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2

If this based on experience or just a theory you made up?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:19 PM
2

No offense but if having sex with hot men/women makes you miserable, I think you may be doing it wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:30 PM
1

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 09:52 PM
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And yet you just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:11 AM
0

Nah. Source: I have 2x the life experience you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:54 AM
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Correction: women don’t look out for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:19 PM
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Truth hurts, babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:18 PM
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r/oddlyspecific
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:54 PM
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Women absolutely do not look out for each other 😂 You’re thinking of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:51 PM
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Of course they do. If she’s mature enough to choose career over a relationship, then she’s mature enough to understand the consequences of that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:51 PM
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Yes, always. Even 29 is pushing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:20 PM
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An unmarried woman over 30 is not mature. If she were she’d have already found a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:19 PM
1

Wow crazy, I never knew that. I do think it’s weird to ban subreddits because of association though. Conservative Americans committed an insurrection and their subreddit got to stick around lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:24 PM
1

Lol what?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:28 AM
1

Quite the opposite. A man with sexual agency threatens women’s and beta bale egos. Why do you think TRP got banned, but FDS and 2XChromosomes are allowed to prosper?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:49 PM
-1

HPV vax has been out for decades
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:47 PM
0

“ Women are not impressed by mens body counts.” Of course they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:46 PM
3

Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:55 AM
4

Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:23 AM
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Why would I want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t have a primal attraction to me? Withholding sex is the result of manipulation, or a lack of attraction. Not a good start to an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:21 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:18 PM
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The danger is that your life will improve and you will get more of what you want in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:16 PM
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I only fuck moderates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:45 PM
-4

“Small dick energy” is used as an insult for toxic masculinity. No relationship to actual dick size, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:13 AM
25

Then why are women pro-fat acceptance?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:30 PM
10

Which sort of proves OP’s point. A forum for male self improvement? We can’t be having that!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:29 PM
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Right it decreases but doesn’t disappear. Women are unable to reproduce after ~50, which biologically makes them unattractive to men. You seem really hell bent on proving that geriatric women are hotter than college chicks 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:16 PM
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Men like women are are capable of reproductive success. This peaks at 20. At 35 women become geriatric. Male sperm lasts a lifetime. Sorry you don’t like reality but emojis won’t change facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:50 PM
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Literally google any male actor over 50 lol. Women hit their peak at 20, sorry you don’t like it but that’s reality. Men are programmed to be attracted to fertility, and no woman is fertile after 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:38 PM
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I’ll lower the stakes for you: show me 1 woman who is over 50 and more fuckable than any skinny 20 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:04 PM
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Homie this isn’t hard. Date 1: bar you can quickly walk to Date 2: dinner at your house Date 3: dinner at a restaurant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:28 PM
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Ok, show me 10 women who are hotter at 50 than 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:12 PM
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Men age like wine, women age like milk. I can show you 1000 men who look better at 50 than they did at 20, but can’t think of 1 woman who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:28 PM
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Have you tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:13 PM
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And yet you’re speaking in the past tense. Says it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:12 PM
1

This is a very blue pill mentality. Life is fundamentally brutal and skipping off into the sunset with somebody who has the same hobbies you do just isn’t an outcome based in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:42 PM
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Yeah 2017 was the year of MeToo, which also caused game to go back underground. The result was that all this knowledge around dating and pickup disappeared almost overnight, and now guys today don’t even know the basics, or where to even look.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:28 PM
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Here’s one of those deniers now! A guy who’d rather blame others than take action.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:57 PM
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For a 40 hour work week, that’s true. But this a 10 month, 24/7 job. $75k works out to about $1/hour. Not a good deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:22 PM
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The truth? The hard, cold, depressing truth? You can fuck any woman you want if you have enough game. All the shit they sell you about status, money, clothes, is all supplemental, not elemental. Doesn’t matter if she’s married, on an airplane, or at Target at 11am on a Tuesday. There is an entire world, a secret society, of sex that’s happening around us every single day. And just like Fight Club, your friends don’t talk about it, women don’t talk about it, but those who know, know. How do you g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:42 AM
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So you don’t eat or sleep, or have a desire for self preservation? Or react to visual, auditory, or physical stimuli? Or experience fear, sympathy, anger, jealousy? You may want to visit a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:54 AM
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Yes I am aware of what happens. But it’s sort of a self filtering fitness test for motherhood, no? Billions of women have passed it, but yet that doesn’t mean it’s for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:37 AM
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The majority of women are already in a harem, they just don’t necessarily know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:53 PM
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Do you not know that humans are animals?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:58 PM
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“men unironically saying something along the lines of “I want to pass my genes on”. I didn’t realize it was so hard coded into them.” …are you not aware of the concepts of evolution?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:35 PM
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“As someone who is not really into the whole pregnancy thing, but would be open to having children with the right guy.” Yikes. 🚩 It’s a child, not a dog you pick up from the shelter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:29 PM
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$75k?!? That’s it?!? That is true desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:22 PM
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Sounds like you’re a dead fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:46 PM
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This post is yet another exhausting projection of someone’s own insecurities based on something they’re not getting in their own life. I don’t give a shit what kind of music you like. Can you fuck? That’s compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:32 AM
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Fucking hot women while traveling the world is a waste of youth? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:30 AM
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At 22 you should be absorbing advice from people with life experience, not making grand statements as if you actually know anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:12 AM
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Homie you’re 22, the fuck you know about anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:13 AM
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I’ll see you in the organic peppers section! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:28 PM
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Lol for real though, easiest conversation starter in the world: “excuse me, do you know how to tell if avocados are ripe?” Leads into a funny conversation where you’re both touching your nose as a reference point for the avocados firmness. If y’all aren’t clicking at that point, time for the guy to move on, but it’s otherwise a harmless approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:27 PM
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Sounds like ego defense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:25 PM
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Where have 100% of the women on earth stated this? I must have missed the announcement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:24 PM
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Man I could pickup a new woman every day just hanging around the produce section of Whole Foods. Bars and pubs? This isn’t 2002. Besides, you can approach women anywhere. There are no rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:33 AM
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Lmao. This reminds me of the time I listened to 4 songs and then decided music wasn’t for me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:13 AM
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You wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:00 PM
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I was in your shoes at 31. 100+, felt compelled to keep smashing as much as possible. Eventually you get tired of it though. Then you have your pick of women to settle down with, which is what I did. It’s been 5 years and I haven’t even come close to cheating. In other words, you’ll be fine. Your priorities change and your behavior will follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:00 PM
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Lol, nah. Sounds like you’re just jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:59 PM
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Adam sounds like the type of guy that would come help you change a flat tire in a snow storm. I’d hang with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:13 PM
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M37 N~125+ My only regret is that I didn’t sleep around more when I had the chance 😅 Of all the experiences I’ve had in life, and I have had an interesting life, I would say that nothing compares. The pure dopamine release of a new partner is incomparable. And pulling multiple new women in a single day? There are no drugs that can compare to the cloud you’ll be floating on. No level of achievement, money, accomplishment, love, or anything else can touch the purity of pleasure that comes with an …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:22 PM
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30 is very low, unless you were married at an early age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:37 PM
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Lol really? I don’t know any single guys in their 30’s that’s not dating a girl in her early 20’s. Why wouldn’t they be?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:33 PM
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30 is not a high n count. For a man with game I’d expect him to hit 30 by the end of his college years/early 20’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:25 PM
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Bumble attracts a broader range of women than the other apps. It’s probably the best app of the bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:54 PM
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Ok, that’s nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:58 PM
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Well I guess I’m glad you’re worried about it? Lol. I’m sure not, and neither are virtually all women. And you’re right, a small minority of people do still have weird hang ups about sex, due to religious upbringings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:14 PM
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I don’t think you’re understanding the point here. It’s called projection. Calling all women “mentally wrong” is a bit much. Also, who said sex was intimate? It’s just a form of pleasure for most people. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:57 PM
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No I meant what women say they want vs. what they actually do are rarely the same thing. I.e. “I will wait 3 dates before having sex, but first we will talk about STI’s and use a condom.” Reality: bangs 2 hours into first date, no protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:37 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:53 PM
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What women say they believe and what they actually do are rarely the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:49 PM
2

?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:47 PM

Nah, just reality. Weird that people still believe in Puritan views of women's sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:35 AM

STI risk is far over stated, and the pull out method is 100% effective if you’re not an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:27 AM

Correction: the majority of women do engage in casual sex, they just don’t tell anyone about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:25 AM

Yup. The vast majority of women don’t care about condoms. It’s fucking wild. But also amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:13 AM
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Your character is the argument. You need to have a strong one to run game, you can’t be someone that makes excuses and whines because things are hard. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:43 AM
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You can’t even spell, and you want me to believe you have good game? Don’t waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:30 AM
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Yup, you hit the nail on the head. In the old days we used to call this Game Denialism. Guys that would bend over backwards to explain why the world is against them, despite their complete lack of effort to change their circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:44 PM
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This is yet another horrible post. I don’t think you understand what game is. Your post is like saying: “I put a tomato in my car engine and nothing happened. Therefore, cars don’t work.” You need to learn what game is before you can comment about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:41 PM
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The main tenet of game is that anyone can learn it. That’s the whole point. If you were socially gifted from birth, you’d be called a natural. What’s with all the strawman arguments here lately?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:39 PM
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This is a horrible post. It’s a list of excuses from a very weak man with a toxic mindset trying to bring others down to his level, so he won’t feel as bad about himself. Get your act together. Take responsibility for yourself. Do the work. Learn game, get in shape, and practice relentlessly. Fail. The get up and keep working. You haven’t done any of this. That’s the reason you’re a failure, not because cold approach doesn’t work, but because you’re afraid to do the work necessary, that other me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:11 AM
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Because a lot of guys have zero game. They know they’re not gonna fuck this girl, so they text forever and eventually work up the nerve to ask for nudes. That’s the best they’re gonna get. Me? I use texting for logistics to setup a date as quickly as possible after matching, so I’m not competing with the other 50 guys texting her. If the date goes really well, she’ll let me photograph her myself. Win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:01 PM
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100%. But it’s natural, so can’t blame them. Younger women will always get picked up by the best men, and older women aren’t even in consideration after they hit the wall. So resentment is a byproduct.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:36 PM
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A lot of red pill guys say that sluts don’t exist. They’re just women who enjoy sex, same as men who enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:03 PM
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Reading between the lines this is pretty interesting. Mainly the part that he spent Christmas with his family and has good relationships with them. Whether it’s a pro athlete or a regular guy…a good family sets up their boy to become a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:00 PM
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Sex and relationships/love are in wholly different categories in my head. So it is sort a moot question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:53 AM
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A lot of people confuse low standards with wide standards. As an example, I love all types of music. I’ll be happy listening to hip hop, classical, country, electronic, or Swedish death metal. You name it. Whereas a lot of people hone in on just 1 or 2 genres. The same is true with promiscuity. I don’t have a high n count because I have low standards, it’s because I find a wide variety of women attractive. For example, I’m white and a lot of my white friends would never approach a black woman, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:36 PM
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Honestly it sounds like you really need to learn some game. That’s the missing piece for a lot of men. For you it seems like a huge missing piece, as you should be doing 6 dates every 2 weeks, not per year. You’ve got all the building blocks in place. Mainly, you come across as well adjusted and smart, and you’re fit and bringing in great money. Bet you have your own place too, so you’re setup for success. Couple things that stick out to me: being “respectful” is good in theory but with online g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:48 AM
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This is a great example of what women say they care about vs. what their behavior reflects. I’ve been with well over 100 women. I think maybe 2 have asked about my past? And I’ve never asked a woman about hers, because you can usually just tell by the way they carry themselves anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:12 AM
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I mean they don’t call it having game for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:10 AM
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What did you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:12 AM
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Man you can’t even be bothered to type complete sentences. Waste of everyone’s time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:03 AM
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Who gives a shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:01 AM
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Nah, it’s not either of those. You’re just defensive because I struck a nerve, and you’d rather be coddled. But hey, if you want to argue that obese men who have no hobbies and dress like slobs should be getting ahead in life, have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:00 AM
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Hell yes. Thanks for being one of the few to get my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:49 AM
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Yeah that’s a fair assessment. I just lose my patience with people that blame others for problems they can correct themselves. But good feedback, duly noted, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:38 AM
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Telling men to improve themselves is bullshit? Nah, you’re just another lazy, entitled guy that doesn’t want to do any work, and expects the world to fall at his feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:46 PM
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Yet another guy afraid of the fact that he’s the only one holding himself back.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:00 PM
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Is that the best strawman you can come up with? Debate the topic or don’t waste everyone’s time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:58 PM
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Where did I mention money? Or looks? I listed out 8 different metrics. You’ve done 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:20 PM
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I cleared a triple digit body count in my 20’s. I’ve now been married for 5 years. Claiming that only 15% of women are interested in spontaneous sex is complete horseshit. Source: been there, done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:18 PM
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Nah, you’re just a phony. Another guy that hasn’t done the work, that wants to bitch about dating. And bring others down to his level. Working hard to get what you want isn’t bootstrap logic. It’s called taking accountability for yourself. Which you’d know if you’d done half of what you claimed to. But you have’t, so you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:13 PM
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Where did she pull these 85% & 75% numbers from? Was there a study? Smells like bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:52 PM
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After 14 hours, this post is only 57% upvoted. Men can’t even hear the truth about themselves. No wonder they have no success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:49 PM
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So you went through all that self transformation and your conclusion is: “it’s ok to not try hard?” Starting to think you didn’t do half as much work as you claim. Giving up is indeed a fault of character. Straight up. I’m moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:47 PM
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We could have just read my original post. I’m not here to hold anyones hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:39 PM
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The dating market has never been fair, easy, or enjoyable. Most males of most species don’t ever reproduce. Only 39% of primate males reproduce. For humans, it’s 40%. That is nature. But I’d rather be in your shoes, having given myself a fighting chance, than in the shoes of the guy too scared to even try. That’s all I’m saying: most men don’t even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:00 PM
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“If I meet someone then great. If not I am always busy anyways.” Just wanted to point out that this is a great mindset. You aren’t blaming anyone. You aren’t pitying yourself. You’ve taken charge, and you’re living your life. Majority of men never get to that stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:58 PM
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He ignored the content of my post. And so did you. He invented a hypothetical to find an excuse not to do the work. “If everyone did the work, then standards would rise.” Well, no shit! But, everyone isn't doing the work. That’s the point. Be one of the people who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:55 PM
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Wake up to what? That life is unfair? I already knew that. Some people have it easier than others? Tough shit. I guarantee whatever you’re facing, somebody out there has it worse and has overcome their odds. You speak English and have an internet connection. You’re already in the top 50% of humanity based on that alone. We all play the hand we’re dealt. You have two choices: sit in the shadows and wait to die, or make a change and get what you want. Don’t over complicate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:51 PM
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Hell yeah, good for you for not being average. Now you can relate to women who complain how few good me there are. The funny thing? You’re both right. There are few good men and few good women. But you’ve given yourself a fighting chance to find one. You are in position to find success. It’s not guaranteed, but I’d rather be in your shoes than in the shoes of someone who gave up after their first rejection. Also: the standards aren’t rising. More men are getting obese each and every year. The od…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:44 PM
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All men don’t have to get in shape. Only he does. Then he’ll be above average. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:41 PM
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Yup! A lot of guys won’t even lift a finger until they know results are guaranteed. And even if they did, many still couldn’t be bothered to improve upon what they were in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:33 PM
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My man, it sounds like you worked your ass off for a long time and then started getting much better results in life. I know that shit wasn’t easy. What I mean by easy is that the solution is a clear path forwards: hard work for a long period of time. Even a self described regular guy like you can pull it off. You said it’s a slog – that’s what most men are afraid of. They’d rather bitch and moan than work as hard as you did. I’m willing to bet that when you started, you weren’t a millionaire, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:58 PM
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I’m asking: how do you know the juice is it worth the squeeze?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:48 PM
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Have you tried? Sounds like you’re placing limits on the world because you don’t want to work hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:48 PM
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How would you know women aren’t worth the effort? Are you speaking from experience, or something somebody else told you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:42 PM
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Telling men they should be not-obese isn’t healthy? Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:41 PM
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How would you know the juice isn’t worth the squeeze? You admit that you haven’t even tried yet. You’ve given up the game before leaving the locker room. Of course you have zero results to show for your zero effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:39 PM
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Your actions determine 100% of your outcome. You’re still trying to find excuses as to why you shouldn’t try. Hard work doesn’t bring results? Give me a break. Your future is in your own hands, nobody else’s. Do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:37 PM
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It’s crazy, right? Men bending over backwards to explain away why they don’t want to lift a finger. The entitlement is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:30 PM
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In what universe do you think all men are going to get buff? 40% of men can’t even stop eating enough to be in a healthy weight category.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:47 PM
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Right which is why I wrote a whole post with other words in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:46 PM
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So what’s stopping you? Let’s troubleshoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:46 PM
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Sounds like you’re on the right track. It took me the better part of a decade of self improvement and constant dating before finding a woman worth settling down with. They’re out there. But it takes a long time to find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:18 PM
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Right, which is why high value men have many women. It’s easy to be a hot chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:15 PM
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But everyone isn't doing that. The obesity rate rises every single year. My point is that it’s so easy to be above average, yet the majority of men don’t even want to try. Men who do try are shocked at the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:14 PM
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Not at all: being a millionaire takes talent, luck, and hard work. Going to the gym only takes hard work. No talent or luck required. It’s 100% on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:12 PM
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Sounds like another guy making excuses as to why he doesn’t want to do the work. A lot of men quit before they even get to the starting line. They don’t even want to try. Then they complain life is unfair. Does anyone else see a pattern here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:10 PM
2

Fair enough but I’m speaking in broad terms here. Only 1% of adult men are autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:07 PM
3

Respect on being a man of self improvement. Respectfully, how is your game?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:06 PM
4

You don’t need any resources to get up early and exercise. If you have an internet connection, then you can learn any new skill you can think of. The world is at your feet. Too many men make excuses instead of taking advantage of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:04 PM
5

Have you tried? Sounds like you’re finding reasons not to do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:02 PM
7

Nobody deserves anything. If you want something, do the work to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:01 PM
6

Have you tried? Or are you finding a reason not to get in good shape?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:00 PM
2

Agreed. I’m open to hearing legitimate debate from all perspectives here. That’s the point of the subreddit! But just making up stuff on the fly doesn’t result in an intellectual or informative dialogue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:09 AM
2

It sure as hell isn’t gonna hurt him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:48 AM
9

Oh look, another person who doesn’t understand what the red pill is, and makes broad generalizations based off an emotional reaction to something they made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:28 AM
2

40% of 18-39 year old Americans are overweight. So if you’re not fat, you lead an interesting life, AND you have game? The world will be your oyster. All of those things are in your control, too. That’s why most men reject these ideas: they don’t want to do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:25 AM
1

The numbers don’t lie my man. Step 1: don’t be obese Step 2: do something interesting with your life That’ll put you in the top 40% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:46 AM
2

Fucking a lot of women was supposed to drop my self esteem? Damn, it had the opposite effect on me 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:03 AM
0

Solution: don’t be average. It’s never been easier to be above average, especially in America. Literally all you have to do is not be obese, and you’re already above average. The rest is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:00 AM
12

Another bumbling strawman diatribe from the guy who just got laid, and now knows everything there is to know about men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:24 PM
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Hahah nah I’ve always had good luck with feminists. Most of them are paper tigers that need a good dicking down from a confident guy that is sympathetic to their cause. The soy boys in their social circles don’t exactly get them wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:01 PM
2

I don’t think she lied to you, and in fact it sounds like she was pretty open and honest. It sounds like you and I having matching opinions, just slightly different standards. And good point in your last paragraph - a lot of women don’t want the first time with you to be while they’re on their period.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:45 PM
3

2 dates is my max. If she wants to wait until the 3rd date, then I know she’s fucking someone else, is religious, or otherwise has weird hang ups about sex that will make her bad in bed. Not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:12 PM
5

It’s always been like this though, even during good economic times. I pull way more college girls in my 30’s than I did in my 20’s. Simply because young guys have nothing to compete with. Most of them can’t even hold a conversation, so older guys absolutely dominate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:03 PM
1

Funny, I had the exact same reaction to this guys post. Homie has that “I got laid and now I know everything about women” energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:00 PM
1

Once again proving you don’t even know what the red pill is. 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:59 PM
0

Clearly, you do not. We learn by doing. And you haven’t done the work. Not one ounce. You have zero experience. Yet you’re here to tell those of us who have and who do, that we’re all wrong. Why would anyone take you seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:24 PM
1

OP is 100% trolling. Or just thinks he cracked the code because he changed the rules to fit his personal definition of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:55 PM
0

So you admittedly have 0 experience with the red pill, have not put it’s practices into play, yet you’re here to tell us all that we’re dumb. Just so we’re clear, this is the equivalent of a guy who’s never played baseball telling baseball players their strategy is dumb because one time you saw a baseball at the store. My original analysis still stands: you’re extrapolating your ONE experience with ONE woman into the whole of humanity. Lastly, if you’re “pretty good with women”, and your idea of…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:54 PM
1

Ok? That’s not the point of his post nor my reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:50 PM
2

Straight in defensive mode. Looks like I nailed my analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:49 PM
5

An experienced business person knows there is a massive gap between “interested customers” and actually getting a sale. You have women interested in you, but that’s a hundred miles from actually sealing the deal. This whole post reads like a dude who just got laid, and now thinks he’s qualified to rewrite the rules and dismiss all the wisdom men before him have earned. The heavy handed dose of white knighting bears this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:01 PM
1

🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:13 PM
2

Rollo (the author) used to get ragged on nonstop back before game went underground. Dude was on all the forums, always intellectualized pussy like he was studying the theory of relativity. Homie one time admitted he only slept with 35 women, which did not help his credibility. All that’s said, his writing is indeed a bit more approachable, and he breaks down the big picture concepts well. But he was never a player and never put in the work to really understand women or the game. So I give him ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:54 AM
1

Somebody called you a cat lady huh? And now your hamster is spinning into overdrive. A woman over 30 without a partner has something wrong with her. Sorry to sound harsh but that’s the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:40 AM
1

Intuition. I can recognize a soft man from a mile away, and this guy is as soft as they come. Bury your head in the sand if you wish, but game would save this dude a lot of future heartache.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:13 AM
1

Check the second paragraph. This very much reads as a Nice Guy finds out the world is tough, and his girl was getting dicked down while he was trying to fill the provider role.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:03 PM
1

Ok, but nothing here goes against the red pill. In fact as the Nice Guy, homie just learned some red pill truths the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:03 PM
1

Bad boy is a figure of speech. Maybe it’s a US thing, I’m not sure. It just means he’s “cool” and not afraid to break the rules. This type of man can be attractive to someone in a conventional relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:37 PM
1

We know that one guy got the girl with zero effort, and another guy lost the girl after a lot of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:22 PM
1

I mean you can’t fit an entire Reddit post in 1 photo, lol. And you’re missing the point that she doesn’t give a shit if she gets cheated on by the new guy. She sure as hell won’t be crawling back to the boring desk jockey.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:21 PM
1

r/nothingeverhappens
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:20 PM
15

Easier to talk to than woke straight women or soft straight men. And the three I work with bust my balls and crack jokes all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:10 PM
2

They all went back underground when cancel culture started. They’re still out there, it’s just not worth becoming a pariah during this particular cultural moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:40 PM
11

10 years ago there were a lot of “red pill” web forums that men would discover to answer their questions about women. All of this cognitive dissonance you mention was quickly squashed on those forums, and young guys were taught red pill truths about women, dating, and their own value. More importantly they were shown ways they could improve themselves, and better get what they wanted out of life, and out of the dating game. Then “the red pill” slowly became politicized by right wing women hating…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:30 PM
4

Nah. I’m 5’9” and hit triple digits in my 20’s. Having game, being fit, and leading an interesting life > being a soft, tall dork that codes computers 10 hours a day. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:43 PM
2

Hey yeah I’m new here. This is one of the best subreddits on dating/sex that I’ve found. A lot of very honest and reality-checked discussion happening here, so I’m looking forward to participating more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:38 PM
7

They aren’t facts. What you wrote is the sum of your experiences. And your experiences have led you toward hostility. If you don’t drop that toxic mindset you’ll never get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:06 AM
1

Sounds more like you can’t seem to pull a guy that’s above your own status. So you date down and then cheat in order to cover up your own insecurities about yourself, and the crushing reality that a man of real quality hasn’t even attempted to lock you down. You can get a high status guy to blow out your back when he’s drunk in Vegas, but you can’t get one to take you to dinner. Ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:49 AM
1

Your first mistake is that you’re thinking. Women are emotive and emotional. Your whole mindset seems to be applying a male specific mindset toward women. Doesn’t work that way. Your second mistake is resentment. The whole “mini celebrity” thing is bogus and shows you’re hostile toward women, which is the polar opposite of the type of guy that knows how to pull. My advice? Get off the internet, chill out, and practice talking to people without trying to get something out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:36 AM
3

Very high n-count man here. Couple things: Nobody knows how many women I’ve slept with, not my friends, not even Reddit. And most certainly not the women I sleep with. So I would say it’s neither attractive nor unattractive, nor does it make me more or less desirable. However, women are indeed attracted to men that are good with women. That’s a hard truth. Confident, charismatic, aloof, and most importantly, carries a certain sexual energy and confidence that can only come from a high partner co…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:01 AM
9

The best solution is to sleep with a lot of women, so that when you meet “the one” you’ll know your partner count is higher than hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:14 PM
2

Clinical obesity is not attractive, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:56 AM
10

Game/pickup has been around for decades. It’s gone by different names, but it’s always been there. Game went back underground a few years ago, when cancel culture started, which is why so many guys are having trouble. You need to know where to look today and who to talk to for what used to be freely exchanged knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:55 AM
6

This is some of the most accurate analysis I’ve ever read on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:07 AM
1

I’m sorry but there’s just nothing to support that. It’s one of the most common misnomers about women. And it’s perpetuated by men who don’t get women in order to protect their ego from the harsh reality that they just don’t want to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:33 AM
1

This isn’t insightful. Just because women don’t react to lazy sexual advances the way men wish they did doesn’t mean women don’t want to have sex. You have to turn the car on before you hit the gas pedal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:14 AM
1

Agreed fully. Congratulations on changing your circumstances and getting more of what you want in life. More to your point: life is all about sharing ideas, and broadening your horizons. And there’s no better way to do that than move to a big city. Whether it’s dating, career, artistic pursuits, you name it. You’ve got to go where the action is if you want to improve your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:19 PM
2

I think you’d be shocked to find out how quickly regular women are jumping into bed when the opportunity presents itself. I know I was. They certainly aren’t telling other women about it for fear of being judged. I’m talking about picking up normal women at 10am on a Tuesday at Target and sleeping with them by Noon. There is simply just way more sex happening than anybody realizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:13 PM
1

This is just dead wrong. It’s an old world way of thinking. Women love sex as much as men, including casual sex. They just aren’t telling you about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:20 PM
5

It’s the largest retailer on planet earth. Pretending you don’t know doesn’t make you cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:19 AM
7

Sounds like you cracked the code. Internal happiness is the ultimate trump card in life. Congratulations on your success.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:05 AM
0

Good for you brother, congratulations on rising above your circumstances and becoming a better man. I’d argue that you’re giving too much credit to normies. Most normies are scared shitless of life and far too afraid to do anything interesting with their time here. There’s a reason they say that success is generationally cyclical: children of successful people tend to be average, below average, or failures in life. Then the grandchildren start fresh back at the bottom, and have to work their way…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:48 AM
6

Dead wrong. You’re denying the advantage Mother Nature gave you. When you’re attracted to someone, that’s when your best game comes out. That’s when you’re authentic. That’s when you’re at your peak, and doing your best work to attract the woman you’re attracted to. Most guys are too scared to try. So they hit on ugly girls, but even ugly girls can sense desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:16 AM
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