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Thanks for the feedback. I’ve been lifting a ton it’s really the only thing making me feel good right now so I’m definitely going to keep it up. I know I hurt people and it’s one of the toughest parts about the whole situation. I know this is something to grow and learn from it’s just tough to see through the clouds right now.
/r/askMRP19/07/19 07:32 PM
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it's counterintuitive - you have to relax all of your muscles (tense muscles = orgasm) and focus 100% on every feeling in your body. you have to "watch" what pleasure is and feels like, you have to know it inside out. then when you're fucking, you know exactly where you sit on the curve to an orgasm. if you get near the point of no return, slow your roll and let your body go back down the curve. then throw it in and start pounding again. after awhile you will build a very good knowledge of your …
/r/askMRP01/02/19 04:34 AM
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You're way overthinking this, and it shows where you're at in this process. You have oneitis. Underneath the context of your post, the theme is clear - you are afraid of losing this girl. Who cares if she thinks you're a beta. Do what you want to do. If you want to text her, text her. You better own it. I can tell you aren't ready for this girl. She's out of your league because of your mindset, and whatever you have won't last. She's going to sniff out your weakness sooner or later. But in the e…
/r/askTRP04/07/18 06:32 PM
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Are you circumcised? Do you have a frenulum? Were you cut tight? If so, this may be a mixture of physical and emotional issues. Removing the foreskin, frenulum and ridged band has a profound effect on sensitivity and pleasure. I had the same problem as you throughout my 20s. I had a few bad experiences with women due to very low sensitivity in my penis, and the psychological affect of those bad experiences compounded the issue. It wasn’t until I found foreskin restoration that I began to realize…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 06:12 PM
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next
/r/askTRP25/08/17 06:56 AM
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stop using snapchat
/r/askTRP25/08/17 06:51 AM
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If so, I'm ready to walk at any time. It's an open relationship for me but not for her. I have slowed down on plates over the last few months but I have no problem moving back to the full single life.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 09:27 PM
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Well.. the relationship is open for me but not for her. But I Totally agree and I reflected on that in the moment. I haven't been spinning many plates outside of the LTR lately. I took my dog out for a walk on the waterfront just to get out of the house. I was spinning plates for 3 years before stepping into this relationship and got tired of constantly worrying about girls trying to blow my world up after I let them break. Girls always took it harshly. Always more to learn but thought I'd give …
/r/askTRP10/06/17 09:16 PM
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"Or notify your superiors. 'I had to push my deadlines back because the girl kept asking me for help'." Do this only if you want your superiors to think you have no idea how to handle a standard work situation without someone holding your hand. Bad advice.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 07:39 PM
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You're getting played hard. The girl holds all the cards in this relationship. Soft next her, no contact, and make some new friends/meet some new girls. It sounds like you don't really understand how to build a relationship or have any sort of boundaries. maybe you're young and just need a lot more experience. But, the girl should be the one grinding for your dick 100% of the time. If you're doing it right, you are the gatekeeper to commitment and sex.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:43 PM
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depends on the situation, but I'd probably take the ammo out of their hands by making fun of myself about it while holding frame. Show that you've moved on and don't give a fuck.. we are all humans, we all make mistakes. You just have to learn from them and move on.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:40 PM
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This is a tough one. As an 18 year old, pulling in $14k in a month is huge. That's amazing cashflow for a young guy. Hopefully you are saving a large amount of it (I'd suggest you try to save 60-70% of your monthly income and invest it in low cost funds tracking the S&P 500). I'm all about taking risks, especially at such a young age. But, you said yourself that your brother tends to oversell, and that's a big red flag for me. I know he's your bro, but you have an amazing thing going on right no…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:36 PM
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You're wrong. The wall might come later for some, but the wall always comes. As a high value man in his 30s, trust me, life gets amazing for a man as he ages. I would never in a million years risk my freedom for someone close to hitting the wall. You're right that there will always be beta orbiters willing to provide for a female. But the high value alphas will be out of reach for them, and that will cause their little heads to explode (hence, THE WALL)
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:30 PM
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Why would you stay in a relationship where you can only see each other on weekends and are always traveling? I'm not trying to be rude, but you sound young. If you're young, just get out of this relationship and move on. There's so many women out there and a lot of experience to be gained from being young, single and meeting new women. Forbidding a girl to text someone... never try to control a woman. If her behavior doesn't match your expectations, then you either set the boundary after the off…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:27 PM
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First of all, you're 16, so the fact that you're learning all of these techniques and strategies to live a fuller life as a man in today's society will give you an amazing head start. It's great that you have the self-awareness to realize you aren't "very outgoing" and that you spend too much time on your phone. You're starting to realize that how you spend your time matters. You can have all the money and women in the world, but you can never have more time than you are given on this earth. The…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:20 PM
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These things tend to you make you stronger in the long run. There are so many possibilities for a man to have a mission in life. Reflection and self-awareness are key here. It's tough but I'd suggest you go 4 months sober (if you drink/do drugs) and make sure you meditate through the uncomfortable feelings. Over time, you will find your way and develop a sense of comfort and happiness for just having the gift of being conscious and alive in the moment. Improve your self-awareness and you'll find…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:11 PM
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Who cares? How is knowing that your ex is depressed going to help you live your life to its fullest extent. It isn't going to do shit for you. Your mindset is wrong, which is why you are depressed and thinking of your ex in the first place. And that's also the reason why your ex most likely is over your ass already. She sensed your weakness and was out. Feign sadness for a few days, eat some ice cream, and she's back with a dick in her mouth the next day having the time of her life. Go work out …
/r/askTRP10/06/17 06:03 PM
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You know it's bad. You know that it is not helping your shitty life at all. You know jerking off every day is leeching the energy and motivation required to make your life awesome. Why are you wasting time asking a question that you know the answer to? Are you just wasting more time? Let me answer that for you - yes. Get on some athletic gear and go for a run or lift some weights. Eat healthy today. Take action today to put yourself on a path that will lead to a less shitty existence.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 05:59 PM
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It sounds like you don't have a lot of experience. First of all, playing politics is always part of working. You have to build relationships to have a successful career. There are a million ways to get out of this situation. You aren't being creative enough. "Oh, you need help with that, I have a meeting in 10 minutes but maybe you should ask XXYZ, they are awesome with those tasks." You should work on building relationships with everyone outside of this single female, so that even if she does t…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 05:55 PM
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I see your point of view. She called this morning and my boundaries were heard loud and clear. We'll meet up later tonight and I'll give it to her extra strong. But she's on notice that that was her one time pass.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 05:49 PM
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Around 10pm I text her and told her "that sure is one long drink going on there." She replied, "oh now I"m out with x, y, and z" and then me:"ok, cancelling plans 20 minutes before meeting up, not cool but also not a huge deal because it's never happened before, but then saying you're getting one drink and then coming over and then not hearing from you for 4 hours doesn't work for me." her: "Oh shit!! i'm so sorry I'm in a lyft coming over right now" me: "i made plans tonight. we can talk tomorr…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 02:52 PM
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Totally depends on how much the ring is worth.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 09:17 PM
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These chats were with friends from the previous state I live in. They aren't connected in any way to my workplace.
/r/askMRP24/03/17 02:54 PM
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My direct told me after the meeting. It's actually his last day of work tomorrow.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 06:41 AM
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Chill out you're fine. Seriously.... if you have symptoms like extreme itching and rashes, then you may have an issue on your hands. But don't freak out over nothing. You wore a condom. Good job. Better than I've done in many many situations. Have you ever had oral cold sores? If so, you have HSV-1 already and you're pretty much immune from getting hsv anywhere else oN Your body. Relax.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 07:23 AM
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