| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 222 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself? | Field Report | sward1990 | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 11:32 AM |
| 122 | How do I break out of the nice guy vibe? | Conversation | sward1990 | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 10:53 AM |
| 5 | How to seal the deal? | Escalation & Calibration | sward1990 | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Low contact after great date? | Logistics | sward1990 | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 10:38 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Weekend check-inBeen anxious for a about a month just about being single,not enjoying my work lately. I had a friends stag do and i was quite nervous about it since I’ve been the above and just not enjoying life. First night in my cheeks hurt from laughing. | /r/MenSupportMen | 22/07/22 05:20 PM |
| 3 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?Yeah I 100% will. Picking up wasn’t my goal of the night to be fair but I know I balled its up | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 09:29 PM |
| 2 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?Yeah that’s all valid. It’s my first time approaching in a long time so thanks for the advice | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 09:28 PM |
| 15 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?100% wasn’t flirty. No smile | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 12:29 PM |
| 10 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?Yeah that’s fair! It was very sharp and un joking so that’s why I reacted fairly the same | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 12:09 PM |
| 46 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?Yeah I think so | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 11:50 AM |
| 12 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?Haha what does that help with | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 11:50 AM |
| 170 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?Good haha I was just proud I made a move on such an attractive woman haha | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Keep getting flaked or ignoredThey just want attention sadly! | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Men's fascination with male genitalia makes me upset.I think the most logically answer to why is societal pressure | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | How can I give a girl more space? I think she is getting distant and I don’t know whyWhy not? You should be able to communicate with someone? | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | How can I give a girl more space? I think she is getting distant and I don’t know whyKnow your worth and match someone’s energy and if it’s not what you want then move on | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 01:43 AM |
| 1 | How can I give a girl more space? I think she is getting distant and I don’t know whyHey man! I know it’s tough! You can’t control someone time so there’s two things you could do. Ask her what’s up? You have been a bit distant lately? It could be you or something else. Match her energy and no more | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Need help with what to do in this situation boys, man to manBest thing you can do it’s be honest with her and moderate yourself in the future | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 02:38 AM |
| 63 | Personally, how do you balance seeing multiple women?If emotions get involved then I need to make a decision. I always say what I’m after and be clear about that at the start. Prevents any issues. But if I’m dating and happen to start developing feelings for a couple women then I will make a call on one. I don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings because I wasn’t able to man up and end something | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 07:49 AM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Games are for kids. Just add her man and ask when she’s back and set a date | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Hot n cold. Flirting or playing ?Should you be doing this with a coworker? It could get messy if your misinterpreting it | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Does the calibre of women that you attract show what level of attractiveness you are?I’ve wondered about this myself. My Brain says yes but don’t you always shot your shot with some you think Is a level above you? | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 07:44 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]She’s not interest just let it go man. Your barking up the wrong tree | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | My ex girlfriend and I have started hanging out again, need advice/comments/concernsNope seems like your being solid! Good excitement and fun events. Just be wary of her changing her mind. The pressure will be big from mumma | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 08:14 PM |
| 1 | My ex girlfriend and I have started hanging out again, need advice/comments/concernsHey if you Genuinely want to get back together and it’s got healthy reasons then all good. Just remember you broke up for a reason. Has that been addressed? Otherwise it will pop up again | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 08:05 PM |
| 2 | How many less women did you get with in your 30s than your 20s?I’ve slept with more women in my 30s then my 20’s by far. I’m a average looking dude as well | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 05:25 AM |
| 1 | How to seal the deal?Love this! 100% understand this isn’t a we are having sex agreement. It’s a we are looking for the same thing but need to see if we match first. I like your escalation guide and will give it a try. I always think too much before these things and need to mentally spew it out to people before hand haha | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 01:55 AM |
| 4 | How to seal the deal?90% of my friends are women. I’m not wanting another friend. | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 12:09 AM |
| 2 | How to seal the deal?I’m 100% not expecting it. Just not wanting to friend zone myself haha | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 12:06 AM |
| 2 | How to seal the deal?Thanks man. I’m trying to have some casual partners to just have fun and have some experiences | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 11:57 PM |
| 1 | How to seal the deal?Thanks man. There’s none like that by my house but 100% by hers. Obviously I can’t invite myself to hers? Just have to hope she’ll ask, ? | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 11:53 PM |
| 1 | How to seal the deal?Haha yeah 100%. Just don’t want to get into date mode. Thanks for the assistance e | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 11:49 PM |
| 1 | How to seal the deal?Thanks man. I’ll need to pick a place that’s slight discreet. Rather then a basic pub I was originally thinking | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 11:47 PM |
| 2 | How to seal the deal?That’s the plan haha but I’ve never really had anything casual so just unsure how to say it at the right time/moment | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 11:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I break out of the nice guy vibe?Tips for escalation then? How do I do it in a assertive way? | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 06:06 AM |
| 1 | How do I break out of the nice guy vibe?This is what I’m after. I’m the orbiting guy, and some comet guy comes in and smashed it out the park | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | How do I break out of the nice guy vibe?I tend to be more friendly then flirty even if I’m interested in them. I don’t want to change who I am since I love being me but I want to be better at attracting the girls I want to get to know | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 11:45 PM |
| 2 | How do I break out of the nice guy vibe?This is good advice. Honestly I think I have a average job but in a cool field -wound care. I need to learn how to flirt better as I tend to find women ok but not tend to get beyond the 2nd or third date | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Low contact after great date?Thanks man. I guess I’m getting a-bit worked up about it. I’ll message her and set up a date and try not focus on that part | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Low contact after great date?Thanks man. I suppose I’m overthinking why she hasn’t messaged back. I’ll reach out and plan something and see how she responds | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 11:15 PM |
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