| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1152 | I bought myself a diamond ring. Marrying myself this year! | QUEEN SH*T | swapThing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 05:35 PM |
| 428 | Why I almost left FDS | PORN SICK, LIMP DICK | swapThing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 06:39 AM |
| 263 | I know checklists are passé but I keep them and update red flags. | STRATEGY | swapThing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 04:37 PM |
| 41 | Using this app to stay away from my ex and recover! | #KickHimOut2020 | swapThing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Showed this meme to my current boyfriend and this was his reply. | GREEN FLAG 🟢 | swapThing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 08:15 AM |
| 1 | The smart nerds are just as bad | LESSON LEARNED | swapThing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | 4 days sober from constant OLD! | MINDSET SHIFT | swapThing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:34 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 7 | Is it okay to let go of friends who don’t agree with this lifestyle?You could try and set a boundary that you don’t want to hear about him at all. She’ll either respect it and listen or lose her mind. If she loses her mind over it, she’s too far gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 02:21 PM |
| 52 | Truly yes!🥰I sadly try and un-dust them. Stop them from using 3-in-1 or 2-in-1, have them use lotion and washclothes. Without being in charge of someone’s grooming, life is better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 07:42 PM |
| 85 | “I don’t remember ordering my relationship off the a-la-carte menu” 💀There’s only two guys I’ve dated who preferred touch. They didn’t bring it up, I just noticed they liked to cuddle. But the rest definitely liked sexual touch... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 02:52 AM |
| 46 | After men in Spain got paternity leave, they wanted fewer kidsI know so many guys who want a bunch of kids cause they imagine playing ball with them and stuff. Good luck to their partners! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:56 AM |
| 14 | Anybody familiar with 90 day fiancé Jorge and Anfisa? I want to talk about the Gold-Digger/Objectifying a woman dynamic ...She’s perusing a degree now and has a YouTube channel. She’s doing better. Yeah I liked that h3h3 called Jorge a “tit digger”. One of the best things they’ve ever called someone. Edit: removed extra e | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:13 PM |
| 5 | “Don’t keep score in your marriage! 🥰” is patriarchal propaganda. If we tallied and kept score, there would be millions of divorces.It’s crazy how love doesn’t judge or keep receipts. Love is always kind and patient.not today mfs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:11 PM |
| 5 | 3 Tips to Stop Fantasizing about Someone You Just Met (Take time to Vet!)Just started dating someone. Thank you for this reminder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:18 AM |
| 12 | Why I almost left FDSHe tried to get me to play all his nerdy games too. Like sis, he tried me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 04:43 PM |
| 22 | Why I almost left FDSYou just took out half the male population | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 04:42 PM |
| 11 | Why I almost left FDSHe should come with a warning | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:22 PM |
| 16 | Why I almost left FDSYeah I got burned but I was also dealing with an important death in my mind so I was spiraling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:21 PM |
| 14 | Why I almost left FDSHe was a pretty good guy otherwise and I was in a bind at the time. Grief makes people do weird things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:20 PM |
| 31 | Why I almost left FDSI know that know. Sassy response to me taking about a lesson I learned and my experience learning it. We all made mistakes 🤷🏿♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:20 PM |
| 5 | Why I almost left FDSI was pretty caution about the topic but I’m also gonna be way more careful in the future! Thanks for your support | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:19 PM |
| 19 | Why I almost left FDSJesus take the wheel. We are twins | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:18 PM |
| 59 | A reminder that porn ruined relationships and livesMy ex was into kink and was disappointed nothing felt like he thought it would. Insane | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 08:30 PM |
| 14 | She Gets ItI think it’s really depends. Anthology series tend to be more creative and diverse than actual movies. Movies are all about the shock factor. I definitely stay away from content that’s rated mature regardless. Edit: spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:37 PM |
| 3 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.23! High five! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 07:38 PM |
| 3 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.Story time: my on and off boyfriend of three years (yes I know he was as a scrote etc) bought two flesh lights and a wall mount. Then I asked him to buy lingerie and he lied that it got lost in the mail. When pressed he admitted he never ordered it cause he was scared to use his debit card online. That was the final straw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 07:37 PM |
| 11 | What's something that made you realize you're former partner was LVM?PORRRNNN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 01:59 PM |
| 10 | "I was a starter wife."- Justine MuskThis is why I joined FDS. There are things I would never know without this sub. Real big warning signs I wouldn’t know (like how one guy love bombed me with long phone calls) and stories I would never had read. I feel new, stronger and will be better next time. (Not ready to date yet) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:42 PM |
| 15 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?I’ve gotten this one. “I faked it until I made it” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:12 PM |
| 8 | Jumping on the “bought myself a ring” bandwagon 😊 Happy New Year to me, and to all my FDS sistersWelcome a board! This ring is amazing. It stopped me from calling my ex yesterday. I hope it gives you strength | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 12:48 PM |
| 1 | I know checklists are passé but I keep them and update red flags.Eeyores. The joke killed, brought me back to life and killed me again. I’m adding that to me list. Thanks!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 04:55 PM |
| 3 | The final boss PickmeishaThen they say “don’t have enough in common”. Boy I can’t game for three hours a day. I got a whole life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 01:35 PM |
| 6 | I know checklists are passé but I keep them and update red flags.I never meet people who genuinely love life. Very sad but it’s definitely part of the American view point. I should really look out for their view pint. Guys my age don’t even have full formed thoughts sometimes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 02:13 AM |
| 8 | I know checklists are passé but I keep them and update red flags.You just saved my therapist 20 minutes 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 02:11 AM |
| 5 | I know checklists are passé but I keep them and update red flags.Join us 😈 I used to never track and then I’d forget how much my long term ex messed up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 02:10 AM |
| 6 | I know checklists are passé but I keep them and update red flags.I am very extraverted and I feel like introverts are worn out by me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 02:07 AM |
| 15 | I know checklists are passé but I keep them and update red flags.This subreddit makes me feel so supported! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 07:02 PM |
| 37 | I know checklists are passé but I keep them and update red flags.It’s because I’m 23. I’m not interested in that at the moment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:50 PM |
| 90 | I know checklists are passé but I keep them and update red flags.I honestly am too lenient according to my therapist! I’m working on it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:49 PM |
| 75 | To a lifetime with myself 🥂💍🎉Do it. It’s shiny and makes you rethink your relationships. I realized I’m not actually interested in marriage. I was more interested in a diamond ring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 05:11 PM |
| 4 | I bought myself a diamond ring. Marrying myself this year!Thank you everyone for the support! FDS really helped me not go back to my ex. Cheers! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 05:53 AM |
| 1 | I feel sickYou just saved your own life by leaving. We’re proud of you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 04:43 AM |
| 1 | I'm a massive Pickmeisha, so I broke up with my boyfriend today.I definitely have the pick me feeling too. You got out though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 02:21 PM |
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