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Not sure if this is a question asked in good faith. But I wouldn’t ever say that because that would be mean. I wouldn’t tell someone who’s looking for water in a desert to drink water from a cute little t-cup that I know contains E. Coli. I wouldn’t want them dating those women because they SUCK. And those women will likely act the exact ways those men don’t like. I’d rather hope they find someone of quality, someone who challenges their viewpoints in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:45 PM
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I think it depends, I think wooing women and getting them to like you is more something to ask men about, however if you’re having relationship problems, the girl you’re talking to is being weird, or you just wanna do something special for her but you’re not sure what, that’s definitely the time to ask a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:28 AM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:31 PM
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Real!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:27 PM
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I just want to ask, are we sure it’s only straight woman in the statistic? Like women dating other women is super common today, could some of them be dating eachother?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:23 AM
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I think a lot of women are just kind of taught that it is. Even though I’m a pretty “sex positive” person I was always told that being “easy” is one of the worst things that a woman can be, and I still internalize a lot of that. I was taught that sex was something women just let men do by the adults in my life, that they have to work for it, and even though I don’t feel that way anymore, my parents and grandparents instilled that into me from a very young age. A lot of women don’t grow out of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:26 PM
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And a small percentage of women who spew man hating stuff shouldn’t affect your views on all of us either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:39 PM
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Agreed. my biggest problem was timing my meals and lack of protein, eating almost nothing all day except something just to keep me semi satiated, like a banana and coffee, and then being super hungry by night time, and then binging. After watching some fitness influencer talk about the importance of food I found out about the importance of actually eating several meals a day each with a good amount of protein, because it’s what really keeps you full, I’ve only been making a heavy point to do tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:16 AM
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So true, I tried an INTENSE calorie deficit a week ago because I was sad about my body and gave up after two days because I was fucking starving and so cranky and depressed, after some research I didn’t even realize how crazy it was that myfitnesspal gave me the recommendations it did for losing weight, I’m almost 5’7 and not even overweight yet and it told me to eat 1,250 calories a day while doing moderate physical activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:33 PM
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I don’t know if you’re a man or a woman but if you’re a a man, you’ve got it spot on for not necessarily having experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:27 PM
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Very very true, my ex was just like this, I think he definitely cared about me but at the end of the day he really did just see me for fun, and all the future talk wasn’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:05 AM
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To be fair I feel like there’s so many movies and shows where the mediocre but still ok looking lead guy persists and persists until he gets the super hot dream girl, and some young men are still being taught by their parents that if you just keep pursuing her she’ll want you. Which obviously isn’t the case but it takes time to unlearn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:10 PM
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I know a guy who struggles, he almost exclusively has dated girls who are kind of weird, his last girlfriend had bpd, I used to be super close friends with her but she was psycho and would do anything for attention. He said he wanted to marry her after like 2 months, His main problem is he has no standards for a woman beyond how she looks because he’s so desperate for a girlfriend that he genuinely will date anybody who’s attractive, he’s also not a bad looking guy himself, but the girls he date…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:56 PM
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I agree with this, I honestly just think there’s a lot less guys in this sort of niche media community who care to put literally any effort into that kind of thing and just succumb to some blackpill nihilism stuff because it’s easier than even slightly adjusting yourself. All of those reasons you listed are why average women “have a bigger chance” compared to average men, “average woman” and “plain Jane 3” clearly have styles/personalities that shine through their pictures which makes them more …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:04 PM
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Average woman and plain Jane 3 are both subjectively beautiful, everyone else on here is just kind of plainly unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:24 PM
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Agreed, they say it’s because she’s wearing makeup, but how does that make a difference if we don’t know what she looks like with none/less???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:17 PM
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I think it’s kind of sweet when men pay, but I think if someone is extremely dead set on a man paying and they haven’t already agreed to super traditional roles, it’s kind of weird. Especially if it’s like a really expensive meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:34 PM
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God I just need to say this, HUNTER EYES ARE TERRIFYING I don’t get it, they look angry all the time, on men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:02 PM
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Not sure, I’m a woman with the exact same experience, I’ve never been hit on by a guy my own age in person, only older men. Online is a different story but I mean that’s online, In person I only ever get looked at by much older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:23 PM
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100%, or even a partner who has ADHD is more likely to understand them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:30 PM
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Fat men are actually not real, they’re a figment of your imagination. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:25 PM
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Well next time I sign a contract that asks me if I “consent to the following” I will make sure to email the writer of said contract to help them to better appropriate their language.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:41 PM
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I’m surprised how many people don’t know the term “nice guy” there’s a difference between a nice guy and a “nice guy” r/niceguys can show you the latter if you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:51 PM
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There’s a difference between nice guys and “nice guys”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:37 PM
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I mean you kind of just agreed with op. Consent is just a word for permission or agree/agreement. I don’t think OP is directly talking about sex when they say that in title. this hypothetical woman didn’t ever agree to the notion that if this man is nice and does xyz for her, that she will have sex with him. She had no knowledge of this transactional relationship, therefore it was made without her consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:35 PM
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It is lol! It may have autocorrected because I have psoriasis and consistently type about that med lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:19 PM
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GREAT point, and I’d like to add, I think even outside of the label of BPD label, a lot of these guys present symptoms of RSD that comes with ADHD and other personality disorders and mental illnesses, and then SOME of these exact men with these issues are the ones that post stuff about how they refuse to date a woman who’s not perfectly stable and has even just mild anxiety/depression. And then they go on to absolutely TRASH women with serious personality disorders, as if it’s their fault that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:45 PM
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Lol, seems about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:36 AM
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I agree with this to a big extent. Most of the girls I’ve known with bpd are actually terrible people and are extremely clingy, I became their special person that they were attached to so I had to deal with it. Bpd is a mental illness developed from some sort of trauma, I don’t think all ppl with bpd are shitty, but a majority are so enveloped in their mental Illness (and I don’t believe it’s their fault) that it’s really hard to see when you become the pos abuser instead of being the victim of …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:31 AM
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For someone who’s so alpha superior he seems to really second guess his choices and is very insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:28 PM
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Ur post history… LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:38 PM
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I admire mens ability to not think about the consequences of their actions. I don’t mean that in the way you think I do though lol. Like not in a bad way. I admire their ability to sometimes make stupid decisions and be able to have fun. Even if they end up getting hurt. But also that’s not good because a lot of men die because of that. I feel being raised as a woman has made me super hyper vigilant about my safety and surroundings and I never let myself do anything fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:18 AM
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I think that this is true but only to an extent. Lots of alternative women are really into raves/party scene, and they might have slept around a bit. I think it’s true alt women have lower standards for men when it comes to things like height or looks, this is because they know what it’s like to be picked on for looking different or having a different personality, wearing different clothes, even if she’s conventionally attractive, some people just really hate when someone isn’t their personal se…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:11 PM
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I think men should be more allowed to express their emotions more freely as they come because it harms them and the other people in their life, and it prevents them from having fulfilling supportive romantic relationships. I think we need to start teaching this to little boys, and also start opening up a bigger conversation about men going to therapy to learn how to emotionally communicate. I see a lot of things on here and in media about how men get left by their partners when they finally open…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:13 PM
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I just want to say some parts of your comment are very funny and I giggled. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:09 PM
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Very interesting advice… I think the men and women’s responsive Vs. Spontaneous desire thing is a much easier and more true way to explain many of women’s attitude towards sex. If it was primarily about validation she’d just go on dating apps and fish for compliments. When me and my boyfriend are having sex I am not thinking about myself other than obviously finishing, I’m focusing on him, how he looks, if he likes what we’re doing. I don’t think about how it validates me literally at all. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:03 PM
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Growing up my mom told my father countless times that she would leave if he didn’t get help for his alcoholism. He became a completely different person when he drank. He never cared. It’s been a few years since she left, but my father is still fully convinced he’s done nothing wrong and my mom just left him and is some evil child stealing divorce ordering money grabber. And they’re still not even legally divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:52 PM
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it’s hard to be a critical thinker on this sub. I don’t even know why I’m here anymore because most of the posts just make me angry because I’m not a crazy man hating feminist but I’m also not a redpill tradwife.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:40 PM
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Because 1, I have BDD so frankly idk what I actually look like and I am OBSESSED with my appearance, especially my wthr, even though I know I’m not how I picture myself it’s honestly awful and I hate it, I am so sad about my looks all the time. I believe BDD in general is becoming more common in young women, and also probably young men too. Social media makes it hard to not hate yourself with this disorder, but it’s not as simple as deleting everything when you have OCD like compulsions that are…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:44 AM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:51 AM
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The aesthetics thing was just funny in my head comparing women in my area to LA whores. I’m sorry but like no. I’m not like that at all, never met another woman in my entire life who actually was. I’m sure you get upset when people say there’s a “general male nature” so I wouldn’t make assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:47 AM
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Yeah, it’s actually kind of funny becauseI just imagine them going to a Midwest suburban store and looking around and seeing all the women in jeans and flannel shirts and thinking about how they’re the exact same type of women as mini dress LA party girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:06 PM
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“again, that’s on women, men can’t do anything to stop that” EXACTLY the point, because what she is referring to genuinely doesn’t center men at all, she’s not speaking out against men, she’s speaking out against the women who keep perpetuating this cycle. This has nothing to do with men. Its an issue that primarily concerns women. About the forever internet thing, unfortunately, now days, young teenagers aren’t taught this as heavily anymore, and when they are, they don’t care, the ones who see…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:03 PM
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some people are unfortunately like that, but you could find people who think that way who aren’t radical feminists. That’s just someone who hates men, I can’t necessarily refute your claim because obviously someone said that to you, but I’m just saying they aren’t all like that. There’s alot more than hating men to radical feminism. actually, I think she only brought up men a few times. Most of the show was her talking about sex work and the harm it can cause to young women, because of the recen…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:03 PM
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Oh I agree, they don’t have to break a sweat, they’re stupid. I’m just saying that If the event a smart woman was on there, they would twist her words, take things out of context, do whatever they could to make her look dumb, because making them look stupid is what gets them the most views. Not trying to be rude here, I don’t get the point of the qoute at all lol. I don’t personally understand it, I have no context and it doesn’t relate to the views of the woman in the podcast. EDIT: elaborating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:35 PM
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Honestly, I think most genuine intelligent women aren’t going to be influencers, they’re not going to want to be in a spotlight, they’re likely not located where the podcast is. On top of that, these podcasts will do anything to make you look bad because the entire point is just to humiliate the girls they have on there and make women look dumb. However, recently fresh and fit clearly didn’t look at one of their guests content, because they recently had @lord.vulvamort on tiktok on their show, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:23 PM
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This really reminds me of that one podcast, I can’t think of the name but basically the host just brings on OF and instagram influencers who are clearly poorly educated, conceited, bitchy women, who call themselves “feminists” and have very surface level views about feminism and sex work, then uses them to almost represent women badly as a whole. Never in my own real life have I met girls like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:59 PM
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I mean sure but that’s not what OP’s post was about. Op specifically states that he is APPROACHED by this hypothetical person. My experience is vastly different from this, could be because I’m very young, culture in schools changes a lot. I was pretty weird growing up, I was best friends with all of the super nerdy kids, the weirder, quiet ones, but I was also pretty outgoing so sometimes the more “popular” people would hang out with me. Still I always had more fun with my other friends because …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:17 PM
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ugly fat woman: “hey! I was wondering if maybe you wanted to hangout and get coffee some time? I’d like to get to know you better!” You: hey, I appreciate it and you seem really nice, but honestly I’m not interested in getting to know you outside of work” ugly fat woman: hey no worries! All good! The conversation ends here, you continue your very normal platonic work relationship, let’s take a look at the other side of the coin. creepy ugly fat woman: “hey! I was wondering if maybe you wanted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:50 PM
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Yes, I second this, I would not be on bc if I was single. It’s not too bad, but the cons outweigh the pros a bit without the pro of better sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:49 PM
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I agree and I thought the same thing when I first joined this sub. I’m a very objective person, I don’t see in black and white, I feel like most of the posts on PPD are amazing talking points that can stimulate genuine conversation about gender issues. However, the people making the posts usually don’t care to have their mind changed, or horizons broadened. They just make them to have others agree and to continue to be angry, and I think this goes especially for red pill men and blue pill women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:04 PM
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On top of that! Let’s add the recent rise in the drug Otezla for weight loss and how accessible it is for celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:10 PM
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This is such an awesome comment! Teamwork makes the dream work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:28 PM
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Bro please shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:59 PM
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lol ur so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:28 PM
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I wonder if he clarified that he was in an open relationship in his profile. I guess it doesn’t matter too much if we’re measuring how the women reacted considering I don’t necessarily doubt the reality for single men he describes here. But I’m sure that not alot of women on an average dating app wants to be in a poly relationship/3 way/ or sex with someone who’s already married to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:13 PM
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Just a circlejerk of what everyone else is saying. Being able to “smell misogyny” really is just noticing the type of person someone is by the things they say. People with poor social skills, or people who spend most of their time in spaces on the internet where bigoted behavior and thought is accepted/praised, are usually really bad at concealing their true nature. The difference between abusive guys and these guys you can just “smell it on” is that abusive people usually have the people skills…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:14 PM
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“Just get a hysterectomy” Yeah, I wish, but if you’re an unmarried single young woman you will usually be turned down by a bunch of god damn doctors “incase you change your mind” But if you want actual reasons for a faulty reproductive system/body pcos and endometriosis are good examples of a faulty build, SO MANY WOMEN go their entire lives having PCOS and don’t realize that it’s the reason their body is so screwed up until they get diagnosed when they’re in their 20s and 30s, also, evolution p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:23 AM
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haha no, Minnesota suburbs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:31 AM
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I love video games and I’ve played them since I was young. I’d really like to have a boyfriend who plays them also. However, I had an ex that was completely absorbed by his game. He wouldn’t talk to me all day, he didn’t have any other hobbies, he only ate quick and unhealthy meals and Diet Coke because he was so eager to get back on his game. When I’d have him come to my house to spend the night, he’d complain about how he missed his games all night, which I literally offered to play on my ps4 …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 09:28 PM
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I’m really young so it’s not really something I’ve thought about yet, I’m already thinking about my future career. But I wouldn’t mind being a SAHM, i actually would enjoy to be a working from home mom. I was taught “domestic” tasks growing up so I know how to do them well. I love cooking, I don’t mind doing household cleaning and stuff, and I’d really like to be home with my kids. Just because I like kids. I also just feel like it would be nice to bond with them, take them to the grocery store …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:17 PM
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I think you took my statement too literally. I more so meant I’m sorry because it’s an uncomfortable situation to be in. Plus she had to go so far to take legal action and never stated the repercussions, how long it took, etc. Plus her experience wouldn’t have altered mine since it happened several weeks ago. I was just telling her that I can somewhat relate to he now, but I acknowledge that it’s a really odd place to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:50 PM
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I (a dumb young lady) was about to do this a few weeks ago, and decided not to because I just had a bad feeling. Thank you for showing me it was valid and I made the right choice. Very sorry this happened though!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:46 PM
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no this seems sort of psychotic and anyone who does this is definitely a weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:45 PM
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I was literally a size zero when I was 12
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:36 PM
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Neither…?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:39 PM
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Exactly. Women are literally more susceptible to STDS though. That’s not me nagging and trying to be sexist against men, or being “boohoo sucks for us” that’s just biology. Along with that, a lot of people, especially men don’t show symptoms of a lot of stds, so how would they even know to get checked? Also- let’s take a moment to ask what std is the majority here? Why isn’t that shown? Because you all should know herpes is INCREDIBLY common and treated with medication- you can have an active an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:08 AM
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And you’d probably get the chance to fuck the bird before you get yourself a woman to even pay attention to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:49 PM
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Because women who want commitment are usually looking for long term relationships. Why would I- someone who wants commitment, “take a chance” on someone who doesn’t think they want to commit to or be with me for long. It doesn’t make sense. The question is easy, women want commitment, it’s societal and biological. If you like someone, and you wouldn’t mind being with them a while, commitment seems normal. By planning your life around, I mean why would you set aside time for someone who doesn’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:45 AM
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Because why would i sit around and “see where it goes” fall in love, start planning my life around someone, and then they just decide they don’t want commitment anymore. It’s easier to narrow down your options when you know who’s looking for what you want also. Also, don’t be in a monogamous relationship then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:18 PM
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It actually really depends on your age, men in their late 20s aren’t going to play with your feelings just to get sex because they don’t have the time for it, they are mature enough usually to get sex if they ever need it. however teenage boys and boys in their early 20s definitely have that possibility because let’s be honest here, teenagers, boys and girls alike, are assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:21 PM
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So edgy and quirky and different!! I like anime and masturbate into my own asshole!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:11 PM
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Real life, don’t come on with the text of it quite yet!!
/r/seduction17/09/21 03:14 AM
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Don’t say hi, say hey instead, then yes say her name, and stretch it out just a little, like “hey vanessaaa” very short. Shows interest.
/r/seduction17/09/21 03:10 AM
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As an average- maybe even a tiny bit above average woman, I can tell you that online is a completely different world than In real life. The truth is a lot of women don’t trust men online, and I think that’s reasonable not to trust ANYONE online no matter the gender. A lot of men online are specifically looking for hookups, now a lot of guys say “well I’m not” well how many guys are on dating apps?? A lot. If we are talking generally, 18-30 year old men, usually fresh out of college or still in c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:00 AM
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I have a boyfriend, so I don’t do this because I find it disrespectful, but before we were together, I look at clothes, does his hair look nicely comed? Is his outfit put together??? If I walk past him does he smell good? These are always things I would notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:22 AM
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This is the perfect analogy for this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:18 AM
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no, its not. this wqs a really odd interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:05 AM
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