sweisman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Hitting the Reset Button on my Marriage		sweisman	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/13 01:23 PM

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2	Why do I care still? You care, because there is some part of her that is attractive, but the only time you see that part of her is when she is around other people. You care, because you think if you try hard enough, you'll get to experience it yourself. However, you won't. Ever. No matter what you do or how hard you try, the conditions for experiencing the "real" her yourself keep changing. You've got the real her, and it's not pretty. She will never change. Free yourself of believing things can change and it will b…	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/13 03:49 PM
5	Fred and Freda Your FRs are inspiring. Keep them coming!	/r/TheRedPill	21/07/13 08:30 AM
1	I'm a girl with BPD that is interested in hearing your experiences I am convinced that my wife of 20 years is BPD. She has an official diagnosis of PTSD, but since this stems from extreme psychological abuse from birth on, what else could it be. Especially after reading many articles on gettinbetter.com (which OP linked to) and shrink4men.com too. Interestingly, both sites are run by women, and not particularly Red Pill women at that. I have had a similar experience. Almost zero response to Game. Sure, she finds me more attractive in the abstract, but the reali…	/r/TheRedPill	17/07/13 03:30 PM
15	FR: Act cold towards bitch wife, get attention Don't avoid eye contact. That's beta. Look her straight in the eye. If you have a hard time facing her, keep these three classic Game strategies in mind: Plausible Deniability - be vague, not evasive. Agree and Amplify - when she presses you for something like telling her you love her. Playful - Always. Anger, resentment, etc. do on your own time, if you need to (and I understand the need). To her, be confident, cocky, funny.	/r/TheRedPill	03/07/13 03:11 PM
1	The "Blue Pill Examples" are honestly turning this subreddit into a hatefest What I understand about NAWALT is that all women really are like that. NAWALT is what women and blue-pillers say to excuse bad behavior. Some women are more like that, and some are less, but they are all like that.	/r/TheRedPill	30/06/13 09:47 AM
1	Found a Red Pill nugget of gold about abusive women. Found it: http://books.google.co.il/books?id=xeR2RBOhaM0C&lpg=PA3&ots=-XHx-VKRsv&pg=PA3#v=twopage&q&f=false	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/13 02:44 PM
2	Found a Red Pill nugget of gold about abusive women. Where is the source of this quote?	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/13 02:20 PM
0	We're set up for failure. We really are. Since you mention Nofap, I'm not going to advocate or condemn it, but masturbation is beta.	/r/TheRedPill	25/06/13 06:54 AM
0	Can a Blue Woman be Salvaged? I have been having an extended email exchange with an old female college friend (I'm 46m). I've been explaining TRP to her, and she gets it to some degree. Despite being super liberal, she's unusually thoughtful and level-headed for a woman. She also knows me well enough to take what I say seriously. On the other hand, I can't two words in trying to explain it to my wife before she gets emotional and incoherent.	/r/TheRedPill	28/04/13 07:26 AM
12	"[L]eader of the Black Guerilla Family, Tavon White, ... fathered five children with four of the corrections officers" Hilarious. Game already explains the sometimes overwhelming attraction women have for psychopaths and hardened criminals. Having women guard these types is pure stupidity. The hamster spinning by the government and media (13 guards, all who just happen to coincidentally be women, for some odd reason that is impossible to discern) is impressive.	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/13 02:48 PM
2	Guy finds out his fiancee has been cheating on him nearly their entire relationship. He was a cuckold. Everyone knew but him because he was so trusting and had no game. He needs the red pill Fight the urge to reply. Her emails are bound to get even more interesting...and desperate. You've already told her it's over. Enjoy the show. But...do. not. reply.	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/13 07:52 PM
1	Guy finds out his fiancee has been cheating on him nearly their entire relationship. He was a cuckold. Everyone knew but him because he was so trusting and had no game. He needs the red pill Just read the emails too. I advise cutting all communications with her. Don't reply, at all, ever. She will only spin you in circles at this point, because she will stick to her sob story no matter what. As I said above about memories, she might really believe the falsehoods she has spun all these years. It's weird, but that's how women actually do work, from personal experience, even if she is an extreme example, Just end it. Let her gripe to her friends all she wants. You should move on and en…	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/13 07:24 PM
0	Guy finds out his fiancee has been cheating on him nearly their entire relationship. He was a cuckold. Everyone knew but him because he was so trusting and had no game. He needs the red pill Wow. That's a huge amount of very heavy stuff for you to digest so quickly. As others have said, regardless of your emotional state at the time, you seemed to handle things in a pretty level-headed manner. As far as her memories...she probably really doesn't remember things as you do. This is female solipsism in action. I have experienced it firsthand with my wife, who had totally opposite memories to me on certain key events in our marriage. At the time, pre-Red Pill, I was completely mystified…	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/13 07:15 PM
2	Guy finds out his fiancee has been cheating on him nearly their entire relationship. He was a cuckold. Everyone knew but him because he was so trusting and had no game. He needs the red pill Can you repost whatever was deleted here? I doubt it would be moderated out of existence here.	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/13 10:30 AM
3	Don't marry young girls with crazy mothers. As crazy as the mother may be, you gotta admit, you did absolutely everything wrong that you possibly could, at every point. I wish I could offer some advice to you, but I got none.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/13 07:39 PM
4	Yesterday I decided I was ready to cheat because my wife is fat. Tonight I cockblocked myself. Dude, there are plenty of girls on the girl tree. If you want to end it, just do it. Otherwise, time is not of the essence. Especially if your wife is making moves to improve herself. Step it up and be open about what you want from her. As far as diet, go paleo. She could be shedding a pound a week, easily, if she sticks to it.	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/13 12:57 PM
3	Yesterday I decided I was ready to cheat because my wife is fat. Tonight I cockblocked myself. My wife is 5'10" and when she was 150lbs she was a stunner. So if you're implying you're fat at 150, either you've got a pencil thin frame, or you're lying.	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/13 12:55 PM
3	Applying Red Pill Concepts in non-sexual contexts I have a friend who teaches classes full of girls (college age), and Game has given him the tools to completely take control of the classroom. He negs constantly and gives them funny nicknames (girls use nicknames to, for example, keep track of men they know or date; and one thing Game does is use strategies women use on men on women), among other things.	/r/TheRedPill	30/03/13 10:54 PM
2	Hamster thinking on modern day 'dating' If she has a problem with being Facebook friends with former lovers, why doesn't she just defriend them, instead of complaining?! Typical hamster at work.	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/13 08:24 PM
1	I'm RedPillWifey, AMA! Are any of his friends Red Pill aware?	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/13 04:08 PM
1	Acronym and Glossary Thread I would clarify this further. Feminism is just a modern manifestation of the Feminine Imperative (as Rollo and others say) or the Feminine Social Matrix (as Ian Ironwood might describe). The Red Pill recognizes this, not just aspects of it like feminism. As Girl Writes What (and probably others) has pointed out, it is MEN who have given women the power they have, and that stems from the Imperative, not from feminism.	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/13 06:22 AM
5	Are women unhappier because of money? [Watch the Entitlement & Hamster- Awesome ending] Depends on the context. LTR? Office mate? Regarding arguments, I was discussing this with a friend recently. Few women are really capable of having an intellectual discussion that challenges their assumptions, like this did on the segment. Can't really help with non-LTR situation. As for myself, when trying to "reason" with my wife, on whatever issue it was I wanted to "discuss," I used to be utterly mystified at this kind of hyper-reactive literally non-sensical arguing-for-the-sake-of-arguing …	/r/askTRP	06/02/13 10:02 AM
0	How many Red Pills have you swallowed? There are several available. Maybe they're just trolls?	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/13 06:20 AM
1	A breakdown of SRSWomen I met a girl towards the end of my college days who was getting a masters in a very fem program, communications. She called herself a feminist, but it was clear from talking to her she was not a feminist. Her parents were traditional Polish Catholics. Even though she wasn't as conservative as they were, she had some very traditional views. I was heavily blue pill in those days (late 1980s), but even I could tell the difference. I used to argue with her that she wasn't really a feminist, and she …	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/13 11:03 AM
1	Case study: /r/amiugly I never would've even realized this before. Pure pedestalization. They know absolutely nothing about this girl other than her picture and a two line description of her side of the story. It would be one thing if they just told her "she was cute" (even then don't do that). It's the secret sauce of fawning admiration over her that makes it so painful to read!	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/13 09:58 AM
1	Why did the red pill make sense to you? I've been reexamining many parts of my life since taking the red pill. Here's an early experience with my mother, when both I and my (two years younger) brother were teenagers. She told me that she was used to arguing with him, but I drove her crazy because when she was mad at me all I did was stand there completely poker-faced and silent and didn't respond at all, except for maybe a perfunctory "I'm sorry," or something like that.	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/13 08:02 PM
2	Why did the red pill make sense to you? My mother also didn't screw my father in their divorce (in 1973). Further, she insisted on joint custody, and even when she felt he wasn't meeting his agreed-upon obligations, she declined time after time to pursue the matter in court, even though the thought did cross her mind. My mother was born in Chicago and spoke with a neutral American accent, but my grandparents were extremely European, educated, and cultured, and her upbringing was similarly European (she spoke German at home until she w…	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/13 09:31 AM
1	Hitting the Reset Button on my Marriage @Kepaso, you have it ass-backwards! EVERY woman NEEDS to be gamed. It comes naturally to some. Pretty much all women react viciously to beta behavior. What is LJBF if not vicious? The man who orbits that is a doormat too. In marriage the result is often worse. At least, that's what it seems like to me. She is not a beast. How much can you possibly glean from even a few pages of details discussing a single incident in a 20 year relationship? And would you actually rather see a relationship with a…	/r/TheRedPill	19/01/13 06:05 PM
1	The Arguments against the Red Pill To clarify #2, I read somewhere (one of the manosphere blogs, can't remember which)...men do like sluts, but they want a woman to be a slut only for HIM. It's not just that the perfect mate is a loyal virgin, she is a sexually available loyal virgin.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/13 07:16 PM
1	AMA with Vox Day of Alpha Game Absence of (peer-reviewed double-blind) evidence (of the danger of vaccines) is not evidence of absence (of such dangers). The fact that vaccine makers have special privileges and goes out of its way to prevent these proper studies from being done tends to indicate (to the open-minded) that some skepticism is called for, at the least, and claiming agnosticism on the issue in the face of that is just shouting "la-la-la" to make it go away.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/13 05:53 PM
0	AMA with Vox Day of Alpha Game I'd say neither dialectic nor rhetoric will sway you. Vox never said vaccines cause autism. IIRC, he's brought links to his blog that hint at or indicate a possible connection (either to autism or other serious side effects) along with noting the utter lack of actual studies on the matter and ongoing efforts to prevent those studies from being done. What he has said over and over, right here, is there is no proof, none whatsoever, that vaccines are safe or that vaccines are dangerous. Is that cl…	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/13 05:43 PM
0	AMA with Vox Day of Alpha Game Speaking of European, in Israel (we're practically neighbors!), I read (to my horror) that Gardasil has been added to the basket of vaccines for 8th grade girls. Any word on that abomination reaching your shores too?	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/13 05:32 PM
0	AMA with Vox Day of Alpha Game He also said, in clarification: "The link, or lack of a link, is UNKNOWN (emphasis mine). It is impossible to say."	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/13 05:28 PM
0	AMA with Vox Day of Alpha Game "Vaccines cause serious side effects" is a falsifiable hypothesis. What is missing are the studies to validate or debunk the hypothesis (which is what Vox said). Statistical analysis and meta-studies are not actual tests of a hypothesis. Assertions of various gods' existence are not falsifiable.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/13 05:21 PM
1	AMA with Vox Day of Alpha Game "No, I disagree with virtually everything he says." That kind of implies that he's not projecting at all.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/13 05:16 PM
0	AMA with Vox Day of Alpha Game I guess "mangina" might be more accurate then.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/13 04:59 PM
3	AMA with Vox Day of Alpha Game Younger means more idealistic and less jaded. And even if she's not a virgin, she will have had less opportunity to ride the carousel. She'll pair-bond better.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/13 04:28 PM
4	AMA with Vox Day of Alpha Game I've been reading your column and then your blog(s) for years. Originally you seemed to be focused mostly on economic and cultural issues. I remember early posts on sex differences. How did you get from there to Game and the Manosphere?	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/13 03:18 PM
2	The Ironwoods -- As Us Anything! Ian Ironwood and his wife answer your questions. Mostly. This is true. I have a friend who is now counseling single and married men (in various states of disrepair). He got started after coaching me in repairing my own self and relationship. It's far from enough to support himself yet, but he's only been at it about 9 months so far. Right now, the red pill is VERY hard to swallow, based on what he tells me. But as this stuff gains greater awareness, that will change. And people who really grok it can turn it into an income source. He's already gotten …	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/13 09:01 PM
5	The Ironwoods -- As Us Anything! Ian Ironwood and his wife answer your questions. Mostly. You forgot Sheldon! Come on, he may be (somewhat? totally?) asexual, but he has the tightest game on the show. Absurdly self-confident, totally aloof, handing out the negs in abundance, all with multiple women throwing themselves at him (not just currently, look at past episodes too). The ongoing efforts of Amy just to earn the tiniest bit of attention from him is priceless. It's pure gold. I agree with you on Leonard. The song he sang in the last episode was the first time I can remember him no…	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/13 09:03 AM
3	The Ironwoods -- As Us Anything! Ian Ironwood and his wife answer your questions. Mostly. Also agreed with this. I came very close to divorce with my wife last year (18 years together at that point). Once she saw I was serious, she was suddenly willing to concede that my needs were genuine, and we are still married today, and happier than ever. The key in my case was she had to believe I was willing to go through with it (and I was). Even though I knew I could get a younger, hotter, lower maintenance wife, I wasn't after perfection, just an actual relationship. An additional word of …	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/13 07:58 PM
2	The Ironwoods -- As Us Anything! Ian Ironwood and his wife answer your questions. Mostly. Where do you find the pictures you use on your blog?	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/13 05:51 PM
1	[Mod] Announcement: 2013 AMA Series about to begin Even if you don't want to replace her, you need to motivate her.	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/13 05:38 PM
3	[Mod] Announcement: 2013 AMA Series about to begin Sunshinemary at http://thewomanandthedragon.wordpress.com/	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/13 01:24 PM
1	[Mod] Announcement: 2013 AMA Series about to begin This is very cool by the way. Looking forward. I vote for adding Keoni Galt and Dalrock.	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/13 04:50 PM
1	[Mod] Announcement: 2013 AMA Series about to begin How does an AMA work? Just post and vote on questions in the feedback?	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/13 04:48 PM