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I'm not commenting on your beliefs. I'm commenting on OP's title.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/21 05:30 PM
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We aren’t suggesting that she wasn’t raped because she’s unattractive. We’re suggesting she wasn’t raped because she wasn’t raped, and she had accused many people of it with 0 evidence to back it up or any tests that prove her right. She also took away freedom from an innocent man. That’s not right Please explain to me what "or the fact that someone believe that she could be raped" means.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/10/21 08:21 AM
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False accusations are no laughing matter, but it's really shitty to suggest that just because someone looks fat or trashy, they can't be raped. Rape and abuse is extremely prevalent among poor and trashy people, and there are a lot of real victims that probably look like her and who have suffered severely. Don't be a douche about rape just because you're pissed about false accusations. Even as a joke it's tasteless.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/10/21 09:25 PM
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So are money trees. Literally everywhere! You present your argument like a 12 year old would.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:19 AM
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Wrong. A person who has their things in order and is appealing to be with can easily have a functioning relationship, even if they aren't a high-value person. This is true regardless of gender. I could easily get myself a Stay-at-home-dad-arrangement if I wanted to. Decent women are literally everywhere, and the types of lives that women are drawn to varies wildly. The one constant that I've found is that most women want a reliable, loving and caring other half, but beyond that it's easy to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 09:20 PM
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Im not going to start posting links. I’m too lazy for that Then why are you in a debate subreddit? If you're looking for an echo chamber then visit a TRP forum instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:44 AM
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It’s pointless since you’ve decided to not see them So what you're saying is that you refuse to provide proof that would support your argument because I'm... not seeing proof of your argument? Great logic there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:43 PM
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Not really using the articles as a reference for cmv so much as easy links for definitions. This was a discussion post that got changed to a cmv for some reason My point still stands? You're making claims without any basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:47 AM
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Are you blind? No? Where are the arguing spinsters?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:42 AM
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You're cherrypicking articles but have provided no studies indicating that this is an established pattern that occurs to such an extent that it can be referred to as a principle or common phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:40 AM
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Well there are age of consent laws.. in some countries they go up to 20 This thread isn't about consent laws?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:38 AM
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Nooooooo. There aren't prevalent attitudes among older women and screeching feminists about this matter, and they are vocal or self-righteous at alllll. 🤣 Wake the hell up. Which older women and screeching feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:37 AM
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The question is whether the can find the men they want, and men to marry them. Of course they can get men, there are many simos out there. There are a lot of different men available in every age range, both good and bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:37 AM
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Men who blame jEliSs oLdR wImMinZ for not being able to date the younger women they want to date. But who did that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:04 AM
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Read the thread I did. Who specifically are you arguing against?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:02 AM
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Am I? Yes? Who are you arguing against?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:52 AM
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What's with all these RP posts arguing against fictitious individuals? There is no old spinster here arguing against you, so why do you feel a need to build yourself a windmill to debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:51 AM
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No one is prevented from dating any type of person. Also, you're arguing against thin air.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:49 AM
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Why do RP gurus always preach this then? They act like dating apps are full of swamp creatures of women. Because so-called "gurus" are just people who make up belief systems out of thin air so that they can recruit loyal followers. There's no scientific basis to RP beliefs. You'll sometimes see RP people pulling up studies, but it's always the same thing: either they mistaken correlation for causality, or the study only confirms some minor part of their argument while the rest of the argument re…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:49 PM
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The women on dating apps are just normal women. They come in all ages, shapes and sizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:35 PM
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Where did I say they couldn't? I didn't say that you said that they couldn't? I said that women aged 30+ can find men with ease. Men as in "men in general", which includes good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:39 PM
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it's observational So it's like I said, "pure fiction".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:10 PM
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yes, but those other people are of a less "quality" when a woman turns 30, then she becomes bitter and after years of trying to snatch a guy she could have while she was in her 20s she finds a Beta Bux and destroys his, her and life of their kids out of pure bitterness There is zero scientific evidence that women "become bitter after years of trying to snatch a guy she could have while she was in her 20s" or that she'd destroy peoples' lives because of her bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:59 PM
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Maybe to you - but to me it refers to a biological imperative. At about the age of 30 females feel a biological need to settle down with a mate if they haven't so already. By the time they are 35 - it gets even more desperate - their instincts know their eggs are pretty much on their way out the carton, and it is now or ever. The dilemma of course is they are no longer considered 'young', and unless they are one of the few who have genetics on their side with regards to looks, and also have take…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:57 PM
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People hate to hear this but women in their 30s and 40s aren’t having problems finding quality partners. The sob stories are overblown by a lot but that’s because Reddit skews younger so they think life is over by 30 lol Like most things RP it's just a lie with no basis in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:39 PM
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After dating men in their 50s, you would be surprised at how many this is their attitude. I've had a couple throw out they own a house with no debt like on the first. IT is actually a big turn off if they throw that out early. In my experience most people (both men and women) are good people, but unfortunately a large chunk of men seem to be completely clueless when it comes to social interaction. Maybe 20% or so. Throughout my life I've cringed so hard at the things that some of the men that I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:38 PM
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The wall isn't about dating, it refers to marriage and reproduction. No it doesn't. It refers to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:18 PM
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Yea it is. She's young and cute and my man can fuck her whenever he wants. It's a great deal. Having to pick up women from a country with a Human Development Index lower than Iran is not a testament to old men being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:57 PM
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Say what now? I can get a Ukrainian girl for 100 bux no problem. That's not a brag.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:40 PM
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And what sort of traits would one exhibit that would make you suspect they're "Red Pill" I didn't say anything about traits. I said that you get to know people better through talking to them or observing what they're doing. I don't understand why you keep asking me to explain the mechanics of getting to know other people. Just find some guide on Google if you don't understand how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:04 PM
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Because older men typically have more money and more attractive overall then they were in their younger years. This is why they try to bang younger girls, they can realistic do it. While older women don’t have as much negotiating power and most likely get someone on their on own level. Wrong. Having "more money" just means having stability and disposable income, but that's not exactly some magical aphrodisiac for younger women. Women aren't going to throw themselves at some average joe just beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:00 PM
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The hypothesis about the wall is pure fiction. Both men and women can date other people well into old age. It's just yet another one of those baseless RP claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 12:56 PM
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Like you'd just ask them "do you use Red Pill?" No? Again, is the idea of getting to know people a foreign concept to you? You find out things about people as part of getting to know them, either through conversations or observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:07 AM
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How would you even know if someone in your life was RP? Various ways? Is the idea of getting to know people a foreign concept to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:35 AM
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Then you've never really met an RP guy. A true RP dude wouldn't waste his time being right/wrong cause he doesn't care what you think. That's called No True Scotsman, and it doesn't hold up as an argument. The Cult of RP uses No True Scotsman as a cheap trick to try to explain away why everyone who follows RP is insufferable. Somehow we're supposed to discard them as "Not truly RP" and instead believe that the "True RP lifestyle" can't be observed because it wouldn't give itself away as RP. Sorr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:55 AM
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I'm a guy, but I've encountered RP people a few times in my life. Usually it's been through work. Without exception these people have been insufferable losers with anger problems. They were always completely and utterly unable to admit when they were wrong, and any time someone got fed up and called them on something they'd either shift blame (like "this is how normal people talk" or "people are too sensitive") or offer some deranged social theory that in their mind validates their behavior (lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:36 AM
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Those are far from the only women who actually gravitate toward dudes that aren't right in the head. That was the example I could prove. That's a strawman argument. No one has said that a woman can never make a bad choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:20 AM
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A large chunk of the population are unable to separate their own emotions from objective truth. If they feel angry about something, whatever the source of their anger is becomes the imagined enemy in their life. These people don't understand how data and science work. They don't understand how the world works. So they go around looking for things to reinforce their beliefs. TRP and FDS are two sides of the same coin in that they attract people with a chip on their shoulder, who can't separate em…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:31 PM
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Then you haven’t looked into the RP community in any serious way. Saying "If you disagree with my perspective it means that you haven't studied it enough" is an idiotic argument, because you can't put yourself in a position of being correct no matter what. That's not how you discuss or debate. Certainly there are men just starting out who are still in the “anger” phase bc really all they want is a “normal” girlfriend but what they have been taught abt how to go about that is completely wrong. On…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:40 PM
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Oh really now? Are you seriously the kind of person who thinks that as long as you can find at least one article that describes a scenario, that scenario must somehow be representative of the majority of people? What you just doesn't disprove my comment in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:28 PM
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Considering TRP is simply adopting the female dating strategy, I find this hilarious. Telling on yourself. What do you mean by "telling on yourself"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:26 PM
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Hmm, that would explain why we get so much pussy !! Ok thanks for your intelligent addition to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:23 PM
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My impression of Red Pill/MGTOW/Purple Pill men is that they're angry, aggressive, socially clueless, disagreeable, narcissistic and sometimes bordering on mentally ill. My impression is also that overweight women seem do alright. So, I don't think that an overweight woman who is otherwise normal would go for guys who are that dysfunctional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:01 AM
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He's harmlessly, if not awkwardly, chatting up a girl. You forgot a few missing descriptors: incessantly, uncomfortably, annoyingly and persistently. This whole thing is such a non issue. I never talked about this being or not being an issue. All I've said is that the guy is a clueless idiot, and that it's not the woman's responsibility to teach him how to behave. Ahmahgawd!! A woman was annoyed for 3 minutes!! Call the cancel police! Maybe you've somehow missed it, but it's totally fine to disc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:36 AM
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It’s not a hypothesis. It’s what women find attractive and what they are drawn to when pursuing a relationship. It's a hypothesis because we don't yet have enough data on how the supposed attraction actually manifests itself in practice. In other words, we have produced some studies that indicate that women rate Dark Triad traits as attractive, but we have little to no data on how this actually causes women to behave. Also, you still failed to address my points: A hypothesis about what women can…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:29 AM
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It is exactly her job to shut down conversations she doesn't want to have. It's not her job to teach socially clueless people how to behave though. Bring back chaperones so weak women don't have to be adults ever. I'd say the one who needs supervision is the person who's actually causing the issue here, which is the socially clueless dude who won't take a hint.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:22 AM
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Nope. Dark triad traits are attractive to women. Women literally find psychopathic traits to be a turn on. So what? A hypothesis about what women can find attractive isn't an indication that women aren't cautious in their relationship choices. When you say women are good at picking up when something’s not right, you mean they’re good at picking up when a guy isn’t attractive enough for them. Don't put words in my mouth or tell me or what I did or didn't mean. My entire point remains: Most women …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:09 AM
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If the guy is unattractive, she stays away. But women will excuse the guy’s behaviour if he is attractive No, they actually don't. Most women are good at picking up when something's not right about a guy, so they'll stay away if a guy seems off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:57 AM
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If someone dies in an accidental electrical fire, I feel no empathy. I only feel empathy if it was an arson, because then it was a crime with a perpetrator. And crimes with perpetrators are the only things I can feel empathy about. What are you talking about? I haven't said anything about empathy. I said to stop equating harassment and threats with not getting attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:49 AM
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Stop equating harassment and threats with not getting attention. Someone not getting attention is not a crime that has a perpetrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:38 AM
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I didnt see him complaining, shes the one complaining and crying about it. I didn't say that he complained? I said that he was socially clueless and inappropriate in several ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:24 AM
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She wouldnt be teaching them anything. She would just be explicitly enforcing her boundaries. Hes allowed to talk to whoever he wants to. He's allowed to do whatever he wants to as long as it's legal, but that doesn't make him any less of a socially clueless person who doesn't understand the basics of how to interact with other human beings. People who somehow manage to miss that properly calibrating one's social instincts is a prerequisite for adulthood and who then whine and complain when othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:17 AM
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If shes so uncomfortable she shouldve said something. We shouldnt infantilize women, they need to be adults and say what they mean instead of being so passive. It's not her job to teach socially clueless people how to behave. That, if anything, would be infantilizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:10 AM
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"Verse not interesting enough to warrant so much of it." - Ezra Pound
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:09 AM
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I mean he didnt even say anything explicit at all, nor did she tell him to stop. Its a nothingburger and people are outraged lol. Not even saying its a good thing to do, but its not a big deal at all. You'd have to be completely and utterly socially clueless to not understand that: There was no rapport or good vibe whatsoever in the conversation. She was visibly uncomfortable. He asked a ton of personal questions that could put her safety at risk without even knowing her. She works in a service …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:03 AM
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This is why I avoid bow tie wearing dorks, for whatever reason the alt right has really taken to them. Then what's your problem with my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 06:53 PM
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holy shit what is wrong with people. OP is just curious? That is it. curious. You can't say that with certainty unless you're a mind reader.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:40 AM
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I just don't understand why such superficial things are so bemoaned by red pillers/alt righters. I didn't "bemoan" it, nor am I a red piller or alt righter. If it's your preference whatever but to assign so much meaning to them seems like overkill. These specific kinds of alternative fashion statements are prevalent among the mentally ill, drug addicts and hysterical left wing keyboard warriors. Even if that's not who you are, deciding to align with fashion statements that overlap with these typ…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:24 AM
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Ugly, but that’s a more general thing Epilepsy Every single woman in my family had early onset Alzheimer’s Bad OCD and anxiety I just feel like I would be a terrible mother overall I'm really worried reading your comments because you sound like you have no critical thinking whatsoever. You shouldn't make life decisions based on what others are telling you to do. You should make life decisions based on the rational conclusions that you arrive at yourself. As for your specific issues, I'm not seei…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:59 PM
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1) I have bad genes 2) RP encourages women to become mothers and wives early (at least r/redpillwomen) 3) How do women who are either infertile or have plain bad genes that no child deserves fit into this picture Again, you have to be more specific. What do you mean by "bad genes"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:45 PM
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No. Everyone needs sexual variety, especially men. You either give them variety or they leave you and get their own. You're projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:42 PM
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HVM will cheat and leave. HVW will struggle to remain satisfied with anything but a very HVM with his long term game on point. average and below average men and LVM will beta out relatively early on, leading to loss of attraction by female... And LVM with LVW will eventually become unsatisfied, or both will become unsatisfied, and eventually lead to mutual attraction loss, and even if they don't cheat or leave, will be miserable long term. I challenge all of these assumptions. Provide scientific…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:41 PM
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You have to be more specific. What's the problem exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:39 PM
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Sorry, but your post is utterly impossible to follow along with. You keep making statements without actually breaking down how you arrived at those conclusions. Instead you vaguely reference the original post or link to one of the original graphs, and expect us to interpret it exactly as you see it in your head. The fact that it's a wall of text doesn't exactly help either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 08:47 AM
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She literally said if she didn't cook he'd only eat peanut butter. Ok, so she didn't actually say "barely eating" as you quoted. And yes, like I said, she made a joke about the fact that he doesn't seek out food for pleasure. That doesn't mean that he'd literally starve if she didn't cook for him, or whatever strange point you're trying to make. It makes complete sense. Both food and sex are biological compulsions based on million year old instincts. Not having sex has a psychological effect on …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:34 AM
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Uh, no. OP describes her boyfriend as 'barely eating' or eating peanut butter. Where did she say that her boyfriend was "barely eating"? She just made a joke that he doesn't seek out food for pleasure to the point where she has to make nice meals for him, which perfectly illustrates my point about the incentives that drive us to do certain things. My point is that if you place him in different circumstances outside a first world country, his perspective on food would change massively. He would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:06 AM
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So show me your idea of the below average guy Someone who doesn't do all the things that I listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:42 AM
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No one is talking about being a foodie except you. Yes, because I'm the one who used it as an analogy. What's your point? Sex is a biological urge for nearly 100% of men (and people) in the same way food is. Yes, and that's why food is a great analogy in order to illustrate that people place different levels of importance on both food and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:41 AM
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Average guys do, if you are above average then maybe you’ll get an average chick sure I’m talking about relatively easy non relationship sex Average guys don't need to dumpster dive. Below-average guys who think they're average do. Sex is easy to get for an average person who has their shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:40 AM
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I disagree with the reasoning to be honest, I think the majority of men complaining they can’t get laid just don’t have it in them to dumpster dive, I know a lot of guys with the mentality of “ pussy is pussy “ and those guys are usually the ones with high body counts Normal people don't need to dumpster dive to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:37 AM
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90% of men can get paid if they want, just gotta aim low ……looooww Most normal men can get laid if they have their shit in order. This means: Having a modicum of social intelligence, including picking up on social cues. Knowing how to socialize like a normal person and how to behave appropriately in social settings. Being empathic of others' perspectives. Knowing how to both have fun and be fun. Not being visibly riddled with frustrations, insecurities or anger. Not being argumentative, disagree…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:33 AM
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He only eats to survive because he has the ability to choose whether he prioritizes food or not- Wrong. The reason why he's not a foodie is because he's not a foodie. He doesn't get as big of a dopamine hit eating food as other people do. He's not craving it because he's not craving it. The same goes for sex. Some people really get a kick out of it, and others don't. It's a fact of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:21 AM
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But thats just in a given area. And that great woman probably already has a boyfriend, or insanely high standards. So you’re stuck dealing with not so great women or just not dating at all. That's called scarcity mindset, which is a great way to significantly reduce the odds of meeting great women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:18 AM
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“Everywhere” is pretty much 1/50 I'll take that ratio any day of the week. That's a huge pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:01 AM
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Pretty much describes most women and attractive men. Don't forget average men, because normal people can get laid if they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:39 AM
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Why are you obsessing over bland mid-tier girls that you can't stand, instead of focusing on the kind of women that you'd enjoy interacting with? There are great women literally everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:38 AM
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You sound fun. 🥱 You sound like you're upset because you'd make the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:35 AM
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You're falsely assuming that the people who tell you that sex isn't important only believe so because they have an abundance of it, but that isn't true. A lot of people actually don't find sex to be very important, or they grow out of thinking that it is. Some people think that sex is a nice thing but can go years without it if need be. Others are obsessed with it. People are just different in that way. A good comparison is food. Not everyone is a "foodie". Some people actually don't really care…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:29 AM
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is trolling a 4chan words I would say that facetiously talking about buying a product for the sole purpose of going out and "trolling people" indicates that the person spends way too much time online, yes. The fact that it's some cringy furry BDSM thing doesn't exactly help either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:46 PM
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Yes but they are inevitably going to have times where they fail is the point. They can strive to be better, all neurodivergents can, but will inevitably have moments where they forget or simply cannot behave correctly, the frequency depending on the disorder. With those who display intellectual empathy, it is still rather obvious they don't feel it the same way others do, so you would still be "seeking out someone who displays problematic behaviors." Everyone displays some problematic behaviors.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:42 PM
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Fine if you want to argue technicalities It's not a "technicality". It's a significantly negative accusation based on a falsehood. but the fact is the whining and complaining about women having more opportunities to sex than they do is half a step away from becoming an incel, and it shouldn’t be encouraged. On what basis? People make observations about what's good and bad in society all the time. Recognizing or even venting about the frustrations that are imposed on you by an unjust dynamic does…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:35 PM
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Sometimes people have issues themselves and feel more comfortable seeking out a neurodivergent person since they themselves are also neurodivergent. No one is totally unproblematic, nor is anyone perfectly mentally healthy, so we must compromise somewhere. You're falsely equating neurodivergent behavior with problematic behavior. Someone who is neurodivergent can strive to be constructive and live a constructive life, and through that decide to only seek out neurodivergent people who are also tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:22 PM
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You totally missed my point. I wasn’t debating wether there is an imbalance or not, I’m saying it doesn’t matter. There’s no law of the nature saying men and women should have equal opportunity for sex, just deal with it If you acknowledge that there's an imbalance then you can't complain that men believe that they're "owed sex" just because they're venting about this imbalance. Venting over something that is frustrating doesn't mean that you believe that you are entitled to be given the solutio…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:12 PM
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I’ve seen it most on this sub espoused by men. Not women. See ToughAnswers and those similar. It was actually popularized by feminists (at least in recent times) as an argument for the perceived unrealistic standards that women are held to, in that a woman has to be either a slut or housewife but is not allowed to be both or something inbetween. From there it's been adopted or partially adopted by other subcommunities as well but for different reasons (as is often the case with ideas), so I'm no…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:09 PM
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No personal attacks. Alright, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:05 PM
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Men would just say “yay! I love all of these sluts 🥳🤗🤤! But there’s no commitment material women 😡😫 who I can view as my personal trophy.” Said no man ever. What actually happens is that women who are sexually promiscuous and have a high partner count very often have personality styles that aren't suitable for making a relationship work. I can say from experience that 100% of the women I've been with (both casually and romantically) that have had a high partner count and were sexually promiscuou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:02 PM
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Unfortunately there’s a fair amount of men especially on the internet that feel like the world owes them sex.. they need to be told that not only does the world not owe you sex, it doesn’t owe you a thing. If you’re unattractive, unhealthy, have a shitty personality you’re going to struggle to find sex. That’s just the way it is. Wrong. The sexual marketplace is significantly stacked against men, and the amount of work that men have to put in compared to women is ridiculously unbalanced. The fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:54 PM
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I don't know about the diagnoses that you mentioned, but I can say that I categorically stay away from anyone who displays even a hint of being able to bring problems into my life. Here are some common things that makes me immediately reject someone: Purple, pink or blue-colored hair. Nose rings. An unusually high amount of tattoos and piercings. Hyperactive or manic behavior. A disregard for other peoples' feelings. Self-obsession. Validation-seeking. Inability to behave properly in social situ…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:42 PM
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Online dating is different than in person. Everything else you’re saying is nonsense to me. It's different in some ways, but it's not harder. It's actually easier, and better for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:32 PM
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No shit are people going to be weirded out if your appearance or way of carrying yourself is completely inconsistent with your actual lifestyle. If you helicopter in for a regular workday as a janitor, you can be sure that people will be weirded out by you and possibly even start avoiding you. Stop conflating social dynamics with dating dynamics. Being congruent is just common sense in any social setting. Also, stop conflating looking good with dressing like a Fortune 500 CEO.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:16 PM
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For example my man bought me a kitty collar when we were young just to troll people, and the only person who got trolled was his straight-from-East Euro village-mom. I don't know what's worse, the fact that you go out of your way to make people uncomfortable for no reason whatsoever, or that you describe the act using dumb internet lingo like "trolling". For the love of everything holy, please spend less time on the internet. You talk like someone whose entire life revolves around 4chan.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:56 PM
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You are using raw numbers as if humans are robots. I'm using numbers to show you how online dating is actually better. In no way does that reduce humans to "robots". Women on dating apps have a plethora of options that regular women do not have. They can get approached in person and on the apps, especially if they’re attractive. This is a level of competition very different than prior generations of dating, the two experiences can’t even be compared. People on the apps behave differently than in…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:48 PM
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Are you in opposite world? Man on dating apps get turned down, unmatched, ghosted WAY more than they ever would in person. For the obvious reason that there’s no social consequences for doing so and options are unlimited. Online dating is extremely different from in person. You're completely missing the point. The experience on Tinder of: Swiping right on 100 women. Being ignored by 90. Matching with 10. Getting responses from 5. Getting a date from 1. Is the digital equivalent of: Approaching 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:42 PM
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You’re also missing the fact that a very sizable portion of women only use online dating to inflate their egos with no real intention of finding a relationship So what? That happens in real life too. Even if what you say is true, literally all of what I said still applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:37 AM
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This is very untrue. The quantity of options changes the incentives and behavior of users. For men, the competition is often extreme in a way that offline can never replicate. You say that what I said is untrue, but you fail to explain how it's untrue beyond a vague comment that "incentives and behaviors" change. I repeat: men get to skip the requirement of having to be disarming through charm, since the painful and complicated approaching step is replaced with a simple swipe. With online dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:29 AM
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“Very few of the variables tested seem to support RP interpretations of how sexual satisfaction Is achieved.” Yes, and like I said, it's just a long list of sex statistics. Posting a long list of excerpts and somehow thinking that their mere existence is going to somehow make your point for you is about as bad as you can possibly make an argument. Especially when your point is just a one-liner statement about the idea that "RP interpretations" of how "sexual satisfaction Is achieved" is somehow …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:28 PM
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He stated it. Did you not read the post? I obviously read the post, so maybe clarify your objection in a bit more detail rather than just vaguely referring to OP's post in its entirety.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:21 PM
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I find that a lot of nerds actually look pretty OK. I think it's more the personality that is the issue. What I've noticed is that people online seem to be overwhelmingly unlikeable due to being selfish, self-absorbed, cranky, antisocial and/or stubborn, which I guess would explain why they're online to begin with. I more or less dismiss 98% of the people I see online as angry, unlikeable loners who are unwilling to change their ways, and I think it's a pretty accurate assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:03 PM
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What about that is not clear? I mean, you're making a lot of leaps. For instance: The point is that women who are classed as "low libido" in marriages are often just not enjoying the sex and or the relationship What are you basing that on? Because there are so many things that can affect libido in a relationship, ranging from relationship monotony to hormonal changes. I'd go even further to say the worst affected women are those that do what Manny PPD men encourage and married young as they do n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:14 PM
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I mean, it's just a long list of random sex statistics. What's your point more specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:44 PM
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if it's hormones, what has changed? Women have always had hormones. Why are they acting different now? How are they acting different do you mean? I still don't see your point. Can you state your opinion in more detail?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:42 PM
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You're mistakenly conflating marriage with relationships. Breakup rates are roughly the same for other relationship types, so rather than assuming that women initiating divorce is somehow indicative of the inevitable failure of men to be attractive in long-term relationships, it's more likely that marriage as a relationship form statistically selects for individuals with personality types that are more prone to be having the kind of relationship issues that lead to divorce. Furthermore, your ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:39 PM
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biological realities don't cause cultural changes. biological realities are static. I have no idea what you're talking about. You're being vague. I said: "The reason why women care so much about appearance has nothing to do with confidence and has everything to do with how hormones affect human behavior" To which you replied: "this has been biologically true since the dawn of time so it does not explain a modern problem that just hasn't been going on for millennia" What exactly are you talking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:25 PM
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Person A: He is a great catch, but due to factors that are out of his control he is ignored by the opposite sex. Person B: He is not attractive to the opposite sex, and he needs to be very humble and put a lot of work into improving his attractiveness - both physically and personality-wise. You think you are Person A, but most likely you are Person B.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:10 PM
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this has been biologically true since the dawn of time so it does not explain a modern problem that just hasn't been going on for millennia. What do you mean by "modern problem"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:03 PM
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I'm not familiar with this info that hormones specifically make women want to put on makeup or dress themselves up in some eye-catching way. Got any sources that explicitly state that? I don't have any "sources that explicitly state that" because I didn't explicitly state that hormones make women want to put on makeup. What I did say was that women care about their appearance because of the social dynamics that are created by how hormones affect human behavior. This is in reference to the fact t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:59 PM
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OLD accelerate existing dynamics, so women have to reject harder and men have to approach harder. And each activity loops positive feedback for opposite. So once women start rejecting harder, men have to push more approaches, which only leads to more rejections on women side and so on. You're completely leaving out the part where online dating automatically communicates an explicit mutual interest between both parties that you otherwise wouldn't have been able to establish in real life. In the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:11 PM
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There is zero difference between online and offline dating, aside from the fact that with online dating men get to skip the requirement of having to be disarming through charm, since the painful and complicated approaching step is replaced with a simple swipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:04 PM
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The reason why women care so much about appearance has nothing to do with confidence and has everything to do with how hormones affect human behavior. Women are biologically inclined to try to attract high-quality men by attempting to be as appealing as possible. We wouldn't have a culture that revolves around women wearing makeup if it didn't make them significantly more attractive in the eyes of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:00 PM
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