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| – | Most men are invisible, and that seriously skews what women think is "the average".Why does this matter to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 12:13 PM |
| – | Most men are invisible, and that seriously skews what women think is "the average".When most of that sexual interest from strangers is unwanted, that’s not really a positive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 12:02 PM |
| 4 | Is a lot of this stuff an American cultural problem?Outside of healthcare, and outside of Quebec, Canada has almost zero distinguishing characteristics that separate you from the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 09:54 PM |
| 3 | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?More options are a good thing because it increases the odds that a man will find the right woman. We’re all like actors auditioning for a role. Getting to an audition is almost a non-issue for women, and it’s an insurmountable obstacle for many men. That’s why quality matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 01:11 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".People who are content with their lives don’t get nostalgic for a fictional golden age. You’re just describing the effect, and OP is describing one of the causes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 02:29 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on why men aren’t attending singles events?Of course you don’t value something that’s abundant as tap water. Can you try imagining a life where the exact opposite is true? Women say that attention from strangers is meaningless - and I agree that it is when taken all on its own. But it is a prerequisite to anything more meaningful. No one gets to be a costar without first passing an audition. For most women that first step is a non-issue. For many men, it’s an insurmountable wall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 03:39 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on why men aren’t attending singles events?Of course you don’t value something that’s abundant as tap water. Can you try imagining a life where the exact opposite is true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Being in Hookup Culture Is The Norm for Single Women, But Not For MenIt’s the exact opposite? Look, I can’t force reading comprehension onto you in a Reddit comment. The evidence shared above will be clear to most people who read this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Being in Hookup Culture Is The Norm for Single Women, But Not For Men“What she found was that both men and women appeared to lie about their sexual history, but in different ways. When students were asked to fill out an anonymous paper survey, male students reported having sex at an earlier age and with more people than the female students. However, when students were hooked up to a fake polygraph machine, the female students, on average, were more likely to report that they had more partners than the male students. “It was the exact opposite,” Fisher said of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 04:30 PM |
| 7 | Being in Hookup Culture Is The Norm for Single Women, But Not For MenYou only read the headline, didn’t you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 04:29 PM |
| 8 | Being in Hookup Culture Is The Norm for Single Women, But Not For MenIt is though, no air quotes necessary. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/257663739_Gender_Roles_and_Pressure_to_be_Truthful_The_Bogus_Pipeline_Modifies_Gender_Differences_in_Sexual_but_Not_Non-sexual_Behavior Summed up here - https://www.latimes.com/science/sciencenow/la-sci-sn-who-lies-about-sex-more-men-or-women-20130528-story.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 04:24 PM |
| 2 | There are rational reasons for working class men to dislike female empowerment; Women irrespective of their living conditions or ideology will always be hypergamous. There is no egalitarian utopia at the end of the female empowerment rainbow, just more male disposabilityYou can't turn the clock back on manufacturing. Even if we completely reversed the last 50 years of offshoring our industrial base, all the new factories would be so highly automated that they wouldn't make a dent in American life. You think the erosion of traditional gender roles was bad? Mass automation will be even worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with menSpeak for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 02:01 AM |
| 6 | Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with menPretty sure most labor women have access to is exchanged for money. That’s how an economy works. As for what they can afford, their incomes are close enough to parity with men’s that there isn’t much of a difference. You’re just making a bunch of tired hyperbolic arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 05:15 AM |
| 5 | Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with men“Incel” is the most recent iteration of an undesirable man. It’s at most 20 years old in the global lexicon and 10 years of being specifically targeted towards men. The historical nomenclature for a single man would be bachelor. Which holds a very different connotation. We're living in the present. Young men who are the most likely to have difficulty navigating modern dating have come of age after incel became a catch-all label that's now commonly used to immediately dismiss the opinions or emot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Do we have to pin women down to a science.Even as an individual, dating is still a number game. The role of luck doesn’t negate that fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 02:08 AM |
| 7 | Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with menI think we’re going to have to agree to disagree then. There’s no female equivalent for “incel” since it’s been redefined as shitty self-loathing men who hate women, even if the only thing a man says is that he’s lonely and doesn’t know how to attract a partner. I’ve seen this play out many, many times in social media and I’ve also seen it carry over to real life. “Spinster”, really? “Old maid”? Does anyone under the age of 70 even still use these words? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with menI think there's a 4th trope that's becoming more common - men who are over this shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 12:27 AM |
| 5 | Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with menTake control. Well-said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/24 08:24 PM |
| 13 | Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with menFor men, they haven’t spent a lifetime or several generations being told, but they’ve got to have a woman or they’re useless. Hard disagree on this. Men who can't attract women have been ridiculed as losers since forever. If a woman can't attract men, there typically isn't a moral judgment attached. A lonely woman is usually criticized for surface issues like physical appearance. A lonely man is typically criticized for his entire being, usually based on nothing more than collective guilt he has… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/24 08:02 PM |
| 6 | Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with menClose to 65% of millennial men are single, while only 40% of millennial women are single. This doesn't say anything about who's happier outside of a relationship. Men are more likely to have no close friends than women are, and we put more of our need for social support into our relationships with women. Women are less likely to make romantic relationships their everything. They have more close friends and wider social circles than we do. It doesn't have to be this way. Women would rather be sin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/24 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with menYou haven’t disagreed with me yet. I literally said men need to quit being so damn available. Your hypothetical scenario here is the opposite of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/24 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with menHaha, no. I’ve been cheated on twice and I wouldn’t say women are inherently wonderful. Neither sex is uniquely moral or immoral. You sound like you have a chip on your shoulder that’s causing you to make unwarranted binary arguments. If you actually read what I said, it was the exact opposite of “jump through hoops dnd appease them”. I’m saying forget about them more often and find other ways to live a fulfilling life. Be better men for ourselves, not for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/24 03:21 PM |
| 156 | Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with menMen want women more than women want men. Women are more content to be alone than men are. That’s the root cause of most of the differences in dating behavior. If men want to change this dynamic, then it’s on us to be more selective and look for other sources of validation and emotional connection outside of relationships with women. Quit being collectively so damn available and it would be a different world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/24 06:03 AM |
| – | Do we have to pin women down to a science.Love that, that’s way better. It combines self-acceptance without losing the incentive to improve yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 05:01 PM |
| – | Do we have to pin women down to a science.Sorry, I don’t speak 4chan brainrot. Use your words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 02:24 PM |
| – | Do we have to pin women down to a science.Marketing is a multibillion dollar industry because it is possible to pin human behavior down to a science. Psychology is a science. It’s the same principle at work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 02:16 PM |
| – | Do we have to pin women down to a science.Most men are already being themselves most of the time. This obviously isn’t enough. If a guy is out of shape, without any meaningful goals, and too anxious to leave the house, telling him to be himself is counterproductive. The only men who this advice applies to don’t need any help to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 02:15 PM |
| 1 | "Most Women Don't Love Most Men" is natural - Most HUMANS don't Love most HumansHere’s your standard of truth: “This book is true because it says it’s true” Christianity wouldn’t exist without circular reasoning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 07:32 PM |
| 8 | "Most Women Don't Love Most Men" is natural - Most HUMANS don't Love most HumansYes, let’s take relationship advice from the same book that tells us women should marry their rapists and how much we’re allowed to beat our slaves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 03:12 PM |
| 12 | "Most Women Don't Love Most Men" is natural - Most HUMANS don't Love most HumansThat’s a ludicrous overstatement. Men and women can both fall out love with their partners over the course of a long-term relationship. Men cheat on their partners just as women do - statistically, slightly more often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 03:07 PM |
| 1 | What should we do about men approaching way less woman than back in the day?No, saying the status quo is already a “hellscape” minimizes the problems because it removes any urgency around preventing even worse outcomes. This is why doomers are so passive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men doThat's a non-response. You could've said nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 12:09 AM |
| 1 | What should we do about men approaching way less woman than back in the day?That's not what I meant. You're describing the economy like we've already hit some kind of floor. We're nowhere near the depths of how low we can get. If you want to know what that looks like, imagine the Rust Belt but nationwide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 12:08 AM |
| 1 | What should we do about men approaching way less woman than back in the day?It can always get worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men doIf you don’t want people to contrast the experiences of men and women, don’t bring up gendered issues Ok, the next time I hear about women's experiences being taken advantage of by men, I'll be sure to immediately mention my negative experiences with women. I'm sure that'll go over well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 11:48 PM |
| 1 | What should we do about men approaching way less woman than back in the day?Yeah, you're really sticking it to the 1% with your commitment to doing *absolutely nothing*. "This insistence on trying to improve things is a joke." You're the joke, and I'm done slumming it with this smooth-brained crap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 09:33 PM |
| 3 | What should we do about men approaching way less woman than back in the day?You're such an easy mark for the 1% that you don't even know it. You're pathetic, dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 09:28 PM |
| 1 | What should we do about men approaching way less woman than back in the day?Yes I actually give a shit about the economy, because I live in a decaying Rust Belt town where the reminders of economic decline are unavoidable. I work in healthcare with working class people every day and the suffering is real. You’re talking out of your ass and your last sentence is the weakest admission of defeat imaginable. Your cynicism doesn’t make you smarter, it just makes you passive. That's a typical adolescent pose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 09:17 PM |
| 3 | What should we do about men approaching way less woman than back in the day?I didn’t say the only source of new immigrants, just the biggest one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 09:16 PM |
| 3 | What should we do about men approaching way less woman than back in the day?Doesn’t change the fact that the biggest sources of new immigrants are seeing sharp population declines themselves. That alone puts a limit on how much we can rely on net immigration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 07:09 PM |
| 5 | What should we do about men approaching way less woman than back in the day?That's a band-aid solution that is already slowing down. Mexico's population growth is already below the replacement rate - far below the US - and they've been the biggest source of new immigration for decades. The influx of new immigrants is only going to slow down in the near-term future, regardless of what fearmongering politicians say in an election year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 06:35 PM |
| 4 | What should we do about men approaching way less woman than back in the day?I'm sorry, what gave you the idea that recessions only affect the rich? It's the exact opposite. Those rich out of touch cunts are the only people who are insulated from the economic issues I'm talking about. You obviously have zero clue about the reality of being working-class in America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 06:02 PM |
| 5 | What should we do about men approaching way less woman than back in the day?Absolute numbers are beside the point. What matters most is the ratio of working-age people compared with elderly citizens who need billions in social services funding and who don't contribute as much to the economy. You can see this doom loop of economic recession in the parts of the US that have the most rapidly aging populations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 05:59 PM |
| 11 | What should we do about men approaching way less woman than back in the day?You should look at what actually happens in countries that experience sharp population declines. Economic stagnation, funding cuts to social programs for the elderly and infirm, and more. It's not pretty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 05:57 PM |
| – | Does the average guy have low standards?Women are less attracted to the average man than men are to the average woman. This is a self-reinforcing cycle. Since women are more content to just live without a partner or even casual sex, there's always going to be more competition for their attention. That means that men on average will lower their standards. Pretty simple really when you recognize how there's a desirability gap between sexes in straight relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Many women use sex as a reward and most men fall for it.This is such a hardwired constant that it doesn't seem worth mentioning. It's never going to change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 05:47 PM |
| 7 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.It’s just that the women here are more likely to have touched grass. Says the woman with 83,000 karma, seemingly only from this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy.Haha, I’m sure you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy.Go back and read, you parachuted in some political crap apropos of nothing., | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy.More to point, what does this have to do with the post we’re in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy.Are you even capable of saying anything that isn’t a conservative cliche? Every word you’ve said sounds like a ChatGPT prompt for “Give me the most generic Fox News chyrons since Obama was elected” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy.Lady, I haven’t said a word about trans people or women who are attacked. That’s not what the post is about, and neither are your goofy cartoonish ideas of who people are based on a handful of comments online. I can’t wait til the election is over and there are fewer partisan simpletons mindlessly regurgitating culture war crap in non-political subs. Tedious af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men doBecause as per usual, a thread about an issue common to men gets derailed with a “what about women” note like your own. The irony is that this is a good illustration of why men don’t open up more to the women in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 09:29 AM |
| 0 | Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy.🤡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 08:03 AM |
| 4 | Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men doYou just responded to the issue of straight men not feeling safe enough to open up to their partners by bringing up your own experience as a woman. You don’t even see it, do you? The self-absorption is fascinating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Princess treatment is just patriarchy in disguiseBecause the world doesn’t revolve around you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 07:58 AM |
| 0 | Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy.You’re the one coming in here making the most generic blanket statements about liberal men - when there are about 30-40 million of us. And now you want to talk about “a good representation of normative people”? Not much of a deep thinker, are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 07:51 AM |
| 0 | Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy.An overwhelming majority of conservatives have spent the last 9 years swooning over a neurotic man-baby who tweets “UNFAIR!!” any time someone doesn’t kiss his ass enough. No one was even talking about politics here, the thread had nothing to do with politics, but here you are blathering about it anyway. Typical hive mind bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 07:27 AM |
| 3 | Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men doTherapy is fucking expensive and can be almost impossible to find if you live in the wrong zip code. Online “therapy” like BetterHelp is a joke. Telling strangers online to just get therapy is the laziest, trendiest brush-off there is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 07:12 AM |
| – | Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men doSaying that it’s all just anecdotes in this thread is no different than telling the men posting here that their personal experiences are invalid. Try that in any social media post about an issue common to women and see how that goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 07:08 AM |
| 6 | Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men doAlmost everything most people want is gatekept by other people, including affection. Your comment is a cliche and not helpful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 07:01 AM |
| 7 | Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men doOpening up to a female friend is a hell of a lot easier than opening up to a woman that a man is in a relationship with. Too often women say they want their partners to be vulnerable with them but lose all attraction when a man takes that chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 06:54 AM |
| – | Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men doYou can’t have a loving relationship without sex. You can have sex without a relationship. Sex is obviously the ticket for admission. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men doYou can’t have a relationship without sex. You can hand sex without a relationship. Sex is obviously the ticket for admission. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 06:50 AM |
| 14 | Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men doI think a lot of women are more outwardly homophobic as well. I’ve heard more women criticize men for “acting gay” than other dudes, and they do it in a way that implies that’s a pathetic way for any man to be. It’s like it doesn’t even occur to them that they can be homophobic too., | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 06:45 AM |
| -1 | Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons.Psychoanalyzing someone from reading one Reddit comment? Get over yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 10:04 AM |
| 3 | Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons.If you aren't gifted with the right genetics, it's going to be unwanted. Cold approach is pointless if you don't meet a threshold for what women consider attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons.In 2024, trying to connect with women "anywhere" is viewed as harassment. No way in hell am I going to risk getting arrested or kicked out of a business by flirting with a woman in any public place that isn't specifically intended for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 12:27 AM |
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