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Tell her she’s pleasant.
/r/seduction31/03/19 04:17 AM
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Your first priority should be therapy.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 06:17 PM
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You’ll need a better mission than that.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 06:32 AM
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Your inner foundation hasn’t been secure. You feel like you’re being reborn because your core is growing stronger. Your point of origin is developing. I can relate to the way you are feeling. A lot of people have their identity tied to something else. But people who have had many instances of loss or have moved around a lot, or have been neglected do not form a healthy ego or sense of worth. It’s something I’ve come to terms with in myself over the years. I got kicked out of my moms house in the…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 03:59 AM
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Awesome attitude!
/r/askTRP21/02/19 05:21 AM
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I’m a little confused by your post. The woman who cheated is my sister and now she is talking self harm because her bf left her.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:33 AM
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I take it you don’t believe in unconditional love then. (Rule-based loving)
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 02:39 AM
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It’s because the homework has an end. The other stuff is part of a larger picture so you have to break it up into sections and decide both their quantity (or value) and/or time length based on when your desired deadline is for that entire goal. Then you’ll know how much per day or week you have to do. Or you can do it the opposite way too and decide how much you’re going to do each day and then let that dictate your deadline. And then there’s deadline-less long term goals. These are the tricky o…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 02:33 AM
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The Getting Things Done Methodology is great for organizing the multiplicity of shit in your life and just knocking things out. The book is awesome. I recommend the paper version.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 02:25 AM
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No they don’t. It takes less effort for attractive men once they apply that effort. They still have to try
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:11 PM
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Men will be men.
/r/MensRights15/01/19 11:23 PM
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This is all great stuff. However, there's something called "Playing down" that you must do if you are particularly attractive, take up a lot of space, or have a natural social influence. If you're naturally intimidating, it's best to play down in certain scenarios. The purpose of playing down is to make yourself look smaller as to appear more approachable. Doing this can actually make you look more relaxed. Playing up, what is described in the meme here, can sometimes make an individual with nat…
/r/seduction13/01/19 01:23 AM
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This is actually pretty sad, and makes the case that there is an malicious and covert epidemic for women in modern times. It is easier for men to unplug. They don't have as much to lose. For many women, the delusion is all the have. Sounds a bit like feminism, eh?
/r/askTRP05/01/19 04:31 PM
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That was sexist!
/r/askTRP05/01/19 04:27 PM
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This. Focus on goals, not problems.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 03:29 AM
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Lets break this down into 4 categories: Time, Financial, Physical, Mental, and Emotional u/kellybab mentioned a Maslows hierarchy of needs for men. This is my ruleset to live by: #0. TIME - This doesn't have a number because it's priceless. Make 2019 your bitch by deleting everything from your life that you waste your time on, AFTER you set your priorities. Sometime it takes some fumbling around to figure this out. But don't make that your excuse. After you have your list of priorities, break ea…
/r/askTRP05/01/19 03:23 AM
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Vulnerability without value is weakness. To be a strength, it must be combined with a provision of grace, with a purpose of providing value to those who see it. Otherwise, it is burdensome and a disgrace. Now, the mindset behind being open to being vulnerable dissolves internal barriers that prevent you from opening up to people and forming real relationships. But vulnerability in itself should be practiced with balance.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 11:03 PM
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This is a broad generalization. But the ones who do probably find their primal alpha sides to be preferable to a bitch who gives her ultimate control.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 10:10 PM
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Remember the status of this relationship. Nothing more should be expected. It’s an affair.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 11:17 AM
2

Sit. Lock eyes. Amused. “I’m gonna need you to back the fuck up first.” Both laugh. Get up, give him the space. You’re hereby equal. He tests you. You test him.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 04:54 AM
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I agree with this. “Slaying pussy” before getting your shit together is spinning your wheels. You never got yourself out of the mud. You have to do that first before hitting the field again. It’s not good for anyone, including your plates. I get the sense that the people who don’t understand this probably haven’t done enough self reflection.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 01:41 AM
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Best summary of TRP I’ve read in a while. PUA is a shortcut. TRP has no short cuts. This is what makes the Pill so bitter. It takes time and a whole lot of effort to develop. It’s really about self efficacy an self development. There’s a lot of people on here who espouse shortcut methods.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 05:07 PM
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Idk maybe you seem disposable, and an easy target to peg for “that guy who made me do it.” Or maybe your vibe is more open / abundant with single ladies and their responding to that
/r/askTRP09/12/18 09:26 PM
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If you don’t have time for the responsibility of an LTR, then don’t have one. As for phone calls or texts, just tell her not to contact you when you’re working because it breaks your concentration. Leave emotion out of it. Make time for her when you aren’t working, and do little things to let her know you value your time with her when you’re with her. If you treat her like a distraction, she will want nothing more to do with you. If she is a distraction that has a lower priority than everything …
/r/askTRP09/12/18 06:30 PM
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Same boat. You set aside time for your other priorities, right? You’ll need to do the same here. Once a week. This one is another foundational practice, just like your diet and exercise. Cleaning as you go - just do it - makes your life easier when it comes time to do the clean sweep that you’ve set time aside for each week. Doing it, the as-you-go practice, before all your other stuff, not after.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 05:49 PM
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Yes. And going off of this, the only time to actually have this attitude is when you’ve taken the time and effort it takes to build yourself to the point where opportunities actually present themselves to you. Only after you have actualized and optimized yourself. Otherwise you are deluding yourself with a false pretense, and reflecting this outward with your interactions with others - with the same delusion. And they can see right through it. Accept your place as it is now. Build yourself upwar…
/r/askTRP08/12/18 06:50 PM
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It's true though. If you don't have a little faith (in something, whether that's yourself or God or fate), you will often be limited to the circumstance you are presently in. We don't push ourselves past our preconfirmed beliefs about ourselves enough, and in turn stay in the realm of what we believe is possible based on evidence of the past.Pushing ourselves past our logical limits, and into the realm of faith is like jumping into water we can't see through, so people don't do it, and miss oppo…
/r/askTRP08/12/18 02:36 AM
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Do you have any suggestions?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:24 AM
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Here. Page 24.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 02:03 AM
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There’s actually a study with rats that confirms that testosterone receptivity drops, just not testosterone itself over consecutive periods of ejaculation. I’d throw a source in here but I’m lazy and am going from memory. Edit: For the smart ass below who talks out his ass: here’s the research. You might need a higher IQ to understand it. Androgen receptivity goes down.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:52 AM
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And this is why I say that for him to adopt a stoic approach to life, albeit formulated during these crucial years of his, is his only way out of misery. Seneca was an ugly ass motherfucker. But he had classical stoic virtue and was respected among his peers, although not by the general populous. This individual will not benefit from clinging to desires beyond his control, but may benefit by pursuing optimization in every realm he has the opportunity to. This will benefit him in ways he simply c…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 03:14 AM
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I don’t think you have to become a monk for this result. Stoic philosophy is an adequate approach that maintains a connection and an integral role to society.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 03:01 AM
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You’re here, aren’t you?
/r/askTRP04/12/18 11:53 PM
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In other words, peace is unattainable to most. Accepting the lack of it and moving forward is the other option.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 11:50 PM
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I think you just need to sit down and map things out with someone to get you on the right track so you can begin making gains. PM me if you want to brainstorm.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 11:49 PM
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Life has so much to offer that you simply can’t see right now because you are in the thick of it. There will come a time where this all will be a memory and you will be grateful for this struggle because it made you stronger, and into the person you will become. Your time is coming, but you have to work for it and be patient. PM me if you need to talk or vent. It sounds like you could use a mentor.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 11:47 PM
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Fucking troll.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 06:02 PM
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Go wallow in a corner somewhere and quit wasting everyone’s time
/r/askTRP04/12/18 06:00 PM
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Food helps you bulk. I’m giving up on swatting away your excuses.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 06:00 PM
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Eat. And you have the internet. Cheap bulking for under $50/week
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:49 PM
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And I’m losing it quickly. It’s one thing to listen, it’s another to actually be receptive to advice. You are not being receptive.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:48 PM
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Shut the fuck up dude. Quit rotting in your self pity and get to work. You can always do more. Fix your mindset. Now.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:13 PM
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Probably. No one wants to be tasked with the role of becoming your source of validation and acceptance. It’s a lot to put on someone. You need to get to the point where you don’t need anything from anyone and your body language will reflect that. Work on providing some sort of value to the people around you. Good vibes. Right now you require so much acceptance from everyone just to feel normal so you’re immediately coming from a position of neediness. And all this is interpreted by others throug…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:59 PM
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Body language my man
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:46 PM
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Make your hobbies things that will build you into your ideal self. You aren’t set in stone.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:56 AM
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Stop looking for pity. Analyze your situation and modify accordingly. This is your life, no one will fix it for you.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:54 AM
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You have a toxic mindset. That’s your number one issue.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:53 AM
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Eat 4,000 calories a day and keep lifting.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:51 AM
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You came here for help. It’s your job now to be receptive to it and implement it. Change your focal point. Get away from the incels and build yourself up, alone if need be. These people are coagulating around an open wound they all have in common, and stifling the fluidity of life. Your goal from now on is to make yourself stronger. Mentally, physically, and emotionally. Nothing external from yourself will help with this, besides giving you something to push against. Make it a practice to say NO…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:48 AM
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“Men need to step up and not let fear...” Really? This was the conclusion. It’s calculated removal of anticipated risk. It has nothing to do with emotion. Sounds like the emotional faux logic of feminism has shot itself right in the foot.
/r/MensRights04/12/18 05:33 AM
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She’s manipulative? He’s applying dread. This is manipulation. If you’re going to use the tools in your toolbox at least know what they are called, and be honest that you’re using them.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 04:18 AM
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Especially the man? As if the aren't equally responsible for their own actions.
/r/MensRights25/11/18 11:09 PM
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Find things you're interested in that involve people and girls and do that. Focus on the doing and enjoy yourself and let that bleed into your new relationships. ​
/r/seduction25/11/18 10:04 PM
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Get a tampon for that period of yours. Bro.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:31 AM
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That was the response of an entitled brat. Be a grateful and cognizant human being and maybe you’ll get the social proof you so desire. You’ll have to stop desiring it first though. Otherwise you’re just an entitled brat who needs validation from others instead of providing any value to a social circumstance.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 03:23 AM
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Was gonna say the same. I was done about 1/3 through and said fuck it
/r/askTRP13/11/18 05:26 AM
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Thank you mother. I’m not trying to be profound.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 03:56 AM
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If confounded by big words, perhaps expanding the vocabulary is in order, rather than dismissing sensible communication as pseudo-intellectualism.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 02:52 AM
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This is the calm, calculated, simple response I was hoping for in an advice forum. Thank you. In terms of being a good person to be around, how have you found your relationship to yourself affects your relationship to others?
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:28 AM
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I’m glad you know me so well from two posts. Asking for advice, not a ruthless and judgmental know-it-all. You haven’t said anything specifically that could help me one bit in regards to the topic of my post. Rather, you’ve vaguely stated I needed to do more with the ignorant self-assured knowledge of my daily actions, which only loosely pertain to mental and emotional habituation - the intended topic of this thread. Edit: just looked up what an Olympic barbell is. Guess I’ve been using one this…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:25 AM
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Good idea. It’d be nice to find something to get lost in to get me out of my head. I used to play guitar, maybe I’ll get into that again.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:16 AM
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Touché, Jim. Touché.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:13 AM
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I work out every day. HIIT sprints on off-days, usually an upper body, lower body daily split utilizing bench, deadlifts, squats, clean and jerk, and isolation exercises to bridge the gap. I could use that $500
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:06 AM
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I read this in an Australian accent.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:05 AM
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I was thinking about this earlier today. I’m relatively invisible when I’m out by myself but when I’m out with a girl, I get crazy amount of looks from other girls. It’s like either approving smiles or typical IOs Theory: Your SMV increases the moment you have a woman near you. It means you are desired, and in turn women want you more because you’ve already been preselected. You’re not a random risk. Theory: Competition anxiety, if women see you with another woman of similar SMV, they want what …
/r/askTRP10/11/18 03:13 PM
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First you’re enraged at what happened, at the world,, and everything external. Then once you calm down and reflect you illuminate your own mistakes and are enraged at yourself and the way you were. Then you accept it and begin the processes of change to get where you want. And then you fail because you were unprepared, and become enraged at the way you are, the way you currently prevent yourself from positive change because of the years of negative conditioning. Then comes acceptance and then th…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 05:03 AM
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Being in state is when your ego isn’t there. Being in state is your natural state. Children are in state before the world turns them sour.
/r/seduction30/10/18 01:52 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/seduction28/10/18 08:25 PM
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Good on you for deleting social media. If you think it’s affecting you negatively, it’s a positive step forward. It’s still gonna be there when you are in a condition to use it as a tool and not as a reliance for validation or procrastination. But even then the negative side effects will still remain from usage. Motivation comes after action, it’s a byproduct. You have to separate any negative or positive emotions from your decisions to get out of nihilism. Which basically means the mopey nihili…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 08:20 AM
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Get a sales job. Works for consistently getting yourself out of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction28/10/18 05:31 AM
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Thanks for this. We all need reminders sometimes.
/r/seduction28/10/18 05:22 AM
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You are searching externally for answers, seeking understanding and enlightenment on a cognitive level. You’ve read and watched videos. But what you haven’t decided to do yet is apply what you’ve learned. Time to eliminate your data absorption and work on your internal foundation. It’s time to put what you know into practice, to use what is already in your brain and form a plan of action and do it, modifying as you go. You will fail, but you will learn and become more efficient with every failur…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 03:45 AM
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I agree with everything you said. It’s the most basic path, and the cheapest. If you have the resources, ju jitzu, dancing, rock climbing, etc are other options. Anything that can get you in a “flow” state that also has a high return on investment. Men are made for physical exertion. Exercising in any of these ways balances out our hormones and often aids with symptoms of depression. It’s all pretty obvious stuff. Taking the first step in a single action towards self improvement in a very person…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 03:33 AM
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You’re right, I was a little quick to the gun. Looks RP to me, and a natural alpha but who knows. A red pill man can take many forms, and don’t necessarily have to “look” like this. A focus on what he does and who he’s built himself to be and how is the important thing if you’re wanting to learn from someone like him. If one stresses the outside image of others too much though, they’ll focus on exterior imitation rather than building internal foundations for themselves that will get them the end…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 01:46 AM
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The fuck you focused on this guy for? Do you, not him. You don’t know his story. Build your own.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 05:29 AM
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Nah you can still fuck sorority girls. 26 and regularly fucking 20 and 21 yos. They pass pussy out like candy in college towns.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/18 05:11 AM
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Womanplain- the app to track how often women complain.
/r/MensRights19/09/18 02:49 AM
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Fuck in your car. Don’t be dumb about location though.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:12 AM
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The clit actually has like twice as many nerve endings as the tip of the penis, if not more.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 01:52 AM
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No, I’ve just had to learn to do it and this is what helps me. After each goal, ask yourself, “What do I need to do to get there?” And write down or type these things in an outline format. It’s basically like an advanced to-do list. Below is an example, that is relatively specific to my own life. 1.\ Goal: Get higher paying job in my field. A. Get Professional certification in the software at my current job. * take the four prerequisite exams * study each one for one week * you should be ready i…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:09 AM
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Yes!
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:40 AM
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You’re paranoid. People can’t tell what you’re thinking but they can gather general premise from your body language, which may be where you are getting the presumption that they can tell what you are thinking. If you are anxious, people can tell, even if you try to hide it. Sounds like you are afraid of people finding out what you are thinking. In this case, modify your thoughts to eliminate the stress. No one can tell what you are thinking regardless though. Just have genuine good will toward y…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 06:05 AM
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Use your imagination instead. You’ve got a brain full of pornographic memory now, use it. Once you do that for a while, easing up on the masterbation will get easier. Day 7 if celibacy is when testosterone spikes up. Use that as a checkpoint.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:50 AM
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Prioritization, and tackle them one by one in order of importance. Make a list. Determine which ones are dependent on another with a mind map. Set practical timescale for each. Track progress if possible. Cull unimportant goals. Focus only on three, and break down into chronological sub-goals. Try hard. Try again when you fail. Keep trying. Build leisure into your system. You don’t want your system to collapse just because you want to have a good time but didn’t build it into your routine. Your …
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:41 AM
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I did something similar with my x wife. Kind of let her stray because I suspected she would cheat if the opportunity arose, and I wanted to see what she would do when I was too busy to attend to her emotional neediness. I thought, if she is to be unloyal, then she isn’t worth it to me. Turns out I was right because she did start cheating. So I left. But it still took me by surprise and hurt way more than I thought it would. But now I’ve learned that this is simply the hypergamous nature of women…
/r/askTRP03/09/18 08:00 PM
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This is it.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 01:37 PM
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Be careful with monk mode. Stay socialized during this time, only with moderation, as it can be difficult to transition back after a year of isolation.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 05:45 PM
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Plus, not a whole lot of other options. It’s like looking for a needle in a haystack. Not really practical.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 05:27 PM
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Yeah, you can figure it out from context. Essentially, he put his foot down and told her he’s been transparent about what he wants and her emotional roller coaster isn’t going to change that. He maintained his current status, where he wears the pants.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 12:27 AM
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Yep. Pretty much thought so.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 01:26 AM
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I second this. Disappear and only reply to her reaching out to you, never reaching out to her. Put her on the chase. Then in the last week ramp up excitement. Your time is more valuable than keeping her interested. She will recognize if it isn’t by your attempts at gaining her favor.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 01:25 AM
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I got married at 19 and got divorced at 24. Same situation. Avoided women I was attracted to because of moral standards. I’m 26 now. Put yourself in positions where you’re surrounded by the things that make yourself uncomfortable, where you can test the waters occasionally to practice. Bartending is great example of this. Increases sociability tenfold and conditions you against stress. And can be good money, at least for your age. Apply RP self improvement principles and befriend people of highe…
/r/seduction29/07/18 05:53 PM
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Puerto Rico
/r/seduction21/07/18 04:59 PM
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*hugs for you. (I love you) :)
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:23 AM
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Eat more.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:20 AM
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I was surprised how sore my arms were after a few deadlift sets the next day. It really is a great compound excercose.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:14 AM
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Because it doesn’t mean much to you. Because it doesn’t mean much. Find meaning through purpose. Read up on Epictetus. Do something different. Break the mold. Go on a journey, Even if it’s traveling to a different town during the weekend and just talking to random people you’ll never see again. Add some controlled chaos to your methodical routine.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 03:39 AM
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I second this
/r/askTRP10/06/18 04:47 AM
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The anger will be there for a time. It’s necessary right now to fuel you further where nothing else will. It can be exhausting, yes. But anger is a higher energy than sadness or despair : the emotions of weakened men chained to a powerlessness that stems from a paradigm they don’t consciously see. Your anger will fade, once your values, your true values, begin to emit results. And I’m not talking about the lifting and health strategies, those are simply techniques to make you a more efficient, m…
/r/askTRP10/06/18 04:40 AM
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Damn.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 04:21 PM
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Tell her exactly what you told us. If she can’t handle that, then too bad so sad.
/r/seduction13/05/18 08:35 PM
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I already did that, he’s still going strong.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 09:22 PM
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Don’t let this get in the way of doing what you have to to ensure you’re on top. Good luck.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 07:38 PM
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Good point. Especially the last part.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 07:36 PM
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Damn dude. Thanks for your reply. How old are you, and when did you get married and divorced? Also, could you perhaps expound upon your concept of social equilibrium?
/r/askTRP06/05/18 05:38 PM
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Work on yourself first. Then women. Women aren’t the goal, but a supplement. Get out of where you don’t want to be, and where you want to be. Then women.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 01:02 AM
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Got me there.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 03:00 PM
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Got it. Thanks. The “good girls” are the ones to watch out for I suppose.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 01:47 PM
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Yeah, then there’s that. Miscarriages are pretty common though (10-20% of first pregnancies) It’s likely it was a ploy, but there’s the chance it wasn’t too.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 01:31 PM
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Learn to feel your body and what is the weakest and start with that. Look at what other people are doing at the gym and emulate. Your workout will be unique to you. Just go in there and start lifting. Slowly. Start with high reps low weight to get your body used to working out and as your body adapts, increase weight and decrease reps. 10-12 reps is a good start, and it takes trial and error to figure out what weight is appropriate. Eventually, you’ll catch your stride. This is if you don’t have…
/r/askTRP28/04/18 06:51 PM
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Create a structured foundation based on routine and make them habits so they become engrained and less conscious. THEN once the foundation is in place focus on your bigger goals. First the foundation, base things. Finances. Fitness. Diet. Schedule out your “break time” so it is part of your structure. Burning out is not conducive.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 06:47 PM
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Because it puts you on the level as their drama. Your boss didn’t get where e was by indulging in petty BS, in fact he probably got there by avoiding it and outmaneuvering it. You bring that to him, and you’re a source of it. Ignore it. *her
/r/askTRP28/04/18 06:31 PM
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She’s giving you gifts so you will feel inclined and indebted to return the favor with what she wants. Get. Out. Now. Keep doin. What you’re doing. Eliminate her access to any part of your life. She should not have access to your bank account. You have likely been gaslighted. I had an x wife like this. Find out how to respect yourself. You shouldn’t be in a relationship if you can’t.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 02:10 PM
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Do not tell your boss.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 02:06 PM
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Because you have other options. They want to feel wanted, until they are needed. There is nothing more boring to a woman than fulfilled expectations.
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:40 AM
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PM me if you’re interested in a mentor or at least someone to keep you accountable. I’ve been mentoring people in other areas for a while so you asked the right person.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 02:22 PM
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It's not as crazy as it seems. And yes i still interact with people. Maybe it's a "light" version of monk-mode but its practical. It's really just stopping giving your energy to people and things that don't serve you. Simple as that. No it's not easy. I have fucked up many times and become far too invested in experimental one-at-a-time plates. Which at that point I was just deluding myself into thinking I was spinning plates properly. You live and learn. I come back and figure out what went wron…
/r/askTRP27/02/18 05:18 AM
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It's worth it. But it's a sacrifice. You're trading short term enjoyments for long term implementable wisdom you've gained from self-reflection. In the initial phases, no, you don't go out with friends much in monk mode. No, you don't date. And if you do, it's to find out how much you suck and why, and reflect some more. If you're going out all the time you haven't changed a damn thing. Okay so you're in college. Pussy all around. Easy access. Why the fuck you on here then? You can either play o…
/r/askTRP27/02/18 04:34 AM
5

I’m still in Monk mode. Been in it for two years. Here’s the problem: isolation sucks. But it’s necessary. But it’s not an all or nothing thing, it still requires action, otherwise you become a recluse that’s afraid of exposure. So it needs to be phased out. It starts out heavy isolation and self-focus, research, reflection, meditation, and slowly transitions into implementation of active theory and more reflection on that, and then transitions into full action most of the time. It’s a reset, he…
/r/askTRP26/02/18 07:31 AM
2

No contact. None. Delete social media of her. Eliminate her.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 06:27 AM
1

This is a stupid and thoughtless solution on so many levels.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:35 PM
1

No. See, the better option would be to learn how not to give a fuck, politely tell him to fuck off, and teach a lesson via a more logical tactic instead of risking your own hide by losing frame and getting caught up in drama by beating someone’s ass. That serves no one, least of all you in the long term. Lifting and martial arts is for physical health and well-being, intimidation, energy, and defense.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:41 AM
1

Good.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:30 AM
5

No problem. Question is if you’re actually going to do anything about it, or if you just needed the quick fix of some surface advice. I can point you in the direction you need to go, but you need to walk there. You’ll know when you’ve begun to improve when people’s reactions to you begin changing. That will be your proof.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:28 AM
8

Why do you give a fuck? I’ll tell you how. By not giving a shit. Develop yourself fully internally and the rest will come. There’s no act to this. You have to put in the work. Lift. Meditate. Study. Read. Approach. Rinse and repeat. Find ways to be the best version of yourself you can be and other males will respect you, because most people do not have a good relationship to themselves and will want what you have. This will take time.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:20 AM
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You ask more questions without thanking someone for their long response. Learn some tact. You’re going to get nowhere with your current attitude. You don’t see what is beyond your own nose and that’s why you’re having issues. Stop and think. You’re reactive. Chasing the reward with no modicum of an idea of what what you’re doing and why, or what it takes to get the reward, or what it is that women actually desire. Observe people with success. What are they doing? How are they acting? How are you…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:15 AM
2

What happened with the girl anyway? What was her reaction? Do you have assigned seats? What is your social standing compared to others?
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:50 AM
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It could have been your body language. People are really good and completely natural at reading whatever thoughts are being expressed by your body. Master body language to exude an air of confidence and situational apathy before doing something like this, otherwise it will look like a boy is trying to conquer his fear of interacting with a girl by sitting by a girl. One, that makes you look aww“cute” to her which is like a little brother instead of a potential mate. The biggest problem with this…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:41 AM
3

The problem with BPD girls: They fuck so good that it’s extremely tempting to become biased towards plating at the expense of your own best interests. Or even worse, becoming tempted with an LTR to maintain the incredible sex. You’re frame has to be incredibly solid. Their mood swings and drama and general craziness is entertaining, fun, and full of adventure, even when it pisses you off. You’ll be sucked into their BS and you won’t even realize it. If you don’t have incredibly solid frame, you’…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 08:18 PM
1

The devil’s in the details.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 07:04 AM
1

Thumb in the mouth is important. I use that almost every time.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 05:20 AM
1

Nothing is more attractive to a woman than an independent man who doesn’t let the emotional whims of women and other people to get in the way of his goals, but can stand as a solid foundation for himself and subsequently others. If you can’t rely on yourself, how can she? It will take time to clean your slate. Your goal should be to find acceptance in your solitude and then you will exude confidence in your independence. True confidence, not replicated faux confidence learned through false RP te…
/r/askTRP17/10/17 06:36 PM
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It’s about realizing that she is a part of your current paradigm of being acceptable to yourself. “If you have her, then that’s proof that you’re where you need to be.” To stop giving a damn takes time. You can’t just do it. You have to begin to throw away all the things that disempower you as an independent man because you’re holding on to them so you can validate yourself and not have to look any deeper and actually change. Go on a fucking journey man. A journey to find yourself. You don’t kno…
/r/askTRP17/10/17 04:02 AM
2

They aren’t your friends.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 04:29 PM
2

Yeah it's simple white knight mass societal conditioning and local reaffirmation.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 02:17 AM
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Humans are emotional creatures and they respond primally to situations. It's not until reflection and subsequent understanding happens that we begin to respond logically to situations such as this. In other words, they didn't know any better, and neither did you before you found RP. They weren't thinking about gender equality, they weren't thinking about how the bitch manipulated the situation in her favor. They responded without thinking and with a false ego of righteousness to confirm their ac…
/r/askTRP30/09/17 02:26 PM
2

Then move somewhere with more opportunity for improvement and maybe you'll find it there.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 09:47 AM
2

I'm gonna make an account just so I can copy and past this on anyone new to this sub and RP this is good
/r/askTRP10/09/17 09:02 AM
4

It's lost, do not try to recover. Be as stoic as you can and agree with her decision without a thought. Be as removed as you can, almost to the point of ghosting. The lack of attention and care towards her reaction to you cheating could drive her nuts and make her want you. Who knows. Test some shit out.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 08:59 AM
1

Nuff said.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 08:41 AM
1

It comes with time. Keep giving energy toward your distant goal, consistently over time. Just keep trucking. Eventually you'll be in a better spot. If you do nothing you will sink.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 08:40 AM
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I want to punch every second of this person.
/r/seduction10/09/17 08:26 AM
7

Stop masterbating.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 08:18 AM
1

Best advice on here in my opinion. Don't get married whatever you do.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 08:15 AM
3

Just here and there. Two months after I found out about the affair, I was arrested and charged with a Class X felony because my best man who was working with me, collaborated with the DEA for three months to set me up. My professor collaborated with them and helped to eliminate me. Everyone at work knew for months. People at school and in my class knew. No one told me. No one warned me. And I was betrayed by everyone. They didn't expect me to be out of jail 3 days later and back in school and in…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 08:48 PM
13

The recognition of a need for change came when I realized my paradigm up until that point was flawed. A man as a servant, chained at marriage to forever treat his "wife" with higher esteem than he treats himself. Forever sacrificing himself, his obligations, and his needs for the sake of his one infinite love who will forever hold a status of superiority due to his incapacity to provide for her based on the equal measure of her elevated worth. The impossibility to amount to any of my distant amb…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 09:22 AM
11

We are subconsciously telepathic and females are more tuned into it than males. Men are more aligned to physical reality and our core senses. Females are more sensitive to the subtleties of subconscious and covert reality. Thoughts and emotions emit frequencies which can be picked up by beings of a similar vibration. This all sounds weird as fuck, I know, but I've tested it out and people seem to respond accordingly. It's fuckin weird. But if you want to get less woowoo then I would simply say o…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 04:19 AM
1

You're passive aggressive attitude could use an adjustment. You make suppositions and jump to conclusions in your logic while elevating yourself through he demeaning pf others. Get off your high horse dude. Variations of life philosophy that differ from your own should be reflected upon, not immediately dismissed. With that said, your content holds some truth, but scratches the surface of the predicament that the post discusses, which is risk vs reward in terms of long term self-reliance and pro…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 03:54 AM
1

I agree, both sexes do it. The story in your post is a perfect example of what I discuss in mine. Sure, TRP teaches us about the behavior and habits of women, but far too often we focus on this at the expense of analyzing and censoring our own equally duplicitous behavior. For instance, you fucked her without a condom. If anyone is to blame for you getting her pregnant, it's you just as much as her. It's your lack of control over your own thought processes to assess risk vs reward that govern yo…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 06:12 PM
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Read the Six Pillars of Self Esteem. It will help. The Art of Charm podcast is also good. If you're sitting here thinking, "well I don't have the time," or "but I don't listen to podcasts" or any variation of "but..." then you have no one to blame but yourself for not being the man you want to. All the content you need to improve is out there. YOU HAVE TO ACT. That's why they call it "ACTualizing your potential." And you're fucking young dude. You have years to spend on yourself and become 10x t…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 03:17 AM
1

And by this, I'm taking that you mean that a good number of us are taking a shortcut?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 02:56 AM
2

No, the majority of cucked men realize they have absolutely zero power to do anything. Infidelity is against the law, but they will not touch prosecution. And do you want to live the rest of your life in jail with no options left to your name? Some would say that the actions of this man was the weaker choice because he just threw away any future he could have had. Not everything is so black and white, alpha / beta.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 08:41 PM
11

3. Do this, and you'll find people that you actually give a fuck about.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 08:31 PM
11

No idea. But here's what I do, and it seems to work: I take a shower. Put on cologne on the front of the neck and chest. Do push-ups and sit-ups until you are working up just a little sweat. Put your clothes on. One spritz of cologne on the shirt. This is assuming you are already working out regularly and eating well and aren't laden with toxins that your body wants to sweat out. No one wants to smell an unhealthy person. However, if you're healthy and you do this right, it is effective in emitt…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 07:48 PM
1

What was the transition process from BPD relationship to your sociopathic dating like? What were the most important things you learned?
/r/askTRP04/08/17 04:46 PM
1

It's true
/r/askTRP04/08/17 04:44 PM
1

That's exactly what I'm doing
/r/askTRP04/08/17 04:44 PM
5

I did a research paper on wolf hierarchies. Alphas exist. Are they familial? Yes. The alpha wolf has exclusive rights to breeding with the alpha female, and the pack will work together to help with raising the pups. There's exceptions to every rule though and the males and females will sometime breed with others. And there's a plethora of wild behaviorisms and body language to go along with it, with beta behavior (tail between legs, ears down, belly up, etc) indicating submissiveness. It's prett…
/r/askTRP03/08/17 08:24 AM
1

This makes good points, but it's trash because it assumes a flowery, golden, elevated status for the assessment of women. This post is imbalanced. Tread lightly in acceptance of its tenets. This user is not RP yet, he wants to be and wants to gain the satisfaction of an advisory position in a realm he hasn't embraced fully.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 08:41 PM
1

You don't have to have quick wits, you have to have wits. Silence can be your biggest asset if you play it right. Something a lot of people mistake for effective social skills is that you have to be enthusiastically and extrovertedly charismatic. There is more than one type of charisma. The reason why you're having trouble is because you're trying to be something you're not. Are you the silent, deliberating, introverted type? Okay, play this to your advantage and what you DO say will have far mo…
/r/askTRP30/07/17 07:48 PM
25

Lmfao This is why dogs are man's best friend.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 07:34 PM
2

This.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 02:14 AM
2

While you may have overreacted, the end result is the same. You did what you needed to without the studied and conditioned foresight to know HOW to do it. So you freaked out. A good example of how to handle these types of situations while remaining stoic, calm, and collected while retaining the power you have over yourself and others is to study stoicism. You have the "Nice Guy" condition where your relationships with others is based on your need for validation from them. You ended up being "in …
/r/askTRP29/07/17 08:40 PM
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Forget about what used to be. Focus on the now. You are alone. There's nothing wrong with that. It's actually an asset. You owe no one anything. Look at this as an opportunity to reinvent yourself while enacting the lessons you've learned from your isolation. Rebuilding a social circle can be easier than expected, but also much different than expected. It can be different because you have way less control over it than you realize. People are people. You can't force a social circle. Relationships…
/r/askTRP29/07/17 06:41 PM
1

It's totally not. I just graduated and I'm having more fun than I've had in years
/r/askTRP16/07/17 02:35 AM
4

Come on, you're ruining my game, bro
/r/seduction28/06/17 12:56 PM
1

This is great advice. I think it's a mistake, at least for me, to focus 100% on my career or education without investing in any other aspect of life. Did that during school and it burnt me out and made me a shell of who I was. I think the key here is that the sexual marketplace and social aspect is secondary, so I can fulfill self-improvement, social dynamics, and practicing game all simultaneously.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 04:03 PM
2

You make a good point. Thanks for the input.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 05:19 AM
6

I drive a forklift and bring freight in from a trailer to trailer and make sure things are placarded correctly. Fed Ex pays well
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 05:16 AM
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How I've Improved: Got a part-time job making $15.50 / hr Have been to the gym every day of the last week Have two separate dates lined up, although it was through tinder (just to keep my skills sharp, no attachment to outcome). How I need to Improve I've been procrastinating on organizing my laptop and updating my portfolio so I can job search for my desired career positions in Industrial Design. I need to work on getting up and going to bed at a consistent time, and getting a routine establish…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 05:50 PM
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Right now you are approaching the situation from a standpoint that shows that you want her to change TO PLEASE YOU. Judgement and negativity are the least effective ways to get someone to do something. You have to make her want to do it, as if it was her idea. Right now, the way she probably sees it is that you aren't accepting her and her preferences. Let's face it, it's your problem, not hers, and you are making it an issue. My advice (hopefully someone agrees with me) is to present covert evi…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 11:24 PM
1

100%. I have off days where I feel weak or incapable, so any game I play on those days feels disingenuous. When I'm on top physically and mentally, my confidence rises with it and my capacity to game is subsequently increased.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 05:08 AM
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Oh, and when I said, "she will think about it, but not know for sure if it's a hint or not." I meant that she would think about sex. You want her to think about sex without overtly hunting or suggesting it, so that she thinks it's her idea. You're planting seeds.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 05:06 AM
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You basically want to knock the footing off any "game" or motives that she might have to put you in control. You're increasing sexual tension. Hinting about sex is too direct for for what I'm talking about. That might come later when certainty on both sides has been established. You want to drop an indirect sexual hint, something that doesn't include either of you in a sexual scenario but that makes her THINK of sex without saying it. I can't really give you an example because each situation cal…
/r/askTRP27/04/17 03:02 AM
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Here's my perspective from being married for 5 years, divorced, and messing around with some more women. I've got deep experience with one woman and baseline experiences with a few others. The key to good sex on both fronts will ALWAYS be psychological, and the way to achieve this is by "warming the oven" or "priming". Everything you do OUTSIDE of sex (game) should be to psychologically and emotionally stimulate the woman to prime her for obedience during sex. Because let's face it: you want to …
/r/askTRP26/04/17 10:38 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 11:28 PM
1

No.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 04:10 AM
4

If you fuck someones wife and he finds out, you better be far away because for a couple of months he will be hunting you down. That shit gives some men PTSD and they will literally kill you and think its worth it to go to jail. Make sure you're anonymous.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 03:49 PM
2

God help us. These fucking idiots.
/r/MensRights22/01/17 08:05 PM
20

I worked twice as hard and got an inguinal hernia...
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 03:18 AM
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