturgeon, clownfish, and eels, I might just have to check it out.
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 10:23 AM
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Well, The ocean is a big place.
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 10:16 AM
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I'm dying, that's hilarious! ...although, I do find it interesting that the alt-right would choose a video that shows a bunch of different "races" singing, dancing and just having a grand old time, together. 🤔😂
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 10:09 AM
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One of your friends? Lol
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 09:55 AM
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But I thought we were talking about society as a whole, right? Crime rates overall are much better. It's not surprising that you will have more interracial crimes simply because people are in closer to proximity to each other.
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 06:57 AM
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Not here in the US. Race relations have dramatically improved over the last 100 years. I think things will continue to improve as more people are properly socialized and farther removed from historical unfair treatment. Less women here are identifying as feminists, and things like the BLM movement have been critiqued even by some black leaders for their behavior and ideas. I see that trend continuing as these movements move farther away from the US's mainstream ideals.
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 06:38 AM
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Ok. I think people believing stupid things (such as it's impossible for blacks to he racist) is a consequence of toxic social ideas and people not being taught critical reasoning skills, rather than an inherent genetic feature. Hence, if people are properly educated and socialized (black or white), they are much less likely to adopt these ideas and behave.
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 06:13 AM
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No, there is actually a fair amount of push back and criticism of those ideas being discussed in our society. When those idiots protested at Berkeley, it sparked lot of criticism. There has also been a lot criticism of the double standards of modern feminism. I predict over the next 10 years, we will see shift back towards to the middle. Maybe, I'm wrong. Guess we'll just have to see.
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 05:13 AM
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http://blogs.lawyers.com/2013/08/white-cop-wins-racial-discrimination-lawsuit/ Anti-discrimination laws have been used by whites and men. There definitely are some regressive left idiots that say stupid shit, but our laws are not supposed to discriminate against anyone. When they do, those laws can be challenged in the courts and even deemed unconstitutional. https://www.google.com/amp/fox17online.com/2014/04/22/u-s-supreme-court-upholds-michigan-ban-on-affirmative-action/amp/
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 04:30 AM
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So, if my country hasn't torn itself apart from racial tension, in say... 10 years, if everyone still has the same rights under the law, and most people continue to get along, how would feel then?
/r/PussyPass15/03/17 02:30 AM
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You must have a very trivial definition of society crumbling then. Where are flames? The gun fire? The lawlessness?
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 07:28 PM
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If my society were to crumble, as you predict, due to minorities having equal rights.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 06:45 PM
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Then why do you keep dodging my question? What, evidence would make you change your mind? I gave you mine.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 06:17 PM
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Eh, I prefer to evaluate people based on individual merit. Ironically (or expectedly), affirmative action tends to breed resentment.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 05:52 PM
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Ok, so what's your predicted timeline for the US? Hey, if your right and the US does clearly fall due tolerance and diversity, I'll concede I was wrong and you were right. Now, what would it take for you to change your mind?
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 05:47 PM
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I already knew that. Ok. So what's your timeline for my society "crumbling" due to diversity, 1 year? 5, 10, 20? If, after that date, my country hasn't been destroyed, would you admit you're wrong?
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 05:17 PM
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False dichotomy. I'm doing pretty well.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 05:11 PM
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In the US? Doubtful. The more ridiculous portions of the political left have been getting rightly called out, recently. For example, The black lives matter campaigns have gotten a lot of criticism so has the alt-right. When things start to drift too far left or right, reasonable people in the middle start to push back.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 04:38 PM
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Nah, our society is doing ok. When the pendulum swings too far in one direction you get pushback.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 04:07 PM
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Nope. Everyone should be held to the same standards.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 03:49 PM
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Because, we don't start out exactly the same. Discrimination also still exists.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 03:29 PM
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They have their own tribal governments, so what? The ones that choose to integrate into our multicultural society do better.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 03:25 PM
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To some extent we do (once we stopped trying to slaughter then). I grew up in the northwest and native American culture and tribes are part of our society.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 02:44 PM
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K. Poverty is one factor. Not the only one.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 02:31 PM
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Generations of collective memory and myths, sprinkle in some randomness and factors of your enviroment. It's kind of like evolution for ideas.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 02:21 PM
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Societies change. Empires rise and fall. Some people white people fought to end slavery. Some fought to keep it. I'm not a cultural relativist. I don't believe all ideas or societies are equal, I just don't think genetics is the determining factor.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 01:55 PM
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We already discussed this. Do you just have a list that you copy and paste? Lol You are comparing apples and oranges. Rural vs inner city.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 01:52 PM
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Uh, ever heard of blood diamonds? The slave trade. The west has historically not been very kind to black people.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 01:47 PM
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What? My point is society, education and poverty have a dramatic affect on a persons realized potential. So yeah, meet black people that grew up in a good social environment and poof, good people. You're the one arguing that black people are just inherently incapable of being good members of society.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 01:45 PM
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Have you controlled for poverty, lack of infrastructure, exploitation by western powers? I have pretty consistent about stating this. If you grow up in a shitty environment, black or white, you prospects are limited. I know plenty of poor, uneducated white people who, if their neighborhood is any indication, would probably make a pretty garbage country if you rounded them up and dropped them in the jungle. Lol
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 01:40 PM
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Yes, every black person that is a well adjusted member of society.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 01:27 PM
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Eh, you have an very bias view of other races, which I suspect is at least partly the result of you poor experiences. Not all places are like that.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 01:23 PM
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Meh, Better than the petty, vengeful god of blind hate.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 01:10 PM
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I lack belief in a deity. Not lack any belief in anything. That should have been obvious from context. 🙄😂
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 12:45 PM
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Nah, doesn't have to be white. the majority if its citizens, regardless of race, just have to be raised with the right values.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 12:43 PM
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Rights are concepts that a society has to choose to provide and takes effort to maintain. It's not free. It requires a stable government with enforced laws and a society that appreciates those rights.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 12:34 PM
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You're being pedantic. I have no reason to believe there is a conscious force (call it god or whatever) responsible for the universe's existence. ...I can't prove there isn't but until presented with a compelling argument, I'll continue to lack any sort of religious belief.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 12:28 PM
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I don't. ...I'm an atheist. I think existence is a cosmic accident and we are all just cruising towards oblivion.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 11:24 AM
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Rights are things guaranteed to you by the government. The right to free speech. The right to due process. The right to practice (or not) any religion you want. The backlash against whites in certain African countries is misguided and wrong and an unfortunate response to years of being treated poorly under apartheid. My support for other people's rights or respect in general are conditional on that being reciprocated.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 11:22 AM
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Nah, I'm an atheist. I'd say I have a pretty good grasp of biology and evolution. I just don't have an overtly racist agenda that prevents me from thinking objectively.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 11:11 AM
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Guaranteeing human rights is in everyones best interest because as soon as you start rationalizing why certain groups should not be entitled to them, purely based on something like race, you open the potential for other people to come up with reasons, why YOU should not have rights. US history is riddled with this and it doesn't lead to positive outcomes. Not treating people equally breeds resentment and hence social problems. Take for example how upset you seem to be that you do not feel respec…
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 09:21 AM
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No, I'm not assuming anything. Maybe there is, but you haven't conclusively established that. More importantly, even if there was, why should that mean people should be guaranteed the same rights under the law? And if you are going to sort people, why do it based on the race of the individual and not their personal abilities?
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 08:10 AM
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Got a reputable source for that? I'm mean I can pull rationalizations out of my ass too: There are a lot of large dangerous animals in Africa, which selects for people with high intelligence (cause everyone else gets eaten.) See, now I just made that up. Maybe it's true maybe it isn't. You're just starting with a (racist) conclusion and then rationalizing your way backwards.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 06:51 AM
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I never said race was just skin color. What we think of as races are collections of a number of different alleles. I'm a scientist. Intentionally Falsifying data is literally the worst thing You can do as a scientist. I'm neither Jewish nor a Marxist. Not that that should matter. Lol
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 06:28 AM
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"Written by jews." - dude, come on, you can't be serious. I'm honestly having a hard time believing you are serious. You are either trolling me or you are honestly, the most xenophobic person I have ever met. Eh, whatever. On with the show! Ok, so what physically is it about black skin that you think affects intelligence? I'm an organic chemist, so feel free to get as technical as you want.
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 06:03 AM
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Because each parent was heterozygous, each had 50% chance of giving their offspring an r allele. So there is a 0.5 x 0.5 = 0.25 = 25% chance of any offspring being rr. I think you need brush up on your biology. (Maybe Start with Punnet squares and genetic inheritance.) For someone so obsessed with genetics, you really don't know a whole lot about it. You know I have stack of biology and biochemistry textbooks from college that I'm not using. Would you like them? Lol
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 05:21 AM
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Phenotypic differences are caused by having different sets of alleles, which originally came about by random mutations. Every population of organisms, has multiple genotypes, which leads to multiple phenotypes. In order for speciation to occur, two populations have to have some barrier to reproduction for typically hundreds of thousands of years. In the Punnet square example with the heterozygous couple (Rr), Let's say "R" is the dominant form of some gene and "r" is the recessive form. There is…
/r/PussyPass14/03/17 05:02 AM
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We have already been over this. More Immediate environmental factors such as nutrition, society, etc. can have a dramatic affect on an individual's realized potential. Divergent Evolution takes place over much larger time scales. You really don't understand Punnett squares. Here is a little quiz: two individuals who are both heterozygous for a particular trait (Rr) have offspring. What are the probabilities that any particular offspring will be: RR, Rr, or rr?
/r/PussyPass13/03/17 07:40 PM
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Neither one of us can know how much race (or really alleles correlated with racial groups) plays a factor in potential without controlling for environmental factors. You absolutely will NOT lose genetic diversity if you "breed all the races together." That's not how biology works! Lol. Two words: Punnett square.
/r/PussyPass13/03/17 07:21 PM
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If you don't have clear, objective evidence then you can't claim your beliefs are rational. "Only way to preserve our genetic diversity is with racial segregation." This statement makes no sense. If you don't want to live in an integrated society then you probably wont like the US. Also, Most people here don't like racists.
/r/PussyPass13/03/17 06:28 PM
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Hey, It could be the case that there is an intellectual disparity in the average for different groups. But you are the one making the claim, So you have the burden of proof. What I'm arguing is that I have yet to see clear cut evidence with proper controls. Furthermore, genetic diversity is healthy within a species and things like intelligence are complex and influenced by many different genes. Now, even if there are intellectual differences, I would not want to live in a society, that does not …
/r/PussyPass13/03/17 04:37 AM
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Yeah, you sent me that list before. None of those conclusively show that blacks have inherently lower Potential IQs. Poverty, education, nutrition all contribute to person's realized Cognitive performance. But let's say for the sake of argument, they are generally less intelligent. Does that mean they less deserving of human rights? What about dumb white people?
/r/PussyPass12/03/17 08:39 PM
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Eh, if you going to assert that blacks are less intelligent than whites, when all external variables are controlled for, the burden of proof is in you.
/r/PussyPass12/03/17 12:54 PM
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Our medical programs are doing just fine. As A chemist at a university With a world renowned medical facility, who tutors premeds (of all races), everything is fine. You are the one that is impervious to reason.
/r/PussyPass12/03/17 12:29 PM
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Nah. We are doing alright.
/r/PussyPass12/03/17 12:22 PM
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Not my point. You could at least make some effort to not distort my points. If you are so clearly right, you shouldn't have to. There are standards you need to get into and to finish medical school.
/r/PussyPass12/03/17 12:09 PM
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No, they don't. You don't get to be a medical doctor in the US just because you're black. Lol There are people alive today that remember segregated drinking fountains. Things don't get magically fixed overnight. Give people a few generations and let's see where things are.
/r/PussyPass12/03/17 11:05 AM
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Nah, the US hasn't been racially desegregated long enough to allow any objective conclusions. If everyone started out with equal advantages and then some statistically did better, you could make that argument, but we don't.
/r/PussyPass12/03/17 12:27 AM
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No, I just think that when you start out poor and with less educated parents, you less likely to achieve. Black or white. There are historic reasons that more blacks in my country start out at a disadvantage and But I think this slowly disappearing.
/r/PussyPass11/03/17 10:21 PM
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And yet they are more likely to be harassed by the police, be born into poor areas with underfunded schools, be discriminated against, etc.
/r/PussyPass11/03/17 09:56 PM
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Blacks aren't favored in this country.
/r/PussyPass11/03/17 09:11 PM
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I'm not a utopian (far from it) but people generally get along when their society doesn't give them a reason not to.
/r/PussyPass11/03/17 01:28 PM
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Diversity only causes problems when people are intolerant to each other. Take away that attitude and people get along just fine.
/r/PussyPass11/03/17 01:15 PM
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Eh, I've lived in multiple cities. I traveled to multiple countries. I grew up in a poorer area. Hell, I was once mugged, knocked unconscious and left for dead in the snow. Not all my experiences in life have been positive. I'm not claiming that everyone everywhere is nice. There are atrocities that are committed in the world everyday. What I do think is that these incidences can be reduced through education, reduction of poverty, and exposure to other people. I'm not a cultural relativist. Howe…
/r/PussyPass11/03/17 01:07 PM
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K. My point is that most people, regardless of race, behave civilly when treated fairly and properly educated. Sure, there will always be a few assholes in every society that cause problems, but most people, just want to live their lives in peace.
/r/PussyPass11/03/17 12:49 PM
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Ok. So what's your point?
/r/PussyPass11/03/17 12:42 PM
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Google not working in S.A.? Lol Regression to the mean has to with variability in measurements. Basically, measurements that greatly fall outside the mean are more likely to be closer to the mean when measured again or with a larger sample. What I assume you are getting at is that even if I know smart and nice black people, that (according to your world view) because the average performance of their race is lower, if I meet more blacks (or perhaps over generations, their offspring) they will be …
/r/PussyPass11/03/17 12:02 PM
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Na, I'm a scientist. I know lots of black people with Ph.D.s. Either way, none of the black families I know are "violent." Just friendly people, trying to live their lives.
/r/PussyPass11/03/17 11:43 AM
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No, but if you have to share an area with other people, it usually works out better if you all try to get along and treat each other fairly. But, this is a bit of a strawman. My black neighbors aren't running around chucking spears! Lol. We have all grown up in the same society.
/r/PussyPass11/03/17 11:38 AM
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...not treat people differently based on the color of their skin. Lol.
/r/PussyPass11/03/17 11:29 AM
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I'm sorry that your set of experiences in life has jaded you to think this way. I realize that because of apartheid, there is a lot of anger on both sides in your country. The US had to go through a similar transition. It takes time for those wounds to heal. But, I know lots of black people in my country and we all like each other. Different races don't have to hate each other. We're all human.
/r/PussyPass11/03/17 06:58 AM
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Well, they are also being ridiculous, and I hope there are enough reasonable people (black and white) in your country to figure out a more realistic solution that is fair to everyone. Look, the US has had to confront its racist past and while things aren't perfect, they are improving. Most people here are not racist. Most people get along.
/r/PussyPass11/03/17 06:32 AM
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For the amount of bitching and worrying about the "downfall of western culture" you certainly sound like you care. See, you have no practical suggestion. Now, what I'm saying is, we are already mixed together and there is absolutely no way to undo that without causing A LOT of social problems. So, since we are stuck together, wouldn't the most pragmatic plan be to figure out how to get along? To make sure that people are educated and employed so that they can reach their potential, whatever that…
/r/PussyPass11/03/17 05:38 AM
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So, there is a difference between expressing an unpopular opinion and going around harassing and threatening people. You claim to be so worried about social stability, yet you side with the people instigating problems, just because they are white. Also, you never answered my question about what you would propose to do with the all the black people that already live here. Blacks are 16% of the US population. So, where do want them to all go?
/r/PussyPass11/03/17 12:03 AM
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I didn't say having a confederate flag was or should be illegal. My point was, you don't buy one and drive around with it because you are trying to get along with people.
/r/PussyPass10/03/17 09:03 PM
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Those people are not normal. If you have nothing better to do than drive around with 8 giant confederate flags hanging off your truck, you are at the least, clearly trying to get a reaction out of people. Keep in mind, particularly in the south, lynchings were a thing. I'm not going to fault a black family, just trying to have a birthday party for their kid, for being upset when a bunch of drunk rednecks show up with guns and start harassing them.
/r/PussyPass10/03/17 06:58 PM
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Bullshit. There is video, a 911 recording, witness testimony. These people were driving around intentionally trying to antagonize people. The only person who is making things up is you. You are delusional.
/r/PussyPass10/03/17 05:56 PM
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I'm unable to think critically? Lol. From the guy who says, "what really happened doesn't matter." Are you serious? The only person not thinking critically is you.
/r/PussyPass10/03/17 01:38 PM
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"What really happened doesn't matter." Uh... what really happened absolutely matters! So these guys got drunk and pointed loaded weapons at families and children during a birthday and threatened to kill them. Yeah, fuck them. Come on! One minute you are claiming my minority neighbors are running around raping and murdering people and now you are defending assholes who are actually running around causing problems... just because they are white!!! Look, here in the US, the law is supposed to apply…
/r/PussyPass10/03/17 11:18 AM
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Link to the story?
/r/PussyPass10/03/17 11:03 AM
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That's the beauty of our country. In principle, You can't just "take away" civil liberties. Our laws are meant to protect unpopular opinions and prevent majority tyranny.
/r/PussyPass10/03/17 11:01 AM
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I have the same legal rights here as anyone else. I can travel, work, start a business, associate with anyone, say anything, etc. I'm very grateful for my civil liberties and Would appose anyone on the left or the right that would try to deprive me of that. Those are some my values. If you think basic American values are a joke, why would you want to come here? These concepts are pretty universal to Americans.
/r/PussyPass10/03/17 10:27 AM
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Any group trying to impose their views on everyone in the country is antithetical to the American idea of individual liberty. I don't want white nationalists telling me what to do anymore than i want black nationalists or muslims or christians or anyone else telling me what to do. I'm not indifferent. I have very strong values. They just don't align with yours.
/r/PussyPass10/03/17 10:11 AM
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Uh, white nationalists are allowed to express whatever ideology they want. So are black nationalists. So are muslims. None of these groups are particularly popular but that's because most Americans disagree with all of them. Most of us, just want to get along. The CIA is not legally allowed to operate within the US. The FBI is the federal agency in charge of that and the FBI monitors extreme muslims, too. You clearly don't understand American culture or values. The bill of rights is one of the m…
/r/PussyPass10/03/17 09:50 AM
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I live close to the southern border. Most people just went about their day. I live around lots of Hispanic people. Most of us Are doing just fine. Sorry, no race war. Freedom of expression and human rights are "weak sauce?!?" The ability to express whatever idea (no matter how obnoxious) you want without the government persecuting you is at the bedrock of American culture and values. The government has never censored the far or alt-right. The right to free speech does not mean Private institutio…
/r/PussyPass10/03/17 09:29 AM
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Just looked outside. No buildings on fire, no screams of the raped and dying. Looks pretty peaceful actually. My country is not being invaded and destroyed. Lol. A few western ideas: freedom of expression, human rights, moderate capitalism...
/r/PussyPass10/03/17 09:14 AM
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What do think is happening in 8 months? When did I ever say, "fuck western civilization?" I'm a huge fan and I am happy to live with people of any race that are willing to embrace those ideas and values.
/r/PussyPass10/03/17 09:07 AM
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"All else is not equal, and yes it is." ...what?!? Debunked? I have empirical evidence for my claim that races can get along. And I do it everyday. I'm not brainwashed, I just have a better set experiences than you do. You know, I just made a new black friend this last week. He is opening up a restaurant soon and I'm planning on bringing a couple friends to try it out after they open. We exchanged phone numbers too [gasp!]. Fyi, I think the wage gap is bullshit. When you control, for type of job…
/r/PussyPass10/03/17 08:50 AM
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All else being equal, poverty is a factor. The Appalachians and Atlanta are very different environments. Rural areas tend to have lower crime rates. If you want to be objective, you would look at crime vs. poverty for both black and whites in the same geographical area. Blacks being used as slaves and then treated as second class citizens is not being positively included in society. Lol The US is not actively trying to replace white people. Lol. There is however, a humanitarian crisis to conside…
/r/PussyPass10/03/17 07:03 AM
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A lot of crime is correlated with poverty and lack of education. The reason there is a relatively higher racial percentage of poor blacks in this country is because, for a majority of its history, they have been artificially held back. Poor uneducated whites also cause problems. I grew up in a poor area that was "whiter" than where I live now and there were a lot more problems. Why is what happening to "white" countries? Trump is an incompetent moron who had no business being president. The soon…
/r/PussyPass10/03/17 06:44 AM
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Yes, crime is an unfortunate part if every society. However, the overall crime rates in the US have been declining over the last few decades. The US is not suffering because of diversity. Civilization is not ending because my black neighbors and I get along. If anything, the biggest threat to the wellbeing of this country is the Trump administration.
/r/PussyPass10/03/17 05:31 AM
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My civilization isn't "burning." I live in a nice neighborhood. ...and you tell me I'm full if shit. Lol 😂 Look, lots of different types of people were born and live here. We can either get along (which is in everyones best interest) or we can fight with each other. I'd say option two is more likely to cause problems.
/r/PussyPass09/03/17 09:00 PM
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My point was this country, from its founding has never been only "white." I'm not shitting on white people (hell, I am white). All races are capable of shitty behavior because we are the same flawed species. I'm not putting my exact location out on the internet, but I do live in a big city in the US. As I said before, if your argument is that it is impossible for different races to get along and live together, than ANY counter example disproves that. Yes, there are many places where this is unfo…
/r/PussyPass09/03/17 01:42 PM
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Founded by white Europeans, some of which owned black slaves. You can't understand American history if you ignore a huge portion of the population, that whether officially recognized or not, helped shape this country into what it is today. Example: my neighborhood. Blacks, whites, Mexicans, asians, middle eastern people all living together peacefully. Everybody getting along.
/r/PussyPass09/03/17 08:54 AM
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But, There are lots of places where they do get along. Also, you keep calling the US a "white" country. It's not and never has been.
/r/PussyPass09/03/17 03:46 AM
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See. Correct me if I'm wrong, but Your argument seems to be that it is IMPOSSIBLE for races to coexist together peacefully, right? Therefore, any example of people doing that, disproves your assertion. Why should we want diversity? Because we all have to share this planet and it's in everyones best interest to get along.
/r/PussyPass08/03/17 10:46 PM
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But you aren't including ALL of human history. At best, You are just cherry picking things to suit your agenda. Now, what I want to know is why you have the ideas that you do? We are all shaped by our experiences, so what experiences have shaped you to be who you are?
/r/PussyPass08/03/17 12:47 PM
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I'm just trying to understand you. So tell me, why do you feel about races the way that you do? Why are you so convinced that it is impossible for us all to get along? Don't let me put words in your mouth. Let's hear it.
/r/PussyPass08/03/17 12:38 PM
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You have made blatantly racist, sexist, and anti-Semitic comments. Other than this, I know almost nothing about you. What I am saying is, based on what you've said, you seem to have some serious anger and hate towards people that are different than you. Now, I don't know anything about your life or experiences that have led you to feel this way, but all I can say is, if you really feel this way, you are just missing out on what life and people have to offer.
/r/PussyPass08/03/17 12:26 PM
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No, you clearly don't understand our history. Sure, we have had to confront our racist past and are still dealing with with it, but you can't understand our history or where we are now, while ignoring a significant portion of our society. We had a civil war, for christ sake, about black slavery. ...Now you're throwing in anti-semitism? Come on. Are you just trolling? Are you really this racist, sexist, anti-whatever?!? I'm having a hard time believing you are really this ignorant. If you really …
/r/PussyPass08/03/17 11:12 AM
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It is. You are the one that's being inconsistent. As far as I'm concerned, anyone who comes here and wants to be a productive member of society is welcome (black, brown, white, whatever). I also think countries have the right to self-determination. So all I'm disputing, is you trying to define the U.S. as a "white" country. It's not, and never has been. Blacks, Native Americans, and Asians have played a large role in the history of this country. They are an integral part of American society.
/r/PussyPass08/03/17 10:39 AM
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Really? Come on. You can't be serious. And since I'm an American citizen and you're not, shouldn't I have more of a say in what American identity should be than you, by definition?
/r/PussyPass07/03/17 11:07 PM
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My grandparents were poor with little formal education. They told me they didn't feel superior to anybody. When they immigrated here, they settled in a community of similar immigrants to help them adjust. My parents, were born here and were college educated. I'm second generation and I have a Ph.D. So when I see people come here and sometimes initially group together, It reminds me of them. Also keep in mind that many of the black people here have much deeper roots than my family does. Many of t…
/r/PussyPass07/03/17 05:38 PM
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"Immigrants" in the sense that my ancestors were. My grandparents on both sides were immigrants from northern Europe.
/r/PussyPass07/03/17 01:45 PM
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Hey, I'll readily concede I'm not an expert on US visas. As a US citizen, why would I be?
/r/PussyPass07/03/17 01:41 PM
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Not sure, honestly. I remember one of them really hating her boss and wanting to quit. Maybe she did get her greencard. All I remember is her telling her boss to fuck off and then switching jobs.
/r/PussyPass07/03/17 01:31 PM
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I'm not an expert because I'm already a citizen but I have several foreign friends that have switched jobs several times. Their new employer has to do some paperwork but if they are worth their skill set (most are science Ph. Ds), it's not hard to find employers willing to do that.
/r/PussyPass07/03/17 12:30 PM
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Not really. You can leave anytime you want and you are paid the same as anyone else for your labor. You can also switch jobs. You just can't be unemployed if you are on a work visa.
/r/PussyPass07/03/17 11:38 AM
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I have friends from India as well as other countries who are in the process of trying to get citizenship here. It takes years and costs thousands of dollars. in the mean time, they have to be gainfully employed to stay in the country and if they violate the laws, their chances of ever getting citizenship drop dramatically.
/r/PussyPass07/03/17 10:01 AM
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What? It's not easy to immigrate to the US and there are quotas for different nationalities. Nobody is "flooding the country" and we tend to give priority to highly educated and wealthy people, so yeah, I do see it as a strength. If anyone is causing problems in my country, it's the xenophobic, rightwing, christian assholes. The US is not a "white" country. It's a mixing pot. Unless one is 100% Native American, we are all descendants of immigrants. The black people and other minorities in this c…
/r/PussyPass07/03/17 09:28 AM
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Replace? Who's being replaced? I was born in my country. they were born in this country. Besides, the US is a country of immigrants. I consider it a strength, not a weakness. And actually, the vast majority of people that voted for our current awful administration were conservative whites. The minorities tend to vote the same way I do, so...
/r/PussyPass07/03/17 08:55 AM
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Seriously? How much control do you have over your government? I don't like a lot of things the US does. So, why should I blame other people for the governments they're stuck with. As the world becomes more interconnected via the internet, trade, and cheap travel, I just hope more people realize that we are all really not that different. Wouldn't you rather live in a world where people cooperated and respected each other than one where people are constantly fighting with each other?
/r/PussyPass07/03/17 08:26 AM
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The government is corrupt but the average person there isn't. Have you ever been to Brazil, or a large city in the U.S. or Canada or Europe? Most people are friendly or at the very least not trying to cause problems. Look, I have a friend who was president of the black graduate student association at the local university, here. I have been to events where I was literally the only white person in the room. And yet, People were very nice and friendly: nobody tried to rob me or fight with me or rea…
/r/PussyPass07/03/17 04:47 AM
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What, Who said I was trying to? I was just answering your question. Correct me if I'm wrong, but your argument seems to be that it is impossible for different races to peacefully live together in one society, yes? And yet, when I give you examples of people doing exactly that, you dismiss it.
/r/PussyPass06/03/17 09:59 PM
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Brazil. It's one of my favorite countries that I have visited. I have even considered, finding a job there and learning Portuguese. But What do you consider "white?" Are Japanese people white? Are East Indians white? Are Mexicans white? You realize the definition of "white" changes regionally, right?
/r/PussyPass06/03/17 09:46 PM
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What? I have lots of friends here from all over the world. It's great. I get exposure to lots of different cultures and when I travel, I know people from every continent (except Antarctica.). And when I walk down the street, even if I don't know somebody, most people are polite. It's a multicultural city. Nobody feels like an out group. We all live together.
/r/PussyPass06/03/17 09:08 PM
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What cost? I work. They work. I mind my business. They mind theirs. And sometimes [gasp], we actually become friends. You just can't accept that different races don't have to be at each others throats because it doesn't fit your narrative.
/r/PussyPass06/03/17 11:56 AM
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I didn't see it on T.V. I witness it everyday in real life. People demonstrably can live together. Address poverty, education, opportunity, and equal treatment under the law and most people, regardless of race, live together just fine.
/r/PussyPass06/03/17 11:41 AM
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How did you get that from my description? Lol. Your really have a very skewed view of reality. I live in a big city. There is a mix of lots of different people. The point is, we are not running around raping and killing each other. Which is my point. There is no reason people of different races/cultures can't get along and live together. Your racial problems in South Africa are do to: A) years of a having an apartheid system that treated blacks horribly B) extreme economic inequality and poverty…
/r/PussyPass06/03/17 10:22 AM
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The media likes to blow things out of proportion. Yes, there are both black and white racists but they make up a very small proportion of our society. I'm surrounded by blacks, whites, browns, asians. Everyone is just doing their thing. Let's see, my landlord is asian, there are at least two black families in my small apartment building (8 units), my former roommate (Iranian) doesn't live here anymore but he was actually just down visiting a couple days ago. I'm a few hours away from the Mexican…
/r/PussyPass06/03/17 02:18 AM
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Interesting. I'm American. Have you ever visited other countries with less income disparity and a less recent racially segregated past? While not perfect, most big cities in the US have a decent amount of racial diversity and people mostly getting along.
/r/PussyPass06/03/17 01:45 AM
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Eh, that's because you probably live in a dominantly white/western country. When an ethnic/cultural group is in the minority, those people tend group together. In non-white/non-western countries you will see white people do this too. This why you should get out of your country and travel more. Go to a place where you are in the minority.
/r/PussyPass05/03/17 11:03 PM
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You know I'm "white" too, right? Lol. I'm not advocating open boarders or not properly vetting people before letting them into the country. All I'm saying is we are all the same species and most people aren't trying to destroy anything. That's why you should travel and meet people. So you can see first hand, that most people are just...people.
/r/PussyPass05/03/17 09:42 AM
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I seem to get along with most people, most of the time. In my experience, most people are nice and at the very least, just want to live their lives in peace. Maybe you should get out more, travel, and actually meet these people.
/r/PussyPass05/03/17 09:23 AM
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Eh, It's a good intellectual exercise and maybe If I'm sufficiently compelling, if someone else reads it, they might rethink their position. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PussyPass05/03/17 09:20 AM
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And yet, we do it everyday. I have friends of various ethnicities from all over the world. Maybe if you were nicer to people that don't look like you, some of them would be your friend, too.
/r/PussyPass04/03/17 10:45 PM
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Why do you keep trying to conflate immediate environmental circumstances: nutrition, education, culture, etc which mostly impacts the individual with long term natural selection which slowly affects the groups? They are different. ...and again, what does this have to do with being the same species?
/r/PussyPass04/03/17 08:55 PM
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Sure, there are both genetic and environmental factors that contribute to one's realized intelligence. I am skeptical though that if environmental factors such as diet, pollution, education etc. were the same, that average intelligence differences would be that different. Either way, what does this have to do with whether we are the same species?
/r/PussyPass04/03/17 08:38 PM
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Alright, so what evidence do you have for innate racial differences in intelligence?
/r/PussyPass04/03/17 07:52 PM
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You get that divergent evolution takes a long time, right?
/r/PussyPass04/03/17 07:30 PM
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Your genetics are the result of mutation, natural selection, and genetic drift over the course of millions of years. "Acting black" whatever you mean by that, is a more immediate cultural phenomenon. Your culture is more than just your parents or family. Your society also influences your behavior. If your society has a "black" subculture and you are "black," it's not surprising that you might identify and adopt certain aspects of that subculture, even if your adoptive parents are "white." Do the…
/r/PussyPass04/03/17 07:03 PM
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Cultures are not the product of genetics, they are the product of environment: your family and your society. This is easily proven by the observation that young children adopted from other countries and cultures act in accordance with the cultures they are raised in. You are conflating the two. What definition of species do YOU think would distinguish between different ethnic groups?
/r/PussyPass04/03/17 01:25 AM
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Yes, there are some organisms that are on the fringe but there are a lot of others that are unquestionably the same species, despite phenotypic differences. For example, different dog breeds can look vastly different, yet they are all the same species. Different human cultural groups have not been sufficiently separated-they are not genetically different enough-to be considered separate species even under the more stringent definitions of species.
/r/PussyPass03/03/17 08:06 PM
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While the term species is vague, organisms that are genetically and behaviorally similar enough to produce viable offspring are generally considered the same species. We have the same number chromosomes, the same number of genes, etc.
/r/PussyPass03/03/17 03:31 PM
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...but we are the same species.
/r/PussyPass03/03/17 08:53 AM
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How so?
/r/PussyPass01/03/17 01:44 AM
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Enviroment, nutrition, poverty all play a role in realized "IQ." Different cultures emphasis on education also contributes to why you say see more asians in tech jobs. There are no racial significant differences in IQ.
/r/PussyPass01/03/17 01:27 AM
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The problem is lumping people into categories based on arbitrary phenotypic traits such as being "white" or "black." Sure, different closely related groups will have higher amounts of shared alleles, but just looking at skin color and drawing conclusions is lazy and overly simplistic. Btw, I have a Ph.D. Too, so I actually do know what I'm talking about, here.
/r/PussyPass28/02/17 07:11 PM
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Reality is not racist. Races, in a genetic sense, don't really exist, they are social constructs. Your lack of objectivity, on the other hand, is incredibly racist.
/r/PussyPass28/02/17 06:31 PM
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I just meant, complain about not fitting in, IF you're not willing to modulate your behavior. It's like complaining about being broke after buying a new car and tons of clothes.
/r/MensRights24/02/17 06:38 PM
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Reputation: If you have a good reputation, if people like you, people will be less likely to like/trust people who speak poorly of you. There is nothing wrong with being an outsider, but You shouldn't complain about it, if you are not willing to proactively do anything about it. Want to be in shape? Exercise and eat right. Want to get good grades? Study. Want to fit in? ...conform.
/r/MensRights23/02/17 11:53 AM
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I can't know anything absolutely. Realistically though, usually if someone starts talking poorly about me, I eventually hear about it. Everyone talks about everyone. You can't control what people say and do when you are not around. The best you can do is be nice and reliable and treat people fairly. Listen to people. Be helpful. Just have a non-judging, easy going attitude. Let your reputation speak for itself. Especially as you get older, people start to appreciate that. Keep those people and d…
/r/MensRights21/02/17 09:06 AM
1

K. Do you trust anyone? If so, why? How do you know they won't throw you under the bus? Every sexual relationship I have ever had has eventually ended. Some more virulently than others. Not once in college, grad school or now, has anyone ever tried to a accuse me of anything or ruin me. It's just not normal behavior.
/r/MensRights21/02/17 07:07 AM
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Eh, if you are that worried about it, get to know people a little bit before you sleep with them. When I was younger and in college, I went to parties and sometimes did the whole one night stand thing but I quickly realized I didn't enjoy it; it seemed forced. Honestly, I prefer to get to know people a little bit first. Go on a few dates and pay attention to how they interact with other people. Seriously, just watch how they treat a server at a restaurant. How they handle interactions with rando…
/r/MensRights20/02/17 10:16 AM
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Eh, there is a difference between acting "normal" and being a decent person. There are plenty of "normal" people that are assholes. Being normal is just conforming to current, arbitrary social norms. It has nothing to do with how you treat other people.
/r/MensRights20/02/17 09:35 AM
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Anyone can screw you over. Male or female. Women are not some special devious plotting group. It's funny, because I have plutonic female friends that complain about guys being jerks, too. Do you know what I think the problem is? Straight men and women both have biased sampling for relationships. If you're a guy, all your relationship experiences are with women and if you are a woman, they're all with men. This leads a lot of people to think "all women are crazy" or "all men are jerks" but you kn…
/r/MensRights20/02/17 09:31 AM
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Eh, The problem, as with all labels (liberal/conservative), is that it doesn't get used or interpreted consistently. So you use "feminazi" to only describe the "bad" ones. Some one else uses the term to describe any women with any feminist position and some woman just hearing "feminazi" has no idea about your distinction. 🤷‍♂️
/r/MensRights17/02/17 06:31 AM
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The problem is the term feminism means different things to different people. Meet one lady who identifies as a feminist and she wants to split the check. Meet another lady who says she is a feminist and she thinks man-spreading is some sort of concerted effort to oppress women. 🙄
/r/MensRights17/02/17 05:40 AM
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Do you seriously believe that a vast majority of women are exploitive? Some are. Some guys are assholes too. This is the point I am getting at. Everyone should be selective. I keep people that I don't like or trust at arms length and I don't automatically completely trust people, they have to demonstrate and earn it. It's amazing how little social drama you can have in your life by just learning to avoid toxic people.
/r/MensRights14/02/17 02:34 PM
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I'm not victim blaming. Is telling people to lock their doors at night victim blaming?!? I'm not saying there isn't a problem with how this is handled when it occurs. I'm just pointing out that most people aren't trying to screw you over either. Psychopaths are usually very bad at feigning anything but the most superficial empathy. Their lack of an intuitive understanding of it means that they often behave very oddly when put into new moral situations, that normal people would intuitively know h…
/r/MensRights14/02/17 02:24 PM
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Having the legal right of way won't stop a car from barreling into you. You need to be proactive about your own safety. Most shitty people give themselves away pretty quickly. Just observe how they treat other people. Especially people that they don't want something from.
/r/MensRights13/02/17 08:35 AM
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That is an aspect psychopathic behavior: Lack of empathy for others (i.e. Screwing people over for your own convenience.) Ethics. Morals. Principles. Some people have these. Find them and stop hanging around all these awful people.
/r/MensRights13/02/17 06:01 AM
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Yeah, I guess that is a good way to phrase it.
/r/MensRights13/02/17 05:56 AM
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Good people don't throw other people under the bus for convenience. Be more selective about the company that you keep if this is a common occurrence. Who other people choose to sleep with is their business. I'm not going to fault a women for sleeping with people she is sexually attracted to. I mean, I do the same thing.
/r/MensRights13/02/17 05:53 AM
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Yes, there are toxic attitudes in society but Some people have ethics and are reasonable. What you are describing sounds almost psychopathic. It happens, but It is not the norm. I mean, I could go around making shit up and sabotaging people I don't like too l, but I don't because I have ethical principles. Most of the women I know do too. If you are encountering lots of people that operate like manipulative psychopaths, you might want to consider surrounding yourself with better people.
/r/MensRights13/02/17 05:39 AM
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You know women are people just like you. The way some of you talk about them, you make it sound like they are another species. If you treat them as your peers and don't come off like you are just trying to figure how to get in their pants you will meet lots of nice women. Not all of them will sleep with you, but if that is the only reason you want to interact with them, they can usually tell.
/r/MensRights13/02/17 05:27 AM
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Uh...when did I ever say you shouldn't be cautious? In fact, I think I have been pretty consistent in my comments saying that everyone should be cautious of the company they keep.
/r/MensRights13/02/17 05:19 AM
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Why college guys should be terrified of Murder! Now, do see my point?
/r/MensRights13/02/17 05:07 AM
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Don't hang out with toxic people. There are also lots of nice women out there that are not trying to manipulate and scheme people like cartoon evil villains.
/r/MensRights13/02/17 05:06 AM
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Holy crap. Did you just get burned by some woman or what? By "crazy" I meant it to include difficult, vindictive, toxic people. I have female bosses, coworkers, and students. I have even dated a few of them. They are mostly very nice, reasonable people just trying to live their lives. Never had a problem. They are not these calculating monsters you are describing. Some people are toxic. Some of those people are women, some of them are men. If you surround yourself with toxic people, they will ma…
/r/MensRights13/02/17 05:01 AM
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The title and some of the comments are a tad hyperbolic. I work on a college campus. Yes, it's not being handled correctly when it happens, and that needs to change, but it also isn't that common.
/r/MensRights13/02/17 04:23 AM
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Yes, Trolling people with my message of reasonableness and understanding. Not everyone who disagrees with you is a "troll." Lol
/r/MensRights13/02/17 03:05 AM
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Jesus, who hurt you? Lol. While false rape accusations are a problem, the vast majority of people do not get accused of rape at all. Most people, most of the time, seem to get along.
/r/MensRights13/02/17 01:45 AM
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Look, I agree with you about the overblown rape culture and double standards. I just also think most women aren't out to get you and you can avoid a lot of headaches in life if you learn to spot the crazy people.
/r/MensRights13/02/17 01:35 AM
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It is sage wisdom. Most people (male or female) are not out to get you. Learn to spot trouble and don't shit where you eat.
/r/MensRights12/02/17 09:21 PM
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Yeah yeah. Pedestrians also have the right of way. I've had a few crazy girlfriends. After a while, you learn to notice red flags.
/r/MensRights12/02/17 08:40 PM
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Most people are reasonable. Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/MensRights12/02/17 05:59 PM
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