sventheviking Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	[FR] Charity PUA? Upvote for spreading the PUA love.	/r/seduction	02/02/12 04:18 PM
1	Do you think it's a bad idea to tell your girlfriend about being into the Seduction Community? I don't mind talking about my interest in reading people; hell, that's most of the reason I'm here. It's something not entirely creepy and its a fairly good conversation topic... whereas full disclosure of sed could cause tension. I like Shpox's approach; many women know that dating is a bit of a circus these days, and some welcome the honest approach. Definitely a case-by-case basis, though. Some people are much more cool-headed / open than others.	/r/seduction	25/01/12 07:56 PM
2	Not talking clearly hurts my game/alphaness My fix was over-articulating everything for about a month.	/r/seduction	13/01/12 01:55 PM
2	Bar opener...any comments? It's a means to an end, but tipping is sort of a superfluous subject. Why not use something like trending men's fashions (i.e. ask their opinion on Justin Bieber hairstyles, ask them how your wingman would look in one, etc). They'll show a little more personality with a question on men's fashion than asking about tipping etiquette. It's a quick way to judge how open they are, and how pretentious they are. Plus, if they say something like "omfg I LOVE JUSTIN BIEBER!!1!" you'll know to gtfo right …	/r/seduction	09/01/12 01:39 PM
1	So, I seem gay. How does this play into the world of pickup? I think it also depends on where you live. Growing up in rural Maine, I had no trouble picking up women just being my normal manly self. I now live in DC. Large city, very liberal, egomaniacs everywhere... and if you're not at least somewhat metrosexual, you're going to have a rough time.	/r/seduction	04/01/12 06:10 PM
3	So, I seem gay. How does this play into the world of pickup? feels good man You just had to, didn't you.	/r/seduction	04/01/12 05:52 PM
10	Is it.worth it to bother with a super flirtatious girl? Even if she were single, some women are just naturally flirty, and it really doesn't mean anything. They're the best women to get friend zoned by, since they're great for PUA practice. I would never get more involved than that, though.	/r/seduction	04/01/12 05:46 PM
3	Tell Someone Lying From Someone Who's Not Spot on. I posted this about 6 months ago, but it may be worth reposting it... I believe you got the directions confused. When they look to -their- left means they're accessing their left brain - that is to say, they're recalling information from memory/logic. The right half of the brain is the CREATIVE brain, ergo that is where the eyes innately move when trying to create a memory (like a lie). Now that left/right are sorted, eyes in the direction of up/down are usually more for deducing what i…	/r/seduction	29/12/11 02:19 PM
5	LMR 3 nights in a row... is this girl stringing me along This, IMO. If she genuinely wanted to, she would.	/r/seduction	29/12/11 02:14 PM
2	What do you think is the best way to get warmed up and get yourself in a good state before you go out? I second the music thing... It seems sort of immature and crazy, but I sing like mad to some alternative shit. Ben Folds, usually. I live alone, so it helps get my vocal chords warmed up... I don't exactly sing while out, but usually by the end of the night my vocal chords become strained and it gives my voice a deeper/raspier/sexier sound. Plus, if I meet a girl that wants to do karaoke, I have a decent place scouted out and my voice will be a little less shitty. Not to mention, Ben Folds just …	/r/seduction	28/12/11 11:39 PM
2	What are ways to become more interesting? Keep an odd pet... cuteness scores points too. My brother has a chinchilla that is often times the focal point of conversations. Travel abroad... always a good conversation piece. The more common places (Europe) tend to be a good way to connect with others, but I wouldn't call it a way to be "interesting". Australia, Japan, India, anywhere in Africa... those make for some good topics. I've had to travel to the Middle East a few times... not exactly a popular tourist destination right now, but it…	/r/seduction	28/12/11 03:42 PM
3	I Think You're Fat Yeah, there's a balance that needs to be maintained. Just because you're radically honest doesn't mean you're allowed to have no tact. Don't voice an opinion unless asked for it, and you'll come off as much more friendly. Until they ask you a question, of course. Edit: And if a girl ever asks "do I look fat in this", be prepared for an ensuing shitstorm. Ladies... if you don't want an opinion, don't ask for it.	/r/seduction	28/12/11 02:57 PM
5	I Think You're Fat Radical honesty is the sort of thing that will get you extreme results in either direction. You're as likely to get slapped as you are to get laid. Some women are just sick of dishonesty, so for a woman to meet a dude that's completely truthful can be a big turn on. The catch is, you have to actually be completely truthful. It is very much not for some people. Turns out, I'm inherently an asshole. Radical honesty didn't work well for me. Also, a relationship based on it is completely doomed... i…	/r/seduction	28/12/11 01:17 PM
63	I'm SICK of browsing r/foreveralone & r/depression only to wallow in my own self pity - so I've decided to change, and need your advice guys... 1.) Go to the gym, get into a schedule. Don't burn yourself out with a schedule that's too aggressive... just get comfortable with the gym. 2.) Get a hobby, find some facet to interact with others (in person) about said hobby. A book club, flag football team, bowling team, rock band, whatever. And talk to everyone, everywhere (except the men's room)... surprisingly, being social is the key to having a social life. 3.) Not everyone is awesome. Prepare to say "fuck it" if you meet someone that you…	/r/seduction	28/12/11 01:08 PM
8	Need Advice with a Guy Friend [–]Im_a_rapist 5 points 5 hours ago You can't force him. ...	/r/seduction	28/12/11 01:43 AM
6	Need Advice with a Guy Friend Point of reference, I was a recluse... full out panic attacks in public, etc. I somehow doubt he's any more socially awkward than me. Learning to read people helped me be more comfortable in public and with the people around me. The book "What Every BODY is Saying" by Joe Navarro is a definite suggestion. It's about reading body language, and it's very very good. Also, I've seen relationships thrive on nothing more than being beautiful. It's shallow and sort of depressing from an existential poi…	/r/seduction	27/12/11 08:09 PM
7	Need Advice with a Guy Friend This sort of dude sticks with the "I'm destined to meet the right woman on my own one day... cheap tricks be damned" mentality. I respect it, but at the same time pity it. Guessing OP's friend is similar. Best course of action is to teach them about reading IOI's... this is something they'll see the intrinsic value of and they will not see it as a sleazy way to get ahead... just something to help them save their time, or avoid misreading. From there, become more and more broad with the material …	/r/seduction	27/12/11 07:56 PM
2	Good response to "You're funny!" Negging is fine if you're not directly insulting her. Give her shit about her taste in beverage or the car she drives or something. Women don't really care about that sort of thing, and negging is about showing that you are not willing to bend your own opinion just to come off as agreeable. Sometimes you can give her crap about something that she might care about a little bit, like her shoes or something, but her looks? No sir, that's how you end up dating your own hand.	/r/seduction	27/12/11 07:36 PM
3	Good response to "You're funny!" I personally dislike this one. It sounds too much like something a woman would say when fishing for compliments.	/r/seduction	27/12/11 07:25 PM
1	How to get your hands out of your pockets Made me think of this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QqhkdHlCHLk It's just a formed habit, really. Every time you notice your hands in your pocket, take them out. You'll do it less and less and become more and more comfortable with just having your hands rest at your sides instead.	/r/seduction	21/11/11 11:27 AM
6	Help me find a way to succeed...be as harsh as you can! I need all the tough love I can get First thing I noticed in this post is your lack of confidence. That's the first key... you're not a mega AFC, just an AFC. 5'3" is only a bad thing if you let it be; plenty of women are shorter than that, and prefer somewhat short men as a result. You basically have an unusual advantage when it comes to shorter women that taller guys don't get... it is easy for them to see you as less intimidating, easier to see their eyes, etc. It makes you unique not less attractive. As for maintaining a worko…	/r/seduction	14/05/11 07:44 PM
2	How do I set up that first kiss? This. In addition, read up on IOIs if you feel unsure... I'm sure there will be plenty of them; seeing them should help build that confidence.	/r/seduction	14/05/11 07:29 PM
0	How do I set up that first kiss? While this has never worked for me when it comes to sucking face, it's never not funny.	/r/seduction	14/05/11 07:20 PM
1	Need some help with reading body language. Any experience or link? I believe you got the directions confused. When they look to -their- left means they're accessing their left brain - that is to say, they're recalling/creating information from memory/logic. The right half of the brain is the CREATIVE brain, ergo that is where the eyes innately move when trying to create a memory (like a lie). Now that left/right are sorted, eyes in the direction of up/down are usually more for deducing what is being recalled. Up implies somebody is attempting to recall/create a…	/r/seduction	11/05/11 03:54 AM