syphon229 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	I've joined the party!		syphon229	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/23 01:56 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	I've joined the party! She was acting suspicious with her phone while drunk and when she stepped away she forgot to delete last message.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/23 07:53 PM
1	I've joined the party! Is there a trusted "review site" for divorce attorneys? Agreed on the diversion, I would only take half for that exact reason. But still will speak with lawyer on it.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/23 03:42 AM
1	I've joined the party! Thank you for the real picture. I appreciate the candid honesty. Maybe I meet in the middle? Do 3 years then file. Kids will be off to college and will miss the 20 year mark. It will still suck but at least my kids don't have to suffer ( I know she wouldn't spend a dime on them with CS , just buy alcohol and stupid shit off amazon) I'm going to talk to a lawyer with what I do have evidence wise and see what they say on swaying things in my favor. If they tell me "ehh not enough" then I'll probab…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/23 03:03 AM
2	I've joined the party! Is it better to just stick it out until kids are grown in NJ? I'll try the moving thing but not sure I can swing it. I'd prefer to leave now as I'm checked out but I do hear the severity of what you are saying.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/23 02:32 AM
1	Omg, the boredom. Finding your passion is a life long commitment. And more importantly, don't focus on the destination but enjoy the journey. Try all sorts of new things you never thought you would: chess, rock climbing, opera singing, you name it.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/06/23 02:25 AM
74	Is marriage that bad? Finding someone to share your life with is a beautiful dream. Having the government dictate your mandatory indentured service period to your ex wife and taking away your kids is the nightmare.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/23 07:24 PM
12	How do i get past the anger ...... She doesn't give a fuck about you. Don't waste another second of your life on her.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/02/23 09:55 PM
4	Seperated but don't want too GAY I want to ask you something and I mean zero disrespect... why are you married? I mean I hope you and your now husband can work it out but it also sounds like both of you really aren't a fan of the commitment of matrimony. Why can't you two just be together without a marriage? Again I'm legitimately asking and I'm not trying to belittle you or your marriage so I kean no disrespect.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/23 04:44 AM
3	divorced men of reddit, for those of you with grown children who are cently divorced, do you stay in constant contact with your ex about things unrelated to your children? I'm in. 8 month relationship with a newly divorced man and I feel disrespected by the emotional connection he maintains with her Yes I think all men are perfect and have never made mistakes and women are the root of all evil. Do the guy a favor and leave. If you can't be bothered to read a 30 word reddit post , I doubt you have the capacity to comprehend the complexity of maintaining a relationship with the mother of your children. P.S. Even though I'm such a misogynistic piece of shit, I would absolutely support a romantic partner talking to the father of her grown children and I would do everything I could to support he…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/23 12:17 AM
2	divorced men of reddit, for those of you with grown children who are cently divorced, do you stay in constant contact with your ex about things unrelated to your children? I'm in. 8 month relationship with a newly divorced man and I feel disrespected by the emotional connection he maintains with her I could use some other choice words. For example, when I had a good friend whose son was alienated from him by his mother because my friend refused to reconsider rhe divorce and get married again. I had some words that said it all for sure. Oh, or the time another friends daughter would not talk to him for years because the mother made up an allegation he was having an affair (surprise surprise, she was the one having an affair) I had some choice words to describe her as well. But of course you …	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/23 12:05 AM
5	divorced men of reddit, for those of you with grown children who are cently divorced, do you stay in constant contact with your ex about things unrelated to your children? I'm in. 8 month relationship with a newly divorced man and I feel disrespected by the emotional connection he maintains with her Unfortunately, this is the dog and pony show women make us do even after divorce. It doesn't matter if the kids are grown, she is still their mother and you can bet your ass she would absolutely manipulate the situation if she feels "threatened" or "unwelcome" by his behavior. "You know kids, your dad never asks me how I'm doing?" or "Can you believe your dad didn't call when I came back from my trip?" and various other bullshit tricks you ladies pull. I would strongly suggest you either respect…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/23 08:14 PM
11	Should I leave a good woman just to be single? Getting your dick wet with some skank is nothing compared to living your life with a good woman. Stop thinking with your dick, your in your 30s. News flash: Wanting to fuck other women, getting lost in adventure, and living a wild life is something WE ALL WANT lol. But the biggest lie we perpetuate in this culture is want = need and even worse ,want = good. I want to devour two pumpkin pies downstairs in the kitchen but I know it is better for my fat ass not to. I think you are entering a part o…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/11/22 06:25 PM
7	told my wife the truth yesterday While I do appreciate the idea behind having her do it, my approach has a solid positive over this one: it removes the wife's ability to accuse the husband of not having initiative. By writing everything down if the wife comes back later with some bullshit about "you don't care because you forgot this one thing" my method allows the husband to sat "I wrote 50 things on this board and you couldn't write one, I'm the one putting in more effort here "	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/22 03:59 PM
21	told my wife the truth yesterday Get a whiteboard and put it on the wall. Write out EVERYTHING you can think of that needs to be done. Schedule it out on same whiteboard. When she sees it explain it to her like this "Here are the items I see as needing to be done and their corresponding schedule. Let me know if items are missing and I'll add them. Also, let me know if we can schedule these items in a better manner that works for both of us" If she says anything other than "sounds great" she is just playing head games. Don't ent…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/22 03:10 PM
2	Financial PTSD Sorry but I'm confused, why do you have to get married? Seems like you met a great girl who makes you happy. Why do you need paperwork to validate that?	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/22 06:28 PM
2	Judge and GAL seem to be taking my side What does GAL stand for?	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/22 01:14 AM