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Hard to say as an outsider, could just be that it's your place he's moving into instead of his own
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 10:53 PM
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Being restricted in that regard is the nature of a relationship and eventually a marriage. If this is a problem for him he should remain single or find someone who wants to share him with other women. It seems like you have no issue with that so I don't understand what the problem is.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 10:40 PM
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And what are your thoughts?
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 10:27 PM
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Is he asking for your permission to sleep with other people?
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 10:20 PM
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This discord seems to have a weird focus on sex, not sure its for me
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/23 05:39 PM
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Weight could definitely be a big factor. When I was struggling with anorexia and gaining weight I also felt asexual but this changed as I got healthier.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/23 11:38 AM
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There's not much I can offer other than saying you should communicate your feelings to him and through his response decide how to move forward.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 06:19 PM
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Have you expressed your discomfort to him?
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 06:10 PM
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Very much agreed
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/23 11:07 PM
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I don't believe that is what I said. Very normal to develop feelings at that stage but I would wonder why he hasn't said it yet as men are usually direct. This being the case I would hold off until I know he is ready, to give him time and not suffocate him. 6 months is still early enough in my opinion to allow things to be as they are. Depending of course as I said on her personal view of the intimacy of her relationship and I wouldn't want any woman to waste time on someone who isn't invested.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/23 02:17 AM
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I understand what you are saying however I know what has worked for me in relationships and what hasn't. It's not about being hard to get but not appearing too desperate or coming on too strong. Not to say that sharing your feelings is desperate but in those first few milestones in a relationship I wait for the green light before I share that part of myself.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/23 01:15 AM
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Just my experience that men like to take charge of the progression of the relationship, asking you out, solidifying feelings etc
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/23 12:25 AM
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I think you made the mistake of telling him how you feel before he did. In my experience if a man is ready to say it he'll say it and by making that first move you can almost guarantee disappointment. What I would consider moving forward is how intimate your relationship is now both physically and emotionally. When these have hit their peak one would assume that love is also involved. You can give him more time if you feel like it's needed however keep in mind that like he put in his own words, …
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 03:58 PM
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What did he suggest if not dinner?
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/22 09:54 PM
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Something I value highly in a man is self control. That's all I'll say on that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 03:20 PM
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Usually not but in most cases they don't even give me a chance to haha
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/22 04:15 PM
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I feel the same. Even by modern standards I don't think it's entitled to expect the person who invited you out to pay. It feels like I'm not only lowering my standards but emasculating my date.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/22 12:09 AM
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Whatever you feel most comfortable with. Personally I don't offer and if my date takes that as entitled that says everything I need to know about him.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/22 12:00 AM
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From reading your other comments I guess its okay to acknowledge that while maybe this works for her relationship that doesn't necessarily mean it'll work for you
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/22 12:55 PM
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I think there is a difference between being playfully rude and publicly disrespectful. I do find that men appreciate my bluntness and sarcastic humour but it's important not to take it too far.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/22 11:01 AM
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I think you should give it some time to figure out if you really have a desire for him or the attention he used to give you. Not to bash you, its a completely normal response in these situations but the feelings will likely go away once he turns his attention towards you again. Just something to keep in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/22 12:31 AM
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You are trying to appease him so he finally commits to you or at the very least doesn't leave you even though he's made it clear he doesn't want the same things as you. Allowing yourself into a situation like this shows a lack of self respect and self love. The fact that you are aware of the situation makes it worse, not better.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 03:46 PM
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Im going to be blunt, I cant see a potential future partner wanting to be with a woman who allows herself to be emotionally and physically used by men who have no desire to commit to her.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 03:25 PM
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Why do you want to be okay with that?
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 02:56 PM
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You shouldn't have put yourself in this situation in the first place. It's completely reasonable for your boyfriend to set this boundary, that is his friend after all. The only thing to do in this situation is to back off and not feel bitter about it
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 09:07 AM
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Firstly, porn is not natural and normal. We have allowed ourselves to believe this for too long when all it does is damage our minds and relationships. If he has been messaging other women sexually and seeking them out on instagram he has betrayed your trust and you should seriously reconsider your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 10:13 AM
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My first thought was that they don't like your fiance
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/22 05:58 AM
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please, please do not listen to them. Their idea of sex has been warped by the world we live in now and I guarantee you they envy the self respect you have and thats why they act that way. You shouldn’t be embarrassed or ashamed for having standards, that is something to be proud of.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 06:34 AM
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