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| 9 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???Ew what a dumbass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 03:34 AM |
| 62 | Proper posture is sexy!Being a Queen is about Radiance. Radiating beauty and truth through your heart requires an intentional stature with shoulders back and chest out and open. People hunch because they have been wounded and are subconsciously trying to protect their hearts. Be heart centered and be brave! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Porn never taught me about passion and intimacyPorn vs intimacy. Of course intimacy is better. It’s long term, wholistic, satisfying on a deeper level, nuanced, always changing and helping you grow ( hopefully). Porn is the grossest fattiest most addictive of fast trash food in the incredibly varied, delicious, beautiful, lasting for your body’s health and well being, did I say DELICIOUS LIKE YOU CAN ACTUALLY FUCKING TASTE WITH YOUR OWN MOUTH food of sex in this world. Porn addicts are like toddlers who only eat white bread and buttered past… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 09:26 PM |
| 30 | The “personalities” of the contestants on next season of The Bachelorette... I think I would just go home early.😂😂 The way they designed it makes it look like intentional mocking. So funny 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:48 PM |
| 37 | YEP👏🏼I am so excited to give my mom all the surprises and love this Sunday. She taught me so much about nurturing the self, protecting your body and spirit from men and has ALWAYS been there for me. Women, we deserve so much better. We are precious and create life. Never ever ever equate yourself to a man. We are so very much more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Having children with an HVM is STILL hard - protect yourself against LVM at all costs!Not only do LVM expect you to do it all yourself, when you want a f-ing break to go out and see a friend or go shopping and take a breather, they will guilt trip you. You are chained to the house by a NLVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:47 PM |
| 14 | Do you run into men demanding your attention and getting angry when you don't give it to them?My best friend is like this and I had to tell her she’s not entitled to every second of my day. She’s going through a lot and I am there for her as much as I can but there’s a point where I have to do my life. For a man? Hell no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:59 PM |
| 15 | Once again, from the horse’s mouthMen age slower? Huh? They die earlier so how tf does that make sense? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:10 PM |
| 12 | In order to manipulate you, they don’t need to be more mature than youMen love to play “incompetent victim” so captain save-a-scrote does all the maintenance work. Biggest manipulation tactic ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 03:11 AM |
| 10 | I bully men into having good gym etiquetteLet’s all get together and laugh all the bullshit out of this world. Leave men on their own, mock them for their ruinous ways and watch them all die inside. Only offer sex to the ones who have evolved!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 05:59 PM |
| 17 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!Women have massive amounts of power and it scares a lot of people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 05:38 PM |
| 12 | Let's NOT even think of this, let's normalize not feeling like a victim for buying the love of your life a decent ring and proposing in a good manner, let's normalise that.Yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 09:06 PM |
| 0 | Have any of yall experienced that “look” on dates?Or squirt some Visine into their drink when they aren’t looking. They’ll spend the rest of the night in the bathroom and you can leave safely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 04:55 PM |
| 29 | Have you ever rejected a man because of his sexual history?Narcissistic men are known to go through a lot of women. My ex said he had slept with over 100 by the end of high school. We broke up shortly after he told me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 03:53 PM |
| 5 | Another Reason to Ditch Online DatingYes, a few did. I don’t think it’s an extravagant request. I’m not asking for social security numbers... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:12 PM |
| 13 | Another Reason to Ditch Online DatingYes! Stalk tf out of them! I told them I had to have a photo of their drivers license before our first date. It’s fairly cheap for a membership to do background checks and see if any crimes have been committed or protection orders filed. You have to protect yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:51 AM |
| 93 | Crazy Thought I HadThere’s a rapist subreddit?! Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:28 AM |
| 14 | Standing up for women has never been popular, which explains the backlash against FDS. It's worth it because I can already see our culture changing. More and more women are choosing to be bold, have non-negotiable boundaries, and speak up unapologetically.Also though... don’t fall into the trap of “we’re doing it because of moral duty and the love.. we don’t need to get paid” bullshit. We need money to live, to lead, to inspire, to be greater... and there’s absolutely no shame in receiving monetary gain through your efforts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:39 AM |
| 1 | how many women were in this situation?I apologize for that. It was a very poorly worded comment and it’s not ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 03:08 PM |
| 2 | how many women were in this situation?Not saying being gay is wrong. People hide shit and lie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 04:19 PM |
| 13 | Is there a way to stop our (future) sons to become porn addicts.Don’t let them have a computer in their room, don’t get them a phone until they’re 18 and talk about porn and what it really is, raise the level of disgust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 11:29 PM |
| 36 | A Women's value is transactional and that currency is her bodyWow. Thank you. This is beautifully written | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 02:15 AM |
| 2 | DATING OLDER MEN :Why it doesnt age wellIt’s a mercy when your older scrote husband dies wayyyyy before you do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:17 PM |
| 7 | Your life does not end at 18 nor your worth as a womanThe most beautiful woman I have ever met was in her 60’s. She was absolutely gorgeous and had a radiance like a Goddess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:09 PM |
| 1 | This one’s for the little girls who were called bossyI’m curious, what do you do (career)? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 09:59 PM |
| 5 | Don’t let someone dictate who you’re going to be.Scroteweasel is the FDS vocab word of the day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 05:49 PM |
| 7 | Don’t let someone dictate who you’re going to be.They are trying to curse you. As long as you don’t believe it, the curse won’t work. Acknowledge that it is a projection of their own emotional state (anger, jealousy, rage... whatever) and doesn’t reflect the truth of your destiny,character and talents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 05:43 PM |
| 11 | Tinder is going to start allowing its users to do background checks on potential dates and scrotes are FURIOUS.When I was on OLD, I made a few guys send me a photo of their drivers license before I would date them. Most had no problem doing so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 01:05 AM |
| 14 | "Do not accommodate your value for people who are not ready to pay your value."“ Take some time to think about it, and come back to me when you’re ready” love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:05 PM |
| 6 | Julia Gillard misogyny speech voted most unforgettable Australian TV moment: watch in fullTruly glorious. So inspiring!! 🔥🔥🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 03:17 AM |
| 6 | Mind of a LVM - Ex Goes Off About Gifts 🙄Yeah... how about putting some of that sappy writing ability into birthday card form, dude? Good for you for ditching him 💪 I think the deal with blocking is you have to delete his contact card after you block him- then restart your phone. Hope this helps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Emilie Autumn "Thank God I'm Pretty", I love how sarcasm just oozes from the song, the gutteral tones dripping with visceral disgust she uses when she sings "Thank God". I used to love this song at 17, and still do now, if it's not your cup of tea just check out the lyrics please ♥I love it!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:45 AM |
| 9 | Uh-oh, the scrotes found our podcast Patreon and are BIG MAD. "How DARE those evil bitches monetize their own podcast!!!" Misogynists don't see any value in anything a woman does, so when women receive money in any way shape or form, they freak out and call it "scamming" "grifting" "a cult" etc.FDS cult? Sign me the fuck up. I get stickers too? Hell yeah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:20 AM |
| 10 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.I instantly dropped 15 lbs when we broke up and not because I was sad but because I had the weight of his emotional issues out of my life!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 05:21 AM |
| 7 | The Truth About Women in the BibleAdam definitely ate it first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 12:04 AM |
| 57 | Don’t provide him with the blueprint of your “dream man.” You’re giving someone the roadmap to hurt you or another unsuspecting woman. Notice how he instantly backpedaled trying to shape his answer to mirror what I might be looking for? Nope. Not telling you lol. Blocked.My ex told me he would match with someone, find them on Facebook and figure out their interests and make a mask based on that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Feeling slightly resentful that my mother taught me absolutely nothing about menYeah my mom too. Now I feel like when we talk I am leading the conversations about how awful men have been to both of us, our mothers, grandmothers and sisters... and it’s like a lightbulb 💡 moment for her, that it’s not our fault and men are a wasted pastime | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:44 AM |
| 2 | "A high value man won't wait 3 months for sex"His argument “that’s bad” and “change your thinking”.... ummm OK... WHY? His reasons are empty platitudes. What a dumb asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:31 AM |
| 31 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.Women have it all, then some dick-hole comes along and fucking ruins it. Men just want to extract everything, including our souls, and then fucking complain when it requires any amount of caretaking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 05:00 AM |
| 6 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?I’m willing to spend more money on a vibrator ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:03 PM |
| 8 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?I have more compassion for my fellow women and girls and am much much more weary and annoyed with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:59 PM |
| 6 | Why overt and extreme misogyny is a problem even for misogynists: It results in women being armed with knowledge misogynists never intended them to have (that they are openly hated, and they will be hated no matter what they do), and this activates women’s “jezebel” side.Preach 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:10 AM |
| 116 | Why are the women doing all the work?! (linked article)When my air conditioner broke down and my husband at the time told me to call homeowners insurance I basically told him “well what the fuck are you here for then?”... he surprisingly stepped up and fixed the damn thing and he was so proud of himself, it was great. Put your foot down, ladies. If they don’t step up, peace the fuck out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 12:07 AM |
| 27 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessWe need other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 05:59 PM |
| 3 | BF pretends to be happily married family man at work, then yells at his GF when she accidentally lets it slip to co-worker that they're not marriedGawd what a dickhead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 01:13 AM |
| 5 | So-called "petty" deal breakersFor real though... you don’t need a project girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Watch this - so good - skip ahead to 7:34 for the poem & dance.Wow. Incredible. Grateful to wake up this day to see and hear it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Scrote is mad in the comments 😂Yeah, who watches mtv anymore? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:47 AM |
| 51 | Why do males target these 3 groups of women/girls so harshly?Women are like the earth. Giving, beautiful, bountiful, harmonious... and the bad men just see the profit they can take, the utility she can make, and the purity she creates as something to be owned, divided up and bragged about. There is no reverence for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:31 AM |
| 43 | Dating should be fun. If you feel guilty about dating around, it’s centered in internalized misogyny and patriarchal norms.100% yes! When I hear people talk about how draining it is to date I have to wonder why. Is it because they are trying too hard to impress, or they genuinely aren’t that interested in other people... or maybe it’s this concept of purity you are talking about, making sure to only date one person at a time or being exclusive before it’s even warranted. I fully encourage my dating friends to date 3 or 4 men at a time. Have more than one date in a day even! Lunch AND dinner baby! You’re DATING, the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 10:33 PM |
| 17 | Interpreting men's social media useNot having social media can also be a red flag. My ex liked to act like he was above it all but I found out he slept with close to 300 women (his words but not unbelievable) I realize that he just didn’t want all those women he used to get in touch with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 09:39 PM |
| 8 | I’m so sick of men interrupting me while I am running to give me advice or try to chat me up - I am WORKING OUT. I do not WANT your attention.Carry some mace yo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 09:33 PM |
| 48 | Need advice on feeling guilty for being unsure about people I’m datingYou sound very sweet and empathetic, and I want you to honor that because it’s a gift. Honor it by first and foremost being honest with yourself about how you feel about someone, how they vet, etc. Also, recognize that 99% of the time, these dudes you’re talking to are also talking with several other women and they have zero qualms about wasting any of their time. There’s a perfect way to let a man down while giving acknowledgment to the “special time” that you have had together... relax, lean b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:14 PM |
| 29 | I just got flashbacks of a bearded man on a "date", talking about his beard for 45 minutes, while stroking his beard... also why do they make that facial expression?It’s a red flag on their faces. According to this study https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vice.com/amp/en/article/pg75g8/bearded-men-are-sexist-new-study-says | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:54 PM |
| 19 | [Rant] Men are far more 'high maintenance' than any 'high maintenance' woman I've ever metI fucking love this sub ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:31 PM |
| -9 | No thanksA man who has never been married by age 30 has something seriously wrong with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 12:28 AM |
| 5 | I didn’t want to post a picture of my house but my new living room resembles this! 2020 was actually one of the best years of my life AFTER leaving the scrote. As soon as I left my life really changed. It was like magic, and I’m not even joking.Scrotacity 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 12:11 AM |
| 11 | I love how pressed men are about this subI made a comment in relationshipadvice and was told by angry man to gtfo they don’t allow FDS’ers, like excuse me!? If anyone really knows the deep shit about relationships it’s us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 08:53 PM |
| 44 | If you ever think about going back, draw him and write what you hate about him.His bottom teeth 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:45 AM |
| 45 | Ladies, what are some of the things women should know about pregnancy and giving birth, but that society keeps quiet on?The worst pain you can imagine tenfold. I had three home births. That’s just the beginning and I loved being pregnant. Scientists say it’s like having 37 bones broken at once. Shit gets real. Do not give anything to a man who wouldn’t and hasn’t put his own life on the line for you because that is exactly what you are doing when you have his child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 03:43 AM |
| 76 | Match energyOr better yet, become more comfortable with receiving all of their effort and energy and only giving them the trickle down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩I think the chance to spot red flags and drop him was long gone by the time this was posted being that they’re already married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 02:03 PM |
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