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This is very refreshing to read!
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/14 05:33 AM
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My past relationship left me pretty insecure and anxious. I feel like I've been a lot more sensitive and I over think/analyze everything with my current bf. I've been doing a lot more introspection/self awareness/self analyzing so I can keep myself in check. What's been helping is writing and keeping myself busy. And I've also been working out more so I can be a confident sexy woman for my man :]
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/14 05:54 PM
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Sorry I'm still trying to get used to reddit and I did not see your post! I noticed when I am unhappy it was because I made myself unhappy. I thought my unhappiness came from my environment, friends, bf, etc (sometimes it was) but a lot of it was brought on from me. I've been trying to do a lot more introspection. Honestly, it's not easy. I am a pretty emotional and sensitive person. Recently I realized how insecure I am and how my past relationship made such an impact on me. For the sake of my …
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 04:12 PM
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I second with looking for good qualities. I like to write down the qualities/things my bf does for me as a reminder to myself. Sometimes I think it's easy for women to get caught up in our emotions and our personal desires that we forget to look at the good things our SO's do for us and their positive qualities.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 07:05 PM
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Maybe you can guide by example: tell him you would like to do something for him (tell him the date so he knows and maybe this will build some excitement and anticipation) and take him on a surprise picnic or have a special dinner prepared and set up before he comes home.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 07:02 PM
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Hahaha is it hobbitish? :p
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 06:24 PM
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I told my bf how I have thick hair and it's annoying sleeping with wet hair. I mentioned how he should get a blow dryer for his apartment. He messaged me one day and he told me he got one. I was so happy and a bit speechless because with my ex, I mentioned it couple of times and he never got one. The one time he did get a blow dryer, it was for his friend who needed one so he got one for her for Christmas. I remember seeing the blow dryer and I thought it was for me and I was really upset when i…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 05:40 PM
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I always ask my friends: do you except them for everything they are and everything they're not? Do you care for them? Do you still want them? If the answer is yes and they feel the same way about you, then I think any hiccups you guys can work and figure out together. Try planning a date night. Ask him to pick a place (somewhere nice) and both of you guys dress up. As the days go by, the anticipation will add and maybe it will help spice things up a bit. My RPM likes to send me saucey texts when…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 01:35 PM
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My like making chicken noodle soup but I add a little flair by adding some lime juice, cilantro, and jalapenos. I also make korean chicken porridge and add A LOT of garlic in it :]
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 01:25 PM
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This is what I would like but I'm not sure how to bring it up to him. I have mentioned to him how I would really appreciate him being more vocal especially when we don't see each other for a long time. He didn't say anything about it so I'm not sure what to do. I guess it's not really a big deal but something I would just like for him to do.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 12:37 PM
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I think you two have to define what is "normal" for your relationship. I have friends who are constantly on the phone or texting their boyfriends. My bf and I on the other hand (he is also an INTJ. He mentioned how he might have Aspergers) talk usually everyday but sometimes it's really brief. I don't think there's anything wrong with silence- many people feel uncomfortable with it though. Ask why why it's a problem for her. My bf also has a demanding job with long hours sometimes. He always tel…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 05:46 AM
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He calls me: baby, good girl, my girl I call him: baby, daddy (he really likes this one. Took me awhile to get used to it)
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 04:22 PM
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Thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 03:24 PM
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Geez life is already hard enough why do feminist need to complicate things more?! Anyone else also exhausted from reading this article?
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 12:25 PM
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Congratulations and welcome!
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 11:46 AM
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I like to use lite Italian dressing and let my chicken marinate in it before roasting it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 07:57 AM
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I think for the most part he does put some effort with his words but using words of affection is somewhat foreign to him I think. Since I'm the one that notices it what can I do to fix it (is there anything to fix? Is it just me and something I need to be more understanding about)? Any suggestions?
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 07:52 AM
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Sometimes when he is away there's maybe a day where we don't talk. During his international travels we barely talk sometimes because of the time difference. He might send me an article or a picture or something and then I reply and tell him I miss him and that's about it for the entire day.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 07:47 AM
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Communication is key and it should be with your man and not his buddy. If he's working on it, point out how you notice it and appreciate it. It will encourage him. Also, how do you do talk to him? Do you point out his flaws/short comings and automatically criticize? Show him affection and he will show you affection. Tell him what you want to do with him and show your appreciation. The times you do see him, make him feel like a king (cook for him, groom yourself, give him a massage) and he will t…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 04:57 PM
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I've taken the five languages of love test before! I think it's pretty awesome. I score high on physical touch/quality time. I think because we are not able to spend much quality time, there is no physical touch. I would feel comforted by words of affirmation. I definitely need to incorporate more hobbies into my life. I tend to over think/analyze and it's really comforting to hear from other women. Thanks a bunch!
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 03:37 PM
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Ah ok. Thank you both! I do not have much experience being in a relationship and my first one was quite unpleasant. My ex was also a non-verbally affectionate person and so I was getting concerned and had this idea verbal affectionate was what is pertinent and needed in a relationship. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 02:59 PM
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Ever since middle school, I have always kept a journal and I still keep up with writing in my journal. I am a emotional and sensitive person. Writing helps me stay focused and it also helps me figure out if I am being reasonable/logical or just irrational/crazy. I have found that writing then reflecting has helped me immensely- I am able to reflect and figure out my feelings. There are many times where I get so caught up in my emotions and they are so overwhelming, but 30 minutes later, I come t…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 02:47 PM
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I normally use my Saturday or Sunday making meals which I can freeze and pop in the oven during the week. For variety, I would recommend using Pinterest. There's a lot of figure friendly/time saving recipes. I just browse through and end up saving a lot of recipes which I try later. Try making dinner low carb since you are concerned about weight gain. I had a trainer tell me stick to proteins and veggies at night and eat carbs in the morning :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 05:00 AM
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Thanks a lot TempestTcup! The "answer these questions" are great- it's helping me do more inner/soul searching/I'm not sure what to call it. I need to be more aware of my emotions and keep them in check. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 04:58 PM
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I like how you mention "real and imaginary." I feel like many people let their thoughts get the best of them. I call them "turmors" or "blackholes." A single thought that continues to grow and expand (sometimes with no validity or solid evidence) and it becomes all consuming/hard to distinguish what's real and imaginary.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 04:13 PM
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I spent a year with a guy who didn't deserve me and who became complacent because I gave a lot to him. I feel like no matter how secure a guy might make me feel, I will have that constant insecurity linger inside me because of what my ex did/how he treated me My boyfriend does make me feel loved, cherished, and protected. He has a very busy and demanding job and even on busy days he makes time to see me or for us to spend time together. He is the one that said we are in a serious relationship. H…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 04:10 PM
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