szarejungen Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	"Never Chase a Girl" Yikes.	/r/seduction	10/07/20 07:29 PM
1	Cold approach from a girl's perspective Ugh yes, I am saving this comment because it describes this situation perfectly!	/r/seduction	27/06/20 02:43 PM
1	Cold approach from a girl's perspective I'm going to stop replying after this one because your comments aren't all adding up, and it's not particularly fun or useful to have a conversation like that. I'd also draw your attention to the part where I said those questions are rhetorical. Honestly, this all makes me want to stop responding positively or politely when people approach me in the future.	/r/seduction	26/06/20 11:32 PM
1	Cold approach from a girl's perspective I wish you the best of luck in the search for your wife. I hope that doesn't sound snarky, because really I do mean it. It sounds like you're actively trying to approach in a way that makes the woman feel comfortable, and that's great, but it makes me wonder, a) if you're one of the guys approaching with respectful intentions, why are you bothering to defend the numbers approach, and b) once you do find your wife, will you truly listen as she tries to tell you about her experiences instead of ju…	/r/seduction	26/06/20 11:15 PM
2	Cold approach from a girl's perspective But here's the thing, we can't always walk away. And even in a situation that doesn't become physically aggressive, why should we have to put up with even a split second of fearing for our well-being, when it's only for the sake of giving some guy practice? There are appropriate ways to cold approach a woman, no one is advocating to abolish cold approaches entirely. It just seems to me like you're spending a lot of time attempting to argue an experience when that's not logical and definitely not…	/r/seduction	26/06/20 10:42 PM
3	Cold approach from a girl's perspective It seem to me like your two comments are directly contradicting. its part of the risk you have to accept. From the perspective of the approached, there's nothing to accept. We don't get to choose this "risk," it's either forced upon us or it isn't. I'm saying, the men of this sub should use the wonderful resource that this sub could be to work out how to approach women in a way that keeps their agency intact. No one should "risk" a woman's feeling of safety, that's messed up.	/r/seduction	26/06/20 10:33 PM
4	Cold approach from a girl's perspective I'm sorry you experienced that, sounds super scary and I'm glad you're safe. I've found it hard to get this point across in this sub without being attacked for hating on men. There are so many opportunities where a woman doesn't feel completely helpless as alone on the street. So true! Hope people see this and ask questions as needed.	/r/seduction	26/06/20 10:18 PM
3	Cold approach from a girl's perspective That was not my intention, as clearly stated in my comment. On the contrary, I was pointing out how many posts on this sub seem to set men up for failure. I understand how men can be anxious approaching women, I'm not trying to minimize that feeling, it's real and valid. But I hope you can understand how women are often more than just anxious when they are approached by men in certain settings. So even if you don't care about the people you're cold approaching, even if you don't consider them to…	/r/seduction	26/06/20 10:12 PM
1	Cold approach from a girl's perspective Lol	/r/seduction	26/06/20 09:35 PM
12	Cold approach from a girl's perspective I'm so glad you posted this! I would only add that I think men who cold approach women don't seem to consider the fear factor. It doesn't matter what a man's intentions are, because violence against women is still very prevalent, women are often taught or conditioned to be wary of strange men. I've seen so many cringe posts on this sub that talk about getting in the numbers and practicing cold approaching until they feel confident without any regard for how they might've ruined so many women's d…	/r/seduction	26/06/20 01:02 AM