sweetnumb Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	How Do I Get A Woman to Remove her Mustache?		sweetnumb	/r/seduction	26/06/12 04:56 AM

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1	Planning Dates Leads To Sex A lot of this makes sense for living life in general. Though I prefer to have general ideas with lots of spontaneity. I find that I get the most satisfaction from being in the present moment myself rather than trying to stick with plans that I may no longer be in the mood for. Granted, if you're looking for strictly penis in vag, then great planning tends to lead to the most of that, but for me it's way more fun to not give a fuck how it turns out. I've gained a lot more valuable experiences fro…	/r/seduction	05/07/17 06:41 AM
2	Best way to cure approach anxiety Yeah, I would definitely pay for a dating coach if there was one in my area (at least if I could afford it). Thing is it's impossible for me to ever fully give up on this or be satisfied with my life until I've conquered this fear. I really need to take control of my god damn life. There will NEVER be a better day than today. It's a small step, but today I'll sit down for 30+ seconds on a busy sidewalk and continue with the challenges afterwards. Fuck this shit. I'd rather face any possible nega…	/r/seduction	28/03/17 05:33 PM
2	Best way to cure approach anxiety It's not so bad. Although it seems a bit misleading when they say a busy street, basically just find a sidewalk with decent foot traffic. When most people think of laying down in the street they'd think of cars being able to run them over n' shit lol. The nice thing about it though is you don't have to talk to anyone for the first challenge. You can just go to the mall (or some sidewalk if it's nice outside) and just lay down with your hands behind your head. You can even try to zone out and pre…	/r/seduction	28/03/17 05:15 PM
2	Best way to cure approach anxiety I'm in this exact same boat. Logically I know how completely ridiculous this all is, but I fucking cannot approach. I've basically given up on it now, and kinda given up on life. I wish people knew how stupid all these "just do it" comments are, don't you think I fucking know that already? If I had the mind-set where I could do that then I would have done it already and I wouldn't be asking for advice. I'm interested in this Comfort Zone Crusher program I found through a Ted talk though. Hard to…	/r/seduction	27/03/17 03:58 PM
2	The Real Reason You Don't Think You Deserve A Perfect 10 To escape this cycle, you must get evidence that you are attractive to beautiful women. Yes, absolutely! How? Finally, please teach me how to be confident enough to approach! By approaching them Oh...	/r/seduction	15/03/17 04:29 PM
1	5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned. By any reasonable measure I'm damn successful on a material/financial level, and let me tell you, it doesn't help shit. I did way better in college because I was actually happy and optimistic about life. Now I have no friends and no human connection of any kind. I have all these cool things to do in my house and nobody to do any of them with. I really just want to squash the myth that wealth matters at all. The only success it could help you with are the women that are specifically looking to ge…	/r/seduction	19/02/17 03:24 PM
3	If you're failing with girls... do this one thing. I'm not confident because I have zero close friends and I've been bad with women lately... but I'm bad with women and have no friends because I'm not confident... Everything in my life is awesome except that I have no connections with anyone, which basically means my life is shit and I'm constantly hoping a meteor lands on my head just to finally end it all. Even though it's a self-fulfilling prophecy, actually BECAUSE it's a self-fulfilling prophecy is why I'm so depressed about it. How does on…	/r/seduction	19/02/17 03:07 PM
3	Why Women Don't Give a Shit About Looks Why is this getting upvoted? They really don't, AT ALL. If they did then people who sell pickup stuff could make a lot more money by selling "pickup for fat guys, pickup for skinny guys, pickup for greek gods, etc.." If you're a guy, the only thing looks do is give you a reason to whine and bitch about your lack of success while having no basis in reality.	/r/seduction	21/11/16 11:13 PM
3	"Are you free this week?" = no response. "I'm going to X at X time. Care to join?" = immediate response. Fuck that shit. I'm talking to the girl because I'm interested in her and I want to get to know her better. Sure if im interested in a particular activity and it seems like she would be as well then this could make sense, but otherwise just be a fucking man about it. Establish something in the conversation you both like doing. "Fuck yea bowling is awesome, im going to kick your ass though, when are you free for this beatdown?" Then you guys work out when you're both free... you know... like norm…	/r/seduction	12/10/16 01:32 PM
4	I beat aproach axiety, but I don't know what to do next. Says you, fuck I would love to be able to do that.	/r/seduction	08/10/16 08:00 PM
3	Quitting binge drinking. Effective yesterday. Good on you! Though depending on exactly how much you were drinking you'll want to be careful with how you quit, as going cold turkey can cause significant withdrawal symptoms (even death, apparently). Though hopefully you've already looked into this and this isn't any new information for you. Anyway just hope you're careful and good luck dude!	/r/seduction	04/10/16 07:54 PM
1	I think we talk a lot about what we are good at to share our own advice, what I am curious about is what are you guys STILL struggling with? Yeah no worries, wasn't really expecting an answer that would make me go "oh holy shit, it all clicks now and I'm now a god with approaching" or anything like that, just figured I'd vent my frustration in case others are in the same boat. No matter what, I WILL get this area of my life handled. I just fucking HAVE TO, so I'll find a way that is 100% for sure. But yeah I've posted in a few areas trying to look for wingmen, but I guess I haven't yet found the right place. I did get one response fr…	/r/seduction	20/09/16 10:00 PM
2	I think we talk a lot about what we are good at to share our own advice, what I am curious about is what are you guys STILL struggling with? It doesn't seem to make a difference to me as far as their attractiveness goes or whether it's a guy or girl. There was one time on the bus I saw a guy playing this cool game on his phone and I wanted to ask him what it was, and I was only one row behind so it would have been super easy, but I pussied out even on that. Though overall I don't try or think about talking to dudes or unattractive women as much obviously, but when I want to do that I seem incapable as well. I've even risked injury at…	/r/seduction	20/09/16 08:40 PM
6	I think we talk a lot about what we are good at to share our own advice, what I am curious about is what are you guys STILL struggling with? I still can't fucking approach and it pisses me off. Our life is so short, it would make her day, there's ZERO reasons not to, we're just some insignificant nothing rock going through space and what's the harm in talking to someone? I feel like I should be committing myself to an insane asylum for how retarded it is that I don't approach girls. It's not even that I don't know what I'd say... I know EXACTLY what I'd say, and I know that it would probably be well-received. I get along with people …	/r/seduction	20/09/16 07:41 PM
4	Infographic: 9 Biggest Turn-Offs For Women Nothing wrong with not wanting to hear it, but it's good to find that kind of thing out early anyway. One of the biggest problems is that people aren't honest from the beginning, so they present themselves as this idealized version, but then it's not until later that problems start cropping up in the relationship because at some point they revert back to being themselves again. May as well just be yourself from the beginning and save both parties a lot of time and frustration. And yes, if you ar…	/r/seduction	19/09/16 06:50 PM
5	Infographic: 9 Biggest Turn-Offs For Women All of these make sense except for the vulgar language part. I talk how I talk and I'm not going to censor myself (which is basically lying/misrepresenting myself) just because some women won't be mature enough to handle it.	/r/seduction	19/09/16 04:04 PM
1	NEED PICKUP WINGS TO TAKE OVER DETROIT WITH ! Would it be too far of a drive to head to Ann Arbor? Or perhaps somewhere in between. I'd also love to go out with like-minded individuals but it seems hard to find direct/genuine people into this around here.	/r/seduction	16/09/16 05:11 AM
1	12 Things You Might Be Doing Wrong Yeah honestly I read the first one and was like "welllll this list obviously doesn't apply to me; next post." I have two major sticking points and the biggest of them is just approaching in the first place. I finally approached for the first time a couple months ago and it was so stupid I was like "what the fuck are you serious at how EASY this shit is?!" Yet I still can't approach. I happened to be too intoxicated and just feeling particularly baller that night in a rare combination. Anyway I d…	/r/seduction	16/09/16 05:06 AM
2	How do you avoid beeing "that guy that hits in every girl" The only way you will be the "creepy guy, hitting on all women" is when you act like one, for instance: "wanna fuck?" bad example but i think you get the point. Classic amateur move. Anyone who knows anything about women will know that you tell them they have nice shoes first, THEN you ask that.	/r/seduction	26/05/16 02:53 PM
8	Kissing a girl in 3 minutes - Liam McRae Infield Kiss a dude's dick instead, keep her guessing.	/r/seduction	05/04/16 07:36 PM
2	'You're the best I've ever had.' - Blow a Girl's Mind By Eating Her Out Am I the only one wondering about Step 4?	/r/seduction	04/04/16 09:56 PM
39	Haven't seen this tip on here, so I'll share it with y'all: Take girls on dates in the rain Fuck it, why not? Just say you're protecting her from the sun. Or from electromagnetic waves if it's night time.	/r/seduction	15/02/16 09:18 PM
10	What do you think about lying during PU? Fuck you mother fucker, I'm sick of people degrading my profession all the time by assuming it's just a joke!	/r/seduction	08/09/15 10:53 PM
3	How do you guys get over the nagging feeling that some girls are just too attractive for you? Thanks, now you just made me asexual.	/r/seduction	26/05/15 11:17 PM
16	Whenever I'm around guys that seem more "alpha" than me, I turn beta as shit. Disregard females. Acquire bananas.	/r/seduction	21/10/12 11:09 AM
0	I am attracted to too few girls... Help! Except a fap.	/r/seduction	23/09/12 06:13 PM
22	I'm a girl, and I think some of the PUA techniques are bad news. Hear me out. I actually think it would be really interesting to hear a fish's perspective on things. You could engage in casual conversation with it and figure out ways they use to avoid the fishermen that they don't even know about. Just don't ask a fish who doesn't know what they're talking about.	/r/seduction	18/08/12 05:11 AM
1	How Do I Get A Woman to Remove her Mustache? Irony.	/r/seduction	26/06/12 02:38 PM