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| 16 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness. | CMV | swordfishrenegade | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:50 AM |
| 0 | This is why men need the Red Pill. White collar desk worker with no friends gets left for a guy in a leather jacket on a motorcycle. | Discussion | swordfishrenegade | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 10:05 PM |
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| 2 | Dating apps have caused the destruction of actual, meaningful loveIf this based on experience or just a theory you made up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Casual dating is a self-harm and the culture surrounding it is poison. Change my mind. Willing to debate either gender from either side of the isle.No offense but if having sex with hot men/women makes you miserable, I think you may be doing it wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Older men are more bitter and resentful and have more baggage than older womenLOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenAnd yet you just did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 06:11 AM |
| 0 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenNah. Source: I have 2x the life experience you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 03:54 AM |
| 6 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenCorrection: women don’t look out for anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 04:19 PM |
| 0 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenTruth hurts, babe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenr/oddlyspecific | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 03:54 PM |
| 8 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenWomen absolutely do not look out for each other 😂 You’re thinking of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 03:51 PM |
| -1 | Men over 30, do you filter out 30 year old women while looking for serious relationships?Of course they do. If she’s mature enough to choose career over a relationship, then she’s mature enough to understand the consequences of that choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 09:51 PM |
| -4 | Men over 30, do you filter out 30 year old women while looking for serious relationships?Yes, always. Even 29 is pushing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 09:20 PM |
| -3 | Men over 30, do you filter out 30 year old women while looking for serious relationships?An unmarried woman over 30 is not mature. If she were she’d have already found a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | The Body Count thing is gendered, but not in the way people thinkWow crazy, I never knew that. I do think it’s weird to ban subreddits because of association though. Conservative Americans committed an insurrection and their subreddit got to stick around lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | The Body Count thing is gendered, but not in the way people thinkLol what?!? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 06:28 AM |
| 1 | The Body Count thing is gendered, but not in the way people thinkQuite the opposite. A man with sexual agency threatens women’s and beta bale egos. Why do you think TRP got banned, but FDS and 2XChromosomes are allowed to prosper? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 11:49 PM |
| -1 | The Body Count thing is gendered, but not in the way people thinkHPV vax has been out for decades | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 11:47 PM |
| 0 | The Body Count thing is gendered, but not in the way people think“ Women are not impressed by mens body counts.” Of course they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 11:46 PM |
| 3 | There's no such thing as "pump and dump", men never cut off casual sex just for the sake of it.Speak for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 03:55 AM |
| 4 | What are the dangers about the red pill?Speak for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 01:23 AM |
| 6 | Women and having sex on the first dateWhy would I want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t have a primal attraction to me? Withholding sex is the result of manipulation, or a lack of attraction. Not a good start to an LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 09:21 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Alpha Fucks/Beta Buxx is projection because it’s men who don’t want to settle down until their 30sNah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 09:18 PM |
| 15 | What are the dangers about the red pill?The danger is that your life will improve and you will get more of what you want in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | What’s the reason conservative men have attractions to liberal women but liberal men don’t have attractions to conservative women?I only fuck moderates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 04:45 PM |
| -4 | Is confidence really tied to dick size?“Small dick energy” is used as an insult for toxic masculinity. No relationship to actual dick size, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 05:13 AM |
| 25 | Anyone notice that in a lot of male-oriented space, the general consensus is that they hold themselves accountable for their self improvement, while in female-oriented spaces, they focus on placating their members?Then why are women pro-fat acceptance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 04:30 PM |
| 10 | Anyone notice that in a lot of male-oriented space, the general consensus is that they hold themselves accountable for their self improvement, while in female-oriented spaces, they focus on placating their members?Which sort of proves OP’s point. A forum for male self improvement? We can’t be having that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 04:29 PM |
| -1 | 30 Years is not old at all and stop listening to so much bad adviceRight it decreases but doesn’t disappear. Women are unable to reproduce after ~50, which biologically makes them unattractive to men. You seem really hell bent on proving that geriatric women are hotter than college chicks 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 04:16 PM |
| -1 | 30 Years is not old at all and stop listening to so much bad adviceMen like women are are capable of reproductive success. This peaks at 20. At 35 women become geriatric. Male sperm lasts a lifetime. Sorry you don’t like reality but emojis won’t change facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 03:50 PM |
| 0 | 30 Years is not old at all and stop listening to so much bad adviceLiterally google any male actor over 50 lol. Women hit their peak at 20, sorry you don’t like it but that’s reality. Men are programmed to be attracted to fertility, and no woman is fertile after 40. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 03:38 PM |
| 0 | 30 Years is not old at all and stop listening to so much bad adviceI’ll lower the stakes for you: show me 1 woman who is over 50 and more fuckable than any skinny 20 year old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 03:04 PM |
| 8 | All the weight is on men for date ideasHomie this isn’t hard. Date 1: bar you can quickly walk to Date 2: dinner at your house Date 3: dinner at a restaurant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 10:28 PM |
| 2 | 30 Years is not old at all and stop listening to so much bad adviceOk, show me 10 women who are hotter at 50 than 20. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 08:12 PM |
| 2 | 30 Years is not old at all and stop listening to so much bad adviceMen age like wine, women age like milk. I can show you 1000 men who look better at 50 than they did at 20, but can’t think of 1 woman who does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 03:28 PM |
| -1 | Your partner should be your best friend. Everything else is just details.Have you tried? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Your partner should be your best friend. Everything else is just details.And yet you’re speaking in the past tense. Says it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Your partner should be your best friend. Everything else is just details.This is a very blue pill mentality. Life is fundamentally brutal and skipping off into the sunset with somebody who has the same hobbies you do just isn’t an outcome based in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 02:42 PM |
| 5 | Was the year of 2017 the great turning point?Yeah 2017 was the year of MeToo, which also caused game to go back underground. The result was that all this knowledge around dating and pickup disappeared almost overnight, and now guys today don’t even know the basics, or where to even look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 10:28 PM |
| 1 | What would “society being honest with men” look like?Here’s one of those deniers now! A guy who’d rather blame others than take action. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 03:57 PM |
| 3 | How do straight guys feel about dating someone who would like to use a surrogate to have kids?For a 40 hour work week, that’s true. But this a 10 month, 24/7 job. $75k works out to about $1/hour. Not a good deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 04:22 PM |
| 8 | What would “society being honest with men” look like?The truth? The hard, cold, depressing truth? You can fuck any woman you want if you have enough game. All the shit they sell you about status, money, clothes, is all supplemental, not elemental. Doesn’t matter if she’s married, on an airplane, or at Target at 11am on a Tuesday. There is an entire world, a secret society, of sex that’s happening around us every single day. And just like Fight Club, your friends don’t talk about it, women don’t talk about it, but those who know, know. How do you g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 02:42 AM |
| 7 | Women that can’t get pregnant or have genetic conditionsSo you don’t eat or sleep, or have a desire for self preservation? Or react to visual, auditory, or physical stimuli? Or experience fear, sympathy, anger, jealousy? You may want to visit a doctor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 12:54 AM |
| 2 | How do straight guys feel about dating someone who would like to use a surrogate to have kids?Yes I am aware of what happens. But it’s sort of a self filtering fitness test for motherhood, no? Billions of women have passed it, but yet that doesn’t mean it’s for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 12:37 AM |
| 3 | POLYGAMY WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThe majority of women are already in a harem, they just don’t necessarily know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 10:53 PM |
| 4 | Women that can’t get pregnant or have genetic conditionsDo you not know that humans are animals? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 09:58 PM |
| 12 | Women that can’t get pregnant or have genetic conditions“men unironically saying something along the lines of “I want to pass my genes on”. I didn’t realize it was so hard coded into them.” …are you not aware of the concepts of evolution? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 09:35 PM |
| 11 | How do straight guys feel about dating someone who would like to use a surrogate to have kids?“As someone who is not really into the whole pregnancy thing, but would be open to having children with the right guy.” Yikes. 🚩 It’s a child, not a dog you pick up from the shelter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 08:29 PM |
| 3 | How do straight guys feel about dating someone who would like to use a surrogate to have kids?$75k?!? That’s it?!? That is true desperation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | "Having sex in order to see whether there's compatibility" is sort of like "Eating in order to see whether you're hungry" - It's reverse order and pathologicalSounds like you’re a dead fish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 03:46 PM |
| 7 | "Having sex in order to see whether there's compatibility" is sort of like "Eating in order to see whether you're hungry" - It's reverse order and pathologicalThis post is yet another exhausting projection of someone’s own insecurities based on something they’re not getting in their own life. I don’t give a shit what kind of music you like. Can you fuck? That’s compatibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 11:32 AM |
| 1 | "Having sex in order to see whether there's compatibility" is sort of like "Eating in order to see whether you're hungry" - It's reverse order and pathologicalFucking hot women while traveling the world is a waste of youth? 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 11:30 AM |
| 1 | I believe going to the gym is overrated for attracting womenAt 22 you should be absorbing advice from people with life experience, not making grand statements as if you actually know anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 09:12 AM |
| 5 | I believe going to the gym is overrated for attracting womenHomie you’re 22, the fuck you know about anything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 06:13 AM |
| 1 | It feels like women are actively avoiding spaces where it's socially acceptable to approach them.I’ll see you in the organic peppers section! 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 04:28 PM |
| 3 | It feels like women are actively avoiding spaces where it's socially acceptable to approach them.Lol for real though, easiest conversation starter in the world: “excuse me, do you know how to tell if avocados are ripe?” Leads into a funny conversation where you’re both touching your nose as a reference point for the avocados firmness. If y’all aren’t clicking at that point, time for the guy to move on, but it’s otherwise a harmless approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 04:27 PM |
| 3 | It feels like women are actively avoiding spaces where it's socially acceptable to approach them.Sounds like ego defense to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 04:25 PM |
| 3 | It feels like women are actively avoiding spaces where it's socially acceptable to approach them.Where have 100% of the women on earth stated this? I must have missed the announcement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 04:24 PM |
| 6 | It feels like women are actively avoiding spaces where it's socially acceptable to approach them.Man I could pickup a new woman every day just hanging around the produce section of Whole Foods. Bars and pubs? This isn’t 2002. Besides, you can approach women anywhere. There are no rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 06:33 AM |
| 8 | casual sex isn't as fun as I thoughtLmao. This reminds me of the time I listened to 4 songs and then decided music wasn’t for me 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 06:13 AM |
| 2 | q4a for all high n-count people. was it fun? was it worth it?You wish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 11:00 PM |
| 4 | q4a for all high n-count people. was it fun? was it worth it?I was in your shoes at 31. 100+, felt compelled to keep smashing as much as possible. Eventually you get tired of it though. Then you have your pick of women to settle down with, which is what I did. It’s been 5 years and I haven’t even come close to cheating. In other words, you’ll be fine. Your priorities change and your behavior will follow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 10:00 PM |
| 3 | q4a for all high n-count people. was it fun? was it worth it?Lol, nah. Sounds like you’re just jealous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 09:59 PM |
| 28 | What does Average Adam have to offer for ANYONEAdam sounds like the type of guy that would come help you change a flat tire in a snow storm. I’d hang with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 05:13 PM |
| 5 | q4a for all high n-count people. was it fun? was it worth it?M37 N~125+ My only regret is that I didn’t sleep around more when I had the chance 😅 Of all the experiences I’ve had in life, and I have had an interesting life, I would say that nothing compares. The pure dopamine release of a new partner is incomparable. And pulling multiple new women in a single day? There are no drugs that can compare to the cloud you’ll be floating on. No level of achievement, money, accomplishment, love, or anything else can touch the purity of pleasure that comes with an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most women also have a N count preference and threshold, it's just higher than the N count preference of men. Therefore it's hypocritical for women to shame men for having a preference as they also judge men's value over his sexual experiences.30 is very low, unless you were married at an early age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 03:37 PM |
| -2 | Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girlsLol really? I don’t know any single guys in their 30’s that’s not dating a girl in her early 20’s. Why wouldn’t they be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 11:33 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Most women also have a N count preference and threshold, it's just higher than the N count preference of men. Therefore it's hypocritical for women to shame men for having a preference as they also judge men's value over his sexual experiences.30 is not a high n count. For a man with game I’d expect him to hit 30 by the end of his college years/early 20’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Bumble doesn't work because women HAVE to message first and they still WANT traditional gender rolesBumble attracts a broader range of women than the other apps. It’s probably the best app of the bunch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.Ok, that’s nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.Well I guess I’m glad you’re worried about it? Lol. I’m sure not, and neither are virtually all women. And you’re right, a small minority of people do still have weird hang ups about sex, due to religious upbringings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 05:14 PM |
| 5 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.I don’t think you’re understanding the point here. It’s called projection. Calling all women “mentally wrong” is a bit much. Also, who said sex was intimate? It’s just a form of pleasure for most people. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 04:57 PM |
| 25 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.No I meant what women say they want vs. what they actually do are rarely the same thing. I.e. “I will wait 3 dates before having sex, but first we will talk about STI’s and use a condom.” Reality: bangs 2 hours into first date, no protection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to become desensitised to attractive people in real life and dating?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 03:53 PM |
| 52 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.What women say they believe and what they actually do are rarely the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 03:49 PM |
| 2 | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 03:47 PM |
| – | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?Nah, just reality. Weird that people still believe in Puritan views of women's sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 06:35 AM |
| – | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?STI risk is far over stated, and the pull out method is 100% effective if you’re not an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 06:27 AM |
| – | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?Correction: the majority of women do engage in casual sex, they just don’t tell anyone about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 06:25 AM |
| – | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?Yup. The vast majority of women don’t care about condoms. It’s fucking wild. But also amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approach is useless for 90 percent of men.Your character is the argument. You need to have a strong one to run game, you can’t be someone that makes excuses and whines because things are hard. Grow up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Cold Approach is useless for 90 percent of men.You can’t even spell, and you want me to believe you have good game? Don’t waste my time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approach is useless for 90 percent of men.Yup, you hit the nail on the head. In the old days we used to call this Game Denialism. Guys that would bend over backwards to explain why the world is against them, despite their complete lack of effort to change their circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 02:44 PM |
| 0 | Cold Approach is useless for 90 percent of men.This is yet another horrible post. I don’t think you understand what game is. Your post is like saying: “I put a tomato in my car engine and nothing happened. Therefore, cars don’t work.” You need to learn what game is before you can comment about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 02:41 PM |
| 3 | CMV social skills is genetic and people can't just learn game.The main tenet of game is that anyone can learn it. That’s the whole point. If you were socially gifted from birth, you’d be called a natural. What’s with all the strawman arguments here lately? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 02:39 PM |
| 4 | Cold Approach is useless for 90 percent of men.This is a horrible post. It’s a list of excuses from a very weak man with a toxic mindset trying to bring others down to his level, so he won’t feel as bad about himself. Get your act together. Take responsibility for yourself. Do the work. Learn game, get in shape, and practice relentlessly. Fail. The get up and keep working. You haven’t done any of this. That’s the reason you’re a failure, not because cold approach doesn’t work, but because you’re afraid to do the work necessary, that other me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:11 AM |
| 3 | (Not complaining but) why are women so commonly all of a sudden sending nudes nowadays?Because a lot of guys have zero game. They know they’re not gonna fuck this girl, so they text forever and eventually work up the nerve to ask for nudes. That’s the best they’re gonna get. Me? I use texting for logistics to setup a date as quickly as possible after matching, so I’m not competing with the other 50 guys texting her. If the date goes really well, she’ll let me photograph her myself. Win win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Do older women resent younger women ?100%. But it’s natural, so can’t blame them. Younger women will always get picked up by the best men, and older women aren’t even in consideration after they hit the wall. So resentment is a byproduct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Most of the OGs of PUA are more blue pill than red pillA lot of red pill guys say that sluts don’t exist. They’re just women who enjoy sex, same as men who enjoy sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Women of Reddit. What's your experience dating rappers, athletes, actors, entertainers, etc.?Reading between the lines this is pretty interesting. Mainly the part that he spent Christmas with his family and has good relationships with them. Whether it’s a pro athlete or a regular guy…a good family sets up their boy to become a good man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Promiscuity has little to do with looks in both men and women.Sex and relationships/love are in wholly different categories in my head. So it is sort a moot question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 05:53 AM |
| 7 | Promiscuity has little to do with looks in both men and women.A lot of people confuse low standards with wide standards. As an example, I love all types of music. I’ll be happy listening to hip hop, classical, country, electronic, or Swedish death metal. You name it. Whereas a lot of people hone in on just 1 or 2 genres. The same is true with promiscuity. I don’t have a high n count because I have low standards, it’s because I find a wide variety of women attractive. For example, I’m white and a lot of my white friends would never approach a black woman, o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 09:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Honestly it sounds like you really need to learn some game. That’s the missing piece for a lot of men. For you it seems like a huge missing piece, as you should be doing 6 dates every 2 weeks, not per year. You’ve got all the building blocks in place. Mainly, you come across as well adjusted and smart, and you’re fit and bringing in great money. Bet you have your own place too, so you’re setup for success. Couple things that stick out to me: being “respectful” is good in theory but with online g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Do women care about a man’s sexual past?This is a great example of what women say they care about vs. what their behavior reflects. I’ve been with well over 100 women. I think maybe 2 have asked about my past? And I’ve never asked a woman about hers, because you can usually just tell by the way they carry themselves anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else see tinder and other online dating as some kind of game?I mean they don’t call it having game for nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 03:10 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.What did you do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Man you can’t even be bothered to type complete sentences. Waste of everyone’s time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Who gives a shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 05:01 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Nah, it’s not either of those. You’re just defensive because I struck a nerve, and you’d rather be coddled. But hey, if you want to argue that obese men who have no hobbies and dress like slobs should be getting ahead in life, have at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 05:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Hell yes. Thanks for being one of the few to get my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 03:49 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Yeah that’s a fair assessment. I just lose my patience with people that blame others for problems they can correct themselves. But good feedback, duly noted, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Telling men to improve themselves is bullshit? Nah, you’re just another lazy, entitled guy that doesn’t want to do any work, and expects the world to fall at his feet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:46 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Yet another guy afraid of the fact that he’s the only one holding himself back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Is that the best strawman you can come up with? Debate the topic or don’t waste everyone’s time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 09:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Where did I mention money? Or looks? I listed out 8 different metrics. You’ve done 1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about Responsive vs Spontaneous sexual desires, and how it affects long term relationships, and casual sex?I cleared a triple digit body count in my 20’s. I’ve now been married for 5 years. Claiming that only 15% of women are interested in spontaneous sex is complete horseshit. Source: been there, done that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 07:18 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Nah, you’re just a phony. Another guy that hasn’t done the work, that wants to bitch about dating. And bring others down to his level. Working hard to get what you want isn’t bootstrap logic. It’s called taking accountability for yourself. Which you’d know if you’d done half of what you claimed to. But you have’t, so you don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 07:13 PM |
| 5 | Can we talk about Responsive vs Spontaneous sexual desires, and how it affects long term relationships, and casual sex?Where did she pull these 85% & 75% numbers from? Was there a study? Smells like bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 06:52 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.After 14 hours, this post is only 57% upvoted. Men can’t even hear the truth about themselves. No wonder they have no success with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.So you went through all that self transformation and your conclusion is: “it’s ok to not try hard?” Starting to think you didn’t do half as much work as you claim. Giving up is indeed a fault of character. Straight up. I’m moving on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 06:47 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.We could have just read my original post. I’m not here to hold anyones hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 06:39 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.The dating market has never been fair, easy, or enjoyable. Most males of most species don’t ever reproduce. Only 39% of primate males reproduce. For humans, it’s 40%. That is nature. But I’d rather be in your shoes, having given myself a fighting chance, than in the shoes of the guy too scared to even try. That’s all I’m saying: most men don’t even try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 06:00 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.“If I meet someone then great. If not I am always busy anyways.” Just wanted to point out that this is a great mindset. You aren’t blaming anyone. You aren’t pitying yourself. You’ve taken charge, and you’re living your life. Majority of men never get to that stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 05:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.He ignored the content of my post. And so did you. He invented a hypothetical to find an excuse not to do the work. “If everyone did the work, then standards would rise.” Well, no shit! But, everyone isn't doing the work. That’s the point. Be one of the people who does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Wake up to what? That life is unfair? I already knew that. Some people have it easier than others? Tough shit. I guarantee whatever you’re facing, somebody out there has it worse and has overcome their odds. You speak English and have an internet connection. You’re already in the top 50% of humanity based on that alone. We all play the hand we’re dealt. You have two choices: sit in the shadows and wait to die, or make a change and get what you want. Don’t over complicate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 05:51 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Hell yeah, good for you for not being average. Now you can relate to women who complain how few good me there are. The funny thing? You’re both right. There are few good men and few good women. But you’ve given yourself a fighting chance to find one. You are in position to find success. It’s not guaranteed, but I’d rather be in your shoes than in the shoes of someone who gave up after their first rejection. Also: the standards aren’t rising. More men are getting obese each and every year. The od… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 05:44 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.All men don’t have to get in shape. Only he does. Then he’ll be above average. Simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 05:41 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Yup! A lot of guys won’t even lift a finger until they know results are guaranteed. And even if they did, many still couldn’t be bothered to improve upon what they were in high school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 05:33 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.My man, it sounds like you worked your ass off for a long time and then started getting much better results in life. I know that shit wasn’t easy. What I mean by easy is that the solution is a clear path forwards: hard work for a long period of time. Even a self described regular guy like you can pull it off. You said it’s a slog – that’s what most men are afraid of. They’d rather bitch and moan than work as hard as you did. I’m willing to bet that when you started, you weren’t a millionaire, yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.I’m asking: how do you know the juice is it worth the squeeze? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Have you tried? Sounds like you’re placing limits on the world because you don’t want to work hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.How would you know women aren’t worth the effort? Are you speaking from experience, or something somebody else told you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:42 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Telling men they should be not-obese isn’t healthy? Come on now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:41 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.How would you know the juice isn’t worth the squeeze? You admit that you haven’t even tried yet. You’ve given up the game before leaving the locker room. Of course you have zero results to show for your zero effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:39 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Your actions determine 100% of your outcome. You’re still trying to find excuses as to why you shouldn’t try. Hard work doesn’t bring results? Give me a break. Your future is in your own hands, nobody else’s. Do the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:37 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.It’s crazy, right? Men bending over backwards to explain away why they don’t want to lift a finger. The entitlement is absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:30 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.In what universe do you think all men are going to get buff? 40% of men can’t even stop eating enough to be in a healthy weight category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Right which is why I wrote a whole post with other words in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:46 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.So what’s stopping you? Let’s troubleshoot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:46 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Sounds like you’re on the right track. It took me the better part of a decade of self improvement and constant dating before finding a woman worth settling down with. They’re out there. But it takes a long time to find them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:18 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Right, which is why high value men have many women. It’s easy to be a hot chick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:15 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.But everyone isn't doing that. The obesity rate rises every single year. My point is that it’s so easy to be above average, yet the majority of men don’t even want to try. Men who do try are shocked at the results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:14 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Not at all: being a millionaire takes talent, luck, and hard work. Going to the gym only takes hard work. No talent or luck required. It’s 100% on the individual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:12 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Sounds like another guy making excuses as to why he doesn’t want to do the work. A lot of men quit before they even get to the starting line. They don’t even want to try. Then they complain life is unfair. Does anyone else see a pattern here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:10 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Fair enough but I’m speaking in broad terms here. Only 1% of adult men are autistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:07 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Respect on being a man of self improvement. Respectfully, how is your game? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:06 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.You don’t need any resources to get up early and exercise. If you have an internet connection, then you can learn any new skill you can think of. The world is at your feet. Too many men make excuses instead of taking advantage of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:04 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Have you tried? Sounds like you’re finding reasons not to do the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:02 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Nobody deserves anything. If you want something, do the work to get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:01 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Most men simply don’t want to do the work required to get what they want out of the dating game, and instead use women, online dating, etc., as scapegoats to cover for their own laziness.Have you tried? Or are you finding a reason not to get in good shape? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Do red pill men realize that most women are frightened of red pill men?Agreed. I’m open to hearing legitimate debate from all perspectives here. That’s the point of the subreddit! But just making up stuff on the fly doesn’t result in an intellectual or informative dialogue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Impact of OLD and The Internet on datingIt sure as hell isn’t gonna hurt him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:48 AM |
| 9 | Do red pill men realize that most women are frightened of red pill men?Oh look, another person who doesn’t understand what the red pill is, and makes broad generalizations based off an emotional reaction to something they made up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Impact of OLD and The Internet on dating40% of 18-39 year old Americans are overweight. So if you’re not fat, you lead an interesting life, AND you have game? The world will be your oyster. All of those things are in your control, too. That’s why most men reject these ideas: they don’t want to do the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Impact of OLD and The Internet on datingThe numbers don’t lie my man. Step 1: don’t be obese Step 2: do something interesting with your life That’ll put you in the top 40% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:46 AM |
| 2 | red pill is lowering man’s self-esteemFucking a lot of women was supposed to drop my self esteem? Damn, it had the opposite effect on me 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:03 AM |
| 0 | Impact of OLD and The Internet on datingSolution: don’t be average. It’s never been easier to be above average, especially in America. Literally all you have to do is not be obese, and you’re already above average. The rest is up to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:00 AM |
| 12 | CMV Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 2: The Myth that Women Don't Want Vulnerable MenAnother bumbling strawman diatribe from the guy who just got laid, and now knows everything there is to know about men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 07:24 PM |
| -1 | Are worse economic conditions motivating younger women to date and marry older established men?Hahah nah I’ve always had good luck with feminists. Most of them are paper tigers that need a good dicking down from a confident guy that is sympathetic to their cause. The soy boys in their social circles don’t exactly get them wet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 03:01 PM |
| 2 | How much time before a girl is considered “making the guy wait” for sex?I don’t think she lied to you, and in fact it sounds like she was pretty open and honest. It sounds like you and I having matching opinions, just slightly different standards. And good point in your last paragraph - a lot of women don’t want the first time with you to be while they’re on their period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 02:45 PM |
| 3 | How much time before a girl is considered “making the guy wait” for sex?2 dates is my max. If she wants to wait until the 3rd date, then I know she’s fucking someone else, is religious, or otherwise has weird hang ups about sex that will make her bad in bed. Not interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 02:12 PM |
| 5 | Are worse economic conditions motivating younger women to date and marry older established men?It’s always been like this though, even during good economic times. I pull way more college girls in my 30’s than I did in my 20’s. Simply because young guys have nothing to compete with. Most of them can’t even hold a conversation, so older guys absolutely dominate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 1: Women and the TableFunny, I had the exact same reaction to this guys post. Homie has that “I got laid and now I know everything about women” energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 1: Women and the TableOnce again proving you don’t even know what the red pill is. 🤦♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 01:59 PM |
| 0 | Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 1: Women and the TableClearly, you do not. We learn by doing. And you haven’t done the work. Not one ounce. You have zero experience. Yet you’re here to tell those of us who have and who do, that we’re all wrong. Why would anyone take you seriously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 1: Women and the TableOP is 100% trolling. Or just thinks he cracked the code because he changed the rules to fit his personal definition of success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:55 PM |
| 0 | Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 1: Women and the TableSo you admittedly have 0 experience with the red pill, have not put it’s practices into play, yet you’re here to tell us all that we’re dumb. Just so we’re clear, this is the equivalent of a guy who’s never played baseball telling baseball players their strategy is dumb because one time you saw a baseball at the store. My original analysis still stands: you’re extrapolating your ONE experience with ONE woman into the whole of humanity. Lastly, if you’re “pretty good with women”, and your idea of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 1: Women and the TableOk? That’s not the point of his post nor my reply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Men are projecting when they try and scare women by the "cat lady" and "die alone" tropeStraight in defensive mode. Looks like I nailed my analysis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:49 PM |
| 5 | Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 1: Women and the TableAn experienced business person knows there is a massive gap between “interested customers” and actually getting a sale. You have women interested in you, but that’s a hundred miles from actually sealing the deal. This whole post reads like a dude who just got laid, and now thinks he’s qualified to rewrite the rules and dismiss all the wisdom men before him have earned. The heavy handed dose of white knighting bears this out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | This is why men need the Red Pill. White collar desk worker with no friends gets left for a guy in a leather jacket on a motorcycle.🤦♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 03:13 PM |
| 2 | How many of you have read the Rational Male?Rollo (the author) used to get ragged on nonstop back before game went underground. Dude was on all the forums, always intellectualized pussy like he was studying the theory of relativity. Homie one time admitted he only slept with 35 women, which did not help his credibility. All that’s said, his writing is indeed a bit more approachable, and he breaks down the big picture concepts well. But he was never a player and never put in the work to really understand women or the game. So I give him ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Men are projecting when they try and scare women by the "cat lady" and "die alone" tropeSomebody called you a cat lady huh? And now your hamster is spinning into overdrive. A woman over 30 without a partner has something wrong with her. Sorry to sound harsh but that’s the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:40 AM |
| 1 | This is why men need the Red Pill. White collar desk worker with no friends gets left for a guy in a leather jacket on a motorcycle.Intuition. I can recognize a soft man from a mile away, and this guy is as soft as they come. Bury your head in the sand if you wish, but game would save this dude a lot of future heartache. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 01:13 AM |
| 1 | This is why men need the Red Pill. White collar desk worker with no friends gets left for a guy in a leather jacket on a motorcycle.Check the second paragraph. This very much reads as a Nice Guy finds out the world is tough, and his girl was getting dicked down while he was trying to fill the provider role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 11:03 PM |
| 1 | This is why men need the Red Pill. White collar desk worker with no friends gets left for a guy in a leather jacket on a motorcycle.Ok, but nothing here goes against the red pill. In fact as the Nice Guy, homie just learned some red pill truths the hard way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 11:03 PM |
| 1 | This is why men need the Red Pill. White collar desk worker with no friends gets left for a guy in a leather jacket on a motorcycle.Bad boy is a figure of speech. Maybe it’s a US thing, I’m not sure. It just means he’s “cool” and not afraid to break the rules. This type of man can be attractive to someone in a conventional relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 10:37 PM |
| 1 | This is why men need the Red Pill. White collar desk worker with no friends gets left for a guy in a leather jacket on a motorcycle.We know that one guy got the girl with zero effort, and another guy lost the girl after a lot of effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | This is why men need the Red Pill. White collar desk worker with no friends gets left for a guy in a leather jacket on a motorcycle.I mean you can’t fit an entire Reddit post in 1 photo, lol. And you’re missing the point that she doesn’t give a shit if she gets cheated on by the new guy. She sure as hell won’t be crawling back to the boring desk jockey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | This is why men need the Red Pill. White collar desk worker with no friends gets left for a guy in a leather jacket on a motorcycle.r/nothingeverhappens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 10:20 PM |
| 15 | How do redpilled men view lesbians?Easier to talk to than woke straight women or soft straight men. And the three I work with bust my balls and crack jokes all day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?They all went back underground when cancel culture started. They’re still out there, it’s just not worth becoming a pariah during this particular cultural moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 08:40 PM |
| 11 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?10 years ago there were a lot of “red pill” web forums that men would discover to answer their questions about women. All of this cognitive dissonance you mention was quickly squashed on those forums, and young guys were taught red pill truths about women, dating, and their own value. More importantly they were shown ways they could improve themselves, and better get what they wanted out of life, and out of the dating game. Then “the red pill” slowly became politicized by right wing women hating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 04:30 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Height matters A LOT to womenNah. I’m 5’9” and hit triple digits in my 20’s. Having game, being fit, and leading an interesting life > being a soft, tall dork that codes computers 10 hours a day. 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 10:43 PM |
| 2 | A high number of past sexual partners is unattractive to both men and women. Women are just more forgiving of it.Hey yeah I’m new here. This is one of the best subreddits on dating/sex that I’ve found. A lot of very honest and reality-checked discussion happening here, so I’m looking forward to participating more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 09:38 PM |
| 7 | I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly.They aren’t facts. What you wrote is the sum of your experiences. And your experiences have led you toward hostility. If you don’t drop that toxic mindset you’ll never get what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 05:06 AM |
| 1 | If men don’t want to be cheated on, they shouldn’t date out of their leagueSounds more like you can’t seem to pull a guy that’s above your own status. So you date down and then cheat in order to cover up your own insecurities about yourself, and the crushing reality that a man of real quality hasn’t even attempted to lock you down. You can get a high status guy to blow out your back when he’s drunk in Vegas, but you can’t get one to take you to dinner. Ouch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 04:49 AM |
| 1 | I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly.Your first mistake is that you’re thinking. Women are emotive and emotional. Your whole mindset seems to be applying a male specific mindset toward women. Doesn’t work that way. Your second mistake is resentment. The whole “mini celebrity” thing is bogus and shows you’re hostile toward women, which is the polar opposite of the type of guy that knows how to pull. My advice? Get off the internet, chill out, and practice talking to people without trying to get something out of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 04:36 AM |
| 3 | A high number of past sexual partners is unattractive to both men and women. Women are just more forgiving of it.Very high n-count man here. Couple things: Nobody knows how many women I’ve slept with, not my friends, not even Reddit. And most certainly not the women I sleep with. So I would say it’s neither attractive nor unattractive, nor does it make me more or less desirable. However, women are indeed attracted to men that are good with women. That’s a hard truth. Confident, charismatic, aloof, and most importantly, carries a certain sexual energy and confidence that can only come from a high partner co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 03:01 AM |
| 9 | It's not the absolute number of past sexual partners that matters, but the relative numberThe best solution is to sleep with a lot of women, so that when you meet “the one” you’ll know your partner count is higher than hers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 08:14 PM |
| 2 | My first thought when Red Pillers say all women over 200 pounds are " unattractive " . She's 5'7 slightly over 200Clinical obesity is not attractive, sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 05:56 AM |
| 10 | A vocal minority is not enough to explain the explosion of the manosphere and other dating related content, things are truly different nowGame/pickup has been around for decades. It’s gone by different names, but it’s always been there. Game went back underground a few years ago, when cancel culture started, which is why so many guys are having trouble. You need to know where to look today and who to talk to for what used to be freely exchanged knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 05:55 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Red pill may work for picking up girls in bars and casual but will absolutely fail relationships later as that won’t work, and you have little chance forever.This is some of the most accurate analysis I’ve ever read on the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive womenI’m sorry but there’s just nothing to support that. It’s one of the most common misnomers about women. And it’s perpetuated by men who don’t get women in order to protect their ego from the harsh reality that they just don’t want to have sex with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 02:33 AM |
| 1 | It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive womenThis isn’t insightful. Just because women don’t react to lazy sexual advances the way men wish they did doesn’t mean women don’t want to have sex. You have to turn the car on before you hit the gas pedal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A lot of men struggling are in their situations because they live in male dominated, rural or suburban areas.Agreed fully. Congratulations on changing your circumstances and getting more of what you want in life. More to your point: life is all about sharing ideas, and broadening your horizons. And there’s no better way to do that than move to a big city. Whether it’s dating, career, artistic pursuits, you name it. You’ve got to go where the action is if you want to improve your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 05:19 PM |
| 2 | It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive womenI think you’d be shocked to find out how quickly regular women are jumping into bed when the opportunity presents itself. I know I was. They certainly aren’t telling other women about it for fear of being judged. I’m talking about picking up normal women at 10am on a Tuesday at Target and sleeping with them by Noon. There is simply just way more sex happening than anybody realizes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive womenThis is just dead wrong. It’s an old world way of thinking. Women love sex as much as men, including casual sex. They just aren’t telling you about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 03:20 PM |
| 5 | Do you think social isolation is damaging the relationship between genders?It’s the largest retailer on planet earth. Pretending you don’t know doesn’t make you cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 01:19 AM |
| 7 | Normie MotivationSounds like you cracked the code. Internal happiness is the ultimate trump card in life. Congratulations on your success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 01:05 AM |
| 0 | Normie MotivationGood for you brother, congratulations on rising above your circumstances and becoming a better man. I’d argue that you’re giving too much credit to normies. Most normies are scared shitless of life and far too afraid to do anything interesting with their time here. There’s a reason they say that success is generationally cyclical: children of successful people tend to be average, below average, or failures in life. Then the grandchildren start fresh back at the bottom, and have to work their way… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 12:48 AM |
| 6 | It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive womenDead wrong. You’re denying the advantage Mother Nature gave you. When you’re attracted to someone, that’s when your best game comes out. That’s when you’re authentic. That’s when you’re at your peak, and doing your best work to attract the woman you’re attracted to. Most guys are too scared to try. So they hit on ugly girls, but even ugly girls can sense desperation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 12:16 AM |
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