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| 2 | Is it really better to be a permavirgin than a BB? | Blackpill Discussion | swift_salmon | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 04:59 AM |
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| 16 | If women like different men, why are there so many men not liked by anyone?Women are popular by default. Everyone wants to be a part of a woman's life, friend groups and social circles effortlessly accept women into the fold, interactions with strangers are warm rather than cold. Men rarely reach that level of natural popularity and those that do are usually well above average in attractiveness and would be highly popular to begin with. It has nothing to do with effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 01:04 AM |
| 19 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.Autism being a sex appeal killer is technically a blackpill belief, because it's an immutable genetic characteristic that cannot be cured with self improvement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:39 PM |
| 17 | How important is romantic love as part of human livelihood?I have never experienced any romantic affection or gestures in my life. Everyone says it's not a need like food and water, but to me a life without that kind of connection is like eating food with no vitamins. I feel starving, just not physically. I'm living, but life-affirming moments are few and far between. I fill my life with hobbies and exercise. I go to therapy and am gainfully employed. I eat healthy and practice skincare. But all of this is just to neutralize the negative effects of not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 04:42 PM |
| 1 | The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone.Most human beings do not have the discipline to stop eating sweets for a week, you think the Average Joe is going to become a Buddhist monk over funko pops and willfully abstain from intimacy, forever? The man in this hypothetical sounds like the sad eunuch zombie of a materialist dystopia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenLol, who the hell wouldn't have pent up rage and resentment from being a 27 year old who has never had any of their romantic or sexual needs met, ever? Do you realize what that does to a human emotionally? You've clearly got a lot of pent up rage and resentment from being punched in the face everyday this is literally what it sounds like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 02:44 AM |
| – | Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry areif women are finally "free" from men, and the average woman is not willing to date the average man, and was only shackled to him all this time out of necessity, isn't that a tacit admission that female hypergamy is real? Because that's not a blue pilled belief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 02:35 AM |
| – | The best move a single man can make is work on being happy alone.Am I crazy for thinking this advice is straight up dystopian? Not that I disagree with it, I just find it unsettling how fast sexual dynamics are changing. To say the best solution for the average man is to ignore human intimacy (presumably forever) sounds like a fast track to mass resignation. I don't know of any real historical precedence for this behavior. Yes men are traditionally less likely to procreate but they died often in wars and such, they weren't lifting weights alone in their apart… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 07:37 PM |
| 1 | What is causing gen z men to be "pill theory" obsessed?Is generational dating decline not a part of the greater pill discussion? Most of the "loneliness epidemic" is those under 30, and under 25 especially. Millenial dating advice has become as useless for gen Z as boomer dating advice was for millenials, and you can't extrapolate success into a different paradigm. I'd wager the marriage rates another ten years from now are going to look a lot different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in lifeWomen have further to fall than men. The SMV difference between a 20 and 30 year old woman is astronomical, yet the same is not true for men because most are ugly to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 01:51 PM |
| 4 | “The fact that being 5'8" is too short for a 5'1" girl is soul crushing” Witness the cope in the comments.What's crazy is that we now live in an Internet era where social media behavior is the default mode of interaction. Most people posting on the internet today have only known the version where you spill out your life story under your real name and face. If someone complains about height online, then they must complain about height in real life, too. They can't fathom someone's internet "appearance" being distinct and sanctioned from their IRL one, which was standard practice in the 2000s and earl… | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/11/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Inkwells, have you actually tried to looksmax? What have you done?transmaxxing is the most effective way for young sub5s to ascend but most blackpillers hate it because it comes with a lot of political and ideological baggage. | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/11/23 11:05 PM |
| 15 | Brootal, AI-maxxing has begun boyos. I pray this is fake we literally seeing the end of humanity begin.the zoomers are not okay | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/11/23 07:29 PM |
| 9 | over lol 😂I hate redditors so fucking much. Women's issues? Racial inequality? Sexual discrimination? The most liberal progressive bunch you've ever met. A man works his ass off and is justifiably sad he can't have what others get for free? Instant 180 into a bootstrapper. It's your bad attitude. It's your entitlement. It's your mindset. Take accountability. You have only yourself to blame. I'm actually seething. This poor dude is going to beat himself up for years, striving for an impossible ideal becaus… | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather live the next 20 years as an Incel with good health, wealth, and chance at an early retirement but you are guaranteed to never find love or be in a relationship or, would you rather live the next 10 years as Chad but low income living and you die of cancer after 10 yearsBeing an obedient 40 year old wagie coming home to watch anime inspires no hint of positive emotion within me. "Comfort" is cheap, shallow, and plentiful. Passion, love, and eudaimonia is scarce and treasured - the highest pursuit of the human condition. I will die as a man who finally lived. | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/11/23 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Most women would be incels if they were born a manOverweight is literally the new 5/10 baseline - you are considered picky and entitled if you won't go for this. Formerly average weight women are 7/10, and actual fit women are unicorns. Just by default rule of supply and demand. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/11/23 08:50 PM |
| 13 | Dating lingo/phrases that piss you off and are just plain wrong?"go to a social meetup or hobby group" All the women go with a boyfriend or to women-only gatherings so they don't get hit on by desperate oofy doofies. These places are filled 90% with single dudes (probably because everyone else gave them the same shit advice). I've seen it first hand. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/11/23 04:27 AM |
| 1 | what wall?! women aren't the one losing their hair and turning bald ?!25% of men over 30 show signs of hair loss, and 50% by 50. SMV decline starts way before the bowling ball head. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/11/23 06:53 PM |
| 3 | "men become more attractive when they're older" is such copeThe sad part is that these 30 year old late bloomers will finally get a girl and mistake these tenuous provider relationships for the good stuff that HVMs had in their 20s. Then they turn around and post on Reddit about how "sex is overrated actually". | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/11/23 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Your dad's dating strategies don't work now. In the modern day, men need to be more physically attractive than ever before.Is this really true though? I think fitness tiktok is a generational Black Swan. Anecdotally, I've definitely seen more fit and health-minded gen Z compared to how millenials looked at that age. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/11/23 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else given up on life and plans to rot indefinitely?Yeah it's over. I plan on working overtime the next year or two while my body is still able, then spending my final months on a crazy vacation. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 02:59 PM |
| 14 | r/tall user meets the blackpillOf course she is 5'1 lol. Short women are the most height-fetishistic of all because of a subconscious pressure to purge manletism from her genetic line. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 02:30 PM |
| 3 | In a rare moment of self-awareness, women finally discover that Chad has been using them…. and then decide to blame all men collectively.beta bux bears the weight of Chad's sins. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/10/23 05:53 PM |
| 1 | To the fellow ugly guys: what physical features make y’all ugly?Brutal eye area - droopy eyelids, NCT, flat cheekbones, and narrow pupillary distance give me a sloth-like appearance. I actually jawmog most normies but my midface is simply dogshit. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/10/23 10:59 PM |
| 6 | Does anyone else think that their just not meant to succeed in this live?Even as a kid I knew I was too different from others and was never gonna Make It. Life experience has confirmed it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 06:23 PM |
| 10 | Imagine being below 6ft in a germanic country 💀💀 6'4 English chad goes to the Netherlands and gets mogged. Brutal height pill at the end of the videoInsane nutritioncoping. The truth is dutch women just went sicko mode on natural selection after centuries of humiliation. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/10/23 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you think w*men could even comprehend how lonely most men (sub-8) are?Normie struggles are overblown just like they overblow everything. They get less dates in 2023 but it's more like a couple a year instead of a couple a month. They still hang out with friends and hit the town. They still receive moderately warm reception when talking to women. They still successfully integrate into the greater social stratum. It's not comparable to the plight of sub5s who live in constant survival mode. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/10/23 04:18 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS DISCUSSION MORATORIUMthe traditional RP stance is that status, money, and game are more important than looks. This has been falling out of popularity in recent years so the manosphere has increasingly been forced to take pages from the bl*ckpill playbook to stay relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 09:18 PM |
| 6 | Every woman has an entire football teams worth of dudes orbiting, simping, and waiting for a chance to date her.I actually think the inverse is true in practice. Instagram stacies get thousands of followers but a lot of these guys are boomer sex pests and third worlders proverbially blowing their load into the wind. Nerdy girl-next-door-types tend to have fiercer competition and an equal amount (if not more) of genuine, competing romantic suitors who unironically value her personality. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/10/23 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Would you consider a 27 year old tall, bulky, not ugly, virgin, forever single man a gay, weirdo or mentally ill?What's wrong with having your ego stroked when your ego is in the gutter? He can build confidence and have sex at the same time. Sounds like a net positive for character building. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone here have chronic health issues/disability?I have a degenerative condition that is wrecking my life to the point hobbies are becoming difficult to enjoy, I have a gut feeling I will delete system 32 before the year 2030. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/10/23 12:19 AM |
| 1 | What are you expecting?blackpill is not a self improvement guru belief system, it's a model of reality. I don't gain anything positive from it, other than the knowledge of knowing when and where to cut my losses. You can want something, even desperately, and not expect it because life doesn't work that way. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/10/23 01:54 AM |
| 3 | GrannyfishHonestly based. T4T relationships are probably better than the average male's dating prospects in 2023. You could probably gun for a low-tier Chad too, as MtF partners have become less stigmatized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Are you open to the prospect of A.I. Boyfriends?based ugly bastard enjoyer | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/10/23 01:06 AM |
| 1 | The Vast Majority Of Guys Are Luckcels.Bluepillers don't understand the 18-30 demographic is where most important dating trends are, they see a few frumpy 45 year old couples walking around the grocery store and try to project this onto younger demographics. | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/10/23 01:52 PM |
| 11 | Brutal: sub5 black woman refuses to get out of car after curry betabux takes her to the cheese factoryLmao, even Cheesecake factory is pushing it for a first date price wise. If she's not okay with coffee and biscuits, you're NGMI. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/10/23 10:14 PM |
| 2 | If ur sub8 and u get on a date or a gf ur a placeholder/betabux/emotional tampon til she monkey branches to chad.If she isn't asking to suck your dick the first date (or before) you are being monkeybranched or bux'd. Lack of enthusiastic oral sex is the #1 indicator of sub7 status. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/10/23 12:51 AM |
| 2 | If you could choose which gender to be reborn as ignoring the attachment you have to your current one, would you be male or female?average jill has a 10x better life than an in*el. Hell, an average life sounds like an absolute dream from where I'm standing. | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/10/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | is there any hope for autistic people to succeed?You can luck out with an autistic woman on Hikki or FAD, or transition to the opposite sex. For most of us though, it is extremely over. | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/10/23 07:17 AM |
| 1 | if you could create your dream partner, what would they look like and what would their personality be like?curvy ginger tomboy with artistic (or autistic) interests, high IQ, and a wicked sense of humor. High sex drive a plus. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/10/23 11:43 PM |
| 21 | Grannies and middle aged women are wondering why young men are hitting on themWell yeah, obviously. Considering you have a pfp of yourself on fucking reddit I'm assuming you're a tourist and don't even know what wallcoping is. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/10/23 09:16 PM |
| 34 | Grannies and middle aged women are wondering why young men are hitting on themTons of gems in the comments. A 40 year old woman admits to hooking up with a barely legal teen bc of his "personality" and it was the "hottest sex she's ever had". Jfl. Also lmao at this unintentional pill: quite a few of them were really really good looking guys and I'm here thinking...why tf are you trying to chat up an older lady like me for? They could so easily find a woman their own age. It's so weird. Wallcopers will not touch this. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/10/23 09:00 PM |
| 11 | Women are thirsty simps too, just for Chad. Here we see women paying for dating apps just to filter out men for height.Then they would think the app was bugged. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/10/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Three brutal truths about autismhow does autism not qualify as BP? It's an immutable genetic characteristic that objectively harms dating prospects. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/10/23 01:54 AM |
| 6 | Three brutal truths about autismmilitary grade suifuel | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/10/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | How many of you actually go out and spend time with people?If you are an inc*l past college you are probably ugly and / or autistic, which means you also have an incredibly hard time finding and making friends to begin with. The type of guy posting here is not the type of guy equipped to just go out to social groups and make the magic happen, because they would have done so already. Also, meetup groups have begun cracking down on the rules due to a rise in single dudes hitting on women who are just there for fun, so many groups are now women / couple on… | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/10/23 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Wheat Waffles is taking advantage of men who have no success with womenhe became an RP grifter after realizing you can't sell solutions to an audience with the BP. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/09/23 04:56 PM |
| 0 | The Herbivore Tsunami is racing at U.S. Shores! 45% of men age 18-25 HAVE NEVER APPROACHED A WOMAN IN PERSONAll this does is filter a handful of plucky sub5s. Women will still send choosing signals to their desired mates who will gladly reciprocate. Nothing has changed for the average man. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/09/23 03:36 AM |
| 1 | The Herbivore Tsunami is racing at U.S. Shores! 45% of men age 18-25 HAVE NEVER APPROACHED A WOMAN IN PERSONThis post is full of RP cope. Women have everything to gain from timid undesirables weeding themselves out of the gene pool. They still send choosing signals to Chads, who will reciprocate behind closed doors. Nothing has changed besides filtering a few plucky sub5s. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/09/23 03:33 AM |
| 1 | How to know if youre incelautism alone is a death sentence for an LTR | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/09/23 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Imagine being an incel, ascending, and finding THIS at the top of the mountain...This is what happens when you listen to relationship advice from reddit | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/09/23 01:31 AM |
| 23 | Incels actually get offended when average/ mid looking women approach them. The pink pill is brutal.Incels don't get approached period. The manosphere is breeding ground for LARPs, trolls, bait, and zoo visitors . don't believe all the shit you see on the internet. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/09/23 09:02 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, imagine a man with a list of no-no's this big. Yet for women this is TUESDAY! Yet why do you get so mad when men do this too?men don't do this, not in reality, it's just a response to the Ick trend trying to rustle jimmies. Most men will take what they can get at the end of the day. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/09/23 07:38 PM |
| 8 | The Red Pill Era of YouTube is FinishedIsn't this already happening? I feel like most RP channels are just soft BP these days. I constantly see terms like Chad, sub8, JBW, female gaze, etc. stuff that you would only see in the dredges of looksmaxxing forums six years ago. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/09/23 07:04 PM |
| 1 | There is no such thing as a "nice guy"I agree. Nice guys should improve and stop being nice by adopting selfish dark triad traits. Then they might actually attract a woman. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/09/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Bluepillers think that incls have given up before they even triedFriendships don't open doors if you are ugly. Women will mentally file you away as a sexless, harmless, NPC blob type entity. Trying to break this categorization and make a move even after years of friendship causes confusion and disgust because from day one she did not assign you to her dating pool. I know this because I've seen how they treat other more attractive male acquaintances, with playful flirtation and dates after just weeks or days of interaction. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/09/23 05:18 AM |
| 4 | Favorite Blackpill YouTube channel?WW pre-algorithm blowup, Rehab Room, Doomer Tejana, Dbdr, Lord Bogdanoff, Little Finger (less active now post YT purge but still has some gems) | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Most guys won't even know what it's like to be very attractive, and it's really sadThis is the most undersold phenomenon in the entire manosphere. The quality of the relationship scales exponentially with SMV. Getting a girlfriend is not some finite goal you can hit to equalize your sexual standing. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/09/23 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Average height for young white men is 6'the 5'9 number comes from the US census and counts 60 year old japanese men in that statistic. All that matters is YOUR dating demographic, and for young white men that new number is realistically around 6'0. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 03:38 AM |
| – | High-Tier-Normies are overrated in the black pill community"rizz" is just a politically correct way for normies to filter for autism and mental illness. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/08/23 03:04 AM |
| 1 | There would not be nearly as much pushback on our beliefs if the majority of us were good lookingLook at that Gerbert dude on youtube, he repeats 2015 truecel talking points verbatim but because he's a fit young Chad he gets hundreds of thousand subscribers and normie respect for "telling it like it is". | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/08/23 03:56 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Assuming all else equal, looks and neurotypicality are the most important factors in both dating and general lifeautistic men outnumber autistic women 4 to 1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:16 AM |
| 7 | People don't get how isolating autism isI have to wonder if "does really well" means he justs masks decently at work and is safe enough to be mentally categorized as a non-threatening NPC. I highly doubt most BP women are involved in the specific details of these dude's sex lives, much less personally romantically involved with them. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/08/23 03:25 AM |
| 12 | Men are losingSo many men I know (and myself) are just coasting on complete autopiliot after tiring out of"the grind" with limited success. Mid-late 20's, living like vegetative cyber-monks, doing just enough work to get by and indulging in the occasional hobby or hyperfixation. An entire generation is just living in stasis. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/08/23 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Incel men who work: how are your interactions with female colleagues?short and cordial. The key is trying to avoid eye contact, that's when they get the ick and start ringing HR. | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/08/23 06:51 PM |
| 10 | When and how did you become blackpilled?Blackpill was very intuitive, it was something I'd lived my whole life but never had a word for until college. Seeing girls cry when teachers placed their seat next to mine, never being a part of valentines, that iconic disgusted look whenever you try to make female friends... I was like "Oh yeah so that's what that is." | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/08/23 07:02 AM |
| 28 | It’s demoralizing how much height mattersCan't tell you how many times I've seen the classic. "I've dated a huge variety of men. My ex is 5'8, but we were incompatible for reasons unrelated to height. My current bf is 6'2 but that's just a coincidence." | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/08/23 06:49 AM |
| 6 | Is this real?There is objectively not someone for everyone, even ignoring this meritocratic fantasy worldview where looks don't matter in sexual selection there are still 105 men born for every 100 women. It's a zero sum game. Edit: She deleted her comment saying "more women choose to stay single" which apparently is a gotcha even though it just raises the disparity. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/08/23 06:01 PM |
| 4 | It's absolutely brutal how celibate w*men get more sympathy and support than celibate men.It will probably be banned before the year is out. All the good subs are. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/08/23 05:54 PM |
| 12 | Just a few thoughtsI'm in the top 1% of male height but can't say much about how height has effected my sexual success Wrap it up boyos. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/08/23 04:02 AM |
| 8 | Just a few thoughtsI'm also guessing "a bit taller than average" means you are somewhere around 180cm which means you can heightfraud as 6'2, which is tall enough to do consistently well with an average face. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/08/23 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Why Can't Women Just Admit They've Won?The quality of transitioning results is purely genetic. Fat distribution, breast growth, hip-to-shoulder ratio, height, neck circumference, hypertrophy, rib cage width, leg length, these are all genetic. No work involved. Taking a pill is not effort. MAYBE they weight-cycled for a few weeks for to get some hip fat. Again, basic bitch shit. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/08/23 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Why Can't Women Just Admit They've Won?I was on Dr. Powers method for six months lol. HRT does not change bone structure. The only "effort" involved is carefully curating outfits and makeup to disguise a testosteronized body - a futile effort for most adult males. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/08/23 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Why Can't Women Just Admit They've Won?If you consider things like FFS, vocal cord surgery, BBL, and experimental korean shoulder-shortening surgery to be work, then yes I agree. Otherwise successful transition is out of reach for the vast majority of males. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/08/23 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Why Can't Women Just Admit They've Won?You need exceptional genetics or be really young to pull it off. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/08/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Being a traditional women does NOT benefit women100% agree. If I were a woman I absolutely would prefer financial and sexual freedom. Though, this has broader implications about the endgame of neoliberal society, particularly genetics-as-a-market and materialism as the ultimate means of self-actualization. Ultimately I can't see this being a stable civilization long-term; low-value men still perform most of the real jobs and western hegenomy will eventually collapse if things continue (not to mention westerners are being outbirthed by "anti-w… | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/08/23 06:56 PM |
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