swaglordobama Archive

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12	A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do? Wrong. It's unlocked.	/r/seduction	16/12/21 04:00 AM
7	A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do? Sexy is a vibe. It's not mechanical eye contact or dress. It's the mirror neurons that get fired up when you imagine all of the dirty things you wanna do to a person while smirking at them. State your intent. Sexualize situations. Comment about how her body and her mannerisms makes you think unclean thoughts. Misinterpret her words and actions as being comically sexual. Jokingly cold read her as being prudish, inexperienced. Tease her with physicality. Leading, horny, playful, abundance mentalit…	/r/seduction	16/12/21 02:06 AM
20	I can't seem to get girls at parties You're valuing all of the wrong things. Why do people go to parties? You could brainstorm a few ideas, then rank them according to priority. The priorities will be slightly different for guys and girls, but they ultimately boil down to FUN. The way you look is the last thing girls at a party/club care about. They just want fun and stimulation. A party is not a cold approach situation. By just being at a party, it's assumed that you are 1 or 2 degrees of separation away from each person there. Th…	/r/seduction	27/06/21 05:46 PM
18	Meeting people without dating apps these days? First and foremost, dating apps exist to make money. They have algorithms designed to show you ads and incentivize you to buy dumb shit like superlikes, premium subscriptions, boosts, etc. They also have a ton of fake / zombie profiles to make you waste your alloted free swipes. The thing is most girls using dating apps and social media as validation hits. They feel ugly or some shit, go on tinder, and look at all the thirsty dudes who send them "hey sexy" What this means is many girls are on th…	/r/seduction	28/04/21 06:15 AM
11	How you flirt (escalate) on a person you just met? I guess we are imagining two very different scenarios playing out. Sure, if you have pressing matters, then attend to them... But if you don't, then don't make up an excuse to get out of the interaction. If things are going well, you should 100% stay in there and move things forward. If it's a daytime interaction, figure out what she is up to immediately. If it's an evening interaction, your aim should be figuring out who she is with, where she is staying, etc pretty early on to know if the logi…	/r/seduction	12/12/20 05:20 PM
5	How you flirt (escalate) on a person you just met? Wait what...? If the convo is going well you just leave?	/r/seduction	12/12/20 02:08 PM
-2	OUCH. Everyone on this forum used to be a loser and worked on himself to be less of a loser, just like this chick when she was fucked up on drugs. We cannot judge women for indulging in taboo sexual acts that we fap to. Every chick is a dirty little slut with a partner who accepts and rewards that part of her.	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/20 10:46 AM
2	First date ever at 28 and got rejected next day People want authenticity and honesty. It's okay to be a virgin at whatever age for whatever reason. It's okay to have no friends. It's okay to want to have sex with someone you find attractive. It's okay to just be yourself and get rejected by people who don't like who you are; that is a lot more respectable than being an insecure, lying, imposter and trying to please and entertain people who you have no chemistry with. Your missing all of the points in the date where she tested you and you fail…	/r/seduction	14/07/20 05:35 PM
1	Does height matter? Voice.	/r/seduction	12/07/20 01:02 PM
1	Does height matter? The answer is yes, if it matters to you. Girls have a preference for certain traits, just like men do. If a girl has big titties or a big ass, that's a bonus, but you wouldn't date someone only because of a physical feature. Women are the same way. They prefer men to be taller than them because it makes them feel safer, but it's not the only thing they are looking for. Stop worrying about things you can't control. And if you're really insecure you can get men's heels, listen to height increasing…	/r/seduction	12/07/20 01:00 PM
1	Just How Fucked Are We? More tactfully, usually I say something like "America is so fucked up right now, and with the way woke culture is pushing people on the left away, my gut is telling me that Trump is going to win again in 2020." This gives the other party space to say their opinion and show me where they are on the political spectrum without polarizing the conversation or alienating them. The key is to make emotional statements, not state absolutes. In some (usually drunken) times, I have gone in with a more pola…	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/20 10:17 PM
13	Just How Fucked Are We? To be honest, the pendulum is beginning to swing the other way. The internet isn't everything, and I think most folk share the views expressed in the OP, even though they might get shouted down online for saying so. I have had many in-person conversations about this topic, and people generally agree that woke culture is toxic as fuck after they realize I'm not going to pop a tit if they express a controversial opinion. If the answer is going back to the early 2000s style of niche, anonymous foru…	/r/TheRedPill	09/07/20 09:55 PM
1	How to approach/attract women at the gym? If you have a reputation there of being the cringy PUA, yeah.	/r/seduction	11/06/20 11:42 PM
1	How to approach/attract women at the gym? Cheers bro	/r/seduction	11/06/20 06:42 PM
18	How to approach/attract women at the gym? Gym is a place you go almost every day. Your reputation matter since you will be seeing other members regularly. In other words, never, ever creep out people here. Because the gym is a set-up game location, none of your approaches are cold approaches. You already have exposure effect. For the above reasons, the gym is an ideal social circle game location. Instead of approaching and hitting on girls at the gym, just start saying hi and smalltalking with them. Build comfort and friendzone them, es…	/r/seduction	11/06/20 06:39 PM
0	The Brain is the biggest sex organ! Female here sharing my own experience— what has been extremely effective with me. Don't know why people are being emotionally reactive. This is all true, double entendres and sexual misinterpretations are amazing for building sexual tension over text, and also keep the conversation fun and interesting. Another fun texting thread is to send something with a sexual implication, such as "You can't even imagine what I want to do to you right now." Then follow up with something not sexual at all, like "knit sweaters for homeless kittens... It's tough work and I could use your help…	/r/seduction	14/05/20 11:39 AM
3	2 Years Of Cold Approach, 15 Lays, And Right Back Where I Started That's not true; everyone gets rejected. If you're not getting rejected, you're not approaching enough. And yes, obviously looks do help, but there are plenty of ugly dudes getting laid from power positions, drugs, money, validation, fetishization, etc. Looks are just a part of the equation of attraction for women. Being put together and fitting the vibe of the venue is all you need. $30+ dollar haircut, well fitting clothes (h&m, zara are fine). Loud voice and grounded energy. Willingness to wa…	/r/seduction	11/05/20 03:54 PM
1	Wisest thing I've ever heard Tuna mayo is a classic. Lobster mayo is okay. Fish and chips needs tartar, though.	/r/seduction	06/05/20 04:57 AM
1	Wisest thing I've ever heard You eat fish with mayo? I prefer tartar sauce.	/r/seduction	06/05/20 12:57 AM
3	Wisest thing I've ever heard What? 1. Possessive behavior is toxic. 2. Using push-pull to spike emotions and build attraction is not "playing games." 3. I don't know what point you are trying to make but you seem very confused about what I'm saying based on your reply.	/r/seduction	05/05/20 06:41 PM
1	Wisest thing I've ever heard The paradox is that the girl you are describing feels the most comfortable with the guy who doesn't want to impress her. Trying to impress = assuming she is higher value and you are lower value. Ask yourself if you prefer to be friends with someone who is just themself around you, or with someone who is always trying to impress you. Few people aside from narcissists would choose the latter because we don't want low value friends. Let's try another thought experiment. As men and women, our roles …	/r/seduction	05/05/20 06:34 PM
24	Wisest thing I've ever heard You're not trying to "catch" a woman. You're not trying to possess a woman. These are toxic attitudes that will hinder you. Make it win/win.	/r/seduction	05/05/20 03:57 AM
1	Haven’t dated in almost 10 years It's a prison of your own mind. Girls don't have high standards, they just want to have a good time.	/r/seduction	09/04/20 03:55 PM
2	Haven’t dated in almost 10 years Man learning anything new in life is awkward and uncomfortable. The longer you wait, the later you learn the skillset, and the more awkward it is when you're 40 and don't know how to hang out with a chick. Besides, all you do on a first date is get to know the person. I invite girls to try new restaurants and bars around the city with me, cook food, go to a museum/aquarium, go on a hike, help me shop, get drunk and do art, whatever. It can be anything, you're just hanging out and seeing if there…	/r/seduction	09/04/20 03:08 PM
1	Haven’t dated in almost 10 years This is such an ego trap.	/r/seduction	09/04/20 02:05 PM
1	Haven’t dated in almost 10 years I mean you can read hours of theory, and different models and styles of game work for different kinds of people. The backbone of all the theory, though is social comfort and social intelligence. If you're looking to practice this skillset during quarantine, it's like playing a guitar with missing strings. If you're in a slump I suggest checking out the Transformation Mastery program by RSD Julien. Also while you're in quarantine you can write a list of confidence / self esteem frames to read alo…	/r/seduction	09/04/20 01:58 PM
3	Haven’t dated in almost 10 years Don't overcomplicate the process. Phase one is to just go out, have fun, be social, meet people, especially bar and restaurant owners (they will help a lot later). Once you're comfortable in social interactions and have a few good female friends, phase two is about focusing more on dates, bring the dates to the places that know you well. Logistics are important, have a plan to lead things to a place where sex can happen.	/r/seduction	09/04/20 09:38 AM
2	His First Ever Attempt At Approaching Women (Daygame Infield) Yeah, instead of cold approach try to game in locations where you are a regular and everyone knows you. Just say hi to guys and girls (after the 3rd or 4th time they will say hi back to you) and engage in small conversations, then organize group events, like a dinner or activity with members of that group, and add the girls you like on instagram to invite them to these events. Let social media work for you (it's important to have a decent instagram profile that conveys fun, value, and passion/pu…	/r/seduction	25/02/20 02:17 AM
1	His First Ever Attempt At Approaching Women (Daygame Infield) You can't fake the funk, if you want to attract high value people, you have to be a high value person. Just get some photos of yourself doing cool hobbies.	/r/seduction	20/02/20 03:45 PM
7	His First Ever Attempt At Approaching Women (Daygame Infield) Value funnel is having high value pics and status through social media. If you add a girl you barely know on insta and she sees that you're a dope dude, that's a value funnel. Games her without you saying a thing.	/r/seduction	20/02/20 03:17 PM
24	His First Ever Attempt At Approaching Women (Daygame Infield) Getting the number doesn't mean anything without a solid interaction, a value funnel, or a reason to follow up. There's so many videos where guys get a quick number after chatting for a few seconds. If you're making a connection, exchanging info will be the most natural thing between the two of you. The fast number is a flashy gimmick that bedazzles some new/low value guys, but anyone who actually goes out knows how hit or miss a contact is without a solid interaction. Ofc you can amass numbers …	/r/seduction	20/02/20 04:36 AM
2	Long time lurker, I HAVE to speak up on how to increase your success with MINIMAL effort and there is no BS trick - it's a simple path that doesn't include anxiety. Spam approach IS working on yourself. It's getting rejected, destroying your ego, and becoming more present and self-aware. It also teaches you that even though you may feel like you're high value now, if girls don't see your value they will blow you out.	/r/seduction	11/02/20 02:18 AM
1	How am I supposed to “rock her world” in bed when I rarely get a chance to practice Sex god method is great	/r/seduction	28/01/20 06:19 AM
2	Ever since the PUA landscape changed on YouTube, this sub also changed Nope, I think it's from his Women program.	/r/seduction	25/01/20 06:02 AM
9	Ever since the PUA landscape changed on YouTube, this sub also changed Game model is open, social hook, sexual hook, close. Social hooking can happen on the open, or it can take some plowing. Generally speaking, clear intent causes instant social hooking. If you've seen the full video, Todd explains the set and the circumstances around the interaction. Basically the girls were not that attractive per his standards, so he didn't want to talk to them, but plowed anyway to display plowing through a crash and burn set to his cameramen, who were new to game. Taken out o…	/r/seduction	24/01/20 09:39 PM
3	I did it. I finally did it, no cheat code. In any closed social environment you should create set-up game. Say hi to everyone there, after the 3rd or 4th time they start saying hi back to you, then you develop a reputation as "that social friendly guy." Using this reputation you start hosting events, like group dinners, exploring the city, etc, and using those to get the girl out. As with any social circle building technique, prioritize your reputation.	/r/seduction	16/12/19 07:53 PM
9	Guys who got fit/muscular, how did that help your game? Gotta lift emotions, not weights. Lmao	/r/seduction	08/12/19 03:48 PM
2	How to start flirting on a first date? It's in the vibe and tone, I don't mean to actually make the girl feel bad, it's just playful teasing. It's kind of a roleplay of "oh this thing about you is nice, but i'm not sure if it meets my ridiculous made-up standard" or "oh the way you hold your fork says a lot about you wink" In my experiences girls generally react well and it makes the interaction more exciting. As long as it's coming from a fun / carefree place and not actually trying to be judgmental or insulting women tend to pick u…	/r/seduction	08/12/19 09:03 AM
1	How to start flirting on a first date? Hookah lounge.	/r/seduction	08/12/19 05:38 AM
4	How to start flirting on a first date? Flirting is teasing, push pull, keeping the topics of conversation sexual and man-to-woman. There needs to be a sexual undertone to the date, but she also wants to be "won over," like you like her body, but you're still not sure about her. Generally as the man you have to initiate sexualizing any interaction. If there was no sexual tension, then the vibe will me more friend-to-friend and escalation will feel awkward. Good methods are sexual misinterpretation of something she says, accusing her o…	/r/seduction	08/12/19 05:34 AM
1	Should I go after a girl despite not matching with her on tinder?? That's some awful logic. Women experience attraction differently than men. They don't have physical standards, but they do have preferences. On tinder all they have to judge men on are photos of their appearance, fashion, and lifestyle, so they make a snap judgment and swipe based on preference. In person they get to actually experience a man's personality and see his behavior, which is where the majority of their interest lies. Many women lose attraction for very handsome men once they talk to …	/r/seduction	25/10/19 03:31 AM
2	No experience = no confidence, and no confidence = no experience Your entire life is baking a cake. The process is messy but without the right process the end result isn't a very tasty cake. You have the recipe so follow it, stop baking a shitty cake.	/r/seduction	25/10/19 03:10 AM
1	I'm a 27m, don't work and on disability. If a woman ever asks me what do I do for work, what would be a good way to say it to her? You can joke about it but at some point you should be honest. Seems like it's not a physical thing you are dealing with, but a mental disability, so you can reframe it as i'm going through a transitionary period / taking time off to handle some things in my life. You can get past anxiety, depression, etc, I suggest traveling a bit and forcing yourself to go out and be social. Focus on just having fun with people and becoming outgoing, fun, carefree, risk-taking, etc, then most of the worries and…	/r/seduction	25/10/19 02:52 AM
3	How to make the first move In general just take the risk and take action. Telling her puts too much pressure on her, just show her. Make a plan to hang out, preferably at a place where sex can happen, or one that will naturally end at a place where sex can happen, i.e. watching a movie together. Get a few drinks together (note, just tipsy) and escalate on high points. Basically you ping her receptivity to touch. Touch more sensitive parts of her body as you go. If you are watching a movie on your couch or bed tell her to …	/r/seduction	24/10/19 06:49 PM
3	Hypergamy isn't your biggest enemy. Obesity is. Right, so we get our looks handled then focus on other parts of life. If you're overweight you can still dress well and get a nice haircut and learn sexy posture, but you can't get fit overnight. Hence why looks are not that important to maximize your efforts on.	/r/TheRedPill	17/09/19 08:28 AM
14	Hypergamy isn't your biggest enemy. Obesity is. Putting in more effort than necessary is not going to produce an equal increase in results. Looks are not THAT important. The girl ultimately cares about how she feels with you and how other men and women percieve you, which comes down to behavior. Many celebrities are average looking guys who get laid from status. You can be in some shitty local band and reap the local pussy much faster than you can get ripped. You can be a club promoter with some style and a fukkboi cut and get more access to …	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/19 11:40 PM
1	Hypergamy isn't your biggest enemy. Obesity is. You don't need to be that fit as a guy. Girls care more about your face than your body almost universally. Don't disregard your body, but don't make excuses either. Your behavior is what she is ultimately attracted to.	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/19 11:17 PM
13	Hypergamy isn't your biggest enemy. Obesity is. As a man you just need to know how to dress for your body type and get a stylish haircut to look attractive. The standard is different. Fitting beauty standards as a woman is way more work. Girls take hours to get ready before a night out. Again, as a guy your results are your responsibility. It's your job to make Dick-in-Pussy happen. You don't have the luxury of being a loser and expecting good results. If you want a quality life with quality friends and quality women, don't delude yourself in…	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/19 11:05 PM
7	Hypergamy isn't your biggest enemy. Obesity is. The point your missing is cultural differences and personal bias. The article you linked is some of the most negative, whiny, beta, bitchboy shit I have ever read. "Waaah American girls like assholes instead of me, an intellectual blogger!" If you've been to major cities in America you'll notice women are more competitive and put together, and you can meet some down to earth chicks. Obviously not every place is like this. One thing you need to know about Asia is that sex is a commodity and a wom…	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/19 10:54 PM
1	Man jailed for 28 years because she "dreamed" that he raped her There is a blurry line between lack of proof and false accusation. People are quick to call someone a false accuser when there is lack of proof. It's really better to just treat the accused as innocent until there is enough proof to prosecute. The issue is simply being accused of rape can ruin someone's life, and that is why some vengeful or crazy women make fake accusations.	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/19 07:08 PM
-2	Man jailed for 28 years because she "dreamed" that he raped her You can have hobbies and friends in prison, though.	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/19 11:17 AM
3	Man jailed for 28 years because she "dreamed" that he raped her This is tricky. With rape accusations there are so many claims that are difficult or impossible to prove, so if you punish the accuser when it's literally a case of he-said, she-said, less people will come forward. The best solution is to require more evidence for prosecution and harsh sentencing, and not jump the gun on accusations alone. Innocent until PROVEN guilty, and all that. An accusation alone should not be enough to ruin a person's life. Also, if you ever talk to rape victims you reali…	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/19 11:16 AM
3	Do a shit load less. She's already chosen You're confusing investment with experience. Yes, for a woman to consider you as an investment you can't rely on looks. Women admit they don't care about looks when it comes to a longterm relationship, sexual or platonic. However, for a hookup looks will make your life much easier because that's what the girl is hunting for. That being said, different girls are attracted to different guys, much more so than guys to girls. Much of what most women find attractive eternally can be checked off throu…	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/19 08:17 PM
3	Tinder Experiment Easter Europe vs North America Make some outgoing friends	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/19 11:48 AM
1	Traditional Girls That's a pipe dream. Those traditional roles seldom existex in reality, they were just ideals. Imagine some dudes 70 years in the future looking at our time using only movies for reference. Female psychology and sexual response programming hasn't changed in a few generations. People were still fucking and cheating and shit.	/r/TheRedPill	26/06/19 03:48 AM
1	Never Truly Lived It's you who failed to understand the point of mine. Focus on your own life. Mediocity and expertise are relative and many people are content with being experts in some fields and mediocre in others. Understand that every subculture, including gaming, TRP, business/entrepreneurship, hip hop, etc has its own values. People who buy into gaming, for example, prob don't give much of a fuck about the Kardashians or many pop culture events. Doesn't mean one is better than another, they are just differ…	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/19 03:09 PM
1	Never Truly Lived Instead of tearing some guy down for liking video games, try being happy for him and wish him a happy birthday. Everyone's life takes a different path and purpose. The fact that you spent time writing this post to pity a stranger is quite pitiful and telling. The truth is that women care more that you have hobbies and passions than about what they are. You can love metal and video games and working out and collecting stamps and TRP and playing the kazoo. As long as you own it and don't act asham…	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/19 12:00 PM
1	Weak men will screw feminism up. - The Sexbots Are Coming It depends, most normal people aren't going to buy sexbots, at least initially, so the market is going to be niche. Furthermore perhaps the AI can be programmed to have different modes for different archetypes of women.	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/19 03:20 AM
2	30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do? It really depends. It's generally hard to get laid if you're depressed and negative and socially awkward with or without a job, but if you're an attractive guy who lost his job you can just be authentic with girls about that and they won't care.	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/19 12:58 PM
68	30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do? Men without jobs can get laid easily, too. In fact getting laid a lot is one thing u can do when you are unemployed because you can go out all day and approach. Game is a skillset, and women don't need your money, they bang financially crippled fuckboys and leech off of rich scrubs all the time. The real cause behind incels is the wussification of males and the war against masculinity. Boys are raised without knowing their role in society, and many of them see in movies that these white knight f…	/r/TheRedPill	05/04/19 04:36 AM
7	Weak men will screw feminism up. - The Sexbots Are Coming There's always gonna some loser with a humiliation fetish.	/r/TheRedPill	04/04/19 07:45 PM
51	Weak men will screw feminism up. - The Sexbots Are Coming Because sex ain't shit. It feels good, then you cum, then you relax, then you fuck that bitch again 10 minutes later. Woopedi doo. Companionship, feeling cared for, etc is different from pumping your cock into a moaning wet hole, and that's what these depressed bitchboys want. The thing is that sexbots and toys are not alternatives to real women because there is nothing to dominate and conquer with a robot or a fleshlight. The joy of fucking a bitch is the hunt; blowing through her bullshit defe…	/r/TheRedPill	04/04/19 07:41 PM
1	Chinese investor avoids female execs Or winnie the pooh. 🍯	/r/TheRedPill	01/04/19 06:34 PM
1	Women don't actually want their men to "be in touch with their feelings". Men don't show emotion or share their feelings because there is no benefit for them to do so in society or their relationships. True, but vulnerability is generally okay as long as it doesn't come paired with a victim complex. For example if you lose a loved one, it's okay to grieve, cry, and open up to her about that, and she will provide emotional support for you for a while, but eventually you have to return to groundedness.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/19 04:06 AM
5	Women don't actually want their men to "be in touch with their feelings". Men don't show emotion or share their feelings because there is no benefit for them to do so in society or their relationships. This is absolutely wrong. Emotional communication a mandatory part of social interaction as well any healthy relationship. No girl wants an emotional trainwreck of a guy 24/7, but opening up emotionally to a girl builds trust, comfort, and sympathy. I swear, some guys read TRP and think they have to be these icy beeftards who never smile and run dread game with every girl. Plates break due to lack of emotional connection and socialization. It's okay to express yourself. Emotions = passion, which…	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/19 09:32 PM
5	There's absolutely no reason to be afraid of cold approach Cold approach is with strangers. In a setting like a class it's now warm because the girl knows of your existence and has some judgments about your character.	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/18 08:08 AM
46	There's absolutely no reason to be afraid of cold approach Women are very social creatures and will talk to anyone. Thinking about it like an approach is what creates anxiety to begin with, because an approach has a win condition and a loss condition. Best advice is stop thinking in binaries and just be a social guy. Comment on something you noticed about her, the environment, etc then follow up on it with a story, questions, etc. You know, a natural conversation. There is no approach, it's already open.	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/18 08:04 AM
5	Witnessing Hypergamy in Latin Dance: Salsa and Sensual Bachata If you can't get success without it, it's a shtick. The only a man needs to attract a girl and maintain a stable relationship with her is his mind. All the superficial shit is just a way to get on women's radars and create passive attraction at best, and over-compensation at worst.	/r/TheRedPill	27/10/18 05:29 AM
10	Witnessing Hypergamy in Latin Dance: Salsa and Sensual Bachata Much easier to be a good dancer than a d1 basketball player, lmao. That being said, this is all superficial shit. Gets your foot in the door and gets you results but it's a shtick	/r/TheRedPill	27/10/18 12:51 AM
1	An experiment: Cold approach vs. Tinder/Bumble It's really important that your photos communicate you are a social guy with cool shit going on. It's best if she sees you with girls (means you're not THAT creepy) and having fun. Having like one professional headshot or photoshoot is fine for one photo, but mostly you want to make friends with photographers (amateur or professional) and invite them to hang out with you and some female friends in the early evening. Tell them to bring their camera. My go to opens for online game these days are m…	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/18 12:00 AM
7	An experiment: Cold approach vs. Tinder/Bumble Sounds like someone is bitter. That's not entirely true. Even guys who look hot get lefted quite regularly, though they do get a bigger window than average and ugly guys. Usually, though, girls think they are tools, players, fuckboys, etc, and rationalize why they shouldn't swipe right on them. Best bet is to show pictures that display status. This is done in various ways. One obvious way is having high quality, professional looking photos. No grainy cellphone selfies. Second is showing you doin…	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/18 07:29 PM
15	An experiment: Cold approach vs. Tinder/Bumble It's also fear that they are going to match, the guy is going to drop a "Hey, there" and she's never going to respond. Also after you use tinder to hook up a few times, it loses its novelty, especially for girls. Even average chicks get thousands of likes and have an extreme abundance of options with online dating. Girls want to experience seduction. They want sex to be something that "could happen" and "just happened;" agreeing to it explicitly is not exciting for them. It's true as guys, too. …	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/18 06:35 AM
34	An experiment: Cold approach vs. Tinder/Bumble 15 approaches in a week? Lol. Also, get some female friends and watch them swipe. Even if they initially think the guy is attractive they rationalize reasons to not swipe right. Women are extremely picky about shopping for cock because they can be.	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/18 01:11 AM
2	Stop Being Afraid of Women If you want to truly be able to game high tier women then you have to see beyond appearance. 9s and 10s have a different reality of how the world works than 8s and 7s, 8s and 7s have a different reality than 6s and 5s, etc. That being said, however, female psychology is largely the same around the board, so yes, you can "practice" on ugly girls, but do it to build momentum and have fun. You can also practice on hot girls. If you only game ugly girls you will level out on hotter girls. Each tier …	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/18 02:32 PM
8	Women react to Drake hugging 18 y.o model Value and comfort are like a seesaw. Drake has too much value, he can get away with anything. The girl KNOWS how lucky she is to be with him and she is extremely insecure about it. Because of this insecurity, Drake's problem is getting the girl to believe he ACTUALLY likes her because his preselection and abundance factors are so damn high. He is the bonafide prize, she has to prove that she is not easily replacable. Because he's so proofed, if he acts playerish he alienates the girl. At some po…	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/18 06:04 PM
65	Stop Being Afraid of Women Just say out loud to yourself "I don't care about rejection." After each approach: "Nobody else had the balls to do that." You can also reframe to rejection being education, every approach is a learning opportunity, it's just practice, etc. Just saying that a lot will reframe it in your head, though. Also when you go out you can "sacrifice a lamb" aka crash and burn a set or two intentionally to get you into that DGAF mindset.	/r/TheRedPill	23/08/18 11:03 AM
3	Of Apex and Alphas Yes. Well it depends on the premise, but as long as intent has been established and she is meeting you out, she is there to experience your personality and potentially get fucked if the logistics are good. The burden of escalation is always on you as a guy. You move things forward and take risks. You set up a date that can lead to sex.	/r/TheRedPill	18/08/18 02:41 AM
19	Of Apex and Alphas Honestly, you just need strong frame, eye contact, and social skills. Most guys are such shit with girls that there is no competition. The standard for a girl to have sex with you is so low that it's almost nonexistent.	/r/TheRedPill	18/08/18 01:31 AM
1	If guys suddenly stopped asking women out, would women begin chasing men? Let me put it very simply. Leaving her out of fear of having a mentally disabled child, when the condition is rarely hereditary, is based out of ignorance and fear. It's like thinking you have a gangrene limb and cutting it off to stop it from spreading, when you're not actually afflicted. I'm not saying you should be with someone if you don't like them. I think the opposite. Chase your happiness. Making a choice out of fear, however, is not abundance mentality.	/r/TheRedPill	16/08/18 04:37 PM
1	If guys suddenly stopped asking women out, would women begin chasing men? How is it brave to break up with a girl because a member of her extended family has a syndrome that occurs by chance much more often than it is hereditary. I am confused here. Are you implying that is an act of bravery?	/r/TheRedPill	16/08/18 10:51 AM
1	If guys suddenly stopped asking women out, would women begin chasing men? Because it's a choice made out of fear and ignorance, not out of abundance. You GIVE from abundance, not run away or take.	/r/TheRedPill	16/08/18 08:30 AM
-4	If guys suddenly stopped asking women out, would women begin chasing men? In any country you can easily leave. If he goes back to Japan nobody is forcing him to pay shit.	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/18 08:28 PM
-6	If guys suddenly stopped asking women out, would women begin chasing men? That's not abundance mentality, lmfao. That's a combination of ignorance, fear, and wanting an excuse to end a relationship. Downs is rarely hereditary. Abundance mentality is knowing you'll have access to other women / resources / opportunities, so you don't put too much importance on a single thing. If anything, his decision was inspired by scarcity: thinking his kid would be fucked with Downs if he bred with his girlfriend. Abundance mindset would not give a shit and know he could have many k…	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/18 07:45 PM
65	The 5 Emotions You Should Never Show a Woman There is a distinction between showing emotion and dwelling on it. Showing emotion humanizes you and helps the girl relate more. Dwelling on some negative shit is just toxic. Nobody, woman or man, wantd to be around an angry, toxic person for extended periods of time.	/r/TheRedPill	12/08/18 09:47 AM
1	The "alpha rock star" myth and other traps of the celebrity industrial complex. Haha exactly. You take that gamer nerd and put him in a social gathering and he gets all fucked up and stifled. You put him behind his favorite game and he's free, passionate, expressive, loud, flowing. The problem is that no girl is gonna fuck him because he's still lacking the social intelligence and references to open, attract, and close her, let alone be himself in her presence on a date. But yes, every social situation has an alpha male!	/r/TheRedPill	07/08/18 12:12 PM
2	The "alpha rock star" myth and other traps of the celebrity industrial complex. Yes, in the eyes of women. I think what I failed to explain is this: when you are in your strength zone, you are engaging in your "alpha personality." I will give you an example. I did a night out with a large group of friends of different backgrounds a few weeks ago. In the group were a few relatively well known international models and ex-models. I also invited my nerdy, socially awkward friend out and he accepted. In the club the poor guy didn't want to dance. I caught him watching League of …	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/18 07:28 AM
21	The "alpha rock star" myth and other traps of the celebrity industrial complex. You don't know what Alpha is. Is a rockstar and alpha male? Yes and no. Are you an alpha male? Yes and no. Is some neckbeard sperglord an alpha male? Yes and no. The alpha mentality is relative to any given environment and it is based on status and abundance. Every man accesses his alpha persona and his beta persona in different environments and situations. The evironmental alpha falls victim to situational confidence, and you can change this through aquiring new refence experiences and adapting…	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/18 01:23 AM
6	First date failure, killed the vibe by jokingly insulting her Words don't matter. It's all delivery and context.	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/18 06:18 AM
1	Jordan Peterson, Fallacies, and the Tragic State of this Sub Pickup is the test to see if you've actually improved as a man and become sex worthy. It is a pillar of TRP and much of the manipation tactics taught in TRP are oldschool dark-game techniques that exploit female psychology. Let's not bash chumps for wanting to change their lives and get laid, please. We all started somewhere and this "holier than thou" attitude aint shit. Without cold approach, you've done nothing but engage in mental masturbation. There is nothing quite like ego destruction to …	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/18 09:20 PM
11	Wow. Female contestants of reality TV shows such as Love Island regret their decisions. Who knew!? This post is a glorified rant that misses every opportunity to attempt to understand female psychology. Let's break it down. Girl goes on reality TV dating show. Girl has sex, as everyone on the show does. Girl is slut-shamed by the media and loses her title because society has sexual hang-ups. Girl has major buyer's remorse. Allow me to introduce a concept to you that you may not have considered. Our biological drives will take major, irrational risks for a good mating opportunity. We're design…	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/18 08:59 PM
1	What Men Want: “Debt-Free Virgins Without Tattoos” If there is no downside to her jumping on that cock, she will. Downside is what causes hessitation on the girl's part and makes her deny or delay sex. It's the yin and yang between appreciation and expectation, experience and investment, emotion and logic. Women do not have physical standards. They have behavioral standards.	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/18 08:49 AM
1	What Men Want: “Debt-Free Virgins Without Tattoos” Women have no standards. Not as we see them, at least.	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/18 07:47 PM
-1	What Men Want: “Debt-Free Virgins Without Tattoos” That's me, an illiterate bluepill beta. You got me, dude!	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/18 01:19 PM
1	What Men Want: “Debt-Free Virgins Without Tattoos” My dude, every desirable chick in her 20s is the same. She has nights out with her girlfriends. She downloads tinder when she is horny and has sex discretely. You would have no idea how many partners she has had, and if she thinks you will judge her then she won't tell you the real number. Unless you actually know high caliber girls who are not engaging in the kind of behavior I am describing, please don't try to argue against it. I know multiple models and ex models. Their lives are so far out …	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/18 12:52 PM
-4	What Men Want: “Debt-Free Virgins Without Tattoos” You're missing the point. Every girl is a slut and wants to get railed by king dick. By the time it's your turn, if she went to college, she has probably fucked 60+ dudes. If she is single in a big city and she has tinder, she's going "shopping" at least once a month. This is reality. Most women have a high lay count because sex feels good and there is no downside to them when they can lie about it. She will lie to you about her sexual history if she thinks you will judge her for it. She will al…	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/18 05:12 AM
1	What Men Want: “Debt-Free Virgins Without Tattoos” The fuck even is this article? Every girl is both a whore and a Madonna. She wants to fuck, but lame butthurt guys judge her if she is open about her sexual pursuits. She wants to eventually settle down, so she will lie to some chump about how she only had sex with 3 guys before him, when the real number is close to 100. Now ask yourself, why does her partner count even fucking matter? Does your lay count mean anything? Does it define you? Maybe it inflates your ego, but it has no actual functio…	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/18 01:31 AM
29	Never speak about your dreams and plans (Build up the "WOW Effect") If you are a young guy, ambition is the same as success in the girl's mind. As long as you are working towards something, you are fine. If you're in your 40s, ambition ain't shit and people want to see the fruits of your labor. Don't be afraid to dream, and dream big, but know that without action you won't achieve your dreams. Also fuck your wow effect and your validation seeking bullshit. Impress yourself, not others. You die alone. Pussy is a wet hole. Work, motherfucker. Build something. Have…	/r/TheRedPill	12/07/18 09:54 PM
1	What We Could Learn from Junior The girl and her partner made a sex video, it wasn't just her blabbing. Anyway, yeah, some guys are in deep scarcity and have emotional issues and will react with violence, often toward the guy. This is why you screen for the boyfriend when you meet her	/r/TheRedPill	01/07/18 08:33 AM
30	The definitive roadmap guide on how to actually dress well. The biggest thing to mention is dress for your city. The classy look is try-hard and faggy in LA, but a staple in NYC. Find out what style the coolest guys in your city are rocking and mimic it. Also fashion should should either convey class or "I don't give a fuck and I can get away with it." (Both convey high value) Don't aim for the grey area. You want to have flavor. Fuck Tommy Hilfiger and all of those assclown brands. Get some fucked up or sassy t-shirts, shop at thrift stores. Have a few …	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/18 10:44 PM
2	Deleted Instagram; Banged Instagram Model You don't have to take selfies, but it is good to have some cool professional photos of yourself. When I meet a girl on a night out and close her IG I always say something like, "let's do a photo so we remember eachother tomorrow." Then I just snap one with my regular phone and send it to her. Later I can post it on my wall with a caption like "this girl was so fun/cool !" And tag her in it. Playful, fun, and challenging frame let's you get away with a lot of crazy shit, even when you just met t…	/r/TheRedPill	01/06/18 02:08 AM
3	Deleted Instagram; Banged Instagram Model Where at all did I say to do dumb shit to impress hoes? It's about lifestyle and taking up space in her mind. It social proofs you without you having to do anything. Social proof is not an attempt at "proving" yourself, it's an honest signal that displays social intelligence, preselection, abundance of resources, adventure, fun, etc. Examples of social proof: her seeing you with other attractive women; her seeing random people say hi to you; her seeing the owner / staff of a venue socializing wi…	/r/TheRedPill	30/05/18 12:01 PM
1	Deleted Instagram; Banged Instagram Model People follow hashtags, allowing them to see random posts and discover new people. Some hashtags are also suggested, like the town or city you are in. At the end of the day, your instagram's purpose is to generate interest in the girls who you closed but had trouble scheduling a date with for whatever reason. It compliments cold approach as a way to keep old leads still interested.	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/18 09:09 PM
1	A Little Reminder: DO NOT talk about "feelings" to Women Here's a tip for meeting people. Make an observation, then follow up with some basic shit like "where are you from, what do you do, what brings you here, how long have you been doing _, you look like you're a __" Furthermore, open everybody, not just the girls. Talk to guys and get used to closing. Join a lair or RSD inner circle in your city and go out with those guys. Make some male friends who will push you to get out of your comfort zone and approach. Are you going out regularly? I go out ev…	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/18 02:29 PM
3	A Little Reminder: DO NOT talk about "feelings" to Women Talking about your feelings is what girls perceive as investment and you opening up to them. However, you should keep things positive; never mope and bitch; make it related to her or the two of you. You can say shit like, "I feel so comfortable around you; I feel like we've known each other forever; you make me feel like ___." You get the point. It's not that women don't like emotional guys. It's that guys are almost always emotional about unattractive things. If she is affecting your emotions n…	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/18 02:04 PM
2	Deleted Instagram; Banged Instagram Model I fully agree. Don't waste your time commenting and liking shit from strangers. Instead figure out what hashtags the kinds of girls you like often browse and start using those when you post. You'll show up on their feed and they will be exposed to your awesomeness. You really don't need THAT much status. You need to provide some level of entertainment. Natural attractiveness = the girl getting a crush on you over time, entertainment keeps her hooked and builds more comfort with her. You can have…	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/18 11:49 AM
10	Deleted Instagram; Banged Instagram Model The purpose is to keep the girl in your funnel. It's not a lot of effort, just take a video and add a caption about how you need coffee. Mystery vibe is overrated and tryhard and it can work against you. Social media makes the girl feel like she knows you, and if she likes you then she'll be down. No dumb James Bond shit.	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/18 04:19 AM
1	Deleted Instagram; Banged Instagram Model Value text is a text about some random funny or interesting shit. Best if it's something that happened to you, but it can be a funny meme. The point of the value text is to ping her interest without asking for a response.	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/18 02:00 AM
65	Deleted Instagram; Banged Instagram Model This is because low value girls focus on a guys looks as a form of validation from society (she wants people to think she is able to attract a hot guy because she has always been the average / ugly girl). Very attractive women aren't dating men for social validation; they get endless amounts of validation already from social media and tinder. Most hot girls have thousands of likes on tinder and get hundreds of DMs from desperate chodes calling them beautiful. Try to imagine the reality of a girl…	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/18 10:59 PM
22	Deleted Instagram; Banged Instagram Model You're missing the point of social media. It's not to game strangers, but to create a system that works passively once a girl is in your funnel. This is how you optimize IG: Cold approach, instagram close (she should be following you so she sees your stories and you come up on her feed). Post stories, pictures and videos that social proof you subtly. This means can be a short video of you hanging out with a cute chick, you taking a photo of some model, travel, etc. (Get a dslr camera for high qu…	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/18 10:33 PM
2	Guy rejects girl on Tinder, girl responds with vitriolic hatred and tells him to die, reddit responds with "He shouldn't have wasted her time!" Yeah, for every 50 guys in that situation there is one guy who escaped it.	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/18 04:33 AM
2	Guy rejects girl on Tinder, girl responds with vitriolic hatred and tells him to die, reddit responds with "He shouldn't have wasted her time!" If your work forces you into a bitch role it's time to step up brother. Every problem has a solution. We're gonna die. Mediocrity is a choice. Great risk begets great reward, but also great loss. The question, then, becomes, what the fuck do you want out of life? Do you want to settle for a shitty cuddle-job that emasculates you or do you risk being a self-made man? Do you want to settle for the cuddle-7, or go through the purifying fire and ego-death required to access and game 9s and 10s? Disc…	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/18 03:10 AM
1	Guy rejects girl on Tinder, girl responds with vitriolic hatred and tells him to die, reddit responds with "He shouldn't have wasted her time!" So much butthurt in this thread. Yes, as men we are burdened with greater responsibility. If you want something to happen, you learn how to make it happen, then you fail until you learn how to succeed. Accept your responsibilities as a man and show some discipline. If you want to be an icy pimp then people are going to hate on you. That's life. If you can't take the pressure then go back to being a bluepill bitchboy and enjoy your lifetime of awful relationships with toxic women. But seriously, …	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/18 02:24 AM
0	#MeToo aims to make men criminally liable for all of women's negative post-sex feelings. Ideally you avoid feelings of remorse in the first place by having the girl invest. Stack the hoops. Make sex something that just happened by saying shit like "this is crazy / so fast, but if feels so good" as you escalate. After sex you can make a short video for your instagram story (nothing adult) of you too laying in bed or hanging out, and ask her if she had a good time. "Another satisfied customer." This has the double effect of socially proofing and preselecting you on social media.	/r/TheRedPill	15/05/18 10:42 PM
15	Elon Musk : Titan of our times, what lessons from his breakup with Amber Heard ? Elon Musk is a cuck. He's always had shitty relationships. The guy probably can't engage with the girl emotionally and has a bad case of "I'm smarter than you" syndrome. Money and status attract women, but they don't keep them around unless they are gold diggers or value leeches. To keep a girl you need to engage with her emotionally and enforce your boundaries in a "My way or the highway" manner. Abundance is key. Know you can always get a another girl, even if countless women reject you betwee…	/r/TheRedPill	08/05/18 09:05 PM
4	The naked truth about vibrators If that treatment is chemical castration, why not. Remove the urge. Protect our kids.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/05/18 09:25 PM
2	Aggressive Beta Males are the Worst. Know How to Deal with Them. Just befriend everybody and be socially intelligent. If you're nice to the guy he won't start shit. If he dislikes you for no rational reason then you may have to get a bouncer to kick him out. Here is the thing man, if I am out with female friends and you aren't nice to me, you are not leaving with them. If you're cool, I will wing you on the spot and upsell you to the girl. Put yourself in the guy's shoes. You're some rando trying to fuck his friend at best, and a girl he's in love with at wor…	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/18 12:38 PM
1	I white-knighted and paid the price... Never be the white knight. There is a difference between being a white knight and being a man of integrity and discipline. If I saw someone disrespecting another person like that for no reason I would do the same and call them out. It's shitty behavior and it should be called out. Not everything is about getting laid. You have to have boundaries for what kind of people you allow in your life and what kind of behavior you accept from others. I would not hang out with anyone who treats their friends that way. I wouldn't giv…	/r/TheRedPill	23/03/18 04:10 AM
2	The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Players (Part 1) Mystery Method lays out all of the underlying principles of outer game. I suggest RSD for inner game.	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/18 02:58 PM
2	4 Style Of Game That You Can Utilize I'm not sure how you can ditch attraction, comfort and seduction. This is the natural progression of the guy meets girl dynamic. The model just optimizes it so your success can be more consistent.	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/18 04:42 PM
0	Just two days ago, I was told I was being alarmist for posting "Straight Men Will Soon Be Called Homophobic For Not Sleeping With Gays And Trannies." You can't make this shit up. Your method of addressing me is ignoring the content of my post. I addressed what he said and expanded on it. What did you contribute?	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/18 10:29 PM
1	4 Style Of Game That You Can Utilize Our brains haven't. M3 model is what all modern pickup theory is based off of even today.	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/18 10:25 PM
2	Just two days ago, I was told I was being alarmist for posting "Straight Men Will Soon Be Called Homophobic For Not Sleeping With Gays And Trannies." You can't make this shit up. Your height is not something you can control. Therefore, even if it does matter to some girls, it doesn't matter. Do you understand? The only things that matter are things you can control. For the rest you are better off having a delusional blindspot than a dumb excuse and a limiting belief. TRP is PUA, don't kid yourself. Its model is get fit, dress nicely, cold approach get tinder, direct game, strip the girl of validation, get a fuck buddy.	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/18 10:23 PM
2	4 Style Of Game That You Can Utilize This isn't game. There are two types of game. Direct and indirect. Aside from that, game is broken down into the M3 model of attraction, comfort, seduction. The "styles" you mentioned are just male archetypes. Your game has little to do with your archetype. Good game is eliminating downside, both within yourself, and for the girl. The rest is dressing. This means being unreactive and making the pickup a pleasurable and socially acceptable experience for her. Both direct and indirect style work, …	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/18 11:32 AM
1	Just two days ago, I was told I was being alarmist for posting "Straight Men Will Soon Be Called Homophobic For Not Sleeping With Gays And Trannies." You can't make this shit up. You literally sound retarded when you call women bitches and brag about getting laid. It's like a guy with a bit of wealth bragging about his money. It just comes across as vain. You have a valid point, though; if the chick isn't into you, she isn't into you. There's dark game you can run to change her mind, but rejection isn't rejection; it's a mismatch of personalities and intentions. For example, you open a girl who is on her way to the bathroom or to meet her friends. She blows you off. Why?…	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/18 08:38 PM
-3	Just two days ago, I was told I was being alarmist for posting "Straight Men Will Soon Be Called Homophobic For Not Sleeping With Gays And Trannies." You can't make this shit up. Nobody gets rejected just because they are short. You get shit tested on your shortcomings. If you fail the shit test by displaying insecurity or becoming reactive then the girl rejects you.	/r/TheRedPill	13/01/18 08:17 PM
3	Man tries to escape the friendzone and convinces himself that what he did was sexual harassment Calibration is everything. Knowing how to calibrate and escalate physically is very key to avoiding bad situations. Basically it boils down to yes, neutral, no. Yes is when your escalation is reciprocated or causes her to react positively. Neutral is when she lets it happen. No is when she flinches, tells you not to touch her, etc. If you get a no, you apologize and leave her alone for a bit, show her you respect her, give her space. If you get a neutral you push it until you sense she might giv…	/r/TheRedPill	01/01/18 05:25 PM
1	Rejected 9/10 and she raged and spilled her drink at me Depends on how you approach and how you handle it. Turn the rejection into something funny or amusing and neither of those things happen. Also it helps to know your social status and not allow it to be hurt by some random girl's snap opinion of you. I hang out with some gorgeous girls and really fun guys. I even feel bad for a girl if she doesn't want to be a part of my life because I know how much value she will gain from it.	/r/TheRedPill	29/12/17 12:39 AM
5	Rejected 9/10 and she raged and spilled her drink at me Rejection causes ego death and loss of relative social status. The ego creates an unsustainable self image, and tries to protect that self image by avoiding or making that image immune to situations that would put pressure on it. It's an extremely fragile construct and one that doesn't help you at all in life. By changing our perspective, we can filter out fake rejection from real rejection, which is very rare. What you did to that chick was not real rejection. It was a form of self preservation…	/r/TheRedPill	29/12/17 12:24 AM
1	Rejected 9/10 and she raged and spilled her drink at me What even are the "consequences" of rejection? Most rejections aren't actual rejections. Most guys approach a girl expecting to be rejected. Most men are crippled by irrational fear because back in the day they could get their head bashed in for hitting on another man's girl. Guess what, that doesn't happen anymore. Also the way OP behaved was retarded and disrespectful. Yes, the girl has a bloated ego (what hot girl doesn't?), but she was made to feel like the rejection came from a place of bit…	/r/TheRedPill	28/12/17 11:33 PM
6	[FR] Day game pickup - Road-map for newbies He did a lot of things right. He used a situation opener, displayed social proof (chatting up an old lady and having her smiling, joking with you, signals you are not creepy), then did basic chill game. It's an average girl, she is not high status. What OP did was pretty solid game. Instead of putting pressure on the girl with a retarded direct approach (aka asking her to judge a book by its cover), he took an indirect and strategic approach. By the time he opened the set was warm. Learn somethi…	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/17 10:00 AM
38	Passing The Ultimate Shit Test: The One You Give Yourself This is why DLV, self-deprecation, and making fun of yourself are so much better than trying to DHV or brag. For example, if you are well dressed and someone asks what you do, say you work at McDonald's, 7/11. If you have a nice car, say it barely drives. Find ways to make your life sound stupid as fuck and rif on it. Due to Halo Effect, people will often assume the opposite. Fully accept yourself and rely only on your own reference experiences. What you can't immediately fix, you feature. Have …	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/17 04:13 AM
1	Sir Ian Mckellan on the sex scandal controversy: women sent directors nude photographs that said" DRR' — directors' rights respected. "- Offering sex in favour for roles.. Dan's lifestyle gets him laid, not his looks. His appearance doesn't hurt him, obviously, but looks alone doesn't get you those results. You're thinking like a man. Try thinking like a woman. You think a top tier girl gives a shit if you are physically attractive or not? She has thousands of dudes chasing than her who look amazing, have a ton of money, etc. She is in an extreme state of abundance where it doesn't matter if one guy doesn't like her, because there are so many others who will take …	/r/TheRedPill	20/12/17 02:55 PM
1	Cold approach for you PUA Sperg Dorks This is why you adapt. Gym is not a traditional pickup venue. It is, however, a social venue where you can be friendly with everybody. Your appearance is only one part of the equation for a girl, so don't be limited by it. Girls are not as shallow as we are and tend to look past men's shortcomings if they feel strong emotions. If you have low self esteem and believe that the girl will reject you because of your looks, then it becomes a self fulfilling prophesy. So how to game at the gym? Be frie…	/r/TheRedPill	20/12/17 12:23 PM
2	Sir Ian Mckellan on the sex scandal controversy: women sent directors nude photographs that said" DRR' — directors' rights respected. "- Offering sex in favour for roles.. Haha if the girl doesn't want to partake I fully respect that and don't push it. I've found if you're respectful in that regard the girl hooks up at a later date. As the saying goes, you don't own her, it's just your turn. So chill out and let your turn come. Guys like weinstein never had TRP or studied sexual strategy.	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/17 03:12 PM
5	Sir Ian Mckellan on the sex scandal controversy: women sent directors nude photographs that said" DRR' — directors' rights respected. "- Offering sex in favour for roles.. It's the same game. Game is not that complicated. You spike emotions positively, build comfort and trust, then get the girl to a place where something can happen. Whether you are physically attractive or not really doesn't matter. Good emotions and fun overule looks and money. Granted, do your best to appear nice, but your looks just get you a bigger window to show the girl you're not a fucking weirdo. Regardless of how you look and how you're dressed, you should behave as if you're the sexiest …	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/17 03:03 PM
37	Sir Ian Mckellan on the sex scandal controversy: women sent directors nude photographs that said" DRR' — directors' rights respected. "- Offering sex in favour for roles.. The real issue is that these people in power never learned game. They just got power used that to pressure girls into sex. The girls never actually wanted to fuck them because they are manipulative betas, false kings, but did it to further themselves in their career. This creates resentment. Compare Weinstein, who has to use his power to get laid, to Dan Balzerian, who has a much smaller fortune, and less power, than Weinstein, but makes it win-win and fun for girls. Weinstein is not someone to …	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/17 12:18 PM
3	Stop Being Afraid of Aggression and Learn How to Harness It Aggression towards others is. You should transmute aggression into momentum for self improvement. One of the most important factors of manhood is ego destruction and complete surrender, reframing failure to learning. Taking is scarcity mindset. Giving is abundance mindset. A night out is like baking a cake. You don't flip a shit because your cake doesn't taste like chocolate when all you have is flour and eggs in a bowl.	/r/TheRedPill	16/12/17 11:06 PM
8	Stop Being Afraid of Aggression and Learn How to Harness It When I go to a club or party, I focus on my own fun. I dance like a sexy retard. People join in. I have so much carefree fun that in clubs I usually start dance battles and put a smile on people's faces. If there is a pole I start dancing like a stripper and girls lose their shit and start shrieking. When other people start dancing I praise and encourage them to keep going. High fives, fist bumps, thumbs up, hugs, "awesome!" "Amazing!" "I love it" etc. It's all about having a fun, carefree, and …	/r/TheRedPill	16/12/17 10:57 PM
9	Stop Being Afraid of Aggression and Learn How to Harness It No, these are our primal roles. Women have higher survival value than men, hence why men go to war take on dangerous tasks. If a tribe has 50 men and 50 women, one man can impregnate all 50 women. Loss of men doesn't impact the tribes' survival nearly as much as loss of women. As men we give to society. We build things, we make discoveries. We work towards a better on the future, while women nurture the present. To women we give love, security, reasoning. Competition is pretty obvious. We compet…	/r/TheRedPill	16/12/17 10:34 PM
1	Stop Being Afraid of Aggression and Learn How to Harness It Your definition of masculine energy is wrong. Masculinity is not about taking or being aggressive; that is scarcity, ego, and testosterone. Masculinity is about collaborative competition, giving, and protecting. Aggression is retarded. Dumbasses think that there is only one kind of alpha, and he is the biggest, strongest man in the tribe. This is simply not true, namely because we are social animals and our survival depends on collaboration between people in the tribe. The human alpha, then is t…	/r/TheRedPill	16/12/17 05:39 AM
3	YOUR FEAR IS IRRATIONAL. The world we live in has a great affect on how we act and what we think. Here is why you're afraid to open randoms. Game is sales; don't be a shitty salesman.	/r/TheRedPill	29/11/17 05:34 PM
2	YOUR FEAR IS IRRATIONAL. The world we live in has a great affect on how we act and what we think. Here is why you're afraid to open randoms. That's dismissive and takes responsibility off of the man. Yes, it's true, rejection from cold approach and club game is akin to reading a page out of a book and making a snap judgment that you don't like it, but as guys we decide what content is presented on that page. If you are walking up with foggy intent, poor voice tone and volume, and creepy body language, you are setting yourself up for a blowout. Also some girls respond better to direct approaches, others respond better to indirect. Wit…	/r/TheRedPill	29/11/17 04:05 PM
15	YOUR FEAR IS IRRATIONAL. The world we live in has a great affect on how we act and what we think. Here is why you're afraid to open randoms. This and giving yourself FOMO. Rejection isn't even rejection. You're not meant to get along with every girl. Even if you talk to 100 girls before you connect with one, it's better than ending up with nothing because you talked to 0 girls. Rejections aren't even your fault, provided you have done work on your end. This means having a loud voice, friendly body language, being at the cause, not the effect, and having proper hygiene. If those parameters are met, the girl is saying no for reasons th…	/r/TheRedPill	29/11/17 11:56 AM
11	An evening with an Alpha (married guy) It's a codependent relationship. They keep eachother down	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/17 06:35 PM
3	Advice to ugly guys Nah man, there are bars and clubs I go to where a bunch of people know me. It's not a bizarre concept. I go out, I do online game, street game, and club game. I'm not some PUA, just a chill guy. Yeah RSD helped me a lot when I was going through a dark time in my life, but they don't just teach pickup.	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/17 01:50 PM
2	Advice to ugly guys Just add light sexuality to the fun. Make girls make out with eachother, tell them you have a really small dick and let them feel it, etc.	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/17 08:12 PM
45	Advice to ugly guys Have you seen rsd Luke... the guy is fat as fuck, has hair like a child beauty pageant contestant, and constantly slays with girls that 99.9% of guys on this sub don't even have access to. Looks don't mean shit if you have game. Best analogy i've heard is like a tall guy and a short guy playing basketball. If you both suck, the tall guy has a great advantage. At a professional level, though, it you learn to play to your strengths and work around your shortcomings. The same is true in game. Women…	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/17 07:20 PM
4	In need of psychotherapy for PTSD, social anxiety, depression, etc? Make sure to choose a male therapist. That's on you being ashamed of your sexuality, or more frankly having the belief that it's inappropriate to discuss sexuality with a woman. I've learned a ton about women and female psychology by having open, honest discussions with them about sex. They are usually super nervous and have a lot of insecurities surrounding sex, which is why comfort is more important than value.	/r/TheRedPill	10/11/17 12:18 PM
0	Meet Jacq......the Stripper Why are you so fucking judgmental? Nothing but ego and hot steam here. Do what you like. If you want to go to a strip club one night with your boys, do it. If not, don't. Being some 'holier-than-thou" buttmuncher who judges women's choices is retarded.	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/17 02:16 PM
-1	Incels got banned. What does that mean for TRP? No ? The biggest pimps in the world look like shit.	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/17 08:28 AM
-5	Incels got banned. What does that mean for TRP? Sure you can. Loud voice + unaffected by the shortcoming. The only thing a man needs to attract a woman is his mind. Your body doesn't matter, your money doesn't matter. Everything is just dressing on the mind.	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/17 03:28 AM
1	Remember: Women Have Value, Men Have Agency, Both Have Power Tribal society, what we're biologically wired for. Western civilization is quite a stretch from the primal human lifestyle. We're supposed to be in big tribal orgies so the best sperm can create the best offspring, sharing all women.	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/17 09:17 PM
22	Remember: Women Have Value, Men Have Agency, Both Have Power Your points are all wrong. Your perspective is retarded, both figuratively and literally. None of that matters. Women older than 29 are still having plenty of sex. Fat girls are having sex. Deformed girls are having sex. Guys who are out of shape and look like shit are still getting laid. The way women experience attraction and arousal is vastly different from men, because their role is to screen for the best sperm, not impregnate a person and put their life in peril for the next 9 months in hop…	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/17 01:17 PM
0	Remember: Women Have Value, Men Have Agency, Both Have Power Lol are you kidding ? Men have equal value to women. We have different roles but come together like yin and yang in society. Women are agents of contraction, men are agents of expansion. Women don't go to war because their role is to maintain and nurture a tribe, while the men have the role of advancing and expanding the tribe. Men build society, women take care of it.	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/17 01:08 PM
2	“All Women Are Whores” Haha no, fun is the only value you need to provide the girl. Girls will go with a fun guy over a rich guy or buff guy because a fun guy provides the best emotions. They can have the rich or buff moron with his heart on his sleeve any day of the week. Emotions, emotions, emotions. Dick is abundant.	/r/TheRedPill	25/10/17 10:44 AM
1	“All Women Are Whores” Not at all. Imagine you are hanging out with a close friend. Do you need to spend money to enjoy your time together? You can go to a coffee shop, you can invite her to watch a movie at your place, you invite her to join you at the gym, go grocery shopping, buy a shirt, things that you would normally do anyway. You don't have to impress the girl, you just have to have a fun personality and not be a butthurt, judgmental clown who drags a sack of shit around with him. The thing is, if the girl does…	/r/TheRedPill	25/10/17 09:38 AM
1	“All Women Are Whores” Hahaha no, that's so wrong. If a girl is into you she will literally come over to watch paint dry. Best date is the "oops I left my wallet at home, let's go get it" date. You don't need money or status to be a fun person.	/r/TheRedPill	25/10/17 07:23 AM
4	“All Women Are Whores” Your second sentence is iam14andthisisdeep material. Is it? Why do you shop around for a good price on a TV or car, yet barely think twice about how much you spend on a vacation? It's an experience, not an investment. This concept is so profound that it changes everything once you internalize it. People will go along for the ride if you can offer them a fun or epic experience. Create FOMO in people, offer them experiences. With people it's the same thing. If you are trying to be her boyfriend, t…	/r/TheRedPill	24/10/17 01:00 PM
2	“All Women Are Whores” This is only true if your only selling point is that you have something for her to leech off of. The typical provider fits this role. You can either be an investment or an experience. People collect on their investments and tend to weigh their options before picking one. People throw caution to the wind for a good experience.	/r/TheRedPill	24/10/17 11:14 AM
6	“All Women Are Whores” Acceptable or not the role of women is not to appease a man's ego. Their role is to ensure the best genetic lottery for their offspring. Men getting butthurt and women risking ostracization and death is irrelevant. The species doesn't give a fuck about the individual's suffering, and our DNA and programming obeys the will of the species. Why do you think so many people lead mediocre lives as cogs in a machine? Look at the bigger picture and everything falls into place. Btw no attractive guy says…	/r/TheRedPill	24/10/17 11:09 AM
2	Feminists go apeshit when stay at home mom makes lunch for breadwinner It's more to do with an obscuration of femininity and masculinity in western culture. Most people are in awful codependent relationships and shouldn't be together in the first place. Scarcity mentality gone rampant causes people to settle out of desperation.	/r/TheRedPill	17/10/17 11:45 AM
4	You're not good enough, you're not smart enough, and people don't like you. That is some lame machismo. How can you connect with a girl genuinely if you have that attitude towards her? Being a man isn't about having an overinflated ego, that's some fuckboy shit. Being a man, coming into your own, is about defeat. Be defeated, surrender, allow yourself to lose. Losing is learning. The ultimate goal is not crushing pussy. Cocaine and limos in vegas will get you results much faster than any long term path, but it stunts your growth. You don't change. Fixing your logistics …	/r/TheRedPill	29/09/17 04:39 PM
20	Putting An End To The Black Pill. Asshole game for the sake of game is just emotional manipulation, it's a step above the drink buying bitchboy, and it fits the blueprint of most low self esteem girls. It gets you results but it's some loser shit. If you just want results go to vegas, buy a bag of coke, and hire a limo. Bring girls into your limo, give them coke, and fuck them. You don't have to be an ass, being an ass is more interesting than the flatline pretty boy faggotry most guys are doing. Game works like this: if you're …	/r/TheRedPill	27/09/17 03:17 AM
1	Nice Guys are Fucking Boring That's not what they want hahaha, they want a guy who has options and picks them from those options, because the opposite is the loser who nobody likes. That guys kids will be unfuckable losers, too, and he doesn't have the social savvy to provide for them.	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/17 06:17 AM
9	Nice Guys are Fucking Boring Have you ever seen a guy talk to a girl and his voice tonality goes into falseto? It happens because he wants the interaction to go well; because he's in scarcity. That is a shitty attempt at manipulation, the underlying communication is that he doesn't deserve the girl. Doesn't matter what he looks like. General "niceguy" is coming from the same frame. He wants it to work out because he doesn't have (m)any girls in his life, so he does all this shit to supplicate to try and make the girl like h…	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/17 10:02 PM
7	Nice Guys are Fucking Boring You're focused on externals. The truth is, women don't give a shit what you are passionate about, as long as you are passionate about something. Furthermore, like how every guy has a different taste in women, every woman has a different taste in men. Some girls love nerds, some girls love jocks, some girls love artists, etc. Whatever you are, there is a girl out there who likes it. Not every girl obviously, but you're not meant to be with every girl. Hell, let's say you go out one night. You tal…	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/17 05:41 PM
44	Nice Guys are Fucking Boring It's because the niceness is not genuine. You don't have to be an asshole, you can be as nice as you want, as long as you aren't supplicating. It has to be coming from the right place. The thing is, most nice guys are fucking needy creeps. They pay for the girl's dinner because they think it'll get them somewhere with her, not because it's something they want to do. Same with buying drinks, gifts, helping her with this and that, the list goes on. Genuine kindness works, girls appreciate it. It's…	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/17 05:27 PM
2	Walk into the Bar even when you don't feel like it My god you sound absolutely toxic. Do you really not enjoy hanging out with women, having female friends? MGTOW is a bunch of fucking losers.	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/17 05:12 AM
1	"I'd hate to have to settle for a mediocre man" Women are not so predatory. It's not at all logical when it comes to how and why they choose partners. It plays entirely on the emotional aspect of how the guy makes her feel, the narrative that the two of them paint together, etc. https://youtu.be/qBkXWTWAyJc	/r/TheRedPill	01/08/17 06:21 AM
1	"I'd hate to have to settle for a mediocre man" My point is she won't enter a relationship with him to begin with. He is a guy who doesn't count, aka fuckboy. Two people using eachother to get off.	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/17 10:30 PM
5	"I'd hate to have to settle for a mediocre man" You're looking at the surface. Yes, for a long term partner she will be very picky. (As a man you should be, too). For casual sex, not so much. If you are jobless the one thing you CAN do is get laid lol. Emotional attraction is much more important than physical attraction for women. You can be a one legged homeless midget with 3 teeth and a micro dick. She will dismiss all of your shortcomings if you are emotional crack.	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/17 10:14 PM
1	"I'd hate to have to settle for a mediocre man" Women use your photos to judge your lifestyle. Physical standards are near nonexistent. Basically, you can be fugly but live a dope life and girls will want to know you and be a part of it. Most girls are bored, most men are boring. The default for women is abundance; there is no shortage of dick. A lot of girls hop on dating apps when they are horny want a casual hookup, then suspend or delete their accounts.	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/17 10:07 PM
1	The Fake Sugar Daddy Story Who cares. You aren't going to marry her. You don't have to spend money on her.	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/17 07:23 AM
1	The Fake Sugar Daddy Story What did she say that was disrespectful? She has been on 2 dates? That hurts your ego? That hurts your self respect? Are you a man or a boy? When she says that she is screening how judgmental you are about sex and how you deal with competition. When you give some butthurt response, you screen yourself out.	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/17 04:12 AM
2	Stop Searching For Approval: A guide. You are missing the point entirely. In human tribes the alpha male is not a competitive jackass who tries to 1-up everybody around him. The alpha male is the one who does the most for the tribe. The tribe is greater than the individual. Social prowes far outweigh's physical prowess. When you come from a competitive frame, you view yourself as either above or below other people. You make snap judgments and figure out where you lie on the social ladder compared to those around you. This is the roo…	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/17 02:24 AM
1	Why Quality of Women Varies Enormously By Location Asians just work out alot haha, the ones with big asses and tits likely have implants. Koreans and chinese are super petite. Maybe japanese?	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/17 07:55 PM
1	Why Quality of Women Varies Enormously By Location I don't date russians haha. I don't judge girls for fucking multiple dudes. Doesn't matter. Only thing that matters is whether I am fucking them or not. You are either on her team or against her. If she is young she wants to have a lot of sexual experiences and partners. You can't get mad for her lashing out if you try to tie her down at that age.	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/17 03:56 PM
4	Why Quality of Women Varies Enormously By Location Yeah not into Russians haha, I like east asians. Has nothing to do with how much sex they have. It's their personality and energy. Not fun to be around, but that's my perspective. Some feminine guys are into masculine women. Nothing wrong with that. Also girls do that shit in every culture. Female psychology is not what i'm talking about. They only pull that shit on boys, not men. Think about that.	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/17 01:21 PM
2	Stop Searching For Approval: A guide. This only scratches the surface and addresses a symptom of trauma. It goes much deeper. Basically comes down to collaboration vs competition. Competition is retarded. We're on the same team. Understand this and get over your ego.	/r/TheRedPill	21/07/17 10:40 PM
38	Why Quality of Women Varies Enormously By Location Stop being bitter. There is solid advice in his post. You offer jack fucking shit to the discussion. American girls are fucking awful. Travel a bit or go work in a country like Japan, Korea, etc and you will find out for yourself. Aside from not taking care of themselves, American girls lack femininity.	/r/TheRedPill	21/07/17 10:36 PM
24	Friend's Fiancee Cheats on Him with CHRIS BROWN - An Unbelievable Case Study in Hypergamy So what? Why so shocked? Why is it at all unbelievable? I would be more surprised if she didn't. Girls like sex, girls like high status males. Celebrity status is near the peak of SMV. Don't act for a fucking second that if you were at a bar/club on a trip without your girlfriend and some stunner approached you and wanted to hook up you wouldn't do it. Let's say it was Megan Fox from 10 years ago. Would you really say no?? Come on... Even if the condom broke and the girl got pregnant, her having…	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/17 05:49 PM
1	Fuck your male hamstering I read the post. TRP is not that far down the rabbit hole. It still operates within the paradigm of social conditioning. And no, betas are not all complete degenerates. Most men are doing the best they can with their social conditioning. Let's break it down this way, using the Matrix as an analogy. Bluepill: plugged in. Redpill: unplugged. Reality: it's a movie. Effectively the blue pill individual is unaware of his or her situation. The red pilled individual is aware of reality, but only as it …	/r/TheRedPill	17/07/17 09:44 PM
-3	Fuck your male hamstering Someone got fucking triggered, lmao. Looks don't matter nearly as much as you think. Girls are not wired the same way we are. They screen for behavioral cues. An alpha male is not the best looking fuckboy in the tribe, but the most resourceful and socially savvy male. This is why having social proof and preselection does more for you than washboard abs and tree trunk arms. Work out for the health benefits. Bone density and shit. Do what makes you fucking happy. I know fat ugly fucks who slay har…	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/17 07:41 PM
1	Friend Zone Proof Yourself - Guaranteed You just have to do it. It's actually so natural once you get some momentum and experience. Like a kid on a playground asking other kids to be his friend. Finding female friends is literally that simple. Say you just want to be friends (and you better fucking mean it), and always be in a good mood around them. Age doesn't matter. If anything social circle game gets easier as you get older. Just focus on being positive and carefree around people. That's a great place to start. Collaboration inste…	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/17 01:08 PM
1	Friend Zone Proof Yourself - Guaranteed PUA is one of the cores of TRP. Where do you think the sexual strategy theory comes from?	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/17 11:58 AM
2	Friend Zone Proof Yourself - Guaranteed I built my current social circle in about 3 months. The key is that you have to be like the kind of people you want in your social circle energetically. The first step is just people collecting, finding people who want to go out and do fun things. Easy way to do this is approach guys and girls and ask them what a good nightlife venues are. If you head to those venues, you will eventually run into those people, because they will recommend the places they like the most. People are chasing good emo…	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/17 11:40 AM
0	Friend Zone Proof Yourself - Guaranteed You come across like a glorified fuckboy who is carrying around a ton of bitter baggage. Also lmfao at Todd or Alex being bluepill garbage. You know nothing. TRP is only the surface. Stop thinking in binaries. Watch the videos. Todd is a fucking machine.	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/17 01:36 AM
1	Friend Zone Proof Yourself - Guaranteed Yeah exactly, most sets you switch between direct and indirect, though. If you are all direct it's too much pressure. If you are too indirect your intent is obscured and the girl gets confused. Need a balance.	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/17 01:31 AM
1	Friend Zone Proof Yourself - Guaranteed 2 questions: Who wrote the sidebar, and what authority do they have on the subject? How many women do you have in your life? Hell, how many decent people? You don't know what an alpha is. Bow down. How to compliment Deep personality compliments Intent manifesto See it in action	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/17 06:43 PM
8	Friend Zone Proof Yourself - Guaranteed As long as your results are better than they were a few months ago, a few years ago, etc, you're moving in the right direction. It's a journey. Another thing with direct game, it comes down to congruence. At the start of the night you should be doing indirect momentum/state building openers. At the peak of the night you should be in more of a confident, sexual mood, and you can open with shit like, "Ey! You're the one I want! Who are you?" On the dancefloor, have fun, don't fucking value scan. C…	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/17 06:07 PM
24	Friend Zone Proof Yourself - Guaranteed You're a fucking imbecile. Stating intent is saying you find her attractive and you want to fuck her. A bad compliment is saying generic shit like "you're sexy/hot/pretty" A good compliment is noticing something she has worked hard on or put thought into, like her style, accessories, lashes, posture, etc. Not the basic fuckboii shit.	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/17 02:14 PM
16	Friend Zone Proof Yourself - Guaranteed There'a arguements for both. Direct game forces a snap judgment from the girl and puts a ton of pressure on her, it is really hit or miss. Indirect + calibration is the best method, imo, because you can start indirect then go direct if the girl seems receptive. For example: Excuse me, sorry to bother you, do you know - oh, you're actually kind of cute.... Basically you need to hit social hook point, the girl doesn't know shit about you. If you're going direct you better have a fucking big ass sm…	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/17 02:10 PM
1	An AWALT Classic - Girl breaks up with her bf for living too frugally only to find out he's actually loaded, a year later the story's changed to her breaking up with him for "lying by omission". It's a relationship, if two people have separate goals they shouldn't be together. It transcends man vs woman dynamics, it's about what both people want out of the relationship and life at that point.	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/17 07:23 AM
-6	An AWALT Classic - Girl breaks up with her bf for living too frugally only to find out he's actually loaded, a year later the story's changed to her breaking up with him for "lying by omission". Her intent is to get married and settle down, not to have a casual relationship with a guy who doesn't have his shit together. She mentions throughout that she enjoyed the relationship, but wasn't sure if there was a future due to the honest signals displayed by the guy's lifestyle. It's not a matter of doing better, it's a matter of finding a stable boring man who can provide for a family to settle down and have kids with. It really comes down to what the girl is looking for and what you're off…	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/17 03:17 AM
1	My 3 step guide to an awesome first approach. You exist because of sex. You are your father's fastest swimmer. Your purpose is to have sex and produce grandchildren. Not sure what there is to feel ashamed of. It is literally our biological imperative to have sex. Women love sex, men love sex. Get some female friends. Do not ever judge them. All they want to talk about is sex. The issue is most guys are judgmental and shame girls for sex. That is a terrible attitude.	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/17 05:27 PM
1	My 3 step guide to an awesome first approach. Yes, just as an example. You want to be sexual but withold intent. A big mistake that indirect guys make in the conversation is they keep it too platonic and tame. It's not engaging or arousing. You need to establish man to woman.q Keep in mind, it's said light heartedly, as if you are joking with a friend.	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/17 12:26 PM
4	My 3 step guide to an awesome first approach. You can banter and have fun with everybody. General advice is talk to everyone so that you are on autopilot when an attractive woman walks by, removing anxiety and your uncanny ability to second guess your approach. This method works best at night because it feels the most congruent when everyone is out to drink and have fun. Best approach for nightgame is observational. For daygame compliment opener has the highest success ratio.	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/17 10:54 PM
6	My 3 step guide to an awesome first approach. You're overcomplicating it. You don't need to mention a girlfriend. You don't need shopping advice... "Excuse me, sorry to bother you, miss, (do you speak English?) I just wanted to say (your ____ is amazing!) (I love the way your accessories match, etc) Keep it up! Have a nice day!." Turn around, walk away. Girl says "thanks!" "Oh, you're actually really friendly, where are you from?" "You know what they say about girls from ___" "Bunch of raging sluts" You're in. Credits to RSD Luke.	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/17 09:21 PM
-1	The Only thing you can control is your Emotions Stoicism is a joke. It's a starting point, but still a joke. If the beta is fragile and the alpha is antifragile, the stoic lies directly inbetween. It's okay to feel emotions, to to through them fully. The stoic resists them, or so he/she thinks, but really what the stoic is doing is engaging in incongruence. The "beta" is at the effect of his emotions. The "alpha" is at the cause of them. Vulnerability is key. You have to make yourself vulnerable, you have to burn away your impurities. Hope th…	/r/TheRedPill	07/06/17 09:56 PM
1	Today I ended my LTR Emotional investment and emotional attraction are not the same. Emotional attraction comes from spiking a girls emotions (positive and negative, though I mostly prefer positive), creating drama, exciting plotlines, etc. Emotional investment is akin to falling in love with another person; emotional attachment. You would be emotionally impacted if the relationship went sour. Think juggling multiple LTRs VS one LTR and banging random chicks on the side.	/r/TheRedPill	30/05/17 11:53 AM
1	Relationships lost the feels and magic for me after taking the RP. It's like Santa died and you see Christmas for what it really is. There are some great girls who will support you on your journey. They will have their own shit going on in their lives. They are the ones that are relationship worthy. Not some emotional wreck that fucks you for validation.	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/17 03:09 PM
1	Relationships lost the feels and magic for me after taking the RP. It's like Santa died and you see Christmas for what it really is. Usually when they pull that shit it's a wake up call to be more of a fucking man or lose the girl. Depends on the girl though; if she has low self esteem and is worried about you leaving her if you improved your life situation, then she will sabotage and poison drip you.	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/17 11:26 AM
2	Relationships lost the feels and magic for me after taking the RP. It's like Santa died and you see Christmas for what it really is. You don't enter a relationship just for sex... you don't need to be in a relationship to have sex with a girl. You will have more sex outside of a relationship. Furthermore, you can have relationships that are more open, so you can both fuck other people, have orgies, etc. If you meet a girl who you really enjoy spending time with, who you have great chemistry with, why wouldn't you want a relationship with her? You will learn a lot and grow from the relationship, even if it is short lived due t…	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/17 10:09 PM
0	BP father realizes college-aged daughter has slept with over 13 guys. Last straw before kicking her out? Finds her naked in bed with two other dudes. It's not hard for a man to fuck a lot, either. The only reason it damages them is because society judges that behavior as lewd. Objectively there is nothing wrong with it. It doesn't mean anything. If a girl thinks you will judge her, she will just lie about the number. Instead of 100 it will be like 10.	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/17 11:56 PM
6	BP father realizes college-aged daughter has slept with over 13 guys. Last straw before kicking her out? Finds her naked in bed with two other dudes. You stated higher risk of divorce. Do you know why that is? The girl gets used to fucking high value men in her prime, then after her prime she can't fuck them. She settles with some low status vanilla guy and is unhappy in the marriage because her past was much more fun and exciting. This doesn't mean she shouldn't have multiple partners and great sexual experiences in her 20's. What a fucking stupid reason to not have fun. Imagine if you were a stud in your 20's then once your 30's rolled arou…	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/17 09:28 AM
3	BP father realizes college-aged daughter has slept with over 13 guys. Last straw before kicking her out? Finds her naked in bed with two other dudes. Is it? That guy's genes got wiped out a long time ago. Too competitive, has no place in a tribe. Collaboration is what has caused society to progress. Majority of men have too much social anxiety and ego fragility to even approach women on the street. Seriously, when you see a gorgeous woman what thoughts enter your mind? Do you think of all the amazing things that could happen if you talk to her, or do you immediately start coming up with excuses why you can't/shouldn't? Do you have to get drun…	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/17 07:23 AM
1	What science actually says about physical attraction (with actual science inside) Choosing frame is about abundance and options. If you don't have that, you are not in a position to choose. Unless you can display preselection, you will have to show the girl that you aren't some weird guy. Usually this is done through calibration and non verbal cues (body language, voice tone) after opening. What preselection does is make the girl (and people in general) think, "look at this guy, guys and girls are competing for this attention, what does he got going on?" Even having one girl …	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/17 06:03 AM
-2	BP father realizes college-aged daughter has slept with over 13 guys. Last straw before kicking her out? Finds her naked in bed with two other dudes. Who said anything about marriage? Are you screening every girl as marriage material? Very few men actually understand female psychology. Maybe a handful of guys on this sub do, but not many.	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/17 05:08 AM
-3	BP father realizes college-aged daughter has slept with over 13 guys. Last straw before kicking her out? Finds her naked in bed with two other dudes. So much judgment in this thread. Reverse the roles and the guy gets high fives, fist bumps, etc, but because it's a girl a bunch of butthurt guys are talking shit and cheering her misfortune. Why are you so angry and petty? A woman in her prime is going to fuck a lot. Many, many partners, because why the hell not? So much of the shit we criticize girls for we would do in a heartbeat if we had the chance, but for whatever reason a lot of guys are threatened by women who have shed their social con…	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/17 02:36 AM
0	What science actually says about physical attraction (with actual science inside) Logistics is everything, it always has been lol. Most guys are socially retarded. Unless you put yourself in a situation where you can build social skills and intuition onba daily basis, you are going to be a socially awkward, uncalibrated guy. It's not a clown act, it's being a fun, social guy guy who people want to be around. I mean, you are the only constant in your life. You can choose to resist the world as it is and be butthurt, or you can adapt.	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/17 02:44 AM
7	What science actually says about physical attraction (with actual science inside) Being married/in a relationship/close female friends displays preselection, not social proof. Preselection wins out over pretty much everything. Looks, game, money, power don't mean shit if you have preselection. The why is simple. Most guys are socially retarded, and no amount of external supplication is going to make up for that. If other girls like you, it means you're not socially retarded, which means she can probably hang out with you without you making her uncomfortable. Guys here act lik…	/r/TheRedPill	18/05/17 05:57 PM
6	Brutal redpill that no one here ever talks about, how physically attractive you REALLY are, as judged by science and women Because women signal their fertility via their body. Men are fertile until around age 70 so our looks don't mean shit. Ask a girl if she cares more about how a guy looks or how he makes her feel. If learning that women are not as shallow as we are surprises you, it's because your sexuality is fucked up and you are judging women based on what status you could gain from them, and hence think they view you the same way. Being physically attractive gets you freebies and makes girls warmer to meeting…	/r/TheRedPill	18/05/17 10:07 AM
4	Today I ended my LTR Majority of millenials are not making enough to move out and live on their own. In many cases where they do move out in their 20s it's because parents are providing financial support. There is a major overeducation problem in our country. You have to think outside of the box, destroy your ego, and take risks to get ahead, and that mentality doesn't jive with the snowflake generation.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/17 03:30 AM
2	Today I ended my LTR You're only in a relationship for sex, that makes me lol... You will get more sex from being single. You should enter a relationship because you like spending time with a specific girl.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/17 12:44 AM
2	Today I ended my LTR Well that's the thing, they can get over casual sex with strangers if there isn't emotional investment involved. The why comes down to differences in biology and sexual strategy. A woman need the best seed she can get for her offspring. She also needs the a stable partner to raise that child with. From her standpoint, the most high risk, high reward play is to get the sperm from a high status male, but have her child raised by a low status male (who won't leave her). Hence why emotional investme…	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/17 12:41 AM
33	Today I ended my LTR Women have a different view of cheating than men. For women emotional investment in another person is what true cheating is, not just casual sex with a partner that they don't care about. They aren't wrong. For us guys it's quite the opposite because if our partner is fucking around we could end up raising someone elses kid, and we usually do if we're playing the boring stable provider role.	/r/TheRedPill	16/05/17 02:02 PM
24	You're not the one she wants. You're the one she's using. Christ, some of the people on this sub are fucking dumb. Do what you fucking want. If you want to pay, then pay. If not, then don't. It doesn't matter. Like holy shit; sometimes I treat my friends to dinner and drinks, sometimes they treat me, sometimes we split the bill. Sometimes I pay for transport, food, drinks, sometimes the girl does, sometimes we split the bill. It's not a big deal. Stop with the taker / scarcity attitude. Drop the absolutes. If a girl's financial situation is shitty and …	/r/TheRedPill	05/05/17 10:14 AM
6	How to be confident You're definition of confidence is incorrect. Confidence is not knowing you will succeed in whatever you do, but rather that you will be fine no matter what happens. Girl doesn't like you? That's okay. Losing your job/business? That's okay. Public shaming/humiliation? That's okay. What you are describing is situational confidence, which follows familiarity towards a skill, situation, environment, etc. The more you expose yourself to an environment or situation, the more at ease you will feel in …	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/17 10:58 AM
0	"Young Americans Are Killing Marriage: Millennials are lagging behind on the traditional markers of adulthood" Prenups exist. The majority of young people just don't have the resources or the desire to get married. Also women feel intense social pressure to marry boring, stable men. Very few women are actually as hateful and malicious as the guys on this sub make them out to be. They don't get married with the intention of divorcing the guy, especially if they have had a long relationship leading up to the marriage. Trust me, women don't need to marry men to maniuplate them and get their money, lol. Howe…	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/17 02:46 PM
1	Stop dating. Start inviting her over. News flash bruhh, dick is abundant.	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/17 03:38 AM
1	Stop dating. Start inviting her over. Or, you know you're going to get laid eventually, and you don't give a shit if it's with that girl or another girl (this is abundance, btw). You appreciate a woman's energy and company because, unless you cuddle with your boys, and you all use strawberry shampoo to get each others dicks hard, hanging out with your boys ain't the same as a girl. Sex is just something that happens when you hang out with a girl. It's not a big deal, so don't make it one...	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/17 01:18 PM
2	Stop dating. Start inviting her over. There are two ways to get ahead. One is self improvement, the other is self acceptance (indifference to shortcomings). You should always strive for self improvement, but paradoxically you should always be self accepting and willing to laugh at your shortcomings. It's like with marketing. Even if your product sucks, you want to market your product as if it's the best thing ever, but behind the scenes you want to constantly be working on actually making it something valuable. Thinking that you'll …	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/17 10:58 AM
1	Stop dating. Start inviting her over. you can't be a server forever and hope to have nice things. Yeah exactly, which is why guys need to learn cold approach.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/17 10:45 AM
26	Stop dating. Start inviting her over. The thing is that the majority of men here have no fucking clue how female psychology works; they discover negative spiking and use it to manipulate women so they can put their latex wrapped dick in a lukewarm hole then brag about it online (hhaaha i get so much p00sy breeuuhh i'm alpha now hhaahha hamsters on a plate!!! AWALT!!!!). Majority of the posts I see on here are written by clueless guys with half baked ideas. They are only scratching the surface of sexuality. Most of the thinking on he…	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/17 04:27 PM
36	Stop dating. Start inviting her over. Kind of dumb advice. Most girls will not come straight to your place if they do not know you very well unless they are horny or you have high social proof and they trust you. Your best bet is to meet with her NEAR your house so you can go to your house spontaneously 'e.g. oh I forgot my wallet, I live just 2 minutes away' 'i need to grab a jacket' or seed your place during the date. You can just do coffee and seed some cool shit back at your place or have her take you shopping then drop off what…	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/17 01:57 PM
1	How much Dan Bilzerian understands. Bitterness is the default on this sub. So many butthurt chumps here looking to rip into people who have achieved more than them.	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/17 06:58 AM
1	Madonna's Confession about Having Sex with a Fat Man Horrible advice is telling people to be insecure about their appearance because you think women feel attraction and arousal the same way that men do.	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/17 12:29 PM
3	Madonna's Confession about Having Sex with a Fat Man Oh yes, just pull out your 10 inch penis in a public square and every girl will get on her knees and beg for your cum. If only my dick was 10 inches long, man! Thats how u get da chix, you just show them ur big dikkk hhehe ughhh iguess us under 10 guys will have to just use money and looks I guess haha haha its so simple its just about da dik siiize why didn't I see that hhehe its cool just show them ur dikkkk hheh cuz girls experience arousal the same way men do lil hhehe plates hamsters plates…	/r/TheRedPill	26/02/17 01:39 AM
7	Madonna's Confession about Having Sex with a Fat Man You didn't mention fun. Put a great looking man, an obscenely rich man, and a fun guy who doesn't give a fuck in a room full of women. Low self esteem girls who want validation will cling to the looks guy, gold diggers will cling to the money guy, every other girl will be with the fun guy. Why? Because he is the fucking party and they don't have an agenda; people, especially women, just want to have a good time.	/r/TheRedPill	26/02/17 01:31 AM
1	Madonna's Confession about Having Sex with a Fat Man Haha no, i've been told i'm good looking but I also have my shortcomings. A girl cares more about how secure and comfortable you are with yourself as opposed to your appearance. Women have no physical standards. Evolutionarily there is also no reason for men's looks to matter. Again, looks give you attraction, but you can get attraction through a lot of things like tattoos, how you dress, your voice, your social proof (if she sees you roll up with other girls, for example), how at ease you are i…	/r/TheRedPill	26/02/17 01:21 AM
17	Madonna's Confession about Having Sex with a Fat Man It's probably more so that he's unattractive but uses his status and power to get laid. His appearance has nothing to do with it. Have you seen rsd luke? Lmfao. You want to tell me that guys lays the hottest girls in the world, and their friends, because he's rich or hot? No, it's because he's fucking smart. He knows that the hottest girls are in exclusive social circles and rarely go to out in public because they literally have the highest status fuckboys trying to lay them with money. His game…	/r/TheRedPill	25/02/17 06:10 PM
7	Video games for men can be the same as social media and shopping is for women, and how you can start quitting Fill your time with other shit. Start going out. Dance like a retard. Have fun. Ween off. Get social skills. Mostly just get busy with other shit. I went from having 12 hours of free time a day to about 2. Suffice to say the video game habit fucked off by itself because I began valuing my free time.	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/17 03:11 PM
1	Have you ever noticed there is never a male 'fat acceptance' movement, because women and society do not care about you. There were tribal laws. If you betrayed the tribe you would be killed or kicked out. Why do you think risk taking behavior is so rare in our species these days? Most guys are too fucking scared to even approach a girl because their fathers were little bitchboys with no balls who had to rely on the institution of marriage to get propagate their genes.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/17 04:18 AM
1	Have you ever noticed there is never a male 'fat acceptance' movement, because women and society do not care about you. Looks get you initial attraction, nothing more. Once you open your mouth and your high pitched, supplicating voice fills her ears, she will blow you the fuck out. Bluepill thinking is that women feel attraction the same way that men do. Consider that a man's body has little sexual purpose aside from the pelvic area, whereas a woman's body communicates her fertility and sexual status in almost all areas. This is why men base attraction off of looks and women base it off of personality. Thinking l…	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/17 04:16 AM
-1	Have you ever noticed there is never a male 'fat acceptance' movement, because women and society do not care about you. Women base attraction more on personality than looks. If you have shit personality and poor masculinity, your looks will matter more. If you have a great personality and high masculinity, your looks won't matter at all. The whole "looks matter" bullshit is a lie bitchboys tell themselves to excuse why they suck. Do you think that primal attraction some 200,000 years ago was based on a fucking mans looks? Lmfao. The guy who did the most for the tribe got the most pussy. Risk taking behavior and m…	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/17 09:08 AM
1	Women are jealous of Melania Trump Outcome is useless. Reference and growth is important. I guarantee to you that her looks were not the primary reason Trump chose her as his third wife. It's her personality and attitude.	/r/TheRedPill	21/01/17 07:16 AM
5	Fight for her! You can usually tell if a girl is a bit of an emotional wreck before you enter a relationship with her. a shitty woman would toss all aside after a whiff of a higher status man. As opposed to what? A woman putting up with your emasculated bullshit? Watching you turn into a fucking pussy whipped bitchboy? She is doing you a favor by leaving, dude. If you start to suck, she will eventually leave you, but it's not like she'll bail ASAP. She might cheat on you or behave in ways to make you hate her …	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/16 05:29 PM
3	Fight for her! It's more about how different chemicals affect our mood and feelings towards our partner at different points in the relationship. There is a honeymoon phase, which lasts a few months, then a "settle down" phase. Most men get complacent after the honeymoon phase, which causes women to get bored and lose interest.	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/16 03:29 PM
11	Fight for her! I think it's good to reflect on why she broke up with you and why the relationship turned sour. I know bagging on women is the go-to on this sub since there are so many butthurt guys, but, honestly, if a girl breaks up with you it's because you suck; you did something to make her lose interest in you. If you're response is going to be "fuck dat bitch" then you won't learn much from the relationship because you will blame the girl instead of yourself, and you will probably repeat the same mistake…	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/16 01:16 PM
6	Fight for her! Largely due to emotional attachment. Coolidge Effect or w/e. Chemicals in our brains cloud rational thinking. If you eject out of every relationship at the first sign trouble you are unlikely to have many fulfilling relationships. That shit takes work. Maybe the girl was attracted to you initially because you acted like a man, but you became pussified and she got bored. It's your fault if you get complacent and stop taking on the role of the man in the relationship.	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/16 10:39 AM
0	Signs that She's into you Why do you need all of these signs? If she is there and attentive, she is into you.	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/16 04:37 AM
6	It is happening: Virtual Assistant/Girlfriend Sold to men living alone It filled up with a bunch of woman hating imbeciles that have latched on to their pain body. There are so many bitter people on here with a really fucked up view of sexuality. The real red pill mentality is the pursuit of social freedom, rising above adversity and fear in your career, sex life, and social life, and becoming an awesome person who people WANT to be around; living a life that naturally attracts beautiful women (and great people in general) instead of putting on some bullshit "alpha…	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/16 04:53 PM
-28	It is happening: Virtual Assistant/Girlfriend Sold to men living alone Oh yeah, just live in solitude with my sex doll and my world of warcraft hhehe livin da dream lyfe lol who wants to go through the journey of becoming a guy with a great life that can attract a woman naturally when you can buy a robot pussy to fukkkk amirite fukk women hhaha whos withh me ? Get ma dik sukkt by a robot while I kill the orc king hhaha da lyfe lol play dem sukkin soundz on ventrilo so my group gets jellous of my sex robot hhahahahhahaha	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/16 10:47 AM
-4	Is this real life? Parents catch 18 year old daughter have threesome with two boys in their house. Respons of reddit? Let her bang bro. How is being a slut a bad thing? It's human nature. Women are sexual by default, their bodies are literally designed for sex. Repressing sexuality does nothing to change this.	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/16 03:17 AM
3	Got punched by a dude for chatting with his GF Its masculine eneegy, most guys lack it lol	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/16 02:18 AM
3	What does the friend zone mean to a woman? You only get friend zoned if you can't communicate your intentions clearly to a woman. If you go in all friendly and make her think you want to be her friebd, then guess what? She will classify you as her friend. If you suddenly decide to try to fuck her she will become very confused because you are breaking the relationship dynamic that the two of you have. Note that being friendzoned and being friends with a girl are two different things. One is an involuntary predicament in which you are tryi…	/r/TheRedPill	11/12/16 04:06 AM
-1	"I'm a Feminist, but I Like When He Comes on My Face" Equality isn't a blanket statement. Women want equality in society, but sexual fantasies are a whole different ballpark. Why are people in this sub constantly trying to paint the world as us against them? Women and men ground eachother. We have different energies, and relationships, casual or serious, have a tendency to keep those energies in check and provide us with a different perspective.	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/16 09:54 AM
0	The Alpha Pass Only 7-10% of our communication is verbal. Rest of it is in our micro-expressions, body language and voice tonality. The real self always shines through eventually, and women's shit tests exist to screen for inconsistencies in the personality that men are putting forth and figure out if a guy is real or just fronting. They test us to see how grounded we are in our reality. Are we reactive? Are we needy? What will we do if she takes away positive responses? You don't have to pass every shit test,…	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/16 01:49 PM
6	The Alpha Pass It's communication. Majority of it is nonverbal. Doesn't matter what you say, it matters how you say it and your vibe. Has nothing to do with being alpha or beta. Stop thinking in binaries.	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/16 06:33 AM
0	The 300lb invisible man. I know what I'm saying goes against the narrative here, but try to rationalize where I'm coming from. Why would a man's looks matter to a woman? Think evolutionarily. As men, our mating cues are mostly physical; we look for specific traits such as wide hips, firm breasts, fair skin, all as a sign of youth and fertility. Women have a genetic timer, and as they age they lose power and value because an old woman does not make for a good mother for our children. For women, a man's fertile signs are …	/r/TheRedPill	06/12/16 12:05 AM
-9	The 300lb invisible man. Looks really don't matter, though. They matter insofar as they allow yourself to give yourself permission to act a certain way. I am just saying, you don't need to be good looking to be attractive, you just need to cultivate the same attitude and confidence that someone who is good looking would have. Stop being ashamed. That's not to say that you should let yourself go or not take care of your body, but don't limit yourself because you don't fit society's standards of beauty or masculinity. Wom…	/r/TheRedPill	05/12/16 04:01 PM