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| 1479 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists? | DISCUSSION | sybildb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | REMINDER: It’s OK to want a big wedding! | REMINDER 👑 | sybildb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 07:34 PM |
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| 18 | If he wanted to, he would!It’s incredible how many posts there are on RelationshipAdvice from women complaining about their video game addicted husbands. Literally dozens of posts like that on the sub. The video game addicted men don’t provide anything to the household or to the children, all they can do is game, jack off to porn, and eat junk food. Worse yet, a lot of those posts from women with NVM gamer husbands mention their husband is unemployed as well. I knew this woman who’s fiancé gave her a cheap ring which dis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:30 PM |
| 91 | If your man isn't supporting your hobbies, it's time to move him along and replace him with a woodworking shop that does.Do you think some LV guys don’t support their gf’s hobbies out of jealousy of their abilities? My NVX was really critical of my guitar playing and was always discouraging me from it (telling me I wasn’t all that good and I should just give it up). But he himself wanted to learn guitar but always got too discouraged from its difficulty. I think he just didn’t want me to be good at something he wanted to be better than me at. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:22 PM |
| 18 | TIL: The Left Hates Women Having Reproductive Choice with Their Whole Being. Their new tactic is to smear Sexual Selection as “TERF and Nazi propaganda” with doctored screenshots. Did You Know Not Having Sex With Men You Don’t Want To is Eugenics?Idc what these people say, I’m getting my partner’s genes screened before having children with him. I’m a carrier of a genetic illness (hereditary hemochromatosis) and I do not want to risk having a child that has such a brutal and disabling illness that’d likely require them to have a liver transplant before age 10. Apparently that’s on par with Nazism though 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 10:38 PM |
| 21 | The Pink Tax and Makeup CultureGood point! All those women I listed, like the Kardashians and the Hadid sisters, were raised in very vain, vapid, hollywood environments. It’s no wonder they turned out they way they did. I do put some responsibility on them still because they could be using their platform for a better cause like ending patriarchal beauty standards. But at the end of the day, it is 100% men’s fault for this epidemic of plastic surgery in young women/girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 07:12 PM |
| 14 | The Pink Tax and Makeup CultureButt implants have to be replaced every ~10 years, yes. It’s very expensive, too! The recovery for both the BBL and butt implants is really difficult, you cannot sit directly on your buttocks for 4-8 weeks after the surgery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 07:08 PM |
| 191 | The Pink Tax and Makeup CultureIt’s truly disturbing how much plastic surgery trends are taking over. You can blame the Kardashians, the Hadid sisters, Cardi B, Ariana Grande, and so on for this awful trend because they’re all severely surgically altered but still have the audacity to say it’s “good genes”. Young girls are seeing these surgically manufactured “glow ups” that are apparently natural and they are asking themselves, “why don’t I look like that?” Doesn’t help that the media is calling these plastic women “perfect”… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 04:34 PM |
| 66 | "Cishet" women are still oppressed. We are still women living under a patriarchal system.Well said. It’s always been funny to me when I see libfems claiming FDS and RadFems lack intersectionalism but then in the same breath, the libfems say cishet women don’t understand oppression and are privileged. Radfems/FDS absolutely does not lack intersectionalism. We acknowledge the unique struggles of women of different sexual orientations, different religious and ethnic/racial backgrounds, and so on. That includes cishet women. No woman is above sex based oppression. All women will experie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 10:01 PM |
| 23 | This will never not be funny.This is so true. And they’re always spouting the same bullshit they were before, just now they’re using words like ‘thus’ and ‘ergo’. Wow! I’ve suddenly realized I was wrong because Todd on Twitter knows how to use the word ‘quintessential’. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:55 PM |
| 79 | It's still the same thingI think making porn illegal could potentially make the problems with it worse. Imo, porn should be the new smoking so to say. We should be making every effort to change the public opinion on porn to where most people wouldn’t even consider using it because they know how bad it is for their health and how harmful the exploitative industry is. Some people would still consume porn regardless, but the more the demand decreases, then the more the industry decreases, too. It is an optimistic path but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 06:51 PM |
| 54 | FDS PODCAST UPDATE: we're going to start doing interviews!These are two great ideas. I’d love to hear an FDS interview with Gail Dines especially. Bancroft would also be really interesting. Too bad Dworkin isn’t around anymore, she would be my first pick for an interview lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 10:23 PM |
| 75 | From the interview “Prostitution is rape, and men know it” with Rachel Moran.Nothing but facts here. Money is the compensation for unwanted sex, and when you have been compensated for unwanted sex you have no right to complain. This is why it’s important to remember all sex work is non-consensual. Even women who aren’t sex trafficked are being r*ped. It’s not the women who are the problem, it’s the men who create the demand for sex work and the people who normalize it that are the problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 07:22 PM |
| 13 | This is just sadShe should’ve tried communicating with him more, maybe he’s depressed. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 09:23 PM |
| 10 | I hate (priveledged) sex workersYou’re absolutely right in everything you say, however, you mention ‘consensual sex work’. Even in the cases of privileged women who don’t have to or feel pressured to chose sex work, the act of prostitution cannot be consensual. There is no consent in sex work. This is because of the financial element and the coercion/manipulation that leads women to “choosing” sex work. The financial aspect works as a force upon them to have sex, this can’t be considered an informed or enthusiastic consent. Th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 04:43 AM |
| 14 | Just picked up a second-hand copy of The Gift of Fear!! Just the foreword has me hooked!I think you’re confusing it with Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft. The Gift of Fear is a self help book about trusting your gut instincts for the sake of your own safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 01:38 AM |
| 21 | #notallmen is no different than #alllivesmatter 100% of women will be sexually harassed or assaulted in their lives, but let’s be sure to pander to the perpetrators about how difficult it is for them when they are victims of the same crimesOmg, I’m so sorry that happened to you. That’s awful. I don’t blame you for not posting it in that thread, the men probably would’ve replied making perverted comments as they do 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 08:51 PM |
| 135 | #notallmen is no different than #alllivesmatter 100% of women will be sexually harassed or assaulted in their lives, but let’s be sure to pander to the perpetrators about how difficult it is for them when they are victims of the same crimesIt’s like the other AskReddit post I saw today where the prompt was something like: When have you walked out of sex? And the male answers were things like: “woman started howling during sex” or “she got her period during oral.” But then the women’s answers were things like: “my bf started full on beating me while we were having sex” or “he started choking me until I fell unconscious w/o my consent.” But yeah, poor men. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 08:27 PM |
| 130 | Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny.Amen. I got banned from r Feminism because of my comment saying the prostitution of women leads to more male violence against us. Crazy that acknowledging this fact got me banned in a (so called) feminist subreddit. Not surprising since that subreddit is modded by men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 09:30 PM |
| 9 | A religious, Q-Anon following white man targeted and killed 8, most of whom were female Asian sex workers. The news is only focusing on the race aspect and not the gender or sex work aspect. Never doubt the danger men pose.I for one want to INCLUDE sex workers Exactly. I’m not sex worker exclusionary, in fact, it’s the opposite. I feel empathy for the victims of sex work and I want to help them, unlike the libfems who try to say their trauma is invalid and sex work is EmPoweRiNg. I include sex work victims by joining the fight against women’s exploitation and sex trafficking, can the “sex positive” libfems say the same? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 10:13 PM |
| 60 | What's not clicking?Consent doesn’t exist in prostitution. IDK why it’s so hard for people to understand. The financial element of prostitution works as a force or a coercion against the woman to have sex. That is not a consensual act! Sex without enthusiastic, informed consent is rape, no if’s and buts about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 08:54 PM |
| 25 | Article on Vice about FDS is laughably inaccurateIt’s always funny how anytime people criticize FDS they say we believe there’s not a single good man out there but yet there’s dozens of posts on the subreddit highlighting good examples of high-value men. Or that we hate and want to k!ll low value men. Oh ffs, we just don’t want ourselves or our fellow sisters to date LVMs. It’s not misandrist to avoid dating NVM/LVM’s and don’t let anyone convince you otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 09:51 PM |
| 351 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.He manipulated HER into having children she didn’t want and HE is wanting a way out? No. She’s the one who deserves a way out. How despicably selfish. Poor woman, I hope she can find better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:47 PM |
| 6 | Stills from a scene in the 1998 music video for Pearl Jam’s “Do the Evolution”. Disturbingly prophetic.Pearl Jam’s song “Better Man” also explored abusive relationships, beautiful song he wrote at only 17 but it’s hard to listen to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 04:45 PM |
| 5 | LVM interactions with your pets that set off alarms?I thought I was the only one who noticed this! All the guys I’ve known that like dogs and hate cats have abusive and controlling qualities about them. I understand having a preference between the two, but guys who are hardcore only dog people are a red flag imo. I’m not sure exactly what it is but they’re typically control-freaks with toxic masculinity tendencies. In short, cat guys are the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 03:22 PM |
| 6 | “It’s fine if she’s legal.” This is so problematic.This is a good test, I like it. I’ve recently started seeing a guy who’s been my good friend for a while and the answer is a yes. My NVM ex on the other hand... lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 11:55 PM |
| 12 | This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the commentsIf this woman was my friend, I’d tell her to cancel with him and let me take her out to a nice dinner. No woman deserves to go to a Buffalo Wild Wings on Valentine’s day. edit: I’d also tell her to leave that good-for-nothing man, too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:00 PM |
| 50 | It amazes me how men have been creating the demand for sex work while simultaneously reproving women who supply it throughout history. Make it make sense!!Men are often all for women doing sex work and porn until it’s their daughter, their sister, their niece. It’s because they separate women in sex work as wh*res, sexual objects, sex toys. And libfems say I’m supposed to think sex work is empowering and feminist. No way. Giving into men’s misogynistic notion that they have a right to purchase our body’s isn’t feminist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?I’m so sorry that happened to you, it’s a horror too many women experience. I also thought 14% is low but then I did the math and that’s about 1 in 7, which sounds still a bit low but not unlikely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 10:16 PM |
| 22 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?Just ignoring, reporting, and blocking the harassing dm’s lol. Grateful for the mods who’ve been deleting the hateful comments, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 02:32 AM |
| 109 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?Ikr. I’ve gotten multiple private messages telling me how math works and how 1 in 10 doesn’t equal 100%. Wow, thanks I had no clue! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 09:28 PM |
| 45 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?Another comment in this thread mentioned that a study found 1 in 3 men would commit rape if they knew they could get away with it. It’s terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 08:29 PM |
| 82 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?I agree completely. Men saying “not all men” as a response to hearing about a rape is showing their lack of empathy for victims. Porn watching men also have significantly less empathy for victims of rape, yet another reason to avoid porn sick men. Source. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 04:33 PM |
| 230 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?Absolutely. There was a study that found 10-14% of women are raped by their husbands every year but the women didn’t consider themselves rape victims. It’s a very normalized type of rape that isn’t even illegal in some countries. Source. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:51 PM |
| 7 | too many women know this painThis has been me the last 2 weeks. I was talking to an ultra LVM/NVM last month (no effort, routinely hurt my feelings, didn’t want to commit to a relationship, porn addict) and he dropped me. I was upset about it but this subreddit has helped me realize how much better I can do. Occasionally I think about how on earth I was into this excuse for a man and I cringe so hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Woman fakes domestic violence to get man in trouble. Police arrest her. Looks like not everyone fell for #BelieveAllWomenbelieve all women? then believe all men who say they didn’t commit the crime. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/19 12:12 AM |
| 5 | Avril Lavigne hitting that wall earlyI mean she was struggling with it for several years and was literally on the verge of death. I’d give the girl some room to quote “hit the wall”. | /r/MGTOW | 24/12/18 01:50 PM |
| 12 | Avril Lavigne hitting that wall earlyshe had lyme disease ): | /r/MGTOW | 23/12/18 11:44 PM |
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