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What is this new level of retard that I'm reading in here lately?
/r/askMRP30/04/21 06:10 PM
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OYS 27 Current stats: 43 yrs old, 5'10" 173.4 lbs (6 lbs left to lose), doing modified version of Pavel's Simple & Sinister kettlebell workout while gyms are closed, using 35lb and 50lb weights CORE TO MY MAP • Define my purpose, spend more time fulfilling my purpose • Improve my environment, current focus on apartment redesign and renovation and keeping it neat and clean • Follow through on my promises - integrity to self and inner circle • Support my family in their goals and help them even wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 03:07 PM
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When it doubt, dress like James Bond. He never looks bad. Amen to that.
/r/askMRP06/04/21 03:00 PM
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I hear you man. Good you're getting the professional advice. If she pulls the same or similar shit the more of a record the system has about her the easier it goes on you.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/21 10:36 PM
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Consider pressing charges against your ex. False statements to police are illegal and there needs to be a consequence for what she did. That's serious shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/21 12:49 PM
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OYS 26 Current stats: 43 yrs old, 5'10" 174.4 lbs (6.9 lbs left to lose), doing modified version of Pavel's Simple & Sinister kettlebell workout while gyms are closed, using 35lb and 50lb weights CORE TO MY MAP • Define my purpose, spend more time fulfilling my purpose • Improve my environment, current focus on apartment redesign and renovation and keeping it neat and clean • Follow through on my promises - integrity to self and inner circle • Support my family in their goals and help them even …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/21 12:28 PM
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Current stats: 43 yrs old, 5'10" 174 lbs (6.5 lbs left to lose), doing modified version of Pavel's Simple & Sinister kettlebell workout while gyms are closed, using 35lb and 50lb weights CORE TO MY MAP • Define my purpose, spend more time fulfilling my purpose • Improve my environment, current focus on apartment redesign and renovation and keeping it neat and clean • Follow through on my promises - integrity to self and inner circle • Support my family in their goals and help them even when they…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 04:52 PM
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Thanks for the advice
/r/askMRP19/03/21 03:03 AM
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His videos are good but what I'm looking for is actual outfit examples that I can emulate when I go shopping this weekend. His fashion advice is sparse and conceptual.
/r/askMRP19/03/21 02:03 AM
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Current stats: 43 yrs old, 5'10" 171 lbs (3.5 lbs left to lose), doing modified version of Pavel's Simple & Sinister kettlebell workout while gyms are closed, using 35lb and 50lb weights CORE TO MY MAP • Define my purpose, spend more time fulfilling my purpose • Improve my environment, current focus on apartment redesign and renovation and keeping it neat and clean • Follow through on my promises - integrity to self and inner circle • Support my family in their goals and help them even when they…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/21 08:06 PM
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I don't think about it much, partly because bars are all closed anyway where I live, and by now my friends and family no longer offer me drinks. Life's just better without it and I'm at the point now where I can have wine and beers in my place that I keep here for guests, without being worried that I might have one for myself. My body is enjoying the sobriety too
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/21 03:45 AM
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Thanks bro, and congrats to you too. It's 2 yrs, 6 months and 13 days for me now.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/21 02:19 AM
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My family never ask for help, they assume they would be bothering me to ask. I would rather show my love through useful actions than words alone. I'm 43 now and as my parents get older I'll be taking more care of them in the time ahead, I might as well start now. My brother is going through a sustained period of depression and he won't ask me for help in clawing back to a better mental health state. But it is clear he needs to make changes, and he's not making them on his own.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/21 07:49 PM
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Current stats: 43 yrs old, 5'10" 172 lbs (4.5 lbs left to lose), doing modified version of Pavel's Simple & Sinister kettlebell workout while gyms are closed, using 35lb and 50lb weights CORE TO MY MAP • Define my purpose, spend more time fulfilling my purpose • Improve my environment, current focus on apartment redesign and renovation and keeping it neat and clean • Follow through on my promises - integrity to self and inner circle • Support my family in their goals and help them even when they…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/21 11:06 PM
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Don't be subtle. Be swole.
/r/askMRP04/01/18 04:01 PM
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I’ve been lifting and steadily losing weight for about 9 months (I’m 6 feet tall with a slender frame and am down to 155 lbs. and ~12% b.f. from 190 lbs. and ~30% b.f.) Why the fuck would you go out of your way to be so skinny? At 6 foot tall you should be a strong 180 pound lean muscle machine. 155 lbs is too skinny and not attractive at all. Get your shit in order at the gym man wtf are you doing.
/r/askMRP28/12/17 02:18 AM
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CORE TO MY MAP • Define my purpose, spend more time fulfilling my purpose • Follow through on my promises MAP AREAS 1) Lifting – 3 / 4 planned days at the gym. 2) Diet – Back into a more reliable routine and doing good meal prep for work. Saving a bit of craft beer tasting for Saturdays only, and will have a cheat meal on Saturdays also. 3) Readings – NMMNG MMSLP Book of Pook WISNIFG 16 Commandments of Poon Mindful Attraction Plan The Rational Male - Year 1 48 Laws of Power Art of Seduction 4) C…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/17 08:42 PM
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CORE TO MY MAP • Define my purpose, spend more time fulfilling my purpose • Follow through on my promises MAP AREAS 1) Lifting – 2 / 4 planned days at the gym. 2) Diet – Back into a more reliable routine and doing good meal prep for work. Saving a bit of craft beer tasting for Saturdays only, and will have a cheat meal on Saturdays also. 3) Readings – NMMNG MMSLP Book of Pook WISNIFG 16 Commandments of Poon Mindful Attraction Plan The Rational Male - Year 1 48 Laws of Power Art of Seduction 4) C…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 11:19 AM
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CORE TO MY MAP • Define my purpose, spend more time fulfilling my purpose • Follow through on my promises to myself MAP AREAS 1) Lifting – 4 / 4 planned days at the gym. Going to be signing up at a proper gym soon now that I'm working again. Been having to hack my workouts together without the right equipment and weights that are too light. 2) Diet – Back into a more reliable routine and doing good meal prep for work. Saving a bit of craft beer tasting for Saturdays only, and will have a cheat m…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/17 01:54 AM
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Yeah it really is, I don't like the feeling that rises up in me. Things are going well for me in other parts of life, I thought this would die down. Not sure what the solution is going to monitor it for now.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 10:34 PM
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CORE TO MY MAP • Define my purpose, spend more time fulfilling my purpose • Follow through on my promises to myself MAP AREAS 1) Lifting – 3 / 4 planned days at the gym. Need to hit every planned day at the gym, I let a sore shoulder be my excuse, but I know I could have focused on legs and core. Will do better in this coming week. 2) Diet – While socializing I've been drinking beer, and then had a few shitty meals when drunk. Craft beer is one of my passions but I wasn't drinking for the taste,…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/17 01:08 AM
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Just got back from the country of my birth, visiting family there and making arrangements for home care nursing for my grandfather. Blue pill me would have left this to my family there to fumble, I'd have held my tongue to get along with everyone and not rock the boat, while I watch my grandfather have to put up with sub par assistance and lack of attention. Thanks to my MAP I decided to take control of the situation. I contacted home nursing care providers, organized with my immediate family to…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 03:17 AM
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He says something along the lines of... I'd never hit a woman. I'd NEVER hit a woman. But I'd shake the shit out of one.
/r/askMRP25/05/17 03:05 AM
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I'm visiting family in my birth country because my grandfather is very ill and very old. I'm here to see him and I've been figuring out his end of life care plans with the family who live here, and with him. Have organized a home care service to come look after him and lift the burden for the family. Have organized a hospice who can take him in and make sure he's comfortable in his final days / weeks and manage his pain as best as possible. It's been hard, I love this old man very much. It's par…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 11:39 AM
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Have considered going down this path but the doctor advised that it could play havoc with my liver or kidney or something. Did you have any noticable side effects? How long were you taking it for?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 03:17 PM
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Ah yes, I remember you from your shitty rambling post titled "Ego". Your opinion means nothing to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/17 10:10 PM
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I feel you man. Yeah you slipped up and you need to do better. But 1.5 years of getting no sex, that bitch deserves whatever you dished out. But the fact she can affect you like this says you have work to do. On working directly on your temper, I had a lot of success practicing this technique taught by Stephen Stosny. http://www.compassionpower.com/core-value-conditioning-for-anger/
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/17 03:23 PM
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Own Your Shit Weekly - May 09, 2017 - deleted by mistake
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/17 01:26 PM
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Ah okay I see. In the context it was presented I thought it was an acronym for a book title.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/17 04:32 PM
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I have no idea what this is either. SGM is Sex God Method obviously. But what is OCI?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/17 12:24 PM
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hahah amen to that.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/17 08:22 PM
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It’s been my pattern to get bored or lazy with important work like my MAP and then I stop doing it. So I’m working on sustainable progress instead of trying to leap ahead, and using the maxim of "no more zero days" and applying that to the major MAP areas. CORE TO MY MAP • Define my purpose, spend more time fulfilling my purpose • Follow through on my promises to myself • Currently reading and doing the exercises in 'The On Purpose Person' recommended to me by a mentor of mine MAP AREAS 1) Lifti…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 03:14 PM
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Man, this sucks for you. I can see you're really putting the work in to be a leading captain and to give her tools and a plan to be your lieutenant. Thing is, if this was a roomate agreement between you and a male roomate you'd have success. And if your wife was a self motivated woman who understands person responsibility and, you'd have success. Your wife is an entitled idiot who apparently can't do basic self maintenance and take medication that literally keeps her from going to the hospital. …
/r/askMRP26/04/17 01:31 AM
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It’s been my pattern to get bored or lazy with important work like my MAP and then I stop doing it. So I’m working on sustainable progress instead of trying to leap ahead, and using the maxim of "no more zero days" and applying that to the major MAP areas. CORE TO MY MAP • Define my purpose, spend more time fulfilling my purpose • Follow through on my promises to myself • Currently reading and doing the exercises in 'The On Purpose Person' recommended to me by a mentor of mine MAP AREAS 1) Lifti…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 01:13 PM
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Captain Fantastic - A Red Pill father goes his own way The Founder - Ray Kroc owns his shit
/r/RedPillBooks23/04/17 12:42 PM
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After backsliding recently I'm clambering back to an MRP routine. I am mindful that I need to do this for the long haul, it’s been my pattern to get bored or lazy with something and stop doing it. So I’m working on sustainable progress instead of trying to leap ahead, and using the maxim of "no more zero days" and applying that to the major MAP areas. CORE TO MY MAP • Define my purpose, spend more time fulfilling my purpose • Follow through on my promises to myself • Currently reading 'The On Pu…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/17 01:16 AM
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I'd be interested to see examples from my OYS that reeks of knowing better?
/r/askMRP17/04/17 12:23 AM
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It's "too", not "to". Don't be lazy about good grammar and spelling son.
/r/askMRP16/04/17 11:46 AM
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What you told me is at some point "it made more and more sense" to you. The rest of what you said was even more obscure. You haven't explained WHY it's worth reading the book, you've only said that you think it is. Sometimes I'm lazy and sometimes I'm not. What you think about that doesn't matter to me.
/r/askMRP16/04/17 03:23 AM
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You are confusing rich content with verbosity. I'm not.
/r/askMRP16/04/17 01:52 AM
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Sometimes I'm lazy that's true. And I still want to know why you think it's worth reading this book.
/r/askMRP15/04/17 03:42 PM
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Thanks bro, I like to think I'm a fun guy. Something tells me you are too.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/17 11:50 PM
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lol hi there. I feel chuffed that you take an interest in my progress. The tentative job offer was something I've been working on since January while at home base. Reese is overseas for another six weeks, and back here for a visit for a few days around the end of the month. She's still in the picture obviously, and has been downgraded to a plate, and as I've not started practicing my game or going on dates, she's the only plate. I've been pretty much in monk mode trying to lock down a job. There…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/17 05:53 PM
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I started searching without much dedication in October, then stopped early December for scheduled holidays, picked it up for real first week of January. Thanks, now I have two weeks to do what I can to lock it all down and pass the background checks. One of my professional certifications has lapsed since I didn't bother keeping up the ongoing maintenance hours. So I have to fit that it before the client meeting also.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 11:53 PM
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After backsliding recently I'm working on sustainable progress instead of trying to leap ahead, and using the maxim of "no more zero days" and applying that to the major MAP areas. CORE TO MY MAP • Define my purpose, spend more time fulfilling my purpose • Follow through on my promises to myself • Currently reading 'The On Purpose Person' recommended to me by a mentor of mine MAP AREAS 1) Lifting – On third week of getting back to the gym. Have definitely lost some muscle mass, but definition is…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 02:34 PM
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Modified MAP for deloading after some backsliding. I've realized my biggest issue is not following through with things I set out to do. Not keeping promises to myself, and losing energy and focus and falling back into lazy bad habits. So I'm working on sustainable progress instead of quick fixes and using the maxim of "no more zero days" and applying that to the major MAP areas. CORE TO MY MAP Define my purpose, spend more time fulfilling my purpose. And follow through on my promises to myself C…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/17 03:35 AM
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Thanks, I agree and am finding my way back one thing at a time.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/17 03:17 AM
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To summarize, my last six weeks have been a mess of backsliding and returning to being a drunk faggot. Not going to get into a puke session here, going to reboot and re-swallow. Positive steps back towards my MAP are that I'm lifting again. I've stayed on my diet even through the backsliding, and lost some abdominal flab, but lost a good deal of muscle too. Did my planned readings of WISNIFG today and will stay on track to do 10 pages (OR MORE) of MRP sidebar reading a day, if I miss a day I wil…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/17 12:39 PM
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Do you think that after she ended it with you, that you buying an emergency flight leaving in 12 hours to go win her back, then freaking out about her not being in said city, is in any way you "dreading her"? Sending her a letter after she's already dumped you is gay. It's not dread. Bro, do you even lift?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/17 05:07 PM
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If you're this on the fence about marrying her, it's not because of some vague idea she's asking you, about how to write down her surname. Dude if you're not excited about getting married and having a family with this girl, don't do it.
/r/askMRP22/02/17 01:54 PM
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The wings were going to have at least a glaze on them which is basically candy dressing. I've bought three cheap watches, spent under $60 for the three. I have about $14k savings so I'm not in a position that I'm going to be forced to take a big pay cut, but I am going to take some low paid temp work just so that I can at least stop spending the savings. You're rught
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/17 07:33 PM
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The wings were going to have at least a glaze on them which is basically candy dressing. I've bought three cheap watches, spent under $60 for the three. I have about $14k savings so I'm not in a position that I'm going to be forced to take a big pay cut, but I am going to take some low paid temp work just so that I can at least stop spending the savings. You're rught
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/17 07:28 PM
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Context Four and a half months into my pill swallowing. I’m 40 years old, 5’10” and 178 lbs, ~13% body fat, working through a low/no carb diet and resistance lifting plan. Been in an LTR for over a year, but have decided to take on plates for the foreseeable future. Working on my MAP here because this journey is about improving me and I have a long way to go. I’m unemployed and hunting for a job. Goals 1 – Get under 10% body fat by July 1st 2017 2 – Save $20,000 by November 15 2017 3 – Live and …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/17 05:44 PM
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You need to do the work and the readings on the side bar. Your whole post indicates that you haven't done this yet.
/r/askMRP14/02/17 05:19 AM
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You're still very chubby dude that's muffin top is ugly as fuck keep working it off
/r/askMRP11/02/17 07:13 AM
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This is a very self aware expression. We've swallowed around the same time and I'm impressed at what you're working on in your mind. I'm wondering similarly. Look forward to reading more about your progression.
/r/askMRP11/02/17 06:46 AM
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Interesting thoughts, I'll be mindful of this.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 11:43 PM
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I don't follow you?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 11:02 PM
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Thanks bro, I'm getting closer... had three interviews this week and all went well. My LTR plate(?) gets turned on after I have a good interview too. I think she wants to see some vulnerability in me because I've been more of a STFU rambo since finding the pill, so when I backslide on my MAP or have a blue pill episode it's the beta comfort that makes her feel closer. Even when we met backpacking I was a motivated guy hitting the gym, going after a 50 meter goal in free diving, achieving a Scuba…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 08:34 PM
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Guys here have told me this 1000 times, that I'm in her frame and I'm reacting to what she's doing too much. And it's what you're doing with these pecks too. Maybe your reaction to the peck is a symptom of a bigger respect / desire issue you have with her. I don't know. But it's the wrong thing to be focusing on, and if you have a big reaction to a small simple thing like how she kisses you, you're in her frame and you're being a bitch. Give her a 10 second kiss when she does something awesome. …
/r/askMRP10/02/17 08:08 PM
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Why is the main sub tolerating this kind of trash post? OP I've realized that in my 4+ months since swallowing the pill I've got a long way to go. I've got serious work to do on myself. But fuck dude you seem to be moving backwards. Do you even have a dick?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 06:48 PM
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Dude, peck her back and carry on. Don't make such a big deal of it. Doesn't have to be a 10 second kiss every time, that'd be exhausting.
/r/askMRP09/02/17 11:00 PM
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Good stuff dude, and you write very well.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 04:38 PM
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You need to get a full battery of STI / STD checks including HPV and chlamydia and herpes. You need to start using condoms if you decide you still want to fuck this coke whore. You should not be fucking this coke whore. Be prepared to divorce her, do whatever you can to reduce the impact this will have on your financial situation. Spend your shared money on things for you and don't keep those things in the shared house. Keep working on you. You'll know when it's time to pull the rip cord. For me…
/r/askMRP09/02/17 03:20 PM
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I've been half assing it on the job search, call it career approach anxiety. I took three years off working because I had a pile of savings and was listless. I went scuba diving and learned to free dive, I backpacked and then for a stretch I sat at home, got fat and played video games... realized I was drifting into depression so I went traveling again. Now I'm working on improving myself and am doing my search through online mostly, reaching out to old bosses, colleagues and friends and I'm get…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/17 08:04 PM
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Context Four months into my pill swallowing. I’m 40 years old, 5’10” and 178 lbs, ~13% body fat, working through a low/no carb diet and resistance lifting plan. Up until this two weeks I’ve been in a committed relationship with a woman in her mid 20s. Decided to plate her after a line was crossed, decided to continue working on my MAP here because this journey is supposed to be about improving me and I have a long way to go. I’m unemployed and hunting for a job. Goals 1 – Get under 10% body fat …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 03:22 PM
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You sound like you are resisting hitting the gym and improving your body. Weak.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/17 03:07 PM
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I'm looking for a contract role, my career is in projects so it's normal for me to have short term work, lining up my goal 3 with a company's short term need within a year or less. Curious why you think she'd leave as I improved?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/17 08:55 PM
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CONTINUED... Shit tests/Holding Frame aka My Big Setback and plating my LTR Reported last week that shit tests are minor or swatted away easily lately and holding frame has been easier because I’ve been managing my MAP and my gf has responded well. Then this week had a major setback. For context, when we got together a year ago she was getting over a break up and she let me know basically she wasn’t available for an LTR. Great, who cares? I was living on a tropical island banging young beach bim…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/17 03:47 PM
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Context Four months into my pill swallowing. I’m 40 years old, 5’10” and 177 lbs, ~13% body fat, working through the TNT diet and workout plan. Up until this last week I’ve been in a committed relationship with a woman in her mid 20s. We’ve been together for a year, spent most of that time backpacking. We spent stretches of time doing long distance. I’ve been familiar with RP principles for a few years so realized I was potentially fucking things up with this girl with a massive case of Oneitis …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/17 03:46 PM
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I use mspy, their customer service is 24/7 and very on the ball.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/17 04:25 AM
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I use mspy, their customer service is 24/7 and very on the ball.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/17 04:24 AM
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I think you've weathered the MRP storm of shit testing and nit picking on your post and your effort on your MAP. You're doing the work and seeing the benefits... For me, what is scary is that you've come so far in all areas of the RP program and she STILL can't help but get the tingles for work-Chad. I'm only four months into my RP swallow and only a year into my LTR and I caught her adding her ex to her whatsapp list under a girls made up name, so she can see when he's online. But she's not mes…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/17 04:25 PM
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Yes, that's true. Thanks.
/r/askMRP28/01/17 01:52 AM
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Thanks. You're right. Ugh. Starting tonight.
/r/askMRP28/01/17 01:47 AM
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Nice job dude and thanks again. My shaves are getting closer and free-er of nicks and cuts. So you only use a blade for five shaves? I thought I'd get more mileage off them than that.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/17 12:49 PM
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Just because it's non refundable doesn't mean you have to go. You didn't agree to it, and unless you truly see value in it yourself, you should not make it okay by going.
/r/askMRP26/01/17 01:30 AM
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This isn't your diary, get busy with your MAP and post to OYS in the main forum.
/r/askMRP26/01/17 12:31 AM
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Besides your post being a clustered mess of rambling psuedo-logic you have an annoying way of putting stunted sentences into single lines for no reason. The little I could decipher of what you said is unoriginal generalist platitudes to adopt a positive mindset and be open to new ideas and thoughts. Okay please take this kind of thing to askmrp, I am trying to learn from quality posts here.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/17 10:17 PM
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Context Four months into my pill swallowing. I’m 40 years old, 5’10” and 178 lbs, ~13% body fat, working through the TNT diet and workout plan. In a relationship with a woman in her mid 20s. We’ve been together for a year, spent most of that time backpacking. We spend stretches of time doing long distance. I’ve been familiar with RP principles for a few years so realized I was potentially fucking things up with this girl with a massive case of Oneitis and throwing a fit every time I got a hard n…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/17 08:03 PM
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Um no. Initiate, escalate and fuck her right there. I don't turn my girlfriend down for sex or delay unnecessarily. Why the fuck do you think you need to wait for it to be night time.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 02:40 AM
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Gross. That woman was a bitch.
/r/askMRP18/01/17 09:37 PM
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You're too thin. I'm about your height, 175 lbs and around 13% body fat. Something isn't adding up with your numbers.
/r/askMRP18/01/17 06:43 PM
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Well don't be fat.
/r/askMRP18/01/17 03:14 PM
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You're truly a fat piece of shit. But maybe one day you won't be. At that point you'll have options when it comes to having sex. Maybe at that point you'll still want sex from your bitch wife, and maybe you won't. Until then, you should spend some money on getting professional massages from real massage therapists. Female ones that are attractive. Get touched by a woman even if it is only for a massage.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 10:26 PM
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Overview Four months into my pill swallowing. I’m closing in on 40 years old, 5’10” and 175 lbs, ~12.75% body fat, working through a resistance weight training program and on a no carb diet. In a relationship with a woman in her mid 20s. We’ve been together for a year, spent most of that time backpacking. We spend stretches of time doing long distance. I’ve been familiar with RP principles for a few years so realized I was potentially fucking things up with this girl with a massive case of Oneit…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 03:44 PM
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I think the more important point /u/FireTempered was alluding to here is taht it's been a month since your wife started showing improvements (or less). Fatties gonna fat. Don't be surprised if she slips back into bad behaviours and you are just married to a fat woman for as long as you choose to stay with her. Keep doing you though bro, happy for your progress in other fronts and I hope for your sake your wife does actually permanently change her chubby ways.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 06:19 AM
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The point of MRP is to do more of what you enjoy and improve yourself, and an outcome of doing this is your romantic relationship with your wife or LTR is likely to see an improvement. If having a deep intellectual conversation with your wife on an academic topic is enjoyable to you, how is this in conflict with RP teachings? What's wrong with being a stoic oak tree that lets her vent in front of you? Dude, this is part of the role.
/r/askMRP13/01/17 03:18 AM
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Okay, gotcha. Yeah I'm hitting the gym three to four times a week. Seeing gains and diet is on point. I'm definitely still in her frame but I am doing the work on myself, lifting and reading and working on finding a job. I've been posting to OYS for five weeks now, I'm in the early stages of swallowing for sure.
/r/askMRP12/01/17 06:16 PM
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Yeah I do use hedge words a lot. Making a conscious effort to remove the word "just" from my vocabulary.
/r/askMRP11/01/17 06:05 AM
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Overview 3.75 months into my pill swallowing. I’m in my late 30s, 5’10” and 175 lbs, ~12.75% body fat, working through a resistance weight training program and on a no carb diet. In a relationship with a woman in her mid 20s. We’ve been together for less than a year, spent most of that time backpacking. We spend stretches of time doing long distance. I’ve been familiar with RP principles for a few years so realized I was potentially fucking things up with this girl with a massive case of Oneitis…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 06:17 PM
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I hadn't even considered this because she is very alpha in so many parts of her life, that I just saw it as another place that she was looking for control. And now that I think about it, you may be right.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 05:03 PM
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What is a lighting report?
/r/askMRP10/01/17 05:02 PM
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Don't forget you have the option of staying in the marriage and having some affairs of your own. Monogamy is out the window now, so get yours. You should wear a condom every time with your wife by the way. That slut could give you an STI, you should have had yourself checked by now. Stay on course, don't blow up the marriage until you have a better shot at keeping your kids near you.
/r/askMRP09/01/17 07:45 PM
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Keep it sexual, don't talk about feelings.
/r/askMRP08/01/17 03:56 PM
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Cuddling isn't beta behaviour. Cuddling a hot girl is awesome and if you can't turn cuddling into sex most of the time you're doing something wrong. On your questions dude I'd say you need to just ride out the anxiety and own that you put it there ... you said yourself you went nuclear so yeah now she's logically constantly fearful of being abandoned by you. That will go down with time and her seeing you're not going anywhere. Decide later when you've done all the reading and have done more work…
/r/askMRP07/01/17 09:02 PM
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You can always verify with wishful thinking.
/r/askMRP06/01/17 11:14 PM
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Install a keylogger on her phone, tablet and if you have a home pc ... log her passwords and verify this way.
/r/askMRP06/01/17 09:05 PM
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There's a great scene in a show I like called Peep Show. A fairly Red Pill guy is dating a woman and this blue pill nerd guy is friends with his girl. The blue pill guy wants the girl and he arranges to visit her at her house, but when he gets there he bumps into the red pill guy who is just leaving the house to go meet his friends. The blue pill guy gets really nervous thinking the red pill guy will see what he's trying to do, and will be mad. The red pill guy DOES of course realize what he's u…
/r/askMRP06/01/17 08:16 PM
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Politeness princess. I like that. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/17 04:45 PM
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1) I'm resolved to get under 10% body fat while gaining muscle by June 1st 2017. - At the end of March I'll get a hydrostatic weighing as a check in - By June 1st I'll repeat the hydrostatic weighing and come in under 10% BF 2) Will have saved $20,000 or more by October 1st 2017 to be used as a cushion 3) Will file tax returns and pay back taxes by Dec 31 2017
/r/askMRP03/01/17 03:39 PM
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Overview 3.5 months into my pill swallowing. I’m almost 40 years old, 5’9” and 176 lbs, ~12.75% body fat, working through a resistance weight training program and on a no carb diet. In a relationship with a woman in her mid 20s. We’ve been together for less than a year, spent most of that time backpacking. We spend stretches of time doing long distance. I’ve been familiar with RP principles for a few years so realized I was fucking things up with this girl with a massive case of Oneitis and thro…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/17 03:12 PM
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I'm almost 5'10" and I'm 175 pounds with just under 13% body fat. This makes me overweight. So unless you're walking around at ~8% or lower body fat you're fuckin obese. And from the picture you posted to gonewild, your wife is a pig. This cuck should be banned, he's done NONE of the work in the side bar, by his own admission.
/r/askMRP03/01/17 05:00 AM
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To each their own I guess. I would invite another woman into my bedroom with my girlfriend, but I would get no satisfaction out of watching her with another man. This lifestyle choice of yours is one that invites cheating. She can always argue it's not as big a deal given you've opened the cuck lifestyle door for her.
/r/askMRP02/01/17 11:18 PM
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I have been sharing my wife with other men for about a year now. Why?
/r/askMRP02/01/17 11:00 PM
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Yeah good luck. Also, if you're up for it have her play with your hole ... go first.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/17 08:46 PM
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Each girl is different. I've done anal with my three LTRs, each time there was some different obstacle. Your luck may be best if you start anal play after a shower, she will feel less embarassed about you playing with her pooper if she thinks its clean. As with anything in bed, it's our job to keep escalating and overcome objections. Tell her you want to feel her there, tell her you want to play with her bum. Tell her you want to rim her pretty hole and slowly put a finger inside. Dunno your gir…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/16 10:53 PM
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Yeah I'm reaching out to that network of close friends and ex-colleagues / bosses. It's a reconnect after some time out of the loop so that is slow going. Long distance sucks and I'm not willing to deal with it beyond the next agreed to period of 12 weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 04:14 AM
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while attempting to become more responsible, you're getting boring and catching a case of Oneitis. Am definitely dealing with some Oneitis. While we met, and mostly have been with each other while traveling, we're doing six weeks of living together now and the shift has been good so far. I don't agree about the change to regular life being an obstacle so far, and I was in a very blue pill state earlier during our travels actually. Like melt down hissy fits when given hard nos on sex together. Sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 04:12 AM
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Ah nice, I'll hunt that down. It does seem a better candidate for audio.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 04:07 AM
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Overview 3 months and a week into my pill swallowing. I’m almost 40 years old, 5’9” and 176 lbs, ~12.75% body fat, working through a resistance weight training program and on a no carb diet. In a relationship with a woman in her mid 20s. We’ve been together for less than a year, spent most of that time backpacking. We spend stretches of time doing long distance. Very active sex life when we’re co-located. Sex multiple times a day. I’m about eight pounds overweight and a lot of this is extra fat …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/16 02:00 PM
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A lot of the advice I've read says to not ask, but rather to start stimulating her anus with your finger and then with the head of your cock. Don't ask just start rubbing and pushing bit by bit, tell her how much you want to feel the inside of her there. If she's really turned on she'll be more open to anal play. Luckily my girl loves being stimulated there, we've been putting a variety of smaller toys in there while we fuck for added stimulation. She likes to masturbate with something inside he…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/16 04:16 AM
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Some people respond to touch differently, they may be very hard wired in their nervous system. For some people touch feels almost electric, they need to prepare themselves ahead of a touch or it can be overwhelming. You may be touching her before she's prepared, or you may be shortcutting to genital touching before she's warmed up.
/r/askMRP25/12/16 05:43 PM
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What are you doing with this fat whale? Gross.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/16 04:23 AM
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I've been called a faggot here multiple times. I posted about why doing dishes could be a way to get laid. I got demolished on that one. After I licked my wounds and got past the butt hurt I realized I was wrong, and that I had to make changes. I realized I had to quit being a faggot. Keep ruling with an iron fist because this sub, in it's current form, is more helpful to me than any other resource I know of.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/16 08:04 PM
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This sub is for men in a marriage or long term relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/16 06:48 PM
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I agree I lost frame multiple times. I also didn't DEER as much as I would have before, and I hit the gym instead. And yeah, before I would have talked this to death and killed any chance of getting what I wanted. I STFU a lot more than I usually do, and at my early stages of MRP I have to fake IDGAF until it's real.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/16 07:43 PM
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Overview I’m almost 40 years old, 5’9” and 175 lbs, ~12.75% body fat, working through a resistance weight training program and on a no carb diet. In a relationship with a woman in her mid 20s. We’ve been together for less than a year, spent most of that time backpacking. We spend stretches of time doing long distance. Very active sex life when we’re co-located. Sex multiple times a day. I’m about eight pounds overweight and a lot of this is extra fat in the abdomen area that is my main focus for…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/16 03:00 PM
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This was some theory I learned in a seminar. At the time it made a lot of sense, and I posted it here because I hadn't read anything like it on MRP. I've since discarded the theory I posted because it is too much of a covert contract. I blew my load in my girlfriend's ass yesterday, I did the dishes because I am a man and I clean up after myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/16 01:34 PM
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You're too skinny.
/r/askMRP17/12/16 01:37 AM
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When it starts to feel organic, like you described, then you're integrating the RP lessons into your normal way of being. That must be a nice feeling, I hope you're enjoying it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/16 05:51 PM
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I didn't say that was in there.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 05:21 PM
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Yeah full alpha runs away from his problems at the first sign his wife likes another guy. Run faggot. Run.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 06:32 AM
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You know you want to.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 04:04 AM
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Part 4 of married man sex life deals with cheating. Have you reviewed it recently? Three things I'd be doing. Take her phone and put a spy app on it so you know about every call, every text, every message. mspy.com it can be technically a challenge to root a phone so perhaps all you'll be able to get it the keylogger and updates about texts and calls and e-mails. Hopefully that's enough. If you can root it, you can also see all facebook messages and whatsapp messages. Next, assuming there is evi…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 12:47 AM
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When I was a kid at a catholic school, for Ash Wednesday the priest who ran the school paid for the cafeteria to give each kid a free donut. The horrible treats had been overcooked and tasted burned. Inedible. So kids were throwing them away... in the trash cans, in the sidewalks, in the bushes. Nobody could eat them. The Vice Principal, a fat blustering ass called a school assembly and started shouting at everyone for being ungrateful and throwing away this generous gift and littering the schoo…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 05:37 PM
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Overview I’m almost 40 years old, 5’9” and 175 lbs working through the TNT diet / plan. In a relationship with a woman in her mid 20s. We’ve been together for less than a year, spent most of that time backpacking. In the last week of a long distance phase of our relationship. Very active sex life when we’re co-located for visits that we each make to see each other to break up the long distance time. Sex multiple times a day. I’m about eight pounds overweight and a lot of this is extra fat in the…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/16 12:50 PM
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An LDR is basically an imaginary girlfriend. Yeah at times this is so true. None of the upside on sex, and I of course have no real idea about whether she's stepped out of the relationship on her side of the globe either. So I get to be jealous and celibate at the same time. If there wasn't an end date ahead of us on this long distance phase I'd never have agreed to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/16 06:42 AM
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That last part is straight out of some Vietnam era war movie with the protagonist off to the side of the group doing some manly me-time. Nice.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/16 06:00 AM
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Overview I’m almost 40 years old, 5’9” in a relationship with a woman in her mid 20s. We’ve been together for less than a year, spent most of that time backpacking. In the last two weeks of a long distance phase of our relationship. Very active sex life when we’re co-located for visits that we each make to see each other to break up the long distance time. Sex multiple times a day. I’m about eight pounds overweight and a lot of this is extra fat in the abdomen area that is my main focus for diet…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 07:10 PM
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