svenz Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Talking to ex after divorce Not wrong at all. You don't have kids, there is no reason to be amicable. Just tell her you need space for a while, or (more dickish) ignore her. Once she's over the relationship (which she sounds like she isn't - and can take multiple years for some people), you can try being friends, or not.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/25 12:29 PM
8	Has anyone been on the r/Divorce subreddit? I feel like it’s run by women and is 90% posts from women talking about how much they hate being married and want a divorce. Lmao basically what happened to me. Ex cheated with her gym trainer. Ruining 20 years of marriage and splitting our family apart. You can do everything right as a father/husband and still get f*cked. It's crazy how common this story is.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/25 10:18 AM
1	How to deal with loneliness, rejection and self doubt? Therapy.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/25 10:04 AM
1	Very very few women actually lift a man up and make them better people You’re talking about a leadership skill that few have, female or male.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/25 09:12 PM
2	Don’t become a stepdad when you already have kids, and don’t get remarried again. This. 5 years out of a divorce now and I'll never get married again. I can't even fathom why any person would do that to themselves.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/25 11:38 AM
3	She’s dating already Holy shit that sucks.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/25 07:44 PM
7	Are any of you in this group on good terms with your ex? Neutral purely for the benefit of our kids and coparenting. It gets a lot easier once divorce is finalized.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/24 06:19 PM
3	Advocate for yourself. Found the glass half full guy.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/24 08:43 PM
6	My divorce broke everything inside and I don’t know how to move forward It's really, really fucking tough. Can you afford a therapist? I'd suggest the first thing you do is find one (I recommend 100% a male therapist/psychologist), meet them once a week, and work on processing what you're going through. It took me a good 3 years to finally feel normal again, but I still have my moments.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/11/24 11:07 PM
2	Think I'm getting laid tonight for the first time since the divorce Yikes wtf man.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/11/24 11:58 PM
8	Wife has a boyfriend already… Welcome to the club buddy. You need to divorce and stop living together asap. Get joint custody. Get therapy. Accept that your ex is a pos. And start your new life.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/11/24 10:46 AM
16	Just slept with another woman again and ended up crying in my bathroom Bro, you need to take a break. Why are you sleeping with women so soon after your divorce/separation, especially when you obv. still have feelings for your ex. You got some shit to deal with and you haven't gotten over it yet.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/08/24 11:13 AM
1	Sexually Frustrated Don't stress out about, take your time. There's plenty of women out there who will sleep with you. The modern dating game takes some time to understand and get the hang of. I was celibate for nearly 5 years (2 years end of marriage, 3 years after). When I finally started dating, I had more sex in the space of a few months than I had in the last decade+. I wish my marriage had ended sooner.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/24 10:59 PM
1	My experience with Corey Wayne He has some good advice in his books for people completely cluess (some of the small things, like how to read a woman for a kiss, etc.). But overall, he teaches mind games and player mentality (aka people manipulation) - which just doesn't work for building real relationships with women. There's a reason the dude has never had a LTR. His book also has a few creepy anecdotes of him manipulating much younger women, which never sat well with me.	/r/ExRedPill	03/12/23 11:27 AM