swallowingthepill19 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	New to RPW: Questions on RMV, friends, and meeting high-quality men (and a small rant)	ADVICE	swallowingthepill19	/r/RedPillWomen	06/05/17 04:24 PM

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2	New to RPW: Questions on RMV, friends, and meeting high-quality men (and a small rant) Ha!!! It's funny, but it is also very true. Thank you for your support, it's nice to have found a community with like-minded people. :)	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/17 02:40 AM
1	New to RPW: Questions on RMV, friends, and meeting high-quality men (and a small rant) Not overweight or chubby whatsoever. Could "tone up" probably a bit, though.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/17 02:35 AM
1	New to RPW: Questions on RMV, friends, and meeting high-quality men (and a small rant) Ah, yes when I say "alpha widowed" that is what I meant - I've been able to be casual with men of higher SMV/RMV but unable to get them to commit. I do, however, think that you are correct in that something in my profile is off-putting to them (maybe more flattering pictures would help?) I will look into tech meetups and other organizations - that is a fantastic idea. Thank you!	/r/RedPillWomen	06/05/17 11:21 PM
1	New to RPW: Questions on RMV, friends, and meeting high-quality men (and a small rant) I think you hit the nail on the head with lacking confidence and direction. Being realistic, I think in terms of SMV I am slightly above average - a 6, perhaps a 7 on a good day - but my demeanor is not at all approachable (I have NEVER made eye contact with a man in a public setting). I will focus on the confidence and see if I have better luck. Thank you!	/r/RedPillWomen	06/05/17 11:16 PM
2	New to RPW: Questions on RMV, friends, and meeting high-quality men (and a small rant) Thank you! Reading through your post history, I really admire the efforts that you took to meet your husband. Classes and volunteering are actually a really great idea. Additionally, I'm not sure I've EVER smiled and made eye contact with a guy! (What a weird thing to realize...) I feel like I've been conditioned to do the opposite - not sure whether by family or society (or both) but it would probably help me to seem more approachable. :)	/r/RedPillWomen	06/05/17 09:39 PM
3	New to RPW: Questions on RMV, friends, and meeting high-quality men (and a small rant) You make a very good point. I can immediately think of recent examples where I have been guilty of taking the "easy" route of the examples you mentioned. This is something I will need to continue to work on.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/05/17 09:30 PM
3	New to RPW: Questions on RMV, friends, and meeting high-quality men (and a small rant) Thank you, this is very helpful! Particularly the first point - I could definitely improve my active listening.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/05/17 09:27 PM
4	This sub has changed my life Love hearing this!! I am also late 20s and fairly new to this sub - like you, I was very career-oriented in my 20s. I'm currently in "cocoon mode" and working on improve SMV and RMV for the next 6 weeks. However, after this 6 weeks, I want to proactively start meeting high-value men and (hopefully) dating them. Can I ask you how you met your current SO/other high-quality men? I don't seem to run into them on a daily basis, unfortunately. :-/	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/17 02:48 AM