sweetcrunchycrunch Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Getting hot girls seems so difficult. Yes, and if you do this, you’re objectifying them—and it interrupts any real connection that may have been developing. Also if everything reflects back onto you, that’s the hall of mirrors and you are a narcissist. No one else even exists in that world. Other people are human beings.	/r/seduction	11/01/25 09:19 AM
0	The economics of dating as a man: when you should be paying for the girl Umm. I don’t even know where to start. I feel like this is the most insane rant I have ever read but for someone who “doesn’t like transactional relationships,” you certainly objectify women and consider every detail of every possible transaction. I disagree with virtually every word you have written, but this is a values issues. Humans are not commodities, bro. This was gross to read.	/r/seduction	11/01/25 09:12 AM
3	Husband confessed to me I believe I read that in the book “His Needs, Her Needs.” I’m sure there’s a reference. https://www.amazon.com/s?k=his+needs+%2F+her+needs&i=stripbooks&adgrpid=56844594915&hvadid=580830017191&hvdev=m&hvlocphy=9032935&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=3124209033327043341&hvtargid=kwd-338632395483&hydadcr=15152_13523060&tag=hydsma-20&ref=pd_sl_7raokp2xr6_e	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/24 06:42 PM
6	Husband confessed to me Well, please give us an update down the road. If he never initiates, that’s also revealing an issue with him. At least he is coming to you with honesty. I hope you and your husband are able to communicate and solve this.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/24 05:37 AM
3	How do you stay no sex until he asks for a relationship? Yes, agreed, and I notice the person you’re replying to, while they state up and down they have all this empathy, aren’t capable of this level of perspective taking. IME anyone who has to talk about how empathetic they are, isn’t empathetic. It’s something you show, not tell. Like the classic, “Trust me.” People who inspire real trust don’t have to say it.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/24 05:03 AM
7	Husband confessed to me Yes, I have heard of sex therapists putting testosterone patches on women (with consent) just so women can feel what it’s like to walk around with that much testosterone in their system. And women are shocked beyond belief to realize that the male sex drive really is that different and stronger. It’s not an excuse for men to cheat but a woman deprioritizing sex to this degree is not healthy in a marriage. It really makes me feel there are deeper root issues here.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/24 04:46 AM
11	Husband confessed to me Yeah, I agree. This is an incredibly dismissive and invalidating response that borders closely on emotional abuse. It’s a very unempathetic and dehumanizing response.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/24 04:41 AM
10	Husband confessed to me If you care about your marriage and husband (and children), you should make time for sex. Once a week is super minimal. Once a month is begging for infidelity or divorce. I don’t think childcare is a valid excuse; I think it’s a justification.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/24 04:39 AM