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Yes it's true! There was a study that showed that heterosexual women were more aroused at photos of nude women than nude men, I think the "most women are bisexual" thing is actually true if you define bisexuality as "being turned on by both men and women". However, most of these women consider themselves straight and not bi because: 1) They're hetero-romantic. They don't get crushes on girls or want to date girls like they do to men. 2) Despite the sight of the female form sparking arousal, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 01:26 AM
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I can't believe man-babies like this exist, and also the women who put up with it! And apparently it's not uncommon at all. What the fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 10:51 PM
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Your man honestly sounds great based on what you've described. It's normal to wonder what else is out there but why let mere curiosity ruin something good you have? There's this saying, "no one is going to 100% of what you want, but you'll find someone who is 80% of what you want. don't leave that person to chase someone who has the other 20%." He has invested a lot in you and unless a serious red flag or issue of incompatibility rises in the relationship, I personally think you should stay with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 11:57 AM
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I would rather just adopt Hell no. I'm not going to raise another man's child, put in all my effort and resources into raising it. Wtf?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 11:26 AM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 06:54 AM
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I'm similar to you that I'm also a virgin, and I was exposed to porn/masturbation at 9-10. I'm actually religious (I don't like mentioning that on this sub because I feel like some people here will call me a pickmeisha who is brainwashed by patriarchal bullshit used to control women), so that plays a role in my reason to want to stop. Another is that when I envision a healthy loving relationship, I would very strongly prefer a man who doesn't have a porn habit, and it will be hypocritical of me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 12:24 PM
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If you are attracted to short men and they have HVM qualities then go for it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:22 AM
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I'm kind of in the same page as you, trying to stop and all. However watching porn actually made me feel more confident and comfortable in my body? I used to be really insecure and I always envisioned women in porn to look a certain unattainable way, but when I actually starting watch porn, it was like "Oh, my body looks kinda like that! I thought I needed to be more xyz, but the comments in this video are all complimenting and praising her body- guess my body is not so bad after all!". That's o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:19 AM
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Another thing I want to say is this: : Men have been lying and manipulating women for centuries to "put out" - you know, the time-honored practice of "pump-and-dump", "smash-and-dash", "hit-it-and-quit-it"- so why is women lying to retain commitment any worse? FDS isn't even advocating for straight-up-lying and being deceptive, but rather keeping personal details to yourself (look at the comments).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:47 AM
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Because men think our vaginas should always have the same standards of entry at all times at every point in our life because we’re not allowed to ever demand better treatment than we naively accepted in the past This one cuts deep. Although it's not applicable to me personally as I'm still a virgin (not in a rush to loose it, I have personal reasons), but it pisses me right off when men say "if she slept with x on the first date, she doesn't have the right to wait x dates for me" - it really sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 07:29 AM
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FUCKING PREAAACH. I literally did this the other day and made him feel like a major creep. I made sure I spoke loudly too so people around us could hear us and give him dirty looks. These guys need to be shamed and publicly humiliated. Where the fuck do 30+ year olds get the confidence to approach me?!!?! I'm fucking 19. No thanks, uncle. Sit your delusional old ass down. You're 100% right that a lot of girls are too agreeable, not assertive enough, and worried about being seen as "rude", but yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 07:13 AM
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You should bring up the fact that >95% of rapists, murderers etc., are men. Then when they get defensive about that not representing them, ask: if they don't want to take accountability for the BAD things other men have done, why do they think they can take credit for the GOOD things other men have done?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 10:36 PM
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I think the FDS rules are a great general guideline to follow This is exactly it. I think ANY strategy and mentality, no matter how good and true it is, can be toxic if taken way too religiously and zealously. But that’s not the fault of the strategy or mentality at that point. Know balance, and how to read a certain situation and context instead of being weirdly cold and calculated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 02:02 AM
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He called having sex with him a “sacrifice” hahahhaha. His own words. Not an enjoyable mutually desired activity. These men know they are undesirable lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 01:55 AM
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Hopefully men will understand, no matter how many false stories they write, how hard they try to make people hate this sub, how much they twist our words, we will continue to grow. We will have many more women joining us and seeing the truth. We’ll have more subscribers than r/redpillwomen soon 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 01:45 AM
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“Well, it makes me feel bad. Having sex with me should be enough for you. Why do you need that?” should have told him to stop watching porn then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 12:26 AM
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I wish we had a sub where we could post the most ludicrous of their rants. r/manotears ? And funnily enough, my small boobs is one of the things I’ve always liked about myself physically. I have a lot of insecurities - such as certain facial features etc, but my boobs is one of those things I feel like I’m “supposed” to be insecure about (because they’re small), but I’m just... not? My boobs still look feminine and sexy - they’re boobs! And I don’t have the back pain and other problems that come…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 01:07 PM
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Lmaooooo, I'm definitely doing this next time 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 02:31 AM
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Yeah, that is true as well. I think people like feeling like they have control over their lives and what happens to them, which kind of motivates this sub. Although these strategies can certainly help reduce the chances of being victim to unfortunate scenarios and filter out toxic men, but there is no magical strategy that will keep you 100% safe from any harm or failure while dating. Mistreat can happen to anyone, even if they're doing everything right, and it's important not to victim-blame wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 02:24 AM
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B-but I thought men wanted a dainty submissive obedient women? Watch what they do, not what they say. My real life experiences also agree that men like women who play the "dominant" role - they like the chase, the fact that they have to woo her, the not-so-quickly-attainable appeal. When you hear men say they don't like "strong independent women", what they often mean is they don't like obnoxious behavior and lack of grace/elegance/femininity in appearance etc. They are definitely attracted to a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 09:44 PM
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That's where I was getting at!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 09:13 PM
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The strength in withholding sex until commitment is that you should be dating other people, not pining for this one dude's commitment. He should be well aware that he has competition, you have other options and you'll drop his ass in a heartbeat if he messes up just once. YESSSSS Agree! Very true. I think I had a certain scenario in mind while writing this and didn't put the words properly (I'm not great at writing/explaining). I guess this advice is suited more towards women who become attached…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 09:12 PM
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I agree! I think I phrased a lot of things badly and maybe didn't get my point across the way I wanted. I came across that extract from that book and thought some girls could use from that advice - that waiting for sex isn't the one big magical key to unlock long-term commitment, and that your fear and desperation of losing him can counter that. Some women have extreme fears around having sex too soon (they think it ruins them or makes them less- it doesn't) and the fear of lack of commitment, t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 09:03 PM
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I’m also a virgin, and yeah at first it hurts a lot to stick something in, but after a few clitorial orgasms, when you’re super aroused, and maybe with the help of some lubricant, penetration / fingering feels sooo freaking good. I was always horny as fuck throughout my teens tho, and the thought of having sex with classmates that I was attracted to and hot guys in general was arousing to me personally. Thoughts of making out / foreplay / dirty talk etc, is waayyyy more arousing to me than just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 01:57 AM
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10000% agree, this is also my situation/feelings to a T
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 01:39 AM
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Ain’t your mama - JLo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 11:55 PM
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Exactly! This sub isn’t about getting male attention - that’s the easy part, it’s about filtering out low-quality males and attracting and retaining high-value males. And it’s weird how they insist that only unattractive woman are on FDS; there’s all kids of women on here. I’ve seen what a frequent poster and mod on here who always triggers the males looks like, on discord and she is so stunning! Some of my most gorgeous friends, literal perfect Stacies, get treated like shit and cheated on by t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 05:35 AM
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As a 19 year old virgin, why in the world would I want a marry a 30 year old??? Actually, why would I even want to marry and have kids at this age? What’s in it for me? To willingly commit to a life of servitude and waste my youth? Most girls my age I know just want to have fun and settle down in their late 20s to early 30s. The “advantage” a late 20s to early 30s woman has, asides from being able to provide for herself, more life experience and knowledge to raise kids and maturity for emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 04:31 AM
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Probably because those women watch porn too??? An estimated 30% of porn users are women; around 1 in 3, not exactly an anomaly. I get that the abusive and hardcore porn is problematic but the irony is these categories are more popular among women who watch porn, not men. Here is a another chart that compares popular categories among men and women. I'm not pro-porn (I'm trying to break my porn habit) but it's silly to act like all female porn sympathizers are Pick Me's who want male validation wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 05:46 AM
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WELL SAID. The most logical comment on here, can't believe you are being down-voted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 03:58 AM
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EXACTLY! Men can give a list of what what they theoretically want, but at the end of the day most of them think with their dicks. They drop all their standards for a beautiful woman who looks their way, because beauty is the ONLY thing that matters for men, barely anything else. Give the men who are zealous about only wanting virgins a stunningly beautiful woman who has had previous sexual partners, or a acne-ridden out-of-shape virgin, and see who they fall in love with lmao. Also, I remember f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 01:09 AM
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Loser men on reddit telling women over 30 that they are used up, not marriage material, etc in an attempt to make women insecure, lower their self-worth and standards, meanwhile, the literal prince who could have married any girl in the world married a 38 year old divorced woman LMAOOOOO I thought every guy wanted a 18-22 year old virgin and the only reason they don't is because they are forced to settle ??? how ever will these poor men cope with their revenge fantasies now ???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 12:13 PM
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Yaya Dacosta Dang she is one gorgeous woman 😍😍😍 I love her natural hair 🔥💯
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:18 PM
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I can't really pinpoint specific features and I don't really know how to analyze facial aesthetics but when I look at him, I feel sexual attraction and think "damn he's hot as fuck" so yeah, not much more to it really
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 11:48 AM
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Cole & Dylan Sprouse, Tyler Posey, Trey Songz, Cameron Dallas, Young Leonardo Di Caprio (I think almost everyone agrees with this one lol), Mikey Foster from Social House, oh and the guys from BTS are hot af too, especially Jungkook. Chris Brown is hot as hell, so is Drake. I agree that Channing Tatum ain't all that though, I don't find him attractive at all tbh, don't know what's the hype about him. IRL I can usually tell an a guy is hot from just looking at the back of him, broad shoulders is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 09:12 AM
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Lmaooo this is brilliant hahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 08:07 AM
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And I keep answering that question. I keep telling you, Maybe I missed it, but I don't think you said that men believe that male decency should ideally be rewarded with female beauty because women/society told them, but rather because of Karma and the human desire for a sense of justice. That's why I responded why men don't consider an unattractive man with a kind personality pairing with an unattractive woman with a kind personality "just" as it seems more logical. Edit: Never-mind, I missed a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 06:45 AM
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Thanks for sharing your story in so much depth, I appreciate your POV. When I said a "good" woman, I meant one with a kind personality. Wouldn't the "just" pairing for an unattractive man with a kind personality be an unattractive woman with a kind personality? Men saying it's unjust for good-looking guys who don't have their shit together or are assholes to attract beautiful women implies that they believe it's "just" for female beauty to be paired first and foremost with male decency, not male…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:14 AM
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Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 02:43 AM
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"I'm a good man. I'm kind and decent to others, I have a good job, I'm not fat, I try to dress well and be social, how is it fair that the only women who are ever attracted to me are not fit, or are ugly?" This is kind of my point. If a man is only attracting ugly women, chances are he is not so good-looking himself either. Why do so many men think that it's "just" for male decency (i.e. being physically fit, having a job and social life, being a good person - basically the bare minimum) to be "…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 02:40 AM
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I feel like many of them actually believe they aren't going for super attractive women because they're going for the introvert bookworm Stacy with glasses instead of the blonde bombshell cheerleader Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 01:53 AM
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What I meant by "decency" is having a kind personality, being physically healthy, hygienic, and having some ambition/direction in life (e.g. job) etc. Didn't know what other word to use sorry, hope you get my point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 12:20 PM
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Perfectly said, especially points 2,4&5.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 02:11 PM
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That’s exactly right. I’m 18 and I know many women my age that say they like “older men”- they mean 20-23 year olds, in fact we all agree that if he’s older than 27, it gets kinda creepy. I don’t know why 30+ year old men on here think young adult women are so into them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 12:53 PM
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