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Outer Gamesyseddit/r/seduction23/12/12 05:37 PM
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syseddit/r/seduction05/10/12 11:18 AM
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I get it wrong on purpose, and make sure it is obviously on purpose. Best case she goes along and helps you, worst case you have forgotten her name in a more interesting way.
/r/seduction30/01/13 12:39 PM
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Before I have sex with someone, I tell them, I want to do this, but I am not looking for a girlfriend. I have never been turned down.
/r/seduction30/01/13 12:19 PM
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Welcome! Do the military guys get as much hate from the Japanese people up there as they do in Okinawa? Try to find popular foreigner bars and hangouts in Yokohama, there is a better chance of girls that speak English there. I find colleges are also a good place, as many people haven't had as long of a time to forget English. Just show up to any international themed event, and meet some people. Also, I just realized you posted this in Seduction instead of Tokyoseddit. Don't know if that was on p…
/r/seduction22/01/13 02:22 AM
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How come this post is a day late?
/r/seduction08/01/13 05:00 PM
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Even if you can't practice some aspects, there are others you can. Practice being social, networking, being interesting. Kino all your friends.
/r/seduction29/12/12 02:59 AM
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Situation: You have two girls in your bed (friendly sleepover?) and you have gotten to the point where you can touch anywhere and are allowed to finger either one with no issues, and without the either girl knowing what you are doing to the other. From this point, how do you initiate a threesome?
/r/seduction29/12/12 02:57 AM
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I don't think so, but maybe you shouldn't pick up in bars. If you want a girl who doesn't drink as well, you obviously will not find her there.
/r/seduction29/12/12 02:47 AM
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I enjoy bar games and puzzles. Especially ones that let you get close to her so you can kino while "helping"
/r/seduction29/12/12 02:46 AM
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Even better answer: "What did you have in mind?"
/r/seduction26/12/12 06:06 AM
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Rejection is NOT a girl refusing to give you her number, or refusing to hang out with you. She turned down your invitation. She didn't turn YOU down. If you got far enough that you could even ask for a number or a date, you were already accepted. Change your definition of rejection and you will change your anxiety. My goal when I approach is to make her smile. If she smiles once, my approach was a success.
/r/seduction25/12/12 09:36 AM
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Wear clothes that won't make your boner obvious. Don't pay attention to it. She won't notice it at all.
/r/seduction25/12/12 09:28 AM
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The reason people say not to watch for IOIs is because people become obsessed with them. Assume attraction, or future attraction. As far as responses to kino goes, if she lets you do it, but gives no reaction, I think there is a 50/50 chance it could be either way. Try escalating more. The worst that happens is that you get an actual yes or no response instead of the question mark you have now.
/r/seduction25/12/12 09:27 AM
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Stop drinking caffeine. After it wears off you will crash and be worse than you started. I suggest becoming more active in general. Exercise can help raise your energy. As can a better diet. Try to eat something when you get tired, it will also wake you up.
/r/seduction25/12/12 09:16 AM
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Q: "What is the weirdest place you've had sex?" A: "That depends on where you want to have it."
/r/seduction25/12/12 09:10 AM
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It seems like whenever I'm doing well with a girl I don't even realize that I have her attracted and never go for a #close because it doesn't cross my mind. This is totally me. Step 1: approach. Step 2: Attract. Step 3: Say goodbye. Step 4 (30 minutes later): HOLY CRAP WHY DID I NOT GET HER NUMBER?
/r/seduction25/12/12 09:08 AM
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No. The movies are a horrible date spot. an hour and a half of her NOT paying attention (=becoming attracted) to you. I suggest a date that has a goal OTHER than her in mind. Some of my successful dates have included: shopping for my halloween costume, buying a new blanket for my bed, visiting a wacky art exhibit that I wanted to see. Your life is exciting, she is just along for the ride. She is in your class, you already have a ton in common. Here is a great canned opener "Hi." Just talk to her…
/r/seduction25/12/12 09:05 AM
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If you are at the point where you are worried about escalation with someone, then she probably is. Of course physical attractiveness never hurts, especially in the beginning, but girls are luckily much more attracted based on their emotion rather than their eyes. And what kind of ugly are we talking about? If it is fixable by exercise, fashion, or something else, Fix it. The confidence you gain will help you to stop calling yourself ugly. If it isn't fixable, own it.
/r/seduction25/12/12 08:49 AM
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I like stores. A great excuse for a conversation is asking how something looks. I once got a girl to be my personal fashion consultant for about an hour.
/r/seduction25/12/12 08:28 AM
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How do I hold interest if I don't speak the language very well? (literally) Yes... of course, learn the language. I am working on it. In the meantime what can I do now?
/r/seduction25/12/12 08:26 AM
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"She is waiting for me to escalate."
/r/seduction25/12/12 08:23 AM
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Just because you live with your parents doesn't mean you have to hang out with them. There is a whole world to be social in, even if you can't bring anyone home.
/r/seduction25/12/12 08:22 AM
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For me the kiss is the sex initiator. As soon as we kiss, we make out, and it leads to sex. So it is still a pre-requisite, but I never kiss unless I am ready to initiate sex (or something sexual such as a blowjob, etc.) I guess I work on making lots of attraction, and kino. By the time we finally kiss, she has been anticipating the kiss for a long time. Every success I have had has been a 1-day F-close. Maybe the times I wasn't successful should have ended in a K-close, but they didn't. I don't…
/r/seduction24/12/12 03:38 AM
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I second the suggestion on how to win friends and influence people, but I would suggest instead of doing something for them, make it the reverse. Have them do something for you. Ask someone to help you with something related to their interests. Want a jock for a friend? Get him to talk about sports, show interest in football, but that you know nothing about it, and he is the expert. Maybe he will invite you to watch a game, or join a fantasy football league. Want that that hipster girl? Ask her …
/r/seduction23/12/12 06:15 PM
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There are some signs, but if you think it is a good time to kiss, then she probably does too. Before I learned about pickup, I was constantly worried about signs, or even waiting to kiss so I seemed like more of a "nice guy." This hurt me many times. When in doubt, kiss her. If she is ready to kiss she will let you. If she denied your kiss, she is not ready yet, build more attraction/comfort, then try again.
/r/seduction23/12/12 05:59 PM
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For me, there is really no such thing as a K-close. I never kiss a girl until it is time to have sex. I use kissing as a way to start making out before sex. After we have had sex at least once, I have no problem kissing her whenever. But until that point, she gets none. I have no idea if this is a good thing, or a bad thing, but it has worked for me so far. As far as how to do it... just do it. If you have been doing kino, she should be close to you already, or you should be able to bring her cl…
/r/seduction23/12/12 05:55 PM
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Well I see it as kind of a trick question. If they say no, they are saying sex without a condom is ok. If they say yes, they say sex is ok. I don't think any girl will say no to this question in the heat of the moment.
/r/seduction14/12/12 02:40 PM
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I didn't mean you shouldn't see any girls, just that you should start using your little time more effectively.
/r/seduction13/12/12 02:51 AM
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I think we would need a better outline of the date to tell you what went wrong, but I don't think it is a shit test. The chemistry line may be a cover for the real reason, but not something I imagine a girl saying as a shit test.
/r/seduction12/12/12 05:02 PM
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I definitely don't have anything swanky. I live in a share house with 6 roommates. (actually a good way to make a girl feel safe about coming over) You sound like you are a student, so you have a good excuse to be at home. As opposed to a 35 year old who can't hold a job. Bad for logistics, that's all. Her place, hotels, parked cars McDonald's restroom. As far a clothes go. I have one clothing item that cost more than $30, and it is a coat. To dress sensibly and fashionably, doesn't always mean …
/r/seduction12/12/12 04:56 PM
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Just realize it is not a big deal unless you make it a big deal. I think it helps to quantify the fear. An unknown is 100x worse than a known. Just think of what realistically is the worst reaction. If you try to give a hello or goodbye hug, the worst that you get is a denial. No one is going to scream rape or yell at you or hit you. If you go for holding her hand, she may refuse, most likely non-verbally by either making you let go, or avoiding the grab. She isn't going to cut a finger off. If …
/r/seduction11/12/12 06:40 PM
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Same rule applies. "Why aren't you responding!?" is a very needy message. Again, don't reply immediately, but when you do, say you are too busy to answer all of her texts all the time. She is doing something that is annoying you, there is no reason not to be honest about it. Maybe you are too worried about her feelings. She is not a kid, she can take it. You don't have to be rude, but don't beat around the bush either.
/r/seduction28/10/12 01:48 AM
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She is in to you. If you want to gf her, do it. If not tell her politely that you arent interested in a relationship with her. If you just want the texting to slow down... stop replying. Reply when YOU want to talk.
/r/seduction27/10/12 09:34 AM
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You just have to be an interesting guy, keep the friends distracted. Dont try to pretend that you are gay. Do the same as a female wingman would for another guy.
/r/seduction27/10/12 09:25 AM
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It's funny how when I stopped worrying about seduction, that's when I did best. I dont think it is funny at all. Do you think a professional musician is thinking about every single note they play？ The best way for your words and actions to appear natural, is if they ARE natural. Good work!
/r/seduction26/10/12 04:06 PM
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I have known a few girls who went to these things that were not geeky or shy at all. One of them went, for example, because she liked doing irish dance. If you want an opinion opener you could ask about an upcoming battle or its contestants, these things usually have fights right? Who is going to win? I heard the red knight is drunk. If you want to role play, you can tell her that a group of trolls is coming this way and that she needs to come immediately! Here are your pickup lines: "Yes, fair …
/r/seduction14/10/12 12:32 AM
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Nice！
/r/seduction08/10/12 01:19 AM
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How do you know that the Joe blow she is in a relationship with isnt just a friend who she play dates to avoid creepers on facebook? If you want to help her cheat on a bf that is your choice, but don't assume facebook never lies.
/r/seduction06/10/12 09:39 AM
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I constanly approach, talk, kino, then say goodbye only remembering that I should have escalated or ex hanged contact info a few minutes later.
/r/seduction05/10/12 04:42 AM
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Give her a puzzle. I like this one. You have to get next to her to set it up, and you can kino her like crazy while she is trying to solve it.
/r/seduction05/10/12 04:21 AM
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