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Conversationsymmetricpancake/r/seduction22/04/26 11:55 AM
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Conversationsymmetricpancake/r/seduction14/11/25 01:01 AM
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Needed to hear this. I sometimes talk myself out but it’s hard. Experience is a bitch sometimes I chicken out of just saying hi. Cause it didn’t work 90% of the time.
/r/seduction20/07/26 09:56 PM
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This hasn’t helped me with game, I do all that. Massive self growth and in great shape. I do sports. I lack something spiritual or something. I talk to women and can smell something on me. It’s weird I’m at a roadblock, I’m also in Miami which is a very hard dating market I’m told.
/r/seduction20/07/26 03:05 PM
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What if we are already doing these things and it’s not working
/r/seduction20/07/26 12:00 PM
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Yeah that’s bonkers to me
/r/seduction26/06/26 04:45 AM
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Is something notable going on next to said baddies otherwise you are just in “hey you’re hot” territory and unless she thinks otherwise that’s not gonna do much for your pickup . Second, stop putting so much pressure on yourself. Cold approach is hard and I have to be in the right mood but damn it’s effective Third, Observe the scenery, point out stuff that is relevant. Hey what do you think about ___ brand for men (mall); hey are you drinking matcha? (I was by a famous matcha shop) Both of thes…
/r/seduction25/06/26 10:58 AM
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What’s OLD
/r/seduction17/06/26 08:26 AM
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Second this. Weight loss is all diet. Drop the carbs immediately
/r/seduction05/06/26 06:27 AM
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Any characters you recommend? I used to emulate barney from himym ironically and it kinda worked so there’s some truth in this but I don’t watch much tv or streaming now a days
/r/seduction05/06/26 06:26 AM
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Please do
/r/seduction31/05/26 12:14 AM
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Then just say how you feel. There isn’t a magic line anyone can tell you because as others pointed out the end action is futile. So say it as you’d like. Also i find ChatGPT or ai to be good at rephrasing into something more polite. If you have an example of something you said that felt impolute you can share for critique
/r/seduction22/04/26 09:18 PM
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This sounds like great advice do you have any examples you’re willing to share?
/r/seduction22/04/26 06:52 PM
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It’s hard I travel a lot for work so I need to rely on text and voice notes.
/r/seduction22/04/26 01:01 PM
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I appreciate you sharing been reading just the first few pages and I can tell this guys style is not natural to me. I grew up during mystery PUA and that whole act ‘mysterious and edgy quirky cool guy’ texting just doesn’t work for me which is a shame because I keep trying as that’s what I’ve been taught. It feels so forced and try hard and women pick up on it. Are there any alternative guides that have a more natural game approach?
/r/seduction22/04/26 12:52 PM
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I guess I’m shy and been emotionally abused enough by rejection to the point where when I say that it comes out like Dwight.
/r/seduction22/04/26 12:45 PM
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This is easy when you first meet and get the number, I’m interested in learning about maintaining and building attraction
/r/seduction22/04/26 12:44 PM
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“don't be a robotic motherfucker who lets everything bounce off of him, but at the same time do not react impulsively to anything. As I will point out shortly, disrespect should never be looked past, but petty arguments over trivial and inconsequential things, or even worse, ATTEMPTS to argue over insignificant things should never get to you.” How about Lead by example what good is this info without any details to apply it?
/r/seduction29/03/26 11:51 PM
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What would it take to get you to realize it?
/r/seduction28/03/26 08:45 AM
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What are some examples of how to be polarizing
/r/seduction28/03/26 08:42 AM
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You seem to know so why don’t you share
/r/seduction28/03/26 08:32 AM
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AI made up this story?
/r/seduction20/03/26 02:59 AM
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;)
/r/seduction20/03/26 02:58 AM
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The emotional way you react says everything about who is the n00b who gets rejected
/r/seduction20/03/26 02:56 AM
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The best way to learn is imitation watch others eavesdrop or insert yourself into a way you can observe others who look like they’re having success. From doing this I’ve determined it’s mostly just a looks thing. status, money, confidence help, but are no substitute for looks. Are you laughing? Looking like you’re enjoying yourself? That’s also a magnet for others
/r/seduction19/03/26 02:03 AM
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This is crap advice what can you evaluate when you are rejected for seemingly random reasons. This is the best seduction can come Up with?
/r/seduction19/03/26 01:59 AM
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Where you going with this
/r/seduction19/03/26 01:56 AM
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Just throw it in ChatGPT and get the gist
/r/seduction19/03/26 01:54 AM
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A quick google search will show that hooking up is down and people are having sex less frequently across all age groups. So yes, seduction has changed despite what others in here are saying. Anecdotally I notice it and my friend groups notice it, granted I’m in Miami which is one of the hardest dating markets. My personal take is women have become the primary seducers and deciders if a relationship moves forward. Putting yourself forward only gets you so far, all these seduction tips help but if…
/r/seduction12/03/26 10:51 AM
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Tbh you are advocating for lying, and that’s ok. If you want to treat this like a game, and optimize your chances, then it requires deception. Attraction with women is all about feelings, if you can accomplish that with just honesty then great. If you need to a specific outcome at a specific time , honesty is not the best strategy. It’s just game theory.
/r/seduction12/03/26 05:15 AM
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So how would you respond
/r/seduction10/03/26 10:38 AM
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But even the shy ones give off some meta physical signs there is attraction
/r/seduction20/02/26 08:32 PM
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It really depends how they’re raised. The majority of women you see that are glammed up, plastic surgery, with tats, are some red flags that they didn’t have a good father and I’ve noticed that when they are raised by a good father it’s reflected in the daughter to look for men that are like their father. Those women will be more able to look beyond “is this guy a loud boisterous alpha?” By judging your success, commitment, and how you speak. But those women seem rare these days or are in commun…
/r/seduction20/02/26 03:42 PM
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First off , where do you live? If you’re in the burns or the sticks then 27 might be “too old” but otherwise no that’s prime.
/r/seduction19/02/26 11:20 PM
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Why do you think it was
/r/seduction08/02/26 08:46 PM
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I think you have to breach local social circles otherwise cold approaches is a big no no unless you’re in roponge or something super touristy
/r/seduction08/02/26 08:43 PM
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I think it’s important to get comfortable with discomfort which is my biggest hang up. Hot girls are gonna challenge you and you gotta be able to take it well. I was at a barcade that has a really fun multiplayer game. The other team (with the hot girl) comes over and we all said good game and then they were talking smack about winning and I said it was this guys fault we lost (who was in their friend group) and the hot girl goes no it’s your fault he’s great. I said what is he your man? Because…
/r/seduction17/01/26 02:44 PM
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So what should he do?
/r/seduction22/12/25 02:10 AM
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Recognize that going out solo is one of the hardest things you can do socially some people wouldn’t in a million years put themselves through that. So give yourself a pat on the back for that. Sounds like you had a great time regardless.
/r/seduction28/11/25 03:40 PM
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Jumping in cause I’m curious what this even is?
/r/seduction28/11/25 03:35 PM
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I have this same exact criticism, I feel like back in the day the way movies portray relationships women were more forthcoming with why they said no. Now with ghosting and texting the feedback chain is even more broken. I think this applies more to texting though since you can tell in person if someone is dissatisfied.
/r/seduction23/11/25 03:27 AM
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Yeah personal interactions are much more open to feedback but text game which is where I feel a majority of the interaction occurs. It simply isn’t there majority if the time.
/r/seduction17/11/25 11:55 PM
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Sure
/r/seduction15/11/25 03:31 PM
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In online dating often times there’s really nothing to go off of in their profile to point out. So I guess what’s a topic others have had success to fabricate a discussion on the spot. Back in the PUA day they would be called routines but I think a lot of them are outdated now.
/r/seduction14/11/25 07:20 PM
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That’s tru but What about for online?
/r/seduction14/11/25 12:17 PM
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Texting because its easy to pivot irl, I just point something out in the environment but online there’s none of that.
/r/seduction14/11/25 12:17 PM
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The problem with this and where I find myself constantly is sometimes you don’t know what you did wrong in your interactions so how can you learn from it. Eventually you can piece together what threads work for you. But that takes time and awareness if you talk to 100 women and just strike out, chances are you’re learning very little from those interactions
/r/seduction14/11/25 12:52 AM
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Sadly there’s no magic formula. Ask yourself Why are you better with older woman? Is it because you don’t care? Is it because you feel higher value around older less desirable women? Is it because they engaging you how you want to be engaged so you’re more receptive? I feel like the best people with women are just good talkers and by that I mean they can talk about an interesting topic, seamlessly and with confidence. Have a few ‘go to’ topics that are interesting and you will develop a good wra…
/r/seduction14/11/25 12:50 AM
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