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Yeah but men are much more likely to give an objectively mid or ugly woman with bad pictures a chance. Women not so much. This is just human nature. It is what it is, but that's why men struggle here. Women are shallow. That's all it comes down to. I'm not saying that needs to change or that its a bad thing or wrong... it just merely is the case. If you women in purple pill just admitted and accepted that and men just realized that.. well the world would be a lot better place. But feminism has t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:09 PM
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The reason that most men can't get dates on dating apps isn't purely because the user-base mismatch. I know this first hand as I got 10x more matches on dating apps than almost any of my friends, many of whom made more money and were more eligible bachelors who actually wanted something real. It's just that my profile looked more fun and perhaps I'm more physically attractive... What I'm saying is women are shallow. That's why men struggle on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:01 PM
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That's not the only reason... and you'd seriously be lying to yourself if you believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:42 PM
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Check out gerbert johnson on YouTube. He makes a funny series of doing exactly this with different types of profiles. On one profile he made a super Chad account and literally just messaged every single girl "head?" and a surprisingly non zero amount of attractive women agreed to meet up just for sex with the dude. He purposely tried being disrespectful but with an extremely attractive profile and he wasn't turned down very often. That just shows you the actual reality of things. If you are mega…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:41 PM
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Then un-match them? You can't honestly believe that women have a harder time on dating apps just because they have so many options but a lot of them are bad? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:37 PM
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That's the issue... they think they are above men who are in their league. They could get commitment if they just dated in their league. Let's not pretend women are magically better than men. Most women are trash too... and they wonder why they can't get commitment from a successful decently attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:34 PM
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The difference is most women can still get dates and meet people on apps. Most men can not. That's literally the difference and what people complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:33 PM
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That's like the female equivalent to a DND dungeon master neck beard... and it still got asked on dates and many likes. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:30 PM
4

Yeah cause we are not single. GL finding a partner post 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:44 PM
4

We don't pretend it doesn't change things. Girls will literally ignore every red flag to sleep with a guy who looks like that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:50 AM
7

Hamster wheel in action
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:49 AM
1

For sure, long term is pretty much impossible here unless you have history.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:53 PM
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Yeah basically the truth. But if you are top 20% it's a great time :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:33 PM
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Depends on the city and event. I find big edm shows have an unbalanced gender ratio more skewed in favor of guys, but that's just what I've noticed in LA. I feel like there's so many single lonely women in LA lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:55 PM
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*90%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:58 PM
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But it's simply not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:56 PM
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It's not impossible but it's certainly not the norm. Why would I use outliers to direct my world view?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:54 PM
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That she's lying
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:58 PM
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Women have always been this sexualized, maybe we just see it more now that media is everywhere? I guarantee women 1000 years ago were over sexualized by men on the daily. That hasn't changed ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:50 AM
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Okay and that's fine but then we need to drastically restructure society away from mainstream gender roles and let young boys know that most of them will die alone without a partner that loves them. The problem right now is everyone feels entitled to fall in love and have a relationship. That's what is literally creating every argument on this sub when it comes to male / female attraction. This is why red pill and now black pill even exist. And I'm not so naive to not see it as a major problem l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:49 AM
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No no I understand, everything about this entire dynamic is mens fault. From men not trying hard enough, to not being attractive enough, to not making enough money, to not being tall enough, to 'over sexualizing' women, to what socks they decide to wear in the morning. It is all mens fault for their collective issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:05 AM
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Yes cause only women are sexualized in the media... 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:52 PM
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Attractive to me means I would date them as well.. and I'd say I find about 30-40% of women between ages of 20-40 attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:37 PM
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Actually this has nothing to do with me, I've never had an issue dating.. am happily dating a beautiful girl now. I just find it absurd that average women don't find average men sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:25 PM
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Okay so they have just been lying the entire time. The least that blue pill could do is admit that most women will never find most men attractive and that most women just want to date the top ~20% of men.. and that's it. If the world was just honest about this then so many men wouldn't be complaining about preferences. Men grew up with expectations of being able to marry someone they love and have a loving relationship with someone who finds them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:24 PM
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Pointing out womens absurd preferences is childish?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:22 PM
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They can have all the preferences they want, that doesn't matter. We can still point them out as being absurd...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:18 PM
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You've never been cheated on huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:16 PM
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It's the story of like at least 50% of men. Probably more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:15 PM
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And blue pill and women will tell you to suck it up and that's just how life is.. and you should be happy with it.. lmao this is why red pill exists!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:15 PM
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Missing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:13 PM
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Missing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:13 PM
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Women have no sympathy for the average guy. I know really great guys, who make good money, have good hobbies, aren't even fat... but they are just a bit short, or maybe a tad uninteresting at times? And they can't even date without reaching to the absolute bottom of the barrel.. at that point why even try? Average men are told to take what they can get and be happy about it... average women are told to hold out and wait for Prince Charming because you deserve it and are beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:12 PM
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You missed the point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:11 PM
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Fuck and DATE. If women's libidos we're more normal and not drastically lowered by chemicals, medication, and social conditioning then this probably wouldn't be an issue at all. Women used to be hornier and used to fuck average guys who are their looksmatch and be happy about it. Now they literally shame each other and themselves for not dating up. Most women actually think that women are just more attractive than men. The market is now so fundamentally flawed I don't think there is a saving gra…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:08 PM
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What? What is the difference? If they want to fuck you they think you are attractive enough to date. It doesn't matter if you aren't their top choice, they would still date you. Same can't be said with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:02 PM
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I think you missed the point. Trp helps people become more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:59 PM
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Unfortunately kind souls Are hard to come by in this life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:21 AM
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Well are they taller than him?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:19 AM
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No, people purposely misunderstand the red pill here to fit their own narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:14 AM
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No it comes from a place of entitlement. They think they are special.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:05 AM
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I've noticed this as well, and also within my own friend groups... I feel my friends are constantly settling just due to the harsh nature of dating these days. Very Average women view themselves as 8/10s at the least... and the amount of women I see getting frustrated that they can't find a suitable partner for themselves is sky rocketing... mostly because they have unreasonable standards. You see dating coaches and other people who work in this field commenting on this constantly. Most Modern w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:53 PM
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Do you male friends make more money? Have better jobs? Or are they truly punching up all across the board? I just highly doubt that what time think is the case is the case given modern gender stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:49 PM
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In England? The land of clown makeup and insecurity... sure okay. Maybe it's just what you want to see..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:47 PM
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I just use it to detox from porn / internet etc. having real sex is on the table for me tho
/r/TheRedPill01/11/22 09:19 PM
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No one has to know 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:20 PM
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Hit the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:27 AM
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Okay fair
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:34 PM
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She said 5 or 6/ 10 or below lol Send me a pic of a guy who you think is a 5/10 looks wise for ref 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:21 PM
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Yeah obviously! but that wasn’t the question. Just like OP question is very specific two sets of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:18 PM
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They just tap out at bachelors degree cause most people are average intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:17 PM
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Yeah because those men ‘own’ their wives agency. They have control of the money and that’s like the most damning thing they can throw in your face to abuse you. It’s much easier to force someone to love you when they depend on you to survive… sad but true. I could never be with a SAHM. I need my partner to be ambitious and want to do stuff with their life outside of our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:14 PM
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Yeah exactly. would you prefer a hot dumb rich man, or an unattractive nerdy rich man? I think most women would say the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:12 PM
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I know someone who looks like the first guy and owns a successful business. Dude is drowning in pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:04 PM
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If it’s equivalent value then I think I’m okay staying a guy. I’ve never had trouble dating as a guy and generally found what I want in partners. I imagine as a girl I would have to sift through more bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:19 AM
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Don’t overthink it, and just try to have a good time. Have zero expectations on how the night should go and go with the flow
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:58 PM
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One person mocking you shouldn’t influence your behavior towards other people. But I get that it is a trauma some may hold. My advice would be to get over it As for not being able to dance… bro just try to have fun with it, I can’t dance for shit yet all I do is go out partying to dance music. If a girl comes near you, makes eyes at you and is dancing near you, just play it off as a joke that ur a bad dancer but still have fun with it and they likely won’t care. It’s not like every girl is a goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:59 PM
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Yes, entertainment technology I think is a huge driver
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:23 PM
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They are called unicorns for a reason. No one in red pill says you’ll be able to land a top 5% woman. Work on yourself and you’ll be able to land A woman, but most likely not a top 5%. The irony is there are even less suitable men for these top 5% available so even though there is ‘competition’ only top 1% Chad and some outlier chadlites are getting them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:22 PM
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I don’t know if I believe this (what I’m about to say) but I think perhaps one could argue that the decline of these spaces has caused many men to become more undesirable / less dateable due to their lack of socialization and this has led to more women choosing to go their own way. I do agree with you I think there’s more to it than just these spaces being less frequent. I think social media and the internet has created some serious dopamine feedback that just allows people, specifically these i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:51 AM
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This is why LA is popping and the easiest city to meet people I’ve ever lived. Constantly events going on everywhere. Festivals, fairs, movies, park events, sporting events, concerts, raves, beach, etc. there’s a million places to meet people here. Hell you can meet someone in the grocery store
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:42 AM
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That is such a bullshit trope dude, as long as you are respectful and not a creep and read the room almost no woman is gonna cry harassment. In my 26 years of dating, partying, cold approaching etc. i have never once had someone say I was harassing them for simply striking up a conversation Guys are just dumb with it, they think approaching a girl at the gym and saying ‘your ass looks good in those pants’ is worth anything. It’s not. Read the room, only approach a girl if she gives you signs she…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:39 AM
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I feel like most people work less now than ever, but I could be wrong. It is still too high… but it just doesn’t really add up because it’s not like this wasn’t the case 50 years ago or 100+ years ago when people worked 7 days a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:36 AM
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Lol not at one of the 5 coffee shops on the same street in every city. You can literally buy a coffee and sit there and work for 4 hours if you want. Helll I saw a dude setup a fucking Xbox in the shop one day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:35 AM
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If incels knew this they wouldn’t be incels
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:34 AM
2

Bro I’ve read a lot of your comments. Maybe you are the problem. Maybe your personality is the problem. You seem to have this extreme views on woman and dating that simply can’t be applied to everyone. Lay off the black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:33 AM
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Seriously someone tried to dance with you and you thought it was a joke? Here’s some advice bud, girls just wanna have fun. Don’t be a grump when you go to the club by yourself and you’ll have a lot of better results. Also people have been generally accepting of me when I’m out by myself. I’ve met dozens of new people that way, also you don’t only have to talk to girls. May as well just talk to everyone and have a good time bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:27 AM
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How fucking old are you? I’m 26 and go out pretty much every weekend either to a concert, club, bar, or underground rave event.and am surrounded by tens of thousands of other people my age going out every weekend. Maybe it helps to live in a big city, but there’s plenty of shit to do and not all of it is super expensive. Plus you don’t have to drink alcohol if it’s out of your budget. Throw back a couple nips before hand and just ordered sodas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:25 AM
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Are you black?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:22 AM
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You are over thinking this way too much. Just go to a concert of a band you like a lot by yourself and talk to everyone around you… sure some may not be interested but if you are genuinely there to have a good time and make friends you will find people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:21 AM
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If you are cool enough you can go explore nightlife by yourself. I go to concerts by myself all the time and have made countless friends
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:20 AM
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Yupp, just like literally everything else in life. Oh and some people just get lucky. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:07 AM
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Because ugly guys often wrap their personal identity and security around the ability to procure pussy on demand. Only about 20% of men have that ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:06 AM
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Great summary
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:05 AM
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That’s blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:45 AM
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Attractive (yes to a lot of people) Above average intelligence (yes) Ambitious (yes)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:08 PM
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Yep exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:41 PM
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I feel like I’m in a similar league as OP, though not 6’ and I am not a Chad either. I know who Chad is though. I’m friends with many of the fitness models in LA at my gym. Those guys are Chad and they live on a different planet. They don’t have real jobs, they are literally models/Instagram famous. 6’+, and shredded to th teeth looking like a basketball player mixed with Bruce lee. And yeah they could probably get any girl they want by snapping their fingers. Bonus points that their lifestyle j…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:41 PM
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Yea you and every other girl on PPD. The thing is that in the real world, this is who the majority of woman are chasing. NOT ALL women will be like this, but enough are that it is a valid rule to play life by.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:36 PM
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Simping isn’t purely about dude spending money on only fans. Simping has existed forever well before any technology. Simping can be as simple as some dude being brutally friendzoned by the girl he’s chasing in highschool and basically becomes her best friend and emotional dumping ground. He will prob do lots of stupid stuff for her trying to get laid and it will never happen. All the while leading the girl into further delusion of her relationships and personal self worth
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:38 PM
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I’m guessing that Tom knew about this and didn’t care… cause I’m guessing the relationship ended AWHILE ago. I have no doubt they prob were both cool with some lowkey cheating… lol If he didn’t know… than shit man! That’s rough but he will clean up in the divorce settlement if that’s the case lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:30 PM
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No there are videos of him naked jerking it in a pool right in front of her, and then he posted a picture of them hugging on Instagram last week. It’s the biggest troll I’ve ever seen… and seriously Ab is a huge cunt here along with Gisele. He didn’t deny the videos either.. he’s tweeted talking about them lmao ab Instagram post
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:25 PM
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Have you not seen the videos with AB and Gisele? LOL I think their relationship probably ended awhile ago. They are a celebrity couple it isn’t the same as us plebs. If anything most public divorces between famous people probably have a bit of theater surrounding them as it’s good press 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:19 PM
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Make sure you encourage your son to socialize with girls even at a young age. At 5 years old he should know girls aren’t scary and they are just normal people he can be friends with. This will go so far for your son.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:54 PM
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Many parents actively sabotage their children from dating early on and this leads to years of struggle for those kids. Here’s what my parents did, from a young age (literally since I was 3/4) actively encouraged me to socialize with girls as well as boys. Pushed me to play sports. Pushed me to do music / art. My dad taught me discipline and hard work. My mom taught me manners and how to be nice and respectful to women without being a simp. From the time I showed my first romantic interest in a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:50 PM
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Wow that sub is eye opening and pathetic lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:42 PM
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The things you mentioned do matter when it comes to how attractive a woman is and more importantly how suitable she is as a long term partner. Yes the bar may be low for a ons but for a long term partner I absolutely care about education, assets, social status, career, etc. Generally speaking though all these things culminate into a general vibe of a person. I like certain peoples vibes more than others for seemingly no reason but it’s really just about how they carry themselves, their personali…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:42 PM
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Yeah guy gamers can be absolutely disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:55 PM
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Men often cheat to satisfy their ego. Or because of insecurity within their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:05 PM
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20 years isn’t that old man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:05 PM
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I know if I ever were to reach that point the main issue it would bother me is because part of the point of having sex is to be sexually desired. There’s an entire emotional and ego stroking element left out of the equation with a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:33 PM
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Yes I should Step up and defend all women who make poor choices everywhere! I’ll take punches for all of you. Just line up ur abusive boyfriends to fight me. Do you see how ridiculous it is to place responsibility for abusive men in a relationships on men who have nothing to do with said relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:02 PM
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The funny thing is this all really depends on how society is structured. In a more ‘natural’ less evolved society it wasn’t an issue for less men to reproduce. The kings fucked and the village raised the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:16 PM
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you are absurd to ‘debate’ with here. You are clearly taking what me and the op of this comment thread are saying to the extreme. Being cooperative may be fine for staying alive but it’s not a good mating strategy. That’s the point, got it? And it never has been. Christianity only more recently enforced monogamy in humans and leveled the playing field for weaker ‘nice’ men, before that a majority of men never even reproduced.!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:13 PM
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I’m referring to the common internet trope ‘nice guy’
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:09 PM
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That still has nothing to do with being a nice guy. A bunch of douche bag football players cooperate very well but aren’t ‘nice guys’. A board of directors for a major corporation cooperate well but also aren’t necessarily ‘nice guys’. And especially in the past when most people made their living via hard labor, being ‘nice’ really had no advantage. Being a nice guy ≠ being cooperative
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:06 PM
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Being able to cooperate has nothing to do with being nice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:01 PM
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Yupp and in many cities in Cali hot fun girls far outnumber eligible bachelors… like LA is literally one of the easiest places to get laid on the planet, I guarantee it…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:44 AM
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There isn’t a silver bullet for anyone. Not even the most attractive and rich man in the world would be able to pick up every girl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:00 AM
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If you are a 7 making 80k per year but are also very charismatic and fun then you’ll do fine. You basically described me… I’ve been in an LTR for awhile but since I started lifting last year I started getting hit on by girls when I go out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:59 AM
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Southern girls suck man.. seriously don’t waste your time down there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:57 AM
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because being a nice guy in any other time period besides our modern has generally been a bad survival strategy and thus a bad dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:37 AM
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Uh no I don’t approve of abusive men, if a man was abusing my sister or mother or other family member for instance I would absolutely step in. I think you’ve missed my point. All I’m trying to say is that ‘society’ doesn’t excuse abusive men, weak women who choose to date them do. If a man starts abusing a woman out in public 99% of the time he will get his shit rocked by other dudes. But at the end of the day it isn’t our collective job to save these women who decided to date a criminal/drug ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:34 AM
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What do you want? For white knight straight spy boys to come in and save you from your abusive partner you picked?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:09 PM
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So what you will want to avoid is any guy who presents anymore than one dark triad traits. The problem is that women typically find men with at least 2 dark triad traits hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:40 PM
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No prob
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:16 PM
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Lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:07 PM
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a -1/2 smv will inevitably lead to a dead bedroom. I think monogamy can never be perfect, someone will always be settling or feel like they are settling in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:46 PM
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If you have decent style / looks, lots of ambition and charisma you can land models all day. You don’t even have to be rich if your doing cool shit and working with people who have clout. It is a weird game out here compared to anywhere else in the US. The ratio is skewed in favor of dudes out here tho. There’s 10 attractive girls for every eligible bachelor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:44 PM
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Meh I never see hot chicks crying over losers… at least not here in LA.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:39 PM
1

Well it’s both. At first you go to porn because you crave some sort of sex but can’t get it IRL, then you become addicted to it and stop trying to have sex irl because you can just easily watch Porn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:35 PM
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Maybe it’s just that a girl wants a guy who’s higher value than herself. It’s why college educated women almost never date anyone lower than their education level. It’s why women prefer to date men who make more money than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:33 PM
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Yeah but to those dudes having a girlfriend at all is above average for their life. What is average or not is all about perspective which is why the results of guys and girls in the dating market are so wildly different. In my anecdotal evidence, the only girls I see in relationships who are TRULY happy and infatuated by their man are those who are dating high value men. Usually these guys are way out of their league. That is the only way these women have zero problems and love their bf uncondit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:21 PM
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They aren’t happy with average results, they just accept them. Almost No one in the modern world is genuinely happy with average anymore. Especially not the younger generation who grew up seeing perfection thrown in their face 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:06 PM
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Women aren’t ONLY attracted to hot or wealthy men, but they are the MOST attracted to hot and wealthy men. Even though a majority of women would prefer to date a top 20% man, obviously not all can get that and many women will settle. Many women are bitter about this but at the end of the day it makes more sense to most of them to settle with an average dude making 50k then go it alone in life and die a single cat lady in debt. What you should be asking yourself is, how many of these women dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:01 PM
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Was she also short and ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:54 PM
0

No ur ex is just a pussy. That is such a blessing, I would be happy for my girl if she inherited a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:21 AM
1

I feel your own standards for who you end up being attracted to may be too high. Are you only going for very attractive men with lots of options?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:31 PM
1

Not strong. They may both be upset with the way the world has become, but the solution and end goals are totally different. The ideologies live to serve different purposes. Redpill is about getting laid and being a better man for yourself. It isn’t a political ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:08 AM
4

Well that’s not your average hardcore conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:04 AM
3

Care to explain
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:03 AM
1

It depends on the guy. Every guy may be lacking something important that would help them, though there is a lot of general advice. My number one rule, girls just want to have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:03 PM
1

Just make sure they lift weights and don’t become social outcast. Teach them how to make money, how to be something with their life. Give them ambition and a reason to aspire for their dreams, whatever they may be is not as important so long as they are relatively realistic. Women like driven men. They won’t have trouble if you just teach them fundamentals of red pill development.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:15 PM
0

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:54 PM
0

For real, it’s sad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:29 AM
5

Make sure they don’t struggle then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:06 AM
1

Be good looking enough, be fun to be around, escalate things romantically through Flirting. It’s not really that hard. Tho people struggle with any of the steps and it suddenly Seems an impossible task.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:00 AM
1

I think attraction is just the way to get in the door. Like you have to be above a certain base threshold for most women, but once ur in the door it’s up to your personality to actually get anywhere. Also yeah you gotta go where people are looking to meet people. Tbh I’ve found like concerts / festivals and that sort of thing to be a good venue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:59 AM
43

‘The past is the past’ ‘the past doesn’t matter’ ‘The past doesn’t determine your future’ etc. there’s a whole lot of cope built up to protect this idea
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:25 PM
8

It would be fun but it’s not a need. Some women literally need a house, 2 kids, a dog, 3 vacations. Year, a condo in Florida, etc. to feel happy. I think women ultimately care about keeping up with the Jonses more than me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:05 PM
3

I’d love a career focused partner, and if they made more money than me that’s awesome. If anything it would just inspire me to work harder with businesses and make more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:03 PM
2

Sadly true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:44 PM
0

I mean it’s ridiculous that these men have an expectation of a perfect monogamous housewife in the first place. Legalize prostitution and bring back polygamy and real mate selection. Incels can fuck off, no one deserves the right to be in a relationship with another human being just for being born
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:44 PM
1

Okay cool if they want to be violent then they can be institutionalized
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:42 PM
5

I don’t necessarily believe that the dissolving of social norms is a bad thing. I just think maybe it’s a huge shock to people who expected the world to be one way and can’t adapt to how it is currently changing. Because truth be told many people are thriving in the way the world is today. Imo it might not be a bad thing if a few generations of incels get left behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:01 AM
1

There is no middle ground. The truth is from a biological perspective it’s a good thing women are so selective these days. We have too many people on the earth already, we may as well try to populate it with the best of the best. There is sort of a soft eugenics going on now with the world of social media, OLD, etc. the social order is changing. What is acceptable is changing. You no longer need to be married young and be involved in some religion you are free to be sexual and date whoever you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:56 AM
1

Jfc that’s disappointing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:54 PM
2

What percentage of women are obese? A lot of guys will even date a woman that is ‘overweight’ according to bmi. Some women look good being ‘curvy’ but can still be overweight on BMI scale
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:47 PM
12

If you can be just friends with many women over your life you’ll never have a problem with personality. My golden rule to always remember: girls just wanna have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:33 PM
3

I like you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:31 PM
1

Ur vibrator doesn’t count
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:29 PM
0

You should ask my petite gf how many times she’s orgasmed already this month
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:27 PM
2

I’d say in general usually women reject men. And that is kind of known around here and a part of the reason why blackpill and redpill exists. The understood rule is that 80% of women are attracted to the top 20% of men which leads to an imbalance in the dating market causing a lot of average men to get rejected by average women. While average women can still hook up with above average men. I think maybe you are misunderstanding some of the other threads you are mentioning? I’m not sure specifica…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:26 PM
4

Oh Yeah, some do, many don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:22 PM
0

To each their own, I’d rather get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:58 PM
13

Physical attractiveness is almost always important for a guy, but tbh I’ve seen plenty of attractive 30-40 year old women. Some of them even single. All it takes for the most part is being physically fit and not dressing like a complete weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:56 PM
7

Yeah true, however this leads to what the end of the post is talking about… average women with high standards staying single longer and living in a ‘fantasy’.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:55 PM
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You can have high standards and still find dates/partners in your 20’s, the only problem is if you yourself can’t live up to them. I have a ton of friends in happy relationships or already married who are younger than me (26).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:51 PM
4

Lmfao the way this is written is beautiful
/r/TheRedPill02/08/22 04:05 AM
5

Imagine being ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:16 PM
1

In my experience bigger the city the easier it is to date people and hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:02 PM
2

because I want to believe that unicorns exist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:43 PM
2

You’ve never got a girls number from the store or the gym? Ofc no reasonable person is going to try to fuck you at the gym or the store, I’m commenting on the willingness to engage in general and trade info / be interested in a future date. I don’t really care to split hairs here, basic point is, you get more shredded you’ll have an easier time gaining interest from women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:46 PM
2

Does them asking to trade numbers and hangout again count? Does them making out with me before they leave the party/bar count?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:41 PM
2

Wel yeah isn’t that the point of going g to the gym!!??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:02 AM
2

Doesn’t matter, it’s mutual friends, it’s random girls at a party or concert, it’s the girl working checkout at the store, it’s the girl who smiles and says hi to you in the gym, etc. Fact is getting leaner and more muscular has only helped me, and I’m nowhere close to jacked or meat head, I just gained 15lbs and dropped my body fat under 15%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:01 AM
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dude you keep mentioning 'eboys' who are just generally speaking extremely facially attractive and also SHREDDED lol. I guarantee these dudes hit the gym or do some sort of calisthenics and on top of that have god tier faces. OFC women like them. you mentioning them does not disprove anything about the hit the gym mentality of RP. in fact I am sure their body types are actually what some people who hit the gym want to achieve. Extremely toned / shredded.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:47 PM
2

dude no it is not, anything over 1000 is actually quite large and enough of a sample size to make generalizations about a population.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:43 PM
1

im an ass guy and b/c cups are big enough for me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:41 PM
1

Brent Rivera dude BRENT is literally shredded and has a stacked jaw line and beautiful face. he absolutely 'hits the gym' or does some sort of athletics to get that physique LOL you are clueless ​ in fact his body type is more similar to brad pitt fight club, which is often referenced in here as to what a good male physique looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:37 PM
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yeah and have you gone out to a bar or a concert recently? 21 year olds aren't out there fucking eboys on Saturday night. they are fucking dudes with nice bodies a pretty face and charismatic personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:33 PM
2

DUDE the internet is not real life lmaoooo. Sure some girls fall head over heels for the gay eboy aesthetic, but go around real life and you will find that most women are most attracted to a guy who is athletic, low body fat, with a little bit of muscle. Your anecdotal evidence does not match up to mine, since I started hitting the gym (which also boosted my confidence) I have had a significant increase in the amount of women willing to throw themselves at me, and sure I never really had a probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:28 PM
4

Obviously look your best, workout, clothes, haircuts, etc. ask women for advice. Befriend more women platonically first. Get on with them as friends first. It makes hitting on women easier plus you might inevitably meet more women by having women friends in your circle. Try to be fun, people like fun people… just don’t be cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:02 PM
4

🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:48 AM
1

Absolutely nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:55 AM
2

Pretty much any girl I talk to now has some interest in me. Not everyone obviously, but it’s not hard for me to walk away with multiple phone numbers from a party now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:02 PM
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This won’t matter if you don’t live in a shit hole state
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:42 PM
1

Nice
/r/PussyPassDenied16/06/22 01:15 AM
-23

He DMd her first, yeah she’s a pedo, but he definitely consented.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/06/22 04:08 PM
1

Musician
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:38 AM
1

Brad Pitt in fight club is more ripped than 90% of guys ever will be. It doesn’t matter that he’s ‘skinny’ he’s still showing visible muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:04 AM
1

120lbs on 5’7 is veryyyy skinny. Some girls would be fine with that but that’s like smaller than me in highschool and I was tiny compared to most people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:10 PM
3

It’s honestly crazy that women don’t realize that like only maybe 5% of guys will ever look as shredded as Michael Phelps and would have to spend years in the gym and eating healthy to achieve that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:09 PM
1

Compared to the average man swimmers are very muscular. Michael Phelps is arguably ripped / shredded on a normal day. He has full blown abs and a wide chest. A remarkable physique that 95% of guys will never achieve. People have to work out and eat healthy for literal years to look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:08 PM
1

Aye the UK getting fat too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:04 PM
1

Then why would you be attracted to the fat one?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:53 PM
2

Amazing honest answer. Thank you for the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:52 PM
5

Would you be comparable to that guy in terms of weight and attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:32 PM
8

Lol okay sure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:17 PM
6

You’d accept that fat lard? Lmfao no way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:16 PM
1

Where are the better women who are hot and don’t pick their partner purely based on raw emotion? I have yet to find any in existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:44 AM
0

Or you know since women are the choosers you could just use an ounce of logic instead of raw emotion when choosing your partners and not make them act like a dog for you and then no one will give a shit or comment on your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:39 AM
0

Don’t 🛑get it🤜twisted😤: women are actually just slaves to their emotions and will often go with which guy makes her feel the most tingles regardless of the logical options in front of them. I’ve cheated on and dumped the girl I’m now dating once before and she jumped back into a relationship with me with ease when I decided I wanted to date her again. It doesn’t make sense. And The girls I was overly nice to never gave me a chance until I stopped caring about them. The hamster wheel just exists …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:37 AM
1

Is your husband a nerdy scientist or academic?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:27 AM
1

It’s not like him being a blue pilled beta cuck would have changed that for his daughter anyway so I don’t see your point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:12 AM
1

Politicians date other politicians so checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:10 AM
2

Nah bro I’m friends with tons of girls. Definitely also depends what industry you work in
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:45 AM
5

And it’s hilarious how many women there are out there like this. Hope they die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:27 PM
12

He’s a cuck and digging his own grave at the same time. Pathetic honestly
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 06:21 AM
143

“You can fuck my wife, but I draw the line at making fun of her hair” - will smith’s cuck ass
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 06:21 AM
2

You don’t have to sleep with them lmao… no where did I say you have to sleep with them. I just said go up and talk to them, hit on them, ask them on a date etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:55 AM
1

Just a boring way to live imo. You should go for someone whom you are physically attracted to and also connect with on some deeper level, but often times if you use the ‘good girl’ approach as it seems many women here do, you just won’t meet as many people to find out if they have that deeper level of connection and the odds get worse for you if you don’t try to strike up a convo with the dude you are physically attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:41 AM
2

That’s just so weird to me. I’ve always seen people and been physically attracted to them. You just don’t get physically attracted to someone until after you know them? How is that even possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:46 AM
2

How? I just can’t fathom
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:35 AM
1

Okay but would you go out of your way to talk to a guy you don’t know and just meet them if you thought they were attractive ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:35 AM
3

Where do you live? Omaha Nebraska?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:33 AM
3

I just can’t fathom only finding 5% or less of people attractive enough to want to get to know as most women on here are doing. It just shows that women and men are wired completely differently and many dating issues stem from this issue. I probably see at least 5 women who are attractive enough to ask on a date every single time I go outside, and depending on the day and how busy my area is that number skyrockets into 20+. Women just don’t think this way apparently and it’s truly sad to me. I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:32 AM
10

Check the median income not the average. The average at least in america is skewed upwards by a small percentage of hyper earners (millionaires)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:14 PM
12

Pretty sure Only like 30% of Americans have a bachelors degree
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:12 PM
1

So he’s a fat cop? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:11 PM
6

That’s overweight actually
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:11 PM
2

Go on YouTube and watch natty or not videos you’ll get a better picture. You can still workout and become physically fit but you’ll never look like a mainstream bodybuilder without the use of PEDs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:05 PM
2

A majority of men will never reach 10% body fat in their entire life without basically starving themselves. Getting below 14% is rough as hell let alone 10%… unless your genetics call for it I guess it’s possible, but still find that hilarious that is the qualification for women even though most of them are 20%+ body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:01 PM
11

You really want to argue semantics to ‘win’ your shitty argument? There are multiple definitions of tangible. The comments are clearly discussing the second definition ‘real’, not the first which is ‘perceptible by touch’. Regardless if you think it’s real or not, other people do, who are you to decide what people view as real or not real even if it is a social construct? If you go down this rabbit hole then we could argue a million things in this world aren’t real. We could argue love itself is…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:06 AM
5

Every time I go to whole foods I see extremely attractive people. Trader Joe’s, more of a range, but usually average to above average. Ralph’s or any other basic grocery store is usually the least attractive bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:03 AM
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Kinda silly imo. Even if it’s merely a social construct, then by some facet it does exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:58 AM
5

Yeah while that’s true it sets the market up to be the shit way it is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:11 AM
5

Yeah sure, but what has commitment have to do with body standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:03 AM
8

Fat lazy women can often date out of their own league so fat lazy men get scraps. It’s not an issue for me but it’s something I’ve observed over my entire life. Decent looking dudes will hookup on the low with fat lazy women and give them false hope, that’s why so many fat lazy women are just single. They are delusional. Fat lazy men pretty much can’t get laid or attract a relationship unless they meet some fat lazy girl that isn’t delusional. It’s just the dynamics of the dating market in this …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:50 AM
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Yep. It’s kinda absurd. Even for most men who work out 5 days a week they won’t reach a level that most women would consider ‘jacked’. PEDs and Hollywood fucked it all up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:47 AM
13

It just isn’t true though, most men will date far more women than vice versa and often rate women of all shapes and sizes above average. The reverse is not true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:44 AM
15

In another response you said that your partner had a girlfriend and could fuck whoever they want. I assumed that meant polyamorous… no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:09 AM
27

Yet you are not in a monogamous relationship. So the stats still check out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:01 AM
1

That’s what most women assume it means, clearly defined muscles and good physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:27 PM
1

You need to send a picture along with your reply or one can only assume what you actually mean. It has been observed in this sub when women say ‘fit/athletic’ they really mean someone who’s in the gym almost every day and has a top notch diet. The image that women have of what fit / athletic means these days is so warped by social media, PEDs and Hollywood it’s hard to know exactly what that even means to the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:08 PM
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Don’t be fooled. Most women who say athletic/fit are still comparing you to Instagram models and Hollywood. For the average dude that is being very buff, in the gym almost every day and eating well + good genetics is what almost all women will prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:21 AM
7

That’s absolutely not true. I said ‘best’ outcome for myself, which in my case is to have a stable LTR with a partner who one in red pill land may describe as a unicorn. (Hot, agreeable, entertaining, smart, loyal, career driven, etc.) You seem to assume you know what I want maybe because I said I do follow some of redpill advice? Don’t be so shallow not all men just want to fuck as many women as possible and leave them hanging without commitment. Let me ask you this though, do you believe most …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:09 AM
6

In what ways would anything I do in dating be detrimental to others?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:00 AM
34

Yea of course. I admire and respect a plethora of women. Friends in my life, successful intelligent family members, musicians, scientists, etc. being redpill doesn’t mean I hate all women or something. In fact I love women, I just realize the ones I often find myself dating don’t view the world the same as me and that’s okay, but I needed to learn how to navigate it to get the best outcome for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:06 PM
14

She’s a horrible example, she looks like a child. Yes she’s pretty, but she’s not ‘hot’ in a feminine way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:57 AM
3

10% of men get all the attention on OLD. Average men do not get dates on OLD. Yes all women are chasing after top 10-20%. Congrats on figuring it out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:43 AM
4

Because average women match with top tier guys and can get fucked by them but not get commitment, thus the birth of the fuckboi. Yet they rather do this than settle down with an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:42 PM
2

You seriously don’t believe mens standards for what is attractive and what they will date are lower than womens???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:16 AM
2

Nah, mens bare min is MUCH lower than womens. Men find a majority of women attractive and women only really find ~20% of men attractive. This is very clear in OLD and plays out heavily in the real world where a big chunk of women feel like they are settling with their looks match.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:13 AM
7

But you realize the reason women don’t approach isn’t because of gender roles… it’s because they simply don’t find a majority of men attractive enough to approach.. right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:10 AM
5

Average men find average women attractive… average women do not find average men attractive. That’s the whole point of the post lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:08 AM
1

OFC men will message the hottest women first, it doesn’t mean they won’t date the less hot women. They just start from the best and work their way down till they can find something… anything… most men find a majority of women attractive enough to date and you can not say the same about women. That’s the whole point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:07 AM
-1

Porn ≠ real life. Plus if you look at porn there is literally every single body type and race represented. I feel like that proves absolutely nothing to your case.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:02 AM
4

Most men are attracted to a large variety of body types. Literally the only requirement for women is to not be overweight and even then many guys will still date you happily.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:01 AM
4

Exercising is not negligible, it’s an important part of health. Do cardio and body exercises at the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:08 PM
6

It’s just good for your health. You don’t need to pack on muscle, even just running and body weight exercises increase health and longevity and mental health a lot. It’s worth it for that alone. Screw what the ladies think. Do it for ur homies who wanna play video games with you in the retirement home one day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:08 PM
11

FDS cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:58 AM
4

Asian women like fit american men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:36 AM
2

Women only fear time so much as it applies to having kids and finding a provider before they get to be too old. But as far as sex and physical intimacy, you are spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:38 AM
14

Poor bastard. Dude she leave that relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:30 PM
59

Yeah absolutely ridiculous. Like the dude has to apologize for not being good enough and that’s why he got cheated on. He should peace right out of that dog Shit ‘relationship’.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:28 PM
11

So you blame the man for getting Cheated on? Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:26 PM
6

Then why not provide equal value?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:53 AM
7

I’m sure you expect too much compared to the value you provide if this is your outlook
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:35 AM
3

That’s the real issue. Unless you are genetically gifted, all the work you put in doesn’t have an equal output. Though I would suggest to all these guys, do the work for yourself, get rich, and just travel the world fucking attractive prostitutes and escorts. No need to settle for basic Becky. Ultimately you’ll live a more fulfilling life this way then settling for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:32 AM
1

Choking still goated 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:24 PM
-1

Nah choking is goated
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:06 PM
1

That is literally hypergamy. Women only want the top and are willing to put out for the best of the best lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:31 PM
-1

When referring to HVM I’m indicating high SMV. Whether you like it or not most women will sleep with those men and they will sleep with them back whether or not YOU specifically claim they are high value. Good luck finding a man with high SMV and low body count. And even better luck finding one that would commit to your FDS ass
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:23 PM
4

That movie is too true. All I have to do is look at who’s having multiple kids from my highschool… all the ugly, uneducated, poor ones… :(. With a few exceptions of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:34 PM
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You sound like ur from FDS. Well news flash, the most attractive men in the world have extremely high n counts. Most women (and People in general) care more about looks than anything else, money being a second, and personality and morals being a third. Maybe you don’t but you aren’t the average person. This is why we see celebs cheating constantly and married men hooking up and cHeating with objectively less attractive women than their own wives. Happens constantly. And yes it’s well known that …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:31 PM
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Yes what could go wrong!!?? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:27 PM
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I disagree with this as HVM with high SMV often sleep with even below average women. This leads average women to believe they deserve a HVM and to keep hooking up with them In hopes of a relationship that never materializes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:22 PM
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The rise in female promiscuity is tied to female hypergamy. The more men that can’t get laid, fall in love and have kids the less stability there is in a society. Traditional monogamy is the most stable society there ever has been and brought about multiple industrial revolutions and the modern era. Now we’re drifting towards a dystopia with more men living with their parents getting fat and playing video games all day due to giving up. Will society go on? Sure. Will it be as pleasant as when me…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:04 PM
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Women are still having kids, especially lower class women, and they are getting the government to pay for it while banging multiple people. That’s what this is evolving to and a consequence of this is children raised without a stable family life on the dollar of other people. Leading to less productive, unhealthy and unstable children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:53 PM
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If he has a micro penis it’s plausible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:18 AM
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Jerking off every day isn’t a bad habit. Jerking off to porn does deprogram your brain in a dangerous way though.. very different situations
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:16 AM
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I think one key difference is how oxytocin affects males and females differently. Oxytocin is antagonistic to testosterone so I think there’s an argument to be made that women are more easily to get attached during sex due to these chemicals compared to men. Another thing that plays into this is that women are more easily to sleep with a man who’s ‘out of their league’ and that could be more damaging in future relationships. As a guy I don’t want to live with knowing that any girl I date has pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:34 AM
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Really nothing you said has anything to do with my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:26 AM
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I think it’s totally acceptable for low n women to have standards and want a low n man. I still believe that a high n woman is much different than a high n man though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:06 PM
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Men are biologically programmed to fuck as many things as possible. Women are biologically programmed to be selective about who they let get them pregnant. It’s totally different situation. All a girls has to do is open her legs. A guy has to check a lot of boxes to get the same results thus they are viewed differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:04 PM
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It’s usually low n count men (a majority of men) that also want low n count women. Most high n count men don’t care except for a few rare trp types. Also effort does matter a lot and it is always going to be different whether you can accept it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:03 PM
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Yeah but it’s basically Women’s fault. They are the gatekeepers of sex after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:01 PM
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Yes, women don’t like to take responsibility for their actions and think they should be absolved from consequences. Shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:56 PM
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Anyone with a high n count is more likely to have STDs. I think it’s a total assumption that high n count men wait too long to get married though. Sure true for some but that’s not a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:52 PM
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Well yeah that’s kinda the point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:47 PM
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See post here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/t1681j/as_multiple_studies_suggest_high_n_count_is_a_red/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Still think I’m holding crazy unrealistic standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:44 PM
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Wow, that’s crazy that so many 6ft, 6 figure, 6 pack men hit on you and you reject them. You must be god tier model status. Ya know, good luck to you in whatever kind of life you think you are going to live. May you marry a handsome 6 pack, 6 figure, 6ft tall non- white guy and have beautiful non-white children. Edit: and you are asking advice on skin whitening sub reddits? Sheesh you must have a lot of shit suppressed…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:59 AM
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You only get hit on by men over 6ft, making 6 figures with a 6 pack? And you turned them down because of their race lmao And yet women complain about dating 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:53 AM
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Nice 👍 anyone under 6ft is a Manlet to you? Kinda proves my earlier point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:52 AM
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Oh my bad, 3/4 of inch makes such a difference. You are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:22 AM
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Or america. Curry pill is a real thing. I know Indian lawyers and bankers who struggle with women. They don’t have six packs though…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:20 AM
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perhaps one, who is model status on looks and a professional poker player, but I don’t really know his actual income. Most people I know that earn six figures are software developers or bankers who are like 5’9” and definitely not jacked or even fit. Mostly skinny dudes. The only people I know with a six pack and 6ft+ are literal models and they aren’t really bringing major incomes home, but they obviously don’t struggle with women. The overlap in these categories is very rare. Myself, I’ll neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:17 AM
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Good for you man, that’s definitely not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:07 AM
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Just add on some moderate cardio like walking for 30-60 min a day. Also try intermittent fasting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:05 AM
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How well do you do with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:04 AM
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You an Aussie?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:00 AM
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No he’s just not white.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:59 AM
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Software dev in HCOL area start at like 110k.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:58 AM
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No it’s definitely less than that, most men don’t earn 6 figs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:54 AM
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Okay, it’s 5’9” but it doesn’t really matter, Womens standards are well above that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:27 PM
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USA is 5’9
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:35 AM
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Average male height is shorter than 5’10
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:34 AM
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And you are short? Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:33 AM
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I’ve been in a healthy relationship for years and am very happy with my life. Some people just have different standards than you, shocker. Edit: but you are right, a lot of people here are bitter and lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:59 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:07 PM
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After viewing the link it’s clear that she is the problem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:31 PM
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No doubt, I don’t think it’s smart or attractive just explaining the phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:30 PM
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Serial dater syndrome likely if that’s the case. Again context does matter butttt no I’m 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:30 PM
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It is funny, I enjoyed it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:02 AM
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I wouldn’t call her a slut, but serially dating 15 different people in a row is a red flag In my book. So I would still be wary about entering that relationship. There’s very little stopping me from becoming #16 for a person like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:22 AM
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Yeah, take it from me, it’s not great. But it’s not worth ending a relationship over imo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:06 AM
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Modern diets, birth control and toxins kill womens libido. Women used to be hornier on average than they are today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:04 AM
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People are horny. Is that news to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:01 AM
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Which is exactly why high n count women should be avoided
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:00 AM
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Lol fair points. I guess I just don’t actually expect people to take accountability for their actions. So I lump them all in the same group unless they otherwise prove to be different and changed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:58 AM
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Meh, people over 35 who have had more than 10-15 sexual partners are prob a lost cause for marriage imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:56 AM
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Yeah and? Average women don’t often like average men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:18 AM
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Even still there are so many men that would commit to that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:12 AM
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If she never approaches guys and only takes what comes to her then she deserves all the assholes and douchebags she gets. Women can have a agency here, idk why we can’t all admit that… they just often choose not to because??? Idk why the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:11 AM
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She should try approaching guys then, equality , feminism and all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:09 AM
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Holy shit, great response. Rare sight to see people taking accountability for their actions on this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:08 AM
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I think this is definitely changing in the younger generations. It’s sad too cause I know many great men who are perpetually single that would cook, clean, and be a stable romantic partner but just aren’t tall enough or attractive enough to get the attention…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:05 AM
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In your example if they had a few (3) serious relationships, a few (3) short term relationships and a few (3) hookups, then they would fall under my n=10 limit and not be considered high in my book. If they had all that over like 5-10 years in their teens/twenties then that’s pretty understandable. I think 10 is a reasonable number to have a limit at (for me and my preferences personally), as anything higher would be impossible without lots of one night stands or dating multiple people at the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:03 AM
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I don’t understand why you would hook up with different people every couple of months that you don’t intend to date unless you were only looking for casual sex. The context of the hookups also kind of matters. Were they random one night stands or someone you hooked up with and dated regularly for a couple of months before you both realized it wasn’t going to work out? If it’s the latter then I could better understand it but if it’s the former then I think you are probably unstable and not the ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:08 AM
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It just shows they are clearly looking for casual sex and not a relationship and possibly lack self control and may be more likely to cheat in a relationship. Lack of loyalty. Potential mental health issues / daddy issues involved as well. Most girls I’d want to date don’t enjoy being plowed by a different guy every couple months
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:00 AM
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Not if the lower class girl is incredibly hot. It’s why rich guys cycle through 20 year olds instead of staying with their 50 year old hag
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:58 AM
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With different people it is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:56 AM
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Relationships can offer so much mentally and physically i’d even go as far to say that it’s a basic part of living a happy life. I just think it’s sad so many women and men are Giving up and essentially perpetuating the problem for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:37 PM
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Mmm sounds kinda like my relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:35 PM
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Thus confirming that modern society is essentially geared towards soft harems
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:33 PM
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Lol right, everyone on here basically just admitting to soft harems without realizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:32 PM
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That’s just sad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:31 PM
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Wow you people are sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:31 PM
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Playing house is great if you find someone who’s not a PoS
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:31 PM
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Ur dad sounds like a dead beat PoS. My dad worked less hours but made more money and spent more time cleaning and cooking than my mom. It can go both ways. My mom did however make Up for it by handling lots of other stuff, like taking me and my sister to extra curricular and doing the shopping etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:30 PM
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And yet I’ve never seen this in real life lol. I realize anecdotal evidence is horse shit but obviously the women in these situation made poor choices in who they date and have kids with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:29 PM
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I know men raised by liberal parents who are single in their 30’s and haven’t gone on a date in years lol. Idk why you skimmed but you are misrepresenting my argument If it’s not about dating then your post is basically about sex Ed? That’s it? Haha. I mean yeah we both agree that progressive sex Ed will help people not get stds and be smart about sex that’s a no brainer I think what’s more interesting is how progressive ideals or conservative ideals impact the success of dating for either gende…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:23 PM
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Young Men are considerably more sexless than young women thus showing that women have an easier time dating. Glad you found a partner though, hope y’all are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:22 PM
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There are so many lonely men out there desperately craving a relationship. At least double the amount compared to women. If you can’t attract any of these men then you would have to be the bottom of the barrel, severely overweight or socially awkward. Try hitting on a guy yourself for once instead of waiting around for Mr. right to come into your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:00 PM
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Yep, as a man you can’t be a femboy bitch and get women who you will actually be able to love commit to you. Men must be taught to be winners, to be strong, to make money, to be masculine if they wish to succeed at dating. These are ultimately the qualities that an overwhelming majors of women look for in the real world.. and no the few women on this sub who say shit like ‘well not me I don’t like that’. Are either lying, or outliers. A majority of women want a man who makes more money than them…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:59 PM
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Were you raised by a single mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:55 PM
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Instead of saying liberal maybe use the term progressive. If your parents teach you sex Ed in a progressive way that is ultimately better than teaching abstinence obviously. As far as struggling in dating, I know plenty of men who grew up with ‘liberal’ parents who are struggling with dating because they were never taught how to be masculine which inevitably attracts a majority of women. If I was raised solely by my mother I’d probably be single, alone, and bitter and wondering why just being my…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:54 PM
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Well it’s funny that the teen mom rate is much higher in conservative areas then…. Almost like teaching sex education in a progressive way is better overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:39 PM
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Personally that would never work for me. I enjoy working on my career, making money, and learning more every day to be the best person I can be. Now if my wife was making more than enough money to provide for an entire family and it was more financially smart for me to quit my full time job to raise the kids, I probably would do it, but I’d have to at least be part time working on something in some way otherwise it would fuck with my mental health. Luckily in my current relationship, neither of …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:33 PM
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If you are an average looking girl and can’t find a man, lower your standards. Even average women get hundreds to thousands of matches on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:18 PM
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I went to school in Boston surrounded by 250k horny college students.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:51 PM
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Yes. Sort of.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:04 PM
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Where did you go to school?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:41 AM
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Men are more willing to settle ultimately though, that’s the difference. They just shoot their shot to the best target first. I don’t think this has much to do with hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:04 PM
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Interesting point. That makes a lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:36 PM
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I guess I just have hot friends. I also live in LA so maybe that’s part of it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:30 PM
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That really shouldn’t matter, but I see that it does. It’s not really fair to women who just want to look nice for themselves or who have to look nice for work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:07 PM
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Obviously, American universities are probably much different than UK I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:47 PM
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weird, not the university culture I was around at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:39 PM
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Legbeards lmfaooo But for real facts. It’s like the two weird kids arguing over why both their lives suck and who sucks the most
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:34 PM
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If ur at a university and aren’t getting hit on you are either at a technical institute with a bunch of socially awkward tech geeks or you just aren’t that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:31 PM
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For sure. I don’t think TRP denies that men are also hypergamous? Perhaps they do, and if so then yes I agree that is misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:23 PM
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Okay well I know plenty of women who get hit on while they are working, at the gym, at the grocery store, on the street, at bars, at clubs, etc. one being my girlfriend. The only time She doesn’t get hit on is when I’m with her lol and even then if I leave her alone at a bar or club for more than 10 minutes she will likely be approached in that time frame. The same is true for most of her friends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:21 PM
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Do you live on a farm or something? Most people live in major cities where this is common enough for average to above average women. It also depends on where you work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:20 PM
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Yes In regards to education there is hypogamy. Everywhere else though not really. I would love to see a study on attractiveness and hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:19 PM
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Most Women on PPD are oblivious land whales, confirmed. We are arguing with the female equivalent of neck beards here. No wonder it’s such a shit show
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:16 PM
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That’s exactly what we are seeing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:15 PM
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You are absolutely oblivious or lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:11 PM
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It happens to my Girlfriend practically every day. Yes this is a thing that absolutely happens to women lmao. There are so many posts on Reddit in general about how to avoid getting hit on, even this week there was a major ask Reddit thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:11 PM
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The squishy ones
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:59 PM
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allah bless
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:59 PM
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Do you admit that hypergamy exists for women regarding income? If not then all things being equal men and women would marry people of the same income as themselves. Thus we’d have more single rich men as there are less rich women available to partner with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:54 PM
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The studies say that even women who are higher educated (presumably better job opportunity) than their husband still preferred a partner that made more than them. You can blame it on the pay gap but if all things were equal and perfect we’d have more single rich men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:52 PM
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Okay then let’s look at this study which shows that women still ‘date up’ in terms of income. https://ifstudies.org/blog/whither-hypergamy Most women still want a partner that earns more than them and are still more hypergamous than men even though they can earn their own incomes now that hasn’t changed Edit and this one shows similar findings: https://people.howstuffworks.com/culture-traditions/cultural-traditions/hypergamy.htm Though it says hypergamy is slowing down and especially educational…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:45 PM
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Of course not, a source does not exist to prove this point either way. It is sort of known that slightly more men cheat in marriage but women initiate something like 80% of divorces. This leads me to believe that a majority of men are unhappy with their sex life and a majority of women are unhappy with their relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:32 PM
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I don’t think only women do it, I don’t think any gender only does one thing. I think women do it more often than men though. I also don’t think there’s anything wrong with hypergamy, I just accept it as a fact of life. Of course people are going to try to level up. And if you are a very attractive successful woman you shouldn’t be dating some deadbeat and I think it’s totally okay that you level up. Same goes for guys here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:29 PM
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No I wasn’t on Reddit before they were banned. I actually discovered TRP through this sub funny enough. I’m not their typical demographic though, I’ve never really struggled with women. Only ever struggled with my own self esteem but regardless I’ve been in a relationship for almost a decade. I realize many people there may be misogynistic but I don’t think too much in their philosophy is inherently misogynistic. For instance I don’t think believing in hypergamy is misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:22 PM
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I guess I just disagree with you, not really anything about it. I think a majority of TRP philosophy is sane. Regardless of how many misogynistic neck beards are in the group many men would benefit from reading the core tenants and implementing them into their life. The same can be true for Christianity. Even though many of their members are total douche nozzles. If you choose to focus on the worst people in any group then you will ultimately discredit and hate any group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:14 PM
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You said ‘most Christian’s aren’t dangerous’ implying that red pill is considering that’s what we are currently comparing. Are you just dumb or is English your second language?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:04 PM
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Lol, how exactly are red pillers any more dangerous than Christian’s? Christian’s literally protest outside of planned parenthood threatening people. They literally start wars over their religion. And yet you say red pill is dangerous 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:01 PM
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Okay, so In your view, Christianity or any other religions would be dangerous and harmful, yeah? Regardless of what the texts actually preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:57 PM
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Maximizing yourself as a man is a core tenant of TRP, thus why it seems to work so well. The misogyny is useless to focus on as it isn’t a core tenant
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:53 PM
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It’s just how I view TRP. And I tend to agree with those Christian’s who think that way, because they are right. Atheist who love thy neighbor are acting more Christ-like than Christian’s who burn books and protest abortions. If you only think trp is a toxic shit pit of misogyny then I’m not going to change you mind. I’m just presenting you with what I got out of it and how I see it. With your analogy though, I’d say that the men describing even if they have no idea what TRP, are acting out a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:47 PM
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Okay explain to me how a man who focuses on themselves being successful and maximizing themselves in every way is not red pill? That’s literally the core of red pill. Anything else is just fluff. The guy that red pillers want to be is the man that most women sleep with. That happens to be guys who are financially/resource and power driven and hit the gym. Thus anyone who is financially driven and hits the gym is in essence living red pill life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:22 PM
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What you don’t understand is that even if these men have never heard of red pill, they are in essence living a red pill life. Sure misogyny is a huge turnoff. Not every guy subscribed to red pill is misogynistic. And most who are successful with red pill would obviously never display that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:15 PM
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I understand that almost no woman would fuck someone who actively advertised themselves as red pill.. (those people likely aren’t actually red pill in their actions, only their words), but many women have slept with an above average attractive, fit man, who is successful in some way and only hooked up with them once and could not get commitment or further the relationship with them. We know this because women complain of this scenario all the time. And it’s basically the reason FDS exists. Those…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:11 PM
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Most women here will say they would never date a red pill man then go out and party with them, fuck them, fall in love with them, actively become their hook up partners. Successful Men who are dating and hooking up aren’t labeling themselves as red pill, they just are what they are. Women don’t seem to have a problem with that in the real world. We’ve all seen it first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:48 PM
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And yet women date ‘red pilled’ men all the time. Many successful men are red pill without defining themselves as such. And women date them constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:45 PM
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Wouldn’t date em, only fuck em
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:42 PM
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What a cunt
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 03:23 PM
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Average women verifiably do not have as hard of a time dating. Sure they have a hard time finding commitment but that’s cause they still get dicked down by chad too, especially on OLD. When I was on OLD, I interacted with plenty of average women. Men are much more charitable with their ratings of women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:27 PM
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Their problems could be solved by lowering their standard 1-2 notches and bringing them Back to reality
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:33 AM
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There are plenty of men who would commit to the average woman, the average woman would never give them a shot. It just is what it is. If the average woman is only accepting people out of her league she’s gonna shut out a lot of potential partners and have a hard time because of her standards. Average to below average looking Men have a hard time in general because they can’t even get their foot in the door in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:31 AM
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She’s married at 22 or 23 I think based on other comments. She is prob more along the lines of ‘anyone can do it, you’ll find ur person’ even tho the statistics are bleak for young men. Women , even ugly ones with nothing to offer, would rather stay single then ‘settle’ for an average or below average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:24 AM
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Women would rather share the top then commit with the average so yes I believe this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:18 AM
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Ur a girl, ofc it’s possible lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:17 AM
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I don’t think you are talking to people who actually practice red pill, but okay go off sister
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:40 AM
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I assure you no red pillers are complaining about the women they fuck lol How are they invested? What do you mean by that? I really don’t see many red Pillers complaining about this topic nor are they the ones posting this. You seem to be conflating red pill with billy betas somehow :p
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:28 AM
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It doesn’t matter, women still sleep with ass holes. That’s the thing, red pill men often don’t care about marriage or the long term dating game. They care about their own lives and busting a nut on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:01 AM
6

Lol if only the police did their jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:07 PM
10

Yeah until crime rates are through the roof.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:04 PM
2

For sure, it’s sad how many women don’t even realize that the people they are attracted to are literally ‘enhanced’. But hey I guess women do the same shit with all the plastic surgery etc. Not a world I care to live in. I’ll be naturally fit for my own health and be fine with that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:02 AM
2

Funny how older women picked the lean option and all younger picked ‘athletic’ or ‘bulked’
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:47 PM
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Yeah and even the thumbnail pic is at least 1-2 years of lifting well + diet + genetics. It is what it is tho. Girls gonna be picky, that will never change
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:44 PM
2

Local: saw my friends dj International: Rufus du sol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:25 PM
6

They already did, It’s called FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:48 AM
12

The average man is struggling to date or hookup with anyone. The below average man even worse. The average woman can have sex whenever she wants. It doesn’t compare at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:34 AM
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Nah men will regularly hook up with average women, the same can’t be said about women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:30 AM
5

Who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:55 AM
2

I don’t really care if a girl sleeps around, but I wouldn’t want to date someone like that personally. I don’t really partake in slut shaming but I can realize that a girl who sleeps around a lot may not be mentally or emotionally stable. You can’t really say the same for guys because a lot of guys just like sex for sex and not for any other reasons attached to it. Maybe in gay culture this is more an issue. Yes hypergamy makes perfect sense, it’s only bad if you are a LVM. But it’s still sucks …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:44 AM
9

Okay so 90% of women have loose morals then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:35 AM
14

‘I swear I never do this’ - some average girl to chad every single night of the week Ya okay. It’s definitely morals. Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:17 AM
2

Yeah because women are the gatekeepers of sex. Context is important
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:37 AM
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Seems to me they just want an easy lay. A high value woman requires more than a ‘Wyd’ text at 1am. Men Don’t have very high standards for sex, shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:36 AM
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Every gender has unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:35 AM
2

Yeah basically, we’re programmed to eat sleep and fuck whatever walks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:31 AM
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No the issue is attention and validation. A 10/10 is constantly bombarded with attention and really has the pick of the litter. A 5/10 takes what they can get especially when it’s chad and often puts out easier for the attention and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:30 AM
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Sure, men are often taller, but that doesn’t change the fact that men who are shorter than average end up having a harder time dating. Yes women like money, glad you agree. See we are not so far off really, you just admitted to some of the most basic principles to hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:41 AM
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In 92% of couples, the men are taller than women; https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0054186 Thus we can assume women like dating men taller than them. Did you really not know this before you started yelling for sources? These are the types of things red pill seeks to recognize. Here’s a study on marriage and income https://ifstudies.org/blog/better-educated-women-still-prefer-higher-earning-husbands And another paper on this study: https://news.ubc.ca/2016/10/28/m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:18 AM
2

What is stopping you from dating? Or is it purely personal preference? All the more power to you if it’s the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:28 AM
10

Nope, not bad at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:27 AM
2

I’m friends with a handful of exes. They weren’t the most serious of relationships tho so it’s not a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:32 PM
1

you realize there are plenty of men who would define themselves as feminists? Literally all it means is to want equal rights regardless of biological sex. You have never even had a feminist attack you physically in Your entire life and you never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:45 PM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:30 PM
1

It pretty much pays out hardly anything compared to a ~1-2mil 401k. I do see what you are saying though. There some benefits to marriage structurally here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:00 AM
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Oh so you are talking about social security? Uh well she works too so that won’t really be an issue. She has her own retirement accounts anyway. She’s not some freeloading trad wife, she can afford to take care of herself. The survivor benefit would probably be like penny’s on the dollar compared to our other retirement accounts anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:49 AM
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That’s just not true, she absolutely can draw off of my retirement if I make her a beneficiary. I don’t have a pension (who even does at this point?), so idk if the laws are somehow magically different. Marriage just isn’t important to me. I don’t care about the piece of paper. As far as health insurance goes she’s better off being single on paper because she gets subsidized healthcare through the state whereas if we combined income she would lose that subsidy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:46 AM
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I can put my gf on all of these accounts without being married though… that’s the point people are trying to get through to you. In fact she is already on my life insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:42 AM
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I just empathize with really short guys and can see how they have a hard time dating. It takes like 90% of women off the market if you are shorter than 5’4”. Obviously it’s still possible, it’s just a lot harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:37 PM
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No benefit and yet women still come to chad with their baggage and desperately try to make it work. The red pill is just playing off of women’s broken biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:59 PM
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You have got to be bullshitting me here unless you live in some fairy tale land. I’m not even that short (5’8”) nor do I struggle with dating but I have seen my shorter friends get shafted in the dating marketplace constantly. Where do you live? Are you not in western society? I literally have never met a couple where the guy is shorter than the girl in my entire life. To be fair I don’t even know a man that is 5’. That’s extremely short.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:36 PM
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Lol, absolute anomaly of a man right there. Was he rich? Is he still 5’ tall? Does he only date people taller than him? Or is he only dating fat ugly girls? You have to admit it’s incredible uncommon for women to date men shorter than them. Like less than 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:01 PM
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Do you not realize that by presenting normal short people with an example of a rich famous short man being successful in dating is an even bigger slap in the face? What you are saying is that if you are that short you need to be a millionaire / famous in order to have an easy time dating. Which is unfortunately true… but I just think you missed the point when you mention a famous actor as an example of how short people can succeed. How about from your own social groups? Know any 5’3” man that is…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:00 PM
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5’7” is a lot different than 5’3”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:56 PM
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The issue of height is almost impossible to overcome unless this man wants to date someone with dwarfism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:16 PM
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At least they’d be honest for once
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:41 PM
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Yeah and that floor is certainly over 5’3”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:39 PM
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No it doesn’t surprise me, but it probably surprises his stupid fanboys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:07 PM
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Yeah his gambling winnings are essentially just laundered money from his dad. Otherwise he’d be the best poker player to ever exist. Dudes a total fraud. He pays those women to be with him. (Source: I know one).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:30 PM
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Yep, it’s usually the average women with high n counts and then a few high libido outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:58 PM
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Literally basketball players and that’s it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:38 PM
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It is if your standards are completely stretched from reality. But whatever you can all die alone with cats for all I care
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:27 PM
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Absurd they think like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:26 PM
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Pretty much all OLD studies show that women are significantly pickier than men on who they swipe right on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:33 AM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:49 PM
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Yeah but In a lineup of dad bods those same women would likely pick the least fat of the dad bods and the man who is taller and has better facial structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:48 PM
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Men are considerably less picky than women. This is shown via all OLD studies. Even still you have preference for someone who is ‘womanly’ aka curvy at the least. Nothing wrong with that but I’m sure in a lineup you wouldn’t pick the fattest girls there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:44 PM
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Meh maybe. I think that’s a rarity to find someone who truly idealizes dad buds or chubby women. And probably more so an acceptance on their part than what they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:21 PM
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We’re all only going off our experience here 90% of the time. I think that if you presented a slim hot girl next to a chubby girl next to a fat overweight girl, a majority of men would choose the slim hot girl. If you places a shredded dude next to a dad bod, next to an overweight fat dude, most women would choose the shredded dude. That’s all I’m going off of. My opinion. But I think for a majority of people it holds true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:17 PM
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Lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:15 PM
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We will never know the truth on this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:14 PM
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For sure man, I’m only 5’8” so not much taller than ya. Fwiw my buddy who’s 5’6” has way better game than me and has no problem getting girls although they are all definitely short girls
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:50 PM
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Yeah for sure, I should really get a Dexa scan. I’m in LA, there’s a plethora of good options near me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:19 PM
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I’m going for the Christiano Ronaldo look with a tad bit more muscle. I think most women would find that very attractive and ‘chad’ level. FWIW: any trainer I’ve worked with has said I’m in the top of genetics so that could be skewing my personal results from the average. I’ve taken it with a grain of salt cause I don’t really fucking know if that’s true or not. But athletically I progress fairly quickly in pretty much any sport I’ve done my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:18 PM
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Bio-impedance on multiple scales plus navy measurements but I do want to get a dexa scan at some point. I’m not so serious into this shit that I really care, I just want to look good and right now I’m looking better than ever before :) still need to Chop off some fat to get down to the real shredded levels. Fwiw I’ve never been overweight my entire life and used to play soccer for over a decade so I’ve always been fairly skinny. Weight training is new to me and really helped me add weight and ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:14 PM
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Okay Chadlite then. You don’t need to be absolutely jacked or anywhere near Ronnie Coleman level to be considered fit and sexy by woman’s standards. You just need to be shredded and have some muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:10 PM
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If that’s the case then we’d see a lot different type of people being sexualized in movies, the internet, advertising, and in society in general. I think it comes down to biology and the innate urge for humans to find the best mate for their offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:09 PM
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Creatine + light cardio do it too. I still eat ~2300 cals per day and am slowly stripping away body fat while maintaining muscle mass. I just go on long walks and do a lot of climbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:05 PM
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5’8” 165lbs. 14.5% body fat last measurement. I’m almost at the point where I have visible abs. I can see my obliques and rib cage coming through now and am starting to view separation on my top 2 abs. Taken me about 5 months cumulative training. Started at 150lbs and 18-19% body fat. Edit: my goal is to maintain my weight and drop body fat to sub 12%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:00 PM
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Any average dude could hit the gym for 6 months then start cutting and be in this category. It takes less than a year or two maybe at most to transform into low body fat chad. I haven’t even been working out heavily for a year yet, and was even thrown off progress for 5 months by breaking my arm and I still almost have visible abs and considerable muscle mass gains. I’ve probably put in total maybe 4-5 good months and I’m already more than halfway there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:55 PM
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I have yet to find one girl who actually prefers a dad bod. Pretty sure that was actually started as an internet joke. It’s like a fat guy saying he prefers fat women… yeah okay. He would much rather be banging slim Stacy, he just can’t get that. So mental gymnastics himself into saying he prefers what he can get. Right. Okay no delusion there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:54 PM
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That’s like a guy telling his overweight wife, no honey I love heavier girls. When he would probably much rather be banging a slim 20 year old with a nice ass. No one actually prefers fat people. They just say that to make them feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:49 PM
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Haha for sure for sure. Just takes work! No tren needed ;) I’m all natty fwiw and currently at 14% bf. Pushing lower now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:35 PM
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Water is wet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:31 PM
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Shorter shredded guys can def get girls. Gotta be at least like 5’8” tho. Shorter than that and you are pretty much boned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:29 PM
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Tren certainly helps
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:25 PM
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You don’t need that much lean mass. If you hit gym 3-4 times a week hard and have low body fat percentage you will be golden.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:24 PM
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Can’t be comparing us nattys to roid heads bro. I’m 5’8”, 165lbs and 14% body fat. working on dropping below 12 now, but it’s hard for me to maintain the strength I want on a deficit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:21 PM
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You are one person lmao. Fact is most women will fuck a shredded 12% or under body fat dude considerably more than 20%+ body fat dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:17 PM
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Maybe not immoral but completely unrealistic and damaging to society long term. A 6 foot man making 6 figures with a 6 pack is less than .01% of the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:40 AM
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Instead of saying what you’re not, try leading with what you are. What do you like to do? What defines you as a person? If the answer is nothing then I have no choice but to put you in the basic category.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:05 PM
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You haven’t described anything remarkable about yourself to put you into any category, therefor I put you in normies category. Yay 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:59 PM
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‘I’m not like the other girls’
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:55 PM
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Normie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:34 PM
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Well this is like club culture I’m referring to. It doesn’t usually last longer than a night
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:21 PM
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Maybe not in their own heads but to the guys it seems ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:58 PM
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The girls I’d end up hitting on for my friends ended up just not liking my friends at all and would rather just not close with them. I ended up going back to their hotel rooms and my friends did not lol. Girls don’t want ugly dudes it’s just a fact of life. Not even ugly girls want ugly dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:56 PM
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Yeah if a girl can deadlift 315 I’ll give her a pass lmao but that’s not the typical girl. I’m talking about an average girl not a fucking power lifter. Obviously powerlifters will be heavy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:01 AM
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Are you trolling? In what world? Im 5’8” and 165 lbs and i had to work really hard to gain weight to get here while weight training. If you are a girl and any heavier than me and my height or lower you are overweight. No if’s ands or buts about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:43 PM
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Literally anything past a size 8 is fat. Size 6-8 is plump.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:18 PM
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Option 1 doesn’t work out so well for my unattractive friends. I’ve tried to help them this way and it almost never works out for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:15 PM
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Okay then by what mechanisms are men incentivizing women to be sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:28 PM
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Then why purposely hold off on having sex? There’s literally no reason to withhold sex if that is the case
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:39 PM
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Because women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men don’t get to choose who they have sex with in the same way as women. Sure there are many people of all genders and identities actively doing harm for society as a whole, I can’t argue against that point. I don’t think men are doing anything in relationships that are actively creating worse women though. Perhaps marital infidelity would be the worst thing men often commit that leads to a degradation of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:34 PM
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Okay so what specifically do you disagree with? This is a sub for debate, not for beating around the bush.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:55 PM
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I’m not single and have rarely struggled with women and I pretty much agree with the article
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:59 AM
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Do you actually disagree with the point of the article though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:57 AM
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In reality what’s actually likely happening is a post rationalization from the women who sleep with chad on the first date then don’t get a relationship out of it.. ‘oh I only wanted to hookup for casual sex’ ‘he wasn’t boyfriend material anyway’ etc. they say these things to avoid the realization that they just got pumped n dumped by someone more attractive to them that they would love to date. No sane woman is going around having casual sex with people they wouldn’t also consider dating. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:01 AM
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That’s just not how guys view sex at all. Women need to realize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:00 PM
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Then why did she shave her pussy and tell her now bf that she would have slept with him on the first date had he not been boyfriend material? She’s very clearly implementing some sort of strategy here to manipulate herself into a relationship considering that she has no problem sleeping with other guys on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:23 PM
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Women claim this happens to them constantly. Pump n dump. So no I don’t think it’s necessarily because they are desperate. It’s a strategy scummy guys use to get sex just as scummy women use the withholding sex from beta bill as a relationship strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:20 PM
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Okay here’s a better analogy. What if a guy really only wanted casual sex, but he acted like he wanted a relationship and acted like mr right for multiple dates only to get sex and then leave. That is equally as manipulative of the situation in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:14 PM
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But her actions speak differently
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:07 PM
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The girl in this post is quite literally saying that to her boyfriend… did you not read the post? She specifically saying that she slept with attractive guys who she didn’t view as boyfriend material but purposely waited with OP because he was boyfriend material so as to not be viewed as easy. That’s literally exactly what she’s doing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:59 PM
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Being a beta bitch ≠ giving away sex to chad. This analogy doesn’t hold up imo. If she genuinely changed as a person and stopped having sex with anyone on the first date, not just boyfriend material then okay.. that’s a bit more logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:56 PM
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I’m sorry bro. You got played. Ask yourself what other manipulative things she may be doing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:50 PM
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There are clearly many men on here who view women being deceiving about this very damaging. It’s about consistency. It’s not really that hard to grasp that the women who do this are deceiving and manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:45 PM
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Women really are this deceiving though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:38 PM
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It’s is objectively deceiving that she puts out for hot guys she doesn’t want to date but pretends to be some saint for the guy she actually wants to keep around. It’s incredibly deceiving and will leave good men hurt because they are really lying about their true morals. That’s not okay
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:37 PM
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Here’s an analogy that might work… If a man beats his previous partners because he doesn’t like them enough but eventually finds one girl he’s madly in love with and has a hard time beating her and tells her how he would never do that it doesn’t mean he’s not an abuser. He’s still a serial abuser, He’s just hiding the fact that he’s an abuser to the one girl. Pretty deceptive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:30 PM
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Yeah but they are admitting they only do that for people they think are boyfriend material but will happily sleep with chad. So it’s just deceiving because they actually are easy they just don’t want you to think they are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:26 PM
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The confusion is that it’s extremely deceiving because if she will sleep with a hot non boyfriend material guy on the first date but make a good guy wait then she’s still easy, she’s just being sneaky about it and lying to one of the guys in order to get ahead. It’s a shitty behavior. Have standards or don’t have standards but at least be consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:14 PM
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Women are the gate keepers of sex. A man with a high n count only tells us one thing for sure. He’s attractive. Nothing else is certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:32 AM
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Cool, you’re the exception not the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:26 AM
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Sure it’s oversimplified. I agree, the tinderpocalypse put the dating marketplace into overdrive. It’s like unchecked derivatives in a financial marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:24 AM
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For sure, sometimes it’s too much. Im a guy and even I get the same resentment from them at times lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:09 AM
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If you really wish to convince them then you need to prove you understand their plight and struggles. You can’t tell them what they feel and believe is false, you have to understand how they feel first and then show them there is a different perspective. If you don’t, then they will automatically assume that you are coming from a place of privilege that lacks empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:57 AM
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While I personally agree witn everything you are saying I can see how an incel would be pretty pissed off at that advice. I’m sure you get resistance from incels a lot if you dish them this whole spiel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:54 AM
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They most likely feel that you could never understand their viewpoint or empathize with them because as a woman you’ll never experience what they experience… even if you are correct in your arguments :) To them it’s the equivalent of a privileged white person in america trying to tell a black person that their life isn’t so bad and their worldview isn’t justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:35 AM
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Bruh, that doesn’t help the ugly incel who can’t even get a girl to talk to them without visual disgust. Like yeah in theory what you are saying makes sense, in practice for the men who really need help it’s worthless. How can you not see this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:46 AM
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Well there’s a lot of jaded men commenting here. Of course your experience is entirely different than theirs. That’s kinda the point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:43 AM
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I’m here for the same reason as any other sub. It’s entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:40 AM
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They are jaded
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:40 AM
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Because they are biologically programmed to bruh. No reason to overthink it or over analyze it.. it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:38 AM
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I think you’re missing the part where most people aren’t a mature adults. At least not by your standards. That’s why both genders are jaded With dating. I also think your basic premise is a bit too simple for the incel struggling with dating. What would you propose to some guy who’s simply too ugly to attract most or any girl into their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:30 AM
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Just because you don’t agree with it doesn’t mean it’s wrong in a broad sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:26 AM
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Damn, I pretty much look like that and feel inadequate because of the typical jacked standard and dudes you see around now. I’ve been hitting gym hard for a year and feel like I have a long way to go, but it’s crazy that I might not feel that way if standards hadn’t been warped so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:02 AM
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Well that’s definitely an anomaly, but I don’t disagree.. it’s possible to be fit and have an ass. I see girls at the gym like this a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:20 AM
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The woman isn’t forced to be a stay at home mom… she can work and they both support their child through financial means.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:05 PM
1

There’s a difference between being confident and proud, and bragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:01 AM
0

So what you don’t agree on the women typically get half or more from divorce settlements? Even though that is literally the case in the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:54 AM
-1

I don’t blame them nor do I care. I don’t want kids either. Kids suck. Regardless, women still get half or more of all mens assets anyway so what are you all really bitching about? The courts and general society are on your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:48 AM
0

Not true, your husband can probably still afford the house and child support without your help. You can not. I’d bet your husband could afford child care and the house if he didn’t have to also pay for all your food, clothes, insurance, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:25 AM
-1

Yeah, you receive free room and board. Free food. Free everything. How are you not receiving anything in this situation? You literally don’t have to pay for anything. What you expect your husband to give you an extra stipend on top of paying for all your Shit too? If you get divorced you should get child support and a split of any assets you financially contributed to based on how much you contributed. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:22 AM
-1

In return for doing the job of being a housekeeper you don’t have to earn money, pay for bills, food, diapers, insurance, or rent/mortagage. You act like you are going unpaid when in reality your entire livelihood is being taken care of. Stop acting like you deserve some special handout for being a stay at home mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:17 AM
3

True. Better options is don’t get married lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:08 AM
1

Well I tell you about the girl I’ve currently been dating for years. The most loyal woman I have ever met. Not just in terms of keeping dick out of her pants but in terms of defending me and sticking by my side through tough situations and helping me get through them. This girl has spent all night in an emergency room with me multiple times just to go straight to work the next day then come home and help me get better. Very high moral standards all around. Easy to have fun with and is truly one …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:03 AM
3

You clearly don’t know how desperate some women can be lol…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:51 AM
2

Usually it’s the black pills and blue pills that are fueled by rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:48 AM
1

Pre-nup
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:46 AM
1

If you did financially contribute to shared assets then your contributions and capital gains should be given to you, else you should not get anything. It’s no one’s fault but your own if you choose to go into something like marriage without a clear contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:45 AM
1

Yupp. It really is that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:42 AM
16

But then you would stop using the app
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:54 PM
1

Fertility rate is not the same thing as birth rate. Fertility rates dropping in men due to micro plastics, diet, health etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:21 PM
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I think it’s more of a sliding scale, I’d say I swiped right on about 70% of women on dating apps when I used them. Pretty much excluding heavily obese women, or women with bios that just make them seem not that great of a person. Bios like ‘6ft only’ or ‘mom of 3 beautiful babies’ or ‘follow me insta, I only talk there is swipe left on. That’s pretty much the only case I would swipe left. Obese, ridiculous standards outlined in bio, insta model, or a mom. Otherwise I figured I’d give it a shot.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:24 PM
0

Okay makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:34 PM
2

Yeah for sure weight is a really bad measurement to go by. Glad you are being fair about it though, hats off to you for not being hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:32 PM
3

I think it’s a micro aggression to ask for height because I’m an average height man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:28 PM
1

Pffff probably 1 to 100 matches and that’s being generous. Swipes, probably 1 to 1000 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:26 PM
5

So by that logic it’s okay to have a hard weight preference then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:23 PM
2

What sports or competitions do you compete in? What are your test levels?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:23 PM
-2

Yeah the math doesn’t add up.. my GF is 5’4”, a professional ballet dancer and works at a gym as a Pilates teacher and she just hardly has abs showing weighing in around 115-120. And she’s incredibly fit like probably top 1% lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:22 PM
3

Okay I’ll start asking for womens height, waist and neck size so I can calculate the body fat percentage myself. If your body fat percentage is over 24 it’s off the table for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:16 PM
5

So why is it rude to ask a girls weight if she also asks for my height? You make no sense saying that it’s rude to ask for weight but not for height. Would it be better if I asked for your height, waist and neck size then I could calculate your body fat percentage myself? Or…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:14 PM
7

I can guarantee you if I asked for a Woman’s bust-waist-hip size they would block me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:11 PM
1

That isn’t what men ultimately want though. men want a fulfilling relationship. You can be happily single but still want a relationship and still be upset at the dynamics of the dating marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:09 PM
2

That’s missing the point. Most men don’t want to be single, they want a fulfilling relationship. Yeah I can be happy single but it doesn’t mean I don’t want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:08 PM
1

You have no idea what they would be like as a person, but you don’t care enough to find out based on the non stimulating pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:06 PM
2

How is judging someone simply by a photo not shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:06 PM
1

It’s because Americans (at least white Christian suburbia Americans) grow up thinking that is the norm. It’s a cultural thing. Like how American men often prefer shaved women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:05 PM
1

Yeah true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:10 AM
0

I’ve dated a bunch of them and I’m still friends with them, just because I’m for womens rights doesn’t make me a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:43 AM
4

The beauty standards women hold are largely placed on them by themselves. Men don’t care nearly as much you think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:10 AM
13

Nobody wants to settle but women ultimately have more options and men ultimately have to settle a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:52 AM
2

Agree to disagree I guess. Men swipe right on far more women than the other way around. I don’t believe that is due to women somehow being inherently better at presenting themselves. Men will swipe right on a girl who’s photos are nothing but sweat pants And a baggie t-shirt with zero effort… can’t say the same about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:49 AM
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Personally I did fine on dating apps because I had a bunch of nice concert photography from my band and professional pics done for social media, but I sympathize with a lot of my friends who were equally as attractive and nice guys who wouldn’t get the time of day. I tried to help with their profiles but like it shouldn’t be about that… it’s just ridiculous that women are holding men to their own beauty standards that men don’t even hold women to
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:44 AM
1

I think moreso it’s a cultural phenomenon among white Christian suburbia in America. These people grow up only knowing and seeing circumcised dicks so that’s what they become accustomed to. Even look in porn it’s like all circumcised dicks… it’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:41 AM
1

Why does it matter so much how men present themselves? Many women are missing out on potentially genuine connections by being hyper selective on their swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:00 AM
2

Idk maybe women should lower their bars a little bit and they will stop getting steamrolled by chad and spit out on the second date
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:59 PM
4

Men are wayyyyy less selective. As proven by literally every OLD study. It’s not even a comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:58 PM
3

It may be true but it’s extremely short sighted and shallow on the woman’s part
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:51 PM
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Stop acting out of feeling and start acting out of thinking and you won’t have this problem of being shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:51 PM
1

Women do what they feel. It’s easier for them To feel attracted to you in person when so many other things are at play whereas online they have to feel attracted to you via a picture. Unfortunately they really are just that short sighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:49 PM
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I definitely was in highschool. I’m not saying ‘all women’, but you are just being ignorant if you don’t think some women have preferences. Maybe you live in a very cosmopolitan city, that would certainly skew your view. I’ve literally had conversations on Reddit where women have said they wouldn’t sleep with someone who was uncircumcised
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:43 PM
0

Sounds like you are projecting there bud
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:29 PM
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If you are a girl from a majority white Christian community in the US (like every suburb) then you will have grown up only seeing only circumcised dicks. This leads to them believing this is the norm and they learn all the other propaganda that goes along with it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:14 PM
1

So you are an exception and not the norm for most of America. If you weren’t in a major city it would be a lot different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:35 PM
1

Are you American?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:26 PM
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You are an exception in American culture. Also wild that you dated multiple non Americans. That isn’t very common in the middle of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:26 PM
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Yeah I’m friends with loads of women, never met one of these feminazis that would kill me for being a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:20 PM
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How am I projecting? I never once thought of killing myself over human rights :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:20 PM
2

are you an American? I’ve been made fun of multiple times before when people found out I was uncircumcised in American. Perhaps it’s not a problem elsewhere but it certainly has been here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:16 PM
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Are you an American? Because women absolutely care in america. I’ve been told I was gross and or dirty simply for being uncircumcised and that it looks ugly. Would you suck an uncircumcised dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:14 PM
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I knew I was uncircumcised from a very young age because I was taught proper hygiene. I also learned that it was not normal in highschool when I was made fun of for it. American culture ruthlessly shames the uncircumcised
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:10 PM
1

Would you suck an uncircumcised dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:03 PM
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Bull Shit, in america loads of women care. If you are uncircumcised it’s viewed as ugly or dirty. This may not be a problem elsewhere but it certainly is in america.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:00 PM
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Regardless if he made that up there are plenty of women, some who I have even argued with on Reddit, who said they would never date someone who wasn’t circumcised. It’s viewed as dirty and ugly in American culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:59 PM
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No that’s not how I got into my current jobs. I got into my current jobs by being so good at my Old ones that I was poached. Didn’t even have to interview or submit an application. I think there are probably numerous studies showing that you are wrong about affirmative action, but you can choose to look them up on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:00 PM
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Yeah what you are saying is just not true. You probably just weren’t good enough. Large tech companies are filled with Asians. Literally most of their CEOs at this point are Asian men (Indians). Harvard still has loads of white people who bought their way in and has worse credentials. Funny enough I received a full scholarship to school and I’m a white man. In your eyes this would be impossible. I think what you are witnessing is more equality and you don’t like it because it’s negatively impact…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:46 PM
1

Good response Edit: I bet 4/5 fetishize raping someone but are too pussy to actually do it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:35 PM
1

20%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:28 PM
2

Should I think the same about incels then? Let’s look at their actions. Feminists by and large aren’t going around and killing men. Incels fetishize rape and killing women. It’s very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:19 PM
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No not all incels are rapists, but most incels fetishize rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:18 PM
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People don’t shoot things up, mentally insane lunatics do and incels fetishize it to a scary point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:15 PM
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Nah they really don’t. Have you ever talked to a feminist? I have talked to hundreds. Never once did they try to rape or want to kill me. Can’t say the same about incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:14 PM
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Yeah maybe parental rights are about the one thing that isn’t fully fair. But neither is carrying a baby for 9 months and not having access to abortion and having to carry your rapists child to term.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:14 PM
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Diversity Quotas and diversity goals are very different things. Hiring quotas are almost always illegal. I honestly think you totally misunderstand what affirmative action actually does and it’s not isolated to just women. Personally I’ve never been impacted by hiring quotas or affirmative action in a negative way and don’t know anyone who has. Literally all affirmative action does is make it so that colleges and corporations take steps to try and hire women and minorities. Key word try. They ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:09 PM
0

Wow, 1 single person. Meanwhile there are millions of men who are rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:06 PM
3

Oh you mean rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:01 PM
2

Yeah but more than half of incels are this crazy, you can’t say the same for feminists who have a few outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:00 PM
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I think you incel cucks are missing the point entirely. Fact is There is a large portion of people in those groups that feel that way. Yeah not everyone does, but that’s not important. If you associate and interact with that kind of content I think you are mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:59 PM
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It matters to me as soon as an incel does something to harm one of the many women in my life. The difference is there are no feminists going around threatening my life, whereas there are incels who simply would want to rape and kill my girlfriend because she is pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:56 PM
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But he went out and shot women anyway. So you could just say that a majority of incels are probably mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:53 PM
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No one takes radical incels seriously because they are fucking insane. As for radical feminists, they still have a long way to go before they are even remotely in control of everything. Banking and money power trumps all. Honestly, name one policy that you think radical feminists helped create that negatively impacts your life.. name just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:52 PM
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What rights do women have that men don’t have. Name literally 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:49 PM
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Cool at least feminists have a good reason to fight for, equal rights. Incels have equal rights, they are just pieces of shit who want to make the world more unfair to benefit themselves. Totally different perspective. One is inherently more justified than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:48 PM
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Imagine being such an absolute pussy you kill yourself because of ‘feminism’. Honestly if you off yourself because of feminism then you deserve to die. That’s like killing yourself because you are racist and black people can vote lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:46 PM
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Cool so you got 1 mentally insane person in a movement of hundreds of millions of people vs the incels community which often dreams about raping and ruining womens lives on the daily. If you are worried about feminism over incels then you are just willfully ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:45 PM
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They could just focus on themselves and find happiness in other ways. Being married sucks for a majority of people. Incels should realize that their goal of getting pussy is such a shallow level of achievement that they should just just focus on bettering themselves. They will be happier in the long run. You don’t need women to live a fulfilling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:42 PM
5

I expect them to at least be decent enough to not want to rape and murder women. Maybe I’m asking too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:40 PM
13

You can be bitter about something and not recommend we turn the world into a fascist hell scape to appease your own needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:39 PM
4

They have higher standards compare to their elo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:59 AM
1

Good thing I’m in the 5
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:58 AM
4

It’s sarcasm bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:57 AM
1

He’s being facetious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:53 AM
1

Have you tried genetically altering your face yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:52 AM
2

Try being more attractive next time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:50 AM
2

Lmfaoooo take my upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:38 AM
10

Gay guys have hit on me right in front of my girlfriend lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:32 AM
1

Bone remodeling will make your bone structure more dense and can actually help you chisel out a jawlines
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:37 PM
1

Your skeletal structure actually can change over time if you hit the gym consistently for years
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:49 PM
9

Keywords self identified. Regardless of individuals let’s look at what policy and politics are really in play here In the US. There’s absolutely nothing communistic about our economy. California is literally the king of modern capitalism. Multiple trillion dollar companies and countless other billion dollar companies and the largest economy in the entire U.S.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 07:44 PM
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‘Commie’ states. Lol c’mon man as if anything in the US is anywhere close to communism. The most commie states in the US are home to the largest private corporations that have ever existed.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/21 11:50 AM
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Inflation will die down. It takes massive stimulus and central bank fuckery just to get to 6% and the GOP is trying to block the Dems from passing any more spending legislation so.. prob not long before we’re back under 3%.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/21 11:48 AM
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16, with my girlfriend at the time Edit; holy fuck there are a lot of virgins in here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:43 PM
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Not the same way at all. Average men will get less sex than average women (if they both were controlled for sex drive and attempts at sex). What I’m saying is that an average guy may find casual sex, but he will have to swing 100 times to hit once. An average girl doesn’t even have to swing, it will just come to her if she puts herself on tinder or goes out to a bar with some friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:59 PM
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it is fucking hard to get below 10%, and I say that as a fairly skinny dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:10 PM
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I’m dating one and she gets hit on constantly. Every day. It’s just a part of life for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:48 PM
1

It’s really only average looking or below women that care much about prostitution. I wonder why…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:28 PM
4

Leftists generally don’t mind legalizing sex work as it makes the job significantly safer if it’s regulated. In america it was the fault of puritanical idiots that banned sex work. It the same reason liquor laws are so fucked in certain states and why it’s taking forever to legalize marijuana federally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:22 PM
8

not a woman, but in my experience there is some level of 'social proof' that helps a guy out if he is interacting with other pretty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:06 PM
1

only unicorns are different
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/21 04:56 AM
8

very much agree, women will keep coming back for a good lay any day. So many men suck at sex so honestly just putting a little effort into on your part will put you ahead of the pack
/r/TheRedPill06/10/21 04:28 AM
1

Yes, they will continue sleeping with 6s, 7s, 8s, 9s, and even some 4s occasionally. When you are hot and a fuckboy and girls latch onto you easy sometimes it’s more a burden to be in a LTR when you don’t really need it. If they do decide they want it then yes I guess they will settle down, then just cheat on their wife afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:09 PM
1

not really and the ones who dont fuck usually arent attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:00 PM
1

all women have casual sex with mr. right. thats the point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:56 PM
6

this is the truth, facts here. you are only a fuckboi when you decide they aren't worthy of a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:52 PM
2

the best approach is a simple compliment about something specific. I really like those shoes, or you have beautiful *insert eye color* eyes. if shes interested or not you will know almost right away.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 07:49 PM
2

If you are getting rejected by morbidly obese and disabled women perhaps you are approaching the situation wrong or maybe you are just very ugly, but it’s likely the former considering you are skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:39 PM
1

Okay then don’t expect anything to change In your dating life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:36 PM
0

bulk up 20 lbs of muscle. you'll thank yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:03 PM
0

probably because she makes him feel insecure enough that he feels the need to improve himself constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:01 PM
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dating inflation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 08:11 PM
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https://web.archive.org/web/20210803011539if\_/https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/owsldt/a\_friends\_tinder\_experience\_whos\_in\_the\_wrong\_here/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 05:07 PM
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this is kinda what irks me the most. We need to do better as a society and stop rewarding this behavior. Single mothers on welfare raising kids who grow up and become criminals or simps. Bad cycle
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 07:29 PM
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cops are pussies, doubt it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/21 06:24 AM
5

Sheesh, I can’t imagine shaving my legs or arms. What a damn hassle that would be for me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:55 PM
3

yeah I was about to say, I get calloused hands just from lifting weights. I used to landscape and that kind of cemented it in my hands for life I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:39 PM
3

you are just missing out on the shag rug baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:36 PM
1

I am pretty sure the brits invented that shit. at least for the guys. Most American men sport their hair now a days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:35 PM
12

literally almost every guy has arm and leg hair lmao what? are you only into love island type bro's who wax their taints too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:32 PM
1

well thats why they stay in the middle class. Most folks in the middle class have a chance at upward mobility, but it does take hard work and a bit of luck
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 01:50 AM
1

That’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:35 PM
1

No one is saying it’s easy to hit a home run, but what we are saying (or at least me) is that women have significantly more at bats and balls thrown at them than guys. (Using a stupid baseball analogy) what he was saying is, even though it didn’t work out with that one guy, what does it matter because you likely have dozens more to go try again with. In most, let’s say 80%, of men’s cases. They don’t have any options. They get the scraps they can and have to work with what they got. If they can’…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:29 PM
0

So your single experience with one man is the standard? Also I don’t think women live all of life on easy mode, just in dating and hookup culture they have the advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:21 PM
1

stockholm syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:58 PM
0

how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:58 PM
5

there is... 'high-functioning'
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:55 PM
7

haha yeah thats why shes on tinder single with a baby, im sure shes a great catch
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 03:39 PM
10

you act like these kinds of people have any self awareness. They will never learn or admit they fucked up 9 times out of 10.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 03:35 PM
1

They can if they woman has unjustifiably high standards for her partner, standards that she can not even live up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:57 AM
1

Ugly by my standards, maybe not by their standards per say... men are more willing to settle in that area than women in order to have a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:42 PM
0

That’s not what I said, try reading it again, this time slower.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:09 PM
0

I never said I think the list is unreasonable, you assuming too much about me. Whether it’s unreasonable or not depends on whether or not the person holding those standards can also live up to them. I didn’t know that about her, if that’s the case then she can have all the standards she wants. I’ve been arguing on the notion that we didn’t know what kind of person she was so we can’t judge in one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:37 PM
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How else would you value someone having high standards or low standards if it were not based on the person who is holding the standards? There’s literally a word for people who have high standards they don’t live by, hypocrite. Do you believe some higher power sets standards for all human beings or something? What’s your deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:29 PM
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Well if she’s a shit person, she doesn’t deserve them. That’s my take lol. If she’s a great person who can reciprocate all those things and accurately values her SMV then great, go get em. But we simply don’t know enough to accurately judge that. Blue pill assumes she’s some angel who deserves all this, red pill assumes she some fat slob with unrealistic standards. Truth is we just don’t know who she is so we can’t judge her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:09 PM
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I point this out because there likely exists a man who checks all those boxes of decency but fails to meet the attraction level and she will reject that person while going after someone she thinks is attractive who doesn’t have all those qualities or is unwilling to give them to her. Everyone can expect decency if they themselves are decent. Again like I’ve said we have no clue who this person actually is so we can’t accurately judge their standards. I point out these extreme situations that cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:05 PM
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Yeah I definitely agree, that’s just the way things are. Adapt and overcome or don’t, your choice. However I can also see why people are outraged at the blatant unfairness presented in front of us. And that is what we are really debating here yeah? Most women in this post won’t agree with my world view here because it actually accounts for the woes of incels and FDS and beta cuck men lol. At least that’s been my experience here so far. I can recognize incel men have a disadvantage in this market…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:03 PM
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I realize there’s truths to both sides and where they usually go wrong are on the assumption of people they don’t know. Red pill assumes way too much bad shit about all women, we know this. Blue pill assumes the opposite. That women are truly equal arbiters of respect and opportunity in the dating marketplace and that’s just bullshit too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:58 PM
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Well yeah duh, but then we go back to the whole 80/20 rule thing from red pill. Low value women only wanting high value men. Look if this girl in this post is 10/10 banger model type then she can have all the fucking standards she wants. If she’s some sloppy average American woman then she probably has unrealistic standards. She probably is only attracted to people above her SMV and thus will never end up dating anyone in her real league. It’s the woes of incels, FDS, and beta men being used all…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:57 PM
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So you really think looks don’t matter to her at all? She mentioned good sex life and someone she’s attracted to. That’s so damn subjective. She could be ugly and only be attracted to stereotypical attractive type men. That Shit happens a lot with low value women... it’s no wonder too because they can still get dicked down by above average men who just wanna bust a nut. These types of women have a warped view of their SMV. Like I said in other comments we have no idea who she actually really is …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:54 PM
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Oh yeah for sure, but they are pissed because there’s an overwhelming amount of women like this and they feel they will never be able to compete with unrealistic standards. Think about it this way. Most below average guys are chasing below average girls. But the below average girls can get dick from above average guys so they have a warped view of their SMV. They will never settle for a below average guy even if they themselves are below average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:52 PM
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I mean I don’t personally give a fuck at all, I’m just trying to give the perspective of a red piller /man online because that’s what they asked for. Presumably a red pilled guy would care because it proves their point how solipsistic women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:49 PM
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yep exactly. These women are probably at best HB5-6 due to being single at that age. Their requirements are probably the man has to be SMV 7 or higher. Well all those men are already taken, or they just want to fuck you and move on at this point. They will be single forever until they meet some widowed beta cuck in the retirement home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:47 PM
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they say that, but also they have hidden standards they aren't telling you, like that the men they date must be of a higher SMV than themselves. 'be a fucking weirdo' is so subjective. An otherwise nice dude who is socially awkward and a little unattractive is a 'fucking weirdo' to some women and they would be disgusted if they were approached by such a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:46 PM
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I think men get upset at standards because in this world there are many ugly women with outrageously high standards due to the dating marketplace being in their favor already. standards are great, they just have to be reasonable and it totally depends on the person who is setting them. If this women is a total badass and can reciprocate all the things shes listed then sure go for it, but honestly I quite doubt that is the case. typically in my experience, women have higher standards off the bat,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:43 PM
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I mean what if she is fat and ugly, but wants someone shes 'attracted' to... whatever that means. It could mean she only dates above average looking men, even though she herself is not attractive. Would that not make her full of shit for having all those standards then? You guys are all assuming she is a great person off the bat. She could be, but we don't know. Redpill assumes the worst, bluepill assumes the best. You are both full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:42 PM
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but the problem is that is so subjective. What she views as an attractive mate may be someone WAY out of her league, so all the guys she inevitably gets approached by she will be unhappy with. This list doesn't tell us anything about the actual person. 'we should be compatible' is so hard to define when you don't know anything about the person saying that. IF she is a heaping trash pile of a person then her list is obviously completely unreasonable. I think thats the angle that redpill/blackpill…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:38 PM
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it is because too much of this is subjective and up to interpretation. What does someone shes attracted to look like? is she ugly but only likes super attractive men? I mean thats what redpill assumes... which may or may not be true. Would this work out for her if an unattractive guy checked every other box on her long ass list but shes simply not physically attracted to him because she only likes super attractive tall ripped dudes? I mean we just don't really know what her actual standards are …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:35 PM
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Being a musician and living in a big city certainly helps I guess. Funny enough tho I am not very ‘chad’ looking. I’m 5’8” and skinny. So not really typical redpilk material
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:51 PM
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Okay, to unpack, we live in a quasi capitalistic society, but we print loads of money so that’s not really the issue I’m talking about. It literally doesn’t matter if every guy suddenly has a million dollars. Girls won’t suddenly want to date every guy, they will still only want to date the top 20% of guys. And now that guys are a All at least millionaires, money doesn’t really matter in the equation as much. Now girls will want billionaires, and still only the top 20% of attractive guys. All I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:27 PM
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FDS far overshoots the value of their ‘queens’ who often don’t have much value beyond their pussy. At the same time it preaches that women shouldn’t settle and should have super high standards. Those two things are literally the opposite of what OP is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:11 PM
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I think the idea to TRP is that the 80/20 rule will always exist no matter what due to female solipsism and hypergamy. If a bunch of men suddenly try to push into the 20%, some men fall out of the 20% inevitably. If every guy is making money, taking care of themselves and fairly attractive, then the 20% goal posts essentially just get moved and the same problems exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:09 PM
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I guess I’m not aware of the average amount of matches someone will get
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 04:01 PM
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I got over 1000 matches on tinder within a year, I don't even consider myself a super attractive person though. I imagine the 80/20 rule is a bit stretched depending on how well you present yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 03:27 AM
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no its because a single mom is used up in their opinion, and is single cause it didnt work out with chad. In their eyes if this girl didn't ride the CC and get pregnant they could have settled down with a 'normal' guy and not been single mother. It is maybe 1 possibility out of hundreds as to why someone is a single mom though... thats how a lot of their theories go and why they dont hold up in the real world. They are only accurate for a specific percentage of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:21 PM
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as if they can do addition
/r/askTRP16/05/21 07:59 PM
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Well in the US, anyone who is the main caretaker for the child due child support, so I imagine the cases that aren’t reported are ones where the caretaker feels they are either getting enough support without court mandate or it isn’t worth it. What you are saying just doesn’t logically add up, the court mandated situations ARE the BAD situations. The ones that aren’t court mandated the mother probably doesn’t need the money or the separate agreement between the parents is enough. There are many …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 07:51 PM
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‘Of the 4.9 million women due payments, 76 percent received at least a por- tion of the amount they were owed. The corresponding rate for the 400,000 men owed money was 63 percent. (See chart below.’) This is just Americas statistics. A population half the size of Los Angeles and these are outdated it’s probably grown. https://www.census.gov/prod/1/statbrief/sb95_16.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 08:39 PM
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those women have a child with chad on side and then string dan along for child support payments after divorce. Dan subsidizes this behavior and so does the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 04:20 PM
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10% of men have multiple partners, another 20% or so have 1, the rest have zero. There is a market imbalance caused by too many people chasing the same goods. All women want top 10% of men and think they deserve it, but not all will get it, some settle for slightly below that, and others just stay FWB with chad until they get prego. So yes, both can be true. Some men have many partners and fuck a lot of people, most men do not. most women view a shortage of men in the dating marketplace because …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 04:18 PM
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lmao I died at level 2 nigerian prince scam. You are right though, the world is losing any sort of belief in the marriage system that it may have had before. Religion also plays a part of this. Its because people controlled by religion dont fight for what they think is best for them, they do as they are told and that controlled many men and women for ages, but that control has been mostly broken in many places today.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 04:13 PM
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Yeah I’m sure that’s why they do it... 0.o
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 11:48 PM
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Nah he’s upset that the girl is clearly being deceiving by saying that, but his reaction to it may be dumb. Personally I’d just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 11:46 PM
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7 figure net worth in doge before SNL, now hes broke lol
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 04:32 PM
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Oh my lord I just entertained myself with that thread. These people in FDS are so fucking lost in society and lack so much human decency as to realize their own hypocrisy. In a post right above this one was FDS criticizing incels for not working on themselves, but when it comes to fat chicks? No you are a queen and can do no wrong and it’s men’s fault. God that sub is such a Shit show of solipsism
/r/TheRedPill02/05/21 03:47 PM
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Well it’s because women are the problem in their eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:21 PM
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Most people are average, congrats on learning what the definition of average is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 09:03 PM
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This has been the case even pre covid. I’m fairly certain due to influencers / young musicians / young tech entrepreneurs heavily boosting the average. It may even out more when boomers pass down their wealth.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/21 04:58 PM
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The music industry is heavily determined by the consumer, I’m not here to argue whether or not the average consumer has good taste in music, but many consumers of music choose to consume Billie’s music. So much so that she is one of the highest streamed / top selling artists as of recently. She’s good at what she does and her music appeals to that many consumers confirming it. Obviously she didn’t do this all herself, I even mentioned her brother finneas who produced her album. Prob a massive ma…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/21 08:10 PM
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Connections only help you if you are actually talented / good at what you do. Connections can only get you so far.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 05:47 PM
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Have you ever noticed that millenials average wealth is lower than gen z? Lmao
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 05:22 PM
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Poor excuse, her parents being in ‘Hollywood’ has nothing to do with how the music is made. Her and her brother Finneas are just actually better at what they do than most songwriters / producers. It has little to do with connections.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 05:21 PM
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You are getting downvoted but you are correct. The music industry honestly doesn’t give a fuck who you are.. if you make music that sells that’s all that matters. Sure it’s ‘easier’ for someone like Billie to pitch her music to some douche bag a&r, but that literally means nothing in today’s music industry. Your music either connects with people or it doesn’t. There are more poor rappers turned rich than there are Billie eilishes created from ‘connections’. The whole ‘she has connections’ thing …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 05:19 PM
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Yes and thinking like that is why we have millions of people crippled by healthcare debt and the worst health outcomes, but hey at least my healthcare comes from a private insurer!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:14 PM
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Twice Russia’s income and they still have paid child leave among other socialist benefits the US does not have. Sure the US has more yachts per capita than anywhere else but most of the people here just want basic health care and basic social safety net that so many other countries provide with ease.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 06:11 PM
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I think it’s moreso that Americans grow up being taught that america is the best and the land of opportunity and freedom yet see all these insanely massive common sense benefits offered by countries that are significantly ‘poorer’ in terms of gdp and it just doesn’t add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 05:05 AM
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jesus christ you have over 1 year paid leave in russia!? The US is a god damn third world country
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:54 PM
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yes it is a market, and there is a supply and demand imbalance. If only the government could print high value men to satisfy the demand lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 05:48 PM
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Western Women reap what they sow. The amount of pregnancies I’ve seen this years in my age group (mid 20’s) is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:15 PM
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I must have found a unicorn. Been in a LTR for a few years now, living together now over 1 year. Her parents are rich, but they don’t show it.. she cooks, obsessed with cleaning, more attractive than me, and still fucks my brains out. Has a job and is capable of making her own money, splits bills evenly.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 04:23 PM
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Bachelors degree 18-22
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 06:37 PM
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There are not really many millennials in college anymore. That would be like a very few doctoral students
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 06:24 PM
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Imagine thinking the richest men in the world are betas lmfao you are clueless Betas don’t run billion / trillion dollar companies. They may work for them, but they don’t run them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:36 AM
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No, incels whine about that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 04:24 PM
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a lot of the gay/bi guys I was friends with were more eager to initiate this kinda stuff than any girl that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 07:01 PM
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I always made sure to fuck every single person in my social circle before moving on. Even the guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:04 PM
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And even then how many of those women get cheated on in their marriages?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:03 PM
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Yeah don’t you think any reasonable person would know what The other person is looking for before sleeping with them? If not then the girls in this situation are real idiots. Putting out for a guy to hope he’s interested in a relationship is beyond stupid. Your vetting process IF you want a relationship should only include guys who also want a relationship. If you are fucking guys who don’t want a relationship it’s probably your fault you aren’t getting what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 04:21 PM
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Okay you really had me but you left me hanging. where the fuck do I move to then? I can work remotely, I am intelligent, I can make my own way wherever I am. Always have. Where the fuck did you move to?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/20 08:03 PM
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I don't think you realized how self-centered women, and people in general are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 07:54 PM
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Why are yall proud to portray men as the sex of complacency I think the comment above is pointing that women use men as a status and financial tool more often than men use women for those things, and as soon as they hit a ceiling with status and finances with their currently relationship it is often onto the next branch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 07:53 PM
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Yeah I have a lot of different women friends. Some lesbian friends, some straight friends who are more of a sister or I friend zoned. They are all usually very rewarding and intellectually stimulating relationships. I have gotten a lot of advice from these woman and all around have had a great time with them just as friends. Some were also my male friends girlfriends who I befriended from hanging out in groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 10:32 PM
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If you want to make $35/hr (or more tbh) go learn a skilled trade. The system tries to push you into a poverty mindset of scarcity. If you can get over that (Its a fight every single day) you’ll get out of poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 08:08 AM
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I paid my bills making 7.25 an hour and I pay them still now making 35 an hour. Poverty is a mindset. When you are broke you just have to learn to go without. That being said wealth inequality is a huge problem in the US that needs addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 06:45 PM
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Yeah usually some sort of social disorder along with that. To be fair, at least in US I think that a lot social disorders are brought about by environment. Ugly kids get picked on and abused more often than not which can lead to weird social disorders. That being said, most women can ‘fuck’ above their looks so at least during the 18-30 years incel men get left in the dust in the dating marketplace. Even a chad will fuck a 2 if he’s drunk enough and there’s no one else around. No attractive woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 03:42 PM
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I am fully aware of this, don’t know why you down voted. I’m just explaining to you the other side of the argument you seem to be missing. The reason certain people like Incels have a warped view on sex is because they have never been able to get it but want / need it. I think you too have a warped view on sex though. Sex is a necessity for men at some point in their life in order to be fulfilled. Maybe if our culture was wildly different and suppressed sex this wouldn’t be the case, but in natu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 02:30 PM
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I was saying this in context to the first comment in this thread. Regardless, there are many jobs harder to get as a women, anything that includes lots physical labor for the most part may be more difficult to get as a woman. I dont think the only opportunity for women is what I said above, but for those sexualizing themselves that’s about it. Porn or working at a tit bar or prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 06:16 AM
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Eh, those homemaker tradcon women may try to take you to the handmaids tale simply because of who they vote for. (US context).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 03:52 AM
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Well it makes much more sense financially to show your pussy on only fans than it does to get your ass slapped for $5 tips at some shittty titty bar so pick your poison I guess. Bottom feeders gonna feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 03:50 AM
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Lame
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 12:16 AM
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yupp. that is why I am here!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:49 PM
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I am here for the entertainment factor alone tbh. I am happily in a LTR no pill normal person. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:48 PM
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hate to say its too easy, but c'mon ladies, it is just too easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:20 AM
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The irony of this is, if you just treat pretty women like they are normal people and don't put them up on some pedestal like the bp simps they end up liking you more. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 03:00 PM
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I solved this by always dating much more attractive women than my m8s. piece of cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 04:14 PM
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Now a days I think TRP and most 'pills' truly miss the mark on how women are operating. Women now a days have more dread about success and wealth than in the past because they are now competing for the same stuff men used to only compete for. I know at least in my personal LTR, my girlfriend is majorly insecure about her status and wealth compared to mine. She often feels bad about herself for not being as 'successful' yet compared to me. I feel like she could really give a shit about the looks …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 04:11 PM
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Well that’s certainly interesting. That would destroy the whole wage gap then, yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 03:54 PM
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I think that’s because more women go to college than men now and there is a lack of good paying blue collar jobs... or maybe they just aren’t being filled. Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 03:52 PM
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Hey man I like going on dates too. I realize that sex is so much better anyway in a long term relationship with someone you trust. Any ONS I had was basically the worst sex of my life because the other person can be awkward, you hardly know them and don’t know what they like... it’s a very selfish experience and in my opinion the best sex is actually selfless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 03:25 PM
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As someone in a LTR, I’ll tell you nothing works better to cure deadbedroom than working on yourself. I felt the same thing last year and have been able to turn around the bedroom because I started lifting and not being a bitch. My girlfriend sees my drive and is attracted to that.. and the new muscle mass is just a bonus.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 04:43 AM
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Oh yes because women NEVER cheat. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 05:52 PM
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Very interesting, I stand corrected! Thanks for providing those sources. It appears as though sex overall is dropping and it appears as though men are more sexually actively than most females. I truly wonder why so many assume it’s the opposite on the internet... the CC must be myth for a majority of women according to the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 01:09 AM
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You have the data? Please share if you do :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 12:38 AM
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Unfortunately we don’t have very reliable data on this... probably never will!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 12:05 AM
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Or the data is becoming more unequal.. as in.. the ‘average’ amount of partners may be 7 or whatever it actually is, but the median may be... 2-3?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 10:57 PM
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Okay makes sense, thanks for the definition
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:02 PM
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In the instance above the car dealership wasn’t turning down business either.. (aka stringing the beta along on dates) this is what the Original post is referring to as well. Not a perfect analogy, employment is even worse. My potential girlfriend is not my boss lmfao. The fact you even see it that way is kind of ironic. That is exactly what is being challenged in this post. The power dynamic that exists in dating yet refuses to be acknowledged honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:01 PM
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I understand that, but I’m seriously asking the question as redpill is generally all or nothing. And I clearly did not understand what RPW is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 04:38 PM
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The car = love, relationship, sex, all of it. The dealer = the women’s mind. The first applicant = beta who is putting in work but never gets to test drive the car. The ‘Trump’ doucher in the story = put in no work, shows no interest, and still gets to test drive the car because of the dealers ‘rules’. It’s pointing out the double standard women can hold while dating Around while also complaining about the very men that they are creating via this double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 04:05 PM
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Also are red pilled women neo con slave brides? I figured red pilled women would be the women who spin plates and get what they want but maybe it’s the exact opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 04:02 PM
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I mean guys do this all the time... I’d say this is a matter of opinion. I personally don’t give a fuck how many people someone dates non exclusively
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 04:01 PM
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I’m pretty certain this happens frequently. At least in the College age. I’ve known many girls to be spinning like 5 different gyys on dates, going on with friends and having ons whenever they want or don’t want. Maybe it’s a power thing? I don’t blame them necessarily they are just red pilled women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 03:42 PM
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Lol see ive been on both sides of the fence. If a girl wants to fuck you she will initiate.! Or at least drop so many clues even a Virgin could pick it up. If a girl wants to play a game with you and you are unaware of the game you will get played and this can happen easily to a lot of aloof men. Happened to me in highschool and college. I finally learned halfway through college what the fuck this game actually is about
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 03:41 PM
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You are missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 03:38 PM
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Lol she can make a perfect plate for you. Obviously don’t settle or fall for this one but have fun no doubt
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 08:10 PM
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Those dudes probably don’t make enough money to justify their hobbies, or they are straight bitches and whipped by their significant other. I split bills evenly with my gf, we both have a savings goal, once we hit that we are free to spend extra cash however we want.. I play Video games, she buys makeup, sometimes we pull our cash together and go for a trip. It can work out you just need the right boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 09:21 PM
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Meh, I wouldn’t look into it too much. It’s meant to be general ‘are you a cool person, or are you a shitty person?’ At least that’s how I see it..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 03:52 PM
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Totally a myth, I love when girls approach me. The conversation is often much more natural and flows better for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 03:50 PM
1

Yes and truthfully TRP help solves this for men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 06:25 PM
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Weak blue pill Shit, don’t follow your own advice kid.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/20 05:25 PM
2

Depends on if it’s a date or LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 11:01 PM
1

If they offer to pay half if I feel I need to impress them I will try and not let them and maybe offer to let them pay for something in the future if I asked them on the date in the first place... if connection is just meh I would let them pay half. Saves me some bills and I’ll prob get laid anyway so whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 11:00 PM
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It is because women can have sex easily and men can not. That is the only reason why Promiscuous behavior is viewed differently among the sexes. I don't understand why BP can't see there is a difference and that is why it is not necessarily hypocritical. At face value it seems like it is, but you are comparing apples and oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 11:13 PM
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dudes without good fathers tend to be lazy
/r/TheRedPill14/08/20 02:01 AM
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How anyone can have such low self esteem to stay in a relationship with a cheating bitch is beyond me lol... have some self respect man!
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 04:03 AM
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All love you have for each person will be different. I don’t think dating spoils anything. And trust me man you’ll know if you wanna LTR a girl or not after a couple months. It’s a necessary process to find a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 11:45 PM
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Alright then that’s a contradiction to what you said before. If we can maximize productivity through the use of automation and technology and the next generation is twice as productive then they can technically have half the amount of people and maintain the same level of economic activity, at least by what you just said. Maybe the problem is actually how the economic development is directed and planned. We currently focus a lot of effort on producing junk for lazy slobs to consume and the syste…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:01 PM
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Yeah, I agree, this model does breakdown without perpetual growth. But that’s kind of a major flaw of capitalism. The world isn’t endlessly abundant with resources and people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:54 PM
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So what? That’s a poor example of what I was saying is needed. I’m not saying we take all their wealth and everyone else stop paying taxes. I’m saying we tax them higher so the government has the ability to spend a bit more money to fight the economic downturn without running an egregious deficit. We’ve taken out the equivalent in debt to WW2 over the course of the past month. We will need to do similar things, like Eisenhower tax brackets, to inflate ourselves safely out of the current situatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:39 PM
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Or you know the US could just tax the many billionaires and millionaires that own and operate companies in the country... and then the unfunded liabilities problem wouldn’t be much of a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:59 PM
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Capital does not move freely between countries. The whole world does not practice 100% free trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:54 PM
2

but will you cheat on her with sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 11:20 PM
0

oh boohoo there is always the other 80% of guys to go to, you don't need to suck off 1% megachad to be fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:41 PM
2

damn, you totally right bro!
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 11:41 PM
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this is TRP, why the fuck do you care about virgins? This is about spinning plates. you guys in here trashing on women for tattoos sound exactly like virgin incels. This article if anything should be pointed out in TRP for guys who wanna get laid easier should chase a girl with tats. It is a good shit test, a good starter to try spinning plates.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 06:52 PM
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It’s more that my girlfriend literally will think I’m not attracted to her anymore and I’m like BABE not true I’m just making beats and playing video games I’m sorry I’ll come get horny with you later
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 03:04 PM
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True and I don’t know what it actually feels like to be an Incel. If I was I might feel and think differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 10:54 PM
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I feel like all men would be a lot happier if they just practiced some mindfulness and stopped pondering on sex all the time. I care so little about sex that my partner gets frustrated when I am not fucking the hell out of her. Reverse psychology my dudes. but at the end of the day I literally don't even care about sex anymore. I am more passionate about my hobbies and the work I do. Maybe this is also due to being in a LTR with a GF who always wants to have sex with me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 10:12 PM
4

For reference a 5’9” man with a normal BMI would be around 140-160 lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 12:06 AM
4

yeah, so how about we just don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 04:13 PM
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if it wasn't for me my SO would be broke and potentially homeless. Sure she helps me take care of myself, but I make a helluva lot more money than her and at the end of the day it is a partnership. Idk why you would think there are HARD stops on how men and women can behave independently or together. There are hopeless messes on both sides, crazy cat ladies exist just as often as old sad perverted men. Also, your data doesn't account for expectations. I imagine women have a wildly different expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 02:53 PM
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Get to a city brotha! You owe it to yourself to be surrounded by a good amount of attractive women. Put yourself in that place.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 06:01 PM
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It depends on how hot she is for sure. but you can be sure I will hardly seem interested if this goes on longer than a couple of weeks. I doubt I would ever get to 3 months with someone playing this game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 06:35 PM
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There are a lot of people doing good business for them. Male and female. I mean even kris Jenner was a businessman. It’s more of a mixed conglomerate of kardashian bullshit
/r/TheRedPill10/12/19 07:02 PM
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but still, at the same time, this doesn't happen if you reverse the roles. Men still swipe yes MANY times more than women. No doubt meeting someone in person changes things (body language, personality etc), but women will be biologically pickier than men. If we were the same then the OLD data would be more or less the same amount of pickiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:43 PM
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It is a biological fact that women are 'pickier' than men with who they will sleep with. But context matters. For example, I am in an LTR with a girl 'out of my league' beauty-wise by a couple points, but I have a good job and am fairly successful for my age with good prospects on the horizon. AND I am also a musician. (which has literally always helped me with dating) Overall I am an average looking guy, but she picks me for the various other personality and professional traits. Now if I look b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:41 PM
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unless they are gay
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 11:12 PM
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