swagnake Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How much does hair come into it? If a girl likes you with long hair, that doesnt mean she's attracted to long hair, she's attracted to you. So you can change your haircut and she still likes you the same	/r/seduction	29/11/24 07:40 AM
2	How to play it with my gym crush? The ideal first date should be a restaurant with cozy vibe, then you take her to some place outdoor, like a park, where you guys can walk around while having conversation, the atmosphere gives you a lot of advantage to know her better and maybe take some further steps. Also remember to take it nicely and friendly even if she refuses, that way you can still look at each other at gym without feeling awkward	/r/seduction	21/11/24 02:34 AM
2	In contrast to my post yesterday, what traditionally masculine things do u enjoy doing? I like working out at the gym, build muscle and strenght of mind, playing action games or films with well written bad ass male lead, be a good and caring boyfriend to my girl, willing to help other people with genuine manner. I hope more modern boys and men would be willing to train their physical at the gym, it helps build a lot of confidence and maximize our masculinity.	/r/MensRights	22/12/22 06:47 AM
2	When did the US dating scene turn so toxic? Man, with all these things about America i saw in social media and reddit, it seems like you guys are having a bad time there as men. Too much feminism and woke propped up women into queens and look down on men, i mean even the way current movies and Tv series focused more on female characters than male has indicated a lot. I feel fortunate i'm living in an Asian country, the women and culture here is still safe from wokeness, although there are some influence from America's woke over here, but …	/r/MensRights	12/12/22 08:41 AM
2	When did the US dating scene turn so toxic? yep, reddit has turned woke nowadays with lots of those toxic feminists and white knight simps who will make hypocrite comments and downvote you for speaking the truth.	/r/MensRights	12/12/22 08:25 AM
56	Short males suffer from outright discrimination, which, according to research, is no less severe than gender or racial discrimination. On the other hand, obese women will get triggered and accuse you of bodyshaming if you call them fat or overweight, a lot of hypocrites in fashion industry has spreaded the trend of using overweight models to cater to these fat people. While these same people shamed on men for being short or ugly.	/r/MensRights	12/12/22 08:19 AM
5	How to not get friendzoned by a girl? Dont do or say things to please her. Be yourself and do what you want, what you believe is right in your view. Attract her and impress her with the strong points you already have, not pretend to be someone you're not in front of her.	/r/seduction	02/10/22 06:12 PM
1	Did my first cold approach today and feeling like shit Biết ăn mặc chỉn chu với tập gym rồi tự tin bắt chuyện là được thôi ông, nhưng tôi thấy gái hiện đại bây giờ cũng ko nhát đâu, nó ko thích thì nó lịch sự từ chối thôi chứ như em kia thì vô duyên quá. Tôi nghĩ ông nên xưng hô "mình" và "bạn" thì sẽ khiến ngta cảm thấy thoải mái hơn, xưng "anh" "em" tùy đối tượng gái sẽ cảm thấy ngại. Với lại đừng dùng từ "khá đáng yêu", nên nói là " thấy bạn dễ thương nên muốn bắt chuyện".	/r/seduction	17/09/22 07:16 AM
2	Did my first cold approach today and feeling like shit Bro i heard you did this in Vietnam? I'm Vietnamese and i used to do cold approach several times too. I said things like: "Hello, i think you are lovely so i want to ask for your phone number/instagram", works well everytime, i even managed to hold a decent conversation with them. I think the girl in your situation is pretty childish or rude, cold approach is casual stuff even in Vietnam, she shouldnt have made you an embarassment in public like that. Other girls i met in Vietnam are very friend…	/r/seduction	17/09/22 06:47 AM
-1	I asked a girl put and got kinda rejected. What should I do? Maybe she's just busy. Ask her what day she is free in the week. Chance is she would tell you the day and you can have a date with her. But if she says no, continue with your life, like studying, working, having fun, whatever. Or you can find another girl to flirt with. Let time pass, then about 1-2 weeks later, if you still like her, ask her out again, if this time you still fail, time to forget her.	/r/seduction	01/09/21 01:48 PM
17	Keep in mind the fact that girls sometimes do shit that makes absolutely no sense and there is nothing you can do about it. Anyway, i was seeing this girl. I'm an alumni and she's a 1st year in my university, i knew her from a friend and i started a conversation with her. We talked and flirted each other for several days. She usually talked about how hard her study is and how pressure her sale part-time job is, i give her advices and ask if you need help you tell me. She also messaged me to pick her up and give her a ride home, but the route is like 20 kilometers and we just knew each other for some days and haven't …	/r/seduction	01/04/21 05:23 AM
4	What's with her losing interest the more interested I become? That's how it works since the start of the world. When you focus on your shit and not the girl, she will be attracted to you, but if you just show a tiny sign of wanting her, she can smell that and ghosting you	/r/seduction	26/03/21 07:57 AM
22	You attract the type of person you are. Girls like the unexpected factors in men. So they usually are attracted to the guys who's nothing like them, because he will bring them many new experiences and surprises to their life	/r/seduction	26/03/21 07:40 AM
80	You attract the type of person you are. Not really, I have seen decent men get used by bitches and good girls get abused by assholes	/r/seduction	26/03/21 07:36 AM
10	Stop falling in love with people you're not dating I did that, and i got friendzoned by more than 1 girl at a time, so if you're not careful it would hurt you more	/r/seduction	23/03/21 07:43 AM
1	Just have fun and stop overthinking it Yeah i know when we interact in real life it feels really natural and we gain more than lose. But how to deal with the situation when we find out the girl we have been going out and flirting, actually is doing the same with another guy? I know we have not yet been in a relationship and she has the freedom to do that. But somehow it kinda upset me and takes away the relax/fun aspect of this connection. Anyone have some advice?	/r/seduction	17/03/21 03:43 AM
1	Had a great night last night. I approached 3 girls and got rejected by all 3. But I met 2 really nice guys who I connected with and became friends. We're going to catch up next week. Having good guy friends will indirectly help you with girls, but some men don't realize that. True, girls can list a set of standards they like in a guy, and when a guy has all these standards approach them, he may not succeed, and the girl might fall in love with a guy who looks and acts nothing like the standards she describe.	/r/seduction	14/03/21 04:21 PM
10	Blew it. This. I have been through a similar situation. I was on the process of getting to know each other with a girl, everything was going very well, one day her ex contacted her and she ghosted me to come back with him, I know this because I decided to ask her.	/r/seduction	03/03/21 06:53 AM
3	Blew it. Women are so good at smelling the desperate of men. If you just make one small move showing you are needy, they can sense it and avoid you immediately.	/r/seduction	03/03/21 06:50 AM
6	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. Yeah but the possibility of that happening is pretty rare. Although there might be a chance if us men keep pursuing the girl, it simply wasn't worth it. Keep trying to make the girl fall for you, when she wasn't interested and only see you as a friend, required huge patience and can possibly harm the guy's feeling and lifestyle. So that's why when we find out the girl wasn't interested, we simply find another one to avoid the negative affection to our feelings and lifestyle.	/r/seduction	02/03/21 05:39 AM
1	Alpha male MINDSET I think the most helpful tip to be alpha is to actually get a successful career and take good care of your appearance. Once you have these, you will be automatically confident without trying	/r/seduction	27/02/21 12:22 PM
1	The keys that made me get positive results almost every interaction. Yes, this post is totally right and it's actually useful for guys. I love how you are being realistic and listed things that playing major role in a person's love life. I hate that a lot of people in this sub just advise: "be confident and you'll get the girl", it's not that simple, seduction and dating life requires way more than just confidence.	/r/seduction	25/02/21 11:23 PM
4	A once in a lifetime reminder: Confidence attracts beauty. Confidence is overrated. I mean, it is an important trait and without confidence it's very hard to attract women, but it doesnt mean just being confident is enough to succeed in everything related to dating life. You can be both good looking and confident and still have failures with women. No matter how attractive, successful and confident you are, if she can't develop an interest/feeling toward you, she wouldn't want to date you. I am a good looking guy and I'm confident when i approach women,…	/r/seduction	15/02/21 11:04 AM
1	Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1] Actually in the end, the only thing that matters is attraction. If you are attractive and how you behave and treat women made them feel attracted to you, you will succeed, regardless of being a jerk or a gentleman	/r/seduction	11/02/21 07:50 AM
2	Men who see women as human beings will find more success than men who see women as objects, and use them to impress others, or try to get a reputation as a 'player'. When you're humble about your skills, the game becomes a lot easier. Sometimes I wonder why us men can't just be ourselves and enjoy our social life freely, and women will like us for being ourselves, for how we live. Why do we always need strategies, practices to succeed with women but women don't need any of these skills, they just enjoy their life and decent men will come to them	/r/seduction	08/02/21 08:41 AM
0	Men who see women as human beings will find more success than men who see women as objects, and use them to impress others, or try to get a reputation as a 'player'. When you're humble about your skills, the game becomes a lot easier. He never said conquering, also when he said "game", it's just a short way to describe the process of flirting. You are being too sensitive, should develop a more positive perception about men instead of being defensive and negative about male human beings all the time.	/r/seduction	07/02/21 12:18 PM
1	Just one question: How the hell do I stay out of the friendzone??? Be attractive. I know at lot of other comments were practical and helpful for you as well, so I'm gonna add some more vital advices for you. No matter how confident you are or how clear you have show her your actual intention, you would still get friendzoned by the girl if she isnt attracted to you, basically, it's a subtle way of women(also men as well) to reject people without being rude. Get fit, dress well, have good hair and take care of your skin,facial hair. Then just be confident and mad…	/r/seduction	03/02/21 06:30 AM
2	How far can you see a girl, and tell she is pretty? Am i the only one who believe that we can tell if a girl is pretty or not just by looking at her from behind? I don't know if it's a feel or based on logic, but something about her head shape, her body shape, the vibe or aura around her can show that she's pretty or not. I was right about 8 out of 10 times.	/r/seduction	01/02/21 10:03 AM
6	Been hanging out in the college dorm lobby and these are the results Don't worry, you will get better through experiences. I kinda envy you, I have graduated college and there's not much women in where I work. I have improved myself and flirting skill a lot but rarely have the right environment to use it, lol. College is the best time to get babes	/r/seduction	31/01/21 06:07 AM
0	“we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are” That's because the dude's personality, lifestyle, his talking and how he treats her that made her attracted to him. It requires opportunities and good game from the dude. And in the process if he fucked up one step, he failed. I don't say ugly or average dudes can't succeed, i just say they need more efforts and opportunities to get the girl.Meanwhile, a physical attractive guy with some skill would get the girl faster and less efforts.	/r/seduction	28/01/21 08:39 AM
21	“we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are” Man this is fucking true. Whenever this opinion was stated, women will always deny this and say something like: don't have to be physical attractive, persolity matters more, or just be confident and funny, blah, blah... But if she is not physically attracted to the guy, no matter how confident and funny he is, he will have way smaller chance with her than a guy she finds him hot right in the first look.	/r/seduction	27/01/21 05:12 PM
2	Almost kissed a 9/10 when clubbing last night (FR) There's nothing wrong with wanting women. We are straight men, of course we have the needs. I think you are doing it right, meeting women and interact with them is definitely the way to build up your confidence and experience. My advice is, next time you should act faster, seal the deal, because in these places women will leave for another option if you took more time to talk than action. Good luck	/r/seduction	18/01/21 09:12 AM
5	Almost kissed a 9/10 when clubbing last night (FR) True, women get approached by men, even the average ones do. So they have the advantage of just being themselves and love automatically come to them. Men, on the other hand, have to use their skill and experiences to make it happen.	/r/seduction	18/01/21 09:03 AM
3	Almost kissed a 9/10 when clubbing last night (FR) Yeah, i often saw woman stated their standards/type then dated a man who's nothing similar to that.	/r/seduction	18/01/21 09:01 AM
3	Almost kissed a 9/10 when clubbing last night (FR) Well that's your perspective as a woman and i respect it, but life as a man is totally different. Flirting, or seduce a woman-especially attractive woman, does need effort and strategy/experiences. Even being good looking, good manner and confident can not help getting an attractive woman that simple, you do need to be smart in seducing. I said this based on my experiences.	/r/seduction	18/01/21 08:57 AM
1	Almost kissed a 9/10 when clubbing last night (FR) I'm Vietnamese and we have been back to normal since June as well	/r/seduction	18/01/21 08:51 AM
-3	Do NOT tell frustrated young men to "be nice." It creates incels. I always feel like us men have to learn and develop so many things if we want a relationship with women. Like... having good hairstyle, have good fashion taste and buy a wide range of clothes, work out like hell to have a decent body, and most important: know how to seduce women, understand their psychology, be precise and careful with every of your action, which requires you to approach women a lot to gain experiences through countless failures. Meanwhile women just need to take good care of th…	/r/seduction	06/01/21 06:11 PM
1	Why do some women on Dating apps want attention from people they have no interest in dating? Online dating apps are some people's tool to ego boost	/r/seduction	01/01/21 01:20 PM
4	How To Stop Hoping (For A Change Of Mind) Easy. Find yourself your own girl	/r/seduction	01/01/21 11:29 AM