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| 1 | Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive?You can only answer it for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive?Right? If I was a man, I’d like to have his voice and sex appeal. I’ve had a huge attraction towards him since Boston Legal days and then I watched Secretary lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive?I don’t think so. I think people can grow into being attractive depending on their brilliance / intelligence and charisma. Just as an example, I don’t think James Spader is particularly that attractive physically but once he speaks, I think he’s incredibly sexy. So…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Would you cheat for $10 million dollars; let your bf/husband cheat for $10 million; or neither.Yes but because it’s consensual, I don’t see it as cheating. But we would have to draw up a contract to split the money. Win win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 12:26 PM |
| 5 | To both men and women: Tell me your requirements for a partnerNot OP but I had gone on dates with men who couldn’t even walk for 20-45 mins without feeling like they were being tortured and that was very unattractive. I don’t need a man to be ripped but come on, stamina and cardio aren’t something to undermine. All the ones I encountered, all they wanted to do was to lay on the couch. I know I can’t see a future with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 08:18 AM |
| 4 | Real talk… what actually makes you stop on someone's profile ? (especially want to hear from girls)I actually look for firstly physical attraction and aligned values (religion / political stance / childless as I don’t want to date single fathers) and if I feel like the men’s profiles show some kind of personal interest be it photography, hiking, football, whatever. If they have a topless photo, I’m definitely out since I’m not looking for a casual encounter. If they have a Snapchat handle on their bio, I’m out too. Photos that are clearly half-assed, I won’t bother. Mainly, is how they look i… | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Do every woman go through a hoe phase?I won’t say I enjoyed it. It was a blur. I didn’t really remember most of it. I was young and did what I thought was right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:49 PM |
| – | Do every woman go through a hoe phase?I was probably having my “hoe phase” between 22-26 because I was looking for a relationship but just meeting men and them promising so much potential for a relationship which didn’t end up being anything, just basically a whole cycle. It was rather draining but I had a good support system and I was single that time until I met my late husband and that changed my everything. He was the man who truly changed how I see love. Now that I’m a young widow since 5 years ago, at 36, I do feel the fear th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:28 PM |
| – | Men’s attraction vs. women’s attraction it’s not the same thingMost people, men and women, date others of the similar level of physical attraction and also educational level, with women preferring men to have the same or higher education level attainment. Many studies have already proven that. Of course there are outliers, but generally, that is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 10:19 AM |
| 3 | Which love languages do the most for you, and which give you the “ick”?All of them are important but since we have to rank them here… Thoughtful gifts, quality time, words of affirmation, and physical contact are my top love languages to receive, in that order. I think I give very thoughtful gifts, physical contact, quality time and words of affirmation the most. Like I would go to the supermarkets or shops and see something that reminds me of someone and I’d get it for them. Chocolates, snacks, little stuff etc… makes me happy to see them happy but if they don’t l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Do women like both masculine and feminine traits in a man ?I think everyone’s got both traits in them. I’m a woman but I honestly don’t really know how to categorise and assign certain traits to specific gender. I can only describe what I personally like in a man that I’m with. I like it when a man is dependable, reliable, and strong not just physically but mentally and emotionally. Someone that I can cry and turn to when I feel like I need the extra support. He would know how things work and if not, he will find out. He can take care of my needs and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:29 PM |
| 14 | Do you know what makes a good gf /wife?What’s good to one is not good for the other. It’s all subjective. Sometimes, some people bring out the best and the worst in us. I think my friend’s husband is great to her because he’s responsible, sweet and harmless and she likes that. From what I know, he’s not really my type because then he’s too vanilla and boring. So honestly, it’s really, really subjective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Out of all the men you meet in your day to day life how often do you meet a guy that you actually like? And why do most men not do it for you?I know what to prioritise and what not to. I’d rather choose someone who’s compatible with me. So not settling but what I’m seeking for isn’t perfection either. With all due respect, I’m not picky but I’m just happy with the choices I have for myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Out of all the men you meet in your day to day life how often do you meet a guy that you actually like? And why do most men not do it for you?No, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Out of all the men you meet in your day to day life how often do you meet a guy that you actually like? And why do most men not do it for you?Not so often. I’m physically attracted to men who are childfree, atheist, fit and in good shape, don’t smoke, no drugs, doesn’t drink excessively, dress well in a casual way and clean shaven and most men don’t have the combination of all three. And then when you start to have a conversation and talk about fundamentals, that’s also when most men would drop off from the consideration set. But it’s okay though. Since I am not willing to compromise on some things, I know I’m only making it more diff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 06:56 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates?I guess it all depends on the culture and the individual themselves. I prefer the man to take care of the food/date but I’d get the next stuff, like we take turns. At least I’m getting to know someone right now and he makes more money than I do so for example he pays for dinner and I pay for the cocktails after. If we go out and see a movie, he can get the tickets and I can get the snacks and drinks. I suppose if gender roles reverse and they are happy as a couple, it doesn’t matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Do Android phones really make you less attractive?It is indeed the world we are living in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Do Android phones really make you less attractive?Yeah it’s how it is without knowing the person. That’s normal though. It’s just perception. It is different once you get to know the person better, obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Do Android phones really make you less attractive?I understand that mentality too but I’m more of a wasteful consumerist so I think that if a man is very much into upgrading his stuff on his own, it’s cool but I think he would have his own issues with me buying new gadgets just because the older models aren’t just doing it for me anymore. It won’t be compatible in terms of lifestyle, that’s what I’m trying to say. He won’t understand why I’d like to have the latest model. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 08:21 AM |
| 0 | Do Android phones really make you less attractive?I knew someone’s gonna point this out but I don’t care. I guess I prefer if a man likes being updated with his gadgets like I am. It doesn’t have to be an iPhone, that’s all I’m gonna say. Most of them prefer android if they know any shit about tech tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 07:48 AM |
| 3 | Do Android phones really make you less attractive?wtf is this question? I don’t care what phone a man or woman uses as long as they respond to my texts, or calls, especially the urgent ones! But I gotta say that if I see someone using a phone that’s like more than 8 years old or like a low-tier phone, it’s kind of weird… they’re laggy and slow af. Like I’d think we are not compatible because they’re not as technologically advanced. Same with people using wired earphones or wired headphones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Is the game rigged from the start?This post contains so much self-pity, I can’t even imagine why women would want to date you. You could definitely cross post this with r/incel. | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 03:56 PM |
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