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| 16 | I met her in the gym, to ended up being blocked. Your thoughts on why? | Conversation | systemctl_status_me | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 11:51 PM |
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| 1 | I met her in the gym, to ended up being blocked. Your thoughts on why?😂 righttttttt | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 05:58 PM |
| 8 | I met her in the gym, to ended up being blocked. Your thoughts on why?Agree with that assessment. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 12:50 AM |
| 1 | I met her in the gym, to ended up being blocked. Your thoughts on why?Always playful, sarcastic and creating a fun environment. She got checked because I a) had already written her off cause I was embarrassed of what she said/did in front of my friends and b) I didn’t really care about keeping that environment up cause she was gone anyways. However, I seriously didn’t expect a block to come from that. Either a new/old dude or she really ain’t like being checked like that 😂 | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 12:26 AM |
| 2 | I met her in the gym, to ended up being blocked. Your thoughts on why?I got you my brother. Appreciate the insight. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 12:17 AM |
| 2 | I met her in the gym, to ended up being blocked. Your thoughts on why?Right. It was off putting that she was already quick to be argumentative. They def don’t perturb me easily (especially early on). You’re definitely right about the introduction to friends though. I had went back and forth with my support network on if I should or shouldn’t introduce her, and it was like a 50/50 split on yes and no. I just gambled to see what it was like to introduce that early (for research purposes ofc) and found my answer. Definitely not doing that again. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 12:13 AM |
| 0 | I met her in the gym, to ended up being blocked. Your thoughts on why?Definitely. After the second date, I had seen enough to not need to see a third date, so I actually wasn’t planning on that. However at the least, I thought we could just fallback to friends at the gym and just run into each other every now and then. Now since she blocked me, she makes it pretty awkward in the gym. I know that’s the price you pay for running pickup at the gym, but damn if it doesn’t suck every time 😂 | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 11:59 PM |
| 2 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.I’ve approached in the gym multiple times and had great success. I do believe I’m good looking though and they were attracted to me as well. OP, how does this fit into your equation if you find them super attractive? I feel like then it would not matter when/where you’re approached. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 10:14 PM |
| 6 | What are your second date ideas?Ice skating/axe throwing is a great time. Especially if there’s drinks involved before! | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How many people are you actively dating/sleeping with, and what’s your limit?But to answer this question, usually friends of friends. My guy friends are typically good looking and have things going on, so there’s other good looking women around them. And it kinda propagates. The old saying “be careful who you surround yourself with” is def applicable here. | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 04:44 AM |
| 3 | How many people are you actively dating/sleeping with, and what’s your limit?I’ve found being a regular at places really helps. Seeing the same people every day at the same time helps build an interesting comfort level with people(both guys and girls). Personally this is the gym for me. The friends I’ve made have acted almost like a radar system — each friend opens up another set of friends, which breaks out into another set of friends and so on. It takes time, but you really do collect a good amount of connections over time. Also I live by myself in a city far away from… | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 04:43 AM |
| 3 | How many people are you actively dating/sleeping with, and what’s your limit?I’m (24m) currently juggling 3 different people. It certainly is a lot to juggle. My biggest problem is keeping things organized in my head... did I tell girl A this already? what’d i tell girl B? like, sometimes they overlap and they’ll be “you already told me this before!”. Oops. Even though it’s a lot to juggle, the confidence boost is well worth it. Trying to stack a 4th plate on this week, and i may stop there. It’s taxing to always keep a mental calendar of what am I doing/where/what time. | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Sticking point: getting ghostedI’ve been in the same boat. Everything in this post I can sympathize with. That “tightrope” feeling... yuck. To combat the tightrope feeling, it really starts from self-confidence. For example, of course think before you say something, but know and understand that what you say is what you mean, and if she doesn’t like it and ghosts, oh well. You left it out there and that’s all that matters. I think you’d be surprised how this mindset shift will work in your favor, since you’ll be more comfortab… | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 04:45 AM |
| 3 | Just did my first cold approach in my regular gym of all placesIt's until you score one of these gym thots, that you realize & agree that they deserve to be put off limits. Fucking them is nice, but it makes it hellllla awk when things don't work out. I'd strongly advise not trying to pick up at the gym -- very similar to dating a girl at work. The gym is for YOU to get away from those type of things! | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 01:49 AM |
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