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I'm not denial anything ya goof, game has changed my life. Stop subscribing so hard to your own biases 🤦🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction14/01/20 02:11 AM
1

Uhh, if you keep trying, you will get a girl. What are you on about lol
/r/seduction13/01/20 08:16 PM
-8

So I'm 6'6, often described as a 9 on a scale of 1-10. I'm funny aswell as charismatic. I'd really appreciate any advice you could give me. Check your ego at the door. It's not attractive.
/r/seduction11/12/19 07:44 PM
2

Polyamoury is fine, it's your comment that was douchy.
/r/seduction04/12/19 03:13 AM
2

so I must be doing something right. #Polyam 🤦🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction03/12/19 07:53 PM
0

Calm your nipples.
/r/seduction18/11/19 06:47 AM
2

Jesus dude stop overthinking this. Get out there. Start. Try. You'll figure it out.
/r/seduction03/10/19 06:57 PM
6

Didn't work for you? Cool essay, though.
/r/seduction19/09/19 07:29 PM
2

Sorry, what? Why do you still deny it? How is this the basis for a healthy relationship? Lying, that is.
/r/seduction17/09/19 07:49 PM
1

I don't care much, but just had to say, I've been complimented a few times the way I've approached, usually later in the interaction. Maybe you're salty that you haven't been? 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction28/08/19 06:59 PM
2

Sure. But for a lot of guys, including myself, I would get maybe one to two matches a month. Not worth the time investment. I've had much better results with real life approaches.
/r/seduction18/08/19 02:51 PM
9

Solution: don't use dating apps, they're shit. Isn't this the seduction sub?
/r/seduction18/08/19 01:54 PM
5

Would you consider posting it publicly, rather than just sending it to him? I think there are bunch of us lurking who are interested.
/r/seduction17/08/19 09:18 PM
2

Oh, God. Calm yourself down, over there. Level up. Lol.
/r/seduction14/06/19 08:06 PM
0

Guys usually aren't approached by women at the gym Dude, guys aren't ever approached by women. At the gym, or not. Not understanding your point here.
/r/seduction14/06/19 02:14 PM
1

I'm bald, and I get close to zero matches. I think some people just don't do well with online dating. Period.
/r/seduction11/06/19 03:05 PM
1

The amount of missed opportunity this man has created is legit giving me anxiety.
/r/seduction10/06/19 01:03 AM
6

The fuck are you on about?
/r/seduction06/04/19 04:11 PM
2

Your experience is invalid, mine is more legitimate.
/r/seduction06/04/19 04:09 PM
3

Can you elaborate?
/r/seduction24/03/19 02:09 AM
2

That's a weird line. "Sorry, I don't have any female friends." Who says that? Meaning you solely hang out with guys, or girls you are fucking?
/r/seduction30/01/19 08:27 PM
1

Question - why do you say not to use a hair dryer? How is that any different than air drying?
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:40 PM
2

You make a good point. I feel similarly, actually.
/r/seduction06/09/18 05:09 AM
1

No one cares.
/r/seduction05/09/18 06:03 AM
3

Straight up fantasy my dude Get out of your head.
/r/seduction05/09/18 01:19 AM
8

In no way is it possible to get a sex offender charge by approaching - that's patently ridiculous. What in the sweet fuck do your approaches look like?
/r/seduction04/09/18 07:18 PM
23

He said he was satisfied with himself. So no, he shouldn't have and did just fine.
/r/seduction04/09/18 07:10 PM
2

Boom.
/r/seduction28/07/18 04:48 PM
1

Be 18. Do 18 year old things. ??? Seduction!
/r/seduction27/07/18 07:12 PM
4

Exactly. Don't be yourself. Being yourself is gotten yourself the results that you have right now. If you're unhappy with those results, there's your reason that you're looking at resources like /r/seduction.
/r/seduction21/07/18 03:59 PM
2

If girls are legitimately checking you out that frequently, how much of your 'game' is simply being an attractive looking person? As someone clearly living in a different reality, it would be straight up strange for a girl to eye me as much as you've described.
/r/seduction20/07/18 07:09 PM
40

"Hi."
/r/seduction20/07/18 06:59 PM
2

Surprise Kanye.
/r/seduction29/05/18 04:46 AM
2

Great stuff.
/r/seduction11/05/18 05:43 AM
2

Such a great explanation.
/r/seduction11/05/18 05:39 AM
1

Wonderful explanation. I've saved your comment so I can come back later and fully take it in. How long have you been doing game? What resources would you recommend to someone just starting out? I focus on daygame primarily, and have gotten few solid numbers and dates, but I have a long way to go. My biggest sticking point is having feelings of unworthiness with respect to physical appearance (bald at a young age, skinny person).
/r/seduction06/05/18 11:33 PM
2

They've changed the algorithm to give preference to gold members.
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:36 PM
0

Personal opinion is it's pretty shit. And I'm in a major city.
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:36 PM
2

Look for an active wing group in your area is one way.
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:31 PM
2

Could you elaborate on answering his question in this case?
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:29 PM
1

Heads up for anyone digging this thread up. We've now got an active WhatsApp group going on. PM with name, age, and daygame or nightgame preference to be added.
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:18 PM
1

Lmao @ username.
/r/seduction01/05/18 05:37 AM
4

Agree agree agree.
/r/seduction22/04/18 04:20 PM
3

Boom.
/r/seduction10/04/18 06:47 PM
3

It's an easy way to set up dates actually. Instagram handle is less if a commitment than a number - easier re compliance.
/r/seduction10/04/18 05:15 AM
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Beauty post. Thanks for taking the time to pay that all out, much appreciated.
/r/seduction09/04/18 07:02 PM
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No problem - I'm working on things and know my sticking points. Wondering how Spotify's business model relates, though? Something I have been struggling a bit with is how to pull from daygame dates - I don't do bars or clubs due to hearing loss and tinnitus issues. Harder to pull from a coffee date compared with drinks at a bar.
/r/seduction09/04/18 04:28 PM
1

I do those things already. I'm only lacking with regards to fitness. I've been looking into fashion and grooming for years.
/r/seduction09/04/18 03:12 PM
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Besides a bicep tear? Get over yourself. I do what I can in light of chronic injury and health issues. Some people have problems you're not aware of.
/r/seduction09/04/18 02:16 PM
1

Curious, how do you use your baby face as an advantage? I have one too, and am also bald (shaved head).
/r/seduction09/04/18 01:59 AM
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And attractive.
/r/seduction09/04/18 01:52 AM
3

Please do a write up on him! I'm interested, and I'm sure others are too.
/r/seduction09/04/18 01:51 AM
1

Fucking useless for me. Cold approach has given me better results, pretty much immediately. I've managed one "date" from tinder and I wasn't attracted to her.
/r/seduction09/04/18 12:56 AM
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a bull elk
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:44 AM
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I have tinnitus. I can one hundred percent relate not being able to go out to bars and clubs. Try daygame maybe? More forgiving a lot of the time.
/r/seduction07/04/18 03:08 AM
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Bullshit.
/r/seduction06/04/18 09:31 PM
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Wheat and dairy. And sugar. Came here to post this. Be strict about it, you'll be acne free in 2 months tops. Mine was so bad at some point I tried rubbing my own piss on my face.
/r/seduction06/04/18 09:28 PM
1

Uhh not going on their bootcamps, bud. Haven't spent a dime.
/r/seduction05/04/18 01:49 PM
1

Lol. You're an embittered dude, huh?
/r/seduction04/04/18 11:14 PM
1

Use your brain. Not hating on you - just think about things logically. It would be harder to fake than it would be to actually do it. Also try cold approaching yourself, you can get similar results.
/r/seduction04/04/18 10:02 PM
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Yeah. I guess you just really hyped up the photo, and it's incredibly underwhelming. Not hating on you or anything, just my opinion.
/r/seduction04/04/18 07:14 PM
0

Are your serious? Look on YouTube.
/r/seduction04/04/18 07:13 PM
1

Owen (dude in video) isn't that attractive. Did you even watch?
/r/seduction04/04/18 07:12 PM
1

Doesn't exist dude. But a Fleshlight.
/r/seduction04/04/18 07:02 PM
1

I can't believe you're serious actually, after seeing the photo. What are range are you set for?
/r/seduction04/04/18 07:01 PM
0

If you never swipe left tinder will penalize you for it.
/r/seduction04/04/18 06:34 PM
1

See my previous comment.
/r/seduction01/04/18 06:33 PM
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That's fair. Some things are unchangeable though, you have to understand. For example, I'm fully bald at 25 - for this reason I get screened immediately by most, but I'm able to work past this once talking to people (in person). For online dating though? Death sentence. Even in a large city. Even with great photos (I'm a photographer). Moreover, currently working with a bicep tear. Been unable to lift for 6 months. Working on it, but for the most part unchangeable. For some, online dating just d…
/r/seduction01/04/18 03:36 PM
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You're attractive. We get it. Not everyone on here is so lucky to have won the generic lottery - myself included.
/r/seduction01/04/18 06:41 AM
2

Wholesome, I like it.
/r/seduction31/03/18 02:02 AM
4

The breath is an object, think of it like a tool - used in a mediation practice to cultivate focus and awareness of thoughts that arise. Anything can be the object. When thoughts arise, bring attention back to object. There are different ways to meditate, yes, but the most simple and often described is a breath based mediation. There is nothing not a good idea about it. It's well established and widely taught. You're saying to bring your attention to your thoughts. What do you think happens when…
/r/seduction23/03/18 11:09 PM
2

Disagree with your answer. The goal is not too quiet your mind - a quieter mind is the result from a mediation practice. The goal is to sharpen your awareness. When thought arise in your mind, gently bring your attention back to your breath. Every time you do this, it's comparable to doing a repetition in the gym with weights. In this way, it's wonderful when your mind wanders, as this allows you the opportunity to practice bringing your focus and attention back to the breath. The result of all …
/r/seduction23/03/18 07:25 PM
1

Second this question. Favorite program?
/r/seduction23/03/18 07:18 PM
5

Practice doesn't make things easier? That's some hardcore denial on your part, bud.
/r/seduction01/03/18 09:02 PM
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Yes, it does. See what I did there?
/r/seduction01/03/18 12:33 PM
0

All the best dude! See you out there.
/r/seduction27/02/18 07:02 AM
0

To each their own, man. RSD has helped a ton of people, myself included. Tbh you just sound judgemental and jaded towards other's preferences. If someone doesn't want to drink, but still wants to practice game, where is the harm in that? What if they have a medical condition where they can't drink - like a previous traumatic brain injury - should they never talk to girls or practice game when they're out at night?
/r/seduction27/02/18 12:07 AM
1

I feel you. I know that's the answer. I'm just bitter, I guess. My friends can use these apps without issue, but I have zero luck despite having great photos /bio. I have a baby face as well so that doesn't lend too well to fully bald. I do shave it completely, though. Currently recovering from bicep tear, so gym is a no go. All in good time, though.
/r/seduction26/02/18 09:51 PM
1

Dude at least tinder works for you. As a bald 25 year old, I wish I could even get a match that doesn't ghost. Also I'm a photographer, so my photos aren't the problem. Count your blessings! "I'm having too much sex!". Sorry man, no sympathy. Get therapy - you already know this is the answer.
/r/seduction26/02/18 08:48 PM
1

Disagree. Look up RSD Tyler - he has a lay count around 900 and never drinks. Why is it creepy if someone doesn't want to drink, but still wants to go out and have fun? Are sober people not aloud to have fun - only drunks? Just a guess, but do you have issues yourself with being perceived as creepy? Your post exudes this.
/r/seduction26/02/18 08:21 PM
1

Uhh, ya goofed.
/r/seduction25/02/18 02:02 AM
1

Plus swiping gets fucking tiring.
/r/seduction21/02/18 02:56 AM
1

Because you're male (approach and pursue) and she is female (abundance of suitor options). That's just how society operates, son. If you're fine to let the interaction die, then do so. Depends where you are in life.
/r/seduction20/02/18 09:40 PM
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I can't even get a match on tinder due to hair loss. I'm a photographer, and have great photos so that's not a factor. For this reason, irl works much better for me. Also, tinder doesn't really develop any valuable skills whereas approaching in person does - it's more fun. Edit: All the girls on tinder aren't necessarily there to fuck - a lot just want validation. Girls can have thousands of likes in their queue, take that in for moment.
/r/seduction20/02/18 08:34 PM
1

Look up Todd Valentine's Daygame. Masterfully done series.
/r/seduction20/02/18 06:49 PM
1

I'm actually asking more about the first date scenario. Do you end up going to a noisy bar club, even though you dislike them? Or do you do typically some sort of daytime activity?
/r/seduction20/02/18 03:55 PM
1

So tell me, why is moving on and letting the interaction die better than trying again? Sometimes these things take work.
/r/seduction20/02/18 03:51 PM
1

Look at the alternative. You don't text her back. She never text you back. The number and connection dies. It's needy if you approach it from a needy frame. It's entitled if you approach her from entitled frame.
/r/seduction20/02/18 03:50 PM
1

Keep us updated. Good luck.
/r/seduction20/02/18 06:44 AM
2

If you're out and about during the day, I've no doubt you'll see a couple girls that you find attractive. The hard part is having the balls to talk to them.
/r/seduction20/02/18 06:24 AM
1

Question for you. After you've got a girl's number during the day, and have started to text back and forth, do you follow up with an invitation for a drink (typically at night) or an activity during the day? I ask because you say you hate noisy bars and clubs, and I do too. But, I've seen some say that coffee is for friends and drinks are more of a man to woman frame.
/r/seduction20/02/18 06:23 AM
1

Text "...?" It's not needy, it's entitled. Todd Valentine talks about this. Comes from a high value frame, you expect people to respond to you. If after that, no answer, move on dude.
/r/seduction20/02/18 06:18 AM
1

I'm going through your post again becauseI found it so useful. As an update, she did end up texting, pretty late that evening. Wasn't a long text, but she did say it was lovely meeting. I took your advice and waited until this evening to text back, and matched her text length (pretty much). Question - you really call the girls you're setting up dates with? Do they always answer? And what if they don't pick up - this seems like a deal-breaker?
/r/seduction20/02/18 02:25 AM
1

Great advice. Thanks for taking the time to write out your thoughts.
/r/seduction19/02/18 05:59 AM
1

Cool, thanks for the insight.
/r/seduction19/02/18 05:08 AM
1

Sorry, who is Dante? The post above you was talking about somebody named Beige Phillip.
/r/seduction19/02/18 04:02 AM
1

Try baby face and bald lol at 25, lol.
/r/seduction19/02/18 03:55 AM
3

I like this thread. Everyone is so understanding, and we can all relate in some way, as guys.
/r/seduction19/02/18 03:53 AM
1

Are you sure about that? I wouldn't say that looks count for shit. Obviously, they count for something. They get your foot in the door. People judge perceived attractive and not attractive qualities, consciously and subconsciously. That said, I have a question for you. I'm having similar problems as OP - I'm able to get numbers fine, but then I get ghosted when texting (or even never getting a text back in the first place, after texting her number, which is frustrating). Any advice?
/r/seduction19/02/18 03:39 AM
2

Good stuff.
/r/seduction13/02/18 05:43 AM
2

So? They're not going to approach you. Society dictates you approach them.
/r/seduction13/02/18 05:42 AM
3

I agree with this post. He's got a fantastic foundation. But he still needs to go out and approach women.
/r/seduction13/02/18 03:42 AM
12

Not if you never talk to them.
/r/seduction13/02/18 03:42 AM
9

Fuck yes. Every open is a win in that respect.
/r/seduction12/02/18 10:19 PM
1

Thanks for taking the time to reply, even though the AMA had technically ended. Cheers.
/r/seduction11/02/18 05:09 PM
1

Serious question - sorry I'm late to the AMA. Having slept with 800 girls, I imagine at this point you probably have herpes (statistically speaking). Do you disclose this to your pulls? 100% not trolling, and curious about your stance on STI's.
/r/seduction11/02/18 05:48 AM
2

Age?
/r/seduction06/02/18 03:24 PM
1

Daygame? Night?
/r/seduction04/02/18 08:53 PM
60

tldw please, can't stand to watch the guy for ten minutes.
/r/seduction20/01/18 11:41 PM
2

Boom.
/r/seduction22/12/17 10:44 PM
3

beta cuck!
/r/seduction21/11/17 12:10 AM
2

Have you at all considered that if you've opened 20-30 sets, and have nothing to show from it, the problem might be with you rather than the girls or the location?
/r/seduction02/11/17 07:52 PM
1

Sure thing. Shoot me a pm.
/r/seduction31/10/17 08:41 PM
1

I do agree with you. So - as per the original question - what apps do you use then?
/r/seduction30/10/17 05:26 PM
1

Update to anyone interested - she texted back! Positive response, she's interested in hanging out. Wow, totally out of left field. Happy for it!
/r/seduction30/10/17 01:00 AM
1

Can you elaborate on which online dating sites you're using? I find tinder absolutely useless for me.
/r/seduction29/10/17 08:34 PM
1

Appreciate the input. And thanks for the congrats - it felt great during but then I felt feelings of rejection after nothing came out of it. I'm sure that's all normal and part of the process, though. In future I'll only use texting to arrange another meeting.
/r/seduction29/10/17 08:02 PM
1

Thanks for the input, I just texted her this morning along those lines. Fully expecting her not to reply, bu I'lll update if she does haha. For some reason when texting, I feel as if no matter what I say it's coming from a place of neediness, as she is fully in control as to whether or not we will see each other again.
/r/seduction29/10/17 07:36 PM
4

Would like to know this as well.
/r/seduction29/10/17 04:22 PM
1

Wondering this as well.
/r/seduction27/10/17 09:50 PM
2

You might want to do some self-searching here bud, before you go off the deep end critiquing everyone else.
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:58 PM
1

Most people might say the same about you :)
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:47 PM
2

lol, picky much?
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:47 PM
1

I don't know man, the detecting eye movement sounds a little robotic.
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:41 PM
5

Boom.
/r/seduction27/10/17 02:32 PM
2

Agree.
/r/seduction26/10/17 07:31 PM
5

And drop the nickname, pua sage.
/r/seduction26/10/17 01:51 PM
24

Seriously. Hind sight, though.
/r/seduction09/10/17 03:51 AM
1

Good question - how often do you get this sort of result?
/r/seduction02/10/17 08:17 PM
3

Care to elaborate?
/r/seduction12/08/17 05:00 PM
-1

Anyone with a Samsung Galaxy S(x).
/r/seduction23/07/17 04:20 PM
1

There is no picture? What are you talking about.
/r/seduction05/07/17 12:51 AM
18

Anyone else to realize how creepy the footage is - with the camera guy following them around?
/r/seduction14/09/16 03:16 AM
2

Kind of on topic - but I have a similar issue. How did you heal your wrists?
/r/seduction29/08/16 12:00 AM
5

Wow.
/r/seduction11/07/16 04:12 PM
3

Ok Romeo.
/r/seduction14/03/16 10:18 PM
2

On the second to last point - how do you go about making friends? I don't have many friends.
/r/seduction15/02/16 03:09 PM
-5

Found the red piller.
/r/seduction28/09/15 11:00 AM
1

Good point
/r/seduction28/09/15 10:55 AM
3

Thank you.
/r/seduction06/03/15 04:07 AM
12

Watch this! And derive inspiration.
/r/seduction24/06/14 09:19 PM
3

Why did you delete the app, out of curiosity?
/r/seduction27/05/14 04:56 PM
1

lol
/r/seduction23/05/14 11:33 PM
0

MUST READ!!! Fuck off.
/r/seduction08/04/14 03:38 PM
1

What about herpes? I would mind having herpes..
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:16 PM
5

If anything, your comment made me laugh and smile. So thanks for that!
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:15 PM
-2

Sorry, this is stupid. Have sex, do it well. That's it.
/r/seduction21/02/14 10:48 PM
2

Freud.
/r/seduction12/12/13 02:39 AM
3

Too true haha. Good luck with your HSV-1, OP; you earned it!
/r/seduction04/12/13 11:37 PM
-1

Shh little distraught neck beard. No tears, only dreams now.
/r/seduction19/11/13 05:05 PM
-1

But.. I am having sex :/
/r/seduction27/06/13 07:58 PM
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