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Yeah I have that fear as well but sex positive liberals crowd will shame you for just having the fear. They are obnoxious bunch
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:59 PM
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Lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:40 PM
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I do not represent all the men hear so I can only speak for myself but I am protective of traditional courting culture and promiscuouity becoming the norm threatens the culture I grew up with so I am resentful towards promiscuouity but I am not malicious towards people who are promiscuous though. I am more interested in critiquing hookup culture than atomizing the problem to an individual behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:43 PM
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No I am misogynistic and I am not gay lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:58 PM
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For OP and others this concept might be too difficult to understand. Emotions and Hormones don't always cause specific behavior we often observe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:16 PM
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Yeah I am of those who feel lost because of the culture shock I faced and loneliness. Empathy is being eroded in society in my opinion in favor of the individualism plight we face. Look at how we talk to each other "they don't owe you a reply" instead of "they maybe too busy to reply". This kind of language only fosters resentment and erodes empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:19 PM
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As a fan of zoology I don't think bonobos are all sunshine sex hippies mainstream media makes them out to be
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:58 PM
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Normal does not equate good or favorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:48 PM
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I don't understand why men want attention as a man I don't like receiving attention from strangers feels like I am being judged and people wanting me to mess up and laugh. I really don't see the appeal. It's better to receive attention from loved one than strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:43 PM
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This subreddit is meant to further divide men and women as I have witnessed the topics and comments here. It erodes empathy and reinforces prejudice on both sides. I
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:38 PM
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Oh I have not thought about that but it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:18 PM
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Are you an AI with low self esteem looking for reassurance?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:42 PM
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But presenting the same concept as new is beyond stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:53 PM
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My God I feel like they just want to attention
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:49 PM
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Fine I suppose it's not the best way to categorize them but I think we can categories them as the mainstream culture. What ever they are they annoy me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:34 AM
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Can't this generation not try to invent something stupid for once. Even insects are more innovative than this boring generation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:18 AM
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Maybe in general but I have no problem expressing affection or empathy. I have hard time expressing sadness and anger though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:09 AM
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I was indeed putting it lightly so I don't hurt their feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:25 AM
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Are they trying to invent "new kinds of relationships" I guess I don't need to go to the circus to see the tomfoolery of clowns these days
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:22 AM
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Sure...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:20 AM
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How is there any correlation between ASPD and Machiavellian?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:07 PM
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Pink capitalism in which women have the same equal opportunity as men to exploit workers accumulate capital and own private property. If women had these privileges too then we will see a better world where currency is pink.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:07 PM
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Don't you think you being hypocritical here, your post implies you have problem with women being turned of by inexperienced men but yet here you are proclaiming women in your position to be less than attractive. Can you understand your own hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:48 AM
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I am not denying that but pointing flaw in their argument which renders their arguments useless
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:19 PM
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My point is to show how they are being logically inconsistent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:02 PM
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I respectfully disagree as they only support the nurture argument for their benefit and opposite when it doesn't. For example a lot of women particularly in this sub believe casual sex and polyamory are natural in that this is how most humans should mate kind of attitude. They often resort to narratives like the ones pushed by the book sex at dawn to support their arguments and beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:36 PM
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That women are romantic and cares about paternal certainty as much as men do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:53 AM
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Who
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:37 AM
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Like I said I thought you defined real sex to be only outside of relationship. I apologize for misinterpreting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:04 PM
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I thought you define real sex to be sex outside of relationship and sex under relationship to not be real sex. So idk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:59 PM
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Not towards you but towards liberals who think sex outside romantic relationship is real sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:53 PM
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Oh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:40 PM
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I am the Synapsisd bro I live on the metatheria lane
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:39 PM
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Again why do you think sex inside romantic relationship to not be sex and sex outside of relationship to be "real" sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:35 PM
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You can like sex exclusively in romantic relationship. Sex in romantic relationship is sex. I don't why you liberals seem to think real sex exist outside romance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:28 PM
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Sex and Gender issues are political
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:03 PM
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What are you doing get out of there for your own safety
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:21 PM
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America is a multicultural hub in which there are communities from different backgrounds so they are entitled to have different social norms when it comes to dating as long as those norms are ethical. As for which one I think is the best outcome I think the one at the time model which the AITAH OP follows is the best because you can focus on one person at the time instead of worrying about the other prospects and using more energy and time on multiple prospects. But people should be allowed to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:49 PM
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I am confused then what you are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:21 PM
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If it appears to be rare why do men think women are evil from this low number?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:54 PM
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Why is it hard for men to trust women with regards to fidelity and paternal certainty?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:21 PM
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You make good points but there is no real effort to raise better men in modern society that I am aware of. People are more interested in sex ed than they are in ethics and relationship skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:17 PM
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The real problem is that this dating culture in which we all date polyamorously is the default which doesn't work for everyone such as the op of the AITA post. This my biggest gripe with modern dating culture. So many progressives want diversity but not diversity of dating culture
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:45 PM
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But why should that culture be hegomonic and restrict other dating culture. You progressives want more diversity so allow diversity of dating norms to exist instead of trying to justify your norms as hegemonic and the only way to date
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:41 PM
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The term dating market is the stupidest thing I have heard
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:50 AM
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Yeah I am one of those men I do take it worse from a woman than a man. It's because men had more time getting good at game while women had less time. So when a woman beats us it doesn't seem fair at all how can someone who has not picked up a control instantly beat us so easily. But ultimately experts don't like newbies beating us easily and consistently. But someone like you will never understand us just demonize us. And no I don't think women should be restricted from video games
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:54 PM
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Nice too meet a fellow romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:44 PM
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Wait ago demonizing insecure people. I bet you are they same person who bemouns muh character flaws in media but hate character flaws in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:30 PM
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Anime and video games could definitely do better at representing women as autonomous human beings with personality. As a man love seeing women characters with strong personality and struggles that I empathize with. But what I have problem is with this argument "continuously depicting romance in media objectifies women as romantic objects" Yeah sure not every media needs romance per day but reducing romance in media by marginal amount might make more people desire romance which in turn could make…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:29 PM
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No one like when some is better than them at their specialty though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:05 PM
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There are new female protagonist videos games coming out like soulsfram, afterimage, and princess peach show time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:03 PM
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The gender conflict we see on the Internet obstructs of from the real problem we face when it comes to gender relation and that is heavy working conditions. If we can reduce working hours and reduce the price of feminine products we would see more feminine women. But ultimately you make a good point on how men should focus on alleviating stress in romantic relationships. I believe romantic relationship should also functions as a stress reliever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:37 PM
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Why are men so wierd about age gap relationships and women weird about cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:52 PM
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It depends on your value but I would say it depends on the person. Marriage is like driving the quality of experience is dependent on the quality of the car you drive and the road you drive on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:31 AM
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You mean shagging every guy from different cultures if fun? /Jk
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:30 AM
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It depends on the specific type of feminism. The main stream feminism advocates for hook up culture and demonizes old courtship ideals. There is another branch of feminism that advocates for liberation from oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:15 AM
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I mean mostly teach new generation to be better. We can do something about younger men but it's the new generation who we can mold and shape into better people. I don't mean it should be up to women but rather as society as whole to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:31 PM
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I wouldn't leave a 16 year old boy with that man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:36 PM
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That's weird of them to use sex as the only metric to measure the success and health of a relationship. Yeah from what I have seen us men have sucked at marriage historically. But the issue is the feminist only care about divorce rather than creating healthier men. Even progressive men don't care about creating healthier and more ethical men they are too concerned about winning debates and bullying people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:18 PM
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When I was younger I called myself principally romantic but it goes deeper as I believe we ought to maintain all our relationships long as possible and not see each other as disposable consumer products. It goes beyond monogamy as it's not about the structure but the journey to build the structure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:52 PM
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Ideally I would have been with a highschool sweet heart and married her by now. We would hangout with each other and friends and set up weekly game nights with them. We can all be one big happy community
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:43 PM
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You are a freak according to the liberals hear, you are supposed to have casual sex in youth so you don't miss out otherwise you are a taliban
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:40 PM
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You still had casual sex though, what sets apart these trad women which honestly isn't what I'd call them don't want casual sex to be apart their ideal dating journey. Not saying you are a bad woman in fact you did a good thing by marrying someone who shares your values and experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:37 PM
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I noticed this too I thought the men would be hopeless romantics, some of the are but others aren't which is weird. I wonder if the ones who aren't romantics are the same ones complaining about female promiscuouity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:36 PM
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Apparently it is for him he represents what these people really want they want hegomonic control of how people should date since they see it a threat to their dating ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:27 PM
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I noticed the people who advocate free choice here shame others for having different courtship ideals
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:23 PM
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What's your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:07 PM
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I have the same romantic beliefs as you as I believe having the one true love as early as possible so we spend the longest time with each other. We need to come up with a label for ourselves to distinguish ourselves from normies. I am tired of people telling us we need sexual variety or we will regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:05 PM
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I didn't know that about divorces or no fault divorces. I do notice liberals push the idea of divorce without trying to understand the root problems of said unhealthy relationships. The problem is that people don't want real change and they believe and want others to believe unhealthy relationships are inevitable part of life and spliting up is what nature intended. But I do believe a real no fault divorce case is rare
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:43 PM
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Why and are husbands often blamed for no fault divorce. I am not doubting I just want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:02 PM
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In this context a trad man is someone who values sex to be exclusively romantic in the same way kissing is. You can argue this isn't trad and I am open to calling us a different name. When I mean our I mean old romantics like people who view sex should only exist within a committed relationship kind of folk. People seem to believe sex only has two purpose procreate and instant pleasure when in reality sex is also acts as bonding mechanism the strengthens bond between partners. We are believe in …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:54 PM
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I know the lives of bugs as I am a zoological nerd. I am just saying bugs are not pathetic animals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:26 PM
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What do you want me to describe exactly? No I don't understand why any trad man would participate in casual sex. My trad friends don't. Even if a self proclaimed one does it's not some I'd call trad. We must protect our traditional courting culture against hook up culture
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:23 PM
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Bugs are the most successful animals all of history as they are very diverse and high number of population
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:55 PM
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That's good for but us trad men aren't really looking for women with a history of casual sex as it's not how we value and view sex. I don't know why men here focus on the behavior of individual women when in reality we need to protect our culture
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:51 PM
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It's is controlling and misogynistic to try to change how a woman dresses. But it's ok for you to date a modest women. We just have to find the modest women we are looking for. I understand your sentiment though our culture is producing these "sexualized women" through media and sexual empowerment. This makes it hard for us to find women of our type. But that doesn't excuse us for trying to control women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:42 PM
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Ok my bad for misinterpreting what you said so you have a fair point. I guess men need to understand what they want and the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:42 PM
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It's sad to hear men don't contribute to the marriage at same level as women do. But hopefully men are realizing they need to do more in their relationships. I cannot cook but I do want to learn to cook and I already enjoy doing some chores so I would definitely do my share of the house work. I don't understand why men hate marriage since I always thought feminist are the ones deconstructing marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:28 PM
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One you assume I want a women like that two you assume some who is more traditional is aversed to sex. I just think you are peddling a specific narrative if I am being honest so I don't see the point of discussion any further. I hope you have a good day. Remember be brave and stay wild
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:11 PM
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Look lady I don't care about you or other women just let people be sad I don't understand why you cannot let us be sad. Have you been raised in households where we are pressured to hide and suppress our sadness. I still miss my dead pets and relatives and thank God I can finally be sad. My parents forced me to not be sad and look it another way they say shit at least your uncle isn't suffering anymore or think of your pets as toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:04 PM
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Why do they need be shouting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:00 PM
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Spyro is correct here, there is a difference between women desire sex from a partner intensively compared to women who has casual sex. Not to say women who have casual sex are immoral but are incompatible with men like us. Not justifying this but a man could leave their women for being a good in bed when in the past she wasn't and suddenly became which might give the man suspicion of cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:21 AM
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I don't like the term but sluts refer to women having casual sex not necessarily women enjoying sex. In some religious communities that "suppress" sexuality encourage sexual intimacy and women agency in their relationship. What the word slut really alludes is a women who creates paternal uncertainty. At least that's the history of to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:15 AM
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This isn't just the blue pill shit thing it's also in modern therapy CBT. CBT is helpful in some cases but the belief that thoughts are the problem and replacing thoughts is solutions is terrible analysis and conclusion.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 01:44 AM
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I don't like the narrative you are trying to push, why can't we feel sad about things we don't have. It seems like you are pushing toxic positivity. Sure I am happy with my hobbies and such but I sometimes do feel sad without a gf. If you focus too much on the positive I believe you will just simply not want one anymore. It's ok to feel sad it's a healthy and positive emotion that we as society must embrace instead of toxic positivity bullshit. The point of being sad is to motivate you to get wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:43 PM
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Exactly 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:03 PM
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Body count shouldn't be the topic of discussion here it's more about having similar cultural values on sexuality. It really depends if she sees sex as a romantic activity exclusively and if she buys into the one night stand and FWB culture. If she had sex in committed relationship I wouldn't be bothered although I prefer virgin because I am a virgin myself. It all comes down to cultural values not numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:43 PM
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I can rubuttle your argument I think. Should gay men marry a women if he is out of options. Us more traditional men rather die alone than marry someone who doesn't match our values. Our values are important to use and we aren't willing to sacrifice our values. It's about passing down our value. A sex positive women won't pass down our values so there is no reason to date them right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:00 PM
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Individual single people who feel like they don't need relationship are ok. It's problematic when they push their philosophy onto people who are single and sad about it. It's ok to be single and be sad about it. We don't feel sad because societial pressure says so we are sad because we don't have what we want which is normal. Like it's normal be sad for not getting what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:05 AM
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As an avid synapsisd fan let me share you my thoughts. I think as men like us are in environments and culture that are not incompatible with our values and preference. So we grew resentment towards our environment. What happens if you put a saltwater fish in a fresh water ecosystem it dies. We are being starved of our desire and wants and blame our suffering on women which is counter intuitive. Instead we need to look for ways to meet women who share our social values and beliefs and we must pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:46 AM
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