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Maybe she’s Canadian and just being nice
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:44 AM
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Read this and the music just played in my head
/r/PussyPassDenied27/08/18 09:13 PM
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Find something better to do with your time.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/18 11:38 PM
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Guy here. Hope I'm allowed to comment. :) Marriage is a partnership. Partnerships tend to happen when both parties determine they are better off, usually when the other person provides something in an area the single individual is lacking. For career oriented men and women, their jobs take up significant amounts of time. In exchange for this time, they typically have considerable financial resources, but the lack of time means they struggle to find time to maintain a home, raise kids, cook food,…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/18 03:26 PM
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If a woman on a first date doesn't offer to pay her share, she was raised poorly. If a man accepts her offer, he was raised poorly. If she doesn't offer at all, make her pay hers.
/r/seduction28/10/16 03:20 PM
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Spot on, from a guy who's been through college and am now still pulling a ton of women as an adult.
/r/seduction07/03/16 04:12 AM
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Spot on, from a guy who's been through college and am now still pulling a ton of women as an adult.
/r/seduction07/03/16 04:12 AM
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Dude, they're fucking insane. They made all sorts of ridiculous demands without justification and did exactly what you saw in the video. In regards to getting food during the hunger strike - wouldn't surprise me. Literally, these are the scum of the earth students, and it has nothing to do with race and everything to do with their character.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/16 06:13 AM
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Mizzou alum here. Yes, it's really true. There's not more behind the scenes.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/16 06:01 AM
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Vulnerability....I believe it's an old wooden ship
/r/seduction24/02/16 03:17 AM
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Disagree. Sometimes the best fish are already taken. My rule centers around her happiness: If she's in a relationship and she's happy, I leave it alone. If she's unhappy and having doubts, and I truly believe I will make her happier, make it happen.
/r/seduction18/02/16 08:24 PM
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Imagine a salesman coming up to you on the sidewalk and immediately asking "What's your number?" You'd think: Who is this guy? What is he doing with my number? Why would I ever want to talk to him? Will he add value to my life? If you're like me, you'd say "Fuck off." Which is what most women do to guys who haven't clearly given her answers to those questions. What you need to do is give her a REASON to want to see you or talk to you again. Take the same example as above, but you just moved to a…
/r/seduction14/02/16 11:42 PM
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Well said.
/r/seduction04/01/16 07:06 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction24/09/15 04:11 PM
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As someone whose favorite style is open relationships eith multiple women and has been doing this for years, I'm going to go against the grain here and say that being known as a player hurts your game. There is a very fine distinction I'd like to make here. In my mind (and many of the women I've discussed this with), "player" is defined as a man or woman who leads on and sleeps with multiple different people in a dishonest way. Consciously, when people hear the term player, they automatically as…
/r/seduction31/10/14 07:09 PM
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Your post made me chuckle. Thanks for that. I have a threesome technique post somewhere in my history. Feel free to look for it. (I apologize for being so lazy, but I'm lazy.)
/r/seduction31/10/14 06:24 AM
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Respectfully, such an attitude leaves you wide open to attacks from men who know how to use boyfriend destroyer techniques effectively. I'll frame out a hypothetical. You meet the woman of your dreams. 9/10, smart, funny, always horny. You're dating her for two months. She always gets attention from the guys because she's incredible, and you've mentioned to her that some of her guy friends make you feel uncomfortable. She apologizes but continues hanging out with her guy friends because they're …
/r/seduction31/10/14 06:10 AM
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Transferring this to PM so we can talk specifics.
/r/seduction31/10/14 05:29 AM
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Well said
/r/seduction31/10/14 05:19 AM
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Joking around is a good way to keep her interested. This is more about a specific application of using a joke to psychologically reframe how she sees an action from another guy in a given context. Sort of a defense against outside guys giving gifts. As far as a woman you're seeing receiving lots of gifts, it's only an issue with the VERY attractive women. I've experienced it with all three of the top women I've dated and will probably continue to experience it in the future. Other guys are going…
/r/seduction31/10/14 05:18 AM
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Perhaps I should have been clearer in my post. It's not that you're genuinely deceiving her or tricking her into thinking you actually sent the flowers. It's about reframing her perception of the gift receipt and telling her brain to imagine you gave them to her instead. Even though she knows that you didn't send them, you are telling her straight up "I did not send these to you, but let's pretend I did. Because it's more fun that way." And she'll (hopefully) play along and think it's funny. I k…
/r/seduction31/10/14 05:06 AM
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Hmm, straightforward question, tricky answer. It depends on where you are in the game and what the rest of your opening tactics look like. These are what we call "canned openers" meaning that you've prepared them in advance and probably used or will use them over and over again. Canned openers are great for people just starting because they can help get you the experience needed to get to the level where you intuitively know what to say. In my current game, I rarely use canned openers but will r…
/r/seduction31/10/14 05:02 AM
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Those are the videos!! I'm not going to suggest that you USE A TORRENT to download them because that would be illegal ;) , so you can always buy them from his site for like $300. Honestly, they're worth that amount to me and so much more. Thats the cost of 5 bad dates for a life changing perspective on things. Or one credit hour of college. Anyway, if you can afford it, great. If not, nbd, but just know it is out there and is truly transformative. On the divorce opener, there's a lot of variatio…
/r/seduction31/10/14 04:41 AM
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If your objective is exclusitivity, then it's agreed the technique here wouldn't apply to you. My whole objective is to be in an open and honest relationship with one or many high quality women. The taking credit technique is for a very specific situation - Long distance, open relationship, other guys sending gifts, but I believe the concept can be applied elsewhere. As far as they guy putting his name in the flowers, it doesn't matter. The technique isn't deceiving her and saying you sent them …
/r/seduction31/10/14 04:20 AM
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Ok, I'll give you an apology for that and some real advice. When you're posting just 11 days ago about being a beginner and about being her gay best friend , and you decide to comment on a post from someone who's been studying and living game for over 10 years, do it with some respect. Because while most people are happy to help those who ask legitimately insightful questions about techniques, if you approach it with the attitude you showed, then you will never learn as fast as you otherwise cou…
/r/seduction31/10/14 03:23 AM
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Routines are effective for what they are. Learning the game, and as something to fall back on when you stumble or blank.
/r/seduction31/10/14 03:07 AM
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Yup, that's how a lot of women are. And men for that matter. The key is to set the foundation for an open and completely honest relationship up front. That means when you're fucking someone else, she knows, and when she's fucking someone else, you know. Both parties have to be jealousy free and sometimes it takes some finesse to get into such an arrangement, but once she can be confident that you want her to go see what's out there and make the best decision for herself, she'll trust you to such…
/r/seduction31/10/14 03:06 AM
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Thanks, broseph!
/r/seduction31/10/14 03:03 AM
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See, thats the thing with most guys, and why they can't keep a super attractive woman around. They get jealous. They get possessive. They tie her down. And as soon as she feels tied down, all she wants to do is leave. Imagine if you were in a field with a beautiful woman on a sunny day. Feels great, right? Now imagine you're in the same field, but handcuffed together. For weeks. But you can't touch each other. All you'd want to do is get out of the damn handcuffs! The same idea applies to women.…
/r/seduction31/10/14 03:01 AM
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Sure! The core concept is that you take a boring stereotypical husband/wife future scenario and you plant the image in her head in a way where she imagines it as her future with her current man and is freaked out and scared by the prospect. Then based on her reactions you frame yourself as a shining alternative. Never ever do you directly attack him or their relationship. Reason being that people are naturally good at arguing. If you attack him, she will defend the attack. If you say great, exag…
/r/seduction30/10/14 10:07 PM
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The most likely explanations are thus: The date activity was not thrilling. You were not interesting to the women. The way to fix the first one is by planning awesome dates. I use the rule of three. Literally have three dates planned that will blow the mind of any female just getting to know you. Each date should have three phases, and each date plan should be used only three times. The reason you plan three dates out is so that you can confidently and repeatedly achieve great results from your …
/r/seduction30/10/14 06:52 PM
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Yes, I can honestly say I've seen all the results I've wanted and so very much more. I first started in the game reading David Deangelo back in 2004 as an awkward, skinny weird high school kid. At this point in my life I had rarely had a few first kisses and the women I was meeting were at the bottom of the barrel. Luckily I stumbled upon a decent looking girl and dated her for two years, but eventually I broke up with her because she was getting too crazy. In 2006, I studied DD again to get bac…
/r/seduction30/10/14 03:11 PM
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This one is tough, because sometimes it's hard to break into a crew, and many high quality guys will already have their friend group firmly established. Some ways to build dude friends relationships are as follows Have a skill that they need and grow the relationship by trading skills. For me this was a former client that loved my tech skills. Then we became friends, and then best friends, and now I consider the man my brother. Invite guys to table service with you. Not to impress them or anythi…
/r/seduction27/10/14 06:13 AM
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I define seduction as the act or process by which one person attracts another with the connotation that the attraction is in a sexual manner. Traditionally the seduction community has taken a very individualistic approach to the science of seduction. A sort of "how many women can I bang in the shortest amount of time, regardless of anything or anyone else." And yeah, you look at most of the good seduction artists, and they're pretty good at getting a different woman every night of the week. But …
/r/seduction27/10/14 06:08 AM
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It's cool man, I've been there. Like I said, it took 10 years to get where I'm at and a lot of miniature transformations along the way. My method was to sit down once every six months and write out who I wanted to be in six months. Then I'd write what I needed to do to become that person. Example: "I will be an athlete" - Join club water Polo team - Complete round of P90X - Bench 275 lbs "I will be a fashionable man" - Read GQ - Spend $200 per month on new clothes based on GQ - Buy new stylish s…
/r/seduction26/10/14 06:00 PM
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Yeah, I was thinking the same thing when I had 5-6 in the rotation. Eventually I realized I felt this way because I needed these women to temporarily patch my insecurities, and that I was taking more value than I was giving. Now, this feeling is completely gone as the women need me way more than I need them.
/r/seduction25/10/14 10:18 PM
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Thanks for reading!! To answer your questions - When I started I had practically nothing going for me except a college degree and a few decent friends. I was using all the outer game I could find (mystery method, the game, DD, etc.). Essentially I was able to use these outer game "tricks" to pull a decent amount of women (2-3/month). The high value ones left after a short time and the insecure ones stayed. So I had a healthy group of insecure women that i could have sex with, but never kept the …
/r/seduction25/10/14 10:13 PM
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Great post. About the only thing that could be revised here is the logic around fraternities. When I joined a fraternity, it was one of the best things for my game, and I can't imagine how differently my social life would have turned out without it. By joining a fraternity, there were three major benefits. Social proof, a greatly expanded network, and infinite opportunities to meet and hook up with the cream of the crop. I'll elaborate: Social proof - As an individual new to college or without a…
/r/seduction26/08/14 03:20 PM
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To paraphrase Julien from RSD, opening is like landing a plane. Sometimes it's all bumpy and crazy, but you've got to master the art of getting that plane under control once you've opened. As far as being smooth, focus less on that and more oj being congruent. This means having your mind, body, words, and actions all in sync with one another. If she picks up that any of these are out of line, that's when she gets the vibe of "something is off". For you, it's probably that in your head you're all…
/r/seduction27/06/14 01:20 PM
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Polite disagreement with the levels and their appropriateness. One of the main steps in seduction is building comfort and rapport with the woman. I've spent years learning and developing techniques to build a high level of comfort in a short amount of time, and have found the best opportunity to skip months ahead in comfort in just a few hours or days is to go for what you call the "level 4" and "level 5" compliments. Why? Because she doesn't expect it and if it is said in a congruent non-needy …
/r/seduction27/06/14 12:54 PM
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Up, down, up, down, left, right, left, right, B, A, Select, Start and you're no longer a virgin!
/r/seduction07/06/14 12:05 PM
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The Dual Us Versus Them Seduction Technique Here's a technique I invented that worked crazy well over and over. Go to each girl separately and say "Have you ever thought about being with a woman before?" Most girls will say yes because they have thought about it before. This gets them in the yes mindset. Note that you're not asking if they want to be with a woman, because that may elicit a "No" response. After she says "Yes," and most will, say, "Let's seduce [target] together and take advantage…
/r/seduction06/06/14 06:36 PM
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This is no more manipulation than if you were to be kind to her parents and give them gifts because you realize they're important to her and you know that building a bond with them is a key step in having a good bond with her. Strategically building relationships and a network, even with pets, is not manipulation if done with genuine intentions. I genuinely liked these dogs and wanted to share the response it generated from the women. As with any of the Venusian arts, the strategies, tactics, an…
/r/seduction29/05/14 06:10 AM
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Do you see any other opportunities to leverage the concept for other things or people in the woman's life?
/r/seduction29/05/14 04:41 AM
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Thanks for the input. The key here is that genuinely being interested in a member of her family is a great way to build rapport. If you've already decided to say "fuck her family" rather than being genuinely kind to a living creature then you may have some inner game issues you should deal with first.
/r/seduction29/05/14 04:38 AM
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I'd consider everything up until a regular hookup, dating, or long term situation to be part of seduction. In terms of the mystery method, the above tactic would most likely be useful in the comfort stage, which is part of seduction.
/r/seduction28/05/14 10:40 PM
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This is the attitude most men display around small dogs. It's a surefire method to delay attraction and send her into the arms of another man.
/r/seduction28/05/14 07:07 PM
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Call it whatever you like. We could rename it under a display of value if it helps. Point is that the women were both more closely bonded to me by virtue of me treating their closest companion with love and respect.
/r/seduction28/05/14 05:43 PM
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I'm naturally a 7/10 based on feedback I've received from females in the past at a base level Some things that have made me more attractive over time to about an 8-9/10 - Using Crew Fiber to style my hair in a sort of messy way. Looks awesome. Getting a tan. I've been playing a lot of sand volleyball and going to the pool. Probably increases my attractiveness 10-20%. Being physically very fit. I completed a round of P90X recently and look jacked. I've had the benefit (yes, benefit) of being in s…
/r/seduction20/05/14 01:10 PM
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Thank you for the respectful reply. I'd politely disagree with the statement that I didn't focus on the "How," and here's why - The "how" had nothing to do with what I said to her in the minute at the party, and had everything to do with the bigger picture social situation I immersed myself in, how I displayed high value, and how I used peacocking to stand out. The one minute conversation at afterbars had nothing to do with it. She was already mine by that point. And I barely spoke with her all …
/r/seduction20/05/14 02:47 AM
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Can't share those. If she knew I posted this and revealed her identity, it would ruin the chances of any future hookups with her. Google "Hooters Calendar Girls" and you'll find her
/r/seduction20/05/14 02:17 AM
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Please read the glossary on the sidebar. All the acronyms are standard seddit terminology. AMOG - Alpha Male Other Guy HB - Hot Bunny F-Close - Closed the night with sex DHV - Display of high value
/r/seduction20/05/14 02:15 AM
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I cant tell you how many times this crossed my head this weekend.
/r/seduction20/05/14 02:08 AM
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Haha, funny you say that. I asked her the same thing after we banged. She knows she can make a living off her looks, she was tired of just being seen as an object and wants to be known for her brains and kind heart rather than her body. She left the modeling lifestyle earlier this year and decided to focus on her degree.
/r/seduction20/05/14 02:07 AM
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Chris, again, what would you like to know? The above story was the cumulation of over 10 years of hard work and dedication in developing my game. Please tell me how I can better improve your game by sharing my knowledge snd experiences and I'll do what I can.
/r/seduction20/05/14 02:01 AM
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It really depends on how you say it. The average person can express about 12 different meanings just by changing the way he says "No." With this phrase, I say "We like each other" with a downward tone as if to communicate, "You're being a cockblock, stop." rather than sounding informative or pleading. Then the quick follow up question, "Can we have a moment?" Is said almost apologetically but still authoritatively. This puts the obstacle in the position to either explicitly state that they're sa…
/r/seduction20/05/14 01:53 AM
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"FR- Field Report. This is a written account of what you experienced during an interaction/night, which you then post on seddit (if you want to)." ^ From the definition of field report on seddit. I'm super happy I banged an international model, so I shared my success story here along with the key parts of the game that made a difference and how I can improve. Personally, the obstacle destroyer alone is one of the most valuable things I learned back when I was starting out and I shared it to help…
/r/seduction20/05/14 01:38 AM
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She's easily identifiable through a quick reverse Google search even with just one of her photos. Out of respect for her, I'm keeping her identity private. Go to your nearest Hooters and buy a calendar. You'll see her.
/r/seduction19/05/14 08:24 PM
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Hahaha, thanks Jimmy. Super Mario Bros is the perfect way to describe it. I was in the zone for sure. Your question gave me pause, very interesting. Our first kiss didn't take place until we were both in our underwear in her bed. I didn't even realize this until just now. The textbook would say I should have kinoed more and probably kissed her earlier, but we had insane "fuck me" eyes for each other the whole night. It's almost like we didnt want to kiss until we could absolutely tear each other…
/r/seduction19/05/14 08:15 PM
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She's psychotic, so probably not a relationship target or even someone I would make a fuck buddy. Like eight prescribed medications psychotic. Plus she has a crazy ex boyfriend. To quote my buddy John, "Fucking a crazy girl is fine. It's dating her that ruins your life." My approach will be to act exactly as I did before where I almost ignore her and let her come to me. I may actually tell her she's in the friend zone just to mess with her head and make her want what she can't have, although I c…
/r/seduction19/05/14 06:51 PM
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The suit acts as a multiplier for whatever DHV or DLV you're projecting. The examples I gave were the ends of the spectrum to show that either it upgrades you from awesome to completely boss in the first case and downgrades you from average to weird and disconnected in the second case. There's the whole midrange where the suit's effectiveness depends on whether you display high or low value. Edit: Congruency may be the core concept here. Be congruent when you wear the suit.
/r/seduction13/05/14 11:38 PM
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I suit up sometimes as a form of peacocking. Just like with other forms of peacocking, it depends on what your surroundings are. If you're rolling in to the club with six women on your arms and you're suited up while everyone else is in jeans and polos, you better believe you're going to catch some IOIs as soon as you bust in the room. If you wait in line by yourself for fifteen minutes, pay $30 cover and then walk into the club in a suit, you look like an amateur. TL;DR Suits act as a display o…
/r/seduction13/05/14 05:26 AM
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r/fPUA
/r/seduction25/09/13 02:10 AM
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Befriending the guy. Classic move. How could I forget. My game's a little rusty. Thank you.
/r/seduction08/05/13 07:29 PM
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You mad bro?
/r/seduction08/05/13 07:22 PM
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Love versus in love is a routine during which you ask the girl for help because your buddy's girlfriend told him she loves him but isn't in love with him. You play dumb and ask her what the difference is, and then she goes on about love and starts thinking about you in a romantic way. I think you're spot on on the kino point. I began with decent kino and now that I think about it I didn't escalate because I was concerned about how it would look to the rest of our office group (hers and mine). Sh…
/r/seduction08/05/13 07:21 PM
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Great idea!! Trying this.
/r/seduction19/12/12 08:07 AM
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Excellent. Have an upvote.
/r/seduction24/11/12 06:47 PM
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I developed a routine for this. Tell her you're going to take turns picking the best sex songs and whomever picks the best one wins. Then she goes first and you don't have to guess the genre that turns her on. She just told you. Then you can keep it going from there
/r/seduction25/10/12 03:53 PM
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Did exactly what you recommended last night. Both girls left the guy and apologized profusely for their asshole friend all night. Left her house ten minutes ago. You're awesome.
/r/seduction08/09/12 03:23 PM
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Haha, how can OP deliver? Want to step outside? Kidding aside, ten years of hapkido experience, 21-1 tournament record, high brown belt rank (one below black), and several real world fights. I meant the comment just as tirceol describes it.
/r/seduction04/09/12 12:36 AM
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Wheres the line between standing up for myself and fighting over a random girl?
/r/seduction04/09/12 12:25 AM
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Yeah, I thought about staying right there, but he was so insistent, physical, and in my face that it was impossible to talk to the girl. It just wasn't worth the effort to fight or continue arguing so I went upstairs. I like the disarming techniques throwawaypua mentioned though. Thanks for your input!
/r/seduction04/09/12 12:20 AM
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This was pretty much the situation I was in. I tried disarming at first, but when he did the second "Go now" sort of response, I reacted with hostility which is where I lost the set.
/r/seduction04/09/12 12:13 AM
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Yeah, good advice. He was being very confrontational from the start and I responded with confrontation as is my natural response to a threat. I'll read up on AMOG destroyers later today. Martial arts discipline...judo and jujitsu would be highly effective for you with all that body weight. If you're more athletic, you should look into hapkido (my expertise) and Brazilian jujitsu. If you want more info, pm me and I'll be happy to help. Thanks for your advice!
/r/seduction04/09/12 12:10 AM
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Very good response. Thanks!
/r/seduction04/09/12 12:02 AM
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This. From an outsiders perspective, it would likely have looked like I walked away because I was scared of a fight. That comment is meant to emphasize that I was in no way afraid of a fight from a personal safety standpoint, but rather from a legal liability standpoint.
/r/seduction04/09/12 12:00 AM
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Thanks for your helpful comment. Appreciated.
/r/seduction03/09/12 11:58 PM
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Inner game is an excellent idea. Check out David Deangelo's deep inner game vids on YouTube. Regarding frat guys, you can try to be friends with them, but only try if they're like you. Speaking from a fraternity guy's perspective (frattitors exist??) you're not going anywhere near their house or their women unless you're rushing.
/r/seduction26/08/12 05:19 AM
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Epic. Just took notes from your post myself. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction20/08/12 06:31 AM
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I'm right there with you, buddy. I've moved towards applying my passion for women to a passion for entrepreneurship, and its been quite satisfying. Now I can pick up women if I want to while still having some other focus in life
/r/seduction03/08/12 07:25 PM
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