t1j4 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	I really blew up the date	Field Report	t1j4	/r/seduction	11/05/26 10:59 AM
10	I need some help with replying to this girls story	Conversation	t1j4	/r/seduction	29/06/25 09:02 PM
2	Should I try something again?	Comprehensive	t1j4	/r/seduction	30/06/26 05:29 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I really blew up the date It was clear I didn't enjoy the convo and probably she didn't either.	/r/seduction	14/05/26 05:17 AM
1	I really blew up the date Yeah, I understand. On texts I was more flirty, had more sense of humor. It's easier to be, you have the time to think. In person, I need a date or two to get really loose around them. But also, she has a lot of very strong opinions about people, art, amd other things and I just don't see the world that black and white.	/r/seduction	14/05/26 05:15 AM
1	I really blew up the date I understand. My point was, when Im truly interested and when I have a nice time I really like doing those things for girls even if it leads no where. I just really wanted to get out of the situation because I was uncomfortable. I just have this aftermath of crazy thoughts and I blame myself for the date going bad. I never guess there is a second person. But we just didn't click. We disagreed about lots of thing on the date actually. I just didn't enjoy myself tbh. And I see that clearly now aft…	/r/seduction	13/05/26 06:59 PM
1	I really blew up the date Thanks a lot man! I'll try it. I have to talk to my therapist avout this too.	/r/seduction	12/05/26 10:46 PM
2	I really blew up the date This is actually a really great advoce. Even though I dont have a diagnosis I may well be on the spectrum hahah. I really have trouble connectin with people generally.	/r/seduction	12/05/26 08:39 PM
2	I really blew up the date Thabks a lot for your reply! This makes sense and I just feel like I'm missing something now.	/r/seduction	12/05/26 07:47 PM
2	I really blew up the date The texts were very flirty, I think she expected me to behave differently. I got bored and cut the date short. Didn't walk her to her car, refused her to drop me off. My behavior was very weird I would say.	/r/seduction	12/05/26 01:04 PM
1	I really blew up the date I don't think I brought the best energy, but she was also kinda hard to talk to.	/r/seduction	12/05/26 11:48 AM
1	I really blew up the date It probably is this, because the texting put some expectations, and us both couldn't behave in the same way we texted. This kinda created the drop in the energy and it caused boredom on my part and probably on hers. I don't blame her, or something like that, far from it. I had very nice time texting her. The date wasn't thst good.	/r/seduction	12/05/26 09:57 AM
2	I really blew up the date I actually have some kind of barrier when it comes to physical stuff. It't hard for me to start with a touch and stuff like that.	/r/seduction	12/05/26 07:06 AM
1	I really blew up the date I get that too. In that relationship I had this explosion of emotions and a lot of chemistry. It's like I'm trying to find that again.	/r/seduction	11/05/26 05:21 PM
1	I really blew up the date Yeah you are right. I just had really good conversations on messages with her, and in person was totally different. But I really dont know what I want from girls and thats probably the worst part.	/r/seduction	11/05/26 05:06 PM
1	I really blew up the date I kinda really need physical stuff, but I cant do it if I dont feel connection. Literally all of my friends do it. I just cant. And last relationship was really toxic. It ended like 5 months ago, but I cant get used to nee people again.	/r/seduction	11/05/26 02:41 PM
2	I really blew up the date Do you think I should wait for some time? Like maybe text her tomorrow?	/r/seduction	11/05/26 01:03 PM
2	I really blew up the date Yeah, but I kinda miss the sex too.	/r/seduction	11/05/26 12:24 PM
3	I really blew up the date Don't know. I probably really miss someone now. Met 3 girls for the last 3 months and every one of them lacked something. I feel bad because I maybe could have achieved something physical with the girl from last night, but I can't make myself do that.	/r/seduction	11/05/26 12:05 PM
1	I really blew up the date Possibly. In that moment I was not in the mood because I was bored. I don't know.	/r/seduction	11/05/26 11:13 AM
1	I really blew up the date I could have behaved better at the end. That is the only thing that bothers me	/r/seduction	11/05/26 11:07 AM
1	I need some help with replying to this girls story Thank you! I asked her that and we are now talking a little. Will see how it goes!	/r/seduction	29/06/25 10:22 PM
1	I need some help with replying to this girls story Yeah will do that How would you ask a question? Just not to sound really dry. I rarely do this and when I did I wasn't thst successful.	/r/seduction	29/06/25 09:25 PM