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1	What the f*** just happened? If you'd whisked him away to the beach, started making out and then you'd started getting doubts, then it'd be similar... and at that point, lying on the beach, he wouldn't be able to act as he did. Yes he would, assuming that he is a decent person. It's a bit late to get to someones house (both of you knowing what's on the agenda) and then say "would you like to have sex?" Even if the girl 100% did, that would probably kill the mood. Not true. Even if saying that was going to kill the mood, the…	/r/seduction	23/01/12 01:00 PM
2	What the f*** just happened? Which part of my post is not applicable to encounters motivated by casual sex?	/r/seduction	23/01/12 12:34 PM
13	What the f*** just happened? Well, I disagree. In my experience being honest about your intentions and caring about consent really does work. Heck, the first time I had casual sex it was mainly because the guy asked to kiss me, and when I said no he completely respected that without trying to change my mind OR shutting off. Apart from being a little disappointed, he just kept being the same cool guy he'd been before. That was hot, so I dragged him off to fuck the shit out of him on a beach. It was glorious.	/r/seduction	22/01/12 04:11 AM
38	What the f*** just happened? If you're sure the person is just afraid of getting slutshamed, then why not address it directly without resorting to manipulation? Say something along the lines of: "If you genuinely don't want to have sex with me, I completely respect that. But I hope you don't feel like you have to say no to me out of fear that I will otherwise think any less of you. I'll still want to see you again regardless of what happens tonight." Unless you both just want casual sex, in which case you can say something …	/r/seduction	22/01/12 03:19 AM
0	If You're Not the Target, You Can't Say There is No Target I'm certainly not talking about personal feelings and anecdotes. I'm not going to go into a fact-war of "who has it worse", but saying there aren't certain areas where being a woman has real, observable disadvantages is plain silly. Just out of interest I would like to see the data which supports your claims: The data shows that men are suffering psychologically, economically, and physically compared to women. We are discriminated against in education and social welfare, and given unequal treatm…	/r/MensRights	04/08/11 11:28 PM
0	If You're Not the Target, You Can't Say There is No Target But the OP doesn't suggest that men aren't treated unfairly in certain ways, just that it's possible for both women and men to be treated unfairly at the same time, and you're likely to be more caught up in how you yourself are treated unfairly. So if you're a man, you might not notice the areas in which you're treated better than women - and vice versa. I think the post is quite reasonable. It's simply a reminder that sometimes you only care about how you yourself are treated and you can't poss…	/r/MensRights	04/08/11 09:06 PM
1	When dating, is it a big deal that she have a job, car, college education, and place of her own? Man, you have the right to prefer almost anything in a potential partner. I just think you're a tiny bit silly, mr Silly!	/r/MensRights	04/08/11 08:34 PM
1	When dating, is it a big deal that she have a job, car, college education, and place of her own? Eloquently put!	/r/MensRights	03/08/11 09:04 PM
3	When dating, is it a big deal that she have a job, car, college education, and place of her own? I live in 4 season state. Its not always warm enough to bike or walk. Have you heard of warm clothing?	/r/MensRights	03/08/11 08:49 PM
-3	What is the problem with anonymity for those accused of rape? http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/i6dlu/what_is_the_problem_with_anonymity_for_those/c21bccy Aaaand, just to make sure you get my point: Feminists don't hate men. Women don't hate men. Virtually noone is hating on men. There is no reason to make this a man vs. woman issue, especially as r/mensrights usually likes to remind us that not all rape victims are female. In cases of "false" accusations, it's probably more a case of the accuser genuinely feeling like something nonconsensual too…	/r/MensRights	22/06/11 11:11 PM
-2	What is the problem with anonymity for those accused of rape? Why do you think women hate men? Women hate rapists. Not all men are rapists. It is not hatred which is the key motivator, but fear. Apart from the pretty legit argument that it's easier for other possible rape victims to come forward if the rapist (not necessarily a man) has already been accused of a crime, I'm pretty sure the reasoning is "somewhere, a monster is not being punished for his crime because of a system bias/lack of physical evidence/whatever". Which is probably true. Just like it'…	/r/MensRights	22/06/11 10:48 PM
-1	What is the problem with anonymity for those accused of rape? That might be because if you accuse someone of a murder, noone is going to tell you why it's your fault. I am for anonymity for those accused of rape, BTW.	/r/MensRights	22/06/11 10:33 PM