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One thing I am a little unclear about in this hierarchy is: It is my understanding that a man loves a woman more than a woman loves a man. And a woman loves children more than she loves a man. But if this were to continue, is it really true that women love children more then they love their mother? And do children really love puppies more than they love their mothers? Something about that seems off... I don't mean to antagonize, as I think this is a great framework through which to view things f…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 06:21 PM
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Yup and yup. Very long story short, I was with a hard-to-get, very attractive woman for a couple months and it got to a point where it seemed like shw had the power and control of the relationship despite my reading the red pill gospel a few times a week. Last week she was increasingly giving me more bullshit, so I pretty much just said "ok that's it for me, no thanks, I'm out" over text one night and turned my phone on silent. The next day, not only did I have a few dozen texts about how much s…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 11:43 AM
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I sadly have come across this very fact in the last couple of days (not like I didn't already know about it) but it's been on my mind. A girl I JUST decided to LTR went on vacation for a few days. She is 32 and beautiful. Hotter than any other girl I've been with. And I'm not saying that because of one-itis, she is just really hot. Anyway, she's been posting selfies on instagram of herself with her tits and her ass popping thru her small bathing suits and getting all sorts of comments from guys.…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 11:00 PM
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Who has already made up their mind about something? I started my post by asking if it were possible... not "I believe...." I was trying to start a conversation. I hardly think reiterating points that we all know to be mostly true is "educating me". Educating me that indeed it is IMPOSSIBLE? There couldn't be one example to exist anywhere ever? If that's the case it would be quite a lesson. It should be ok to interject an alternate point of view for the sake of discourse.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 11:34 PM
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Preciate the time and effort of your response. I don't see what's wrong with the discourse.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 11:29 PM
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Of course AWALT, BUT, could it be possible that these women, who are extremely goal and success oriented, may have skipped much of the CC, and legitimately could dedicate as much effort to a successful marriage as their successful careers just MAYBE be satisfied with the husbands described in this article without eventually needing something more and forcing the relationship into inevitable doom? Could they have the wherewithall to appreciate what they have and even continually contribute positi…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 10:51 AM
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Haha. Same situation happened to me a couple of weeks ago. Girl came into the bathroom line at the club asking people, one after another, if she could cut them because it was her birthday. I laughed at her and said no. and then she asked the guy in front of me and, with the biggest grin on his face due to the female attention and thinking he was doing a good deed or some shit, was like "of course". I couldn't fucking believe it! Because she still cut me! I called the guy out but it didn't really…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 06:32 PM
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Personally I think this is a very nice account of trial, error, and ultimately growth on your part. It doesn't really matter whether or not the exact principles should be applied to women as they are to four year olds, but your experience demonstrates to me that the fundamental attitudes inherent in red pill philosophy are translatable. Sure, you may not accomplish the same adoration from adult women with the exact same approach as you had with the four year old, but by using the same foundation…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 02:09 AM
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TLDR version: Befriended boy I was giving piano lessons to, then went out to a bar sober while everyone else was drunk. Didn't get laid, but also didn't get my ass kicked. edit: AWALT
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 02:33 PM
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oh. i get it. you're getting pie because today is 3.14? Nice
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 11:09 PM
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IUD is the most reliable form of birth control
/r/askTRP14/03/15 11:04 PM
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Getting rejected is a success. Especially at your stage. If you can manage to get rejected 50 times within a month or two, I can GUARANTEE you: 1) you accomplished multitudes more than someone who did not try at all and got rejected none 2) Getting rejected will no longer phase you 3) You will not be settling for anything less than what you want by the time you are 30 I hope you are lifting till failure at the gym...until your muscles reject the weight you are telling them to put up. Keep gettin…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 10:35 PM
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Can't argue with results. Maybe a, "You're confident. I like that" could have done the trick. I thought maybe your move came off as bitter, but I was wrong. Definitely helped you had the social proof to pull through. I think I just got my first plate. Congrats. And just remember, in case you ever start to catch feelings: she kissed and went home with you after talking with you for 30 seconds at a bar. She's done it before and she'll do the same shit with another guy one day too. Enjoy while it's…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 07:49 PM
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yea, not to be a naysayer, but to get a 'degree' in neurosurgery would cost a little more than 50,000, lol. Try 4 years of undergrad, 70k x 4yrs of med school, 7 years of additional training at 90+ hour weeks (which amounts to ~$14/hour).... On the other side of the coin (that you will owe all your lenders), that field is very far from feminist and socialist. Those guys are bosses.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 05:56 PM
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Congratulations on the weight loss. I hope you keep up striving/aiming/continuing to be the best possible version of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 07:59 PM
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Ha, at this point, 90% of my life's lessons come from this subreddit. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 04:54 PM
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What happened, he told her he decided to go into primary care? Bdoomm cchhhhh
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 01:32 PM
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Not something I would want to spend my money on BUT I always do have a blast at weddings. Free good scotch and single drunk bridesmaids.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 01:25 PM
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And I'm at the tail end of my 20's. Man, must have been a different world pulling tail in the 80's. With making plans over the telewire, spitting game in real life, and what not... Not to mention the 80's hair. Anything you would have done differently in your 30's, knowing what you know now?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 11:54 PM
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Thanks man. Not sure why you got down voted for knowing science. But appreciate the recognition
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 09:13 PM
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No (normal) person is gonna judge you because you don't want a fat, ugly bitch, women shouldn't be judged for not wanting that submissive beta faggot. Haha. This cracked me up. True words. Are you a dentist? Can I come to you for my dental work from now on?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 07:10 PM
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Curious how this translates to simple human psychology. Funny thing is, back before I swallowed the pill I gave the girls I had the lesser chances with my best emotional intimacy, with sensual try-hard blue pill sex. Now, my plates get the least emotional intamacy I've ever given women and I fuck them in the most degrading ways I can get away with WITHOUT trying to satisfy them....and they can't get enough. Maybe we are just wired to try harder, be more vulnerable, aka take more risks for things…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 07:03 PM
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Ok, I can see myself here in 15 years. If you don't mind a couple questions for advice: 1) how much income is disposable income for this type of arrangement. I'm at the way beginning of what will be a lucrative career, but in the field I'm entering, none of us know anything about money or what things cost or how to spend it until well into our careers. Are you like, paying her rent? 2) how does it work with the wife? Does she know you do this and is cool as long as it's not emotional? If not, do…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 02:03 PM
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Well that was anti climactic.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 01:32 PM
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wait, that's what we mean by beta? I've obviously been way too hard on myself
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 04:52 AM
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I could reiterate the answer that has already been fleshed out here, or I could refer you to comedian Jim Jefferies: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9VTtLCaUNMc Every single time a man sleeps with a lot of women, he’s called a stud. But if a woman sleeps with a lot of men, she’s called a slut, and people think this is unfair… Nah. It’s completely fair, and I’ll tell you why, alright? ‘Cause it’s fuckin’ easy to be a slut. It’s fuckin’ hard to be a stud. To be a stud you have to be witty, charmin…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 03:11 AM
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Wow. This has been happening and I didn't even notice it until you just mentioned it as a thing. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 05:18 PM
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Yea, I don't know much about it. Obviously that's what I thought too. There are often comments in here along the lines of 'prenups dont weight any more in court than the paper they're printed on'. So I googled it. Results are scary.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 03:42 PM
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Maybe this is common knowledge, but I've been doing a lot of thought and reflection about the marriage hesitancy thing and how it relates to me. It turns out prenups often don't really hold up in divorce court anyway. What the fuck?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 02:33 PM
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Is this an alternate ending to American Beauty?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 02:18 PM
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thanks for the tough love. I mean I was trying to express that I didn't care, and that even if she's with other guys i also don't care, I obviously just didn't get my point across via a good method. My brain gets fried by the end of these study days (more so than 10+h days working in the hospital) and I just can't come up with witty things or filter myself as well. Ok it's not a good excuse--I suppose it just goes to show how I have not fully internalized this mindset. Idk about wife and kids af…
/r/askTRP11/03/15 02:07 AM
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noted. thanks. putting too much effort in is a weakness of mine for sure
/r/askTRP11/03/15 12:48 AM
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Ah. Thanks. The truth is I didn't care. I made the mistake of trying to explain that instead of show it by only responding with less than 10 characters. Wish I said the red thing. Will keep in mind for the next shit test
/r/askTRP11/03/15 12:46 AM
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I'm a med student and a buddy of mine is was on his psychiatry rotation. He and this nurse had been flirting for a few weeks, and eventually they MADE OUT. Naturally, it is fucking impossible to keep shit low key in a hospital environment, I am not sure how other work environments work, but word travels fast. Nurses love to gossip. An adolescent psych patient overheard the gossip and gave my friend props in front of the nurse. The nurse felt embarrassed, and raised a flag. Since us med students …
/r/askTRP11/03/15 12:16 AM
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Aaannnd I'm going to borrow this one. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 01:08 PM
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Although i would LIKE to find a reason to disagree with you, this actually makes a lot of sense. As the female sexual strategy is explained, if we believe in this whole evolution explanation for these behaviors, betas must have a valuable role because those characteristics exist. They survived. If they weren't needed they wouldn't be in our psyche. I suppose they are the ying to the alpha's yang. Just glad that I too am making the moves to be on THIS SIDE. Question: when you first started spinni…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 12:19 AM
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ha, yea I know. But I figure a man's gotta chose his battles. I let her win that one, as there was no need for me to hold frame or play hard to get when she has her legs spread for the first time.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 12:12 AM
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Way to go, man! Keep up the alpha, stay away from the blue
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 11:20 PM
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This is good advice. I've sometimes gotten the comment that I'm tol serious (even though im a jokester by nature). I never really thought about answering this way. I think I'll incorporate. Thanks man
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 04:36 PM
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Re: the male to famale suicide ratio thing... we learned that females have more suicide attempts. Males just have higher suicide rates simply because we are better at getting shit done
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 02:22 PM
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The fact you have the motivation to ask this question means you are in good shape. Just like as in college, friendships and social networks can be built in the 'real world' through shared experiences and mutual interests. Go online to sites like 'meetup.com' (not sure of this is a real thing but if you are Google saavy there are sites like it). Talk to as many people as you can. Be flirtatious. Open sets with any and every woman you come across. Friendships and networking are built off of random…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 10:37 AM
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I agree partially with where you are coming from. However, the last 'relationship' I was in before being introduced to TRP was with a beautiful girl that I opened myself up to and therefore ended up becoming a disrespected AFC. In the case you reference, I recognize she gave me an IOI, but refuse to let her get somewhere that could be used against me or show weakness. The point is that staying aloof and not 'rewarding her' actually pays off. Girls may think they want to know your vulnerabilities…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 10:23 AM
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I've been called out for being sketchy about what I do (when asked this question in bars). I usually say fireman. It's tough because I don't really want to be honest but I don't want to bullshit them either. Haven't figured this one out. Although I can tell you no one that watches 'gray's anatomy' wants to date a med student.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 10:15 AM
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Holy shit. You're right. I'm going into psychiatry, one day I will keep this in mind :D
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 10:12 AM
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hahaha, you want the real answer? I've warmed up to her and, other than putting up with her being a punk, I think I am gaining in every aspect as long as I don't catch feelings. I think of all the shit she flings at me like warming up on-deck with really heavy bats. Sometimes she catches me off guard, but then when I contend with most other girls I'm more on point. This is all from yesterday. Some of her quotes are paraphrased. It was the first day I took off in 2 weeks and she came down to day …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 01:00 AM
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Ha, good to hear about the like-mindedness brotha. Honestly when I first started hanging out with this one she threw me off my game all the time. I was failing a lot of tests. It was also right when I started swallowing the pill so I've been using it as a learning experience (it also made dealing with lesser challenging girls waayy easier). She is an alpha-widow, more experienced than I am, possibly higher smv than me, and just had better game. But over the weeks I've managed to get to a place w…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 12:45 AM
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HAHA. That's a pretty good anecdote that proves an important point. Coming to this forum keeps me grounded in terms of staying in touch with the reality of what women want, what they mean, and how they trick us. One piece of advice I like to remind myself of from here is something like "they are never yours, it's just your turn". So to go along with what you are saying, I think I'll just try to enjoy the ride without getting sucked in. Ha, I can keep you posted. Right now I'm not exactly sure ho…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 08:00 PM
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Thanks a lot, man. This is great advice. Lot's of gems in here. Hung out with this girl yesterday for the first time for a substantial amount of time. She's starting to like me a lot and kept pressuring me to open up to her and tell her my feelings, secrets, etc. And partly thanks to your response I held frame and didn't go there at all. In the past I would have jumped at the opportunity to let a girl know more about the inner me, but now I told her it just wasn't going to happen. I could tell s…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 06:14 PM
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great post. comes at a good time for me as well. I think I am in the beginning stages of this type of relationship, as I can get those gut feelings too. With getting paid for and getting laid by a whore (or ex-whore maybe, idk, definitely alfa-widow) as a blooming option, what advice would you give to someone at the front end of possibly that similar six month journey? I suppose I could ask you the same question in a different way: What would you do differently when faced with a similar situatio…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 11:34 PM
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My senior year of college I lived with 3 other guys from my fraternity and 4 girls from a sorority in this big suite. While it was cool to always come home to drunk girls afterparty, the experience left me DISGUSTED with the fairer dirtier, raunchier, more sex-craved sex. These girls were part of one of the more 'lady like' sororities, but I got to see not only first-hand all the dudes these girls brought home that thought they were in some way special, but also the fact that they could not wash…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 10:19 PM
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haha. Got it. fuck. yea I know. It's just harder to see it from being on the inside. Thanks for saying what I needed to hear from someone else. I made it pretty clear I don't think she sees me as alpha, but I'm not used to any girls seeing me as alpha. This is what I'm trying to change. I can't have a completely "don't give a fuck about anything" attitude because my career choice, which takes up 80% of my life, is inherently about caring for people. And I can't not attract the 'Bux' part of girl…
/r/askTRP02/03/15 07:01 PM
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4th year med student- chat it up with every pretty girl you encounter. Of course there were periods of time where I just could not go out for months, in those times I didn't meet new girls. That was before tinder. Now I do lots of swiping but it is actually pretty distracting. Girls I've dated ( plated, before I knew that term) in the past were from bars on the weekends, a nurse from the children's hospital I volunteered at, a hair salon receptionist, a speech pathology student from the same sch…
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:25 AM
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You don’t understand. A garage. I can’t even pull in there. It’s like going to a prostitute. Why should I pay, when if I apply myself, maybe I could get it for free?
/r/askTRP20/02/15 04:22 AM
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Mind blown. So true, but I never realized it. Went out for the third time with a woman who rejects all of my advances, then texts me really nice things when she gets home. But she always pays for the meal/drinks. Sooo.... may as well milk it? Right?
/r/askTRP20/02/15 04:08 AM
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Follow up- well, I tried. Thought I was doing well all day, led her up the stairs, slammed her against the door and made out with her, asked her if she was a good girl or bad, told her I knew how turned on she was....... And then... she said I made her nervous and she wasn't sure if she wanted to have sex because she doesn't "just have sex with guys and is worried I might be an asshole". I kept frame for a little bit, but then ended up just being gentle and nice with making out. Still fucked her…
/r/askTRP11/02/15 02:30 AM
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There are plenty of jobs with lives at risk where training can only take you so far. There comes a point in said positions where you need to step up to the plate, regardless of your comfort level, and fucking execute. I practice in the medical field and you bet your ass throughout our training we are expected to do some pretty heavy things that we never feel we are ready for until after we have done them a few times. The fact she was certified should attest to her credibility as a competent trai…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 05:00 PM
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Ok, texted her today with pictures of my ties saying how I haven't used them since moving to the city and looking forward for that to change tonight and that I'll text her later with instructions. Now when she comes over later and I'm telling her how wet she is because she's been thinking of me all day blah blah it will be backed up. I'll follow up, push it as far as it will go, and let you guys know how it went
/r/askTRP10/02/15 04:52 PM
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Wait, what? I thought I liked texting girls. This is a bad thing? Isn't that how you get to know each other and build comfort? I guess maybe deep down I'm worried if I don't text her she would forget about me.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 11:20 PM
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damn. thank you for that solid advice. I really appreciate the response. THAT is a hard pill to swallow. I don't think I can accept living with the 'cognitive dissonance for the rest of my life', accepting the guilt as that is no way to live. Especially for the only reward to be to fuck girls, that's not the point. I'll have to forge my own way... figure out how to be happy with my beta baseline and use my alpha tendancies to my advantage, being careful, with my new understanding of the truth, n…
/r/askTRP09/02/15 08:25 PM
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