swipelyfe Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	How do you deal with loneliness?		swipelyfe	/r/askTRP	23/11/20 11:19 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Can you overdose on the Red Pill? Hopping onto the top comment hoping someone can link the post that OP is referencing, sounds funny as fuck	/r/askTRP	28/04/21 12:05 PM
8	Plate of 7 months says she felt “used” I don’t really agree with this and this goes against a lot of what I’ve learned through dating, and through reading other’s experiences. Assume the other person is also dating other people UNLESS you’ve had the talk of dating exclusively.	/r/askTRP	27/04/21 06:03 PM
2	Is cheating the only way to maintain abundance in an LTR? Awesome answer and spot on. It’s good to see someone not promoting depravity.	/r/askTRP	23/04/21 07:24 PM
26	My friend was getting married next week... his girl basically left him at the altar. Good luck bro. I came from a strong family background too, parents together 40 years. I was with my LTR for 6 years before marrying. Still got divorced. I think it really jaded my views on marriage in the future. You have to be so so careful with who you go into that with, and even being careful shit still often goes sour. I wish your friend well. It’s probably hard to understand now but he will look back on this as the greatest gift he never asked for.	/r/askTRP	21/04/21 02:29 AM
2	2 year LTR ghosting me after fight. Holy shit, this is a solid response	/r/askTRP	20/04/21 11:56 PM
2	TRP and pron Username checks out?	/r/askTRP	14/04/21 11:51 PM
7	Why do I EXCEL with women when I feel like I have an 'excuse' to talk to them, but struggle otherwise? I love this. The festival scene helped me get over my social anxiety and insecurities with strangers. My social circle has exploded over the years because I’m willing to go strike up a conversation with anyone, old man or hot chick	/r/askTRP	13/04/21 01:44 PM
13	OLTR who’s 18, all of a sudden childish beyond anything i’ve ever met before. Dates an 18 year old then complains she’s acting childish. What do you expect? Girls that age are incredibly immature	/r/askTRP	12/04/21 06:23 PM
20	I think my gf is cheating on me “This isn’t working out, I wish you the best” no explanation but go out with your head high	/r/askTRP	09/04/21 04:24 PM
1	Party culture I’ve met some of my closest friends (guys and girls) and had some of my favorite memories through the festival scene over the last 10 years. It’s very much a party scene, but it’s also about balance. But if something doesn’t make you happy, don’t do it. Pursue things that bring you satisfaction and fulfillment in your life and you’re good	/r/askTRP	09/04/21 04:11 PM
1	What kind of guys do you avoid being friends with? Man I hate to break it to you but there’s more to life than stacking paper. If you only spend time on things that bring you money then how can you ever justify a vacation unless it’s business related? I work on my car and take it to track days and get a ton of enjoyment out of it. That’s what life is about. It’s all cost-benefit but to simplify everything to whether it makes you money or not is a shallow way to go through life	/r/askTRP	07/04/21 02:19 AM
8	How to manhandle/throw a girl state of this sub	/r/askTRP	07/04/21 02:12 AM
16	What kind of guys do you avoid being friends with? Haha fair point!	/r/askTRP	02/04/21 12:48 PM
34	What kind of guys do you avoid being friends with? Got a laugh out of the car one. I have a modified car but am a bro, what’s your problem with us?! Not offended, find it funny though. Have a lot more hobbies than my car though Otherwise a solid list	/r/askTRP	02/04/21 10:53 AM
1	I think one has to be insane to want to live. When you die, there's no more pain, confusion, dilemma, struggle, unfairness, boredom, anxiety, loneliness, guilt, work. It can't get any better than that. How can you not want to die? How do you know anything about what “life” after death will be like? No one knows, anything you come up with will simply be a fantasy you dreamed up. Life is short. What’s holding you back from enjoying it while you’re here?	/r/askTRP	30/03/21 12:08 AM
3	Girlfriend wants to know all of my whereabouts and activities on the days that I don't see her. How much should I tell her? This is great advice is you want to come across as a shady dude who your gf/wife will never trust. Seriously, how’s this working out for you in a long term relationship? (Im truly curious)	/r/askTRP	24/03/21 02:50 PM
4	Girl I’m seeing told me about her body count From first hand experience, girls who havent slept around a lot make much better LTRs than ones that have. It’s why vetting is important. Not sure why you’re swimming against very basic RP knowledge	/r/askTRP	22/03/21 10:07 PM
2	Girl I’m seeing told me about her body count No	/r/askTRP	22/03/21 10:05 PM
5	Girl I’m seeing told me about her body count Yeah let’s just pretend that hoeing around in your formidable years has zero lasting impact	/r/askTRP	22/03/21 09:33 PM
1	is real estate the way to go? While this is true and not bad advice, you don’t just become an investor starting out unless you are a trust fund kid, because you have no capital. Instead, you get in with a company who does real estate investment, there’s definitely a difference (source: I work in real estate private equity) OP: commercial real estate can be a solid and lucrative career if done right. Being a residential sales agent is very difficult to make a ton of money at, it is super cut throat. If you want to get into co…	/r/askTRP	15/01/21 06:57 PM
3	Need advice on moving forward Adding onto this... please seek therapy OP. There’s no shame in seeking help for such a traumatic experience, and a therapist can help you process all of your anger and hurt. Don’t think you have to do this alone. I lost my older brother to gun violence (a random killing) and it took a lot of therapy and work to get to a place of acceptance and moving past the trauma. Time won’t make the pain go away, but it will make it more manageable. Lots of love to you and your family, hang in there. Feel f…	/r/askTRP	06/01/21 04:24 PM
3	Guys late 20s/early 30s, how did you rebuild confidence in yourself after that first big 'Ive fucked up/I got it all wrong' depression? The guy actually didn’t give awful advice. Your quick dismissal of Buddhist teachings shows your close-mindedness of something that actually does help... meditation and mindfulness. If you practiced these things you’d quickly realize that no, you’re not alone in your suffering and it’s in fact a very human condition. Women and lifting and grinding a career, all that stuff comes easy. The mental aspect of having a sound mind is where the real work goes, and there’s no quick solution. It takes dai…	/r/askTRP	04/01/21 05:27 PM
1	Anyone care to share their meditation routine? I use the Headspace app each day. It’s seriously amazing and I couldn’t recommend it enough. There is a bunch of free content to get you started. It does a great job of breaking down the concepts and helping you to integrate it into your life. The guy who runs it is at a former Buddhist monk and has quite the way with words.	/r/askTRP	30/11/20 04:34 PM
2	Successful people on here, what should I major in? No worries man just didn’t want to mislead the guy into thinking it was an easy route, it involves very long hours and passion for the work. The money is there but it doesn’t come easy. Solid points other than that though.	/r/askTRP	27/11/20 07:03 PM
1	Successful people on here, what should I major in? Saying you can “easily” find a job in PE/ VC is extremely misleading. These are the most competitive jobs in finance (even beyond investment banking). Source: I work in PE with an advanced degree and busted my ass to get here, and it still took a little bit of luck (as with most successes in life)	/r/askTRP	27/11/20 04:33 PM
5	How do you deal with loneliness? Thank you. I already do all of these things so couldn’t help but chuckle. You’re right, it ebbs and flows as with everything in life, but recently it’s been feeling heavy.	/r/askTRP	24/11/20 12:59 AM
8	How do you deal with loneliness? I do that from time to time, but it only goes so far. Lockdowns and covid definitely aren’t helping. My big goal once this pandemic dies down is to grow my social circle and get new friends. All of mine are settled down, I befriended quite a bit of new friends through festivals and shows but they all live in different cities.	/r/askTRP	24/11/20 12:45 AM
3	Anxiety Meditation was the foundation of me getting over anxiety. Beyond that, a lot of reading and working on a path to enlightenment. I realized how much of my life had passed me by while living in my own head, and that the things I would stress about would never become reality or would never be as bad as I imagined. Meditation helped me to let go of those thoughts and be more present. Yoga is also very helpful in grounding you. If it’s really bad, you may want to see a therapist and work through why …	/r/askTRP	22/11/20 01:54 AM
7	Did you lose interest in long-term relationships after discovering the red pill? Was in a long term relationship, discovered trp in college (during relationship), thought we were different, married, still divorced 4 years later (no infidelity but constant issues between us), still navigating it all with new relationships post divorce but determined to not get burned again	/r/askTRP	21/11/20 06:05 PM
5	Did you lose interest in long-term relationships after discovering the red pill? Do you bet all of your retirement savings on black?	/r/askTRP	21/11/20 06:03 PM