| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 885 | Not even surprised | MALE DEPRAVITY | suzy_ko | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 08:08 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | “The sex lives of college girls” a new disgusting HBO specialI mean… has anyone seen Naked attraction? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 07:26 AM |
| 55 | How many red flags can you pack into 1 profile? LET'S COUNT!I got an aneurysm reading this, did he not even read what he wrote before posting it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 07:58 AM |
| 15 | Asking a man for his zodiac sign can be a great vetting strategyI’m a Taurus, my dad is a Taurus (LVM), 3 of my friends are Tauruses, 3 of my exes are too (all LVM). Can confirm, fuck those guys! 😂 Not gonna lie tho, I can be quite lazy, too. Edit: there was another comment below about dictators and murderers being Tauruses.. I really wanted to be a dictator when I was a kid, I gotta look into this in depth, jeez. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 07:14 AM |
| -2 | I just saw the movie Mother! I hated every second.It’s ok, nobody gets Darren Aronofsky. The fountain is my fav movie of all time and it was such a box office loss. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 07:54 AM |
| 80 | This is why you don’t tell men you enjoy cooking 🤦♀️Legit, I’ve been holding grudges against men for wronging me and found weird they don’t sense my disdain. Then often found that they didn’t actually remember/realise they were complete dicks to me. They really all have main character syndrome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 07:33 AM |
| 31 | Pick-mes Who Try to Act Powerful or Like BossesI think it’s a type of cognitive dissonance. They don’t think it could be otherwise so try to frame their situation as the optimal. These women need help and support because there’s very little chance they’ll be able to break out of being a pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 04:26 PM |
| 6 | The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However….I was seeing a 28 year old with 2 girl bffs for 2 years 🤡🤡🤡 clown ass bitch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 06:02 PM |
| 5 | Don't tell men about your traumaI’m sorry, but I find it really hard to see the correlation between your title and the post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:13 AM |
| 8 | Men created the nuclear family and that's what destroyed society.Great post. I think small, self sustaining communities are the future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:54 AM |
| 9 | This is the worst I have seen 🤢The editing on this gave me an aneurysm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 07:34 PM |
| 228 | If you are confused about his intentions, read this. These are the words of men, describing how they behave when they love and respect their woman. Don't accept any excuses, ever!Bruh same. Now that I’m finally single and FDS educated, I’m never settling for less again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 06:39 PM |
| 143 | UPDATE: Newly Separated Scrote doubles down on his mantrum, hilarity ensuesThe thing is, he has his lil delusion bubble secured with male friend, pickme and mom, so he still feels justified. Just don’t engage, ever. Nothing will change their worldview. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 05:51 AM |
| 10 | What's everyone's MBTI type?Yes, and I’ve always found it especially difficult to understand my own way of processing things. I wish there were some resources online about being this way but I’ve not really had any luck finding it. Your comment is literally the first time I feel validated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 06:42 PM |
| 43 | What's everyone's MBTI type?I’m on the spectrum between infj and intj (f-t is always like 52-48% either way, whenever I take the test). It’s a cursed life. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 02:39 PM |
| 2 | The Body Keeps the Score and how trauma influences the people you choose to dateThat book is absolutely amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 07:36 AM |
| 28 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)His bloodline should be discontinued. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:34 PM |
| 63 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)Oh f*ck off. As if women are ice cream flavours, he wants to try them all. If he was an ice cream, he’d be shit flavoured. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:11 PM |
| 125 | Thinking about being married to any of my exes fuels my single hood🤢Literally, when I think of my exes, I’m happy to be rid of EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM. My life is progressively becoming better and better and it wouldn’t be possible if it wasn’t for their absence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:09 PM |
| 116 | I feel like women might be waking up to what this sub preachesInsert I can show you the world meme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:07 PM |
| 27 | A “real woman” and he isn’t joking 🥴What | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:27 AM |
| 27 | Case Study: A brief conversation with a LVMOmg, now I want to be asked for nudes so I can use this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 06:47 PM |
| 31 | LIMERENCE: How to Stay UnattachedNothing better than having this and compulsively seeking attachment with emotionally unavailable men. I’ve been here for at least a year but I feel I definitely need therapy too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 07:30 AM |
| 13 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 28 - Spotting Narcissistic Abusers (w/ Dr. Annie Kaszina) + The Bikini ThiefListening to it, I started to wonder if maybe I’m a narcissist, but it’s hurt me more as men tend to have much more rigid boundaries. Is there a surefire way to figure that out? Therapy I imagine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 02:15 PM |
| 6 | I used psychedelics to work through some stuff (k!nk and other trauma recovery), my experience:Psychedelics helped me overcome my own trauma that also lead to resolving pick me behaviours and forgiving myself for doing dumb shit when I was younger. If anyone chooses to go down this path, I’d recommend to immerse themselves in meditation, shadow work and inner child work first. It can be extremely challenging and I’d definitely not advise anyone dealing with mental health issues to just jump into it (then again, your therapist might disagree). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 07:56 AM |
| 3 | The F*ck boy hotline. See? Men know what they’re doing.I just got that 2 weeks ago after 1.5 years, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 12:00 AM |
| 25 | Could there be a more dumpster fire LVM tinder profile? I need to unpack with the FDS ladiesThis man is the list | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 08:19 AM |
| 28 | Accountability for Pickmeisha actionsSome pickme behaviours stem from trauma so I believe a tiny bit of leniency is advised in those cases (more like compassion and empathy). However, it’s everyone’s personal responsibility to work through their baggage. I can lead a pickmeisha to the river but she’s gotta drink from it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 07:43 AM |
| 7 | I'm devastated. TW Caroline's murderer was her husband.I thought it was the husband when I first read the news and saw the age gap. And guess where I learned that from? Yes, FDS. 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 03:51 PM |
| 192 | In case you had any remaining doubts about the male ability to devastate women for their own convenience and pleasureShe literally writes ‘forced anal’ and doesn’t realise she was raped. The lengths women go to gaslight themselves astonishes me. I hope those comments will wake her and she’ll be able to heal and not suffer from haemorrhoids her entire life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 06:23 AM |
| 33 | No Explanation NecessaryTbh honey is technically puke but I get you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 06:19 AM |
| 13 | FDS has made soooo many shows unwatchable for meSeeing how they would be like 12 at times that could be accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 06:30 AM |
| 10 | Justin BaldoniI’m currently binging Jane the Virgin for the second time. He’s fine af, although now I’m seeing Jane’s quite the pickme at times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:26 PM |
| 5 | Vidyut JamwalOh no, now I’m sad. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:24 PM |
| 114 | We absolutely are being bullied into having zero standardsI’m actually happy thinking about never having to sleep with LVM again (that if none of them can prove themselves), however, sexual assault still looms if they don’t get their way and that fills me with dread. Feels like we cannot win. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 07:44 PM |
| 21 | I got divorced today! 🍾🎊🎉Wooooo! 👏👏👏❤️👑🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 08:37 AM |
| 35 | I appreciate FDS for being one of the few places to actually be FEMALE ONLYFDS has changed my life and I’m forever grateful to have crossed paths with this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:55 PM |
| 32 | Comic fanboys being depraved 🥲I loved that movie so much! I was under its spell for days after and then learned that ppl were criticising it heavily. I didn’t understand why but then convinced myself ‘oh your taste must be shit’. Now I know that I let scrotes convince me that what I like is shit and I don’t have to change my views to fit their stupid lil world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 05:34 AM |
| 7 | Unexpected pregnancy?So happy for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 06:03 PM |
| 16 | When Simple Things Are Ruined By MenUgh this put me off ice cream. And men. (mostly men) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Not even surprisedOh my god! 😂 I’m glad you’re okay! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:41 PM |
| 6 | Not even surprisedYou’re really sweet and I’m happy you were able to get through it! It’s not my post though, I just found it on another sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 04:18 PM |
| 83 | Not even surprisedSecurity? Never felt as insecure as in 99% of my relationships (although that’s might just be an individual problem for my traumatised ass.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 11:36 AM |
| 292 | Not even surprisedLet’s not forget that the added stress of an unexpected breakup might even make her condition worse. I just hope everything works out in this lady’s favour and she gets to live a beautiful, scrote-free life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:18 AM |
| 62 | Not even surprised100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 08:36 AM |
| 88 | Not even surprisedI bet being her husband wouldn’t have changed the outcome much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 08:31 AM |
| 519 | Not even surprisedI like how the second mastectomy came up he dipped. Like ‘oh surviving means you won’t be my sexy woman shaped toy anymore? BYE!’.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 08:29 AM |
| 10 | "I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂I threw up in my mouth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 07:18 AM |
| 9 | What are physical insecurities that a man has drilled into you?I was told he cheated on me with a grandma cause I ‘wasn’t feminine enough’ and that’s not how he imagines a girlfriend. After a year of wasting my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 08:45 AM |
| 10 | Liberal feminism mind fucked meI am her, she is me. Happy for you, OP. Levelling up like a boss. Forgive your old self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 03:14 PM |
| 4 | I think y’all helped me manifest something!Omg yes, since I follow FDS, I got a new job opportunity, a new phone and my ex sent me £1000 as a way of saying he’s sorry! And all these things came into my life seemingly at random (even the new iPhone was half price). It’s like the universe is rewarding me financially for finally standing up for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenI like how they’re trying to make it sound like FDS is some crazy community but in fact none of the things on that list are bad. 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 09:11 AM |
| 5 | What do I need YOU for?Beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 11:01 AM |
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