szmate1618 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Is this sub basically a Women's echo chamber Now ? You are missing the people who are not here. 90% of the people who actually takes ideas like hitting the gym, learning about fashion, and partying regularly (peronally i hate this one, but it works) seriously are too busy doing so to post here. That leaves the weirdos arguing about niche stuff almost completely unrelated to any pill, like when the fuck the frontal lobe or whatever finishes developing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 09:29 PM
18	Nice guys are given contradictory advice that keeps them in a loop and never answers their predicament That is simply not my experience. Behave like a weirdo and talk about Yu-gi-oh or some shit, yes. Behave like shit, no, those people have no problem at all meeting women. 90% of the time it's the unfortunate looking math nerd types that are struggling. But we can't admit that, because then we'd also implicitly admit that looks matter, and we can't have that. Even though it really does matter, a lot. And that is what bothers a lot of people. They are being fed intentionally shit advice, because a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 02:02 PM
5	Nice guys are given contradictory advice that keeps them in a loop and never answers their predicament Ok, then more specifially biceps, triceps, lats, side delts, and pecs. If we want to be honest, I think we all know that 90% of these men who 'mysteriously' can't get a date simply just look like shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 01:31 PM
4	Nice guys are given contradictory advice that keeps them in a loop and never answers their predicament But also what those people supposed to say? Go to the fucking gym, get a haircut, get some better clothes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 12:59 PM
11	What would BP advice be to a man with a disability? No, but it kind of does mean you don't have control over your dating life. There are disabilities severe enough where your best (or only) bet for finding a romantic partner is getting lucky. This is something you seemed to agree with until I pointed out that coincidentally this is also what redpill believes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 09:29 AM
12	What would BP advice be to a man with a disability? You don't have control over missing a limb or two. If you had any actual actionable advice, you would have said that instead of "you might get lucky".	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 08:41 AM
15	What would BP advice be to a man with a disability? So some people are just dealt a shit hand in life, which makes it harder or sometimes even impossible to get a relationship, unless they get lucky, otherwise they have absolutely no control over the situation? Welcome to the redpill, I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 07:41 AM
17	What would BP advice be to a man with a disability? How is this not hard-core red pill advice, though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 06:55 AM
9	What would BP advice be to a man with a disability? TRP would help jackshit, but at least it would admit you are fucked, regardless the nature of your disability. The overwhelming majority of people don't want a wheelchair-ridden partner. It's not fair, but it is what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 06:54 AM
1	People need to stop throwing the word "predator" around That means more girls for the good-looking minority. And you know that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 03:49 PM
16	You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious. The past is in the past. The past is also the present. A mere six hours ago I was called an incel for saying that people can't easily detect toxic personality traits if the other person is attractive. Just this week, I was also called an incel for - in no particular order - suggesting that: overweight people are generally considered unattractive underweight people are generally considered unattractive a muscular physique is generally considered attractive Note that none of this is gender specifi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 11:21 PM
4	You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious. The Beast wasn't handsome The Beast was an absolute unit. Him transforming back into human was a downgrade, to be honest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 10:46 PM
3	Saying "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time for kids" to women who are like 35 is bad advice I know reddit hates to hear this, but not only 35 is not young, it's not even early 30s anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 07:21 PM
-1	Most girls don’t prefer significantly older men now show us who you date, so we can judge you	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 02:29 PM
5	"If they're still single in their mid-30s there's a reason" - why is it OK for women to say this about men, but not the other way round? No, they prefer men who are strictly more mature. On average they prefer men who are at least 2 years older than them. For some women this is actually a hard limit. And at the same time they don't want men to date younger. And this is where we are getting into cray-cray territory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 10:37 AM
9	CMV: Women's standards are not too high, men just need to step up It is fine, but if your standards are so high that you remain single for life, then your standards are high.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/25 01:23 PM
13	CMV: Women's standards are not too high, men just need to step up I feel like it should kinda matter that taller than average, non-overweight, college educated men make up about 12% of the population, so most women are not going to end up with one. Not for long, at least. And that's before we add other criteria like age, ethnicity, sexual compatibility, how many kids you want, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/25 12:18 PM
23	CMV: Women's standards are not too high, men just need to step up But the truth of the matter is we're not asking for anything unreasonable - it's just that the selection is lacking. I mean, if there are not enough men that meet your selection criteria, then, by definition, your standards are pretty high. You could go on and on about how it's completely reasonable to want a men with a university degree, but more women are getting degrees than men. Height is a similar story. 50% of men are shorter than average. 50% are more obese. Young men on average earn less…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/25 10:08 AM
9	Many young men struggle because they internalize internet opinions On the internet, yes. I've yet to see anyone care about age gaps between consenting adults IRL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 10:30 AM
1	Has anyone noticed a rise in older female/younger male relationships? I'm of the opinion that age gaps do not matter one bit when both parties are over the age of 30. Conveniently this is the same age when men are typically the most physically attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 12:13 PM
6	The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to pegging Or is it different because he’s a man and he gets to refuse sex without accusations that he’s not genuinely into her or doesn’t love her? What do you think should happen? What do you think is happening? Do you genuinely think that the guy in the scenario you just described is just suddenly "cured" from his pegging fetish he had for years? Because what I think is that he is just not that attracted to his new girlfriend. Nobody should do sexual acts they are not comfortable with. But nobody should…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 09:32 AM
-1	RP/BP ppl on PPD say women should choose better, but they really don’t want that. Have you considered the possibility that it's not everyone else who's wrong, and your husband really is just an asshole?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 06:31 AM
–	Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamics JFC the comments in this thread... y'all need our lord and savior the red pill, and it shows. Attraction cannot be negotiated. Older men who are attracted to younger women, as delusional as they may be, cannot and will not shamed into being attracted to older women, just like how men who are into more mature women can't be convinced to date younger ones, or how a milf fetishist won't be talked into seeking out a single mother (you know, a real one, without giant fake breasts, with children) with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 10:44 AM
1	If womens' value takes a nosedive at 30 and they are undesirable, why would women want to marry in the first place? "the baby boomers ruined dating by cutting off generational knowledge" What do you mean by this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 12:54 PM
9	Infantilizing women in age gaps relationships is inherently misogynistic. Yeah I dont think I've ever seen anyone 'infantalise" any woman in their 20s This is just absurd. Every single time this topic comes up in online spaces, people start screaming about how 24 years olds don't have a fully developed brain, and you haven't seen it? Is this your first day on the internet? I literally have been called a pedo for briefly dating a 24 years old college educated woman when I was 32. edit: case in point, although this one is about gay relationships: https://np.reddit.com/r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 10:11 PM
1	Men have a biological clock as well Cool. Then we don't need a new "stop fucking young women" thread every week.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 05:14 PM
1	Men have a biological clock as well Ah, ok, so people's fertility declining with age is a myth now, with the notable exception of a small subgroup of the population called "men". Because boy, do those guy age poorly! But only that handful of them, everyone else can wait with having kids indefinitely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 02:31 PM
1	Men have a biological clock as well For the top 10% men it is pretty easy. The others find it hard to date in any age range. That's pretty much the whole reason this sub exists. There is absolutely no reason for an attractive 27 years old woman to choose a 26 years old twice-divorced highschool dropout over a 32 years old doctor who just happens to be a crossfit athlete as well. Of course, the men who expect to have multiple children in their 50s with an early 20s fitness model are delusional, but this delusion is not shared by th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 02:22 PM
5	Men have a biological clock as well "Statistically" the average number of legs a human has is about 1.98. In reality, in 30% of marriages the man is older by more than 3 years, in 7.6% of marriages the man is older by a decade or more. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 11:47 AM
2	If Spongebob didn't teach you marine biology, you shouldnt be using fiction to talk about women’s attraction. I do not have a proof that most people are fetishists, because most people are not. But the people who specifically masturbate to fetish content are very clearly into fetish content. 50 shades showed us this is a LOT more women than we previously thought.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 06:27 PM
5	If Spongebob didn't teach you marine biology, you shouldnt be using fiction to talk about women’s attraction. The most common form this ‘fiction = reality’ thing comes in is men using 59 Shades Of Grey to say ‘women like bad boys’. Like, how many women you see in real life dating abusive rich men. Woah, slow down. Fictional Anastasia Steel or whatever her name is being attracted to a rich a hot man does not tell anything about real life women. But millions of real life women furiously masturbating to the books and the movies should tell something. Did we forget when guys simped for a 7 foot vampire and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 05:59 PM
–	The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debate It's also not unreasonable to want someone who is thin and attractive. It can be absolutely delusional though, if you are ugly, overweight, and lack social skills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 11:56 PM
-4	Porn is not cheating The double standard. It's always exclusively the porn that men prefer that is problematic, apparently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 10:24 AM
-3	Porn is not cheating But I do not have any problem with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 10:05 AM
-3	Porn is not cheating Maybe not, literal millions touched themselves while reading Fifty shades of Grey, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 09:59 AM
–	There is more to personality than being nice People don’t want to date someone is physically violent, yet physically abusive people get into relationships all the time. Does that mean we shouldn’t strive to be nonviolent? No, but it does mean "being nice is the bare minimum" is a lie. Clearly, being nice is not a requirement. Heck, not being a psychotic murderer is not a requirement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 12:56 PM
8	Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women? I love how nobody even tries to answer the question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 09:03 AM
6	Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to be The subtext to this is: Go for average or below average looking men. Statistically, you are most likely to be average or below average. So... yeah?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 09:00 PM
2	Women's "pickiness" really isn't that deep as it pretends to be That's completely fair, as long as you are in the normal BMI range too. Which most people nowadays aren't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 07:43 PM
23	A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBP This is a hypothesis that you cannot support with anything, except for that you need it to be true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 04:26 PM
72	A case study into AITA’s gender bias (favouring women) and how it aligns with TBP "Maybe the commenters are biased; maybe they're playing characters." Maybe YOU are playing the character. What the fuck kind of argument is this? That sub has thousands of active users who are consistently calling men the assholes and women not the assholes. Do you seriously think somebody is coordinating these people to create the illusion of a misandrist online community, when in reality the individual members are free of gendert biases?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 02:40 PM
2	For Every 16 IQ Points Above 100, a Woman Is 40% Less Likely to Get Married IQ tells us nothing about intelligence but sure whatever you wanna believe How many surgeons do you know with an IQ of 65 or less?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 01:27 PM
1	Blue pillers and Red pillers agree on somethings, one of which is "The guy has to wait his turn" maybe he should try changing his approach Yeah, but what if the required change in your approach entails gaining 15 kg of muscle? Physical attraction is a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 08:16 PM
1	Blue pillers and Red pillers agree on somethings, one of which is "The guy has to wait his turn" They don't care about the exact numbers on the specific exercises, but they very much care about my thick arms and wide back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 07:36 PM
3	Blue pillers and Red pillers agree on somethings, one of which is "The guy has to wait his turn" I live in the world where I benchpress twice the weight I did in my early twenties.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 05:47 PM
1	You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in Dating Ok, so incels are bad people. People who can't get laid are bad. Only good people can get laid. Am I missing something?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 06:30 PM
–	You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in Dating What do you mean by "nice guy"? I thought "nice guys" are misogynistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 03:08 PM
–	You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in Dating So the idea that incels are incels because they are horrible misogynists comes from...?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 03:06 PM
2	Why are girls misleading on what tinder profiles are attractive Yeah, that's a good point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 06:30 PM
59	Why are girls misleading on what tinder profiles are attractive Yeah, but here's the thing. This is what every. Single. Woman. Say. Without exception. Yet, when I added a picture of my abs, my matchrate doubled. There was one downside, though: after that, every single date started with a 15 minute lecture about how inappropriate and superficial shirtless pictures are, and omg I almost swiped left on you because of that. But guess what, they didn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 02:43 PM
13	Older men have no incentive to improve themselves for older women who are "tired of their bullshit".. The word 'statistically' does quite some heavy lifting in that sentence. According to this chart, in 31.6% of heterosexual couples the man is more than 3 years older: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships#Statistics In 7.6% of cases the man is at least a decade older. That's about 1 in 13 couples.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 05:10 PM
1	Do most men want to boycott older women, or are younger women just more available? Men should care about more than physical attraction at their grown age. Guess what, most do. We care about intelligence, empathy, dependability, sexual compatibility, to name a few. And yeah, we also care about beauty. Sorry about that. Problem is, the majority of these beautiful, highly intelligent, empathic, dependable women are happily married by the time they turn 30. Now, am I allowed to try and date women in their 20s, or should I just off myself at this point? If I'm really the troglodyti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 09:19 AM
4	"Can someone just please reassure me that there are men in their 30s out there interested in women in their 30s?" IMO 21 is the best time of a man's life for physical SMV, as his metabolism and strength will be high. I didn't downvote you, but this is not necessarily correct. Yes, at 21 your metabolism will be faster, and you won't get fat, and that's cool, but if it's too fast, you also won't build any muscle, and that will seriously hinder your strength gains too. Personally I couldn't build significant mass or strength before I was 27. Sure I could have tried eating even more and training even harder, bu…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	25/06/20 03:34 PM