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| 2 | Feminists use "misogyny" as an excuse to avoid critcism.If everything is the fault of the patriarchy it creates a convenient excuse to not have to take responsibility for your life, and you are 1000% responsible for every success and failure, every consequence, whether you think you are or not. Being a victim is the most convenient way to avoid accountability. It’s a lie that facilitates being able to avoid responsibility for your own failures, and justifying your shitty choices about how you treat others. This is the illusion of empowerment that fem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement is the correct approach, but after self improvement, meeting women is still a big challengeI’m annoying even myself right now with this soap box shit, but I couldn’t let this one go. There is no “after self-improvement.” It is a life long journey in which you commit to being better, in some way, no matter how small, every day. The thing that makes self-improvement transformational is that commitment and the mindset that results, because it changes the way you perceive yourself, teaches you the value of failure, redefines success, enhances your ability to adapt to crisis, teaches you t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 12:04 PM |
| 5 | Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kidsWho hurt you? Because you’re not describing most men, you’re not even describing a significant percentage of them. A man that cheats on his pregnant wife is not a man. But your post sounds like personal experience projected on literally half of humanity. I’m sorry if you haven’t met a decent man, but don’t try to tell us that we’re all the same. That’s just not real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 01:03 PM |
| 28 | TRP’s irrational (and unproductive) hatred of single moms is fully driven by the Madonna-Whore complexI think people overthink this. Their issue with single moms is a demonstrated history of bad decision making related to reproduction, a reluctance to contribute to another man’s progeny, because that’s resources their own children don’t get, and a reluctance to deal with the asshole baby-daddy who is more likely than not to introduce the potential for violence into the scenario depending on their personality and the circumstances. The reasoning is, “why would I deal with this if I don’t have to?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 12:50 AM |
| – | Slow burn vs genuine desireKnowing that the person you’re crazy about has, in their eyes, settled for you, would be very destructive to your self-image. The more dominant or confident a man is the less likely he would be able to tolerate that kind of thing. Honestly, no matter how good of an actress someone is a person can tell the difference between genuine desire and erotic theater. If you believe you have settled for someone, in all likelihood, they already know that’s how you feel, and if you see signs of resentment i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 05:39 PM |
| 1 | It's All ProstitutionThis is a powerfully delusional post. Have there been major studies to determine the existence of gold digging? You’re actually going to claim that a man’s income and obtaining access to it is not a motivation for some women? Everyone on here knows that this is real and most of the men on this sub that actively date have had direct experience with it at one time or another. OP is right to categorize Sugar Babies as prostitutes, because they are, period. But any time a relationship is reduced to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 10:28 AM |
| 1 | It's All ProstitutionExcept for Sugar Babies. That’s prostitution with the veneer of a quasi-relationship. “The girlfriend experience”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 10:14 AM |
| 0 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .You argue like every woman I’ve encountered that is bitter about the fact that men prefer to date women younger than them, and that they do so, frequently, because they can. 🥲 filled with bitterness and resentment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 07:30 PM |
| 0 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .Oh, I’m sorry, I thought you were trying to make a credible claim rather than just representing an obvious lie inspired by an emotional response, amounting to petty resentment for something you see as unfair. My bad, I’ll stop trying to discuss facts with you. I didn’t realize what your original comment actually represented; bitterness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .Odd, I don’t see a link to research in your post. I’m a healthcare provider and I was educated on these sorts of things through multiple degrees. You’re the one that made the misleading statement. The burden of proof is on you. Or just say you made a massive generalization since only a tiny portion of men over 35 have been the cause of birth defects. It’s almost always the age of maternal genome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Redpill teaches men things to avoid but is extremely damaging to having real relationshipsThe most damaging concept, in the red pill, to relationships is AWALT. If you recognize a particular set of tendencies women have that are influenced heavily by evolutionary psychology, then it’s your job to screen for those issues in a potential partner, because the way a woman manifests those tendencies or responds to those evolutionary forces will be different for every woman. But when you tell me an absolutism - AWALT, or “All Women Are Like That,” you eliminate the possibility of seeing the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .My experience in middle age has mirrored yours. Not by choice, but just circumstances, most of my relationships in life have been with women younger than me. My fiancé is 15 years younger than me, but neither of us is aware of it most days. I am fit, not overweight, not balding, no grey hair, definitely no erectile dysfunction. People age differently and the natural tendency is that the longer you live the more likely you are to have accumulated money and status, two things that matter to women.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .Massive generalization unsupported by science. What is FAR more prevalent is the possibility of Down’s syndrome and other birth defects caused by the aging of the female ovum. The almost total majority of children fathered by men over 40 are born without similar defects. Facts are facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 01:52 PM |
| 1 | If women were not into men, there wouldn't be so many women being side chicks and humiliating themselves for a manOne woman I know put it this way, “if it’s that good you’d be willing to share it.” I don’t believe I agree with the premise of the statement, since it’s human nature to not want to share a valued and finite resource, but what she is saying is that, if you can’t control a man’s choices to be with other women, but that man represents real value to you, you will share him rather than lose that value in your life. I think it’s fairly indicative of some women’s attitudes in the kinds of scenarios yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Saying “it’s not a gender thing”or it's rare is lazy thinkingThis is absolutely correct, however, when you discuss behaviors that are mirrored by a large minority or even the majority the application of judgement, in some cases, becomes appropriate, otherwise there is no mechanism to initiate change in that behavior - if it is ultimately considered harmful to society. That change is what we should be seeking here. People getting caught up in the judgement because they are triggered emotionally by its implications is a conversation for your therapist, not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | The rise of unhealthy female goonersMen’s use of porn is 100% about visual stimulation for the purposes of achieving orgasm. Men’s sexuality is geared towards visual stimulus and porn provides that. With the rare exception, what porn is NOT is a fixation on the women in it as people. They are not watching it because they think she is cool and pretty and want to be a member of her fan club, they watch for the same reason she was picked to be in the video; she has a big butt or big boobs and she is letting the male performers do thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 01:31 PM |
| 1 | What constitutes a simp?First, take note of what SIMP stands for: Suckas Idolizing Mediocre Pussy. The original idea is that a simp is a guy who goes over the top trying to get picked by a woman who isn’t worthy of that level of attention. When someone calls your man a simp they are disrespecting and insulting you. Don’t tolerate that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Forgiveness for past sins in datingWhile it’s not true of everyone who has been a sex worker, I think the main issue that people have with it is the understanding that to be able to do that kind of work you have to completely disconnect sex and intimacy and that doing so is not something you can switch on and off at will. Once that disconnection happens and your sexual reality becomes a kind of erotic theater where you become accustomed to doing, being, acting in whatever way you believe will excite your customers, the default wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 01:06 PM |
| – | Putting ego aside for my woman’s pleasure. Girls thoughts?Your duty as a man has zero to do with accepting being casually emasculated by your partner insisting that you forgo being a full participant in your sex life to compensate for issues she has with perceiving your anatomy as inadequate. That’s not an iconic stance. It’s signing off on a kind of symbolic cuckoldry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Putting ego aside for my woman’s pleasure. Girls thoughts?This. Any man who signed off on this is just asking for total emasculation in the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Putting ego aside for my woman’s pleasure. Girls thoughts?That’s someone I’d leave immediately. Why deal with that? Clearly she developed a preference early on and she needs to go find her prince. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Putting ego aside for my woman’s pleasure. Girls thoughts?Not when your girl needs a rubber duck to get off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherHaving a problem with feminism has nothing to do with how much I get laid, but is due to it being a toxic, hateful philosophy (in its current incarnation) that is based, at least partially, on resentment, misconception and a huge set of logical fallacies that bring ever conversation back to a mistaken belief that all men, knowingly or otherwise, are members of a not so secret club (the patriarchy) who’s stated intent is to keep women down. Once you decide something like that is real life becomes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Putting ego aside for my woman’s pleasure. Girls thoughts?Well, one way would be if she told you that. 😂. I think men want to, at a minimum, be seen as “good enough” and having to bring in a rubber dick for her to get off kinda negates that idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Putting ego aside for my woman’s pleasure. Girls thoughts?As long as the toys aren’t introduced to compensate for your deficient anatomy, in her eyes. What person would be ok knowing that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Putting ego aside for my woman’s pleasure. Girls thoughts?I think any woman who couldn’t orgasm with me is a woman I probably shouldn’t be with. If you have to bring in toys to get there then I’m feeling “no”. If that’s what’s required either I don’t do it for you, or you have some issues with your biology or sexuality that prevent you from being able to get there. Staying with someone in either situation would be a recipe for disappointment and unhappiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Putting ego aside for my woman’s pleasure. Girls thoughts?Men give oral too, stop acting like it’s some selfless sacrifice, I was referring to the fact that he misses out on experiencing intercourse, and he has set up a situation where when they have it without the dildo and she seems noticeably underwhelmed, he will see that and will become resentful over time. It will stand as a reminder that he is not good enough by himself to really please her. Men want to feel attractive to their partners. They want to feel like their partner can’t keep their hand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Putting ego aside for my woman’s pleasure. Girls thoughts?Let’s dig deeper into what this actually means: -She has had bigger guys than you and enjoyed sex with them more than she does with you. -She clearly has an issue with one of your traits that you can never change or improve. That kinda smacks of settling. -You are creating a standard in your sex life that, by definition, leaves your own physical pleasure out of it for at least some of the time. You’re making it ok for her to see you as not good enough, because, at least sexually, you’re not. -Co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 09:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsExcept any attempt at manipulation into making a life changing decision means we’re done. So there’s that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 11:44 PM |
| 18 | Most PPD debates gets us nowhere because of these 3 things.Always amazes me how people forget that. Boomers are 60 and older. Why would they be posting on Reddit? Gen X are in their 40’s and very definitely have experience with modern dating since divorce is 1 in every 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 10:00 AM |
| 14 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.Video doesn’t lie. She is the a-hole. Violated his privacy when all she had to do was set the pizza down at the door as instructed. Easy one to call, but I’d advise you not to hold your breath on anyone from TwoX suddenly betraying the standard, total lack of basic accountability displayed by members of that sub and owning the fact that they will always choose the side of women irrespective of the facts in a situation. It’s like some grade school boys vs girls mentality. No matter how glaringly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Does masturbation (with or without porn) inhibit pair bonding for men?I think the cascade of chemicals is a response to the emotional and physical intensity of being with a new partner. I think the more often it happens the greater the impairment to your ability to experience it, because you become desensitized, which is a nice way of saying those chemicals don’t do for you what they used to. Eventually a new partner stops being the exciting experience it was at first and that means your ability to bond is similarly impaired. This inability directly affects how yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 10:02 AM |
| 4 | Does masturbation (with or without porn) inhibit pair bonding for men?Masturbation does not release oxytocin/vasopressin in nearly the same quantities. Actual human contact and actual sex, all with a NEW partner are the only things that do cause such a significant release, if just sex did it a pair bond would diminish over the course of a relationship. The idea that repeated exposure to the massive release of these neurotransmitters often enough to cause downregulation of their receptors is still somewhat theoretical but it is scientifically sound and follows simi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 02:16 PM |
| 7 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themWhat on earth would a 22 year old and a 55 year old have to talk about? People mistakenly believe that age gap relationships by definition feature a woman in her early 20’s. Without that element they can’t cry “exploitation!” If you see a 22 year old with a 55 year old man you can be absolutely certain that both of them are being exploited just for drastically different things. But what about the 50 year old man with the 35 year old woman. Is that exploitative too? I don’t know a 55 year old man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:46 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand how unattractive people can stand to have sex with each other.Damn…truth hurts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedYes. I learned that phrase from my dad too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 07:37 PM |
| 8 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedWhat you’re not getting is that bringing this sexual desire under conscious control is one of the developmental challenges of your 20’s and 30’s. Many men fail to rise to this challenge and find themselves dealing with the fall out of their out of control sex drive. These are lesser men. They are mentally weak. You control your actions, fucking period. If you squash sexual desire you will also mess with so many other aspects of what it is to be a man - ambition, loyalty, so many of the strongest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 09:17 PM |
| – | Some men never have a sexual primeA man’s sexual prime starts at 30. I don’t know why you would expect it to follow the same path as a woman developmentally. Just as hers begins to end his begins to rise. A man’s period of reproductive viability is so much longer than a woman’s, potentially spanning his lifetime, so his “prime years” start later and last longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 08:57 PM |
| -1 | I don't understand how unattractive people can stand to have sex with each other.No but it sure does inform you about the women you can realistically have relationships with. Here’s the important part; recognize that if you don’t take steps to improve yourself, that’s all you have access to. If it’s not good enough for you, you get none. Nobody said life is fair. It most definitely is not. The longer you cry about that reality it’s just more time wasted that could have been spent engaged in real self improvement, because bemoaning the injustice of it all is a literal waste o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 01:20 PM |
| 0 | I don't understand how unattractive people can stand to have sex with each other.This is funny. If you are self-aware, or even if you avoid that, at some point in life you make an honest assessment of your own attractiveness and you adjust your expectations based on that. Unattractive people know, usually from the feedback of others, that they are unattractive, and either shoot for people slightly more attractive than them, or accept solitude. If they want to have sex they get over their issue with other people’s subjective beauty, or lack thereof, real quick. We all take wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 12:14 PM |
| 3 | The idea that sexually successful men don't share our complaints about modern dating is a complete fantasy.Totally, but there are a few who never get it. There are people who die alone in every relationship because they never grew past the “it’s all about me” phase or the “I’m gonna get mine” mentality. There are people who, irrespective of their attractiveness, turn out to be totally unequipped for the reality of relationships. You think you’ve stumbled on some universal truth when you mercilessly compare everyone you’re with until you’ve made it impossible for yourself to actually feel gratitude fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 02:44 PM |
| 2 | I realized recently I don't really care about a woman's past if she's upfront and open about her lifestyle.That’s really the point, right? As long as someone is transparent and honest about the way they have chosen to live their life then they have shown you that respect. It’s pretty tough to get all that upset if somebody just owns their choices and can clearly articulate how they have processed those decisions and the effect they had on their lives. Because haven’t you made some stupid choices too? I mean if there is a massive disparity between your lives and experiences and you find you can’t deal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 01:37 PM |
| 8 | The idea that sexually successful men don't share our complaints about modern dating is a complete fantasy.You’re right but not for the exact reasons you stated. Being able to readily find partners and having the option to have relationships does not change the essential nature of the women that all men are competing to be with. Just because you win that competition more often than not you still have to deal with varying degrees of entitled, transactional, disrespectful people who, because of popular culture, default to always comparing every minute aspect of you, your body, your personality and the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 03:28 PM |
| – | why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral?It is 100% instinctual. Before about 80 years ago a case of the clap would kill you slowly. Venereal diseases were deadly at worst, disfiguring and painful at best. Add to that a woman always knows it’s her child, but a man never did before paternity tests were invented, so for all of human history before that the risk of paternity fraud, resulting in a man investing resources in someone else’s progeny was a very real thing, and men are not ok with that. Lastly, testosterone makes men naturally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Controlling partnerSomeone telling you what you will do is controlling. Someone telling you what they will do if you do X is them setting a boundary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do the majority of people find their life partner between the ages of 25-30? What happens during this time to cause this phenomenon?It’s caused by a period where both sexes are subjected to a cascade of oxytocin that is completely independent of environmental factors. Where as that hormone is usually excreted in response to pair bonding behaviors, this time it’s like the bond precedes the behavior, like it’s prompting us to go find someone to bond with. I distinctly remember when it happened to me. I was 29 and living my best life. Decided I would never marry or have children. Had 3 FWBs that were aware of each other and did… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Relationships are not worth if sex rarely happenIt’s a matter of personal expectations, but, barring pregnancy or illness, a relationship where genuine sexual desire has died and either compliance sex or no sex at all is occurring, it’s probably time to move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | What is something positive and healthy in your relationship that you appreciate? Or perhaps a trait in your partner/spouse that you value?Seems like every time I start to think about sex, before I even say something, she lets me know she is too. The timing is bizarre and wonderful. Like twice a day, synchronized. Never with anyone else, just her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 12:28 AM |
| 2 | The Wall is really when men are less horny and don’t need to tolerate annoying women.My hormones have never calmed down, I just grew up. Both sexes undergo a developmental shift between 27 and 32. A whole new set of hormones are released that make babies seem appealing and tell you “settle down”. When that hits women they change their goals and strategy. Many men do too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:43 PM |
| 2 | What is the actual issue towards guys dating younger women?She’s 34, I’m 50. Together 4 years and engaged. Neither of us is disgusting. I don’t know what kind of guys you work with, but any fool that would shit where they eat are stupid anyway. I don’t date people I work with, so I don’t know what your experience is, but I’m in a fuck of lot better shape than most 20 something males I see, and piss on the stats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 11:42 PM |
| 1 | What is the actual issue towards guys dating younger women?Oh, why in the fuck would an older man want to DATE a 20 year old? Have sex with one, maybe, but a 20 year old woman will have no thoughts or ideas of interest to a man in his 40’s. Spending time with a woman that age will be like nails on a chalkboard to him. He will be wishing she would just STFU within the first hour. I’m 50, my fiance’ is 34. She’s beautiful in the extreme, aaaand she has actually lived in the real world, had successes in her life, and knows how to behave appropriately in a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 11:38 PM |
| 1 | What is the actual issue towards guys dating younger women?I think the idea is that it is attractive older men dating younger women, not disgusting crusty men with hair growing out of their ears. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit usAll this arguing about what RP is or isn’t is a waste of time. It is reality for the last two generations of men. Good luck finding one that hasn’t consciously employed aspects of its philosophy as it is the only solution that has been offered for an otherwise biased societal perception favoring women in general. If telling men to dedicate themselves to self-improvement and protect themselves by not allowing the myriad of messages aimed at them favoring the prerogatives of women by default is wr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 11:10 AM |
| -1 | Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit usI don’t know a divorced man who has abandoned his kids. So what men, SPECIFICALLY, are you referring to? Are these men that the woman had children with without being married? Are these men who showed a pattern of not being gainfully employed prior to her having children with them? Are women not 100% in charge of where and when they have babies? Because last I checked an IUD is as close to 100% effective and requires no daily pill or anything that could be forgotten. Where I come from if a man fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 10:53 AM |
| 2 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.No, she respects you for being a man with the drive and work ethic to be able to provide and having the natural desire to protect the people you love. Last I checked, those are both part of “who you are”. So…no. If you have any knowledge of statistics you’d realize that generalizations are rarely accurate unless you have an adequate sample size and I don’t think anyone has conducted a peer reviewed study on this topic. You’re talking based on your own personal experiences which are not represent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:34 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.You’re making generalizations. If she was raised by a father who provided, and is with a man who was raised to provide, then it’s not actually an issue. To assume that because a man provides that means she doesn’t make an equivalent contribution to the relationship basically says you don’t get the concept of traditional roles. I’m typing this as my fiancée just handed me a plate with a steak and baked potato cooked just the way I like it. It all basically comes down to understanding how men and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Men below 30, would you date a woman who used to be a sugarbaby? Maybe she used a sugar dady thrice her age to cover law school fees or somethingI don’t mean to imply that doing sex work makes you expect to get paid for sex in every relationship, only that financial support and more will come to be expected as a bare minimum, and that the attitude becomes transactional because they see sex as their part of the arrangement, as if that’s something that even counts as an actual contribution to the relationship and not simply what two people who love each other do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Men below 30, would you date a woman who used to be a sugarbaby? Maybe she used a sugar dady thrice her age to cover law school fees or somethingPseudoscience…. Be specific. What did I say that isn’t completely factual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 10:30 PM |
| 44 | Men below 30, would you date a woman who used to be a sugarbaby? Maybe she used a sugar dady thrice her age to cover law school fees or somethingThing is, for someone to do sex work they must learn to disconnect sex from intimacy and disconnect sex from attraction. They have to be able to do this as a prerequisite. So they have to learn to appear turned on and interested in someone they are not. They have to be able to have sex with someone they are not attracted to, maybe even repulsed by. If they do this long enough you won’t ever be able to know if her having sex with you is genuinely driven by the desire you assume it is. It could al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Are there really women out there that expect men to pay for literally everything in a relationship?Then yeah, I guess so. Our rent represents about an 8th of my total take home every month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Women with high relationship standards--please tell me about what you offer in returnA nag gets left. No exceptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 02:12 AM |
| -8 | Women with high relationship standards--please tell me about what you offer in returnHonesty, respect (nagging of any kind is disrespect), fidelity, appreciation for what I do for you, and frequent sex motivated by genuine desire for me as a person. I used to think this was the bare minimum but I haven’t had all of it in a single relationship in my life, so…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Are there really women out there that expect men to pay for literally everything in a relationship?What counts as “very high”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 07:54 AM |
| 2 | Are there really women out there that expect men to pay for literally everything in a relationship?This is the bare minimum. A guy who fuses about who pays on dates is not worth your time. I’ve been with my fiance for 4 years. We live together. I pay the rent, utilities, groceries. When we go out I pay, when we go on vacation I pay. Not because she demands it, but because it’s how I was raised. She works. She makes good money. She makes me happy. She enhances me, makes me better. For that, paying the rent seems like a small thing. Feminism and its murder of traditional roles has led to a soci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 11:23 AM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallWould it be accurate to say that the first step in becoming a millionaire is to decide that it would be desirable? Not that this is everyone’s motivation, but if you aspire to a particular relationship, the decision to pursue it comes before it is acquired. As far as being realistic? I can’t answer that. I’ve never had problems attracting women that I find desirable as well. I have a successful career. I have a fun and meaningful life. I have already demonstrated that I am a good father and capa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 05:38 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallSure they can. Lost of women have jobs in California. Who said anything about not working? I certainly don’t have an issue with someone wanting to work. But to be clear a relationship where we both work but she does not feel desire or attraction to me is just as worthless as one where she stays home. I wouldn’t have either relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 05:16 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallDesire. I got enough friends. I don’t need to financially support them to enjoy that friendship. For me to marry and support a woman she needs to actually desire me. If she doesn’t you’ll know eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 05:14 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallI think it’s probably a spectrum. You have resources on one side and sexual desire on the other. The fortunate get to have both. I’m just stating that my standard is not a spectrum, that I have one requirement here and that’s that my partner actually have genuine desire for me. If they don’t, I don’t want them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 05:12 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallI’m being picky by expecting my partner to actually desire me? Shit, if that’s true then I’m fine with being alone. If you’re lonely make friends, cultivate a life that doesn’t depend on a relationship to make it worth living. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 05:10 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallI agree. Genuine sexual desire is required. I don’t expect a woman to lower their standards. If someone isn’t genuinely attracted to me I don’t want them any more than they want me. Go for who you want, I’m just saying don’t engage somebody and claim reasons that are not genuine in an effort to secure resources. My resources are for women that genuinely desire me. All others need not apply and I fully accept that you want to be with someone you desire. It’s the only way it should happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 05:08 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallMust be nice to be a hater bitch who makes stupid petty remarks on social media. This is you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 05:00 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallThe point here is that her standards are irrelevant to us if she does not, above all, desire us sexually. It is what it is, but that’s the simplest way I can put it across. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 02:33 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallIf those are the responses then we are good. What are you not understanding? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 02:30 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallI’m in my 40’s. I have two kids from a first marriage. They are 12 and 18. I’m going to have more with her. Thanks for saying so. I believe she is worth every good thing I can give her, and that’s the point. She sees me as valuable in the way I care about and because of that I enthusiastically offer her my life, my heart and my resources. It’s what everyone should aspire to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 02:29 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallLet’s see, four years in we have sex 2-3 times a day. We can’t keep our hands off of each other and it’s only become more intense over time. For that I would never let her get away. Anything else is just not worth investing in. So yeah, I don’t think anyone sustains that level of sexual engagement for 4 years, never for a moment seeming like she is simply cooperating or going along with it for my sake. You’ll just have to accept that I know it’s real. If it isn’t, and it’s about my money, then s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 02:23 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallNo. Just no. She can say that but what we are talking about is the WHY she wants to spend the rest of her life with you. I get that she wants you, the question is what does that desire consist of. For men, if it’s not genuine sexual desire, then it is nothing. You can hate that it’s that way, but it is. If she wouldn’t have dated me 10 years ago but there is genuine sexual desire for me, I can work with that, but if her motivation has more to do with what I can provide for her then I’ll just pas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 02:15 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallI beg to differ. My fiancé is my ultimate and she perceives me as hers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 02:10 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallImpulsiveness is to act solely on desire. A man would want to know that you feel that compulsion towards him and that the benefits of being with him in a practical sense are completely secondary to your genuine desire for him. If your boyfriend accepts anything other than that scenario it’s because on some level he does not see himself as good enough to be the object of your sexual desire, and he is taking what he can get. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 02:08 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallWait, how is marrying someone for what they can provide rather than who they are not 100% transactional? If you wouldn’t date him without the money, then your presence in his life is done in exchange for that money. You are providing the girlfriend experience in exchange for financial benefit. There’s a name for that. Sugaring…prostitution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 01:58 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallUsing a man for his resources without feeling genuine desire for him is the ultimate method for objectifying a man. As always feminists fail to recognize that men and women are not and have never been the same. Treating them as such will lead to nothing less than the destruction of our society, which many modern feminists readily report as being their objective. What you see as exploitation is not the same as how a man defines it. To objectify a woman is to see her, not as a person, but someone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 01:54 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallYou seem to be under the impression that dying alone would be a negative compared to giving your life and resources to a woman that simply sees you as second place. Wouldn’t bother me a bit, but I admit, that is not a choice I’ve ever had to make. If a beta accepts their fate due to a lack of self-worth, it doesn’t alter the lack of genuine value she will bring to his life. By this I mean that her presence constitutes a positive and constructive force in his life, because anyone who settles for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 01:43 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallThe victim mentality comes from the active deception she employed to draw him to her. If she were honest and just said, “I’m not really all that turned on by guys like you, but you have money and I’m ready to live an easier life, so I guess you’ll do.” Then they could walk into it eyes open. If she failed to do this, she has victimized him. She’s a liar and deserves none of what he has to offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 01:37 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallRidiculous? Wanting to believe your partner sees you as being her ultimate, and is genuinely attracted to you and feels desire for you is completely rational and bears no comparison to wanting a six foot millionaire. Wanting to be with a man that is 6 feet tall is a preference, or standard. Wanting to be with a millionaire is a fantasy. If having a partner that genuinely desires you is a fantasy, then I’ll pass on the version of reality you are selling. Marrying someone for what they can give yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 01:34 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallSure, but this issue is not about outcomes, it’s about how she perceives you and whether she values you in the ways that matter to you. Nobody wants to be the guy she wouldn’t have dated before now, but since her priorities have shifted away from sex, fun, being with an attractive person, and went to home, family and financial support, who could feel good about being the one she chose now. It’s a clear sign that she is not naturally drawn to you based on actual desire or attraction, but what you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 01:15 PM |
| 2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.I’ve read all the comments. I want very much to believe this isn’t true, but experience has taught me, unfortunately, that it is a lot of the time. I date established professional women, yet twice now I’ve had them actively deceive me to take money from me, even though I was incredibly generous, paying for our home, paying for everything, as I was raised to do. Both of these women cheated too. They grew up in good homes. They both initially seemed very kind and caring. Both times this happened 4… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 02:13 PM |
| – | Case study: A top 10% man who has it all. Why aren’t women interested in him?He lacks the confidence that comes with prior dating experience. Something about his demeanor, likely subtle, is not conveying confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 05:27 AM |
| 11 | A feminist argument against going 50/50?I’m sorry, I’m going to need sources for all of those dubious assertions. Women bear most of the emotional labor in a relationship? You haven’t dated a millennial woman then. This assertion is laughable. Second, how much I make as a single man is not influenced by the presence or absence of a woman. With DEI taking hold of most large companies me being white, male and strait has resulted in me suddenly, after a successful career, having trouble finding anything more than contract work. Since in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Do women decide what masculinity is?The very last person who should ever define masculinity is a woman. What does a woman know about what it means to be a man. Oh she can tell you how she “imagines” men being, or philosophize about a new definition of masculinity, but all that should be taken about as seriously as any other fantasy. What a woman thinks masculinity should be is irrelevant and men waiting around for women to tell them how to act will only lead to more of the same bullshit, besides being weak af. Men define what it i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 04:17 PM |
| – | Around 1 in 50 fathers are unknowingly raising children that are not theirs. Should we normalize paternity tests?The test should be completely legal with the consent of one parent. To make it otherwise is to be complicit in fraud. Paternity fraud will be punished in a completely natural way, by the victim of the fraud removing any benefit from his presence from the life of the person committing it. And it is right that it be that way. Ay country that makes it illegal without the consent of the mother specifically has decided to help the small minority keep a secret, and has functionally watered down the re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 12:01 PM |
| – | Around 1 in 50 fathers are unknowingly raising children that are not theirs. Should we normalize paternity tests?Everything WAS made to preserve men’s privileges. It is most definitely not that way anymore. Not even close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 11:53 AM |
| – | Around 1 in 50 fathers are unknowingly raising children that are not theirs. Should we normalize paternity tests?Anyone that opposes this has something to hide. Freakin period. Reality is men are roughly 50% of the population. We have no interest in unknowingly raising somebody else’s child. Note that I said “unknowingly”. If that many people would be deeply opposed to it, I’m going to go ahead and say it’s worth the cost of the lab test to eliminate that concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 11:51 AM |
| 6 | Should we feel bad for mediocre wives who get cheated on by attractive, high-status, husbands?You sound bitter. Cheating is indefensible. You make a commitment and break it you’re a degenerate POS. Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 04:54 PM |
| – | A woman's value as a human being has absolutely nothing to do with her "body count".Anyone that says someone’s n-count correlates to their value as a human being is pathetic. What it does correlate to is your value as a partner in some respects, and that’s because some people just don’t want to be with someone who has been with a lot of people. Some people don’t give a shit. Those kinds of preferences are perfectly fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Do older men 35+ have trouble dating woman in their mid 20’s?I got divorced when I was 44. Always stayed in shape, had lots of dating success prior to marriage. I was curious about dating apps. It had been 14 years since I last dated. Downloaded one. A week or so later I went on my first date. She was 24. And so it went from there. Now I am 52. My girlfriend/finace of 4 years is 37. She is beautiful by any standard. I look at her every day and wonder how in the hell she is with me. The answers I always come back to are basically; 1. I got lucky geneticall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Men who claim that "we men are so horny and would fck anything with a pulse" are horrible and feed misandrist mythsIt never ceases to amaze me how frequently humans rely on generalization to understand or characterize things that are in no way subject to such generalizations. They do this knowing full well that it is not an accurate method of predicting human behavior. You’re right, not all men will sleep with anyone with two legs and a vagina. The reasons they won’t should not be minimized as the presence or absence of dignity, because it has very little to do with that. If you can’t manage being horny with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?A two parent household has been demonstrated to be the only reliable way to raise well-adjusted children that don’t carry issues with them into adulthood related to the absence of either parent. This trend is part of a larger attempt by fourth wave feminism to introduce the idea that men simply aren’t necessary, and by extension, to destroy the idea of the nuclear family as being a healthy way to raise kids. Don’t believe me? Google “feminism, end the nuclear family” and read the articles that c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Women justify their biases against men all the time, but men are condemned for doing the sameI think two things are at work here, just in my personal experience, that influence this 1000% real phenomenon. First, any perceived attempt to enforce completely legitimate boundaries in a relationship by a man is universally labeled as controlling, and an attempt by men to “control” or constrain female behavior and sexuality. This is actually utter bullshit, because regardless of which gender does it, there is a distinct difference between the enforcement of personal boundaries, which is a dec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think (some) men, particularly on the internet, care about women ending up alone?LOL. They don’t actually care, this is them reconciling the utter shit that dating is today, and the experiences they’ve had with women. Theyre trying to find some solace in knowing that, despite the reality that finding a partner today means dealing with people who live on the default setting of being a complete degenerate with no empathy or self-control, the people who have treated them poorly (real or imagined) will one day suffer like they have. It’s resentment. They feel cheated in the know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How bad Is being compared badly tò her father?That’s the one comparison that, if not favorable, absolutely means she has no respect for you as a man, because her father is who taught her what it means to be a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 12:59 PM |
| 1 | How do women emotionally move on from relationships so quickly?Women move on easier by having total security in the knowledge that they can have a new version of you directly. It doesn’t feel like that much of a loss if it’s totally easy to find someone new. Male attention soothes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Do single dads ever request or desire for a woman to "step up"?Christ no. I don’t introduce my kids to someone I’m dating unless it’s serious and we’ve been together for 6 months to a year. I am not auditioning a new mother for them. They have a mother. Someone I’m dating needs to make sure they have not one hint of an issue with me having children or we can’t be friends no more. I will not play bullshit jealousy games that involve my SO and my children. My requirement is that they recognize that my children are a part of me and when I decide it’s time, the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Do relationships where a woman is with a man for his money have really dead bedrooms?No, as long as he keeps paying the sex is plentiful. What fool would pay to be neglected? Because that’s what’s happening in those relationships. He’s paying for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 11:17 PM |
| 16 | Do you feel monogamy is slowing dying out?I think our society is slowly dying out, and when societies do it starts with the breakdown of the family unit. Always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 04:10 AM |
| – | If I were a man I'd be a POS according to Reddit.None of these things make you a POS. The fact that anyone thinks they would comes from a total lack of understanding how a man’s sexuality works, just a shitty desire to say anything negative about men they can think up, or the utterly mistaken belief that consent even SHOULD look the same once you are married. All they really do is hold up a sign saying “I’d be the most annoying partner you could imagine.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 11:51 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️I think there are some generalizations you’re making that aren’t completely accurate. There are definitely incels out there that resent women for having a colorful sexual history when there’s has been largely non-existent. It’s resentment, and it’s their problem. As far as judging women, when anyone makes a decision about having a relationship with someone, they naturally evaluate their past relationships, and attitudes about sex, because it speaks to their character and quality as a partner. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Getting a roommate is better than a 50/50 man as a womanI believe a man should provide, but if I am the provider there are some things that she needs to know. 1. I have no use for your shitty attitude, save it for someone who enjoys disrespect. 2. We need to have an understanding about WHAT YOU DO in the relationship. (Hint: the answer to this never includes sex. If you are trading financial support for sex you are a sex worker. Full stop.). 3. If me providing means you work part-time or not at all, I should never come home to a messy house. I am not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 08:32 AM |
| -1 | Do men realize that the “loose pussy” is the kind that most women have?I’m a man and I’ve never shamed or known anyone who shamed. But if I did it would be for something actually shame-worthy, like lying or cheating. Who gives a crap about this whole vagina question….? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 08:21 AM |
| 1 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.BTW, EVERY TIME in history that any society has attempted to implement communism it has resulted in the murder of MILLIONS of people. It is a fantasy concept based largely on resentment. It could only EVER be possible with significant changes in human nature. People have inclinations that make any sort of real life implementation impossible. Just saw your endorsement in your user name and couldn’t resist. People love to say, “oh those times weren’t really communism.” But that’s the point; real c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 06:54 AM |
| 1 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.I am a musician, write short fiction, and acted through college. I am a photographer (check my profile, I think I’ve posted a couple things.). I’m an (amateur) perfumer, as well. Something that I got into when my, then, 6 year old daughter asked to learn to make fragrance as a summer project. None of these have anything to do with my career (I’m a nurse turned healthcare executive), and are just things I’ve done all my life. So…what were you saying about complex, creative men? I stand by what I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 06:45 AM |
| 1 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.Honestly, I rarely feel compelled to cry. I don’t know why this is even a question. In 3 decades of adulthood I have been moved to tears twice; the death of my sister, and mother. If somebody judged me for crying in those moments they can kiss my ass. A bitch is a man who actually feels like crying on a regular basis, because he can’t get his shit together and deal with his problems. Under no circumstances would I walk around acting cold, because that would be bitch behavior too. A man is the ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 02:13 AM |
| 6 | Women of Reddit, does your potential man’s salary important? What is a reasonable $# you’d accept?Don’t feel so bad, the number she quoted would put that person In the top 3% of American Society, so the number of people that make that at all are rare. To expect it at age 31 would make them substantially more rare, since, even with the best schooling, and connections, at 31 you have not been in your chosen career long enough to build that kind of momentum to be making that kind of money. You feel like you have no chance, but in a room of 1000 31 year old men, chances are maybe 2-3 of them act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 01:53 AM |
| 3 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.Depressing but 100% true. Having her see you cry in an extreme situation, like a death, will not flip that switch, but cry about little stuff, or do it often, and you drop into the bitch category. Same is true of discussing your feelings or problems. Save that for your male friends. This is not what you should talk to your girl about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 10:13 PM |
| 0 | Most women respect men with larger penises more than men with smaller ones, even if they do not prefer larger penises in a sexual contextPosting things like this only reveals that you are sensitive about your penis size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Are men really not attracted to fat girls?Some men like heavy women. Lots of men like thick women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 08:10 AM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I think you meant to say “evolved” not involved. So, I have a question. Do you like where you live? Nice building? Isn’t it cool how when you flip that switch the lights come on? Or how about how when you flush the toilet the waste is carried away? Do you like your car? Isn’t it great how when it needs gas you can always find a station nearby? Oh, or how about how when you’re driving and you come to a river, and to get to the other side you just have to drive across a bridge…. Men did that. The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that almost every average couple has a dead bedroom?Ouch, that’s pretty dead to me. I have sex daily in my current relationship. Thing is, I know that, while she enjoys it, her willingness to do it is as much accommodating me as it is genuine desire. I tell myself that her desire to accommodate me counts as genuine desire, and the other aspects of our relationship are satisfying to both of us. It’s taken me this long in life to realize that, if things are good, don’t fucking poke at it. Spend that energy on the things outside your relationship th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 10:04 AM |
| 2 | CMV: If age gap relationships are wrong, so is dating a person with mental issuesWait, there’s something wrong with age gap relationships? To haters maybe. My girlfriend is 15 years younger than me. She’s in her 30’s. No diminished mental capacity. I’d finish this by saying some shit about being young at heart, but whatever I say people are going to think it’s about me not being into women my own age. Truth is, they’re not into me. Ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 10:55 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanSpeaking as a man with both abundance and options I think you’re leaving some things out. Promiscuity CAN affect a woman’s ability to have a happy relationship sometimes, but lots of other things do too. Mental health issues, financial issues, past relationship issues she hasn’t processed, conflicting political or religious beliefs, difference in sex drive, and the list goes on. The only time I worry about promiscuity is if there is a history of infidelity in prior relationships. While promiscui… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 10:33 PM |
| 2 | What's the difference between "toxic masculinity" and "toxic femininity"? Or it's just that there are toxic people?Toxicity is not unique to any one gender. These are buzzwords used to passively imply that the collective traits of one gender or the other are essentially toxic. It amounts to a bullshit propaganda tactic. One thing that does make you toxic af: inventing terms like toxic masculinity, and we all know who did that shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 02:36 PM |
| 11 | If women have "Female Intuition", what do guys have? Instinct? Gut Feelings?Common sense. Ooooooh. Just a joke. Had to say it. Just a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 02:29 PM |
| 3 | If men were less horny, what would happen?Yes. Rapid. People have no idea what they are fucking with trying to diminish masculinity or male sexuality. The end of the species. Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:05 AM |
| 7 | If men were less horny, what would happen?Absent sexual desire men would have no motivation to engage women at all. Period. Those with children would remain devoted to them, and likewise those who are married, but desire is what starts it all for men. Take that away and most men wouldn't have a lot of reason to interact with them beyond work, maybe. Ever wonder why nature would give the physically larger and stronger gender roughly 14x stronger libido? At one time it was probably one solid bit of insurance the species would continue. Ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?Sorry if I misunderstood. You are right, though. A man that fails to keep the relationship exciting, by dating and injecting surprise and mystery into the relationship, shouldn’t be surprised if his partner stops feeling sexual. I absolutely believe that. If my comment didn’t clearly portray the idea, then I apologize. I didn’t mean to I p,y that it’s just the woman who quits caring about his needs. If she takes the time to understand his needs, he certainly has to do the same for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?I think what he was trying to say is, if he knows that sexual desire will almost always diminish sharply within the first couple of years you are with someone, in a committed relationship, why would he enter into one in the first place knowing it means that one of his genuine biological needs will be mostly neglected. I, personally, am built for long-term, but one of the biggest sticking points is that usually by year two of a relationship, usually once the woman is relatively assure of my commi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?Christ…does anyone actually read the original post. Nobody’s saying anything about fuckboys. He is asking why he should commit to a relationship where one of his biggest biological needs will be likely neglected a couple years in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 03:23 AM |
| 0 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?This is the question with answers that are hard to swallow on both sides. For him, he ceased being any sort of mystery or exciting in any way when he allowed himself to act as though he became boring and domesticated, maybe even letting himself go a little. For her, she is not really programmed for sustained sexual desire in a relationship that, until somewhere around the 1960’s would have seen her having to focus on very domestic considerations by the time they had been married for a couple of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?I don’t recall reading where OP said men ONLY care about sex, only that most of them do. We are not hormonally the same as women, and we don’t owe anyone an apology for wanting a relationship where desire is a long-term component. But be sure and default to saying things like “ruled by your penis…”. It’s a nice way of saying men are incapable of having anything but a sexual relationship when we are actually saying we would like the whole thing, just not absent of sex or genuine desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?Hmmm. But for men, the options don’t actually get thinner with age unless he limits himself to dating women his own age. This assumes he takes care of himself. Men and women do not age on the same time schedules. Although it would be preferable to be in a long term relationship with someone your age that is based on mutual desire and respect, it just rarely happens that way. So, If at 50 you find that your 35 year old girlfriend seems to get what your 50 year old ex-wife never cared to know - th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?It’s an insult to imply that sex is the “only” reason a man would date a woman. But never fool yourself into believing that it is not almost always one of the big reasons he does. Men are hormonally different than women. A lack of effort at understanding why this is and what it means is a huge part of why people get disenchanted with committed relationships, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?I think the responses to this post are just another example of men being shamed for caring about sex in a long term relationship. The point is, why settle down with someone when the level of sexual interest predictable dies just a few years in? Men care about sex. No matter how hard anyone wishes it weren’t true, it is. The end. No matter how much society shames a man by implying that “all he cares about is sex” and dismissing him as shallow, the truth is a man would like to continue to enjoy a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?Nobody said “…and nothing more,” only that sex matters, not that it’s the only thing that does, only that it very definitely does. Women sleeping with “Chad”, despite being in a relationship with you, means that she is unfit for a relationship, as anyone who violates those boundaries would be…functionally worthless and not deserving of your time or commitment. The OP is not referencing casual sex, he is talking about the highly predictable decline in women’s sexual interest usually 9 months to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?It’s all a function of desire, which is either present or it isn’t. I believe the OP is making reference to the phenomenon of how women, usually 9 months to two years into a relationship, and usually once she is assured of your commitment, will show a sharp decline in sexual interest, often leaving the man feeling like he was duped. Romantic love presupposes desire too. It’s not that men ONLY care about sex, only that we DO care about it, and when the fire dies suddenly in a relationship the mom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?I think that’s sort of his point. To a woman, sexual attraction is a small fraction of the relationship, but to a man, with roughly 14x the amount of the hormone responsible for producing sexual desire in both sexes, it’s not such a small fraction. Personally I don’t place a huge amount of importance on my partner staying perfectly fit forever, only that they have a continued sexual desire for me. Sorry if it disrupts everyone’s idea of what should or shouldn’t be in a long term relationship, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menI understand, absolutely, that she may have all sorts of reasons. Generalizations about things like this are dangerous, but on the surface, as you say, there are certain conclusions anyone would naturally go to. Thing is, it actually presupposes an understanding of what motivates a woman to want to have sex, and that’s one bit of information, no matter how many theories I hear, or might have, that I’m absolutely sure guys haven’t figured out yet. 😂 what’s critical here is that everyone show the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Are you concerned with the rate of failed marriages? What do you think could help decrease divorce rates?I’m gen x. First generation to see their parents get divorced in any great numbers. What I think is that the last 60 years have changed the institution and the reason for failed marriages is people enter them expecting something that the events of the last several decades make pretty unlikely. In decades prior to the 60’s, people stayed in marriages out of a deep societal expectation, often tolerating incompatibilities, abuse, or other issues that made them utterly miserable. We have to redefine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 04:57 PM |
| 7 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menNo, it doesn’t, but there are some predictable assumptions anyone might make in certain circumstances. If he had been a romantic with all his past girlfriends; flower’s, candle light, vacations, gifts “just because”, and he hadn’t done any of that for her, she would naturally assume it was because he didn’t perceive her as worthy of that treatment. Even if he withheld it because he was no longer financially capable, she would still feel cheated and think it was a statement about her value as a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 04:40 PM |
| 24 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menNo, she doesn’t need to have kinky sex for the rest of her life, but if she allows her current man to casually discover that she made him jump through several hoops nobody else had to, then as part of being accountable for her choices,she gets to deal with the resulting mess. It isn’t on the guy for wondering why he’s held to a different standard than her past lovers, it’s on the girlfriend for being so sloppy as to allow him to find out. He didn’t dig for the information it was thrown in his fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Women getting upset about men asking them about their sexual history is the equivalent as employers getting upset about a job seeker asking them about the salary a position pays.At 13 her ability to pair-bond is broken? Maybe if she’s 20. That seems like a pretty unrealistic limit considering that you’d be hard pressed to find to many PEOPLE with a number that small at 25, and especially 30. At least in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 03:36 AM |
| 9 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesAnecdotal, sure….I have not dated a woman with a body count less than 25 since I was a teenager. I’m 42. I date professionals from basically the same socio-economic range as me (the ever shrinking middle class), and I live in California. Highest number was a 24 year old who stopped counting after 80. Lowest number was 27 and she was 35. Both have been in the last 6 years. I don’t ask, because pfffft, but it eventually comes up. I’ve spent periods on dating apps where I saw lots of people in a sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 03:29 AM |
| 4 | "Treat men like garbage and they will love you and respect you"Yes, and remarkably (not really), Reddit seems blind to this absolute fact. It just demonstrates the hypocritical bullshit that surround toxic behavior perpetrated by women vs men. Somebody should have torpedoed that joke of a sub a long time ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 06:28 PM |
| 4 | "Treat men like garbage and they will love you and respect you"That sub is absolute trash and so are it’s posters. We get it, RP pissed you off. Stop with your equivalent horseshit, because it just demonstrates how very low value you are. FDS rants seem to miss that they are not entitled to a relationship and their shitty attitudes more than likely mean they won’t be having one…at least not a healthy one. Fucking pathetic bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 06:25 PM |
| 16 | Is it possible to love someone and cheat on them?Yeah, but loving someone doesn’t mean you’re not a pathetic broken sociopath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 04:26 AM |
| 1 | What n count makes someone promiscuous, in your mind? Open to all genders.I agree. I dated a girl once who was 24 and eventually told me, unsolicited, that she “thinks” she has been with somewhere around 80 people, but couldn’t be sure. Ummmmmm. I don’t know how so many people in here are throwing out single digit numbers. If you’re just somewhat attractive, and have a social life, you’re going to have sex. I’d like to say that the number doesn’t matter, but at a certain point it definitely says something about someone’s perception of sex and likely does have an influ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | What n count makes someone promiscuous, in your mind? Open to all genders.“n” represents sample size in statistical equations. Somebody started using it to describe the “size of your individual sample”, meaning how many people you’ve been with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 03:04 PM |
| 1 | When a woman makes a man jump through hoops for sex, he should immediately discard her and find another womanI think their deal is that high N-Count women are fine…for sex, just not trust or relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 08:28 PM |
| 2 | A woman relaxing and gaining 50% of her BW after marriage is equivalent to a man relaxing and taking an easier job with a 50% pay cut after marriage.Every woman I have ever dated long-term gained significant weight over the period of the relationship. It’s like you want to signal acceptance, and a relationship naturally conveys comfort, but to let yourself go is disrespectful to your partner. It says, “I don’t care if you find me attractive.” This is just my experience and take on the phenomenon. I don’t think me earning less money is equivalent. I think if I put on 80 lbs over 3 years I’d get dumped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 05:59 AM |
| 1 | As a man are low body counts attractive to you?Low? Nah. But if the number exceeds your age that’s getting kinda gross. | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 03:13 PM |
| 1 | What is the largest or smallest body count you would accept in a partner?If her body count does not exceed her age, we’re good. If she is pushing triple digits, or even in the 60-70 range, it’s gross. Seriously, ew. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Are there men who actually PREFER an average woman over a stunning one?I find the women that excite me the most are not “hot girls” by society’s standards. Who she is, her personality, sense of humor, all contribute to how much she turns me on. That said, there are physical attributes that are pretty important to me. But having a big butt is not that rare, fortunately, so that’s not so much of an issue. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 03:08 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Is Online Dating a Scam?I started my last two relationships through OLD. The first lasted five years, this one a year and a half so far. There were lots of interesting dates in between that I also met through OLD. Not all the apps are created equal, for sure. A lot of people put themselves on there but never actually intend to date, it’s more about the dopamine hit you get from “shopping”, and chatting a new person up for a day or two. It’s pretty fuckin convenient, actually…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 08:07 AM |
| 2 | The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex”Except, again, while you get to decide if sex happens, he gets to decide if a relationship happens, and maybe that’s just not the type he is interested in. Maybe he wants a woman who loves him for his dick. How is that any different than you wanting a man to love you for all those “other things” you have to offer besides your body? Just playing the devil’s advocate, here…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 07:23 AM |
| 3 | The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex”This. People are way to sensitive with their micro aggressions and shit. You don’t have a right to not be offended, life is offense, but if you’re feeling offended, check yourself anyway. Get the fuck over it and go do something useful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Is there something wrong with fat girls?Obesity is a sign of poor health and possible genetic unsuitability. It also smacks of a lack of self-control, even though sometimes it’s really just a bad genetic hand dealt. It’s not that fat girls have anything wrong with them, per se. I am not turned on by skinny girls in the least, but if a woman’s weight reaches the point that curves just become one big curve, I.e. they stop looking like women, then it’s just unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Yes, yes you do. Always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 02:16 PM |
| 1 | How did your views about women with a history of casual sex change?I started life with a very open attitude about sexual history. I didn’t judge because I sure didn’t want to be judged as unqualified for a relationship due to my own history. I don;t think it occurred to me that if someone follows a particular relationship pattern for several years that it shapes their habits, desires and expectations. Then I had relationships with women that would probably be categorized as promiscuous. All of these relationships had some things in common that were not present … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is "pump and dump" and how frequent is it?There’s also; man and woman are both looking for relationship, they start seeing each other, start having sex. The sexual chemistry is good, but upon getting to know each other one comes to recognize the other, while seeming great on paper, has a lifestyle or history that makes a successful relationship unlikely, so they make up some sort of unrelated reason why they have to bounce, or just ghost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 01:47 PM |
| 0 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.You’re right, which also means women are more likely to have an STD. The response to perceived promiscuity might work both ways except we know that women perceive and respond to male promiscuity differently than men do female promiscuity. There are reasons people endorsed monogamous marriage for so long. Not patriarchal desire to keep women down, but a genuine survival instinct. Marriage enhanced survival on many levels. Restricting sex to a single partner all but ensured you wouldn’t die from a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 05:48 PM |
| 9 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.That’s fine, but men developed an aversion to sleeping with promiscuous women because a case of the clap meant a certain and horrible death. Just because penicillin exists now isn’t going to squash his deep down aversion to what could have once been a deadly encounter. But absolutely nobody is playing the apologist for men who don’t want to be with promiscuous women. His feelings of aversion or disgust, courtesy of thousands of years of human evolution, are now dismissed as insecurity, much like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 12:35 PM |
| 4 | If you’re a woman who is threatened by TRP, you’re exactly why it exists in the first place.TRP isn’t about men getting what they want from women with no commitment. The red pill is a process of deconditioning from the shit feminism has heaped on society. That same shit is the reason young boys perform poorly in school of late. Feminist society would have you believe that masculinity is inherently evil, and that men are functionally disposable. The red pill is about men saying, “fuck all that horseshit, I’m not playing along. I’ll live my life on my terms.” While part of taking the red… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/21 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Men like younger women but do many actually attract one?I’m 49. My recent ex of 5 years is 29. My current girlfriend is 34. I was married for 14 years to a woman 11 years younger than me. I do not seek out younger women. Oddly, women my age don’t seem interested. I’ve never really been able to think of myself as an adult. I have a tough time reconciling that I’m about to be 50. I don’t feel any different than I ever have. It’s always been easy to maintain my weight. When I look in the mirror I don’t see 50. Maybe I’m fooling myself, but I definitely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 06:13 AM |
| 1 | "The Truth, The Whole Truth and Nothing But The Truth" - a discussionIt’s funny...my ex lied in the beginning of our relationship. She reasoned that, if I knew about the 80+ men she had slept with before age 25, that I would devalue her. Thing is, it was the lying that ultimately made me do so, not the subject itself. So once she got done cheating on me, leaving in the middle of the night, and running across country to start a “new life”, she immediately was in another relationship. Then another, and another. She went right back to having guys not being willing t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Men on here still do bot understand women.This makes sense, but I’m not sure how it should make me feel any better. Knowing that fear is what secures a woman’s loyalty means that she is not loyal; that if she wasn’t fearful of the potential loss, she would be readily and easily disloyal. This argument doesn’t improve my perception of women, or the obvious risks involved in trusting them. I’m reasonably well off, fear very little in life, especially the prospect of being alone, and yet, in past relationships, I’ve found that, for women, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 05:52 AM |
| 2 | According to a study, women lie, when participating in lifetime partner count studies. So exactly how reliable are these numbers, when the source itself is lied to?Yes. Where do they find these women with 4 or even 7 lifetime partners. I’ve dated women as high as 80’s, and frequently women who averages 40-50. Maybe it’s best to assume women divide the real number by 10? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Is there ever a good reason to get married if you don’t want to have kids? Why or why not?For men, today, marriage is an extreme risk with no real payoff. The way the legal system treats men when a marriage is dissolved makes it foolish to consider except in the most ideal circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Modern women's demands for constant contact is a leading cause of relationships going staleConstant contact isn’t a bad thing. I’ve learned that modern women’s need for male attention (preferably from new sources) is the relationship killer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 05:32 AM |
| 1 | How would you describe your appetite for sex?Extreme. A couple decades after starting puberty and I don’t feel any different than I did at 13. I’m just better at not acting on those desires when I have to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 05:31 AM |
| 1 | "Watch what women do, don't listen to what they say" doesn't work because you're not observing women in general. You're observing the women you want and the men you envy.People will TELL you who they want to be, but they will SHOW you who they are. Just an anecdotal perspective from my relationships. Notice I said “people”. It’s not just women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 05:28 AM |
| 2 | 1 in 5 Americans has an STD13.2% of the population has HSV2 alone. I think the actual number for all STD’s probably exceeds 1 in 5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Sex dollsI don’t think sex dolls have much appeal to anyone with options. However...once they can create a sex robot that can completely fool the eye, that can converse naturally, and can engage in sex....I think relationships as we know them are mostly done. If you give a man access to sex with an attractive woman, minus all the potential for nagging, arguments, and confusion, I struggle to imagine why a good amount of us wouldn’t just spend the money for the new Chrissy Compliant bot and just get on wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 05:22 AM |
| 4 | Promiscuity is bad for men and womenYour statement that it is “not inherently harmful” is incorrect. It is POTENTIALLY harmful, due to the unknowing spread of STDs that cannot be prevented through condom use alone. There is no 100% certain way to eliminate the possibility of infection other than complete abstinence, which I don’t think anyone is signing up for. Since there are a spectrum of consequences to one’s current and future health that come with any STD, frequent sex with new partners increases your chances of being affecte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Promiscuity is bad for men and womenCondoms cannot effectively prevent the spread of the Herpes virus. We still shed virus irrespective of whether we have an “active breakout”. Sores are not isolated to the genitals but are frequently present on or near the groin. Anywhere from 1/5 to 1/3 of people infected with the virus will never have a breakout, but will still shed virus regardless, making them an unknowing vector for transmission. Herpes is NOT part of the standard STD test, as viral testing is expensive and frequently beyond… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 10:48 AM |
| 13 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREThere are just as many guys with low sex drives as there are women. Once again, stop generalizing about 50% of the human population. At that level nothing generalized will be accurate. You make assumptions about our motivation, desire and experiences that you don’t know anything about. If women stopped trying to trade sex for something else they want/need from a man, and limited their sexual contact to people they actually just wanted to have sex with, there would not be so much pain attached to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 11:59 AM |
| 0 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREYou’re not being held hostage! Take care in picking who you have relationships with. Sex is required? Maybe, part of what he, as a man, is seeking in a relationship, is a partner who has a comparable sex drive to his own and who is legitimately attracted to him so that she wants to have it often. Maybe that’s the exact impression you have him in the beginning of the relationship. Maybe it was even true for you...? If he comes to realize that he is not actually having the relationship he thought … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREIf you are having sex for any reason other than genuine desire for your partner, then you are insulting him and yourself. If you are trading the sex for something other than just your own pleasure then it is commerce. Who trades sex for some other commodity typically? Are you surprised that when a man realizes that trade was occurring he comes to perceive you differently? And acknowledging that you are trading something unrelated for sex, isn’t he right to do so? Stop thinking of it as a tool to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREAnd yet they continue to have it, with new people. But they’re not seeking validation?? (Incredulous) does someone need to tell you that having sex to make your boyfriend happy hurts both of you? You, because what, your dignity is secondary to his happiness? Why would you confirm that by participating? And him because the validation he receives in the belief that he is desirable is a lie (one that you are telling, turns out). Since you’re not actually on fire for him as a person, you are simply … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREIrrespective of privilege, if sex is such a mixed bag, why ARE women having so much more of it? If it’s so terrifying, and filled with so much risk, what’s with the partner count? Because if it was so damaging, so soul stealing, so agonizing, why would you keep doing it? And then get real sensitive about someone thinking that your tendency to do so in the past, and your seeming need to continue doing it in the present, might be indicative of how you will behave in the future? The only thing you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 09:40 AM |
| 1 | How likely is it that couples where the woman is more attractive, the man is compensating with his personalityMaybe he’s got a huge cawk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 07:03 AM |
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