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14

Idk I was with a French guy (from Paris) for a year thinking he was my boyfriend but then found out he described our relationship to our friends as ‘friends with benefits’ so that was shocking. Obviously it’s not like every French person is the same but my one and only experience with a French person was a bit heartbreaking. Having said this, this was five years ago and we’re still friends and he’s never tried to hurt me or anything. Edit: lol why did I get downvoted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:23 AM
14

I’d rather die alone than date someone like this and considering I’ve been single 3.5 years now I’d say I’m a woman of my word 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:59 AM
26

Hey uhmm, could you like not break my dog’s legs please, he is a living thing that is very capable of feeling pain. Ugh. The asshole didn’t even take the poor thing to the vet. Just put him in a room with the other pets and hoped his wife wouldn’t notice. I’ve been in love with shitty people but I couldn’t possibly love someone who would do this to an innocent defenseless tiny dog
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:32 AM
97

I went into a store to get my pc fixed once and the man was cleaning the place, he turned to me all embarrassed and said ‘oh you’ll think I’m less of a man for doing cleaning’ ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:44 AM
65

omg yes this guy went into a full rant about his ex who is an admin on fds or something like that. I first wrote a long supportive message but then didn’t send it, I’m not a therapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:48 AM
10

Dated Australian, Kiwi, German, British, French, Turkish, Canadian, American, I thought german guys were consistently the best in my experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 03:13 PM
8

Damnnn where do you live girl I’m moving there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 02:57 PM
5

Wow this was really sad to read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 02:55 PM
25

He insults the drinks even lol, they’re not ‘proper’ then tells the whole sub she is chubby even though it doesn’t really relate to the story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:13 AM
96

I just posted this few minutes ago along with a similar story where the guy sells the stuff his gf made even though she told him not to. Honestly amita sub makes me happy to be alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 02:49 AM
137

You can’t reject men for being short but I can reject you for being ginger and pushing 30
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 02:18 AM
3

I wonder if he gets any matches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:55 PM
2

Oof I couldn’t think of a single relationship I had where I didn’t feel those
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 11:55 AM
87

Bet he was called a simp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 11:52 AM
4

Yea imagine telling the MOTHER of your kids that she needs to earn points, eugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:13 AM
7

Hey I just copy pasted this from the other sub, it’s not my story, here is the link if you wanna comment on there to let this lady know your story https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/g1itw4/aita_for_thinking_my_husband_should_share_perks/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 04:42 PM
20

Wooooow. I was not expecting that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 09:19 AM
15

‘I know I sound complicated’ we’ve all been through hardships love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 09:15 AM
15

Hah! Was told recently I was difficult by a guy, I will continue not taking any shit from LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:32 AM
38

Yep we’re from the same country
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:10 PM
9

Ok I’m calling the cops
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:09 PM
5

Yea honestly until I found this group thought I must be so unlovable but then realized that’s kinda how they treat everyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:10 PM
6

Uh I kinda feel like this still..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 02:21 PM
1

Yea fair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:10 PM
20

I think most men in OLD only talk to women to get sex out of it, and now they can’t get sex so they just stop talking because they’re not interested in getting to know us at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 03:58 PM
28

Ugh he even looks like a villain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 09:22 AM
11

I don’t wanna know more bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 04:42 PM
65

‘I miss out friendship and talking to you’ hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 10:29 PM
3

I used to manage a hostel on the k road. Completely agree haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:53 AM
42

Not to mention they lose their hair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:50 AM
60

I had an ex who said ‘men age like wine women age like cheese’ it is so untrue imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:16 AM
31

I wonder if he gives her oral at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:09 AM
22

I have a lot of friends from uk and everytime I see this I presume they’re trying to end the convo lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:08 AM
46

When I complain to my male friends about being lonely they say ‘you’re not lonely you get sex’ like how is being pumped and dumped not being lonely? It’s because that’s all they want from women they think that I’m doin well romantically because I can get a man to fuck me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:34 PM
7

Most recently she costarred alongside Salma Hayek and Rose Byrne in 'Like A Boss." Though the film has poor ratings on both IMDB and Rotten Tomatoes, those who enjoyed it understood that it was meant to be a light and comic tale of sisterhood and empowerment. A film about sisterhood and empowerment? Wonder why it has low ratings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:43 PM
9

Wow one of the comments ‘What about how you feel? Do you want to fuck him?’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:48 PM
36

I had a horrible lvm friend who once said men have a rule where they shouldn’t have sex with a girl for more than three times otherwise she gets feelings lol sorry if I don’t wanna be used apologies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:19 PM
71

I literally have the exact same standards, single 3 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:34 PM
44

I actually was flirting with a guy who made a tweet about how ‘a true man doesn’t go down on a woman’ and asked him about it and he said ‘no no it’s a joke’ few months later we actually have sex and after licking my clit for 4 seconds he says ‘ooh my jaw hurts’ and stops lol, honestly these people exist Edit: I shouldn’t have ignored that 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:29 PM
23

‘A senior Queensland detective who said police were keeping an “open mind” as to whether the deaths of Hannah Clarke and her children were a case of a “husband being driven too far” has been stood aside from the investigation.’ Unbelievable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 10:03 AM
42

‘I don’t go out with everyone’ ‘I go on few dates a week’ lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:08 AM
4

Damn they even look comfy, my feet feel better looking at the photo 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:06 AM
5

Yes it actually made me really insecure like if these women are on dating apps then there’s no hope for me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:35 AM
1

I’m kinda bicurios and match with women sometimes but have no idea how to flirt with a woman so the convo just ends up dying out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:34 AM
34

God I was gonna post this myself, what a horrible guy. Honestly AITA sub is full of women married to menchildren, makes me wanna be alone my whole life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:21 AM
21

Oh ok English second language haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:44 AM
16

Is OLD a dating app or sth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:14 AM
3

Yea not happening again. Honestly cause we’re both from the same country and he says he’s been in difficulty before etc I trusted him but turns out he just wanted a free prostitute, no deal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:13 AM
3

Will do, thank you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:32 PM
3

Honestly she is a pickmeisha but she is also like an instagram model so men still go mad for her so I guess she hasn’t had to learn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:28 PM
2

There is three females and one male in the house actually, Laura is the only one who’s single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:43 PM
8

We were leaving his house, the flatmate was there doing ironing or something, he invited her, she said no she’ll have a quiet night in. We leave the house, walk to the end of the street and this comes out of his mouth, clearly has been thinking about her lol, he can try his luck with her not. Oh and he -as a joke- told me I was like a 4 on a good day, if he was trying to neg me then it backfired completely lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:34 PM
7

OMG YES I always swipe left on those guys and even considered asking on reddit to guys if they think we think that’s attractive-no it shows me you see women as objects, left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:31 PM
233

Ahh thanks everyone, good to see other people agree this isn’t normal behavior. Did I mention he invited her to come join us 10 minute before saying this lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:46 PM
22

voila new to reddit hope this works :p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 08:21 AM
362

I don’t understand how this sub gets accused of being toxic or incel when all we want is this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:52 AM
14

I remember a story where the husband said the wife ‘wasn’t allowed to have pizza anymore’ because she ate the salami off her own pizza but he wanted it ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:15 PM
6

Omg I was gonna post this story on this sub, unbelievable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:13 PM
8

Om yes so many stories involve grown men throwing tantrums cause their gf or wife didn’t make them dinner etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:11 PM
10

Australiaaaaa mateee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:42 PM
12

I found the post cause I wanted to see more comments and I got bored scrolling down people discussing if that is how much they get paid. Imagine that being your first thought when you see this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 11:39 PM
57

I once said ‘he sees me as a person’ talking about a bumble match and my friend was like ‘wow the bar for men has gone down there’ and that’s when I noticed how scarred I was. Oh he totally ghosted me obviously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 10:52 PM
14

I was traveling with a guy who sent girls messages like this and I asked why and he was like ‘it’s just a joke, why do they take it so seriously?’ Ugh yea what a funny joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 09:33 AM
13

How can he be a nice guy and a misogynist, also not eating you out is super selfish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:11 PM
27

I kno right and he is like ‘depends’ like he gets this all the time ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 11:58 AM
4

Yea that’s why I’m here, to change that pattern
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 07:27 PM
53

I think we need to Netflix and chill because I’m leaving the country forever wow who can refuse this offer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 03:59 AM
16

Like I mostly have sex on the second date but even then its the same result. I’m new to fds so I’m yet to try it out. My problem is after years of being manipulated I feel like I owe men sex, I feel like they’d just ghost me anyway if I didn’t have sex. Cause that’s all they want and if you’re not giving it to them they’ll move on to the next tinder match
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 02:54 AM
27

39 year old not looking for anything is pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:22 PM
19

‘I don’t want you to be interested in me but I don’t want you to be interested in other guys either’ hahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:57 PM
26

He literally said ‘wow you didn’t have to be so blunt’ after rejecting me and not even having a proper reason other than we were spending too much time together... we somehow ended up being friends... half an hour ago he was really drunk and gave me shit about ‘how many guys I talk to’.. as if he has a say after all this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:49 PM
20

Hahaha I mean I’m 30 and I used to look after my parents paying their bills and whatever and this guy is a 27 year old with a 6 cm penis, guys really are so full of themselves it’s unbelievable. Why is it so hard to appreciate a girl who cares for you instead of trying to do better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:42 PM
125

I was kinda seeing this guy casually and out of nowhere he said he wasn’t attracted to me anymore and I was after something serious and he couldn’t give it to me and I said ‘Uhm excuse me my dream boyfriend isn’t a student who sells drugs, I never wanted a relationship with you’ and he was upset lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:37 AM
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