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Confidence must be broken to make significant life change. But once the path has been appropriately readjusted, by all means, build it back to delusional levels.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/24 07:47 AM
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This goes way too deep on something that’s literal common sense Don’t lose fights Don’t lose competitions Chicks dig winners
/r/TheRedPill10/08/24 11:29 PM
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Really enjoyed this. Only thing I would add is that not all women are in the secret society. The ugly and bitter are the first to judge their own.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/24 11:58 PM
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Hitting on women at the gym should be treated the same way you game girls in your social circle. Keep it friendly - you have a reputation to uphold. It's more than likely you'll bump into them again, and you can up the ante over time.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/24 06:47 AM
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That's not the point though. The rich chad with half a million followers is a complete outlier to the main population, as are the women getting flown out to him. The idea that everything we experience in life is boxed in by technology simply isn't true. The vast majority of people have phones, sure, but social media is just a tool. Most of the things we experience day to day have very little to do with technology. And the fact of the matter is, we have the choice to turn it off. The mice cannot …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/23 09:00 PM
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Sure we’re connected socially by technology, but only to the people we know. The fact that we can travel and live anywhere else in the world, meet new people, and find new environments, means that there are so many more new phenomena to experience as humans. We can experience new dangers, learn about new cultures, and interact in new languages. It’d be like adding in tunnels to the mouse utopia to almost infinite other utopias with different species of rats, climates, (a few) predators, etc. The…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/23 08:57 AM
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Easily the best reminder post I’ve read in a while. Felt myself slipping a bit from lockdown but this has whooped my ass back on track, cheers
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 06:55 AM
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Gathering from your other responses, you’re a tall fat dude with long hair with blue ends. Seriously? Blue ends? Great work with the approaches, but your number one issue is clearly appearance. You’re 6’1 so you have a great base to work with. Start by cutting your hair short to a more masculine style instead of hamstering it away as some ‘beta’ shit. You’re approaching women to fuck them, not to compare hairstyles. I can smell the insecurity in your comments about your weight. You need to face …
/r/askTRP16/06/21 05:19 AM
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Never knew how to put it into words but you sure as fuck just did
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:42 AM
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You provide some good advice. But this sub is not “anti red-pill”. You have your terms mixed up. It is quite literally the complement to our main sub, The Red Pill. You could say it is anti incel, however. OP, keep up the productivity and dedication. But remember to stay in the real world, go out with friends, talk to women. You learn far better through experience than reading.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 03:15 AM
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Happy cake day bud
/r/askTRP05/01/21 12:53 AM
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What the fuck is wrong with this sub
/r/askTRP25/11/20 01:27 AM
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Can try setting up a timer and doing photos like that, but honestly is way easier with a photographer and good quality camera
/r/askTRP19/11/20 03:00 PM
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The indisputably egocentric nature of women. At the end of the day, everything they do is to help themselves and no one else. I don’t blame them for it, it’s part of their nature. Learnt this the hard way - by trying to reason with a woman. Never do this, you can only appeal to her emotions and her world. It’s unnegotiable.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 07:50 AM
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Be more sexual and lighthearted, don’t take shit too seriously. Too much asshole game makes you unpleasant to be around. You want to be cocky funny
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:01 PM
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Head to askmrp, 2nd top post all time explains this in detail.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:40 PM
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“Hahaha, fuck off” with a smile. Not an exceptional shit test passer, but when in doubt, works with almost anything.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 01:36 AM
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Hahahahahaha
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:07 AM
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Something I’ve seen mentioned in only one other comment, but get away from electronics. Use your phone and computer as little as possible. Also, sounds like your goal is just that - a goal. You need to break it down into steps which you can take action on every day, then develop these into habits.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 09:55 AM
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Take control of your life and stop letting it being influenced by others. Don't actually want to do that favour? Enforce your boundaries.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 01:38 PM
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The reality is that there really is no point to anything we do, and you have to accept that. We’re meaningless blips in history and the universe. It’s pretty liberating to realise that you can do whatever the fuck you want and in the end, it doesn’t matter. What you have to realise is that those rich people aren’t necessarily happy. Happiness is found in the journey. That’s the reason why you grind, because every mountain you climb gives you accomplishment and long-term happiness. Enjoy the chal…
/r/askTRP16/09/20 07:06 AM
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Nerd
/r/askTRP04/09/20 11:04 PM
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NEVER mate guard. You telling her you didn’t like that shows her that you’re jealous, and have no abundance.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 12:19 PM
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You don’t need to be some huge ripped dude to get 8s or 9s at all. Just do decent cardio and lifting to get LEAN with a bit of muscle, along with a good diet
/r/askTRP29/08/20 03:34 PM
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Fuck that, bro’s before hoes
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:15 AM
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Be more proud of your past achievements. Your life probably isn’t as much of a joke as you think it is. Don’t set your goals too high. Get the audiobook for The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy, that shit is what you need right now.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 12:04 PM
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The point is you don’t want to be the guy who gossips or bitches about others, that shit’s gay. Instead you should tease girls about their gossiping and be flirty/sexual with it. Eventually you’ll get to a point where chicks gossip about you in front of you.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 04:00 AM
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As people have said, women want to be excited. Be exciting, show your energy, show that you’re a king and always having fun. More PUSH
/r/askTRP20/08/20 10:21 AM
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You played it fine. Getting into a fight is fucking dumb imo, you’re both gonna get scratched up with the possibility of injury or law getting involved, not worth it. You only fight if you can’t escape easily, or you’re some Muay Thai dude. Don’t let your pride get hurt that easily, stop getting offended by retards.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 01:10 AM
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Trust your gut. If you even slightly feel she’s cheating, she almost certainly is. Next
/r/askTRP29/07/20 03:30 PM
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Reminds me of a quote; Good times create weak men, Weak men create bad times, Bad times create strong men, Strong men create good times. Be thankful for the lazy ones because it makes it easier for you to succeed.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 03:28 PM
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You’re getting the “alpha in the moment” state. You need to encourage it more, experience it more until it becomes your norm. Go to the gym, listen to some big fucking bass music and get that shit
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:19 AM
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Roids
/r/askTRP23/07/20 01:22 PM
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Listen to music bro. Music enhances my internal validation a fuck tonne
/r/askTRP21/07/20 02:56 AM
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Keep the hamster spinning bud. Don’t reveal
/r/askTRP17/07/20 10:18 AM
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This is the shit. You GROW to become the BEST. Go GET it brother
/r/askTRP12/07/20 12:42 PM
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Could be you’re high SMV, chicks are nervous. Could also be you’re a weird cunt but who’s very likeable by the boys. You’re the judge
/r/askTRP29/06/20 03:40 AM
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Think about it from a biological perspective. 1. and 3. can be seen as the same. A male who is unfazed by the stupid shit that occurs around him will also be unfazed in the appearance of danger, so is more likely to survive. A male who is desired by multiple females must inherently be attractive. A male who is known (and desired) by multiple females AND males must inherently be a good communicator and attractive. Also shows leadership qualities. Women desire these kinds of men because they know …
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:47 AM
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Man, this isn’t a great mindset and I can see where your anxiety stems from. TRP is a toolbox, but if I can recommend something it’s that you should definitely NOT hide your emotions, except to women who are not your family. When I say that, I don’t mean become an emotionless robot to these women. These women (and all humans besides) want to feel excited, they want to feel your ENERGY. You need to have a passion, you need to have a masculine drive to ACHIEVE (lift), you need to have a strong dri…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 05:59 AM
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It’s all about the context and mental state. You need to take these drugs with a safe and trustworthy person, and you need to go into it with a curious, explorative and happy mindset. If you can release all your other emotions and barriers, you get to experience pure euphoria. Can change your life and leave a healing effect, as it did for me.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 05:52 AM
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Caps = MDMA (stimulant drug) Tabs = LSD (psychedelic/hallucinogen drug) Shrooms = Magic Mushrooms (psychedelic/hallucinogen drug)
/r/askTRP26/06/20 05:47 AM
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Nah, caps is my shit. Tabs can get uncomfortable but the energy you get with caps makes it so easy to promote that energy and inner passion within all of those around you. Plus it’s a stimulant so you can socialise with an incredibly clear head. Haven’t tried shrooms yet though, it’s on the bucket list for sure
/r/askTRP26/06/20 05:35 AM
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Yeah, it’s exactly that. The knowledge that you will succeed no matter what as proved by your previous experiences in life is what creates a strong sense of self-confidence
/r/askTRP18/06/20 07:35 AM
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You can’t rationally make yourself irrationally self-confident.... Be very good at SOMETHING, whether that be gym, your work, your passion, etc. Your confidence will rise naturally the better you are at that skill
/r/askTRP17/06/20 02:43 PM
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Netflix & chill, have something interesting in your room to show her through which you can apply kino e.g. playing guitar, then just escalate.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 06:49 AM
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Listen to comedians more. Bill burr on YouTube is great
/r/askTRP13/06/20 05:53 AM
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I don't step on anyone's toes, form genuine bonds and would rather help you have a good time rather than me. This is wrong. Focus on yourself having a good time before others. If others are doing something that you consider wrong, let them know. Don't back down on your opinions easily. don't be an asshole, make people around you comfortable, listen more, be caring, This is exactly what a passive wallflower does. Skip the caring, listening bit and make yourself the focus of the attention. If you'…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 05:59 AM
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You need to be more interesting and more of an asshole. Be more assertive in your communication. If you sit back and never offend anyone, that’s not exactly exciting is it?
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:11 PM
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If your acne gets bad you can always fix it up at the doctor’s. Doxycycline works wonders for most
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:42 AM
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This is the fucking gold. This relates a lot to Stoic philosophy and a couple other posts here of viewing yourself from a 3rd perspective, and having a 3rd person voice the actions that you take in a completely non-judgemental, factual way.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 05:06 AM
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You can attribute this more generally to the idea of risk-taking. Risk-takers are more attractive to women, risk-takers break the rules (to an extent), risk-takers have DGAF attitude.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 02:37 AM
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How worth doing is this? I have a mate from high school who is negative, plenty of shit tests, etc but I see it as practice for getting around shit tests. Although it does get to me sometimes, I’ve considered cutting off but never done it.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 04:31 AM
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Relax
/r/askTRP28/04/20 02:16 PM
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That’s a depressive and wrong answer. The purpose of dopamine is to ensure as humans we increase our chances of survival. Now that we know that, we can take advantage of it. I agree, there is no actual purpose to life, but that’s the whole point. You make your own. You decide what you want, and you make it your sole purpose to go get it.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 01:38 PM
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When you listen to a great song, what does it make you think of? You dreams, your ideas, things you want to do before you die. Do you wanna go skydiving? Hire a motorcycle and ride across America? Snort a line of coke off a hooker’s ass? Complete an Ironman? Own a huge jacuzzi? Ski down a huge mountain? Anything and everything you think of, write them down. For most of them, you’ll probably need training and a shit tonne of money. That’s how you find a purpose for grinding the shit out of your j…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 01:32 PM
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The Black Phillip Show
/r/askTRP18/02/20 08:46 AM
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These are my exact two problems
/r/askTRP29/01/20 01:27 AM
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Hahahaha fuck. For real though best advice I’ve heard yet, cheers man
/r/askTRP29/01/20 01:25 AM
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Dark side of alcohol I assume is to do with our culture of binge drinking. Sinking piss till you vomit essentially, happens in some groups. In terms of places from US, anything more recognisable is better, e.g New York, LA, Vegas, etc.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:54 AM
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Just ‘sure’ comes off as salty
/r/askTRP15/01/20 10:10 AM
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She’s seeking validation, that’s why you don’t fuck with snapchat hoes
/r/askTRP30/12/19 04:25 AM
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Sounds like you need to improve yourself before improving your social scene. Do you feel like you're making progress towards something? Are you lifting? Do you have a goal/vision of yourself for the future?
/r/askTRP19/12/19 12:51 AM
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Yeah fuck, you’re probably right. I should be maintaining frame and eye contact. Smile, kino, isolation, escalation. As I should with all women, AWALT. Same as all chicks, you win some you lose some, it’s a numbers game. Cheers for the reminder.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 12:37 PM
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Solid advice, cheers
/r/askTRP25/10/19 08:25 AM
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He’s not shitting on the name...
/r/seduction24/10/19 12:59 PM
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Women can’t tell the difference between unwarranted and warranted confidence (most of the time). Biologically, the more confident a man is in his abilities, the more likely his abilities are actually adept. So the woman is attracted to him because she thinks he can protect her, even if it’s only for show. Natural cocky-confident people are rare, it’s what some might call a ‘natural alpha’. In general, confidence is built up on small doses of success, so that’s why TRP encourages working towards …
/r/askTRP15/10/19 01:28 PM
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You did well. Your approach in this case was fairly direct however, and unless you know your SMV is decently higher than hers you shouldn’t mention the idea of kissing/sex, it should be subtly implied. If you had isolated you easily could’ve escalated to making out, etc, just be less direct.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 05:52 AM
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Pretty much every part of TRP works. That’s why there’s a forum for it. And look, if you still consider yourself an introvert, then you’ll never get to the stage you’re trying to get to. It’s like you’ve stuck a nail in your head that you’re “hard-wired this way” and every time you think of yourself as introverted you’re just pushing it deeper and deeper. Once you start thinking of yourself as more extroverted and putting yourself out there, things will change. The point of TRP is to change your…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 04:53 PM
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The training of my brain to react in a different way when approaching is especially true. I’ll keep these ideas in mind next time I’m out. Cheers for the long response!
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:02 AM
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worded it wrong, edited.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 01:14 PM
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Take a gap year, earn some money and travel. Brainstorm for places to go, if you have enough money for a plane ticket and a visa you can work in another country and build your character as a person whilst getting away from home. It’ll be uncomfortable at the start but by the end you’ll have built up a lot of social skills and confidence, and not to mention you’ll have saved up some money. At the end of the year you’ll be able to make a better decision on where to go forward in life and what uni …
/r/askTRP13/09/19 11:13 AM
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Don’t take life too seriously, you’re in high school so the only thing that you should really focus on is getting decent grades. Fuck around with chicks at school, but be a little careful with consent laws and age and all. Just take it easy and have fun with your mates while it lasts.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 11:03 AM
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She’s probably used to having all the attention, and now you’ve taken it from her. You’re the top shit now, keep doing what you’re doing.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:21 AM
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She’s trying to prove her self-worth to you. It’s an IOI, make a move
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:21 AM
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Best advice for this is practice, practice, practice. You can have all the knowledge in the world but if you don’t apply it then you’ll never truly understand it. You’ve clearly been making some efforts. But the reality is that it’s a grind. Keep approaching, get the number of approaches up to 100, do whatever it takes to get over this barrier. You don’t really need a specific place to approach. At night alone is creepy, sure, but pretty much anywhere during the day is fine. Public is nice - pla…
/r/askTRP27/08/19 01:16 PM
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Having a car is better than having no car. Having a nice car is better than having a shit car.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 12:53 PM
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You’re 6 foot and complaining about taller guys? How do you think it must be for guys who are 5’4 or shorter? You’re spending too much time looking at the top 5-10% of the male population. You need to realise that you’re way above so many other guys by the sounds of it, six foot and having undergone a lot of cosmetic treatment you’d be up there. Not only that but you’re only 20, you’ve got plenty of time to continue increasing your SMV for the future. The red pill is a grind, and it sounds like …
/r/askTRP21/08/19 06:25 AM
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Laugh and amplify it, always keep a smile on your face
/r/askTRP03/08/19 05:48 AM
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It’s the basic advice of wearing tight clothes. You’re right, if you have tree trunks for legs then you’re not gonna wear skinny jeans. If you have more average/smaller legs then skinny jeans are the way to go.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 06:38 PM
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I didn’t read in depth, but from the general vibe I’m getting it seems that your biggest problem is a lack of passion. What do you enjoy doing, so that you could keep doing it on end and still enjoy it? (Besides chicks and drugs, and hopefully not gaming) If you haven’t found this yet (and it’s never too late) then go and try a ton of new things until you find something that you enjoy and that you think you can work towards. In my experience rockclimbing and bouldering are a great one, you can e…
/r/askTRP18/06/19 01:51 PM
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It’s not just about being unpredictable, it’s about taking risks. A man who takes more risks is seen as more confident and is more attractive to women.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 01:34 PM
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This sounds good. Just make sure you do it in moderation. Everyday is too much, you shouldn’t be posting a story unless it’s a great highlight of your life.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 12:52 PM
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“Bitch, I don’t need no gold stars from you”
/r/askTRP17/06/19 12:41 PM
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Good shit
/r/seduction16/06/19 08:17 AM
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Those are called IOIs (indicators of interest). Read the sidebar as previously mentioned, it’ll tell you everything you need to know.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 08:11 AM
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Hahaha, you assume to know the shit I’ve been through? I was once similar to you and I recognised how shit my life was. So I made the effort and changed. You can too.
/r/seduction16/06/19 04:04 AM
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Then make yourself higher than average.
/r/seduction16/06/19 03:53 AM
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So you’re basically obsessed with a girl you’ve hardly seen in person and who you’ve been pursuing without a single date since January? Get your head out of your ass. Never text her again. Talk to people in person.
/r/seduction15/06/19 01:26 PM
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If you’re talking about frame, then sure, you can admire his strong frame. But the reality is he’s at the top of the world after having worked hard in the gym for years. Of course he’s going to have a strong frame. I’d even go so far as to say every NBA player has a strong frame. The point is, he’s a 6 foot+ jacked basketball player, and you probably are not. So, how are you going to replicate his frame?
/r/askTRP15/06/19 06:30 AM
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Showing respect is completely different to being a snowflake. I can strongly say someone is completely fucking wrong, like you, but I can respect your opinion.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 01:32 AM
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Never considered videos before, but I’ll check it out.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 01:22 AM
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I’ll have a look. Cheers
/r/askTRP14/06/19 01:21 AM
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Great, I’ll look into that. Cheers for the advice!
/r/askTRP14/06/19 01:20 AM
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Wow, couldn’t have asked for a better reply. It’s exactly that - I’m looking for a red pill book about conversation. But as you said, I strongly suspect I won’t find it. Probably because nothing beats real world experience. Not sure why but I never really correlated leadership with TRP, but that’s essentially what it’s preparing you to be. You’re right, I should be looking for books on leadership. But, you sound like you’ve read those two books I mentioned. I’m very young, do you think it’s wort…
/r/askTRP13/06/19 02:16 PM
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Cheers for the response. I’ve read some advice similar to your yours, but the idea is I wanna understand the theory of conversation and then follow your advice, go to more social events, etc after that. Although, it might just be my subconscious trying to put off an uncomfortable task.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 02:00 PM
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They might’ve thought you looked like someone they knew, who knows. Stop getting butt hurt over nothing, you’re never gonna see them again so who cares
/r/seduction12/06/19 12:52 PM
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I actually agree with you in principle, but your reasoning is wrong. OP has no chance using social media, and should delete it.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 12:30 PM
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“Be different” isn’t a reason for why he shouldn’t use it. If he can get lays from it with a relatively small amount of effort then he most definitely should use it. You’re telling him to spend his time at college studying the whole time? Bullshit. He should be gaming women at the same time. Easily some of the best experiences can be had at a college age, and a high SMV can only be a useful advantage for fucking chicks his age.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 12:11 PM
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It’s biologically-wired within us. In life, most men desire two things; power and women. TRP shows us the path required to achieve these two things, we must make the effort and walk it. But, some people, including you, may not feel these drives as strongly as others. You can easily derive your happiness in other ways. If you feel that you’re happy the way you are living, then so be it, you don’t need to change.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 01:03 PM
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This really isn’t helping him out at all. He clearly understands his mistake.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 08:08 AM
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Try and include a TL;DR, but other than that this was a satisfying read. Congrats and keep going.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 02:31 PM
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Get your head out of your ass dude
/r/seduction28/05/19 09:59 AM
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The point is he’s bored of doing what you’re describing, so I’m saying he should try to advance to more fun and interesting topics to stay engaged at parties.
/r/seduction21/04/19 02:49 PM
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Holy shit, I have the exact same problem. Unfortunately small talk will always be a part of it, you have to learn to love it but I would also recommend learning how to move quickly from small talk to more juicy stuff. What I mean by that is move from the “What subjects are you doing?” shit to more of “What’s the furthest you’ve gone with a guy, etc etc”. Create some tension or emotion in the conversation and it becomes interesting.
/r/seduction20/04/19 08:01 AM
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