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Outer Game swardhan/r/seduction21/09/20 05:10 PM
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Fundamentalsswardhan/r/seduction22/09/20 09:44 PM
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Fear is the mind killer. If she's a hoe so be it. You want to keep her or not is upto you. "I don't wanna get played". Well someone said life is a game so be fine with it. And if she is sending nudes then congrats you have successfully Seduced someone, which is the purpose of this subreddit ain't it?
/r/seduction16/06/22 12:35 PM
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Stop Giving this guy a hard time. Please. The boy is confused. General starter stuff. Go on.
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:25 PM
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I would just like to say that it's not about the bigger person. If 2 ppl wanna stay together they stay together and find a way. Of you give her the hearing she deserves she'll know how you actually feel about her end of story. Her chapter will be closed for you. You'll have nothing to say to her. and that is what I would suggest. What she says after that will actually tell you how she is right now. And this interaction will be the clarity you both actually need for future and for the past.
/r/seduction26/01/22 02:50 PM
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Do whatever the fuck you want. just keep emotions out of it. Its been three years, I dont think you'll still be attached. If your heart is broken. You must have grown emotionally strong. Just tret her normally.
/r/seduction23/10/21 06:48 AM
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What you want is clear in your mind. What she wants is made clear to you. It doesn't matter what she thinks by saying that she wants to be friends. She still wants to meet up. So what you do is live your life but dont try. Master the art of not trying. Nothing is absolute in this world. All you gotta do is make things better with yourself not with her. Focus on the things that are in your hands. Don't focus on what she is thinking or doing. Focus on what you are doing. Maybe try on other girls a…
/r/seduction28/09/21 03:20 PM
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IDK man. If a lot of girls approach you its a real good thing and if you fuck them all up then there is something fundamentally wrong with you. You are saying its fucking your mind. You gotta work on that. It should not affect you. Otherwise its a downward spiral. Just live life at 0.75x speed. Talk slowly. Walk slowly. Think Slowly. Just get worked up on how you gonna fuck it up. And if you are not in a mood and thinking you are going to fuck it up. You probably will. Then just simply ignore. P…
/r/seduction28/09/21 01:28 AM
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Some situations are hard to get out of. My suggestion would be to just find someone else in any way. I mean if you are emotionally attached you should definately cut her off. Sooner the better. Otherwise if you are fine with it just find other women too. If you too dont want this to end you'll have her in someway anyways. So why not try on others too. Seems like you keep on waiting for her to do something for reassurance of your relationship. Your end of the relationship is clear, you want her. …
/r/seduction01/09/21 12:56 AM
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I left that book in between because of some shit and now I listen to audiobooks which is quite efficient. How I used this was, I read in sapiens that there used to be a lot more species of dogs but only those survived which knew how to manipulate humans by being cute and just being around them. I talked about this with a girl who owns a dog and volunteers in an NGO dedicated to animals. But that is the point. I know it is redundant and kind if rhetoric but I am gonna say it. I didn't read the bo…
/r/seduction01/12/20 11:45 AM
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I think that is the point here actually. Remember how mark manson used to say. Well generally he isn't the guy that would say this but he says "I want you to masturbate and do it like you mean it but not for the those pixelated girls on your screen but imagining the girl you saw there at the park, for the cashier you saw, feel the feeling and jerk off. I am well aware how OP must br feeling cause I had the same urge once to post here. Edit: he isn't doing well socially. So you guys don't how muc…
/r/seduction18/10/20 10:23 AM
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just appear aloof now to her. Create distance. And about these talk do it face to face.
/r/seduction11/10/20 04:50 AM
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yes. Maybe she likes you too. You just gotta confirm that does she even want your attention. If she does she'll change and you'll know your answer
/r/seduction11/10/20 04:33 AM
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idk what you want from her but take your own space now. Do YOUR work. 6hrs a day is a but too much.
/r/seduction11/10/20 04:31 AM
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Didn't really delete cause I don't post and really use it. But I started to realise that by seeing other people's lives, I was undermining my own life. Don't need to really have a look. I didn't delete my insta just uninstalled the app and I use it once a week or so using my browser. Worked like a charm. -"Be better than you were the last second."
/r/seduction09/10/20 04:12 AM
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Ugh... Sarcasm bro Thumbs up tho for taking action and reading the book.
/r/seduction30/09/20 11:10 AM
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Hey.. Pretty much the same as you but I had kissed a girl once or twice but it was not out of my seduction or something, it was because I am manly enough by my mentality but not by my sex appeal. Maybe she got attracted by that and wanted to see if I can get it out of me. Never was a guy who lived his life to impress girls, just be me and fuck of everyone. She was my old love that I never got a chance to get close amd she knew that, maybe she was helping me... blah nvm I wanna say that after she…
/r/seduction30/09/20 07:16 AM
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ikr?? How is this possible
/r/seduction30/09/20 07:07 AM
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I know its really hard to answer but I can tell what I have seen/done. Show yourself as something new. People like change, people want change. Novelty is key here. If you know your flaws that were there when you were with her look upon them. I am not telling you to change yourself or fake yourself. I telling you to be fine with it. Don't be scared or shy away because of any past things.
/r/seduction30/09/20 04:50 AM
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hahahah.... Don't you know this? Most people are born with it.
/r/seduction30/09/20 04:45 AM
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I know, but still. Its like we both are the same, don't open up much but I started acting like a girl later with time. Its just social angst, hell if I transformed and kiss her right then and there she won't even mind it and we'll still talk after that but we open up mostly on text. I know you people will call this oneitis and it is , but what I see it as is just a way to practice this thing. She is a 10 if I'm getting a chance to meet her can't I just use this as an opportunity to grow or learn…
/r/seduction22/09/20 10:12 PM
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Can you tell those movies and books.
/r/seduction22/09/20 03:42 PM
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By the last line in second last para, you might see my overthinking-"it wouldn't turn out good anyways". Lols Its not under my control so I shouldn't think about it. Only think about the things that are under your control- Your looks, thoughts and personality.
/r/seduction22/09/20 03:41 PM
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That confidence thing and also this. I lost my frame and attraction to her but when I was at it the only thing I think kept her occupied for me was that I was better than her. At the mutual hobbies life wise not in looks but else they way I do and handle things was always better than her. Woman want a guy who is better than them. So that was it. I was more stable than her, more spiritually sane and never ever reacted to her games/test (which was mostly our of insecurity than my frame though, but…
/r/seduction22/09/20 04:31 AM
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Answer to me gods. I have this problem too.
/r/seduction22/09/20 04:25 AM
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I would be glad she wants to know that atleast. An opportunity to continue the Conversation. I haven't ever been asked that but I would surely say something like "I like what I see, its like mania so my brain can't help it". or "there is something about you that made me curious". Well a normal "i find you beautiful is fine but I think that'd be normal.
/r/seduction22/09/20 12:43 AM
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And one more thing. Be true to her even if she is the one initiating. Ngl it becomes boring to just text and plain unattractive if you trying flirty things witha girl you are not even seeing and not with anyone else. Your mind gets conditioned to it "I can flirt on text" later it becomes a disease that you can't open up like that face to face. Now suppose thats the only way you talk to her and one day you meet can you still be the same guy you are on text? Congruency my friend, It's more importa…
/r/seduction21/09/20 03:45 AM
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Well I would say do whatever you want with her but don't stop looking for other women. The point is don't get attached to the point that even asking other girls out seems like cheating. Have been there. In my case, I have never asked anyone out except that one girl LOL we have history so... tldr: shes a narcissistic bitch. but the love of my life cause she is the only one I have ever had a crush or had feelings for. (10 fucking years guys). Thats a story for another day haha.
/r/seduction21/09/20 03:38 AM
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