svartfal Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Is it possible I can pay a girl to like me? Why do you believe other people said these things to you? Why do you believe they are true?	/r/seduction	18/09/20 09:21 PM
1	To the guys who got muscular, fit, or a Bodybuilder, did it help you with attracting women? I agree with the other comments: For most women the ideal body is more slender than men think it is. Something that conveys a healthy lifestyle and functional strength. Bodybuilder physiques can imply the person is high maintenance and/or narcissistic. Being fit has been a definite plus for me. Could be the side effects though. What I mean by that is, I know I look good naked so I carry myself differently which is likely more attractive than having the actual physique. There is more than looks t…	/r/seduction	21/08/20 12:37 AM
5	Guys, how to be confident In yourself when you’re balding & hairline receeding? You’re getting beautiful advice from these guys, to which I have only a small bit to add: I remember losing my hair in my twenties, going through the grief and denial, trying different haircuts to hide it. When it got too thin I shaved it off. It was hard to do. Within a few years I had stopped thinking about it. It was just the new me. Now, 20-ish years later I view it as a net positive. As many have stated the bald, bearded muscular tattooed look is attractive to many women. Just recently I wa…	/r/seduction	18/08/20 05:05 AM
2	Is it possible to be beyond help? 100% the dumbest shit ever. :) OP, Your brain is playing tricks on you. 21 is nothing. You could be starting at 30, 40, or 50 and still learn almost anything you wanted to learn. Or you could start never. Being late socially is a non-issue If you choose. At your age I was an slender, awkward, balding autistic super-nerd. Like you I had a dozen reasons why I’d be alone forever and was mostly resigned to it. Then caught feelings for a cute coworker and realized that: A) women are soft and smell ni…	/r/seduction	12/08/20 04:53 PM
1	How to project masculine energy if you're short and have a physical disability? Holy crap man, your Game of Life is set to Hard Mode. Good on you for playing to win. Find people who have overcome similar problems and learn from them. Here are some names to start: Dr. Sean Stephenson - a 3ft tall man with brittle bone disease Shane Burcaw - suffers from Spinal Muscular Atrophy And my favorite example: Jean Paul Satre, French philosopher. Here’s a description of him from “The Alabaster Girl”: “Sartre, for example, was renowned for his philosophy but almost more renowned for h…	/r/seduction	24/06/20 04:30 AM
1	Realistically, is there hope in the dating world for a guy like me? You’ll be fine. Nothing in your description is a deal breaker for women. You have a lot to work on, but what is the alternative? Everything you think is an obstacle to your dating is solvable. Some comments: 1) Your friends are juvenile. Who you hang out with is a massive part of who you become. Find better friends. If you struggle to make new friends, figure out why. Also, shared exciting experiences together make for rapid bonding. Once the corona-pocalypse is over if you attend a high energy …	/r/seduction	06/05/20 02:13 PM
1	Self-Improvement Tips? Where am I going wrong? There are personality traits, physical traits, ways of non-verbally communicating that combine with how you dress, look and talk that let people form an opinion of you within a few seconds of meeting you. Some people who are very smart, fit and competent can be intimidating. On the other hand, people with similar traits on paper but completely different body language and eye contact will appear meek, or boring, or whatever. From your self-description you could be either. Try asking some friends …	/r/seduction	12/03/20 01:40 AM
1	Self-Improvement Tips? Where am I going wrong? Your life sounds pretty dialed in. Congratulations! I’m sure there’s something you are doing or not doing that would be pretty obvious in person, but here we can only guess. Two things come to mind reading your description, kind of opposite but theoretically you could be both: You might be intimidating, in which case you want to work on warmth and humility. You might be boring, too nice, have no sharp edges. If you think this may be the case, consider taking up a hobby that is more dangerous..BJ…	/r/seduction	11/03/20 08:21 PM
4	If a girl jokingly replies "no" with a lot of emojis, that's still a NO or what? Some women flirt by busting your balls. The fact she’s spending so much time texting and teasing you sounds promising. Tell her “bring it on little girl! Thursday 7pm, you vs me”.	/r/seduction	05/03/20 08:19 PM
3	How to Start Improving My SMV I’m proud of you Man. You’ve taken the first step on an amazing journey. It started when you decided you were done with being a 1, and you acknowledge you are the only person that can do it. Just as an aside, I wasted an evening reading some incel boards, it made me almost suicidal and I love my life. Can’t imagine what it does to men already feeling low. Don’t go there. You become like the people you hang out with, not just real life people but also online communities, books you read and movies…	/r/seduction	05/03/20 06:11 AM
16	How do you become a smooth talker? Slow down your vocal speed. Slower than you think is necessary, then a bit more. This makes both of you more relaxed. Be gracious when complimented. Smile, say “thank you” warmly, then move the topic to her. If you are always being complimented on a certain thing, prepare an “elevator pitch” response with a bit of detail or humor. Women love my cologne so I’ll sometimes grin and say “Thank you. My ex-wife hates it so I thought it was a good choice.” It instantly conveys that I am single and a sm…	/r/seduction	28/02/20 06:50 PM
2	I fucked up and am now friendzoned/providerzoned and I don't know what to do Dude, you’ve been worse than friend zoned, but you already know it. She’s 99.9% seeing someone else, and I bet it started shortly before she ghosted you. If she liked you at all like you like her why did she end it after one fight? That fight was because she already had someone else. You already know she lied to you about Valentines Day. You say she’s your best friend, but is she even a friend? Would you treat a friend the way she has treated you? You are mistaking oxytocin, your attraction to h…	/r/seduction	18/02/20 07:17 AM
2	Advise on how to not feel insecure after successfully seducing and getting a girlfriend as per your desire. Insecurity is part of the human condition. I’m totally making this explanation up on the fly, take it with a grain.. Nature built us with few evolutionary advantages. We have thin skin, small jaws and shitty claws. Yet we are currently top o’ the food chain. We did this by modifying our world, continually improving our living situation to make it safer. Why aren’t we content to live in a cave? Or a tent, or a log cabin? Why didn’t we stop trying to upgrade our world at any point in our past? We …	/r/seduction	09/02/20 08:42 PM
9	Advise on how to not feel insecure after successfully seducing and getting a girlfriend as per your desire. Dude, remember what traits got you into this relationship in the first place and don’t lose them. It would be normal for her to try to take you off the market by changing how you dress, pushing you to quit the gym, etc. It would also be normal to go along with it to appease her and because it’s easy to settle in. Don’t do it, it’s a trap! I did all this wrong before, I’ve been there. It may be work but you should always maintain a position where you could get her or someone like her if you had t…	/r/seduction	09/02/20 04:39 PM
2	Can anyone who succeeded and grew despite starting off with anxiety or poor social skills give me advice? There is much wisdom in this post :)	/r/seduction	08/02/20 08:24 AM