swabfalling Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	[FR] Long time listener, first time caller		swabfalling	/r/seduction	23/03/11 11:52 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I can fall in love with a girl without even knowing her well Your mindset shouldn't be "wow, this girl is great, I wonder if she and I would work", it should be "wow, I'd like to know more about her, and see if she is worth my time." A key mindset to keep in your mind is that girls are great at stealing your time. A girl that is worth your time is a girl who you don't mind giving your time to. You can't know if a girl is worth your time unless you get to know her, and I can bet 90% of them aren't. Chill. They're not worth your time in person, they're not …	/r/seduction	03/06/13 11:02 PM
13	How to ''tell'' a girl you don't want anything serious or exclusive? What I did while I was out on the field, is I'd always bring it up when things felt like they were getting serious. Be a man. Have that talk. As far as what to say? This line has always helped me out: "I'm not looking for anything serious right now. The biggest mistakes I've ever made were because I rushed into something. Let's take it slow, have fun, but keep it casual." What does this accomplish? You're not making any promises. You're laying down the line. And you're being honest. This also af…	/r/seduction	15/05/13 11:15 PM
2	Should I ignore? There's a lot more details we're not seeing here. What was the rejection like? Was it due to breakdown in your game, or lack of attraction in general? What was the message? Most of the time, I'd say ignoring would be the way to go to save face, but hell, if it was a soft rejection, and she's thinking about you, nothing like showing her what she was missing.	/r/seduction	08/05/13 03:04 PM
39	What are you doing before you make out? Also, try to make it an expected surprise. Bitches love surprises.	/r/seduction	13/04/13 03:26 PM
28	I'm Hilarious to the girls I've consciously made a decision not to pursue, boring to the ones I'm consciously trying to pursue (IMO) - how do I act the same every time? Stop thinking about it as "girls I'm pursuing" vs. "girls I'm not". Your goal should be to seduce EVERYBODY. Guys, girls, ugly, hot, straight, gay. The world is your oyster, and seduction techniques are about getting people to like you. Once you get this into your head, your approach is the same everywhere you go, and you end up being the life of the party. This is when those girls you want start coming to you.	/r/seduction	06/04/13 09:31 PM
3	In library, need help with an approach You're like a wolf, with these teeth and these claws, and you're just playing with the bunny, batting it around. You're so money, man.	/r/seduction	06/04/13 07:23 PM
29	In library, need help with an approach "Hey, what are you studying?" "My name is ..." "Come join us" Fill in the blanks with gab. Be upbeat and friendly. Don't be offended if this doesn't go anywhere. You're awesome. Go be awesome.	/r/seduction	06/04/13 01:18 PM
2	How Do YOU meet people? I'm 23/F with social anxiety. I have no friends, and I'm SO bored with my routine life. Advice? How do I "build on my strengths?" Also, I'm a bit of a perfectionist so I can't help but wanna improve on/fix my weaknesses. I've always thought this desire for self-improvement was a good thing. :o It means use what you're good at to your advantage, and then take it to the next level. Self improvement is always good, as the first comment here states, "Seduction is the act of self-improvement". If you discover you're good at making eye contact, and people seem to open up to you, hone that skill,…	/r/seduction	03/10/12 02:50 PM
1	[FR] Night Game + Serious Thoughts on Group Dynamics It's always great to read about methods in action. A lot of the time it's really about attitude and "inner-game", was good reading about methods in this FR, made for a interesting read which was outward referencing, and seeing them in real action. Looking forward to more. And better luck out there with the gatekeepers.	/r/seduction	25/12/11 04:24 AM
26	failed at sex, damage control I'd say this, but lose the ? question mark. Gotta keep the frame.	/r/seduction	04/09/11 02:26 PM
1	[FR] Long time listener, first time caller She did! It's in the update. I'm gonna chalk it up to learning. No big deal, another girl is up to bat tonight hah.	/r/seduction	24/03/11 02:44 PM
7	[FR] Long time listener, first time caller I think it came off a bit eager too. Best of intentions, bad implementation. I don't think all is lost, and I have another date with a different girl tomorrow. It's all a learning process, but damn it's fun.	/r/seduction	24/03/11 02:28 AM