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| 3 | Girl (maybe) losing interest after sex?LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:38 PM |
| 4 | Girl (maybe) losing interest after sex?...because a woman was interested in casual sex, but not in repeating what sounds like an underwhelming experience? Yep, we're all doomed. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:38 PM |
| 7 | Girl (maybe) losing interest after sex?Yes. It was a legitimate problem with an ex fwb. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:37 PM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?1-2x/week works for me. I usually do after work Wednesday and Saturday early afternoon. If I'm going out at any point, I'll do it right before instead. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 01:13 PM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?Microdosing (meaning a dose so low you feel zero effects, .1g for mushrooms, 1/10 tab for acid) is a little less obvious in its benefits than actually experiencing psilocybin/LSD: https://newatlas.com/science/psilocybin-microdosing-equals-placebo-clinical-trial/ This is why I recommend a slightly higher .3-.5g mushrooms or 1/5-1/2 tab, you'll get some effect without it being disorienting. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 08:53 PM |
| 2 | medication to help talk to girls?They're definitely not fake. I think /u/jaypb182 was trying to say that tripping balls every night you go out to a normal club is not a good idea long-term. But we're not talking about tripping, we're talking about a small dose which you could certainly do every time you go out. The long-term success stories people tend to have are NOT in a club environment. If I'm going out, it's a small dose (1/5 tab or so) where I feel good and function totally normally. If I'm working on internal shit, it's … | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?Equal to LSD in how "beginner friendly" they are. The practical differences are that they last less time (this is a positive, LSD lasts too long imo), are relatively easy to grow/make yourself, cost more, and are harder to store. That said, for me they're much less enjoyable. My body feels really heavy, I get really emotional, and if I take enough to get visuals they're very sharp and fast. With LSD on the other hand I'm really calm, and the visuals are sort of soft and slow pulsing/moving - the… | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Does game beat anything?I don't need to, your pictures are irrelevant. I'm not saying looks don't help, but they absolutely don't beat everything. As someone who put the work into go from trash game to decent, I do MUCH better now despite looking worse. Looks help a lot if you're bad at starting conversations and they'll get you leeway for some fuckups. But I were betting between a guy with average looks and great social skills versus the opposite, I'm betting on social skills. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?Whoever said that doesn't know what they're talking about. I've only ever done psychedelics and started with LSD. I've never even drank lol. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Getting phone number vs Getting Instagram?IG is 100% better than phone number, it's not even close. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Does game beat anything?This is outright untrue lol. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?A friend does .1-.3g. I prefer 25mcg LSD, but I just like it more than mushrooms. Also, more significant doses can help you sort out your mental/trauma shit. Just be cautious/patient if you're gonna go that route and don't go straight to 3g/1 tab. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:45 PM |
| 3 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meTLDR: You choose what type of relationship you have. If you want more than a ONS, act like it. So don't have one night stands. You're overcomplicating the fuck out of this. You tried super casual sex and found it hollow and unfulfilling? Great, stop doing that. I spent a few years focusing on this shit (semi-hard case) and have turned down every chance at a one night stand because I knew I wasn't interested. Instead, I've had a few semi-casual relationships in between serious, longer-term relati… | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Girl pretending not to like me? What do I do?From what you've written, yeah. It sounds she is or was interested in you and you're trying real hard to fuck it up. You're doing way too much "game" shit and it's turning her off. Even casual relationships need a balance attraction and comfort, but you've gone FULL internet pickup artist in trying to build attraction - despite it clearly being there. And since there's been 1. a clear attempt at manipulation on your part, and 2. no actual progression in the relationship, she seems to be rightful… | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps?Yeah, I'd highly recommend a local gym. They tend to be well equipped, fun, and filled with really cool people. Hell, the gym owner is now one of my closer friends and I've even found people to trip with there lol. That's fucking awesome, and a great example of turning a "failed" approach into a positive non-romantic/sexual outcome. I've made a couple good friends out of approaches that ended up being coupled, and had a really important short-term relationship with a friend of a friend of a girl… | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps?In short, venue matters. This would have been a lot harder to do at Planet Fitness or 24. But think of this more as a story of turning a hobby into sex than having sex with a girl at the gym. I go to a locally-owned gym because big box gyms don't have strongman equipment. Turns out local gyms are really friendly as well as being better equipped, so I talk to everyone there. When I saw her with the log out, we'd already talked a few times times because again I talk to everyone (and I thought she … | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps?My hobby is strongman, a weird strength sport with no team elements whatsoever and I managed to get laid teaching a girl at my gym how to log press. I'd imagine you can find SOME way to fit other people into your hobby, even if it's just finding some kind of a group to talk about it with. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do Pro PUA's still get rejected so much?Because women are still people. And people have preferences. They like and dislike different things, they find different things funny, charming, atd off putting. As do the instructors. So they (and hopefully you) approach someone who has one thing you like, looks. The whole game of it is how to best put your personality on display so that those who won't like who you truly are leave quickly, and those who do latch on quickly. You can try to learn more bland, generally attractive behavior and try… | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Why do Pro PUA's still get rejected so much?You noticed he listed Julien and Max, light? Two of the least technique-oriented people in the world whose entire focus is inner game, and generally attractive behaviors? | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Fwb help. Is she still interested or not?Hoooly shit is she uninterested. May never have been to begin with, who knows, but she's certainly not now. Let it go. | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Female lurker insight to cold approached and catcalling.Oh, so that thing that's not promoted here. Yeah, good call. "Hi, I thought you were cute and wanted to meet you." is different from catcalling or harassment, and is direct but certainly not aggressive. Also, if you ever happen upon a thread where some noob asks, "what do I do if she says she [has a boyfriend/isn't interested/literally never has time/etc.]," the answer is always "go away." To paraphrase my favorite coach, the only thing creepier than learning pickup/seduction is trying to approa… | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Daygame in BostonJust moved here, everyone seems super closed off during the day. Have you had much trouble because of it, or do you just ignore the headphones-in-staring-at-the-ground women? | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a 28 year old senior in collegeAre you in Boston now? I'm a 27 year old junior, so similar position. | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 06:28 PM |
| 3 | hey boys, sent my buddy some dating advice earlier -- figured it might help some of you out tooI fell into that hole for awhile. Some of it, like valuing brutal honesty, hard work, and to some degree stoicism, is fantastic. Sometimes good advice pops up, too. But the overall tone and ideology is so negative and unhealthy that all the goodness is lost. it's bleak and depressing, and in my experience, just wrong. I'm glad you got out of it, internet stranger. In case you're interested, Mark Manson wrote a great post that helped me get past the RP stage. Best of luck! | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 10:31 PM |
| 2 | I asked a girl out for the first time in my life. (Spoiler: Rejection)As others have said, massive respect for sticking to what you wanted and not settling. Keep it up, man. | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 07:08 AM |
| 1 | There is no cringe-free way to learn pickup, and there is no way to approach a lot of women without your ego being pulverised. Beginning to learn something you have no idea about is ALWAYS cringey: you would laugh at videos of yourself learning how to swim, how to ride a bike, or how to drive a car.I've got prescriptions for my ADHD and had bad enough social skills a few years ago that I considered getting checked out for autism. Tyler from RSD has openly talked about having Asperger's, and seems like it at times, but I can't speak for him. I wouldn't presume to speak for you, and I don't know your situation, but it was worth the effort for me. I remember things being incredibly daunting and good-enough-to-function feeling really far away when I started this whole thing, but getting to a c… | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 05:11 AM |
| 1 | There is no cringe-free way to learn pickup, and there is no way to approach a lot of women without your ego being pulverised. Beginning to learn something you have no idea about is ALWAYS cringey: you would laugh at videos of yourself learning how to swim, how to ride a bike, or how to drive a car.I'll jump in since s/he didn't respond. On one hand, you shouldn't value yourself on your ability to attract women, nor should you try to change core parts of yourself in order to do it better. On the other, many failed (and successful, to be fair) approaches have at least one thing you could have done better. For me, it means to think back on interactions, figure out what did and didn't go well, and for the things that didn't, figure out whether they were from a difference in values/interest or… | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Found this on Facebook.Oversimplified for time and to simplify the best case scenario, most likely. I agree, but it's largely nitpicking at this point. | /r/seduction | 12/07/17 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Found this on Facebook.Also American, caught that it was French on the first line. Do with that what you will. | /r/seduction | 12/07/17 06:00 AM |
| 6 | Found this on Facebook.It is. Out of the friendzone often doesn't mean you're dating the person. It means you sack the fuck up and ask him/her out, and be willing to end the (usually unhealthy) friendship if it doesn't go your way. | /r/seduction | 12/07/17 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Found this on Facebook.I can see the confusion here, and I wish fewer people would have downvoted you over it. In that instance, the teacher was talking about early on in the conversation, not overall. If you're funny/fun to be around, the person you're talking to will want to spend more time around you, whether friendly or not. If you show interest early on (hence the flirting/compliments), you're not immediately seen as someone who just wants to be friends. This doesn't mean s/he will be attracted, it means that s/h… | /r/seduction | 12/07/17 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Cassie Jaye should do a documentary on the release of "The Red Pill"Fucking hell, I was actually thinking she might have been unfair to feminists and there had to have been more reasonable footage. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/17 09:55 AM |
| 15 | Male uni students told to be more like womenWhile we're caricaturizing genders based on the behavior of a few people, can we force the girls into a class on how not to be emotional, bitchy cunts? | /r/MensRights | 19/05/17 09:53 AM |
| 1 | About a girl on TwoX talking about her abortion and the reaction of her boyfriendYeah, absolutely. I didn't mean to write it so that was left out. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Former French "Ministry of Women's Rights" renamed "Ministry of Equality between Women and Men" under Macron's new government [Link in French - Details in comments]I was taking OP's word for it at first, since he linked a source, but now that I've read it I'm a bit less confident. I'll maintain my optimism though, as I think it's a step in the right direction, even if it's a fairly small one. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 09:37 AM |
| 3 | Finished watching The Red Pill last night...wow.I never said I was surprised, I simply said that it grouped unrelated channels together simply based on the fact that liberals disliked them. Martin's channel is mostly lessons about finance and things related to it, Milo's is him being bitchy with tons of sources, and Fox News, aside from political lean, has nothing to do with either of them. But please do go on about how This Week in Finance has anything to do with someone "totally owning sjw cucks." | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 08:15 AM |
| 1 | If the roles were reversed would the outcome be the sameBefore anyone gets out their pitchforks, it's worth mentioning that a similar hold under the same law was put on a domestic violence case for Mustafa Bashir. Definitely not a white girl. https://thesecretbarrister.com/2017/03/27/was-the-cricketer-who-forced-his-wife-to-drink-bleach-spared-prison-because-his-wife-was-too-intelligent/ This, according to the website, isn't all that uncommon, it's just rarely interesting enough to be reported on. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 06:23 AM |
| 7 | Tries to make it about race... "Woman Who Stabbed Boyfriend Has Too Much Potential For Jail"Before anyone gets out their pitchforks, it's worth mentioning that a similar hold under the same law was put on a domestic violence case for Mustafa Bashir. Definitely not a white girl. This, according to the website, isn't all that uncommon, it's just rarely interesting enough to be reported on. https://thesecretbarrister.com/2017/03/27/was-the-cricketer-who-forced-his-wife-to-drink-bleach-spared-prison-because-his-wife-was-too-intelligent/ | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 06:19 AM |
| 9 | Former French "Ministry of Women's Rights" renamed "Ministry of Equality between Women and Men" under Macron's new government [Link in French - Details in comments]Fucking hell, that's pessimistic. The renaming will probably be unpopular, but they've done it anyway. Its new title is inclusive of men, and its current holder is vocally supportive of men's rights at least doesn't think men are evil, even if she's likely biased towards women. I'd call this a step in the right direction for sure. Edited after fully reading the source. Still a step in the right direction. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 06:11 AM |
| 3 | About a girl on TwoX talking about her abortion and the reaction of her boyfriendOh, I was confused at first as to why this was shared here. IMO, you should have blocked out her user name, but it doesn't really matter as the thread's easily searchable. Yeah, it seems like he wasn't given any sort of a say. Not even a chance to tell her that it's her choice. Every relationship is unique though, so it's impossible to say what the potential father's role is. Some of us don't believe that life begins at conception, and would be less affected by the decision. Considering that for… | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 06:06 AM |
| 9 | Finished watching The Red Pill last night...wow.Wow. Yeah, I wish she'd left it in as well. Also, I love the irony of the, "This is what men's rights looks like" chant. Because it looks like a few people who need police protection to talk about real, statistically proven problems they face while a crowd at least twice their size calls them rapists. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 05:49 AM |
| 5 | Finished watching The Red Pill last night...wow.This piling together with "the right" prevalent even in things like YouTube suggested videos. Since I started following Martin Shkreli's investing lessons and podcasts, I've gotten tons of Milo and Fox News coming up on my homepage. Same happened after watching some MRM videos. Even the people "trying to help" me find more shit to watch are (presumably) accidentally marginalizing it. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 05:43 AM |
| 4 | Finished watching The Red Pill last night...wow."Pastriarchy." 10 out of god damn 10. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else think this is bullshit?...I've been in legitimate nongendered public bathrooms, they had fucking urinals. You know the only thing that taking urinals out of nongendered bathrooms does? Make women wait for men to piss when they normally wouldn't have to. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/17 05:36 AM |
| 8 | If You Start To Humanise Your Enemy, You In Turn May Be Dehumanised By Your CommunityDo you really think that's more because of systemic sexism in hiring practices than individual choices based on societal expectations? Don't get me wrong, the latter is also a problem, but it's not patriarchy. And no one really knows what it means, because every self-styled feminist seems to have a differing definition, and yours is the most reasonable I've personally heard. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/17 04:04 AM |
| 4 | If You Start To Humanise Your Enemy, You In Turn May Be Dehumanised By Your CommunityRight, which is why his statement not to debase them 'because feminists' has so many more upvotes than those disagreeing with him or the comment he responded to. Total hypocrisy. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/17 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Probably the smoothest day gamer I've ever seenI respect his fearlessness and bluntness, but he ignored both of the women trying to connect with him and just pushed them to give him their number. Plus he didn't seem to have any excitement about the girls, despite giving them compliments. There's something to learn for sure, but I get the feeling he gets a lot of flakes. | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 11:50 AM |
| 1 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)There's a difference between ASD and actually saying no, and the times he pulled her places, it looked like he had to put some effort into it from what I saw, even if she eventually caved. I could be wrong, but this one doesn't look good to me. | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 09:36 AM |
| 9 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)It's just 20 minutes of him constantly pressurering an intoxicated woman who makes it very clear she doesn't want to cheat on her boyfriend. Sure, she apparently eventually caves, but between her drunkenness, his constant pushing, and his literally not letting her go (grabbed her and pulled her places when she was trying to walk away), it just doesn't seem right. If nothing else, this is not what we should aspire to. | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Night 3 report, got attacked..I got you bro. | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Night 3 report, got attacked..I'll concede to the point that the wording and liberal use of "fuck" makes it sound like I'm overreacting and defensive. I'm not, it's just a rather extreme situation, and I felt that colorful language might illustrate the incredible idiocy of your actions. Since it clearly didn't, and you've resorted to just putting a finger firmly in each ear while yelling, "White knight, white knight!" despite my explaining the logical reasons not to hit women in public (you know, so exactly what happened to … | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 09:57 AM |
| 3 | Night 3 report, got attacked..It's nothing to do with white knighting, she was a total cunt, and every single comment I've said has acknowledged that. Most of them have also said that he wasn't morally wrong, I haven't seen one yet that said he was. It's about the fact that hitting a girl, especially one that missed her swing, is about the dumbest thing you can do. There's no way that ends well for the guy, and the logical response is to do what's best for you. Plus, from a purely "pick up" perspective, so to speak, she insu… | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 09:47 AM |
| 4 | Night 3 report, got attacked..Okay, I'll bite. How can you possibly say I over reacted I got EXTREMELY angry for some reason (I let my feelings get hurt because I was actually making a lot of effort to talk to people and this girl was stepping on that) She threw a punch at me, missed, and I flat out elbowed her, and when her friend tried to claw me I grabbed her hair and threw her down. I've bolded the most egregious overreactions since you seem to be having trouble. Okay, back to it: I have never felt more depressed than I … | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Is there any similar books to "Models" by MM? On building confidence, being less needy and overall "inner game"?What I don't like about MM is that it works more on showing the girl she's not cool and that you are instead of making the girl feel beautiful coming from a place of power rather than the pethetic "please like me" frame. You've, uhh...You've got that backwards, buddy. | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 09:17 AM |
| 6 | An example of a girl that just doesn't know want to have fun. These are he hardest and I usually don't spend any time on them.I don't think there's anything wrong with your first message, though I haven't seen the rest of the context. You're right to not invest time, but you're wrong in the rest of your title. We just know she's not interested in you, that was immediately clear. I'm assuming the "rude" comment wasn't about your joke, and if it was, she probably doesn't care for your sense of humor. It's possible you said something wrong and the correct response would have been, "Shit, my bad, I didn't mean it that way,… | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 09:16 AM |
| 3 | Things to say when you feel awkwardhttp://www.girlschase.com/content/secrets-getting-girls-art-deep-dive Forgive the clickbait-ey title. I like this dude's website in general, and this article's helped me a bit here. | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 09:02 AM |
| 4 | Night 3 report, got attacked..Fucking hell, control yourself. I wouldn't say you were morally in the wrong, and she was definitely being a cunt. That said, have a god damn brain. You can be right all you want, but if you hit a girl in a club (or really at all, to be honest) under any circumstance, you're going to be in a world of shit. And what, you have such thin skin that a stranger says something shitty and you fly off the handle and ruin the rest of your night? Who fucking cares? The first god damn lesson of this shit is… | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 08:55 AM |
| 7 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)I've been semi-lurking, semi-contributing here for two years, and while I don't watch all the videos that come through, this is easily the worst I've seen. | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 08:22 AM |
| 15 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)Yeah. I fucking hate this video. This is the kind of shit that keeps people hating /r/seduction and grouping it in with trp, and no matter how much you say this isn't what it's about, here we are. I'm guessing 90% of the upvotes are people that haven't watched the video and are just mindlessly "supporting the content" because someone deigned to link an in-field video here. Fucking hell. | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 08:20 AM |
| 29 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)So you got a drunk girl to cheat on her boyfriend after 20 minutes by literally dragging her into a bathroom. Good for you, I guess. | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 04:14 AM |
| 4 | A girl happily tells you that she broke up with her boyfriendEhh, or she could have been lukewarm on the now ex and/or interested in OP. There's not really enough context here to make a good call, and even if there was, there's always a bias. I mean, the same thing goes: if he's interested, he should ask her out. If not, he shouldn't. | /r/seduction | 21/06/16 10:50 PM |
| 7 | How to become the man I want to be?Step 1: Ask "What is the man that I want to be like?" Make strong mental notes. Step 2: When maxing a decision, ask, "What would he do here?" Step 3: Do that. | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Start ignoring herDefinitely, just not on the women you want in your life. | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone know of any groups of guys that go and travel the world in their 20s?I've had a lot of people come back and say they were great. They post cool stuff on their IG all the time. | /r/seduction | 06/05/16 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone know of any groups of guys that go and travel the world in their 20s?It is. We work with them closely at my job, you can enly go if you're 18-35, they're fairly cheap (average <$150/day), and they have different types of trips based on how you want to travel and how quickly you want to move from place to place. Some are actually built around nightlife and socializing. It's rad, honestly totally worth doing at least once. | /r/seduction | 06/05/16 07:01 PM |
| 2 | A summary of my 14 years of experience in and out of the game.It just never downloaded for me. This worked perfectly, thanks! | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 06:57 PM |
| 2 | A summary of my 14 years of experience in and out of the game.It just says sending file. Any chance you could upload it to Dropbox or Google Docs and post a link? | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 06:04 PM |
| 11 | If you could ask a girl only one question to get her interested (in a non friend-zone way), what would it be?The idea isn't to not get rejected as much as possible, it's to attract and find women who will be interested as much as possible. The mentality of not saying things that are "easy to shut down" is wrong. Would you rather spend 30 minutes trying to convince a girl to like you, or 30 minutes enjoying the conversation with one who already does? Being direct and/or using easy to shut down openers is going to hook faster, or end the set faster. Both are good, because you waste less time with women w… | /r/seduction | 22/04/16 12:59 AM |
| 3 | [FR] 21 - Honesty and KinoI think I misunderstood his point. I thought he was saying you shouldn't be complimenting them, but he was emphasizing the generic compliment of beautiful. That said, something is better than nothing, your intent matters more than the words you say. Plus context is important, randoms on Instagram saying "ur pretty" is very different than a cool dude you've been hanging out with for awhile calling you beautiful. | /r/seduction | 21/04/16 06:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 21 - Honesty and KinoWhy? | /r/seduction | 21/04/16 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it justifiable for RSD or other companies to charge 3,000 dollars for a bootcamp?A lot of people have made good point, but I haven't seen this one yet: have you seen the size of their crowds? Go look at how many people pay for their hotseat/bootcamp. There's only so much time they can spend, so rather than losing out on quality (having too many people per instructor, hiring more instructors they're not certain of), they charge at a point where the right number of people will come. | /r/seduction | 14/04/16 02:40 PM |
| 1 | What to say when girl on my bed says, "I don't netflix and chill?"Seconding both of these. Pretty much everything you need. | /r/seduction | 13/04/16 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Every girl that I have dated successfully has told me the same two things...On a similar note, that's how interesting people find so much damn time to do things. You just do them. Work 40 hours a week? Cool, you're awake another 72, what's next? Gym time? Perfect, 65 left. School? 30 to go. Joined a band? Baller. I never understood how people who didn't watch TV/play games spent their day untir I started doing more interesting things. | /r/seduction | 13/04/16 01:35 AM |
| 2 | How do girls pickup other girls??Same concepts from Models apply for the most part. I've actually learned more from a lesbian than any other person I've met - honesty and comfort with yourself, your sexuality, your attraction to her, and whether or not she's interested in women/experimenting are essential. If she's not interested/says no/whatever, don't worry about it. She could still be a friend (hell, she could have a friend that'd be down), so don't get bothered by it. Not endorsing this method (never tried it, seems possibl… | /r/seduction | 27/03/16 11:05 PM |
| 4 | How do you maintain a strong frame when another guy comes into the set?By your logic, no one asked you. It's okay though, I used to have trouble staying in the lines, too. Just keep practicing, you'll get there! | /r/seduction | 12/03/16 02:00 AM |
| 3 | How To Be Funny - An In-depth Guide!Lol you're either funny or not naturally. Lol you're either good with women or not naturally. Lol you're either thin/fat/athletic or not naturally. Lol you're either a concert pianist or not naturally. Or not. I'll be off improving myself, you enjoy all your natural talents. | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Mark Manson's "Models" has been updatedThey're talking about Chase from GirlsChase.com. Great website, tons of specific information as well as some inner game. | /r/seduction | 24/01/16 01:09 AM |
| 3 | For those of you who may not think you're the best looking guy, look who Brian Baumgartner (Kevin from The Office) scooped up and married.To the people who are saying it's likely his money: I've read that Jack Nicholson is a legendary manwhore. With other famous women, even, who don't need his money and can easily find another movie star. So there's than. | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 11:45 PM |
| 0 | When it comes to being in an area with a high concentration of hot girls, can any area in the USA rival a college campus?Orange county is about an hour outside of LA, with the more desirable places being another half hour south. Not exactly in LA. | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 11:27 PM |
| 1 | How to get to a girl who's been always complimentedI understand what you're saying, and appreciate the thought that went into it, and I agree that we shouldn't compliment to get a reaction. That said, a compliment isn't always a bribe or attempt to get someone to like you. For me, I barely filter myself, for better or worse. So if I see something I like, I'll say something, not to get a reaction, but because it was a thought that popped into my head. RSD Julien has a great video on the difference between outcome independence and reaction seeking… | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 03:59 PM |
| 1 | I can never seem to seal the deal. How do I keep girls interested after the first few dates?I'm not sure. I've had a couple women wha I suspect lost interest because I didn't take a chance that was there, but I'm not 100% sure. Oh well. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 03:49 PM |
| 2 | What music do you play, once at your place with a girl?Same here, the dude kills it. It was fun seeing them play with Kurt and Jonny, too. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 03:48 PM |
| 1 | I feel that my good job and status make girls want to hold out sex in favor of dating me. Should I conceal my good life situation if I don't want a relationship?Glad I could help, brother. Go forth and slay. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 08:34 AM |
| 1 | I can never seem to seal the deal. How do I keep girls interested after the first few dates?If your coworker said you looked like her dream guy, called you amazing, and kissed you on both dates, why did it stop at kissing? Did you try to escalate at all from there? | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 08:20 AM |
| 3 | I feel that my good job and status make girls want to hold out sex in favor of dating me. Should I conceal my good life situation if I don't want a relationship?It's hard to guess with so little info about the interactions, but three main things stand out to me. Not enough touch and/or escalation. If you're not escalating gradually from early in the interaction, it's going to seem really abrupt when you try to get her in bed. Not enough comfort/non-judgmental vibe. If she thinks you von't see her as potential girlfriend material at some point for having sex with you "too early," she won't feel uncomfortable "giving it up easily." Are you too nice? Is it… | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 08:18 AM |
| 12 | What music do you play, once at your place with a girl?I once had sex to the CD Acceptance Speech by Dance Gavin Dance played on repeat three times. It was once of the best nights of my life. If that masterpiece doesn't do it for the girl (why is she even there?), I've enjoyed Banks' CD Goddess. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 08:08 AM |
| 1 | How to get to a girl who's been always complimentedI couldn't possibly disagree more. Our relationships at their core are defined by us giving value to each other, and making someone feel good with a specific, personalized compliment immediately provides value to the other person at no cost or effort from yourself. Please explain to me why that's such a bad thing. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 07:55 AM |
| 4 | How to get to a girl who's been always complimentedDo whatever works for you. A major part of the reason we talk so much here about how to properly compliment is that it stands out from the legions of idiots complimenting nothing but their body and eyes. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 02:15 AM |
| 1 | If a girl wants to bring another girl after I ask her to go to the movies.. does that mean more of a friend vibeShe doesn't think you're asking her on a date. Partially because you're not. The movies aren't a proper date. | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 09:06 PM |
| 29 | How to get to a girl who's been always complimentedI don't think he means to never compliment them. If you're going to cold approach, just say the compliment as the reason you're saying hi but really focus more on the interaction from there. The other thing is important to mention is, for the women that get complimented all of the time 90% of the time and some stranger on the internet sending some batshit retarded thing like, "ur pretty," not someone she already knows is a cool dude paying her proper compliment. | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here sober?Thanks, man. It was a good question, and I've dealt with it for years. | /r/seduction | 03/01/16 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Anyone here sober?Fellow addictive personality here, I've never drank and been dealing with this nonsense since high school. Learn about some good nonalcoholic drinks. My personal favorite (and vice at this point) is an energy drink (Red Bull and white Monsters/Rock Stars are best) mixed with pineapple, pomegranite, or orange juice. If people question you, just tell them you have an addictive personality and can't drink. If they don't back off, you have a lot of outs anyway. I'll typically just go with pure hones… | /r/seduction | 03/01/16 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Anyone here sober?Most of the time, "I don't drink" has been enough. People used to ask why a lot, but not so much anymore. The truth is, I have an incredibly addictive personality, and I'm not willing to risk becoming an alcoholic. Almost no one pushes past that, and if they do I'll generally say something to politely enlighten them on what a cunt they're being. In your case, an allergy is definitely a good enough reason. If they push you to drink, you can either make light of it (possibly something like "do you… | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 11:44 PM |
| 4 | CorporateLand: Start Selling NowMedical device and medicine sales makes absurd money. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 07:53 PM |
| 1 | What are the simple and good frame you people use?If you want to call it a "frame," amused mastery, since that's actually my personality. Think Raymond Reddington/Lew Ashby, but in my case much more sarcastic and loud. | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Hello, seddit. I'm a 26 years old guy, and i will kill myself in the end of this year. Seems like i have only two weeks to lose my virginity. So, what's the plan?I'm not gonna tell you not to do it. If you want to check out early like a fucking wimp, be my guest. But if you haven't got the game to lose it by now, you're not likely to lose it organically by then. I've heard two-week binges in Mexico are pretty good for your situation, maybe push back the big day a bit and get down properly before. | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 05:05 PM |
| 4 | This is how you respond to a girl when she talks about another guy infront of youThat first one sounds terrible. I'm partial to, "back off, bitch, he's mine." | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 05:01 PM |
| 5 | [FR] The way that I handled an argument with my LTR made her want to fuck meI don't think it's as bad as you're saying it. The same exact point gets across, but softening it makes it less explosive. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Would you date yourself if you were a girl?Note: don't hit on the girl version of Confluenced, no matter how charming she may be. | /r/seduction | 04/12/15 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Would you date yourself if you were a girl?I'm always up to something, I cant stay in one place so I'm always out doing interesting. How do you go about finding things to do like this? Maybe it's where I live, but I've had some trouble with it. | /r/seduction | 04/12/15 08:17 PM |
| 2 | When the girl knows you like herI've got a bit of experience in your situation (dealing with it now, actually), and I'd like to focus on something someone else here mentioned. Do not get needy. At all. Even a little. You should be escalating both emotionally and physically to some degree unless there's a reason you can't (boyfriend, coworker, whatever), but outside of that treat her the same. Don'n get fucking needy. That's all I've got for now, but it's incredibly important and easy to fuck up, trust me. | /r/seduction | 28/11/15 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Women. Are.Expensive.Nothing to do with advertising, that's a sexy car. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Uncle Vasya’s Guide to Submissive Women {NSFW-ish}I made a girl cry once because she had hairy armpits. Naturally, this was right after her indignant rant about how I've been socialized and trained into keeping gender roles alive. Damn right. Cry away, crazy chick. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/15 08:45 AM |
| 3 | GayLubeOil's Guide to Fixing the Jersey Shore BodyThat assumes a 40 hour work week, few jobs that pay like that are under 60. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 06:15 PM |
| 3 | "Don't Be Afraid to Dominate"Sounds good, I'd love to read it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 08:02 AM |
| 2 | [FR]Local Bar ONSSo true. One of my best friends is the worst at pickup, he's blown literally every set I've pulled him in, even after they'd hooked lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 10:33 PM |
| 1 | "For Those About to Propose" - post from an investment banker forum that I thought would be a good read for you allI think he's exaggerating a bit. I've read surrogate pregnancies go at around $100k, where the average wedding is $25k. If you factor in divorce, alimony, and any extra child support that doesn't go to the kid, I'm sure it's fairly close. The difference, of course, being that the surrogacy cost is up front. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Woman,25, used to go to sex parties and had tons of casual sex, now makes her boyfriends wait months for sexIt's been my experience that women looking for what you've described don't find sex positivity to be an unattractive quality. Of course, you'll want to calibrate to some degree, but it's rare that a woman nexts you because you don't hate/judge women for having a lot of sex. In truth, the ones who do care and/or actively judge "sluts" tend to be hateful people and aren't the type of women I'm interested. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/15 08:40 AM |
| 1 | "Nerdy" hobbies useful for meeting women: do they exist?This is also relevant: https://www.reddit.com/r/alpha/comments/1bio1x/public_disapproval_as_a_strong_proxy_for/ | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 07:30 PM |
| 6 | "Nerdy" hobbies useful for meeting women: do they exist?There is so much wrong here that I'm not even sure where to start. Nerdy hobbies aren't going to get you women. On that much, I think everyone here agrees. There has been a huge shift in gaming, the perception of gaming, and the amount of women playing. Magic specifically has seen a huge increase in female players over the last few years. Now looking at other games like League of Legends and Hearthstone, it's the demographics are even better. Sure, perhaps you can manage to learn enough game tha… | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Keep Your Goddamn Mouth Shut!Phrasing and presentation, goddamnit. You got them to agree with you twice on similar topics, your last one should have simply been, "so why is it that the victim can be partially at fault for getting robbery or physical assault, but not at all for sexual assault?" | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Woman disgusted when guy acts like a gentleman during their 'date'.I tried to read that, I really did. I skimmed four paragraphs and my eyes almost popped out. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 11:38 PM |
| 2 | How I picked up a 10You've put an impressive amount of thought into being wrong. | /r/seduction | 31/08/15 09:17 AM |
| 2 | How I picked up a 10You're on an entire subreddit devoted to the opposite of what you said, with people proving you wrong every day. The fuck are you even doing here? | /r/seduction | 31/08/15 09:14 AM |
| 5 | Real RedPill Men, I seek your advice NOW!You came here asking for the advice of the people who live the life and/or believe firmly in the message of this community. One of those beliefs is that your individual well being is more important than the well being of those who cause you harm and negativity, regardless of your relationship with them. That's the answer you were given, and you're unhappy with it. So instead of bitching at people giving you advice in line with the general beliefs of the community you're asking, take it somewhere… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 05:37 AM |
| 4 | 30 Day Challenge #2: NUTRITIONHeeeeell yes, I'm in. No caloric goal, keeping net carbs <40/day. Starting early 'cause Monday. Day 1: Exactly 40 carbs. Day 2: A little over at 50. Day 3: 47, gotta cut back a bit. Day 4: 50. Might want to up the goal, not sure. Day 5-7: International street fair is in town, see you guys Monday. Day 8: Great until I decided to binge on ice cream. Probably around 80 carbs, idk. Day 9: Back on track. 25 carbs, gonna kill this shit. Day 10: 55. Damn it. Gotta stop eating ice cream. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Woman Used Sperm From Oral Sex To Get Pregnant, Gets Child Supportif it works at all. What are you talking about? It does work. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/15 02:28 AM |
| 4 | Prenups can be overturned. Don't get married.Missed that, good point. Definitely doesn't check out, then. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Prenups can be overturned. Don't get married.PlHe was probably thinking 50k take home. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Simple, effective first date (with bonus F-close). Detailed step-by-stepReplace Sean Connery with Hank Moody from Californication Or motherfucking Lew Ashby. I wish he was in more episodes. Fuck it, I just want a TV show about Lew. | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 06:45 AM |
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