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33

....that he slept with a 15-16 year old because she "seduced him". Lost his number 5 years ago. What a creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 09:57 PM
17

I've had an IUD for 5 years. Literally on the calendar day of the 5th anniversary of having it, I bled from the bladder and rectum at the same time. It was either before or after my period. (I can't remember) This was almost a year ago. The doctor treated me like I was wasting his time as there was no sign of infection in my red urine. I had blood work done, everything was operating fine. The OB/GYN removed the IUD. Throughout my life, my period has been 8-10 days and very painful and heavy. Eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:39 PM
11

Good for you buddy... Just don't go out on foot as a women... That's a whole new level of harassment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:22 PM
18

This Queen made my day! I feel better and validated while listening to her. I'm glad she doesn't just take subpar sex. 🌸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:58 PM
8

I would get away from him as soon as I humanly could...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:07 PM
9

Okay, after I just finishing yelling at my phone screen... He knew she genuinely wanted him to stop. He just told on himself at the first half of the paragraph.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:33 PM
18

My ex was a little bit shorter than me. I never let it bother me. I have never teased him or compared him to anybody else. He turned out to be the most abusive thing I have ever had the chance to be with. Now I need therapy for the 2 years of gaslighting, psychological abuse, financial abuse, emotional abuse, and sexual abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:00 PM
13

cranks it up all the way Oh! Oops, my bad! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:21 AM
123

Thing is... we have never been mean to men this whole time. It's pathetic that they consider the fact that we no longer take their shit... as being mean to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:21 PM
47

I have never faked it myself. I could never understand why I needed to protect his ego when he couldn't handle me with care. So I didn't. He started to complain to me about it. I told him what wasn't happening. He refused to try and I stayed silent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:37 PM
20

I am glad I got out when I did. He had a shotgun under our bed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:59 PM
87

Leave her alone..... That's what you do.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:51 PM
52

There are so many things I want to say.. But It'll break the rules. I am fighting not to cry and I want to throw my phone away...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:47 PM
13

Yeah... no thanks. The thought of any bodily fluid excreted from a man... que nausea 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:57 PM
6

The moment they open their mouth seems to dispell the infatuated feeling. They weren't talking to me either...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:59 PM
9

I have always been a huge Mads fan. He's actually in a wallpaper on my phone. What can I say? He's got character
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:29 PM
7

Lol.. okay okay.. Even I smiled and laughed 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:45 PM
10

Wow... she's not trolling right? It's a miracle if they don't manipulate you throughout the day when you simply aren't feeling it at any given time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:48 PM
18

Or over an hour of trauma. Not my idea of intimacy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:07 PM
29

I feel immense relief when they say those things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:04 PM
5

I hope he gets what he deserves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:06 AM
89

It's one of those harsh learning experiences that you will never forget. I was a desperate pickmesha too. I have endured a lot of horrible things from my first (and only) "romantic" relationship. I thought it was my job to fix everything. It's been 5 years since I got out and I can't bring myself to want to jump back into dating. It doesn't look too promising out there. I can't unsee the red flags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:37 PM
217

I'd rather be dead than to put up with that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:19 PM
25

Did it fall off?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:38 PM
16

They simply just need to shut up and stop speaking for us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:38 PM
89

I tried to deny that some of my male friends were like this. But even a nerd like myself have had these dark shadows following me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:50 PM
46

He wasn't going to propose at all. He's just claiming he was about to in this pathetic post to fish for sympathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:59 PM
38

I will continue to ignore them like I was doing pre-Covid. I only interact with them when absolutely necessary. eg. work, public travel, shopping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:38 PM
5

There's so much that I want to say.. Unfortunately my response wouldn't be appropriate here. All I know, is if I was her... and his guard was down... Skip the scene... I would end up in prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:24 PM
7

That ham got ROASTED lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:10 PM
338

That's the thing that hisses me off. A man having the audacity to insult me by telling me that I need to get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:35 PM
46

I'd rather be considered a misandrist than to cater to men's feelings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:35 PM
1

fights hard not to throw up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:50 PM
65

Oh.. don't threaten me with a good time. XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:48 AM
8

Thanks, it was creepy as hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:27 PM
19

Thank you, I needed to hear that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:46 PM
24

Omg, that is horrifying! I'm sorry you went through that. 😳 He must have been one of those "incel" freaks. He's going to die alone if he continues acting so self entitled. Oh well.. It's not your problem. Hopefully all of those fake profiles are gone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:52 AM
112

Exactly 💯 But they are too lazy to better themselves. They have to blame women instead. So much energy wasted when it can be put into being a decent person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:55 AM
397

I never put pictures of myself anywhere anymore. A weirdo took my picture and made a Tinder account to catfish guys to prove a point. "Even an unattractive woman like myself can get more matches than most men."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:30 AM
61

If they idolize Scarface.... 🙄 That's a bit obvious though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:53 PM
24

Oh... I'm so sorry. They have no concern at all...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:38 PM
25

.....and then they get annoyed when we get sick and need antibiotics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:35 PM
32

I avoid watching romance as much as possible. I can't help but become uncomfortable and anxious. I get nausea and I can't look through the entire scene. I've struggled with it since I was little
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:27 PM
22

Sexual abuse 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:24 PM
45

It's okay. We are good now. We are so much better off now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:49 PM
191

🤢 Remembering the spit before SA. I am completely celibate 5 years and counting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:23 PM
3

I could tell him what to do... But I might end up banned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:59 PM
46

Yep, I'm done with befriending guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:34 PM
2

She has to leave the room to laugh at him? Please... I'd tell him how ridiculous he is to his face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:46 PM
9

Where's this dude's brownie button award?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:25 PM
7

Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:51 AM
86

Sad thing is.. My ex has a full thick head of hair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:05 PM
78

This stuff always makes me want to cry. That's not the way to treat the mother of your children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:54 AM
3

"Men and women can't be friends." 🤡 Some have lied and played dumb, claiming that we would enjoy dick pics as much as they like receiving nudes. No no no. Sometimes I think they are verbally testing our reactions and boundaries when they inevitably go sexual. "How much will she tolerate my porn brain.." lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:44 AM
68

Wow.. my mood was just obliterated while reading that. He can answer to my middle finger... if he likes it or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:34 AM
17

He said 'pls'.. This doesn't typically happen...lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:59 AM
5

Exactly, it's not happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:38 PM
8

I haven't because I never messaged any of them. I was lucky to not have encountered men with kids XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:40 PM
9

Exactly 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:34 PM
29

Funny..... Almost all of the likes I received from OLD (single childless woman) were single dads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:25 PM
8

Thanks for sharing this. I needed to be reminded to take better care of my mental health. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:43 PM
53

Queens come in all shapes, sizes and colors. We are all so beautiful. I wish I was gay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:37 PM
3

That's good to hear <3 I have a lot to do to heal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:29 PM
3

I haven't. I've never had therapy before actually. I probably should look into it sometime soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:09 PM
3

Thanks. It was 5 years ago. I haven't dated since. I can't get those black curtains over all the windows out of my mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:00 PM
19

My ex did all of those examples. One bizarre thing he did while forcing me to stay awake all night was force me to tell him what sexual position I enjoyed. I just picked the least painful one. He then said he told his FAMILY that I refused to be vocal during.. "sex". He continued with their so-called reply of... "How dare her! Who does she think she is?! How disrespectful!" He threatened sui**** and mass murder to my family and I. I knew the drugs were talking. But I couldn't believe I ended up …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:10 PM
15

Is it silly that I got teary eyed reading this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:11 AM
9

I am so sorry that happened to you. He assaulted you unprovoked. It's biological warfare in my opinion because not only did he hurt you psychologically, he could make you get sick. Please report him to the police. He is a total piece of shit and so are the other two who didn't help. Again, I am so sorry and you did not deserve that 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:02 PM
13

Personally, I am afraid to dress up in fear of men laughing at or harassing me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:57 PM
8

I try to help people when I can. But my instincts yelled NO! So I listened this time and was out of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:09 PM
8

Oh my goodness.... This reminds me of another horrifying story in my life... Lol.... A little over a year ago I was walking home from work. I was only five minutes away when I saw a car pulled over in the middle of a busy street. A shirtless man was pulling items out of his trunk. I tried to walk faster to just get passed him. I had headphones in. (Not smart.. I know) He quickly comes up to me and demanded that I to call 911. I think his car broke down judging by the hood being open. He had put …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:53 PM
18

This reminds me of a creepy story of meeting a former classmate at a bookstore one day. We had a conversation through social media and being bored, decided to meet him the following day. This was a very bad decision.... This man would talk non-stop about his drug addicted friends... He then began following me around very closely. I started walking faster through the shelves. He got worse. I stopped near a front display and he told a joke and kicked his foot onto my butt.. "playfully".... I told …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:29 AM
15

What an AH... "Should I be a pig here or another Uni?" How about no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:53 PM
6

I love these! You tell 'em Queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:25 PM
19

I have zero reasons to date men either. It's okay :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:33 PM
10

😳😳😳 I have no words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:43 PM
28

This got my heart rate up. I hope she got the hell out of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:15 PM
2

I'm sorry you had to endure that. I hope you finally got peace from your ordeal. I should find help. I've been having nightmares and I'm having trouble sleeping again. I told a couple of ladies after it happened. I wonder if I should tell my physical therapist about him since he was pulling into their driveway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:57 AM
3

I most certainly will. I never thought this could happen to me. But now I realize that's pickme thinking. Always assume the worst with men. Especially ones that were in your life before. It seems like ones that have hurt you before, seem to come back. Life lessons only women get to experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:29 AM
5

I am literally choking up reading that. I hope that she didn't meet up with him. What a horrible pig he is..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:27 AM
3

I'm glad to hear that 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:59 PM
4

😳 I'm sorry you had to go through that. I hope they all leave you alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:56 PM
2

I hope he's not.. We have several p.t. offices in the area he could have gone to. Maybe it was for one of the dental or medical offices in the same building. Maybe it's a bad coincidence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:46 PM
1

Phew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:43 PM
4

I hope he was just lying just to worry you....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:42 PM
5

Oh okay, I will. Thanks for suggesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:09 PM
49

Nightmare Fuel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:25 AM
24

This had me remembering my experiences with the ex. I did everything I could to give the most minimal reaction possible while he sexually abused me. It made things more prolonged and painful, but I enjoyed how frustrated he got. I wasn't going to give him a "satisfactory" reaction to help him get off sooner. But it was complete torture. It's simply better to just stay away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:23 PM
29

Men that think anything to be remotely gay and has an aversion to it.......... makes me think they are actually closeted gay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:03 PM
14

HOW DARE WOMEN WANT SOMETHING FROM MEN! It's only okay for men to approach us for their selfish needs. How dare we expect a fair exchange in a relationship. It's not a relationship otherwise if it's one sided
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:10 PM
90

A cockroach is several tiers above my ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:18 AM
3

Thanks, it was better late than never. Good things these men are our exes..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:27 PM
8

My ex yelled at me and emotionally tormented me all night because I dare to go to bed with a pair of underwear on. If I had my way, I would have been in full pj's. But of course..... he had this requirement for me to be completely naked for bedtime every night. I was on my period and I wanted something on me just in case. I compromised.. But that was too unacceptable for him. Such a selfish bitch I was..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:17 PM
22

I will never download a dating app ever again. I hope she will be okay 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:34 PM
67

He did say that he didn't want a relationship... She was giving him what he asked for by walking away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:30 AM
46

Oh... they probably are... :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:57 PM
247

All the men are screaming like they are on fire. Fucking take the truth Darlings... XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:13 PM
1

I know it's not a good idea... But I would bite as hard as I humanly could...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:47 PM
3

The things I want to say but can't say...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:06 AM
7

She shouldn't of responded at all tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:57 PM
23

You're not getting nudes dude. It just isn't happening..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:37 PM
11

That show is pure gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:14 PM
-1

At least the beer cans are somewhat organized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:34 PM
3

Men hated receiving compliments from me. So I stopped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:25 PM
6

I knew this ages ago. People dislike it though and treat me accordingly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:35 PM
23

Not only I don't want to do it again.. I am terrified 😨 I was assaulted orally along with other forms of rape. I haven't put myself out there or even been remotely interested in dating since. They expect us to perform those acts that I just can't do. I simply can't pretend to enjoy something like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:21 PM
27

Let's just say that I wouldn't be there when he got back if it were me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:49 AM
21

What's worse? Random S*** or Trophy Wife?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:15 PM
83

I'm glad I never got pregnant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:11 AM
5

I would comment... But I would end up getting banned..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:56 AM
14

Post relationship I realized there was this pattern he would do after randomly gifting me. I would thank him and he would say something to make me feel bad. Some times he would try to argue with me about absolutely nothing. They were never resolved and he would give me the silent treatment. The worst would be sexual coercion or sexual assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:03 PM
10

I am glad I was able to help. But I am sorry that you had to go through that in the first place 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:07 PM
37

No reason gifts were scary. It meant punishment would soon follow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:29 PM
22

This is a reminder that I need to let go of the feeling of being filthy after I was coerced into unprotected sex. I felt like a branded cow that now permanently belonged to my ex. For years I had wished I would have gotten myself out of that room with him. I should have said No, but what would of happened then? I don't remember much while laying there except a mask hanging on the wall above the bed. It was one of the V for Vendetta Guy Fawks masks. I hate that thing... I was stupid because I sta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:10 PM
14

Looks like he just climbed out of the sewer.. FFS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:28 PM
11

This literally made me feel sick...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:20 PM
3

I know right? I bought that fish. Maybe that's why. (I guess my post went through after the bot said it was removed)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 08:00 PM
3

I tried posting it twice. The Redditbot removed them. Let's see if I can make it acceptable : Yeah, it was just a little clown fish trying to defend his territory inside the aquarium. The ex was yelling at the fish about how he was going to beat him. This was in front of me while I was folding his laundry. He started flicking at the helpless animal. I froze in silence. I wanted to say something but just couldn't. It didn't take long for him to kill my freshwater fish (that meant a lot to me) for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 06:47 PM
8

Yeah, it was just a little clown fish trying to defend his territory inside the aquarium. The ex was yelling about how he was going to beat his "little b**ch ass" in front of me while I was folding his laundry. He started flicking at the helpless animal. I froze in silence. I wanted to say something but just couldn't. It didn't take long for him to kill my freshwater fish (that meant a lot to me) for no reason. He was resentful that I refused BDSM or to emulate porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:46 PM
10

Amazing post... My ex literally tried to dominate a fish... Long story...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:36 PM
2

I would never meet a guy at a bookstore again. I got sexually assaulted and I had to sneak out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:48 PM
3

I have something to say. But I'll get banned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:43 PM
1

It's been 3 years since I left. I still wait
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:04 PM
2

This is so sweet, I could cry 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:59 PM
10

🌞 I still keep a lookout just in case
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:15 PM
36

He won't come back. I called him out on his narcissism. I also shut down his gaslighting campaign. I blocked him and his family anyway. My people know about everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:46 PM
1

I learned the hard way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:20 PM
1

"Ladies with zero self respect.. Come get it..." I hope the dog isn't being mistreated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:12 AM
26

You and I both. We didn't deserve that treatment 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:54 PM
4

I was forced to swallow many times. In no way have I ever felt empowered afterwards. It was utterly disgusting.. What gaslighting bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 11:47 PM
19

My lack of sympathy for men in general is now justified
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:46 PM
9

😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:25 AM
69

Guys bitch about not wanting to date single mothers until they're blue in the face. Funny thing was all the likes I received were all single fathers. I am no longer available. Unfortunately for them, I am not willing to sacrifice my childfree lifestyle for some mediocre dick and his spawn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:01 PM
10

"I am a vector for disease. Are you kind enough to let me spread my diseases to you? No? Your standards are ridiculously too high!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:10 PM
6

As the sweat falls in the lady's eyes to add insult to injury... Personal memory of mine. It's not worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:24 PM
7

I have rarely used online dating apps in general. I always felt like it's literally a meat market. It's revolting and I never stay long. I won't return. Don't put your head on the chopping block... Please...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:47 PM
10

"I'm a narcissist.. Feel sorry for me. I'm retarded... Feel sorry for me." Go to hell..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:30 AM
6

Never again.. never again..👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:41 PM
9

Oh, that hurts to hear that you had to endure that. I'm so sorry. I wish I could hug you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:50 PM
6

What about? Their exes? Forget that..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:29 PM
11

You know, it could explain why I feel uncomfortable while receiving gifts from anyone since. Gifts = abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:29 PM
19

It's hopeless. Seems the older they get, the more manipulating they get. I used to be frustrated about it. But these passed six months, I am beginning to not be attracted to men anymore. I don't care what they look like. I just avoid talking to them unless absolutely necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:26 PM
24

They don't want to date. They just want to screw us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:20 PM
1

This is so embarrassing..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:38 PM
17

Yeah, it's like they are training dogs. The ex would "reward me" with gifts (dog treats) if I degraded myself enough for him. Sometimes he would gift and expect me to degrade myself in return or I am selfish and ungrateful. Fuck that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:37 PM
33

It's why I don't date either. There's zero incentive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:18 PM
16

It's sad that they enjoy it. I would become angry and put up a fight. Nobody man handles me without retaliation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:48 PM
62

I won't ever again. It was a terrifying trap. Never never never again...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:38 PM
2

I most definitely will :D Thank you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:35 PM
2

Wonderful Queen 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:15 PM
4

Congratulations on your 3 months into your journey. <3 I have great respect for you 👏 Your self awareness and taking the responsibility to change is inspiring for me. Keeping doing what you are doing! It's amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:31 PM
12

I literally shivered. I would never drink around men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:14 PM
27

Those poor keyboard warriors. They don't realize that if this sub makes them so angry, they are part of the problem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:48 AM
50

Don't forget beastiality, Incest, mass murder.. etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:35 AM
1

Same here.. I'm sorry this is a thing. My dad and grandad wanted me to be a boy. They tried to dress me up as a boy as much as they could get away with. I get body dystopia at times. It just sucks that women are made to be ashamed of themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:11 PM
5

D: I hurt my neck reading this....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:49 PM
7

🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:33 PM
7

Yeah, men are broken. No incentive to be with any of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:45 PM
28

He wanted me to comfort him after he FINALLY admitted to getting back on cocaine. I did no such thing. He knew it was over and desperately tried to trick me into staying. He didn't sound sad as he left a voice mail after coming home from work to my stuff missing. No fucking relationship is worth dealing with an alcoholic/drug abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:44 PM
3

Thanks for your support :D I have been thinking that if I give up, then he wins. I am determined to shed the feeling of being filthy and worthless. Even though he used me, I made it stop. I am still who I am, maybe a bit better. He won't win. We never lose our crowns 👑 ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:26 AM
5

It's okay. It's a learning experience. I am probably not missing out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 11:44 PM
12

Not true for me. It made "sex" worse. Probably because the majority of it wasn't consensual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 11:21 PM
12

I hate it when they do that. I used to be a hostess for evening socials at a hotel. It bugs me when men flirt with "I like a woman who cooks like you." " When are you coming over to cook for me?" "You cook good, you must be married right?" I could only cringe inside as I wouldn't be allowed to tell the guests off if they were flirty. It was an ultimate test of my patience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:39 PM
5

This is why I don't even look in their general direction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:17 PM
4

What he actually meant by 50/50 is actually 90/10. You are to give 90%. I think the guy would be generous to even give 10%. Apparently, even that is too much to ask..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:12 PM
9

He tried to hide it with his anti-homophobic attitude. What he doesn't realize is that's what got me to suspect that he could be in the closet. Also when he would ask for anal sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:37 PM
11

Because it doesn't benefit men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:37 PM
9

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:01 PM
7

Yeah, it's definitely bad news. I now know better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:54 PM
6

Thanks, hugs heal all :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:52 PM
13

Well, he was 5' 2" with mommy issues. Maybe that has something to do with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:51 PM
11

I would too at this point. I won't be guilt tripped into thinking otherwise. Let them get mad. Who cares anymore <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:46 PM
25

I know right. He "resented" the fact that he apparently is attracted to women. Even though he comes off as a closet guy to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:43 PM
14

.....in a dream he had....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:02 PM
20

Exactly 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:58 PM
72

He's not. He used to complain to me about how "unfair" it is that women hold sexual power over men. He had a tendency to use misogynistic language whenever something in life wasn't going his way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:55 PM
28

Fine, I'm a prude. It sure beats sexual abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:51 PM
125

I am fighting not to cry. "We have to do this so you won't be this way!" It's one of the things he said while raping me. Now I have zero sympathy for men who get offended by posts like this. "NOT ALL MEN!" I have to avoid you all together so you won't be this way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:41 PM
8

I want to break his nose..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:13 AM
12

XD XD I really need to laugh. Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:07 AM
3

Same here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:12 PM
3

At least make up some names for these women. Exhibit A and Exhibit B sounds like a science experiment on rats...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:39 PM
17

This makes me want to toss a bowling ball at him. I'm worth hurting for... prick..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:43 PM
3

Good thinking. To hell with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:42 PM
3

Wow, instant breakup if it were me. No way is poisoning your partner is acceptable.. Forget the dishes. Hit the fucking road prick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:15 PM
21

Been there, done that. I don't tolerate overly attentive nice guys anymore. I am not falling for it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:17 PM
2

He has mommy issues. He was using supposedly his crazy bitch cousin (who I never even met) and sister to threaten me with. "They'll beat your ass for treating me like shit." I'm still waiting. I'm still waiting to get served a lawsuit too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:01 PM
3

I am not carrying any mf's legacy. They can go fuck themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:00 PM
7

Fortunately he made that up. I can tell. He was trying to embarrass me so I would start acting how he wants. Too bad it didn't work. He was realizing I wasn't falling for it and that's when the death/suicide threats started.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:53 PM
2

Yeah, I just couldn't figure out what to do it fake it. Then I figured, it's shit so he should know. Didn't matter because he didn't care. I would cry and he figured it's normal for me. Then he would complain about it and make up lies about telling his family and they would be "outraged" for him. Really? He "quoted" them by telling me they said: " How dare she not make noise. Who does she think she is?" What a pathetic attempt at trying to embarrass me. Too bad I slammed his head into the wall w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:53 PM
36

I never faked a single orgasum. How do you do that? How ridiculous and embarrassing. If we don't clean, we will end up living in squalor. If we don't cook, we'll starve. We can't rely on men for shit. They shouldn't bitch about paying rent either. If it weren't for my additional income, he wouldn't of qualified to sign the lease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:58 PM
8

Oh my goodness... I just recently had to get rid of my copper iud after 5 years of having it. Good thing I am single. I am glad you were able to have your choice of sterilization honored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:48 AM
56

I am glad you escaped that vile monster. Please know that you deserve better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:14 AM
6

Thank you 😊 They are angry because they aren't getting their way as easily anymore. They are are owed something for being born male. I`m open to chat, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:32 PM
9

Thanks, I appreciate your support <3 I am doing okay. I may need to consider therapy sometime to let it go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:59 PM
28

Don't pity the fool... gold chain flashes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:16 PM
38

My ex tried to force me to get pregnant numerous times. I am glad he failed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:13 PM
23

It probably will happen to him. Who knows. If karma is real, I sure hope it bites him in the ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:54 PM
102

I am going to be blunt... I was anally raped before. NEVER IN MY LIFE WOULD I EVER.... volunteer to participate in anal sex. It is the most degrading, humiliating, painful, confusing thing to experience. It made me wonder if he was gay. If my vagina isn't good enough for you, go away and die dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:01 PM
58

Don't fix what ain't broke. I suggest staying single. It's hopeless anymore. It's just not worth it in my opinion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:04 PM
9

Get the hell away from him. Please be safe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:44 PM
10

Why does he even bother? It makes me sympathize with them even less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:42 PM
6

I am asking myself the same thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:36 PM
7

I never been married. I don't think I will start due to the "incentive" of being responsible for the guy's dick for the rest of my life. No thanks dude. Use your hand and stfu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:30 PM
6

I want to just turn inside out and go extinct after reading that... Implosion... that's the word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:55 PM
11

Jesus.... My ex was 5' 2" and I am not much taller at 5' 4". He just would not stop telling me these fabricated stories about how he'd "mow down" men at 6 foot something. He would say that he wouldn't hesitate to beat people or even murder them if they pissed him off. He would go as far as starting altercations with strangers in front of me in public and give me the silent treatment if I wasn't impressed. He'd threatened to kill me and my family multiple times if I dared to piss him off for what…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:43 PM
9

I am literally feeling nauseous at the thought. The ex was the same way. The ex's father expected at least one grandchild from me. More was preferred. I am childfree as well. I let it be known before we got together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:35 PM
13

I was called a R**stie for having one partner. I don't know what I would become if I get any more partners. Too bad there's zero incentive to "get laid" to find out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:15 PM
5

I feel the exact same way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:12 PM
318

That's what they get when the call us "Holes"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:44 AM
4

I am crying...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:08 PM
62

Ew..... 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:59 PM
24

In his fucking dreams. I better not say anything more before I break a rule...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:33 AM
27

Covert narcissism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:52 PM
5

I want one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:03 PM
5

This is what my ex's father told me while the ex and I were heading to the airport for home. This was a few months before I left the ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:06 PM
1

I freaked out at first. I am glad we're good :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:28 PM
2

Thanks for your support. I'm sorry about your experience 😔 Did you report them? That's totally unacceptable treatment. I would avoid them at all costs. We don't get Healthcare to be violated. I lucked out and got very good treatment during my visit. Now I am recovering. Thanks again fellow Queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:41 PM
3

I went from overweight to super skinny with my ex in 2 years. They are killing us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:28 PM
5

I want to thank everybody for your support and helping me calm down before my appointment :D I got through it and now I am sore and sleepy 😴 You guys rock!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:17 PM
2

Thanks for your support <3 I appreciate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:10 PM
2

That's a great idea, thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:09 PM
2

Awesome :D My doctor was impressed during my insertion. Hopefully I will do just fine. I am sweating in the parking lot waiting lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:04 PM
5

I'm sorry she treated you that way 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:03 PM
2

I'm glad it wasn't as painful to remove for you. Almost time for me :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:54 PM
19

Oh dear god. Sorry that happened to you. He is a massive douche canoe... Hate-fucking is not hot or cute. He's a pornsick freak. FUCK THAT... Good riddance to him. The trash took itself out. I love that :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:47 PM
3

Being in charge is fun :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:16 PM
3

Oh shit, I'm for a smear too.... Oh well... lol 🙃 I'm going to treat myself with a nice nap and maybe some chocolate or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:13 PM
3

Yes, medical stuff is scary no matter what it is. I'm so ready to get this over with now lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:46 PM
8

Thank you, this is helping a lot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:45 PM
14

Yeah thank goodness 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:13 PM
17

I often wonder if it's something in the air or water. But no, it's in their inherent nature to be this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:55 PM
11

💯💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:46 PM
16

Yeah, he's proud of it too with the trophy imagery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:41 PM
16

Thanks, me too. I still need to heal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:39 PM
22

Fun moment that was....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:06 PM
12

It makes me want to trust men even more 🙃🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:31 PM
30

They think that we hate them while longing for them as they do for us. Thing is, we hate and don't need or GAF about them. They can impose themselves onto us until they're blue in the face. It'll just make us hate them more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:29 PM
18

I know right? "I am an asshole because my wife is done with my evil bullshit" mic drop The audacity...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:24 PM
22

Good thing they aren't mind readers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:07 PM
37

I think they get off on that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:57 PM
80

I finally yelled that he hurts me. He acted confused. I then asked him if he noticed that I was crying? He replied, "But you always do that" Glad you noticed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:56 PM
4

This article expresses my feelings 3 years ago before I decided to leave him. 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:43 AM
36

You are my hero ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:56 PM
36

Thanks for your support 😊 Hopefully we as women will increasingly become more concerned about our well-being rather than society's expectations. It's further proof that society still doesn't favor women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:07 PM
150

I am very triggered from this post to be honest. It reminds me of the realization of what was happening to me by the end of my relationship. It was what I feared would happen to me if I decided to get into a relationship in the first place. I should have stayed a virgin at 29. But I had the thought in my mind that I need to lose my virginity by 30 or I will be behind in life. It's silly to believe that.. I know.. I just still feel a bit of sadness about it years later..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:45 PM
9

The more I watch, the more pissed off I get. DM sent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:57 PM
28

This reminds me of an incel on YouTube. He's telling his viewers that the therapist he stalked was the problem. "If she was just honest and told me that I am ugly, this wouldn't of happened." If dating is going to cause this much stress and paranoia, I am officially out. I do not have a single dating app on my phone and I will not redownload them again. I can't even see the humor in this. It's pissing me off more than it probably should. Maybe men should fear me, because I will zap somebody's as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:52 PM
3

I don't want anything from a man anyway. They expect you to suck their dick if they gift you. I'll pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:41 PM
31

I'm going to hug the hell outta that spike ball.. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:17 PM
39

💯💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:16 PM
12

I feel the exact same way as you do. I will not bring children into this world. It's just not happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 04:29 PM
23

But then they have rough fingers... DX I was lucky enough to have 3 horrible orgasums in 2 whole years. They were by accident and it was embarrassing haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:30 AM
7

Men seem eager for attention from us when we are taken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:07 AM
12

Avoid like the plague. These guys are the ultimate worst. I am terrified for you having experienced that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:52 PM
63

I didn't lie. I was silent the whole 2 years. Fuck his feelings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:15 PM
16

Staring.. Turning his head like a praying mantis and giving this creepy smile and stare. "You're supposed to..." (what he expects all women to do) Random gifts outside of holidays. It means a fight or sexual abuse comes next. Moving the relationship too fast for you. I know there's more lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:12 PM
8

I will NEVER apologize for making a mistake that I learned a very serious lesson from. I am very inexperienced when it comes to relationships. But I am lucky to learn early on that men are constantly testing us to see what we put up with. Shut that shit down as soon as shit happens. It's that simple. Some men pretend to be nice early on. So the men she is apologizing to are possibly just as bad as the ones who plainly lay their true colors out on OLD. We don't need her apology on our behalf. We …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 10:29 PM
36

I'd say at about around 13-14 years old. Living with an abusive father and early childhood trauma that involved a man; gave me a head start. Relentless bullying from boys at school didn't help. I started dating one guy briefly at age 23. It lasted 3 months as I was not that into him. I didn't want sex so I kept things platonic. He broke it off. I have had male friends throughout school, but I think that was possible due to them not finding me romantically interesting. Early Jr. college those mal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:38 PM
2

It makes sense now. My ex used to tell my mom that other men were looking at me. It was just insecurity on his part. Glad they are our exes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:01 PM
8

I am fighting not to cry right now.. and I am not a romantic person 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:30 PM
2

It's so weird. I got from 175lbs (Biggest I have ever been) to 120lbs while with him. It was like a roller coaster ride
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:46 PM
17

Goddammit... lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:57 PM
10

"OH how dare you have feelings that I have to consider! I am going to gaslight you by telling you that you are This-and-that. All my other relationships weren't like this!" Yeah, because those relationships either didn't happen or they were with a series of blow-up dolls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:13 AM
133

They have it all backwards. I think it's proof that sex is more intimate and emotionally investing for women. Sex is just something for men to blow off steam and used as an ego boost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:59 AM
46

That's just going to end up being a date rape incidant and ghosting. No thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:52 AM
3

Lose the neckbeard girl...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:10 PM
27

That was a big mistake. My ex helped make me put on 30 pounds from taking me out and encouraging me to drink and indulge. Once I realized what I was doing, I took control and lost 45lbs whether he liked it or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:21 PM
36

Let's rage together : D He never wore it btw. He put it in the closet. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:05 PM
23

You're welcome 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:26 PM
48

Good riddance to him. You deserve way better than that. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:56 PM
63

That hurt my soul reading that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:43 PM
89

This reminds me of when I bought the wooden Ebony watch my ex has wanted for his birthday. I had it personalized and everything. I got "So, what is it like being a year older?" For my birthday. I was only gifted on Valentine's day. Fuck Valentine's day...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:42 PM
25

Me three, I am glad it happened : D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:17 AM
4

Sounds like a good idea. But lately I am reminded of how digusted I am with men in general. Their attractive appearance doesn't sway me anymore. Maybe it's because of my past experiences and lack of experiences with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:56 PM
7

How can they have friends at all? They are so rotten.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:15 AM
3

I must be fortunate as my ex troll hasn't tried to contact me again after I called him a narcissist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:43 PM
8

Was he a 5' 2" manlet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:04 PM
18

He's turned me off from men altogether
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:02 PM
31

On point number 1- My ex used to whine and complain about how "unfair" it is that women turn men on. Poor baby.. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:10 PM
15

Testosterone has really screwed with their brains
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:08 PM
5

Yes, it's profoundly disappointing....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:49 PM
12

🤢 Was he green like Frankenstein?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:30 PM
6

That's an awesome setup. Where do I sign?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:14 PM
11

Been there.... Whatever... lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:58 PM
13

....and they bitch when some of us prefer someone taller than us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:43 PM
3

I'm sorry you had to go through that :( Single for life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:39 PM
3

Those selfish bastards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 01:48 AM
7

Pretend like you don't want a divorce. Maybe he'll get that done lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 01:36 AM
6

I'm glad that you are okay <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 01:23 AM
3

Same here :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:03 PM
4

💯 Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:51 PM
3

At least we know better now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:34 PM
17

Same here. It's embarrassing that I put up with it for 2 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:47 PM
28

I feel embarrassed as I recall how unstable I got by the end of the relationship with my ex. I broke down so badly, I could only climb a flight of stairs on all fours. It was pitiful..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:46 PM
9

The only holiday my ex thought was worth bothering was Valentine's day. I hate Valentine's day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:32 AM
14

Next time they complain about never getting complaints, I will laugh loudly :D No matter what we do for them.. They are never happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:07 PM
8

What a thing to read first thing in the morning.. lol....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:04 PM
40

Could explain why they disliked compliments from me. They must of thought I wanted them but they found me unattractive. Never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:03 PM
31

"I can be a huge perv..." SAY NO MORE! 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:27 AM
8

What a realization that you are a dog.. Woof woof
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:47 PM
6

This is purely terrifying. Poor lady...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 06:42 PM
3

facepalm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 06:40 PM
16

They don't want to have conversations that concern us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:41 PM
11

It's because they need us more than we need them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:37 PM
11

It's so revolting of them to teach us to fear them. Then they demand everything from us. Psychos..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:08 PM
20

Oh no.. Be safe..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:02 PM
33

If you orgasum by accident, lucky you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:57 PM
79

Very true. That's when the punishments start happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:59 PM
13

Ex said this. Lesson definitely learned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:58 PM
225

Yes, but I'm not going to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:37 AM
36

No, seek professional help dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:52 AM
1

Sorry, somebody else posted this. I have to delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:32 AM
3

You beat me to it. I'll delete my post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:30 AM
3

Stop with the victim complex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:22 AM
2

I just cringed so hard that I now have a headache lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 09:57 PM
25

He hasn't contacted me again since I left 5 years ago. At least he knows I am no longer stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:05 PM
117

The health of a man's ego isn't our responsibility
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:42 PM
16

The last paragraph is a complete lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:16 PM
28

I'd rather just be celibate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:07 PM
4

I love it 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:55 PM
8

We should just stop having sex with men all together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 09:01 PM
8

Or... "Does it even matter?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:15 PM
1

Well said. Men are pervs. They used to make sure to creep me out at a hotel hostess job I used to have. I couldn't do a thing about it. Makes me resent them. If I am at the store, I try my best to ignore them. If they stare, I shoot a serial killer look. Some laugh, most fuck off. It's all I've got for now. I don't get looked at very often, unless I am not noticing. Next time I'll bring a taser...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:38 PM
20

I'd rather just pick what I want to be and forget what men think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:36 AM
21

Yeah, it's not fair. But it's life and unlearning the bullshit promotes growth I think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:07 AM
95

I went through the opposite? I was sexualized in a negative way in my life.. If the makes sense.. "You are ugly/gross" "Who would touch you with a 10 foot pole/even breathe on you." I might need to try to unlearn that I am not gross.. but not by ever trying to overtly sexualize myself if I decide to date again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:01 PM
1

Yeah, I definitely would. Him and my ex and other meanies in a small room. I'll make them think they won lots of money. I would pop the door open, throw the wasps, and lock them in. haha...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:13 AM
1

I would toss a wasp nest at him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:06 AM
1

It's evil evil evil...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 12:35 AM
3

Yeah, FDS is a great community to have <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:44 PM
3

Oh, they would fight to the death to preserve their egos. They are pitiful. Sad thing is, narcissism runs very high in my family. It's a nightmare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:36 PM
6

That is a good point. Narcissism is a tricky thing to try to fix. It may be possible to prevent the development of the disorder through proper parenting of our children. But what can we do with the preexisting problem?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:30 PM
8

We definitely are waking up... which is wonderful. But we need to be ready to handle amped up male rage. It's going to be an epic battle ahead. It's definitely worth it though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:04 PM
9

I was just thinking about something like this today. We need to figure out how to seriously start protecting ourselves these days. This is really going to get men dangerously angry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:01 PM
7

Seriously weird. Thanks, I am too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:00 PM
8

Yes, definitely. My ex even went as far as pointing out women out in the parking lot while we were out. "Just look at her. She walks and dresses like a real bitch." 💬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:23 PM
22

Sulking and the silent treatment can really mess with you. I became a complete puddle on the floor because I couldn't take the emotional/psychological torture anymore. First instance should equal the last instance of sulking and silent treatment. It get more and more horrible each time it happens. Don't fall for it. It's the trap of a sadist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:21 PM
16

We are domesticated livestock to be used
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 03:52 PM
57

They moan but take no positive action. They are negative asshats that crave our attention yet again. They are too lazy or apathetic to help each other. They are only offended because the word "man" is nowhere to be found in the article. They blame us for their lack of empathy in general. What a time to be a women. They're just mad because we are putting our feet down and beginning to do something about this bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 03:45 PM
54

It's proof that we have been taking over all of the emotional labor for far too long
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 03:41 PM
34

It's emasculating for men to help each other out or to seek help. They expect us to do it or otherwise we are evil and uncaring. I think they need to just cut that shit out and make a change. Or is that just too much for them? If women weren't there for each other throughout history, would we even still be around? Surely by now, men know that women stick together. My ex used to complain about it like it was such a bad thing. I just looked at him like he was crazy. He didn't like that very much. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 03:40 PM
2

It's okay, it was my first and only relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:59 PM
8

Lesson traumatically learned.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:15 PM
5

You're welcome <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 01:21 AM
7

Happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 12:37 AM
46

Can't uncook a steak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 07:18 PM
2

Sex feels good TO MEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:53 PM
2

Same, to my ex's dismay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:05 PM
2

I'm looking for my next victim to torture and kill. The next asshole will help me dump the body before I kill him.. Etc.. etc... lol That's what I would respond with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:42 PM
21

How vile. I'm sorry he manipulated you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:43 PM
11

They hope that we are stupid with bad memory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:42 PM
86

I would kill to be attracted to women sexually. But, I just... can't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:44 PM
14

We are in the same boat. But to hell with men. They bring nothing to the table anyway. We shouldn't put ourselves down because of how they treat us. They can rot in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:27 PM
2

That was good lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:15 PM
5

Sucks to be them. I am completely turned off by men shorter than me. I am 5' 4" and my abusive ex was 5' 2". He used to try to start shit with other men in front of me like I would be impressed. He'd make up stories about mowing down men up to 6 foot. Bitch please..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:12 PM
3

It's so creepy because you can guess what they are thinking... and it's nothing good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:52 PM
3

What's up with that? How can they get so gross?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:23 PM
2

He was a grade A asshole... :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:31 AM
1

XD XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:26 AM
2

That could explain my eyes rolling when a rom com is on tv
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:51 AM
10

Well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:33 AM
10

I would gladly lure him into a land mine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:20 AM
2

I need to bash his head in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:18 AM
5

Thanks for your support :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 10:08 PM
15

Thanks, it was going deeper and deeper into hell. Narcissistic people find it cruel when you break yourself off of their super ego. It's gross how they don't see us as individual sentient people. It's outrageous to them if we don't rehearse our lines and act out the roles they assign to us how they want. It's a shitshow. I'm glad you dodged a bullet <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:47 PM
10

Precisely what my ex was thinking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:33 PM
54

I personally dislike rom coms. They make me irritated and uncomfortable for some reason. Maybe it's like what you just said. Decent men just don't seem to exist. It just seems all fake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:30 PM
30

Emotional and psychological abuse creates more extensive, long lasting damage than some physical abuse does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 06:47 PM
42

Waves from the back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:04 PM
20

Emotional abuse for disagreeing with that prick? Fuck that.. He's getting an eternal silent treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:29 AM
24

I would rather die in the fire than be touched by "nice guy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:02 AM
20

He wouldn't even have the chance to breathe on my front door... trying to get in....? Not in your life buddy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:59 AM
3

You and I both..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:53 AM
53

If you need somebody to talk to, feel free to message me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:24 AM
4

He's trying to whore himself but failing. Nobody wants to pay a dime for his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:21 AM
5

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:00 PM
5

Yes, childfree is the way to be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:26 PM
26

Seems like he's a perv and jealous of her healthy relationship with her mom. He just has to push himself in between her and people she loves and cares about. He's an abusive narcissist. They makes their victims feel disgusting and selfish while attempting to isolate them. If plans don't involve him, it's somehow messed up without him. If he doesn't want to do it, he'll get the plans canceled or sabotaged somehow. It's all fucked up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:25 PM
10

....To the final 9th circle in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:54 PM
23

The last conversation I had was in my head. "Fuck you, you little drug sniffing troll. I am getting out of here!" All while he left for work before I started packing my shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:44 PM
11

I just keep my reaction to attractiom to myself. I leave a room where a good looking man is. He doesn't need to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:27 PM
11

"Not for eternity".. as I hit the bastard over the head with a shovel. Shut up men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:13 AM
16

You are definitely right about that. I refused to move in with him if he smoked inside. We agreed that he keeps it outside. After we had our first major fight at our new place, he started smoking in the bathroom. We fought about it and other shit. The next major argument, he started smoking right in the living room on the couch next to me. What a prick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:24 PM
65

This reminds me of a creepy and gross anecdote about my ex when he was suspecting that I was going to leave him. He left all evidence in plain view (when I came home from work one night) of his drug use. I guess he couldn't hide it anymore as I noticed the sudden weight loss and fidgeting. The following morning he admits to taking cocaine before I got home and that's why we couldn't sleep. He thought I was a sucker the whole relationship when he said "I have never lied to you... until now..." Pu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:44 PM
10

Yeah, it was crazy. I remember going to strip the bed and I was shocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:04 PM
33

My ex wasn't everything I found attractive, but he had good attributes physically. Sad thing was I found out how repulsive he really was once I moved in with him. He was a heavy smoker/drinker and a sneaky drug addict. You can simply tell who slept on each side of our bed. His side was always stained brown.. I guess from the nicotine he was sweating out. Don't settle ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:00 PM
13

"Where have all the women gone...?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:29 PM
28

Men have never complimented me... except the most evil little shit ever.. my ex. They can take their manipulative compliments and fuck off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:16 AM
37

Block everybody he knows and is related to as well. Friends may be lost... But it's for the best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:00 AM
2

My ex was Aquarius
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:39 PM
29

Just when us ladies try to meet people like the good 'ol days... It's just so dangerous just to be social with men. They have the audacity to act shocked when they terrorize us and we want nothing else but to run away. What should have happened was that dude should have been carried away to the looney bin while you sat at the table and watched.... Sipping a drink only for Queens :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 08:00 PM
21

When in doubt... throw it all out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:49 PM
35

That was one unstable mf... Bring a taser next time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:23 PM
26

Marriage is such a horrifying concept
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:17 PM
12

I would love the opportunity to pull an ax murderer vibe on him.. But.. the legal inconveniences get in the way....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:15 PM
12

It's because we are still around. The sad part is that we still tolerate their bullshit. Thanks to the emerging FDS, we are working to change that. Let me add... If women disappeared... lol... Men would go nuts and fuck each other to death.. BOOM! The total end of humanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:18 PM
12

The least they can do (while offering an incentive for us to have sex) is follow through and let us have a share of the cake. Men just ruin everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:57 PM
13

I thought the same thing with my first and only ex. It was so bad, that I am asexual now. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:47 PM
11

Hell ya! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:25 PM
35

I hope his dick falls off. That revolting prick. I'm sorry you had to go through that. It sucks that it was your first experience too. You deserve so much better 💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:18 PM
13

"Yes, I know what you are... A PIG IS WHAT YOU ARE!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 01:32 AM
9

Those are great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:54 PM
22

This brought me to tears.. Beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:53 PM
6

Awesome! Yaay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:14 PM
5

Yes YES YEEESSS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:11 PM
6

You could make a great business on Etsy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:03 PM
6

These are amazing :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:00 PM
1

🥰 I am glad I found this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:42 PM
9

What an evil bastard... The nerve. Sorry that happened to you. 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:44 PM
10

"I need somebody to be the adult on my behalf.. I'll buy you tacos!" Oh I am sold....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:41 PM
10

I'd rather be dead right now..... 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:39 PM
11

....WHAT....?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:37 PM
5

He's not getting shit from us with that attitude...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:21 PM
2

I send hugs because we need more hugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:20 PM
11

I want to shove this guy into a furnace. What the hell man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:09 PM
33

Is she with my ex? Poor lady. It's like we both went through the same thing. The last time my ex orally raped me, he busted my upper lip. That's when I pushed him into the wall and his head slammed into the headboard. He got a quarter sized hematoma on the back of his head. I was lucky that he didn't retaliate. She should dump him. All the tearing he's causing can scar up. It sucks that she decided to have a child with this prick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:04 PM
17

It's taking a lot for me not to just cry for the rest of the evening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 01:52 AM
3

I would cook food at my hotel job. I think I know why I would get an occasional flirt from a guy. Particularly if the food is bomb. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 01:17 AM
7

You are right. Those trolls just insult us to pretend to feel better about themselves. Their self loathing makes for some miserable freaks. Now that's ugly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:30 PM
5

Thanks, I hope I will too. We are all beautiful. At least we don't look like trolls like some guys do.. XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:27 PM
5

It's okay. Hopefully I can accept myself and see the good in not being as noticeable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:25 PM
1

This reminds me of how things were with my ex. I was coerced into sex almost daily. My mind included it into a To-Do list to make him happy. Occasionally I would "prep" myself for his initiation and he'd say no. I must of acted too relieved at his rejection because all of a sudden he'd change his mind. I would tell myself to try to act convincingly disappointed. Apparently I failed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 10:56 PM
17

I never had that power. As I approach 40, I definitely never will
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 10:31 PM
8

Oh! lol I remember now. XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:40 PM
10

It went over my head.. But you are always welcome to stay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:33 PM
29

It's about time FDS showed up. Society needs an enema
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:18 PM
16

Excuse me... I'd rather be dumped for being broke than not "putting out"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:10 PM
1

Anything men do makes my heart sink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:31 AM
2

Childfree for life! ✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:16 PM
24

Porn inspires men to reenact rapey scenarios and power fantasies. That dude is lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:44 PM
3

I am DEAD! LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:29 PM
12

🤣🤣🤣 I can't bring myself to date another man shorter than me again. I am still struggling through the trauma that little shit put me through
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:56 PM
16

I'm 5' 4". This guy was 5' 2". He still could pin me down. I was tempted to light his hair on fire lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:17 PM
28

Thanks, I hope he hooks up with female serial killer that targets short dudes... LOL I like your username btw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:22 PM
42

Same, I was silent for the entire two years. He would complain about it. Then he proceeded to call me a bitch for not enjoying his daily rapes. Then he trapped me in our bedroom and forced me to tell him what I liked. I just picked the least painful position in my mind and told him that to get him to back off. He was my first and probably last man I've been with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:10 PM
1

Thanks, you too :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:07 PM
5

Thanks for your support <3 I really appreciate it. I think lockdown has me marinating in my dark space a bit too long. I just need to learn how to enjoy life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:25 AM
15

The odds are so fair against me that I have accepted lifetime singledom. I am just too disgusted with men to even feel any attraction to them anymore. But, I hope you find somebody high value and perfect for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:34 AM
52

dies for the day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:36 AM
65

This hurt my heart, but it's the truth..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:34 AM
20

I am glad that you honored your instincts. You knew he was bad news. Now he can't hide it now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 06:04 PM
9

He was asking for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:37 PM
72

Don't let that fool you. I received those things (Including the giant teddybear) and he turned evil once I moved in with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:54 PM
28

He'll beat the rose into the next victim's face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:41 AM
21

My thoughts exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:41 AM
14

I can taste the bitterness years after seeing his post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:37 AM
12

Men don't chase unattractive women. I am not very attractive and 99% of my life I was picked on or ignored. The last 1% was with an abusive little shit who used me to pass the time in a new city. I am at the point that dating doesn't seem appealing or needed for me personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:20 AM
19

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:04 AM
7

Me: "I was crying while you hurt me!" Ex: "But you always do that."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:28 PM
58

Men aren't capable enough to use birth control as it requires common sense and responsibility
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:09 AM
5

Sign me up XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:16 PM
3

Oh.. She's still ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:41 PM
0

She is too gorgeous to have her standards crawling. C'mon girl.. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 01:39 PM
8

First date idea.. Soap, water, a fucking scrub brush, and I pull a disappearing act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:25 AM
7

Thanks for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:20 AM
20

I like to shave personally. But when I was with my ex, I refused to shave.. I just trimmed it. I wanted a little bit of protection as he frequently hurt me as he was forceful all the time. Didn't save me, but psychologically it was a tiny bit rebellious against his demands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:19 AM
7

There are 5? Really?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:12 AM
12

Been there, done that. I had "sex" with one asshole and am put off of sex for life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:11 AM
10

I'd rather be alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:34 PM
32

Raising another man's kid is just too much for their little egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:28 PM
58

"Hey I fucked up.. Wanna pick up the pieces?" Most certainly...NOT... Most of the likes I received on OLD were single dads. The "Childfree" specification on my profile must have attracted them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:19 PM
15

We also use the buddy system for our safety
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:09 PM
156

It's funny how men consider single mothers as trash.. Then this asshole comes along and demands an on call nanny. We should shame single fathers more. See how they like it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:02 PM
2

That dude is projecting quite a bit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 04:58 PM
7

At least he's upfront about his depravity. The trash takes itself out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 04:55 PM
48

He'll be back at it some other time...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 04:06 AM
8

That's what I will start calling them from now on <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:23 AM
5

I wouldn't give a fuck if that guy thinks I am close minded personally. I would gladly push any pedo into a pit and set his ass on fire. That's what I think about pedophiles. He seems to be one himself. He can eat shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:23 AM
53

Prickcels have pedophile tendencies. A girl that is a day past her 14th birthday is considered too old for them. Too much anime porn and not enough sunlight.. Pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:03 AM
1

Hopefully she will realize that he's not worth shit and actually leaves him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:04 AM
41

C'mon dude! What's the matter? Don't like the taste of your own medicine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:51 PM
31

This brought tears in my eyes. This is incredibly sad...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:45 PM
89

Single fathers have the audacity to post on OLD. Women don't complain about it nearly as much as men complaining and hating on single mothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:27 PM
14

It's very unnerving when they go from 0-100 before the pin hits the ground. I just can't handle it. That's why I am still single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:35 AM
24

What the fuck just happened...? I don't want sex ever again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:40 AM
13

Make your own fucking coffee.... Dickhole.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:04 AM
3

Exactly.. I never thought something like flowers would make me uneasy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:24 AM
22

I hate flowers now. My psychotic ex used to buy me flowers regularly except he ignored my birthday. Only Valintine's day and whenever he felt he was planning to rape me. I would try to communicate to him about how badly he treated me. He said "Am I really an asshole? I buy you these nice flowers and gifts." Before leaving him, I figured out that whenever he gifted me, it meant I was about to be punished. Another instance was a man staying at my hotel where I worked. He was creepy to every woman …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 11:56 PM
12

You and I both. hugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:08 PM
6

Absolutely made my daaaay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:33 PM
30

I don't want to throw up.. I'll imagine death instead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:43 PM
21

This killed me.. XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:42 PM
2

Well said. I am still working through my feelings about it. I pretend like it doesn't hurt to be ignored.. but it really does. I finally gave a man a chance when he initially put in a lot of effort in courting me. He turned out to be an abusive monster. As a result, being ignored has brought me a sense of relief. It still sucks though. Carefully observe the attentive ones. It could be all a game to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:49 PM
2

Is it a good thing or a bad thing in your opinion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:38 PM
16

I get ignored the majority of the time. I should count it as a blessing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 02:26 PM
9

Hahaha definitely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:16 AM
41

"Casanova" is seriously trippin' with his Peter Griffin chin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 01:52 AM
8

I rarely wear makeup. I think it makes me look older than I am
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:33 PM
3

I am doing that from now on. Or if they tell you how "nice" they are... Just reverse the statement in your head while blocking.. :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:29 AM
10

"I'm an asshole...." Tell me something I don't know...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:59 AM
3

At least the mf is honest....... Honestly disgusting..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:50 AM
4

Sorry buddy.. The unicorn "magic" isn't there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:44 PM
3

"You are so adversarial" That's a new one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:42 PM
3

I need this in my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:12 PM
10

He's as ugly as sin...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:30 AM
16

That's creepy as fuck...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:19 AM
24

Wow, that's amazing.. I might cry..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:08 AM
23

We don't even need to fuck a man to reproduce either. We can go to a sperm bank and artificially inseminate ourselves later. How's that assholes? We should just stop having sex with men. Toys work better anyway. If there's no good incentive to have sex for me, I won't do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 07:24 PM
109

At least he's getting attention.. So ungrateful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:34 AM
2

For me, moving in with my ex right away was dangerous. He went from a gentleman to something inhuman. He immediately bought and put up black curtains over all of the windows of our apartment to make the place look "chic". He felt secure enough to sexually abuse me regularly without the neighbors noticing. After I got myself out of there, that's when I realized why he felt it was important to black out the place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 01:48 AM
10

That was amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 10:33 PM
3

Dark humor at it's finest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 07:30 PM
3

It's okay. Blowjobs are revolting anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:33 PM
10

Same... I hate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 10:32 PM
19

Why am I attracted to anything with a penis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 10:28 PM
2

Something tells me... he made that shit up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 06:33 PM
25

I would love to get that guy in a corner.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:14 PM
53

Don't date me if you see me as a cum dumpster
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:42 PM
4

Thank you <3 I feel safe here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:37 PM
2

We don't have much of a chance these days. Sorry for the pessimism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:03 PM
31

I love it when the trash takes itself out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:37 PM
10

I am an A cup like the OP. One of the main reasons why I don't bother dating is this shit most likely will happen to me. So.. fuck that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:17 PM
19

I wish my sister was like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 01:44 AM
3

I used to question my love for my abusive ex. I felt terrible when my feelings never matched the text book definition of romantic love. But the moment that I came to terms with the fact that he never loved me made the guilt fade away. I am fortunate to not have loved him. I couldn't imagine how much more pain I would have been in. I could of done really stupid things. Love is a trap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:29 PM
23

I can't finish. I am literally about to throw up..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:04 AM
7

I have to feel weary of men who do those things. My ex brought me flowers and gifts all the time. I eventually moved in with him 6 months into the relationship. He turned our apartment into his sex dungeon. I hate flowers now..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:44 PM
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